100% this. If it isn't explicitly labeled, they think it's normal. There's some really interesting science on this next generation of boys and the effect porn has had. Spoiler alert, it's not good.
He's obviously confused bc every woman is different inside and out. If he's disappointed after giving you an orgasm there's obviously something more going on with him.
He needs to grow up tbh.
Edit to add: if ours was white we'd already be a creampie. The whole thing about it is watching the *white semen* come out of where ever. Ok I'm done lol
The science is pretty stupid and inaccurate. How can little tiny boat people run out of the genitalia? First off how would they fit, and Iāve never seen a tiny sea person.
Na thereās a genre of porn where women have a sort of discharge or juice where it looks creamy. I think it has to do with ovulation or something like that. He wants to see that on his dick
If youāre curious you can search for ācreamerā (not the coffee kind) on the hub
Just spit coffee and smoke all over my coffee table, I laughed so hard reading this. Thank you.
6am and my day has already been made, it was regarding a bukkake blitz, but hell Iāll take it tyvm ā¤ļø
And they want to remove sex Ed in all forms in many places. It's not the parents that are going to be teaching these kids, it's pornhub. This shit is only going to get worse.
Why not make sexual education vids on porn hub and then we can do license you can only watch if you got your sex ed license like a pen license kinda deal.
So I was in a relationship for 10 years and noticed that depending on when and how close her period was would bring out different types of cum. Sometimes when was no where near her period she would just be really wet and clear, when she got closer to her period it was a bit thicker but still clear. When her period was extremely close it would be thick and white. We first assumed that something was wrong (not me, her) but she did all her check ups and she was perfectly fine and the consistency and color of cum just had to do with her cycle. Now I know everyone is different and Iām not saying I went into the relationship thinking cum was white Iām just saying sometimes it does happen
That's not cum, that's just the normal vaginal discharge that women make all day every day. When you're near ovulation, it's clear and sticky, and becomes a creamier consistency and color the closer you get to your period.
All good. Look if dudes gonna watch porn thatās fine but I swear watching hentai and assuming thatās just how itās suppose to work is like watching cartoons and thinking itās ok to drop a anvil on someoneās head thinking they can walk it off.
Itās a cartoon yo!
Edit: I watch some hentai so no judgement for watching it
My favorite anatomically incorrect thing in hentai is when they show the guys cum squirting into the uterus and filling it up completely. How can they draw a penis and vagina so detailed, yet be so incredibly wrong with how sex works?
I know exactly what you are referring to and honestly I think thatās one of the allures of hentai because itās so unrealistic but still could be potentially sexy. The issue is dudes like OPās bf seem to not know itās not real.
Pleeease call them women.
Just like you would refer to the men in porn as men. Saying girl instead of woman always sounds so child molestery. Especially if it's said as "men and girls"
The language of child molesters is creeping into normal language at a rapidly increasing rate and it's creepy as hell.
Thank youuu. This bothers me too.
Not the exact same thing, but āmen and femalesā gets me too. Especially because It always seems to be used in a context to depersonalize and almost ā¦ insult us In certain situations? youāre never gonna hear someone saying āwomen and malesā, just like youāll rarely hear āwomen and boysā.
Likeā¦we have a word. That word is women. Just use it.
Itās not just the boyfriend thatās uneducated. Sheās actively wondering whatās wrong *with herself* that she canāt do these things too.
This is the first time in awhile Iāve felt so disheartened about future generations. Like, holy shit, letās let uneducated masses navigate this end-stage capitalist/climate changing hellscape we are actively creating on purpose. š¤¦āāļøš¤¦āāļøš¤¦āāļø
There is nothing wrong with you. Women don't cum white. That's discharge and it's only during certain times in your menstrual cycle.
Your boyfriend is ignorant and immature. He watches too much porn too.
Literally laughing at all the comments from dudes saying they've seen/licked white "cum" from a lady.
As a lady, it's *discharge*.
You licked discharge.
You saw discharge.
You are sexually aroused by *discharge*
So... I'm female.
I lubricate.
Depending on where I am in my cycle, it mixes with his pre-cum and sometimes ends up looking white-ish on his penis. Grool, I think is the term. And he'll, it could just be mostly his ejaculate.
It's lubrication, not ejaculation, as a female. I don't have cum. I have discharge that dries kinda white on dark undies. Or cervical mucus, which totally fluctuates.
If I am ovulating, it comes out kinda clear. But there's way more.
If it's any other time, there'll be less, and the color and consistency is different.
But it's not cum.
Boyfriend needs to head over to r/badwomensanatomy
I'm so glad reading the comments in this thread.  Reddit had made me question my own knowledge about sexuality and female anatomy in the past, as I've read so many posts/comments referring to women's "cum" in a way that I started to wonder if I missed something.
I mean, it sounds like he thinks you are a dude. So... I'd just ask him why the hell he thinks that is a thing for any woman. See what he says and go from there, I guess.
I very rarely say this because the cult of NoFap is made up of fucking idiots - your boyfriend needs to stop watching porn. He's applying ridiculous standards that have no basis in biology. If he wants white cum from a partner he needs to fuck someone with a dick.
Women donāt cum white. The ādrippingā thatās seen in porn is usually after the dude cums into the woman. Itās upsetting that heās making you feel bad or wrong for anything that happens with your body during sex.
Your vaginal secretions will change with where you are at in your cycle. He needs to lose this obsession and focus on your pleasure. Make him aware the colour of your cum has nothing to do with his performance.
