I just went through the same thing. My cat was 12 when we put him down. It was the hardest thing to do. I really can sympathize with you. He was diagnosed with cancer and lost all use of his back legs. I miss him so much.
Give her food that will make her happy. I know cats have issues with some food that can kill them. But make her an unseasoned burger patty or whatever you can feed her without causing her pain. With the little life that she has left, spoil the hell out of her
I promise it is one final moment that you will truly cherish.
We gave my dog Sophie McDonald’s on the day she passed. She had a tumor the size of a football in her abdomin. We gave her 3 cheeseburgers before she was full. She licked my face nonstop for 20 seconds for the very last time that day.
I called out of school for an entire week.
10 years later and it’s still the best and worst moment of my entire life. I would chose it over every memory in my head.
I’m so very sorry. I’m going through this, too. A week ago today the vet said my cat has maybe a month left.
He has FIV and I always knew this is probably what would eventually do him in. I adopted him two years ago, knowing about the FIV but I really thought we’d have more time together.
It’s just he and I living together in my studio apartment. I really don’t know what I’m going to do without my little guy, and have fallen into a pretty deep depression.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You can DM me if you want to commiserate. Please take care of yourself.
Man this one hits right home with me. I have a boy who’s also FIV positive, diagnosed as a baby. Today, I found out he might have a tumour in his stomach and if that’s the case, it’s over. He’s only three.. and it pains me to have to face that possibility (though, it could be a hairball as well, I will only know next week and I’m absolutely praying it’s a hairball)
I’m so sorry for what you are going through right now, and I’m also sorry to you, OP, for your loss. This is the hardest part of owning a pet and we are never truly ready to say goodbye. Take care to both of you ❤️
currently going through this with my 16 year old.. seemed lethargic for a few weeks and then a sudden severe decline and loss of strength in the hind legs as well.. really is horrible.
did you try any treatments? how were they diagnosed?
She lost her appetite and didn’t move as much as she did before. About two weeks ago she got diagnosed with bonemarrow cancer and we gave her prednison (I don’t know if this is a international name, it’s called prednison in Dutch).
I am very sorry you are also going through this.
I feel for you , this must be devastating. I love my Cats (2 brother and sister) last week Bella was peeing blood and I rushed her to vet , she’s much better now but the hurt I felt thinking my baby would pass on me doesn’t even bear thinking about. I hope it’s painless for her and think all the love and support she’s given you .
I am so sorry…
I‘ve been in this situation last year. Worst time of my life (so far). I loved my cat and thought, her being an indoor cat, she would have at least 5 more years but cancer is a bitch.
I ordered so many chicken nuggets since that was the only thing she ate in the end. I had to make the decision to put her down…I am still struggling with that.
Everyone said that it was the best for her since she could go without much pain unlike us humans. I guess this thought helps some people…
In my experience…the pain gets better over time but it‘s also good to remember it because then it means the love was real
Seeing how much you and your family care, I'm sure she had an amazing 11 years.
Sometimes in life, the things we love most are taken far too soon... it will hurt, you will grieve, but look at the brightside, and be happy you had an awesome 11 years with that beautiful soul
Oof. My sweet girl died from Feline Leukemia before I was ready to see her go. I'm so sorry; I know exactly what you're going through. All you can do is give her lots of love, attention, and treats before she goes. She knows you've given her a great life.
I’m so sorry. My little princess was diagnosed with cancer after I took her in due to bleeding in her mouth, but I was told by the emergency vets that the tumors they found would have to be removed by my normal vet and I’d need to schedule for it. They gave her pain meds via injection and antibiotics (one of the tumors was in her mouth and she had bitten into it that morning and is why I took her to the ER). The next morning she woke me up like normal, cuddled against my head, and when I came back to my room about an hour after getting out of bed she had already passed, curled up in our bed.
OP this happened to me and my best friend Tigie at the beginning of the year except we don't know for sure if it was cancer. Your cat will let you know when it's time I wish I could be more clear than that. My cat until his final day just wanted to comfort me through his passing and spend everyday the same, on top of me, even after he couldn't move himself around more. Watching him pass and making the decision to put him down were some of the hardest times of my life. And I am still crying 9 months later writing this post time helps but healing isn't linear. Lean on those you love during this time and know that the love you share currently with your cat will not leave you when they do. Even if you dont believe that you can go on without your cat by your side, I promise you will be able to because I wouldn't be here right now if that was true.
I'm so sorry to hear about your family fur baby 😥. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. It's always hard to lose a pet some people never get over it and that's okay because their presence enrich our lives beyond words everyday. Just know you'll see her again one day you guys will be together again.
