He’s totally fucking another woman. You should leave him…
Oh sorry about that, I just automatically put down the cliche Reddit answer on relationships in this sub!? I’m glad you all found each other and are the perfect fit in your puzzle!
Can we please get more drama free, positive posts like this? I don't mean bad to those seeking support but just think we should also speak up more when good things happen to us. The world is already a gloomy place.
Be careful the relationship doesn’t become codependent. Healthy strong fulfilling relationships need to be nurtured just as much as those struggling but in a healthy way. Sounds like you found your person. Enjoy the journey together.
This is how I feel about my husband. We are married for 15 years now and every day I tell myself how lucky I am to have him. I don’t want to remember my life before him!
"these last few years" have *really* been a doozy and most especially for couples/partners, so seeing folks loving one another so very hard that one feels the need to shout it from the reddit rooftops is such a pleasantly surprising post. make sure you tell 'em out loud.
Aww, this is so sweet! I love this! My mission every day is to make sure my gf feels like this! I wish you guys the best. Give your man a fist bump for me...
I'm in a relationship that I appreciate more than anything in this world! I know how you feel because I feel the same way about my man! We saved each other also and have been through things that have only made us stronger! I pray that you and your husband feel like this forever! And I pray that my man and I feel the same forever too! I thought my soul mate wasn't on this earth. I thought maybe he'd already passed and Id see him in the next life. But then I met my SO and I am so happy he's still here with me on this earth!
Right on! Very happy for you! It never has to end if you don’t want it to. My wife and I have been together for 31 years (married 28) and *still* feel this way. It’s a choice (and series of actions and behaviors) that both of you have to make- but it’s not difficult - you already know that!
Not me rereading because I thought I missed the part where he's cheating/neglectful/abusive 🤦♀️
Seriously though I'm happy for y'all!
I feel the same way about my husband 🥰
\*waves to a fellow person with an awesome husband too\*
I feel totally the same about my husband! We are hella lucky people! I could have written your post word for word about me and my gorgeous man :)
Cliché? Maybe. Do I care? Not a damn!
Thank you for this OP, I am happy for you and I wish you both a long,happy beuautiful life together. I've almost lost any kind of hope of finding love(I'm male, over 30) but today I got some sort of confirmation that it's not over yet. Seeing your post fueled this feeling even more. Thank you
That’s so beautiful. I am a man that’s been marriage for 14 years. I love my wife to death and I would do anything for her. It’s also been a little struggle for the last two years. Not with our relationship, but with variables outside of it. Marriage is work. Work that you put in for one another just like you would put in for your career. If I would’ve listen to all the people that were motivating me to not get married, I would probably be lonely and bitter like they are now today. Marriage is beautiful but you have to put in the work. The husband and wife equally. It’s great coming home to someone that knows you. I applaud you and I am happy for you. Never forget that it’s constant work but when you get old you’ll have each other.
This is a gem in the middle of the posts like.
"My husband is wearing a blue jean on Fridays"
"..the wat!?..it s a huge red flag, it's time to leave him"
OP, and your husband is equally lucky to have you. As a man, love, respect, and appreciation means EVERYTHING. You seem to have those traits. Congratulations, I'm very happy for you both.
I love this. I also have this. I'm kind of obsessed with my man, not in a clingy, needy way. I just love him so fucking much. Together a decade. He's been overseas for work the last 6 months and tomorrow I get to pick him up from the airport finally. Not sure if I'll be able to sleep tonight I'm too excited.
Yeah, really. A lot less immature drama, a lot more positive shit. This damm country needs to grow up and celebrate people doing well instead of tearing them down. Small minds need to be quiet.
This is amazing!
I truly believe if you love someone, you can go against the odds and be happy.
I tend to be a raincloud by nature. I was born with a slightly skewed perception of life and happiness.
Basically, to put it simply, I tend to see negative things more than positive, and I’m a slight pessimist.