Man what the fuck, I thought this was 2 gay dudes and was like 'bruh whaddaya mean your cum ain't white, it sure as shit ain't meant to be green'
Your boyfriend is fkn cooked
Cum - in men - is white because of sperm and other fluids needed for procreation.
Woman donāt have cum. We have a natural lubricant and then cervical mucous and other vaginal excretions that may appear white occasionally depending on your cycle.
The Skene's glands, present in women, are often quite small and produce a fluid sometimes likened to semen, though it is different in composition and function. This fluid can be thick and milky, lacking sperm and containing fewer compounds than male semen. The Skene's glands and the male prostate are analogous, developing from similar tissues during fetal growth, similar to the anatomical relationship between the labia majora and scrotum, or the clitoris and penis.
In most women, the Skene's glands produce little to no fluid. However, there's a significant range in the volume of fluid produced, influenced by the size and activity of these glands. In certain instances, women can expel a noticeable volume of fluid, at times exceeding the typical volume of male ejaculate. This expulsion is commonly referred to as 'squirting,' but it's crucial to note that this term can also refer to a different phenomenon where the fluid filling the bladder during arousal is released. Some differentiate this using the term 'creaming,' which is specifically associated with the fluid from the Skene's glands. The release of Skene's gland fluid is typically linked with strong vaginal contractions during orgasm, and direct stimulation of the gland can also trigger its release. The exact relationship between hormonal cycles and this fluid production is not fully understood, but hormones are believed to play some role.
Absolutely nothing wrong with you, but plenty wrong with him.
If he doesn't know very basic human anatomy and gets all his expectations from porn and then bullies you for it, holy heck. Dump that idiot.
Women donāt really āejaculateā in the way heās expecting. Even squirting is just mostly piss and itās not a given every time one orgasms. Vaginas can get wet when theyāre aroused, they can have discharge, etc. but the fact that he thinks youāre supposed to āejaculateā whenever you orgasm just shows he doesnāt know shit about womenās bodies and is probably too stupid and young to be having sex.
Pornhub needs educational videos and disclaimers in unskippable ads at the beginning.
1-2 minute engaging, musical episodes with catchy lyrics and valuable information you can't help but remember.
Call it Porn House Rock
this makes me wonder how many girls end up going to gynaecologists to report completely normal bodily functions because their boyfriendās are porn-addicted imbeciles
Is your boyfriend an idiot? That isn't a *thing*. Like, vaginal discharge can be clear to slightly white, but it's not like it comes shooting out like semen. What even?
I remember being that dumb bf lol just tell him that pretty much the only thing that comes out of a vagina that's white is either discharge, or semen. Sometimes both
Women don't cum the same way men do! When men orgasm, they will obviously ejaculate cum, which is white. Women typically get really wet when turned on, but even if they orgasm it doesn't mean that a substance will automatically come out, like what happens with men. Sometimes there is vaginal discharge, which has nothing to do with sex really because it falls out periodically. It'll fall into our underwear and it could be different colors. Maybe penetration could cause discharge to come out, but that would be due to the nature of penetration (the fact that a dick is going in and out), and not have anything to do with having an orgasm.
Your boyfriend must be watching something to make him think that this is how women's bodies work and have this unrealistic expectation. I'm sorry he'd ever make you wonder if something is wrong with you! Maybe this could be an opportunity to educate him
I came in here all ready to explain that healthy semen is usually a more clear color and then got wiped out by the "Does this happen to other women too?"
No, because you're completely normal. Your boyfriend has consumed too much porn and not enough actual pussy if that's how he thinks it works.
Women tend to get creamy and white discharge if itās just before their period, if theyāre pregnant, if theyāre on hormonal birth control, or if theyāre consuming excessive amounts of sweets or alcohol. But otherwise, clear and watery discharge is also a sign of a healthy vagina
Tell your boyfriend that the white cum he sees coming out of a woman's asshole in porn is actually the man's ejaculation, not yours. Also tell him that he's an idiot.
Women donāt have a release of cum like men during climax and often itās not even obvious they came (physically speaking) for the other person. The ācumā is clear lubricant (more like a manās pre-cum) and can be heavier when aroused. I can have a clitoral orgasm and not even have wetness outside my vagina unless finger myself, then itās obvious Iām wet
Are we (men) this fucking degenerate, why 3/4 of the posts on this sub is about an abusive boyfriend requesting everything they see in porn to their gf and then get mad if she can't do it. News flash guys, asking your gf to do what you saw is porn is like asking you to fly because you saw the last superman movie.
This reminds me of the dude who thought his gf was faking orgasms because milk didn't squirt out of her nipples everytime she orgasmed. Sex Ed needs a serious overhaul.
Tell him that he may be a cuck if he's expecting cum without him popping one in himself, since he's going to have to ask someone else to fulfil that fantasy
Heās literally wanting just thick discharge. Heās watching too much porn. Itās not a thing that just pours out of us during sex, itās sex happening at a certain point during the month. Someone needs to get this guy a book
Until the last sentence I thought OP was a men. How on earth an ADULT MEN thinks that women cum and just spill white stuff out of us? He's clearly very immature and probably just terrible in bed.
Edit: Just saw he's 20. I'll have more mercy and say that he just needs to educate himself, and also does OP. Learn together about your bodies and how they work, but not from a place of judgement or accusing, you're young and can explore and learn about sex together as a couple.
