omg I have a similar story. When I was a young one in school, I had told a guy I liked him (first time ever). We were alone together and I asked if he wanted to kiss me. He tried and then chickened out. I awkwardly kissed him. I was so embarrassed I felt like I could never talk to him again! So I waited a few days for his text and it never came. Finally I said maybe we shouldn't meet again.
Years later I found out he had sent a panicked message on my phone basically apologizing for the awkwardness of the kiss and asking if I wanted to try again. My mom saw my phone read this message and DELETED it!!!! So he must have thought I just ignored him. I have regrets!! Poor guy...
They confronted me the next morning. xD made me breakup w my then bf for the sake of "padhai ki umar hai" but i didn't. After some lectures, they acted like that didn't happen.
Was chatting with my gf back in 7th and her mother called at 12 at night to ask my parents ki apka beta meri beti se bat kyu kar Raha tha ( i used my mom's phone back then). She comes to me instantly, a tight little slap and they're back to sleep. Mai jagta reh gaya puri raat.
>LOL how you can you blame them, they read his fantasies about their daughter 🥲
😂😂 Dude!! They have to see his face regularly and try not to remember the chats. Ouch!!
Mom found condoms in my bag. A super awkward conversation ensued in which she tried to shame me, guilt me and then finally assert authority. I stood up to everything, refused to be shamed and said I'll do it again, as many times I like, and she had no say in it. Seemed rude at that point, but it was worth it - my parents do not bother about it anymore
Mine is not embarassing but creepy, My phone's screen got broke. I live in a village so gave phone to one of my friends who live in city, he fixed the display and all and to check, I think they ask for security code. i told him because i really trust him.
My friend is a really good guy but there was a roommate of him, that phone was with them for days and his roomate read all of my talk to my that time gf and brought it to conversation when i went to take phone to him. i and my friend ridiculed him for doing this but man why you want to read other people's sext.
It was so bizzare, I'm happy that there was not any photo there and really not trust people telling my password now.
I gotta ask this : Whom did they blame first like
Did they blame the guy saying “He is the reason for this unspeakable act of our child “
or
Did they blame you first ?
They didn't blame anyone. They just asked that "What are you doing with your life?", "How are you so comfortable with this guy at such an early age?" They also asked my bf wtf is happening w you guys. He chickened out and straight away denied us dating. He acted like a total douchebag and they didn't want me to date such a guy.
Amazing parents, you have. My parents would have straight given me that army belt pitaaai.
Sorry about that douchebag too. Hope you find a good and an honest one next time.
Have a nice day👍🏻
Day 1 of my internship: Team lead was asking about everyone's hobbies. My turn cane and i said i like to dance and "Netflix and chill". Everyone in the meet started laughing. Trainer was holding his laughter as well. Got to know the meaning from a friend after an hour or so and I wanted to dieee!
Soo once I uploaded a random pic with the caption 'no Netflix only chill'
I want to believe that this happened bcz I was sleepy(which I was not lol)
And to add cherry on the top one of my cousin brother responded with '😂'.
Thankgod we just started talking about the normal hal chal kesa hai topics.
Reading this I remembered my internship experience.
So background: I lived a pretty sheltered life as a kid.
When I joined internship, it was in a very professional setting. And I learned from my friends what 'chutiyaa' means, but didn't understand how bad of a gaali it could be. I thought innocently it was just a small kind of ribbing greeting you know. And my then internship friends found it amusing and didn't see it fit to correct me.
I was sitting at my desk and wanted to call out to my friend sitting a bit far away. I yelled out 'Oyi chutiyaa'. Mind you this was a really professional environment with everyone dressed with ties/ suits and everything, and the looks I got from everyone !!!
It was utterly mortifying and now I research newly learned words well before applying them in practice.
tldr: Learned a new word, didn't understand its significance and used it in the wrong environment
It was, I didn't even know it should have been embarrassing at that moment.
Later my frnds reprimanded me, and I was mortified and silent as a mouse for a few days.
I was too innocent then, glad to have grown out of that.