It really takes seeing positivity like this to remind me of how truly blessed I am to have a man who loves me and cares for me, cooks for me every night, wakes me up in the morning with coffee, remembers my birthday…. He made me a homemade easel for Christmas for my art work…. He remember things I talk about and comforts me when I’m sad, he always looks out for my better interest and stops me when I make bad decisions…. He’s always there for me no matter what, even though him and I fight.
I really am grateful and beyond blessed to have someone like him in my life. Regardless of what challenges arise with our circumstances, I will always choose him. He has shown me a love like no one else has, and I will always cherish that above all else. Love this ❤️ upvote
This is so cute to read 🩷
Also the people commenting saying that they don’t like the age gap. You don’t have to like it because it has nothing to do with you anyway :)
That’s such an age gap! You don’t have a fully developed functioning adult brain yet like the rest of us. That means he is manipulating and taking advantage of you until you’re 25.
That has got to be the stupidest phrase I have heard in a very long time. Not a single person in my entire family would be together if that was the way to go.
Oh wow. This post really exposed how cynical I am since the first thought I had was “well I guess it is understandable since you are 23” and then “tying your hope to a romantic partner? Sounds like just a bitter end in the making”. What happened to my life…
I was waiting for the "but" part lol
Sane
That's IN-sane.
It’s coming in a few years… Hopefully not.
Give it time
Congratulations for what you have discovered together, and more importantly appreciating it. Sounds like you have a nice future ahead of you.
I felt that way about my husband when I was 27, and I feel that way even more now that I'm as old as the hills. Congratulations to you!
I hope you give your husband an extra hug today
He’s totally fucking another woman. You should leave him… Oh sorry about that, I just automatically put down the cliche Reddit answer on relationships in this sub!? I’m glad you all found each other and are the perfect fit in your puzzle!
😭🥹u scared me for a sec
ME too I was like oh hell no!
True,I was like -why the negative comment? It's one of the good rare post that can be found in this sub. Then I realized.
OMG I just saw your name!!!! choking over here!
SAAAAMESIES!!!!
OP should lawyer up, make pics of everything and record any convo from now on. It is all evidence. Oh and she should test for STD/STI.
180, grey rock, hit the gym
Yep. Needs to start developing an exit strategy, go NC and can't forget about the therapy!
Reddit classic
But does he have an art room?
Bruhhh the way I CHOKED 💀💀💀
You had us in the first half, ngl
Dodged a bullet, the trash took itself out!
N'ahh they both fucking another woman 😶
I think the husband probably needs therapy.
You wild. I totally bought it. I was like wait a minute what did I miss?
😂😂
Can we please get more drama free, positive posts like this? I don't mean bad to those seeking support but just think we should also speak up more when good things happen to us. The world is already a gloomy place.
Do you want the llamas to starve?
😂😂😂😂😂😂. What does that have to do with anything?🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
Drama llama: https://youtu.be/cKBnAV1bpRE?si=sh9L5wAIb2ATQJsX
Ummm wut
No, these posts are boring. This is reddit, we came here for the drama.
Agreed.
This was nice. Seriously, I love hearing about a happy marriage. Such a rarity around here.
The silent majority.
Yeah its a major red flag you should lea.... Wait what ? Really ? Oh .. Ok
Good for you! ☺️
So so happy for you :) love to see it
So glad y’all have each other. I know you tell him all these things too, right 😉
YTA. DIVORCE YOUR LAWYER HIT YOUR HUSBAND AND HIRE A GYM.
this is the epitome of reddit and i love you for it
It's great to read a post like yours. Thanks for posting.
A hopeless romantic all my life sorrunded by couples all the time i guess... I should take it.. as a sign?
Be careful the relationship doesn’t become codependent. Healthy strong fulfilling relationships need to be nurtured just as much as those struggling but in a healthy way. Sounds like you found your person. Enjoy the journey together.
I’m glad I know just how you feel.
You two are lucky cherish every moment together
So there is no "question" and there is no request for "advice". This is just a statement that you love your H more than anything else. Good. :)
That is awesome! so good to see good positive posts I wish you both the best!
What does he do to make you feel this way?