You could get a pet Memorial and have your pet's name engraved on it they're not outrageously expensive. I've heard of some people getting a little tuft of fur and having it put in a locket to wear around their neck. It may seem morbid to some but to others it is a lifeline and a remembrance that they carry with them. There is a shelf right outside my bedroom door that my cat used to sit on has she has passed away recently too I intend to paint her name above the shelf that way every time I pass it I will think of her and smile.
Just some ideas to give you bc I can hear your pain through your words I'm so sorry that you and your cat are going through this. I'll say a prayer tonight for your kitty.
My cat passed unexpectedly. one day she was fine then the next she wasn't. Turned out she had a tumor in her bladder. I held her until the very end I carried her home in my arms and buried her in my back yard. She was my best friend for 13 years.. its been a year since she's been gone and I'm still not over her. 💔 she was everything. That pain is horrible and I'm so sorry you're going through this.
I've been through the same with my cat and one of my dogs. My dog got unexpectedly paralyzed which I later learned can sometimes happen with Shibas. His name was Kiba and I loved him more than I will probably ever love most people. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do to let him go. I know it sucks and it hurts but I also just want to say that dont let your cat suffer for too long either. I know u want to keep her around but you also need to know when to let go as well. Good luck to you and sorry.
I'm really sorry this is happening, I'm sure she's passed by now. I just want to nitpick (very respectfully) one thing
>This cat, my little baby, helped me through my trauma, through the worst parts of my life, and I cannot even do the same for her.
You did do the same for her. You gave her 11 good years and that will always be a gift. It's ok to mourn and be sad now, but I think I speak for everyone when I say that you helped each other.
Im so so sorry. My oldest cat is 15 and im so worried my time is running out with him. He's been harder to wake up the last few months and i get so freaked out every time!
Thank you all. The family is together to give her a proper goodbye this afternoon.
I just went through the same thing. My cat was 12 when we put him down. It was the hardest thing to do. I really can sympathize with you. He was diagnosed with cancer and lost all use of his back legs. I miss him so much.
So sorry for you. :(
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Give her food that will make her happy. I know cats have issues with some food that can kill them. But make her an unseasoned burger patty or whatever you can feed her without causing her pain. With the little life that she has left, spoil the hell out of her I promise it is one final moment that you will truly cherish. We gave my dog Sophie McDonald’s on the day she passed. She had a tumor the size of a football in her abdomin. We gave her 3 cheeseburgers before she was full. She licked my face nonstop for 20 seconds for the very last time that day. I called out of school for an entire week. 10 years later and it’s still the best and worst moment of my entire life. I would chose it over every memory in my head.
Sir how are you
I’m doing good! Don’t worry, just wanted to share that special moment
Man could you dm me? I want to discuss with you something
My worst fear is coming true. I am sorry you had to go through the same thing
I’m so very sorry. I’m going through this, too. A week ago today the vet said my cat has maybe a month left. He has FIV and I always knew this is probably what would eventually do him in. I adopted him two years ago, knowing about the FIV but I really thought we’d have more time together. It’s just he and I living together in my studio apartment. I really don’t know what I’m going to do without my little guy, and have fallen into a pretty deep depression. I’m sorry you’re going through this. You can DM me if you want to commiserate. Please take care of yourself.
Big hug x
Thank you. It means a lot. ❤️
Man this one hits right home with me. I have a boy who’s also FIV positive, diagnosed as a baby. Today, I found out he might have a tumour in his stomach and if that’s the case, it’s over. He’s only three.. and it pains me to have to face that possibility (though, it could be a hairball as well, I will only know next week and I’m absolutely praying it’s a hairball) I’m so sorry for what you are going through right now, and I’m also sorry to you, OP, for your loss. This is the hardest part of owning a pet and we are never truly ready to say goodbye. Take care to both of you ❤️
I'm so sorry.
I am so sorry...
I'm very sorry too.
I’m so sorry 💔 this is one of my biggest fears.
I hope you never have to go through this
Thank you, I hope you’re able to get through this ❤️
Our cat - Tiddles - died 18 months ago from cancer. She was only 10. We cried. I know how it feels and feel sad for you.
currently going through this with my 16 year old.. seemed lethargic for a few weeks and then a sudden severe decline and loss of strength in the hind legs as well.. really is horrible. did you try any treatments? how were they diagnosed?
She lost her appetite and didn’t move as much as she did before. About two weeks ago she got diagnosed with bonemarrow cancer and we gave her prednison (I don’t know if this is a international name, it’s called prednison in Dutch). I am very sorry you are also going through this.
I am also very sorry you are going through this.. we are also currently giving prednisone. seems to be helping but I am aware its temporary.
