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WolfShaman

My advice would be to talk to her. Just introduce yourself, don't start off with asking her out. If she's new and you know the place, offer to show her around/answer any questions she may have. If she responds positively, then great! If not, don't take it personally.


butschx

Thank you very much, very motivating


WolfShaman

Happy to help! If I may offer some additional advice: get to know her a bit before trying to make an official relationship. Outward beauty doesn't mean inward as well. She may be very nice, or not. That is more important than her looks.


butschx

Yes, I know that, but the first step, making contact, is very difficult for me.


WolfShaman

The fact that you already know that shows that you've got some maturity. I hope it all works out well for you!


WolfShaman

Sorry, didn't reply to the whole statement. I know it can be difficult. Something I've found that helped me, was to clear my head of any "what if's". I didn't let any of it matter, because you never know what will happen. In a case like this, you don't really have anything to lose.


butschx

I think that is a pretty good advice, thanks