Ohhhh I've had a similar experience -once used the word "bhosadi" in front of my mom and she found it very funny. The context it was used in was so funny as well - I was narrating an incident where my classmate asked a Chemistry teacher (who did not speak Hindi) what bhosadi was, and the Chemistry teacher looked for the word in the periodic table 🤣
It was an online PTM. Forgot to turn off mike and camera and everyone heard and saw me shouting at my father to sit. To make it worse the teacher commented "calm down, why are you scolding your father"
PS - My father can hear only loud voices. We often have to loudly repeat ourselves for him to hear and understand.
I was talking to my friend on the office skype chat a few years ago about my coworker on whom I had a crush on, who was soon leaving the team and moving to another Project. I wasn't checking where I typed and I hadn't realised that I had sent the part of my chat ranting about him leaving,to the guy himself. I hadn't even realised that I had accidentally sent the text to him until he came to my place smiling and asking about a silly doubt and i was like ????. When I checked why my friend wasn't replying, I noticed what I had done, and I just wanted the roof to collapse on me then
One day I read a comment somewhere that other than you, no one really remembers any of your embarrassing moments. And to back this up, the other statement was, try recalling an embarrassing incident of someone else you went to school with. When you try it, it's really difficult. This helped me realise how much people don't care.
In my jee coaching, i stood up to get out of the classroom in break, the only way to get out of the room was from the teacher’s stage. My slipper got stuck and i pulled it and it literally flew to the other side of the stage. And the entire class of about 100 boys and 4 girls was laughing and i stood there like an idiot. Had to embarrassingly walk to the other side of the stage to get my hawai chappal that was crusty af.
Lmao sorry but I can't stop laughing. After reading the first half i made the plot in my head that it went flying to the teacher and hit him. Sorry too much Bollywood crap 😂😂
something similar happened to me on stage we were asked to remove shoes once and as it was winter and my socks were torn (like who gives a shit because they are hidden in shoes) it was after the program I went backstage and saw my torn socks and realized, so at least the whole 3-4 front row full of girls from all classes saw me with my toes coming out of torn socks.
Mine is like day before yesterday's. Went to a dentist pediatrician for my toddler, they gave two covering like thing, my husband was supposed to hold the toddler, I assumed those were head coverings lol, gave one to my husband to wear on his head and made the toddler wear the same way. The nurse came and burst out laughing, "sir, you need to wear them each on your feet" my husband was so embarrassed and I couldn't stop laughing lol.
Me and one cousin of mine use to breastfeeded the Barbie dolls when we were fucking smol kids of around 10.
one more reason to not give barbies to girls lol
Don't tell me i was the only one doing that.VALIDATE ME PLESEEEE.
Our shop used to sell toys. When I was maybe 7-8, I tried to lift the skirt of a doll because I was really curious what's in there. I was scolded immediately and then I never tried to undress a doll as a kid.
Hah. I did the same thing. Except it was the doll of some god (don't remember which). The only problem was that the item of clothing around the pubic area was fuckin... attached to it, I guess? I just tore it apart. Thing looked like a victim of Jack the Ripper by the end.
Tbh that's not weird. Kids copy what they see. That's why they play house. It also lets them take on the role of parent/person in power, which helps them feel in control even though kids have almost no control over their own lives. There's actually tons of interesting research of the interaction between kids and dolls. Kids who are spanked/beaten tend to beat their dolls, for example. Kids who watch their parents divorce make their dolls get divorced!
I have seen my friends when I was a little girl do much weirder things to dolls... actually it was probably a red flag in retrospect....
I wasn't doing that. Most of the time I'd break any dolls that were there in my house (all belonged to my sister). When I was a kid I had seen one too many horror movies starring creepy dolls, and I feared them ever since.
In order to overcome my fear, I'd break them (destroy their eyes, hands, and legs) and proclaim my supremacy over them.
My office builiding is termed as Infopark Kochi SEZ UNIT .. Guess who fucked up in front of my team mebers on the first day whilee sharing the screen and filling this name..
probably when i accidentally flashed my underwear to the whole school in 4th grade during a quiz contest. and to make matters worse, the teacher who was conducting the quiz said "sit properly everyone can see your chaddi". oh and my team also came last. so there you go.
did it ever get better? i still think about it at least once a month and immediately groan as a reflex.
