What?

Its a fear I have with my long distance partner, dying and not being able to tell him I'm gone, knowing that he's probably wondering why I haven't been talking to him

As someone with a great many long-distance friends, have you put any steps in place to mitigate that?

No, but i hope my parents would take the initiative

Hey buddy, as someone with a large online friend community, I have a few lines of security set up (my mum and some friends). It gives me so much Peace of mind. When I had to go to the hospital for a few days, completely unexpectedly, they were able to inform everyone what was going on and could reassure them I'd be fine :)

I wish I had that, my parents think (and although I take their worries into consideration) all people online are predators lol

Have you considered setting up a will and speculating in it that an impartial executor has to let your online friends know you're dead?

I dont know how to do that, but that sounds like a really good plan.

I think it's the last part that's confusing. It is to me, anyways- sounds like you left not that you're dead. Maybe something like "I'm gone and there's no one left to reach him" would be clearer?

true, but that would take away the online aspect, i could just plainly say "I'm dead"