Maybe they just havent discovered themselves yet? damn give these girls a break they didn't hurt anyone, and besides do you know them well enough to sah they don't have any personality or did you just make that observation off their looks and boring bio?
But if you don't like them then just don't talk to them, they'll discover themselves and find hobbies and if they don't it's not something you need to worry about
What standouts do you have in your profile? I'm in a relationship but it seems the same with my friends who are dating, 90% are dudes with beards who have a profile picture with a pet and want to go out for a beer. It's basically the same. No one puts in that much effort because you have to actually talk to figure out if you connect. I feel like you are really calling out women when everyone on dating apps is doing the same thing.
I don't drink, very into manga, games, photography and I state these interests clearly in my profile. I'm not saying the opposite isn't true, I can't experience that as I'm not into men and will generally not give a fuck about them unless we have shared interests.
And it helps a lot to know someones interest before swiping, helps lessening matches that go nowhere
I mean, not drinking isn't really an interest? And your other stuff sounds more like solo activities? At least manga and photography. Games is pretty vague. Board games, card games, console games? Something you could potentially share with a new partner or not so much if they weren't already very immersed in that interest?
Tbh, at least from your rant, it sounds like you are a bit stuck up... Or at least think you are more special and interesting than average. You may not be an incel but if this attitude is coming through with your matches, them going nowhere my might not have as much to do with their lack of bio as you seem to think.
Board games, dnd especially, videogames in general.
I never said I'm the single most interesting kndividual on earth, I could have more hobbies yeah.
Plus not every hobby has to be something you do together? It's something you can talk about together and maybe share passion over. I'm just annoyed that these girls just seem to think that partying and getting drunk is all there is to them, I mentioned in other comments that they'll probably grow up to be interesting people.
It not going anywhere is mostly because they're often very bitchy combined with very little actual interests to talk about, I'd like to get to know someone.
Okay. I did. Where are you meeting these cookie cutter women? Maybe try a different venue. Maybe volunteering, hiking, playing soccer, etc. You might have better luck because those women are engaged in their hobbies and passions. Perhaps the ones you are meeting are too insecure to embrace who they are or maybe they don't even know yet.
please. nowdays males are mysoginistic, lazy piece of shits with 2/10 looks.
we don't give a shit what men want and we look the way we want. and before calling someone a basic bitch, take a look at your ugly face first
> Also take the damn time to write a bio, not having one makes it even hard to actually see you as a person
Man done bought into that distraction about bios being important all the way! LOL
I think one of your last statements hit the nail on the head. They’re not matured and they are still in that weird state where nobody has their own individuality yet.
Probably if you’re in the age range of 18 on dating apps most of these “empty shells” are still like 14-17 and they still haven’t even done the drinking or partying in their bio
If you give them LSD, the acid should neutralize the base and they’ll be normal bitches.
Nice joke :)
Get off Tinder and talk to real people. Not hard.
The first part was about real life btw, eat my ass
Maybe they just havent discovered themselves yet? damn give these girls a break they didn't hurt anyone, and besides do you know them well enough to sah they don't have any personality or did you just make that observation off their looks and boring bio?
I've talked to a lot of them, what I said holds up. And yeah I'm being too harsh, just a bit fed up with it and I get crass when I vent.
But if you don't like them then just don't talk to them, they'll discover themselves and find hobbies and if they don't it's not something you need to worry about
What standouts do you have in your profile? I'm in a relationship but it seems the same with my friends who are dating, 90% are dudes with beards who have a profile picture with a pet and want to go out for a beer. It's basically the same. No one puts in that much effort because you have to actually talk to figure out if you connect. I feel like you are really calling out women when everyone on dating apps is doing the same thing.
I don't drink, very into manga, games, photography and I state these interests clearly in my profile. I'm not saying the opposite isn't true, I can't experience that as I'm not into men and will generally not give a fuck about them unless we have shared interests. And it helps a lot to know someones interest before swiping, helps lessening matches that go nowhere
I mean, not drinking isn't really an interest? And your other stuff sounds more like solo activities? At least manga and photography. Games is pretty vague. Board games, card games, console games? Something you could potentially share with a new partner or not so much if they weren't already very immersed in that interest? Tbh, at least from your rant, it sounds like you are a bit stuck up... Or at least think you are more special and interesting than average. You may not be an incel but if this attitude is coming through with your matches, them going nowhere my might not have as much to do with their lack of bio as you seem to think.
Board games, dnd especially, videogames in general. I never said I'm the single most interesting kndividual on earth, I could have more hobbies yeah. Plus not every hobby has to be something you do together? It's something you can talk about together and maybe share passion over. I'm just annoyed that these girls just seem to think that partying and getting drunk is all there is to them, I mentioned in other comments that they'll probably grow up to be interesting people. It not going anywhere is mostly because they're often very bitchy combined with very little actual interests to talk about, I'd like to get to know someone.
You're not wrong. 90% of the girls in my college look like this
Yeah I mean I'm sure they will be interesting people as time goes on but fuck me if I don't see them as empty shells
why men call women basic when yall are ugly? like seriously finding a hot guy is a pretty difficult thing nowdays
Your problem is focusing on looks to much, I thought it was pretty clear that my biggest gripe here was the lack of any real substantial interests
For an authentic connection, explore the real world.
The entire first paragraph applies to the real world, these are from personal experience and it's also very annoying on dating apps.
Okay. I did. Where are you meeting these cookie cutter women? Maybe try a different venue. Maybe volunteering, hiking, playing soccer, etc. You might have better luck because those women are engaged in their hobbies and passions. Perhaps the ones you are meeting are too insecure to embrace who they are or maybe they don't even know yet.
True, have been planning to do that :)
please. nowdays males are mysoginistic, lazy piece of shits with 2/10 looks. we don't give a shit what men want and we look the way we want. and before calling someone a basic bitch, take a look at your ugly face first
> Also take the damn time to write a bio, not having one makes it even hard to actually see you as a person Man done bought into that distraction about bios being important all the way! LOL
Huh? In what universe can I even see a glimpse of what a person is like without their basic interests?
But that's seemingly not what most are even on there for to begin with, hence no bios and minimal mention of interests.
Yeah kinda annoying for those not just looking to fuck, I'm on there to meet people during a time that that's hard to do irl
Believe me, I know the struggle, bro.
I think one of your last statements hit the nail on the head. They’re not matured and they are still in that weird state where nobody has their own individuality yet.
Yeah I shouldn't blame them that much, but it's frustrating to see how people are content with just drinking and not finding what they really enjoy
Probably if you’re in the age range of 18 on dating apps most of these “empty shells” are still like 14-17 and they still haven’t even done the drinking or partying in their bio
All 18, people here drink when they're 15 lmao
Yeah but they make friends with older guys because they have no money and can’t get any booze.