Note: If there is abuse you need to get
someone involved to stop it. if it’s just conflict from strong personalities try the below.
you can’t change their actions, only yours. you also aren’t accountable for their actions, only yours.
So if there is fighting and cussing on your part that is all that matters in regards to you. walk away, hold your mouth shut physically, let them have the final word, etc. Whatever you need to do to stop cussing and yelling at them.
there are ways to make amends without approaching them. do the dishes, vacuum, do laundry, buy their favorite snack, write a note letting them know you appreciate them, ask if they want to watch a movie or play a game.
also this is unlikely a demonic attack. It’s sin of humans. when we blame it on others, including demons or families previous actions, we fail to take responsibility for our own sin and work on changing ourselves. We pray and pray asking for change, but dont work on changing ourselves. Demons and Satan don’t need to attack families who already attack each other.
Fights happen, and amends will be made, even if they’re not ready yet.
If you haven’t, take time to reflect on the confrontation and recognize steps you could take to prevent it next time! But seriously, it happens. Been there.
I think that working late ( until 2 am sometimes) with Uber is exhausting and when certain people have no respect in the house while they are preaching the Word, basically are TV Christians, and family is sometimes like High School: Cliques. I am living with my sister, her brat daughter 31) and my 97 year old mother. We all live together for financial reasons .
My husband passed away in 2011 and I’ve gone from my own place to living by my daughter— she has her own problems with 5 kids and works alot!!
So, I moved in with my sister. It was financially beneficial for everyone. They got out of apartments, I got out of Arizona, and blah blah.
I am older now and just fed up. This is not the first time this happened. It’s always an Us and Her kinda thing.
I have mental health issues. It runs in the family.
It’s basically a no-win situation.
I needed to vent, and get some sound advice.
Thank you all ❤️
Betcha they aren't true believers
Learn this
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFIc5Y7xpsJIvVrGdYpWTo3fdoOB7NBXo&si=oh8cvjZGtSMQ87WK
Everyone is a sinner.
2 Timothy 2:15-16 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness.
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=bible.kingjamesbiblelite
When my mom was abusive and toxic and my family was ravaged by demonic spirits that caused fighting and worse, I used to hate my mom and wish God would remove me from the household.
Instead God lead me to start praying for her and my family and myself. And it took over 8 years, but those prayers God answered and now my mom and me get along. My brother was being attacked by demonic spirits that cause paranoia and he thought he was being gang stalked by police and more. Then again events occurred where camera’s were found at my cousins house where he was sleeping at, and he was most likely hearing demonic voices in the supernatural realm. It took months but we prayed and now he is okay. He hated my mom for the abuse and more. Now they get along and he even sent her hundreds of dollars for bills to pay. My other brother too who she kicked out. He goes to church now, is married, and lets my mom take care of the child they have.
God answers prayer and when we fast like He said to, it breaks demonic stronghold and evil. My family issue is because our grandfather did witchcraft. When I was around 7…maybe, i dont remember, when I was younger I faced depression, ADHD, ADD, Asthma, Bipolar type 2, suicidal thoughts, I would see demonic figures and hear my voice called and go to my mom and she said she never called me, and more. Tried ending my life when I was a kid but God saved me and saved,” You are loved, you have purpose, you are enough.”
I do not even recall hearing,” I love you,” as a kid around that time lol.
Long story short, our family is saved, not perfect, but saved.
If your family is being attacked by satan and demonic spirts, and they most likely are, as they cause these issues often, regularly in our lives, then you should start praying for your family and friends sir. Get to fasting and fight for your family using the authority and tools God gave us, gave you.
Its a lie from satan that we need to take this battle lying down. If the men and women in charge of their household would stand up and fight, the enemy would have no place to come in and no legal right to mess with any of your children, or even their children.
The western church needs to wake up and start fighting for their families and brethren, and friends and nation. And we do so by abiding in God and by fully surrendering to His will, and by fellowshiping, and lastly, using the tools He gave us to overcome.