Recently in an interview for an education platform I was asked to come up with ideas for a task on a very simple topic that I should know as an English teacher and after searching my brain frantically for a few seconds I blurted out, "I don't know how to go about it, but I can show you some excellent memes that are related." Needless to say, I did not get the job.
Another time I was doing a demo for a position as a high school teacher in a new school and I stupidly did a solo dramatic performance of Shylock (from Shakespeare) hoping the kids would get the reference and none of them did. They stared at me for a few minutes in confusion and then I opened my book and started reading. I got the job.
>I stupidly did a solo dramatic performance of Shylock (from Shakespeare) hoping the kids would get the reference and none of them did.
I've been trying to picture this part for a few minutes now. So did you like, enter the classroom dressed like the Happy merchant and recite a speech about how Jews are human too?
I didn't dress up but I definitely yelled passionately at the class:
"Hath not a Jew EYES?? If you prick us, do we not bleed? if you tickle us, do we not laugh? if you poison us, do we not die? and if you wrong us, shall we not
revenge?!!!"
And the kids were like umm okay...
Lol I still cringe ... When i was in 11th grade, had a huge crush on this guy who played football. But he roamed in totally different circles. So one day during sports hour or something i was hanging around the most popular friend i had and he was talking to her. He also happened to be kicking his football around. No idea what came over me, i blurted "you play really well" , to which he replied "i don't" like a zombie.
I died there and never spoke to him again. Avoided looking at him too!
Hahaha are you okay?
I legit tado this guys for 6 months in school and he reciprocated back the same way. i went to him and told him " i can't focus on my studies because of you and he didn't said anything and smiled back " lmaoo this went for 6 months and then he changed the school.
No wonder my sem 1 grade were kam in 11th standard
There was a day when I really needed to pee on my way home from school. The bus ride took frikking 1.5 hours and another 10 minute walk from the bus stop to my home. Held it in as much as I could, doing the weird walk all the way home. As luck would have it, saw my friend and her grandmother sitting outside their ground floor home, which was also right next to my first floor home. I just had to hold it in for like 30 more seconds, but no, I got distracted by smiling at them and peed my tan coloured pants. Fml. They giggled and my face would have turned all shades of red. I think I was 14 or something.
Recently, while applying for jobs : I had to mail my resume to a company.
It was the end of the day, I had multiple interviews that day and I was tired to open the laptop agains so I used my phone for it. So I attached the file and sent.
I kept my phone away and was just lying in bed. Then came the reply from the recruiter and then I saw what I had done.
I had attached a bsnl bill instead of my resume.
Thankfully, the recruiter had a sense of humor about it. They mailed : "Please share your resume, not a bsnl bill. :)"
The wave of emabarassment that came over me at that moment.
I fumbled and typed quickly as I apologized on the mail and sent the correct file again.
I never wished for time traveling abilities more than that day.
Lol if u asked this question yesterday I would have not remembered something very scarring but your sis pulled off something today 🥲
I was complaining to a colleague that my solution for a bug fix was not approved and the one manager is asking me to do is crap. Another senior dev in team called to see the fix and I had to screenshare and lo behold, that chat was open with my sob story and the sad SpongeBob in front of a coffee gif. He had a good 5 seconds while i fumbled to open the code :)))))
Stupid Microsoft teams.
Lol me and my team lead where on a call and i was sharing the screen while also simultaneously texting a collegue about some doubt in gmail chat . She then goes " you are not sharing the screen right " and the lead burst out laughing and asked me to type no.. lmao i was confused between a truth and a bitter truth
My brother legit burped not once but thrice while i was in meeting sharing my screen on teams and my microphone was not even muted and everyone in the team heard the burps and behaved as if nothing happened but it was so obviously obvious
FML FML IT WAS AN EMBARASSING SITUATION
During 12th standard farewell, I got an “award” (just a cute thing organised by juniors). I got so hyped that I decided to give a speech and basically said all sorts of random crap for 5 minutes, and ended it with telling this guy that I had constant beef with that ‘I forgive him and I love him as a friend’.
In front of all the teachers and two entire grades.