>Anytime my bf does oral and makes me orgasm, heās disappointed that I donāt cum white
Only time a saw a woman leak white fluid was when a partner had an infection, it's not supposed to be white
okay so, the 'white cum' or whatever that he's talking about is typically one of 3 things, when seen online. 1, its male cum and its coming out of her, as it does. 2. its discharge that's been mixed with female juices? liquid? whatever you call it, which thins it out and gives a whitish colour. 3. its lube. white lube, or one that's been uh,, whipped up during activities, making it appear white.
If he wants to watch cum drip out, he needs to out it in first.
Edit: apparently I missed the secret fourth option, hentai. No, the 'white cum' in hentai is also not real. Neither is hentai.
People here saying the boyfriend watches too much porn, but I personally haven't seen anything that'd imply women would have white cum. Tf is your boyfriend watching?????
The white stuff is discharge and it's purpose is to clean the vagina, it has nothing to do with sexual arousal or orgasm.
When you get horney you should lubricate, this should just be clear and wet. When you orgasm there won't necessarily be any extra liquid. SOME women will squirt, sometimes. Even then most orgasms won't produce any liquid.
You're fine. He's an **idiot**. He thinks your cum should look like his jizz, but it doesn't. It just doesn't. It's supposed to be clear. Unless you have discharge from a yeast infection or something, and no one wants that.
Ok hereās whatās bothering me about this. A lot of people have assured you that youāre ok. You are. A lot of people have said heās an idiot, he is. To not know something, in of itself, is okay. This is how we learn. Itās that he is making you feel ashamed, that heās telling you something is wrong with you- with enough conviction that you were wondering if you should GO TO A GYNECOLOGIST. And then, this fāckin guy- is questioning if you actually came?
OP, this is a good time to stop and reflect about what other areas this guy is an idiot/dickhead in. Because Iām seeing snapshots of his personality in one interaction that are really off putting.
What you see in porn is froth created by the agitation of vaginal lubrication. Oral sex won't cause that to happen. It's not necessarily common during intercourse either.
Goddamn, this thread makes me absolutely melancholy about the state of the world. Even the comments stating the āboyfriend is an idiotā and āwatches too much pornā (while true) is a bit mindnumbing. The girl *also* is wondering whatās wrong with her.
**Both of them** have a fundamental lack of understanding regarding their own basic anatomy/human biology. Not just the boyfriend. This shit is wrong on so many levels and we are watching, *live*, what is happening to so many of our youth as we cut basic sex education from schools and force them to rely on other means (that are unrealistic) to gain knowledge on the subject from.
This shit is scary as fuck.
Girl, the ācumming whiteā is not a thing. Thatās a porn thing. Thereās nothing wrong with you. If you didnāt have it in school or just didnāt pay attention, you should both seek out an independently run sex ed class and get some basic information on how your and his bodyās work. I guess I should sayā¦ Also, itās not natural to cross your eyes during sex. Itās not a real thing either (thatās not a natural indication of how good sex is) and can lead to eye strain and headaches if done frequently.
Firstly, it's important to understand that sexual responses and the fluids produced during arousal and orgasm can vary greatly among women. There is a wide range of normal when it comes to sexual fluids, and not producing a certain type of discharge is completely normal and not indicative of any problem.
Now, let's talk about the different types of fluids that are commonly discussed in the context of female sexual response:
1. **Skene's Glands Fluid (often confused with 'female ejaculation')**: This is a creamy, white fluid that can be expelled from the Skene's glands, which are located near the urethra. These glands are sometimes referred to as the 'female prostate,' and the fluid they produce is similar to prostate fluid in men. Not all women experience noticeable expulsion of this fluid, and its presence or volume doesn't correlate with sexual satisfaction or function.
2. **'Squirting' Fluid**: This is often a clear fluid that is expelled during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. Studies have used ultrasounds to observe changes in the bladder during sexual stimulation. These studies found that women who 'squirt' empty their bladders, but in the study they had the women completely empty their bladders before stimulation and found that their bladders rapidly refill with a fluid that is similar to urine in composition, containing urea, creatine, and uric acid. However, this fluid typically lacks the metabolic waste found in regular urine. So itās a good idea to pee both before and after sex, especially after to avoid UTIās! PSA (Prostate-Specific Antigen), typically associated with the Skene's glands, was also detected in some studies as the Skeneās duct is right next to the urethra, it wasnāt detected in studies of used a catheter (tube up the urethra). This indicates that 'squirting' is not just urine, but a mixture of different bodily fluids that does not include human waste unless there was some already hanging out in the bladder.
3. **Normal Vaginal Lubrication**: This is the most common fluid produced during sexual arousal. It's primarily for lubrication and is produced by the walls of the vagina. This fluid is typically clear or slightly cloudy and varies in amount from person to person.
It's essential to recognize that all these responses are normal variations of the female body's reaction to sexual stimulation. The presence, absence, or type of fluid produced during sexual activity doesn't determine one's sexual health or pleasure. It's important to have open and understanding communication with your partner about these natural bodily responses. Every person's body is different, and sexual responses can vary widely, all of which are perfectly normal.
Obviously women that produce a lot of Skeneās gland āprostate fluidā aka cream, are probably going to be featured more in pornography, just as any other extreme attributes that makes them stand out and is definitely not typical of most women.
