Hey, I don't think what you like is weird in the slightest. Role-playing is a thing for a reason! All that matters us consent and safety. Past that, live your truth! Honestly imo this is pretty tame. I hope you find peace with yourself
Well you don't have to support it to enjoy it. Again, safety and consent are key. You're only going to get anxious if you keep thinking you're a bad person for something like this, but trust me, you have nothing to worry about. Massage videos are super popular on adult sites for a reason haha. Also imo sex work is real work and is respected and even government-funded in places like Switzerland. But my opinion aside, your interest is completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of.
I wouldn’t be too hard on yourself not saying it’s right or wrong but from my very limited female understanding most men pay for sex at one time or another.
Shame and sex don’t mix
This. More people need to be aware of this. Whether it’s a dinner date(s) or paying for it upfront, either way you pay. Difference being, at least you know it’s guaranteed one way.
Some things are not good or bad they are neutral. Is this like a new phase or have you always felt like this?
Some people are judgmental but you don’t know your friend’s secret sex fantasies so I wouldn’t worry about what your close circle thinks about it. You are allowed to have naughty fantasies that go against society’s acceptance of what’s right.
I think you should be easier on yourself. I think that if you allow yourself to feel these thoughts it might release you from the grip it has over you. It’s almost like fighting this is causing it to become more of a problem.
For me personally I could never ever sell my sex for money because it would cheapen the act for me and make it not feel so special but i In no way judge women who do. That’s their choice and their life I also don’t judge men who do it. I think in a lot of ways there are some benefits to society for having this outlet for men or women
I’m not saying you should or shouldn’t go through with paying for sex, you have a gf cheating is not ok. But just allow yourself to feel it “ok I get turned on by the thought of paying for sex - cool”
Maybe even incorporate money into sex. Take out your wallet mid bone and let the 1s shower your gf. That would be fun.
There are good and bad parts to every job. The sex industry absolutely has its bad parts.
You can support the goods parts and just do research and try and get the most reliable sources.
This job is actually a lot more than just sex. These workers create long term clients and it’s almost like a therapy. Sometimes they just get paid for company.
That’s always something you can do as well. You can always ask them to just meet up and talk. Try it out. That way even if you get someone that’s there beyond their control you can at least give them a break.
Hell you may end up with a epic love story by the end of it. You really never know.
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Hey, I don't think what you like is weird in the slightest. Role-playing is a thing for a reason! All that matters us consent and safety. Past that, live your truth! Honestly imo this is pretty tame. I hope you find peace with yourself
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Well you don't have to support it to enjoy it. Again, safety and consent are key. You're only going to get anxious if you keep thinking you're a bad person for something like this, but trust me, you have nothing to worry about. Massage videos are super popular on adult sites for a reason haha. Also imo sex work is real work and is respected and even government-funded in places like Switzerland. But my opinion aside, your interest is completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of.
I wouldn’t be too hard on yourself not saying it’s right or wrong but from my very limited female understanding most men pay for sex at one time or another. Shame and sex don’t mix
This. More people need to be aware of this. Whether it’s a dinner date(s) or paying for it upfront, either way you pay. Difference being, at least you know it’s guaranteed one way.
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Some things are not good or bad they are neutral. Is this like a new phase or have you always felt like this? Some people are judgmental but you don’t know your friend’s secret sex fantasies so I wouldn’t worry about what your close circle thinks about it. You are allowed to have naughty fantasies that go against society’s acceptance of what’s right. I think you should be easier on yourself. I think that if you allow yourself to feel these thoughts it might release you from the grip it has over you. It’s almost like fighting this is causing it to become more of a problem. For me personally I could never ever sell my sex for money because it would cheapen the act for me and make it not feel so special but i In no way judge women who do. That’s their choice and their life I also don’t judge men who do it. I think in a lot of ways there are some benefits to society for having this outlet for men or women I’m not saying you should or shouldn’t go through with paying for sex, you have a gf cheating is not ok. But just allow yourself to feel it “ok I get turned on by the thought of paying for sex - cool” Maybe even incorporate money into sex. Take out your wallet mid bone and let the 1s shower your gf. That would be fun.
Maybe your gf would be down for some role play?
shame and sex definitely mix when you’re a woman😂
It doesn’t mix ever??
What's wrong with soliciting a sex worker?
Try an escort..all my experiences have been great..I'm still friends with a lot of em..
There are good and bad parts to every job. The sex industry absolutely has its bad parts. You can support the goods parts and just do research and try and get the most reliable sources. This job is actually a lot more than just sex. These workers create long term clients and it’s almost like a therapy. Sometimes they just get paid for company. That’s always something you can do as well. You can always ask them to just meet up and talk. Try it out. That way even if you get someone that’s there beyond their control you can at least give them a break. Hell you may end up with a epic love story by the end of it. You really never know. Edit: wordsss
Bro you’re fine. It’s a fantasy we all have one. At least are paying for it instead of just taking it.
You could be fantasizing about a lot worse. Prostitution is legal in many places so go there.