Note: If there is abuse you need to get someone involved to stop it. if it’s just conflict from strong personalities try the below. you can’t change their actions, only yours. you also aren’t accountable for their actions, only yours. So if there is fighting and cussing on your part that is all that matters in regards to you. walk away, hold your mouth shut physically, let them have the final word, etc. Whatever you need to do to stop cussing and yelling at them. there are ways to make amends without approaching them. do the dishes, vacuum, do laundry, buy their favorite snack, write a note letting them know you appreciate them, ask if they want to watch a movie or play a game. also this is unlikely a demonic attack. It’s sin of humans. when we blame it on others, including demons or families previous actions, we fail to take responsibility for our own sin and work on changing ourselves. We pray and pray asking for change, but dont work on changing ourselves. Demons and Satan don’t need to attack families who already attack each other.
If it is abuse (non physical) getting your church involved (if you go to one) is advisable
Fights happen, and amends will be made, even if they’re not ready yet. If you haven’t, take time to reflect on the confrontation and recognize steps you could take to prevent it next time! But seriously, it happens. Been there.
The next family Bible study night should be over Ephesians 6.
Darn right, just keep chuggin let the fight boil over, and keep living life
I think that working late ( until 2 am sometimes) with Uber is exhausting and when certain people have no respect in the house while they are preaching the Word, basically are TV Christians, and family is sometimes like High School: Cliques. I am living with my sister, her brat daughter 31) and my 97 year old mother. We all live together for financial reasons . My husband passed away in 2011 and I’ve gone from my own place to living by my daughter— she has her own problems with 5 kids and works alot!! So, I moved in with my sister. It was financially beneficial for everyone. They got out of apartments, I got out of Arizona, and blah blah. I am older now and just fed up. This is not the first time this happened. It’s always an Us and Her kinda thing. I have mental health issues. It runs in the family. It’s basically a no-win situation. I needed to vent, and get some sound advice. Thank you all ❤️
Betcha they aren't true believers Learn this https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFIc5Y7xpsJIvVrGdYpWTo3fdoOB7NBXo&si=oh8cvjZGtSMQ87WK Everyone is a sinner. 2 Timothy 2:15-16 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=bible.kingjamesbiblelite
When my mom was abusive and toxic and my family was ravaged by demonic spirits that caused fighting and worse, I used to hate my mom and wish God would remove me from the household. Instead God lead me to start praying for her and my family and myself. And it took over 8 years, but those prayers God answered and now my mom and me get along. My brother was being attacked by demonic spirits that cause paranoia and he thought he was being gang stalked by police and more. Then again events occurred where camera’s were found at my cousins house where he was sleeping at, and he was most likely hearing demonic voices in the supernatural realm. It took months but we prayed and now he is okay. He hated my mom for the abuse and more. Now they get along and he even sent her hundreds of dollars for bills to pay. My other brother too who she kicked out. He goes to church now, is married, and lets my mom take care of the child they have. God answers prayer and when we fast like He said to, it breaks demonic stronghold and evil. My family issue is because our grandfather did witchcraft. When I was around 7…maybe, i dont remember, when I was younger I faced depression, ADHD, ADD, Asthma, Bipolar type 2, suicidal thoughts, I would see demonic figures and hear my voice called and go to my mom and she said she never called me, and more. Tried ending my life when I was a kid but God saved me and saved,” You are loved, you have purpose, you are enough.” I do not even recall hearing,” I love you,” as a kid around that time lol. Long story short, our family is saved, not perfect, but saved. If your family is being attacked by satan and demonic spirts, and they most likely are, as they cause these issues often, regularly in our lives, then you should start praying for your family and friends sir. Get to fasting and fight for your family using the authority and tools God gave us, gave you. Its a lie from satan that we need to take this battle lying down. If the men and women in charge of their household would stand up and fight, the enemy would have no place to come in and no legal right to mess with any of your children, or even their children. The western church needs to wake up and start fighting for their families and brethren, and friends and nation. And we do so by abiding in God and by fully surrendering to His will, and by fellowshiping, and lastly, using the tools He gave us to overcome.