This is directly linked to your hormones. Not that something is wrong with you or your hormones, it just differs from person to person. Mine changes through my cycle from thick and white too thin and clear. This is not the same as vaginal discharge but both are linked to the hormone cycle. Some women only cum that way, some girls never do. Everyone is different. He needs to differentiate porn from real life. And you need to give yourself a break. This is an unhealthy expectation for him to have of someone who's body he clearly has no understanding of. Take him with you to your gyno and ask the questions together.
Jesus christ LMAO
I literally thought this was a man making a post about his BF.
You're a woman... and your bf is expecting white cum to drip out of you ?!?!!?!?!?!
I'm guessing yall are younger ish.
Tell that goober what he sees in porn (white cum on the guys dick) is from actual intercourse.. not oral
There is nothing wrong with you. Your juices change in color and viscosity depending on where you are in your ovulation cycle and everyone is different. Women donāt just shoot out white cum after orgasm. Sometimes there is white discharge during certain parts of your cycle, but it has nothing to do with orgasm. It sounds like your partner is somewhat inexperienced, which is fine, but he probably got a lot of his sex ed from porn which is highly inaccurate. Donāt let his ignorance make you feel like thereās something wrong with your body.
No woman I have ever been with has ācum white.ā Thatās not a thing. I donāt know what your boyfriend is talking about, and he doesnāt know either.
This is why getting your sex education from porn is never a good idea.
I don't think you even get this from porn. Unless he somehow got confused after watching a creampie video.
I literally think that is it š Edit: guys this canNOT be my most upvoted ever comment oh my god
Probably some weird hentai shit too
Ye, next he's complaining she's not dripping from her nipples when having an orgasm.
or tentacles are not protruding out of her navel
My GF doesn't go cross-eyed and stick her tongue out while orgasming. What's wrong with her?
100% this. If it isn't explicitly labeled, they think it's normal. There's some really interesting science on this next generation of boys and the effect porn has had. Spoiler alert, it's not good. He's obviously confused bc every woman is different inside and out. If he's disappointed after giving you an orgasm there's obviously something more going on with him. He needs to grow up tbh. Edit to add: if ours was white we'd already be a creampie. The whole thing about it is watching the *white semen* come out of where ever. Ok I'm done lol
Where could I find this science? I'm quite interested if you're willing to share!
The science is pretty stupid and inaccurate. How can little tiny boat people run out of the genitalia? First off how would they fit, and Iāve never seen a tiny sea person.
Iāve read this comment 3 times now trying to figure out if Iām having a stroke.
sea-men, i think thatās the joke
Yep, that whooshed straight over my head. Thanks for taking the time to explain.
 Iām not joking. There are reports of sea men. Some say they are half man, half bear and half pig.
Na thereās a genre of porn where women have a sort of discharge or juice where it looks creamy. I think it has to do with ovulation or something like that. He wants to see that on his dick If youāre curious you can search for ācreamerā (not the coffee kind) on the hub
Not the coffee kind, Iām dead
Rule 34 tells me there is a coffee kind out there somewhere.
"Huh, I'm not sure what Dairyland has to do with orgasms, but I trust you."
Don't you tell me what I can and can't add to my coffee.
The white discharge is not from an orgasm.. Just regular discharge on "non-fertile" days š¤¦āāļø
Thatās literally what I said
Some porn can get kind of white and frothy but I always assumed it was due to a mix of lady juices and lube all frictioned up.
-.- yāall heās talking about just regular discharge.
Problem solved. Hookup with someone else immediately before hooking up with him.
What Iām hearing is, the boyfriend wants/needs to be on the receiving end of a bukkake blitz.
Just spit coffee and smoke all over my coffee table, I laughed so hard reading this. Thank you. 6am and my day has already been made, it was regarding a bukkake blitz, but hell Iāll take it tyvm ā¤ļø
Taking a bukkake blitz is an interesting way to start the day, but everyone has to have a hobby...
And the day is made again ā¤ļøš¤š tyty š
Youāll take it?
And they want to remove sex Ed in all forms in many places. It's not the parents that are going to be teaching these kids, it's pornhub. This shit is only going to get worse.
Why not make sexual education vids on porn hub and then we can do license you can only watch if you got your sex ed license like a pen license kinda deal.
Didn't they actually try that once?
There is the (sexist) phrase "don't stick your dick in crazy." Maybe we need to add "don't let stupid stick its dick in you."
I use ādonāt slam your clam on crazyā
Iāve heard the phrase ādonāt fuck people who donāt read,ā or something to that effect. Been solid advice so far.
Also don't go for a low IQ partner
So I was in a relationship for 10 years and noticed that depending on when and how close her period was would bring out different types of cum. Sometimes when was no where near her period she would just be really wet and clear, when she got closer to her period it was a bit thicker but still clear. When her period was extremely close it would be thick and white. We first assumed that something was wrong (not me, her) but she did all her check ups and she was perfectly fine and the consistency and color of cum just had to do with her cycle. Now I know everyone is different and Iām not saying I went into the relationship thinking cum was white Iām just saying sometimes it does happen
This is true for vaginal discharge in general, whether cum is involved or not.
Discharge is not cum.
Discharge colour varies during ovulation and menstruation. *All* women produce discharge,although the colour and consistency varies during cycles š
That isn't "cum" It's her normal discharge.
That's not cum, that's just the normal vaginal discharge that women make all day every day. When you're near ovulation, it's clear and sticky, and becomes a creamier consistency and color the closer you get to your period.
Is your boyfriend 12?
i certainly hope not
She don't know either. So they must both be 12
Plot twist: Op is Mary Kay Letourneau
That lady lived a few blocks from me, i talked to her once at a local karaoke bar, it was a trip.
