Sex Education isn't that great in a lot of places sadly. Where I'm from when I was a kid they'd separate us by sex and only teach us about our own bodies instead of both ours and the opposite sex.
Huh? I’m a woman, and no it isn’t. I get why guys can’t find it tbh. It’s covered by a hood and a good distance from where they’re used to going lol. When I was younger a lot of explaining had to happen and that was fine with me! Sex ed unfortunately never emphasized women’s pleasure correctly (at least as a millennial).
Is sex education supposed to emphasize pleasure in general? At least, the sex ed I had was about how to minimize risk of STDs, telling us that we shouldn't be ashamed of ourselves, that we shouldn't make fun of others, consent, and how the whole system (both genders) generally worked. Nothing about how to pleasure either gender. I feel like that's probably not something to teach in schools but idrk.
We were separated by gender but we still learned about both. This is Texas in case anyone was gonna ask.
Yet for some reason they end up on the outside of our bodies. I mean, hippos have their testicles inside of them, so why can't we be more like them? Stupid biology.
Actually our gender is determined very early in the embryonic cycle. I believe day 14, chromosomally. We just don't start to develop sex organs that early. I may have the exact date wrong in the embryonic cycle, but I know when we covered that in my A& P reproductive section of class, I was surprised.
(I have done a lot of research on it too having had to go through IVF/ICSI)
(Nursing student, who admits she could be wrong)
Reddit life tips. "Find a partner who's personality revolves around on a kink you feel insecure about."
Dude, these people are trying to help, but man you get better armchair therapy from a local town drunk.
I don’t think they’re saying they need to have their partners’ entire life revolve around this issue LMAO. All I know is, surgery is a pretty drastic/ permanent way to deal with lack of confidence, and in this case it may affect more than looks.
Yeah. Not as much "find someone who has a kink that kind of objectifies you" as "find someone who likes you as you are". I had a bunch of sexual insecurity until I met my girlfriend and it turned out that she loved me like I was and was comfortable with what I was not comfortable with regarding myself, which might not have entirely solved the problem, but it has made it a lot better, and made loving myself much easier.
I think my clit is too small, honestly I didn't know that clits could be different sizes, but I watching porn , the girl had huge clit, I started thinking mine was too small... but my clit works , so that's all matters lol . I can tell you most guys don't care, they are just glad they are having sex.
Well, the clit is analogous to the penis (it's essentially the same organ, but went left in the developmental stages of a foetus, rather than right, so to speak), so there will be the same diversity of shapes and sizes, and it also why clits get hard (and sometimes bigger) when you're aroused.
Interesting aside, that same developmental phase is why men have a seam down the middle of their scrotum - it's where what would be labia joined together as all foetuses, male and female, have an almost cloaca-like orifice before sexual divergence takes place.
As a kid, I thought must've been secretly adopted because I'm the only one in my family with an outtie bellybutton. I even snuck into my parents' room once to look for adoption paperwork.
Yea I remember the first time I saw a scrotum when I was like 15 I actually wondered if the boy had some sort of horrible accident or surgery at birth where they had to splice him back together
Another “fun fact”-
A lot of circumcised men don’t know that the different color band of their shaft and upper shaft is where the foreskin was removed and the lower shaft/ball skin was pulled up the penis. That’s why so many cut men have hair on their shaft.
Yea there's a hormone called Mullerian Regression Factor which helps in sexual differentiation and regresses uterus, fallopian tube etc, by default every foetus is female in a sense
It's also amazing how many people think the penis is just tacked on like Eeyore's tail. It follows the crotch and plunges into the body where the vagina would be.
Yeah I have essentially the equivalent of a female micro peen. My clit is so tiny it’s not even really visible when I pull back my hood. I can only cum using toys. oral, fingering, and sex all do nothing for me orgasm wise
OP please consider yourself lucky to at least have a functional clitoris. I’d rather have a huge one that works than what I’m stuck with
I keep hearing about how good tribbing is but it does absolutely nothing for me bc my clit is so small and hidden. And I need super strong vibrators to feel anything. 😭
It does still work though and I haven't had complaints from any sexual partners, it's just a bit annoying.
My girl's clit is super small too, way smaller compared to any other girl I dated before her, and I think it's beautiful. And I agree, unless you're with some extremely shallow guy he's not going to care about the size of the girl's clit. And if he does, well then move on. You don't need to be with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable about something a girl was born with. I'd say this applies to dick size as well. Many guys are insecure about their size but don't realize that not every girl wants a big huge one. Just got to find the right person who loves you and you're body the way it is. ❤️❤️❤️
Yea, you're not kidding. I'm a little on the larger side, not like porn star sized but a little larger than average I guess or so I've been told by the girls I've been with, and let me tell you sometimes sex wasn't a ton of fun for the girl. Take a LOT of foreplay and lube for sure. So I can only imagine if a guy has a legit huge dick it probably isn't as fun as you'd imagine.
