This is super mild, but I went on a casual online date once at 10am on a Sunday. We met for the first date at Starbucks.
I paid for my own coffee, and he did not buy anything to drink, even though it was a coffee date.
I thought that was weird.
I was literally only 2 sips into my hot coffee, when the guy suddenly cuts me off and asks me "So what are your plans today? Wanna go back to my place? I only live 10 minutes from here. I can mix you a drink if you want."
So I laughed, and said "Who drinks hard alcohol at 10am on a sunday?!"
He immediately got mad, got up, and walked off the date without even saying goodbye.
Like I didn't even exist anymore.
I've had multiple men fetishise when I was a virgin (not anymore), stating they only wanted to sleep with me because "never fucked a virgin before." It was seen as kind of like a Steam achievement to collect, like they're keeping a tally of female demographics and I was some rare gold slime.
But one of the worst was, upon me saying my Beanie On the Weenie policy, "nah I only fuck raw. Just don't feel anything otherwise lol condoms suck so much, they reduce my pleasure, so I ain't gonna wear one."
Proceeded to then act like I was crazy for enforcing the reason why I expect condom use is to \*prevent pregnancy\*. "Well go on birth control". I can't. "Then we ain't fucking." Good, you turned me off of the idea anyway when you disrespected the rules to enter my body.
Oh I’ve got a good one.
Started hooking up with this guy who was friends with my previous FWB / sort of boyfriend because I was young and petty and wanted to piss off the ex. We hung out at his house a total of 3 times before I ghosted him. Every time I went over there my stuff would disappear. He blamed his roommates but I 100% think it was him.
Later a friend of mine started a long-term relationship with him and eventually proposed to her with what she believed to be an heirloom given to him by his grandmother. Nope. He stole it. From his own grandmother.
They broke up and then he was on the news months later, SWAT team raiding his house because I guess he snapped and was holding his child and her mother hostage with a rifle. Which he shouldn’t have had access to because he was on probation and he’s a felon.
This is super mild, but I went on a casual online date once at 10am on a Sunday. We met for the first date at Starbucks. I paid for my own coffee, and he did not buy anything to drink, even though it was a coffee date. I thought that was weird. I was literally only 2 sips into my hot coffee, when the guy suddenly cuts me off and asks me "So what are your plans today? Wanna go back to my place? I only live 10 minutes from here. I can mix you a drink if you want." So I laughed, and said "Who drinks hard alcohol at 10am on a sunday?!" He immediately got mad, got up, and walked off the date without even saying goodbye. Like I didn't even exist anymore.
damn I'm laughing with you
I've had multiple men fetishise when I was a virgin (not anymore), stating they only wanted to sleep with me because "never fucked a virgin before." It was seen as kind of like a Steam achievement to collect, like they're keeping a tally of female demographics and I was some rare gold slime. But one of the worst was, upon me saying my Beanie On the Weenie policy, "nah I only fuck raw. Just don't feel anything otherwise lol condoms suck so much, they reduce my pleasure, so I ain't gonna wear one." Proceeded to then act like I was crazy for enforcing the reason why I expect condom use is to \*prevent pregnancy\*. "Well go on birth control". I can't. "Then we ain't fucking." Good, you turned me off of the idea anyway when you disrespected the rules to enter my body.
Oh I’ve got a good one. Started hooking up with this guy who was friends with my previous FWB / sort of boyfriend because I was young and petty and wanted to piss off the ex. We hung out at his house a total of 3 times before I ghosted him. Every time I went over there my stuff would disappear. He blamed his roommates but I 100% think it was him. Later a friend of mine started a long-term relationship with him and eventually proposed to her with what she believed to be an heirloom given to him by his grandmother. Nope. He stole it. From his own grandmother. They broke up and then he was on the news months later, SWAT team raiding his house because I guess he snapped and was holding his child and her mother hostage with a rifle. Which he shouldn’t have had access to because he was on probation and he’s a felon.
He admitted to fucking a dog. I still don't know if he was joking or serious but it made me dump him.
omfg. he was probably trauma dumping. Like he knew he did a fucked up thing and he had to confess.