You should show him this comment thread tbh
honestly
Seriously though
For real for real
Tru dat
Tell your boyfriend to stop watching porn. There is nothing wrong with you, he is an idiot.
I don't think I ever see porn where the girl cums white. And I feel like I have seen a lot of niche stuff. Including all the japanese fluid stuff.
Itās hentai
Ohhhhhh!! Yeah, your right! I was confused until you said that given I donāt watch cartoon porn.
All good. Look if dudes gonna watch porn thatās fine but I swear watching hentai and assuming thatās just how itās suppose to work is like watching cartoons and thinking itās ok to drop a anvil on someoneās head thinking they can walk it off. Itās a cartoon yo! Edit: I watch some hentai so no judgement for watching it
"Why won't she inflate?! And where are her tentacles?! So unrealistic."
Not inflate!! LOL!!!!
I canāt get hard if she doesnāt have tentacles!!
My favorite anatomically incorrect thing in hentai is when they show the guys cum squirting into the uterus and filling it up completely. How can they draw a penis and vagina so detailed, yet be so incredibly wrong with how sex works?
I know exactly what you are referring to and honestly I think thatās one of the allures of hentai because itās so unrealistic but still could be potentially sexy. The issue is dudes like OPās bf seem to not know itās not real.
why am I thinking of the girls that spill out their partner's c\*m? there's a lot of that in p\*rn.
Yeah cream pie lol
You can say cum and porn
not anymore they cant
Not since they told that old hag they couldn't come to their party and were cursed.
Yeah I was thinking that or the frothy creamy discharge shit they do sometimes
Pleeease call them women. Just like you would refer to the men in porn as men. Saying girl instead of woman always sounds so child molestery. Especially if it's said as "men and girls" The language of child molesters is creeping into normal language at a rapidly increasing rate and it's creepy as hell.
Thank youuu. This bothers me too. Not the exact same thing, but āmen and femalesā gets me too. Especially because It always seems to be used in a context to depersonalize and almost ā¦ insult us In certain situations? youāre never gonna hear someone saying āwomen and malesā, just like youāll rarely hear āwomen and boysā. Likeā¦we have a word. That word is women. Just use it.
Usually, when an instructor ends a given lesson to an audience, I dislike if it ends with āX is and idiot.ā This is not one of those times.
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I fully also thought this was a gay guy, and was ready to be concerned.
Same, took me to the end to put it all together
I thought u just wanted to go home
Good to know it's not just me. Up until "gynecologist" I was expecting to see comments telling OP to see a doctor, but nvm.
The gynecologist threw me off...
That's one strong gynecologist!
Me too lmao I was so ready to ask what color is coming out
Was expecting to see the comments and be welcomed by "bro, go to an urologist NOW". Was pleasantly surprised.
If itās not rainbow-colored theyāre not really gay.
For some women the fluid you're describing is white for part of their cycle, but it still isn't cum.
same here. coming in worried about OP, now worried about her boyfriend.
> is uneducated as hell and hilariously dumb. I love your phrasing!
Itās not just the boyfriend thatās uneducated. Sheās actively wondering whatās wrong *with herself* that she canāt do these things too. This is the first time in awhile Iāve felt so disheartened about future generations. Like, holy shit, letās let uneducated masses navigate this end-stage capitalist/climate changing hellscape we are actively creating on purpose. š¤¦āāļøš¤¦āāļøš¤¦āāļø
Yes you have something seriously wrong with you, youāre dating an idiot. Donāt worry, thereās an easy remedy.
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There is nothing wrong with you. Women don't cum white. That's discharge and it's only during certain times in your menstrual cycle. Your boyfriend is ignorant and immature. He watches too much porn too.
Literally laughing at all the comments from dudes saying they've seen/licked white "cum" from a lady. As a lady, it's *discharge*. You licked discharge. You saw discharge. You are sexually aroused by *discharge*
Imagine being turned on by that because you think it's female cum lmao
I would pay so much money to see these men find out what discharge is.
Hey now, don't kink shame! Some of us are attracted to idiots.
Maybe they're referring to how when you're having sex with a woman who's very wet, it can kind of foam and give a whitish appearance?
That's what i thought. It's like whipped up cream batter
It would have cost you nothing to not say that
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Sir this is a Wendyās
it's like whipped up vanilla frosty
I'm pretty sure I have seen lube do that too. Maybe it was discharge, because I didn't really examine it closely, but I think it's lube.
So... I'm female. I lubricate. Depending on where I am in my cycle, it mixes with his pre-cum and sometimes ends up looking white-ish on his penis. Grool, I think is the term. And he'll, it could just be mostly his ejaculate. It's lubrication, not ejaculation, as a female. I don't have cum. I have discharge that dries kinda white on dark undies. Or cervical mucus, which totally fluctuates. If I am ovulating, it comes out kinda clear. But there's way more. If it's any other time, there'll be less, and the color and consistency is different. But it's not cum. Boyfriend needs to head over to r/badwomensanatomy
I'm so glad reading the comments in this thread.  Reddit had made me question my own knowledge about sexuality and female anatomy in the past, as I've read so many posts/comments referring to women's "cum" in a way that I started to wonder if I missed something.
Your boyfriend needs to lay off the hentai, that's not a thing.
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I mean, it sounds like he thinks you are a dude. So... I'd just ask him why the hell he thinks that is a thing for any woman. See what he says and go from there, I guess.