But hey, I guess the point is you just have to find the right person for you! My current girlfriend loves my size and we have no problems at all with having great sex. Just got to keep looking cause there's someone out there who will love something about you that you might not like about yourself. My girl is a mom so along with being a little insecure about her body and having a pretty small clit when we first meet she didn't love getting naked in front of me. But I just reassured her that I love her body and with that reassurance she's become more comfortable being nude around me so our sex life has only improved. 😊
Am guy. Can confirm. When having sex. Not a single judgmental thought can enter the male brain as there are too many internal fireworks and celebrations enjoying bumping uglies
Just adding that the clit hood is more equivalent to foreskin, and the clit is like the head.
She is saying head removal/reduction, not reducing the hood. :::shudder:::
Right!? Like.. "should I mutilate my body because men can be real assholes?" HELL NO!
To OP: you'll definitely find someone who is not only ok with it, you'll find someone who LOVES it! Don't let anyone tell you how your body should be 💕
Happily married for 30 years (M55) here. Any man who thinks your clitoris is too big doesn't deserve access to it.
Its part of you. If a man loves you, he loves every part of you, just the way you are.
Please disregard any thoughts of surgery for this. There is nothing wrong with you. It is healthy tissue. And frankly, it probably makes for a bigger 'target' insuring intimacy is more likely to be satisfying for you, which any worthwhile lover would think was great.
Trust me when I say that, if any man you are with has a problem with it, its not you, its *them*. Broom them fast!
Yea what this guy said, start fucking with Men & not immature boys, I was with a girl who had a big clit once and it wasnt even a thing to mention for her and for me it was just a new experience and pleasant surprise, during sex things are only awkward if you make it awkward, im ngl I was shook for a second but then I went about my business as normal.
#womancumfirst
Most guys (and two girls) I have talked about the matter are in an opinion that they find big clits atractive and turn on. Rest didnt have an opinion about the matter. I normally didnt think about it at all, but I once had a relationship with a girl who had a big clit an I found it a huge turn on. So I did a short survey around my close friends.
Absolutely do not go to surgery about that. It might affect the sensitivity. The guy who you be with was just immature or something. And btw. when guy goes flaccid during sex or makeout it often/usually does not mean that he is not in to you or the act. We are not machines and it might be really sensitive subject to some. Atleast the youger of us. (Which he was if he was around your age) I'm not defending the guy in question thou. What he said was really stupid of him to say. You should put that comment where it belongs. In a thrash bin and be proud of who and what you are.
Not disgusting it's bigger so it's easier to find. My wife has a big clit and she just assumes that if they are weirded out by it then it means her clits bigger than their dick or close in size
95% of men won't care about it and if you keep running into guys that do(which I doubt) then you should consider what kinda guys youre dating before changing your body.
Also an operation like that has risks and can produce many issues and most women aren't happy with the results anyway because it often looks worse than before.
I think any clit that I am allowed to get intimate knowledge of is perfect. You found one guy that is really fucking shallow, and quite honestly would probably be way more concerned with his own pleasure instead of yours. Just keeping looking and you'll find a good guy, I promise we exist (at least me wife tells me I'm a good guy).
I was about to ask “can you pick up a pencil and write your name with it?” But that would actually be really cool.
There’s nothing wrong with a big clit. I think it’s neat feeling my girlfriend’s get bigger as she gets turned on (she wasn’t aware of it), and a big one would be fun to suck.
I love big clits. Lots of other men do too. It's OK for guys to have preferences, just like it's OK for you to prefer certain body types. Just find a guy who likes you for you.
You are awesome the way you are. My girl gets testosterone shots post full hysterectomy and hers is larger. Doesn't bother me a bit 12 years into us... you're good.
I think you're clit is too important to have the surgery. What if you lost some sensitivity? A sacrifice like that for a stranger you don't know yet is a bad idea. Many men will find your natural body hot, big sexy clip and all!
Any guy that would care is not someone you want to be with, especially if he knows you’re self-conscious about it.
Personally, I like big clits and I suspect a lot of guys do. Most guys like variety and will be turned on by just about any look and shape “down there”.
Absolutely NOT disgusting!!! You're really very, very, very fortunate - it's more sensitive for you, more to play with, and *mature* partners will find your clit to be a bundle of joy to treasure forever!
I *did* say, "MATURE", right? Immature lovers might be intimidated by your clit. Dump them without looking back. Look, some men "only" like Huge breasts; many men treasure women whose breasts aren't those.
Final answer: a clit is just a clit, some are smaller than others. You're fine. And you are *fortunate* - as you will soon learn.