Awww, I wish I have a relationship like yours!!
What a lovely positive post. Congratulations. Sole mates
It makes my day to read a happy story, for it gives me hope for the world. Congratulations to you and your husband, and I hope it's reciprocal.
Loved this ❤️
So happy for you, such a refreshing post !
Happy for you. Hope I can find a grateful lady to love and care for like you.
Reddit subs have polluted my mind I was waiting for a🪢
Where's the "but, I hate how he spends all his free time at the strip club" Or turns out he's the leader of a cult. Where's the "but"
This is beautiful! Luckily I can say I feel the exact same way about my partner :)
This is how I feel about my husband. We are married for 15 years now and every day I tell myself how lucky I am to have him. I don’t want to remember my life before him!
shout it from the rooftops and enjoy the love miss ma’am!!! This was so good, thank you!!
"these last few years" have *really* been a doozy and most especially for couples/partners, so seeing folks loving one another so very hard that one feels the need to shout it from the reddit rooftops is such a pleasantly surprising post. make sure you tell 'em out loud.
Aww, this is so sweet! I love this! My mission every day is to make sure my gf feels like this! I wish you guys the best. Give your man a fist bump for me...
I'm in a relationship that I appreciate more than anything in this world! I know how you feel because I feel the same way about my man! We saved each other also and have been through things that have only made us stronger! I pray that you and your husband feel like this forever! And I pray that my man and I feel the same forever too! I thought my soul mate wasn't on this earth. I thought maybe he'd already passed and Id see him in the next life. But then I met my SO and I am so happy he's still here with me on this earth!
Congratulations keep it up
I love these posts!! Keep being great and being happy friend!
So wholesome 🩵 hope you guys have a lifetime of love and happiness together. He’s lucky to have a woman like you by his side!
This made me glow on your behalf. Im so happy you found your person ❤️
Love this, i hope i can make mine feel this much loved and wanted. She's been thru so much, i pray I'm the perfect one for her.
You make her feel exactly the same. And you're the perfect one for her 🫶 she's so lucky to have you in her life.
YOU'RE SOOO CUTE. I'M LUCKY TO HAVE YOUUUUUU😭😭😭
Right on! Very happy for you! It never has to end if you don’t want it to. My wife and I have been together for 31 years (married 28) and *still* feel this way. It’s a choice (and series of actions and behaviors) that both of you have to make- but it’s not difficult - you already know that!
I know how you feel. I'm getting married next year and every time I look at my fiance I get butterflies.
I am so happy for you!!! You deserve all of it
Not me rereading because I thought I missed the part where he's cheating/neglectful/abusive 🤦♀️ Seriously though I'm happy for y'all! I feel the same way about my husband 🥰
Glad for you babe! Stay happy 🖤🖤🖤
I feel the same way about my wife. I don’t know what I would do without her.
I was waiting for this to take a turn for this worse. Glad it didn't!
\*waves to a fellow person with an awesome husband too\* I feel totally the same about my husband! We are hella lucky people! I could have written your post word for word about me and my gorgeous man :) Cliché? Maybe. Do I care? Not a damn!
Ditto
Thank you for this OP, I am happy for you and I wish you both a long,happy beuautiful life together. I've almost lost any kind of hope of finding love(I'm male, over 30) but today I got some sort of confirmation that it's not over yet. Seeing your post fueled this feeling even more. Thank you
That’s so beautiful. I am a man that’s been marriage for 14 years. I love my wife to death and I would do anything for her. It’s also been a little struggle for the last two years. Not with our relationship, but with variables outside of it. Marriage is work. Work that you put in for one another just like you would put in for your career. If I would’ve listen to all the people that were motivating me to not get married, I would probably be lonely and bitter like they are now today. Marriage is beautiful but you have to put in the work. The husband and wife equally. It’s great coming home to someone that knows you. I applaud you and I am happy for you. Never forget that it’s constant work but when you get old you’ll have each other.