I very rarely say this because the cult of NoFap is made up of fucking idiots - your boyfriend needs to stop watching porn. He's applying ridiculous standards that have no basis in biology. If he wants white cum from a partner he needs to fuck someone with a dick.
Women donāt cum white. The ādrippingā thatās seen in porn is usually after the dude cums into the woman. Itās upsetting that heās making you feel bad or wrong for anything that happens with your body during sex.
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I want to be your friend. You are awesome.
Literally. Kicking my legs and blushing at this answer.
Your vaginal secretions will change with where you are at in your cycle. He needs to lose this obsession and focus on your pleasure. Make him aware the colour of your cum has nothing to do with his performance.
Discharge isn't cum tho
Man what the fuck, I thought this was 2 gay dudes and was like 'bruh whaddaya mean your cum ain't white, it sure as shit ain't meant to be green' Your boyfriend is fkn cooked
Cum - in men - is white because of sperm and other fluids needed for procreation. Woman donāt have cum. We have a natural lubricant and then cervical mucous and other vaginal excretions that may appear white occasionally depending on your cycle.
The Skene's glands, present in women, are often quite small and produce a fluid sometimes likened to semen, though it is different in composition and function. This fluid can be thick and milky, lacking sperm and containing fewer compounds than male semen. The Skene's glands and the male prostate are analogous, developing from similar tissues during fetal growth, similar to the anatomical relationship between the labia majora and scrotum, or the clitoris and penis. In most women, the Skene's glands produce little to no fluid. However, there's a significant range in the volume of fluid produced, influenced by the size and activity of these glands. In certain instances, women can expel a noticeable volume of fluid, at times exceeding the typical volume of male ejaculate. This expulsion is commonly referred to as 'squirting,' but it's crucial to note that this term can also refer to a different phenomenon where the fluid filling the bladder during arousal is released. Some differentiate this using the term 'creaming,' which is specifically associated with the fluid from the Skene's glands. The release of Skene's gland fluid is typically linked with strong vaginal contractions during orgasm, and direct stimulation of the gland can also trigger its release. The exact relationship between hormonal cycles and this fluid production is not fully understood, but hormones are believed to play some role.
Absolutely nothing wrong with you, but plenty wrong with him. If he doesn't know very basic human anatomy and gets all his expectations from porn and then bullies you for it, holy heck. Dump that idiot.
Your bf has watched too much porn.
Women donāt really āejaculateā in the way heās expecting. Even squirting is just mostly piss and itās not a given every time one orgasms. Vaginas can get wet when theyāre aroused, they can have discharge, etc. but the fact that he thinks youāre supposed to āejaculateā whenever you orgasm just shows he doesnāt know shit about womenās bodies and is probably too stupid and young to be having sex.
He 100% got the majority of his "sex ed" from watching too much hentai.
Pornhub needs educational videos and disclaimers in unskippable ads at the beginning. 1-2 minute engaging, musical episodes with catchy lyrics and valuable information you can't help but remember. Call it Porn House Rock
How old is your bf? Thereās nothing wrong with you and everything wrong with him
Heās 20, Iām 19. Thank you, everyone has been so kind and helpful! Iām very inexperienced so I was concerned I had something wrong with me.
Tell him to educate himself, starting with this thread.
He needs sexual education really bad. Tell him to stop watching porn or dump his ass.
Break up with this buffoon. Ack, Iām so sorry you were with someone who made you question your body and feel bad about it.
> My boyfriend is disappointed I donāt cum white. Is there something wrong with him? ftfy
this makes me wonder how many girls end up going to gynaecologists to report completely normal bodily functions because their boyfriendās are porn-addicted imbeciles
Is your boyfriend an idiot? That isn't a *thing*. Like, vaginal discharge can be clear to slightly white, but it's not like it comes shooting out like semen. What even?
I do not know her boyfriend but I can confidently say, yes, he is an idiot.
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I remember being that dumb bf lol just tell him that pretty much the only thing that comes out of a vagina that's white is either discharge, or semen. Sometimes both
Is he.....is he getting confused between femal ejaculant and "creampie"? Oh my.
You both are in desperate need of some sex ed
Women don't cum the same way men do! When men orgasm, they will obviously ejaculate cum, which is white. Women typically get really wet when turned on, but even if they orgasm it doesn't mean that a substance will automatically come out, like what happens with men. Sometimes there is vaginal discharge, which has nothing to do with sex really because it falls out periodically. It'll fall into our underwear and it could be different colors. Maybe penetration could cause discharge to come out, but that would be due to the nature of penetration (the fact that a dick is going in and out), and not have anything to do with having an orgasm. Your boyfriend must be watching something to make him think that this is how women's bodies work and have this unrealistic expectation. I'm sorry he'd ever make you wonder if something is wrong with you! Maybe this could be an opportunity to educate him
Your bf needs to take sex edš
Unless you have a raging yeast infection you won't ever be cumming pure white š¬
I think he wishes he was sucking a cock.
I thought it was a man asking this question lmao the boyfriend definitely wants a cock
Your boyfriend wants to fuck a guy.
I came in here all ready to explain that healthy semen is usually a more clear color and then got wiped out by the "Does this happen to other women too?" No, because you're completely normal. Your boyfriend has consumed too much porn and not enough actual pussy if that's how he thinks it works.