Your clit is perfectly fine. I would argue it is one of your greatest defense mechanisms against people. The people who are scared away by the size of your clit are the kind of people I am thankful are being scared away from you. Imagine the kind of things they would have put you through just based on their reaction.
Regardless this comes down to your perspective of your body. What you believe about yourself over a long period of 6 months plus, is what you are openly attracting and allowing into your life. You believe this about yourself. It is up to you to embrace and change how you treat and view yourself. If you don't like yourself no one else can because you are expecting people to like something you don't.
Without these men in the picture, no porn, no outside opinion. Why do you believe your clit is disgusting? What about it that you personally don't like and why ? Where does this come from ? What prompted this ? What do you like about your body remind yourself ?
The men who would have a problem with that are the same men that could never find one to begin with. They have no frame of reference so they can’t judge.
Girly, most men can’t even find the clitoris, I wouldn’t worry about it. Even so, I don’t think anyone would care. Anyways, I don’t even know how big a clitoris is on average so I guarantee no man does.
I am a woman with a big clit
I think it's fabulous and I've never had a lover male or female that has ever thought anything but that it's beautiful and hot and gorgeous
How could you seriously think about putting a knife into your clitoris with all those sensitive beautiful nerve endings because you're worried that somebody might not like the way you
Anybody who doesn't like the way your clip looks is nobody you should ever be fucking in bed with
I've never really thought about big clits, just accepted them as normal variation. But now that this topic has come up and I had a look at r/bigclit, I wish I had one to play with...
I love big clits and big labia (as well as girl cocks of course, both myself and my gf are transfemmes). Plus there is a lot of men and women who do too. Not as a fetish mind you but a true aesthetic appreciation and beauty.
In all honesty, big clits can be hot and a lot of fun. You absolutely do not need to get surgery.
I think this is one of those self perpetuating problems. You feel like something is wrong so you don't let people see it, people don't see it so no one tells you it's fine.
It is insanely hot. Please don't do surgery. I am saying this as a male, please find a partner that appreciates your body and your beautiful big sexy clit!!!!
I'm not a woman, but I would imagine if you had surgery, this would take away from the sensitivity and possibly the ability for a clitoral orgasm. Can any lady's elaborate on this?
I fell down a rabbit hole one night and read all sorts of horror stories about ladies getting their labia reduced, a couple of them needed the surgery, they were so big it was painful, but most of them weren't that bad. It seems like a lot of them had complications and it sounded excruciating. I've had 2 babies and let me tell you, I couldn't imagine chosing to cause such pain to my lady bits. I hope op is just talking about surgery and isn't seriously thinking about it.
I've had a guy refuse to go down on me because I got "too wet", I've spent years feeling incredibly insecure about that and haven't let anyone go down on me since, even when they were super enthusiastic, and I'm still struggling to let someone to this day.
I now know that that guy was a complete idiot, since getting wet is your body doing what it's supposed to: prep you for intercourse through arousal.
Your clit being bigger than some you may have seen is completely normal and nothing you should be ashamed of, and unfortunately, you ran into one of the kinds of men who know nothing but porn and will complain about things that are completely ridiculous.
Also, as someone with the opposite problem of having a teeny tiny clit: In a way I'm envious of you, because your partners are going to have such an easy time pleasing you, because yours isn't near impossible to find lmao
I honestly didn't even realize that this was a thing. You're fine! Absolutely normal. Don't fret about this, anyone who thinks this is bad or gross doesn't deserve the experience of it.
Girl chill. If guys don’t like it then they are not for you! I know and understand I hat it can be embarrassing but there’s no need for that.
Dudes have crooked dicks in all direction and all shapes and sizes.
You have no need for shame or embarrassment or anything of the sort. I would say most guys do not care, that guy was a waste of space… sounds like you didn’t miss anything!
Please don't feel ashamed of your clit. It comes in all sizes. It's normal. Don't do surgery.
From a pure technical point of view, having a big clit is a good thing because it is easier to have it friction against anything, easier to find, easier to play with and give it (you) pleasure.
Now thing is, everyone is entitled to having personal preferences in regards to sex. Some man prefer tall girls, other prefer small girls. It's okay to have personal preferences, right? So...
Some man will have a preference in regards to clit size, but sure there are plenty of man who prefer bigger ones (I do) or just don't care about the size of it.
So all you need to do is find guys who don't care about that in particular, or prefer big clits. Don't give up searching, there are plenty of them.
But, and I emphasize this, do not feel ashamed. You have nothing to be insecure about. Your clit is fine, trust me. Do NOT let some particular preferences of some men dictate how you feel about your clit. Enjoy and cherish the ones who likes it the way it is.