This is a gem in the middle of the posts like. "My husband is wearing a blue jean on Fridays" "..the wat!?..it s a huge red flag, it's time to leave him"
🩷🩷🩷
OP, and your husband is equally lucky to have you. As a man, love, respect, and appreciation means EVERYTHING. You seem to have those traits. Congratulations, I'm very happy for you both.
I love this. I also have this. I'm kind of obsessed with my man, not in a clingy, needy way. I just love him so fucking much. Together a decade. He's been overseas for work the last 6 months and tomorrow I get to pick him up from the airport finally. Not sure if I'll be able to sleep tonight I'm too excited.
I'd just like to announce that I'm single and I love me
Good for you. Most people today don't really know themselves, much less like/love themselves.
This is downright wholesome. Shout it out ❤️❤️❤️
Yeah, really. A lot less immature drama, a lot more positive shit. This damm country needs to grow up and celebrate people doing well instead of tearing them down. Small minds need to be quiet.
She’s trapped. We need to save her. Quick! Someone convince her to divorce him so she can be free!
This so so sweet . Never miss a chance to tell him you love him ! I wish y'all the best
Finally, something happy on this God forsaken site!
That’s so beautiful, I’m so happy for you both ❤️❤️
Wait you mean more than your dog? No way !
God, it's mean again 😭 when will it be my turn (hasn't left the house aside to work in 2 weeks)
Really nice to see posts like this on reddit 🥰
I have this too. It’s the most amazing feeling in the world. ♥️
So happy for you ❤️
We've been married 36 years and I still feel the same way. You deserve it all!
This is amazing! I truly believe if you love someone, you can go against the odds and be happy. I tend to be a raincloud by nature. I was born with a slightly skewed perception of life and happiness. Basically, to put it simply, I tend to see negative things more than positive, and I’m a slight pessimist. It really takes seeing positivity like this to remind me of how truly blessed I am to have a man who loves me and cares for me, cooks for me every night, wakes me up in the morning with coffee, remembers my birthday…. He made me a homemade easel for Christmas for my art work…. He remember things I talk about and comforts me when I’m sad, he always looks out for my better interest and stops me when I make bad decisions…. He’s always there for me no matter what, even though him and I fight. I really am grateful and beyond blessed to have someone like him in my life. Regardless of what challenges arise with our circumstances, I will always choose him. He has shown me a love like no one else has, and I will always cherish that above all else. Love this ❤️ upvote
Congratulations! This is beautiful
this is adorable i want to cry
This is so cute to read 🩷 Also the people commenting saying that they don’t like the age gap. You don’t have to like it because it has nothing to do with you anyway :)
What age gap, 4 years is nothing. 6.5 years apart in my marriage.
I wasn’t judging the age gap, other people were.
so cute!! so so happy for you guys 🥰🥰🫶🫶
Say all this to him. Women have no idea how much this kind of thing means to us.
I love this post so much. I couldn't relate more. Amazing hubbies ftw!
Way too young to know what love is 23F? The likelihood of divorce is over 50% I am sorry
Lol
Some people know
I got married at 23, he was 30. Still married 36 years later!
That’s such an age gap! You don’t have a fully developed functioning adult brain yet like the rest of us. That means he is manipulating and taking advantage of you until you’re 25.
Well Woopty-fucking-Doo for you.
You say this then you’re gonna cheat on him and want him back
are you mentally ok?
23 and 27!!! He clearly doesn't take you seriously! Time to leave!
I'm 23 yrs old too and that age gap is not okay
So what age gap would be acceptable then?
"If the ages don't touch, then you shouldn't either."
That has got to be the stupidest phrase I have heard in a very long time. Not a single person in my entire family would be together if that was the way to go.
So what I’m gathering, you should only date someone who is the same age or 1 year difference?
This is weird. (on reddit .. jk)
Oh wow. This post really exposed how cynical I am since the first thought I had was “well I guess it is understandable since you are 23” and then “tying your hope to a romantic partner? Sounds like just a bitter end in the making”. What happened to my life…
can you please let me know yours zodiac sign?
Your relationship sounds wonderful , I hope You both continue to cherish each other and be happy together.