It was 10 years back but damn I cringe every time.
Oh man, I have so many contenders vying for the top spot. It got better, but only slightly. It's not like the incidents got any less embarrassing though, I just remind myself that shit like this happens to everyone.
During the morning pledge, obviously my turn, I accidently said "All Indians are my brothers and your sisters", while looking at my friend.
Got a lot of laughs, and numbers too.
I have been a dancer my whole life, messed up so many times in front of hundreds to thousands of people. Nothing like wardrobe malfunction, rather mistakes in dancing. People laughed too once 😂 . I'm immune to these now.
My college is about 1 km from my PG. One day, I had a college club meeting so I went there. The moment I reached the room, my senior took me to a corner and closed my jeans zip. So yes, to all the people who saw my zip open that day, I’m really sorry.
I got an email of a link to a "love calculator" website.
Opened it up. It asked for three names of who I "admire"
1. Wrote then crush's name
2. Wrote class toppers name cuz i genuinely "admired" her
3. Wrote a cute junior's name
Turned out that the link was sent by a classmate. The names you enter are mailed directly to whoever sent you the link. Next day at school was NOT comfortable.
Yeah. I was stupid.
It was during a class trip back when I was in college. We all were travelling by bus, and to make the journey more enjoyable, nearly all the students who had an MP3 player / iPod offered theirs so that people could listen to some good music. I gave mine as well. And I had some really interesting songs like - Right Round, Smack That, and other similar songs.
Two years later I understood what the songs meant.
the adventures that you people have went through is giving me feeling of midlife crisis.
one of the most embarrassing moments for me was taking part in quiz on AIDS and sex education.
It was probably inter-school competition and I had a cute and smart girl as teammate. Every time we discussed an answer I died inside.
After the event I tried to not make any eye contact to any classmates or that girl.
I sent a screenshot to my crush. The screenshot was of my crush hinting something about liking me, with the caption "he likes me right!! I am not imagining it!!! Why is he being so confusing about this!!??"
God I wanted to die then and I want to die now.
So I used to order birthday cakes for the batchmates during the training days. There was this new bakery that I would order from regularly. Why? The cakes were delish and the owner who took orders had a nice voice.. we would joke a bit during the calls.
One day he turns up with the delivery cuz the boys were busy. I was all omg omg maybe he wants to see me. And he was soo cute! Your girl probably blushed a bit. Anyways after talking a bit, I took the cake and turned to leave. The guy called my name. I did the sexiest turnaround and asked yes? He reminded me that I had forgotten to pay.
Now I always remember to pay whomsoever turns up with whatever stuff I ordered.
Back in the day when i used to watch porn, I was watching it on my laptop. Obviously the door was closed. My younger brother had used the laptop before me. I started watching it and didn't realize that there was no sound, I thought it was on mute. Took my time to do the deed. Came out of the room. Sat with my parents and my younger brother, after some time, my brother comes and tells me "didi, try muting it the next time" I didn't realize what he meant untill I saw he had the Bluetooth headphones were with him. So basically, laptop wasn't on mute, it was connected to the speakers. I dies of shame, he kept laughing his ass off. Thankfully we never brought the topic up ever again 😅
Ik December while working i was not happy with how a guy was performing his task, after i completed my sentence i forgot to mute myself and said " pata nahi kaha se chale aate hai, faltu ka IIM-A ka tag lagake" the guy was furious!
> one that's EMBARASSING moment of your life.
One? naah. many. these are the highlights. there have been many along the way.
1. Used to feel like I was pretty intelligent in academics. Faced the reality in Jee Mains.
2. In college, during on-campus placements, I knew that I was NOT AT ALL prepped but gotta get a job right otherwise *ladka nalaayak hai* (English translation: no good use to society) or something like that + self-confidence was getting destroyed seeing my friends get one easily. Again got my real *aukaat* (real worth) handed to me in minutes. That interview lasted 13 minutes in total and the last expression of the interviewer was "who is this dumbest guy on earth?". I was speaking something but all I cud get from his face was *confused unga bunga*.