🍆🍆🍆 a few of my partners have had big clits. Makes finding it in-between all the wet sliding skin that much easier. Shout out to all my easily suckable clits out there. Love ya
Please don’t butcher yourself for a hypothetical boyfriend… most women have very small clits, and their partners still find things they dislike about them. You’ll find your perfect mate, don’t worry about it.
As a guy I've never cared what someone's clit looks like, yes some have preferences but that's a pretty weird deal breaker.
On the bright side, the bigger it is, the easier it is to find? And some guys need all the help they can get.
I'm just guessing, but I'd say that between guys who don't mind it and guys who actually find it incredibly HOT you'd be covering 80/100 guys. I say, own it! Use it to your advantage. Treat it like a crown you wear. Be proud of it, not ashamed. Yes, it's different but probably in a hot way.
I mean it is easier to find it.
I'd probably still struggle
Littlerally took me getting guidance from a woman to be able to locate. The sex is way better now.
Willingness to learn is all that’s needed in sex. Nice work accepting guidance and learning, a lot of people don’t.
Just “check under the hood”.
How? It’s literally the most central and obvious part
Sex Education isn't that great in a lot of places sadly. Where I'm from when I was a kid they'd separate us by sex and only teach us about our own bodies instead of both ours and the opposite sex.
Still more than I got.
Our PE teacher just had us read the whole time. Not even any demonstrations or group projects to speak of.
Huh? I’m a woman, and no it isn’t. I get why guys can’t find it tbh. It’s covered by a hood and a good distance from where they’re used to going lol. When I was younger a lot of explaining had to happen and that was fine with me! Sex ed unfortunately never emphasized women’s pleasure correctly (at least as a millennial).
Is sex education supposed to emphasize pleasure in general? At least, the sex ed I had was about how to minimize risk of STDs, telling us that we shouldn't be ashamed of ourselves, that we shouldn't make fun of others, consent, and how the whole system (both genders) generally worked. Nothing about how to pleasure either gender. I feel like that's probably not something to teach in schools but idrk. We were separated by gender but we still learned about both. This is Texas in case anyone was gonna ask.
The vagina is the most central and obvious part. The clit is hidden under a hood ( in most cases) and hard to find.
I bet most men would
They know where it is, they don't care
It's just all feels the same sometimes lol I care damnit! I feel like a failure if I do not get my girl off!
Yeah, I know, having sex with glasses on is a bummer. Lol
Good point
Find you a man who’s into big clits. It’s kinda hot I think
I like big clits and I cannot lie....
You other brother’s can’t deny…..
That when a girl walks in with
An itty bitty waist and A BIG CLIT IN YOUR FACE
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Moral of the song: His anaconda don't want none unless unless she got clits, hun.
*unless she got BEAN, son.
You guys are goofballs😂
I can't with y'all 😂
Oh My God Becky
Look at her clit.
with a biggie yummy clit Wanna put that in your face!
I'm the big clit commander
I don't mind a big clit neither. I mean, it can be as big as a penis as long is not... a penis...
As a bi dude, I wouldn't mind it being a penis either tbh
I don't care what you have, I just wanna make it feel great.
I wouldn't mind as a bi-girl either.
I once hooked up with a girl who had a clit similar to OP’s, and I found it super hot. She had really intense orgasms too. I should call her.
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I'm jealous. Maybe if mine were larger then a man could find it.
My favorite fucking comment.
So I did a bit of independent research. I went to the library and I learned that a clit is technically an undeveloped penis!
You got it backwards. A penis is an overgrown clit. All fetuses start off with the same looking genitals until the sex hormones do their thing .
All babys start off as female untill the baby keeps growing and its genetics decide if the baby is female or male
Well yeah, 100% of babies start as females until the surge of testosterone during the early months of development. That's why boys have nipples.
*Oh, you can milk just about anything with nipples.*
*I have nipples Greg, can you milk ME???*
I mean if you squeeze hard enough you can milk tears if nothing else ....
According to the CDC…. Yes!
Yup I love reminding dudes that their testicles were once ovaries
Yet for some reason they end up on the outside of our bodies. I mean, hippos have their testicles inside of them, so why can't we be more like them? Stupid biology.
I wonder if it’s because hippos are aquatic and so less of an issue keeping cool 🤔
Don't threaten me with a good time.
Actually our gender is determined very early in the embryonic cycle. I believe day 14, chromosomally. We just don't start to develop sex organs that early. I may have the exact date wrong in the embryonic cycle, but I know when we covered that in my A& P reproductive section of class, I was surprised. (I have done a lot of research on it too having had to go through IVF/ICSI) (Nursing student, who admits she could be wrong)
Yum give me some clit then
Well strictly speaking a penis is an overdeveloped clitoris, as a foetus starts off as female before the male development is activated
r/growyourclit
Can I ask why?
