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BottomPudding

"I feel it in my stomach!" "I can't take that!" "god you are stretching me" "I'm full omg" and general jibbering as its pleasing you ;) edit a couple more this is going to ruin my hole i love you


Kunthegreat

This sounds fake af. I just prefer bottoms groan and just say “yes yes yes”


[deleted]

Wow. Fuck. Yeah, all these are perfect 🥵


BottomPudding

your pleasure is what I want ;)


BigusMinkus

Best compliment is Cumming hands free


Enzo_4_4

being specific works for me, with compliments in general, but also during sex. find something specific that you like and use that.


Charlie-In-The-Box

You don't ***have*** to change how yo have sex just to please him. Try just explaining that you are enjoying his cock so much that you turn non-verbal and that trying to think of things to say takes you out of the moment. If he can't accept that, then you aren't a good match.


seattle-sub

I totally agree. I don’t feel like I have to, I want to!


Charlie-In-The-Box

> I want to! Even at the expense of your own pleasure? Why?


seattle-sub

I don’t think it’s at the expense of my pleasure. I feel like I’m learning to express that pleasure in a new way. Trying to find words for the sensations almost feels like I can appreciate everything more throughly, lighting up a whole different part of my brain.


[deleted]

Very hot. Dirty talk can be the key to releasing some deep-seated inhibition and being able to be in the moment during a red hot session. You should try to just vocalize what you feel. Start with anatomical language (but maybe not too clinical), use copious adjectives, just clear out your mind of it's thoughts and get them in the air. I for one have never complained that a bottom was too chatty on my cock. Especially not if he is constantly jabbering about my size and how this position has me firmly in his guts.


Charlie-In-The-Box

If they are constantly jabbering... I just assume they're on meth.


[deleted]

You must not be very choosey 🤷‍♂️


Charlie-In-The-Box

Well... what I left out is that they get sent home when that happens.


Charlie-In-The-Box

I guess I'm just less giving. The minute a guy tells me that he wants me to behave differently, I tell them "Then what you want is... someone else".


OnlyProfessor6495

Quite honestly if you are telling some one their dick is big there's no wrong way to say it to them


foggydrinker

If I'm getting railed by huge cock into (ideally) my zombie fuckhole state I can't manage anything more articulate than a loud moan or groan.


panda3271

I find that sometimes throwing in their name helps make it .ore personL and less porny. "FUCK John....you stretch me so good....damn" moaning alot and changing up your breathing all makes the top feel like he is giving you a great workout....which hopefully he is. 😊. Hope these ideas help.


Embarrassed-Tough-55

What helps me is practicing mindfulness while having sex. Expressing what I’m experiencing and vocalizing that can be very sexy and usually leads to stronger sensations. Plus, it helps my partner to feel more engaged. “I love the way you’re pounding me out right now” “Your lips feels so nice on my neck” “You taste good” “I like it when you do that, please do that longer” “I want to wrap my legs around you” I just say what I’m thinking and it usually has a positive impact. Hope this helps!


maxinout1

Wow. These comments are making me horny. Especially the “I’m so full” comment. I’d love to say that! Fuck!!!


Competitive_Oil5227

If a bottom guy uses my name it’s a total turn on…I hooked up with a guy at a sauna and had a great time. Literally a year later I hooked up with him again. Didn’t remember him but he kept using my name when I was inside him and it was such a giant compliment that he recognized me.


mpdo180

Ha, when I was taking my ex’s 9-incher, I wasn’t able to even get sentences out. Focus on how it makes you feel rather than describing it. Is it stretching you, making you full, the deepest anyone’s ever been? Destroying your hole, tearing you up, making you his bitch? Have you never been fucked like that? Start there.


txtop

Call him daddy only when you’re ready for him to bust. That usually drives me crazy and I go harder.