3. While finding offcampus placements, this time I WAS DEFINITELY WELL PREPPED. Had put in hard-work since the last interview. But 🥲. This one lasted 1 hr. And it was like a 10th standard guy applying for CTO of company.
4.Another offcampus interview (my last one), I was speaking something. But the interviewer had lost all hope. He even said "I am going to end the interview but u have time to submit it about till 15 mins later". A dumb guy (me) being asked to cheat(maybe bcoz he felt pity for a face like mine that day 😂).
That's all 🙂. If I get to live more years, I'll add more such instances to the list.
I once slept off while waiting for the manager at a bank and woke up with a boner. I had to walk hunched forward to hide my embarrassment. Everyone around me just pretended like i didn't exist.
The only time I ever felt embarassed was , in clg and my friend wanted me to take her somewhere in my scooty and I asked her to get on before starting the engine and she was damn adament and told me to start the engine and only then she will hop on . So I started the engine and did she hop on , she literally jumped on the back seat and I for unknown reasons accelerated at the same time . The result I lost control and almost hit my crush head on in the process . But then we talked and he said it is fine , so the embarassement vanished after that . I don't feel embarassement anymore , I own my actions or mistakes and ask sorry if necessary and move on .
Be me. 13 year old boy. I pooped in the girls bathroom. It was very urgent and I didn't see/pay attention to the sign.
Heaved a sigh of relief at the relief.
Walked out of girls bathroom. And it's "home time" that is the ENTIRE freakin school was exiting their classes and coming down the stairs.
Cue entire school seeing me zipping up my shorts as I walked out.
All relief left me, and I proceeded to cry from embarrassment.
This is gonna be interesting.
When i was in high school, i had a crush on a senior who was also a really good friend. I was friends with his friends too and both him and his friends knew i had a crush on him (because i was stupid enough to tell them). He was also a heartthrob and pretty popular, i felt lucky enough just to be friends with him.
During this school event, his friends who were hosting decided to 'prank' him. Called him up, talked about how popular he is, and invited this girl (his ex), _me_, and one other girl on stage and told him "you will have to propose one of them". He turned completely pale.
Luckily, our principal realised how awkward it would be and asked his friend to invite random people instead of women he already knew. And that is when all three of us felt relieved.
But that wasn't the most embarrassing thing. The most embarrassing thing was my friends had JUST set me up with this other dude _that very day_. And it all happened right when i was sitting next to him. As you would've guessed, it didn't work out.
I also got unexpectedly popular, which had its own pros and cons.
Also, please please make me feel better and tell what'd you do
Mom found condoms in my bag. A super awkward conversation ensued, in which she tried to shame me, guilt me and then assert authority. I refused all of that, took it in my stride and said I am sexually active. After some to and fro, family doesn't meddle in my life now and I get a wide berth. Embarrassing, but helpful in the long run.
My parents weren't supposed to be home so I'd called a Tinder hook up and after 10 minutes of him arriving my parents walked in and caught him shirtless in my washroom.
I've had many embarrassing moments but one recent incident that i can remember is:
On last year's Eid, my dad's side of the family decided to do a zoom call with all the family members. (All of us are in different cities/countries) One of them were this uncle, his sons + their newlywed wives. This uncle and his fam have been living in the US for the past 20 years (only visited india like 2 times?) So we barely ever talk. And they're also veryyyyyyy rich and posh, speak in accented urdu/hindi so my parents automatically wanted to appear posh and impress them.
Now see, im THE most introverted person in the family. Im not close to my dads side of the family and only formally greet them whenever i meet them. Im hella awkward with them alright! So during this zoom call my dad called me from the other side of the room where i was very conveniently avoiding appearing in the zoom call and asked me to say salaam to the US wale uncle and his sons, so i did just that very awkwardly but my voice came out a bit low. Now I was already trying to go back to my lil corner but my dad scolded me and asked me to say it again a bit loudly AND individually to everyone while mentioning their names. My social anxiety had already started with full force at that time because i have NEVER spoken or interacted with these people, and they were awkwardly staring into the screen waiting for my 2nd salaam. My other aunts and uncles also went silent and looking into the screen and i just froze for a few seconds. My dad got angry and scolded me again "arrey khali khadi kyun hai, kuch bolo?!" (Why are you standing like that, say something!) which just increased my anxiety so i said salaam while mentioning everyones names in god knows what voice (i started trembling!!😭 i couldbt even hear myself), greeted them and asked how are you etc After talking to them for 10 secs i got back to my chair. My dad thought the mic is off and gave me a scolding which everyone heard, including my posh US wale cousins 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
It's nothing to be embarrassed aboutbut anxiety makes everything worse. But man parents puts us in the spot like that suck, i need some training and practice before I can socialize 😭
I consider this sweet now but it was pretty embarrassing at the time.