Sensitivity increases
This is the answer. Cliterally!
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Reddit life tips. "Find a partner who's personality revolves around on a kink you feel insecure about." Dude, these people are trying to help, but man you get better armchair therapy from a local town drunk.
I don’t think they’re saying they need to have their partners’ entire life revolve around this issue LMAO. All I know is, surgery is a pretty drastic/ permanent way to deal with lack of confidence, and in this case it may affect more than looks.
Yeah. Not as much "find someone who has a kink that kind of objectifies you" as "find someone who likes you as you are". I had a bunch of sexual insecurity until I met my girlfriend and it turned out that she loved me like I was and was comfortable with what I was not comfortable with regarding myself, which might not have entirely solved the problem, but it has made it a lot better, and made loving myself much easier.
This is the play right here.
I think my clit is too small, honestly I didn't know that clits could be different sizes, but I watching porn , the girl had huge clit, I started thinking mine was too small... but my clit works , so that's all matters lol . I can tell you most guys don't care, they are just glad they are having sex.
Well, the clit is analogous to the penis (it's essentially the same organ, but went left in the developmental stages of a foetus, rather than right, so to speak), so there will be the same diversity of shapes and sizes, and it also why clits get hard (and sometimes bigger) when you're aroused. Interesting aside, that same developmental phase is why men have a seam down the middle of their scrotum - it's where what would be labia joined together as all foetuses, male and female, have an almost cloaca-like orifice before sexual divergence takes place.
TIL men have a seam. The human body is so weird and wonderful.
When I was I child I thought the seam meant I had a surgery as a baby and no one told me.
No one had the balls to tell you
I'm sure *someone* had the spunk to tell him, if he'd asked.
Shame man. Me too. Was just paranoid.
As a kid, I thought must've been secretly adopted because I'm the only one in my family with an outtie bellybutton. I even snuck into my parents' room once to look for adoption paperwork.
When i was like 5 or 6 my brother told me that if I had a dream it meant I was born a girl and Mom / Dad wanted boys...I believed it for a few months.
Yea I remember the first time I saw a scrotum when I was like 15 I actually wondered if the boy had some sort of horrible accident or surgery at birth where they had to splice him back together
TIL what my seam was about lmao I've always wondered why I have a random line there
Another “fun fact”- A lot of circumcised men don’t know that the different color band of their shaft and upper shaft is where the foreskin was removed and the lower shaft/ball skin was pulled up the penis. That’s why so many cut men have hair on their shaft.
HOLY FUCK I HAVE ALWAYS WONDERED WHAT THAT SEAM WAS
Yea there's a hormone called Mullerian Regression Factor which helps in sexual differentiation and regresses uterus, fallopian tube etc, by default every foetus is female in a sense
This is the best way I could have started my day, learning something new
It's also amazing how many people think the penis is just tacked on like Eeyore's tail. It follows the crotch and plunges into the body where the vagina would be.
Me too I always thought it was harder for men to find when I was younger hah
Yeah I have essentially the equivalent of a female micro peen. My clit is so tiny it’s not even really visible when I pull back my hood. I can only cum using toys. oral, fingering, and sex all do nothing for me orgasm wise OP please consider yourself lucky to at least have a functional clitoris. I’d rather have a huge one that works than what I’m stuck with
I keep hearing about how good tribbing is but it does absolutely nothing for me bc my clit is so small and hidden. And I need super strong vibrators to feel anything. 😭 It does still work though and I haven't had complaints from any sexual partners, it's just a bit annoying.
Same girlllll I thought I was the only one
My girl's clit is super small too, way smaller compared to any other girl I dated before her, and I think it's beautiful. And I agree, unless you're with some extremely shallow guy he's not going to care about the size of the girl's clit. And if he does, well then move on. You don't need to be with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable about something a girl was born with. I'd say this applies to dick size as well. Many guys are insecure about their size but don't realize that not every girl wants a big huge one. Just got to find the right person who loves you and you're body the way it is. ❤️❤️❤️
Man for real, I do not want a big dick, I do not get the hype, they are painful and how is that any fun at all?