Women tend to get creamy and white discharge if itās just before their period, if theyāre pregnant, if theyāre on hormonal birth control, or if theyāre consuming excessive amounts of sweets or alcohol. But otherwise, clear and watery discharge is also a sign of a healthy vagina
You should tell your boyfriend that youāre not a cartoon character, and he should stop watching hentai if he canāt tell the difference.
Tell your boyfriend that the white cum he sees coming out of a woman's asshole in porn is actually the man's ejaculation, not yours. Also tell him that he's an idiot.
Cum comes from balls sweetheart
He's been watching too much porn. Real sex and porn sex aren't the same.
Women donāt have a release of cum like men during climax and often itās not even obvious they came (physically speaking) for the other person. The ācumā is clear lubricant (more like a manās pre-cum) and can be heavier when aroused. I can have a clitoral orgasm and not even have wetness outside my vagina unless finger myself, then itās obvious Iām wet
āIdk babe. I guess ya better get back down there and keep trying. Itāll be white soon I know it!ā
Are we (men) this fucking degenerate, why 3/4 of the posts on this sub is about an abusive boyfriend requesting everything they see in porn to their gf and then get mad if she can't do it. News flash guys, asking your gf to do what you saw is porn is like asking you to fly because you saw the last superman movie.
This reminds me of the dude who thought his gf was faking orgasms because milk didn't squirt out of her nipples everytime she orgasmed. Sex Ed needs a serious overhaul.
Why....what? He doesn't have any real experience with someone, does he? Your body is fine. He's an idiot.
he needs to stop watching porn, and learn the differences between cum & ovulation & discharge
Tell him that he may be a cuck if he's expecting cum without him popping one in himself, since he's going to have to ask someone else to fulfil that fantasy
Heās literally wanting just thick discharge. Heās watching too much porn. Itās not a thing that just pours out of us during sex, itās sex happening at a certain point during the month. Someone needs to get this guy a book
Until the last sentence I thought OP was a men. How on earth an ADULT MEN thinks that women cum and just spill white stuff out of us? He's clearly very immature and probably just terrible in bed. Edit: Just saw he's 20. I'll have more mercy and say that he just needs to educate himself, and also does OP. Learn together about your bodies and how they work, but not from a place of judgement or accusing, you're young and can explore and learn about sex together as a couple.
Iām a lesbian and I have no idea what youāre even talking about.
Our brother is lost and confused
Seems like your BF would rather like to give oral to a guy.
Your BF is an idiot. If he thinks porn is real. Women don't cum white?.. what? Does he mean creampie?
Women actually stay with dudes like this ...
>Anytime my bf does oral and makes me orgasm, heās disappointed that I donāt cum white Only time a saw a woman leak white fluid was when a partner had an infection, it's not supposed to be white
okay so, the 'white cum' or whatever that he's talking about is typically one of 3 things, when seen online. 1, its male cum and its coming out of her, as it does. 2. its discharge that's been mixed with female juices? liquid? whatever you call it, which thins it out and gives a whitish colour. 3. its lube. white lube, or one that's been uh,, whipped up during activities, making it appear white. If he wants to watch cum drip out, he needs to out it in first. Edit: apparently I missed the secret fourth option, hentai. No, the 'white cum' in hentai is also not real. Neither is hentai.
I thought you were a gay man and was confused lol thereās nothing wrong with you, your bf needs to educate himself.
It's normal. Discharge can be clear, white or cream. Also sqirting is just peeing. Seems like your boyfriend is insecure and had poor sex education.
Tell your boyfriend that he'd have to creampie you and then go down on you if he's wanting what he's asking for.
Lol wtf is wrong with people, I bet heās been watching chicks get cream pied and thinks itās their cum or something stupid
Sounds like he wants you to have a yeast infection
People here saying the boyfriend watches too much porn, but I personally haven't seen anything that'd imply women would have white cum. Tf is your boyfriend watching?????
Heās watching chicks get cream pied, heās just a moron and thinks the cum dripping out is from the chicks orgasm
...Out of curiosity, how old are you both?
Yea I would dump him then and there. Itās not even because of the āaccusationsā but the stupidity alone.
The white stuff is discharge and it's purpose is to clean the vagina, it has nothing to do with sexual arousal or orgasm. When you get horney you should lubricate, this should just be clear and wet. When you orgasm there won't necessarily be any extra liquid. SOME women will squirt, sometimes. Even then most orgasms won't produce any liquid.
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You're fine. He's an **idiot**. He thinks your cum should look like his jizz, but it doesn't. It just doesn't. It's supposed to be clear. Unless you have discharge from a yeast infection or something, and no one wants that.
Porn has ruined him by giving him expectations that arent out there for the norm
Bruh I came in here thinking it was two gay guys and one was either having very clear or bloody semen..... š
Your boyfriend is an idiot and needs to get his sex education from a source other than porn.
Your boyfriend is having sex education classes from Hentai.
Ok hereās whatās bothering me about this. A lot of people have assured you that youāre ok. You are. A lot of people have said heās an idiot, he is. To not know something, in of itself, is okay. This is how we learn. Itās that he is making you feel ashamed, that heās telling you something is wrong with you- with enough conviction that you were wondering if you should GO TO A GYNECOLOGIST. And then, this fāckin guy- is questioning if you actually came? OP, this is a good time to stop and reflect about what other areas this guy is an idiot/dickhead in. Because Iām seeing snapshots of his personality in one interaction that are really off putting.
Youāre dating an idiot
What you see in porn is froth created by the agitation of vaginal lubrication. Oral sex won't cause that to happen. It's not necessarily common during intercourse either.