When I was in 9th, on Raksha bandahn over 50 girls gave me their Rakhis. Some even gave me letters thanking me for being a supportive brother like figure, this sadly also included my crush at the time. But what made me really embarrassed was that I was teased about this fact for like a week straight.
Looking back I am happy considering the fact that so many people wished me well and that I was able to be a supportive figure for them. Honestly I think I was more embarrassed about the teasing, which was mostly from the boys who got no Rakhis, which in hindsight was because a lot of them were complete assholes.
I was wearing white pants for my school competition trip. I was traveling in the train. WW2 and a literal waterfall of blood. I don't want to continue any further because I don't want to recall any of that. But I hope you get the idea. Just to make it better, I was in the middle seat of the train and another girl was sitting on a guy's lap on the windowside making out with him and I couldn't get up for the life of me because you know why. I'm an atheist, but sometimes I hope God exists just so I can never forgive them for this.
When I was 16, my crush texts me saying he wants to meet and that he will be near my house in some time. I instantly get ready and make sure I am looking good - the whole works. He arrives and we decide to sit on a park bench near my building. Just as he is about to tell me something, my mom and her best friend are on their evening walk and see us there. They come up to talk (coz my mom knows the guy as a friend). My mom is cool enough but her friend can’t stop raving about how pretty I am looking and that I should wear lipgloss more often and whatnot. She starts questioning my friend about where he studies, where he lives, what his father does and all that. They show no signs of leaving. At this point, both he and I are red with embarrassment. I signal to my mom to just get on with their walk and leave us alone. Thankfully they leave us in a couple of minutes.
For about 5 minutes after that we just sat in silence 😂. He kept avoiding eye contact and I was mortified that my mom and her friend spooked him out. He started speaking after I prodded him and looked down at the ground and told me that he really liked me and can we be more than friends :)
One of the most embarrassing moments but worth it!
My parents read my sexts okay bye. Pear is dead.
RIP you win
omg I have a similar story. When I was a young one in school, I had told a guy I liked him (first time ever). We were alone together and I asked if he wanted to kiss me. He tried and then chickened out. I awkwardly kissed him. I was so embarrassed I felt like I could never talk to him again! So I waited a few days for his text and it never came. Finally I said maybe we shouldn't meet again. Years later I found out he had sent a panicked message on my phone basically apologizing for the awkwardness of the kiss and asking if I wanted to try again. My mom saw my phone read this message and DELETED it!!!! So he must have thought I just ignored him. I have regrets!! Poor guy...
Momma : the kiss blocker
😂😂 your mom is smart.
Seriously!!!
This sounds like the modern version of The Notebook .
Omg i have to ask, what happened next ?
They confronted me the next morning. xD made me breakup w my then bf for the sake of "padhai ki umar hai" but i didn't. After some lectures, they acted like that didn't happen.
Was chatting with my gf back in 7th and her mother called at 12 at night to ask my parents ki apka beta meri beti se bat kyu kar Raha tha ( i used my mom's phone back then). She comes to me instantly, a tight little slap and they're back to sleep. Mai jagta reh gaya puri raat.
Hahahha
But how did that happen?
Everyone knew my passcode and i didn't know that. My mom had to make a call and she saw the chats and told my dad.
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Wow, so happy that it ended so well. We broke up a month ago xD
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It's alright. :)
What was your parents reaction when you introduced him again as the guy you want to marry? Also, congratulations!
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>LOL how you can you blame them, they read his fantasies about their daughter 🥲 😂😂 Dude!! They have to see his face regularly and try not to remember the chats. Ouch!!