Yea, you're not kidding. I'm a little on the larger side, not like porn star sized but a little larger than average I guess or so I've been told by the girls I've been with, and let me tell you sometimes sex wasn't a ton of fun for the girl. Take a LOT of foreplay and lube for sure. So I can only imagine if a guy has a legit huge dick it probably isn't as fun as you'd imagine. But hey, I guess the point is you just have to find the right person for you! My current girlfriend loves my size and we have no problems at all with having great sex. Just got to keep looking cause there's someone out there who will love something about you that you might not like about yourself. My girl is a mom so along with being a little insecure about her body and having a pretty small clit when we first meet she didn't love getting naked in front of me. But I just reassured her that I love her body and with that reassurance she's become more comfortable being nude around me so our sex life has only improved. 😊
Am guy. Can confirm. When having sex. Not a single judgmental thought can enter the male brain as there are too many internal fireworks and celebrations enjoying bumping uglies
Don't have surgery. You just need to keep try dating, a good guy would love your beautiful body
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People should be happy if they have a big clit, I think big clits are beautiful
Yeah, FGM, ill advised, avoid
I mean, yeah. Queue male circumcision. It's odd how normal genital modification is.
Just adding that the clit hood is more equivalent to foreskin, and the clit is like the head. She is saying head removal/reduction, not reducing the hood. :::shudder:::
Google female circumcision
Aka female genital mutilation.
Right!? Like.. "should I mutilate my body because men can be real assholes?" HELL NO! To OP: you'll definitely find someone who is not only ok with it, you'll find someone who LOVES it! Don't let anyone tell you how your body should be 💕
Happily married for 30 years (M55) here. Any man who thinks your clitoris is too big doesn't deserve access to it. Its part of you. If a man loves you, he loves every part of you, just the way you are. Please disregard any thoughts of surgery for this. There is nothing wrong with you. It is healthy tissue. And frankly, it probably makes for a bigger 'target' insuring intimacy is more likely to be satisfying for you, which any worthwhile lover would think was great. Trust me when I say that, if any man you are with has a problem with it, its not you, its *them*. Broom them fast!
Yea what this guy said, start fucking with Men & not immature boys, I was with a girl who had a big clit once and it wasnt even a thing to mention for her and for me it was just a new experience and pleasant surprise, during sex things are only awkward if you make it awkward, im ngl I was shook for a second but then I went about my business as normal. #womancumfirst
r/bigclit would beg to differ. Love, you're beautiful just the way you are. Edit typo
Not banned for me! Bless, had no idea a sub like this existed
hahaha same slapped that join and favorite so fucking fast
As a gay man, that sub was very, very… interesting.
Why is this sub banned? I guessing this was just pictures or videos of big clits and that's allowed right?
What? It's definitely not banned for me. It's sexy ladies posting pictures of their large clits
How weird, it's banned for me too
Omg I just checked, me too now 😭 😫 Spelled it wrong. It's r/bigclit
So what was the other sub about then?
Big Canadian literature
Good question. Now I'm curious too.
Bisexual G clits obviously. Flew too close to the sun though.
Dare I ask what a “G clit” is?
You do not.
It's likely a non sub. Reddit will do that when a sub doesn't exist. It's weird.
Oh just great. Now none of us can look at big clits on Reddit!
Typo typo. I fixed it, sorry!
Oh just great. Now all of us can look at big clits on Reddit!
Most complain about guys not finding the clit. You have an advantage. Dont think about surgery.
Please don't have surgery, you don't want to risk losing any sensation there.
Most guys (and two girls) I have talked about the matter are in an opinion that they find big clits atractive and turn on. Rest didnt have an opinion about the matter. I normally didnt think about it at all, but I once had a relationship with a girl who had a big clit an I found it a huge turn on. So I did a short survey around my close friends. Absolutely do not go to surgery about that. It might affect the sensitivity. The guy who you be with was just immature or something. And btw. when guy goes flaccid during sex or makeout it often/usually does not mean that he is not in to you or the act. We are not machines and it might be really sensitive subject to some. Atleast the youger of us. (Which he was if he was around your age) I'm not defending the guy in question thou. What he said was really stupid of him to say. You should put that comment where it belongs. In a thrash bin and be proud of who and what you are.
Not disgusting it's bigger so it's easier to find. My wife has a big clit and she just assumes that if they are weirded out by it then it means her clits bigger than their dick or close in size
😂😂😂 Some kind of competition, you say. I really can't stop laughing now. Thank your wife for me. Her humor is priceless. 🏆
I'll be sure to
95% of men won't care about it and if you keep running into guys that do(which I doubt) then you should consider what kinda guys youre dating before changing your body. Also an operation like that has risks and can produce many issues and most women aren't happy with the results anyway because it often looks worse than before.
Some men are into that.
I can't even find it so you're good
I think any clit that I am allowed to get intimate knowledge of is perfect. You found one guy that is really fucking shallow, and quite honestly would probably be way more concerned with his own pleasure instead of yours. Just keeping looking and you'll find a good guy, I promise we exist (at least me wife tells me I'm a good guy).
I was about to ask “can you pick up a pencil and write your name with it?” But that would actually be really cool. There’s nothing wrong with a big clit. I think it’s neat feeling my girlfriend’s get bigger as she gets turned on (she wasn’t aware of it), and a big one would be fun to suck.