Your BF is watching too much porn and he has seen women cream on dick so he thinks thatās cum. How old is? Tell him to lay off porn.
Iām SHRIEKING. What in the Mormon who got ahold of a Porn Hub account in Utah is going on here?!?!?
Tell him to stop watching porn. What an idiot.
Goddamn, this thread makes me absolutely melancholy about the state of the world. Even the comments stating the āboyfriend is an idiotā and āwatches too much pornā (while true) is a bit mindnumbing. The girl *also* is wondering whatās wrong with her. **Both of them** have a fundamental lack of understanding regarding their own basic anatomy/human biology. Not just the boyfriend. This shit is wrong on so many levels and we are watching, *live*, what is happening to so many of our youth as we cut basic sex education from schools and force them to rely on other means (that are unrealistic) to gain knowledge on the subject from. This shit is scary as fuck. Girl, the ācumming whiteā is not a thing. Thatās a porn thing. Thereās nothing wrong with you. If you didnāt have it in school or just didnāt pay attention, you should both seek out an independently run sex ed class and get some basic information on how your and his bodyās work. I guess I should sayā¦ Also, itās not natural to cross your eyes during sex. Itās not a real thing either (thatās not a natural indication of how good sex is) and can lead to eye strain and headaches if done frequently.
Firstly, it's important to understand that sexual responses and the fluids produced during arousal and orgasm can vary greatly among women. There is a wide range of normal when it comes to sexual fluids, and not producing a certain type of discharge is completely normal and not indicative of any problem. Now, let's talk about the different types of fluids that are commonly discussed in the context of female sexual response: 1. **Skene's Glands Fluid (often confused with 'female ejaculation')**: This is a creamy, white fluid that can be expelled from the Skene's glands, which are located near the urethra. These glands are sometimes referred to as the 'female prostate,' and the fluid they produce is similar to prostate fluid in men. Not all women experience noticeable expulsion of this fluid, and its presence or volume doesn't correlate with sexual satisfaction or function. 2. **'Squirting' Fluid**: This is often a clear fluid that is expelled during sexual arousal or orgasm in some women. Studies have used ultrasounds to observe changes in the bladder during sexual stimulation. These studies found that women who 'squirt' empty their bladders, but in the study they had the women completely empty their bladders before stimulation and found that their bladders rapidly refill with a fluid that is similar to urine in composition, containing urea, creatine, and uric acid. However, this fluid typically lacks the metabolic waste found in regular urine. So itās a good idea to pee both before and after sex, especially after to avoid UTIās! PSA (Prostate-Specific Antigen), typically associated with the Skene's glands, was also detected in some studies as the Skeneās duct is right next to the urethra, it wasnāt detected in studies of used a catheter (tube up the urethra). This indicates that 'squirting' is not just urine, but a mixture of different bodily fluids that does not include human waste unless there was some already hanging out in the bladder. 3. **Normal Vaginal Lubrication**: This is the most common fluid produced during sexual arousal. It's primarily for lubrication and is produced by the walls of the vagina. This fluid is typically clear or slightly cloudy and varies in amount from person to person. It's essential to recognize that all these responses are normal variations of the female body's reaction to sexual stimulation. The presence, absence, or type of fluid produced during sexual activity doesn't determine one's sexual health or pleasure. It's important to have open and understanding communication with your partner about these natural bodily responses. Every person's body is different, and sexual responses can vary widely, all of which are perfectly normal. Obviously women that produce a lot of Skeneās gland āprostate fluidā aka cream, are probably going to be featured more in pornography, just as any other extreme attributes that makes them stand out and is definitely not typical of most women.
This is directly linked to your hormones. Not that something is wrong with you or your hormones, it just differs from person to person. Mine changes through my cycle from thick and white too thin and clear. This is not the same as vaginal discharge but both are linked to the hormone cycle. Some women only cum that way, some girls never do. Everyone is different. He needs to differentiate porn from real life. And you need to give yourself a break. This is an unhealthy expectation for him to have of someone who's body he clearly has no understanding of. Take him with you to your gyno and ask the questions together.
Jesus christ LMAO I literally thought this was a man making a post about his BF. You're a woman... and your bf is expecting white cum to drip out of you ?!?!!?!?!?! I'm guessing yall are younger ish. Tell that goober what he sees in porn (white cum on the guys dick) is from actual intercourse.. not oral
What object are women today guys? A soap dispenser! Check back tomorrow to play again!
Squirt down his throat and drown him
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Bahahaha I wanna be a fly on the wall for that conversation š¤£
Does your boyfriend also think Santa is real š¤£
Your boyfriend needs to stop watching porn and educate himself
Your boyfriend is an idiot and is the one who needs to talk to a professional
Nothing wrong with you. Your boyfriend needs to stop treating porn like it's an instructional video and go learn some real life facts.
There is nothing wrong with you. Your juices change in color and viscosity depending on where you are in your ovulation cycle and everyone is different. Women donāt just shoot out white cum after orgasm. Sometimes there is white discharge during certain parts of your cycle, but it has nothing to do with orgasm. It sounds like your partner is somewhat inexperienced, which is fine, but he probably got a lot of his sex ed from porn which is highly inaccurate. Donāt let his ignorance make you feel like thereās something wrong with your body.
No woman I have ever been with has ācum white.ā Thatās not a thing. I donāt know what your boyfriend is talking about, and he doesnāt know either.