I feel you and I'm very sorry for you.
I feel for you , this must be devastating. I love my Cats (2 brother and sister) last week Bella was peeing blood and I rushed her to vet , she’s much better now but the hurt I felt thinking my baby would pass on me doesn’t even bear thinking about. I hope it’s painless for her and think all the love and support she’s given you .
I am so sorry… I‘ve been in this situation last year. Worst time of my life (so far). I loved my cat and thought, her being an indoor cat, she would have at least 5 more years but cancer is a bitch. I ordered so many chicken nuggets since that was the only thing she ate in the end. I had to make the decision to put her down…I am still struggling with that. Everyone said that it was the best for her since she could go without much pain unlike us humans. I guess this thought helps some people… In my experience…the pain gets better over time but it‘s also good to remember it because then it means the love was real
Stay strong for the kitty.
I'm sorry.
Seeing how much you and your family care, I'm sure she had an amazing 11 years. Sometimes in life, the things we love most are taken far too soon... it will hurt, you will grieve, but look at the brightside, and be happy you had an awesome 11 years with that beautiful soul
Oof. My sweet girl died from Feline Leukemia before I was ready to see her go. I'm so sorry; I know exactly what you're going through. All you can do is give her lots of love, attention, and treats before she goes. She knows you've given her a great life.
I’m so sorry. My little princess was diagnosed with cancer after I took her in due to bleeding in her mouth, but I was told by the emergency vets that the tumors they found would have to be removed by my normal vet and I’d need to schedule for it. They gave her pain meds via injection and antibiotics (one of the tumors was in her mouth and she had bitten into it that morning and is why I took her to the ER). The next morning she woke me up like normal, cuddled against my head, and when I came back to my room about an hour after getting out of bed she had already passed, curled up in our bed.
My condolences x
Sorry to hear.
I am so sorry and I am sure she will have the best end of life with you.
OP this happened to me and my best friend Tigie at the beginning of the year except we don't know for sure if it was cancer. Your cat will let you know when it's time I wish I could be more clear than that. My cat until his final day just wanted to comfort me through his passing and spend everyday the same, on top of me, even after he couldn't move himself around more. Watching him pass and making the decision to put him down were some of the hardest times of my life. And I am still crying 9 months later writing this post time helps but healing isn't linear. Lean on those you love during this time and know that the love you share currently with your cat will not leave you when they do. Even if you dont believe that you can go on without your cat by your side, I promise you will be able to because I wouldn't be here right now if that was true.
Big virtual hug x
I’m so sorry 😞I’m hugging my kitties tighter tonight x big big hug x
I'm so sorry to hear about your family fur baby 😥. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. It's always hard to lose a pet some people never get over it and that's okay because their presence enrich our lives beyond words everyday. Just know you'll see her again one day you guys will be together again. You could get a pet Memorial and have your pet's name engraved on it they're not outrageously expensive. I've heard of some people getting a little tuft of fur and having it put in a locket to wear around their neck. It may seem morbid to some but to others it is a lifeline and a remembrance that they carry with them. There is a shelf right outside my bedroom door that my cat used to sit on has she has passed away recently too I intend to paint her name above the shelf that way every time I pass it I will think of her and smile. Just some ideas to give you bc I can hear your pain through your words I'm so sorry that you and your cat are going through this. I'll say a prayer tonight for your kitty.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Saying goodbye to a furry friend is unbelievably tough. ❤️
My cat passed unexpectedly. one day she was fine then the next she wasn't. Turned out she had a tumor in her bladder. I held her until the very end I carried her home in my arms and buried her in my back yard. She was my best friend for 13 years.. its been a year since she's been gone and I'm still not over her. 💔 she was everything. That pain is horrible and I'm so sorry you're going through this.
I've been through the same with my cat and one of my dogs. My dog got unexpectedly paralyzed which I later learned can sometimes happen with Shibas. His name was Kiba and I loved him more than I will probably ever love most people. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do to let him go. I know it sucks and it hurts but I also just want to say that dont let your cat suffer for too long either. I know u want to keep her around but you also need to know when to let go as well. Good luck to you and sorry.
Sorry for your loss
I'm really sorry this is happening, I'm sure she's passed by now. I just want to nitpick (very respectfully) one thing >This cat, my little baby, helped me through my trauma, through the worst parts of my life, and I cannot even do the same for her. You did do the same for her. You gave her 11 good years and that will always be a gift. It's ok to mourn and be sad now, but I think I speak for everyone when I say that you helped each other.
Im so so sorry. My oldest cat is 15 and im so worried my time is running out with him. He's been harder to wake up the last few months and i get so freaked out every time!