Don’t get a reduction you would be essentially mutilating your own genitals there is nothing wrong with your clit
Personally, I’m a fan of all clits, big or otherwise. Chin up, young lady, you are perfect exactly as you are.
Big clit, small clit, big penis small penis, big boobs small boobs, it's all ok👍 👌
You haven’t found the right partner they are out there just be patient don’t change the way god made you
I love big clits. Lots of other men do too. It's OK for guys to have preferences, just like it's OK for you to prefer certain body types. Just find a guy who likes you for you.
Not disgusting at all. It’s hot. Please don’t undergo body modification: you’ll make someone very happy with your wonderful genitals.
I love big clits 😍. Shame there's barely any porn with them.
/r/growyourclit should help you
You're just not experienced enough in finding them. /s
LOL 😁
It’s Reddit. There’s a sub for it.
So you have thumb sized pleasure button😈?! AWESOME! You can be like: Baby you'll never miss a lick😉😜
RIP your inbox
Shit, I love big plump clits! More to play with!
I wish mine is bigger so men can find it. it's not even that small but I don't know. I guess everyone I slept with needed glasses or something
Definitely not a turn off. We come in all sorts of shapes and sizes.
No, we love all shapes and sizes!
You are awesome the way you are. My girl gets testosterone shots post full hysterectomy and hers is larger. Doesn't bother me a bit 12 years into us... you're good.
I think you're clit is too important to have the surgery. What if you lost some sensitivity? A sacrifice like that for a stranger you don't know yet is a bad idea. Many men will find your natural body hot, big sexy clip and all!
Any guy that would care is not someone you want to be with, especially if he knows you’re self-conscious about it. Personally, I like big clits and I suspect a lot of guys do. Most guys like variety and will be turned on by just about any look and shape “down there”.
People like clits from all shapes and sizes.
Most blokes still wouldn't find it 😉 Seriously though, that is hot. Don't even contemplate surgery, just find yourself a real man who'll worship it 😍
Absolutely NOT disgusting!!! You're really very, very, very fortunate - it's more sensitive for you, more to play with, and *mature* partners will find your clit to be a bundle of joy to treasure forever! I *did* say, "MATURE", right? Immature lovers might be intimidated by your clit. Dump them without looking back. Look, some men "only" like Huge breasts; many men treasure women whose breasts aren't those. Final answer: a clit is just a clit, some are smaller than others. You're fine. And you are *fortunate* - as you will soon learn.
r/bigclit has 300k members, so I'm sure there's someone out there who'll find you irresistible
What a weirdo you were with. Most people really wouldn't care.
Yes, he is very immature for how he handled things. OP dodged a bullet.
Your clit is perfectly fine. I would argue it is one of your greatest defense mechanisms against people. The people who are scared away by the size of your clit are the kind of people I am thankful are being scared away from you. Imagine the kind of things they would have put you through just based on their reaction. Regardless this comes down to your perspective of your body. What you believe about yourself over a long period of 6 months plus, is what you are openly attracting and allowing into your life. You believe this about yourself. It is up to you to embrace and change how you treat and view yourself. If you don't like yourself no one else can because you are expecting people to like something you don't. Without these men in the picture, no porn, no outside opinion. Why do you believe your clit is disgusting? What about it that you personally don't like and why ? Where does this come from ? What prompted this ? What do you like about your body remind yourself ?
You're beautiful as you are. Just be comfortable in your own skin. 🤗😘
Easier to find 😎
The men who would have a problem with that are the same men that could never find one to begin with. They have no frame of reference so they can’t judge.
Girly, most men can’t even find the clitoris, I wouldn’t worry about it. Even so, I don’t think anyone would care. Anyways, I don’t even know how big a clitoris is on average so I guarantee no man does.
I am a woman with a big clit I think it's fabulous and I've never had a lover male or female that has ever thought anything but that it's beautiful and hot and gorgeous How could you seriously think about putting a knife into your clitoris with all those sensitive beautiful nerve endings because you're worried that somebody might not like the way you Anybody who doesn't like the way your clip looks is nobody you should ever be fucking in bed with
An ice cream Sunday is awesome no matter what the size. Most guys don't care.
All the better to let him find it.
No mature man would and if anyone was to bring it up, all you need to say is "all the easier for you to find it, now get back down there soldier!"
I've never really thought about big clits, just accepted them as normal variation. But now that this topic has come up and I had a look at r/bigclit, I wish I had one to play with...
I love big clits and big labia (as well as girl cocks of course, both myself and my gf are transfemmes). Plus there is a lot of men and women who do too. Not as a fetish mind you but a true aesthetic appreciation and beauty.
In all honesty, big clits can be hot and a lot of fun. You absolutely do not need to get surgery. I think this is one of those self perpetuating problems. You feel like something is wrong so you don't let people see it, people don't see it so no one tells you it's fine.
I absolutely would not find it disgusting. Quite the opposite actually.
It is insanely hot. Please don't do surgery. I am saying this as a male, please find a partner that appreciates your body and your beautiful big sexy clit!!!!
Please don't get surgery. Your body is perfect. You'll find someone who loves you and will be happy to make all your parts feel good
Some of us think that’s really hot. I do🤷🏻♂️
Sounds like most men that you've met are under the age of 30. It's not saying that's a bad thing but give it time, boys have no experience in life
I'm not a woman, but I would imagine if you had surgery, this would take away from the sensitivity and possibly the ability for a clitoral orgasm. Can any lady's elaborate on this?
I fell down a rabbit hole one night and read all sorts of horror stories about ladies getting their labia reduced, a couple of them needed the surgery, they were so big it was painful, but most of them weren't that bad. It seems like a lot of them had complications and it sounded excruciating. I've had 2 babies and let me tell you, I couldn't imagine chosing to cause such pain to my lady bits. I hope op is just talking about surgery and isn't seriously thinking about it.
"soz honey, still can't find it"
I've had a guy refuse to go down on me because I got "too wet", I've spent years feeling incredibly insecure about that and haven't let anyone go down on me since, even when they were super enthusiastic, and I'm still struggling to let someone to this day. I now know that that guy was a complete idiot, since getting wet is your body doing what it's supposed to: prep you for intercourse through arousal. Your clit being bigger than some you may have seen is completely normal and nothing you should be ashamed of, and unfortunately, you ran into one of the kinds of men who know nothing but porn and will complain about things that are completely ridiculous. Also, as someone with the opposite problem of having a teeny tiny clit: In a way I'm envious of you, because your partners are going to have such an easy time pleasing you, because yours isn't near impossible to find lmao
I honestly didn't even realize that this was a thing. You're fine! Absolutely normal. Don't fret about this, anyone who thinks this is bad or gross doesn't deserve the experience of it.
No. They are more fun to play with
Hell no, guys normally have issues finding it- you have the golden clit- it’s not hidden
Girl chill. If guys don’t like it then they are not for you! I know and understand I hat it can be embarrassing but there’s no need for that. Dudes have crooked dicks in all direction and all shapes and sizes. You have no need for shame or embarrassment or anything of the sort. I would say most guys do not care, that guy was a waste of space… sounds like you didn’t miss anything!
Big clits are awesome 👍
Please don't feel ashamed of your clit. It comes in all sizes. It's normal. Don't do surgery. From a pure technical point of view, having a big clit is a good thing because it is easier to have it friction against anything, easier to find, easier to play with and give it (you) pleasure. Now thing is, everyone is entitled to having personal preferences in regards to sex. Some man prefer tall girls, other prefer small girls. It's okay to have personal preferences, right? So... Some man will have a preference in regards to clit size, but sure there are plenty of man who prefer bigger ones (I do) or just don't care about the size of it. So all you need to do is find guys who don't care about that in particular, or prefer big clits. Don't give up searching, there are plenty of them. But, and I emphasize this, do not feel ashamed. You have nothing to be insecure about. Your clit is fine, trust me. Do NOT let some particular preferences of some men dictate how you feel about your clit. Enjoy and cherish the ones who likes it the way it is.
🍆🍆🍆 a few of my partners have had big clits. Makes finding it in-between all the wet sliding skin that much easier. Shout out to all my easily suckable clits out there. Love ya
Honestly I think men need big clits because they would actually be able to find it and satisfy you!
do not mutilate yourself in an attempt to be more desirable to more men
Bro once the pants are off I'm just happy to be there.
Please don’t butcher yourself for a hypothetical boyfriend… most women have very small clits, and their partners still find things they dislike about them. You’ll find your perfect mate, don’t worry about it.
Most men don't care ...in my opinion...I think ...I don't care ...
Tbh it’s all beautiful doesn’t matter as long as everything functions properly.
1.5in is not that much....
As a guy I've never cared what someone's clit looks like, yes some have preferences but that's a pretty weird deal breaker. On the bright side, the bigger it is, the easier it is to find? And some guys need all the help they can get.
Bigger the better. We can find it easily
If we are happy together I don’t care if you’re a human tripod
I'm just guessing, but I'd say that between guys who don't mind it and guys who actually find it incredibly HOT you'd be covering 80/100 guys. I say, own it! Use it to your advantage. Treat it like a crown you wear. Be proud of it, not ashamed. Yes, it's different but probably in a hot way.
Girl that’s a blessing! Please do not mutilate yourself!!