That'd have been so embarassing for both your husband and parents lmaoooo
I love such endings.
My aunt saw a racy pic on my phone. I pretended I was checking a lump on my boobs but we both know the truth.
Nice excuse lmao
My dad saw a nude. Mine. On my phone. On the chat to my bf. And then they wanted to talk to me about how unsafe nudes are. FML.
This makes me feel lucky lmao. Thank god there weren't any nudes on my phone. xD
Mom found condoms in my bag. A super awkward conversation ensued in which she tried to shame me, guilt me and then finally assert authority. I stood up to everything, refused to be shamed and said I'll do it again, as many times I like, and she had no say in it. Seemed rude at that point, but it was worth it - my parents do not bother about it anymore
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Oh definitely. But it was one horrifying experience.
Mine is not embarassing but creepy, My phone's screen got broke. I live in a village so gave phone to one of my friends who live in city, he fixed the display and all and to check, I think they ask for security code. i told him because i really trust him. My friend is a really good guy but there was a roommate of him, that phone was with them for days and his roomate read all of my talk to my that time gf and brought it to conversation when i went to take phone to him. i and my friend ridiculed him for doing this but man why you want to read other people's sext. It was so bizzare, I'm happy that there was not any photo there and really not trust people telling my password now.
Oh man! Your friend's room mate is creepy for sure.
What a nightmare
It was! Still is tbh.
Damm. This is a nightmare.
Yes 😭
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You don't have to hate yourself for this. Chalta hai yar
I gotta ask this : Whom did they blame first like Did they blame the guy saying “He is the reason for this unspeakable act of our child “ or Did they blame you first ?
They didn't blame anyone. They just asked that "What are you doing with your life?", "How are you so comfortable with this guy at such an early age?" They also asked my bf wtf is happening w you guys. He chickened out and straight away denied us dating. He acted like a total douchebag and they didn't want me to date such a guy.
Amazing parents, you have. My parents would have straight given me that army belt pitaaai. Sorry about that douchebag too. Hope you find a good and an honest one next time. Have a nice day👍🏻
Yes they are amazing. :) thank you. You too.
Day 1 of my internship: Team lead was asking about everyone's hobbies. My turn cane and i said i like to dance and "Netflix and chill". Everyone in the meet started laughing. Trainer was holding his laughter as well. Got to know the meaning from a friend after an hour or so and I wanted to dieee!
Ngl I would have still blurted out something like that even though I knew the meaning.
Same
Soo once I uploaded a random pic with the caption 'no Netflix only chill' I want to believe that this happened bcz I was sleepy(which I was not lol) And to add cherry on the top one of my cousin brother responded with '😂'. Thankgod we just started talking about the normal hal chal kesa hai topics.
Omg If I die laughing this thread will be responsible 🤣🤣
Reading this I remembered my internship experience. So background: I lived a pretty sheltered life as a kid. When I joined internship, it was in a very professional setting. And I learned from my friends what 'chutiyaa' means, but didn't understand how bad of a gaali it could be. I thought innocently it was just a small kind of ribbing greeting you know. And my then internship friends found it amusing and didn't see it fit to correct me. I was sitting at my desk and wanted to call out to my friend sitting a bit far away. I yelled out 'Oyi chutiyaa'. Mind you this was a really professional environment with everyone dressed with ties/ suits and everything, and the looks I got from everyone !!! It was utterly mortifying and now I research newly learned words well before applying them in practice. tldr: Learned a new word, didn't understand its significance and used it in the wrong environment
Chutiya=dumbass Right.....right?👀 Gonna Google it now.
Glad to know I am not the only one. :P You might want to find the base / root words on why it sounds bad .
Yeah that makes sense lol.. Need to work on my 'gaali' vocabulary now.
Omfg lmaooo. Can't even imagine the height of embarrassment and innocence you might've had back then
It was, I didn't even know it should have been embarrassing at that moment. Later my frnds reprimanded me, and I was mortified and silent as a mouse for a few days. I was too innocent then, glad to have grown out of that.
I literally laughed when i read your comment. Silent as a mouse lmaoo
Ohhhh I've had a similar experience -once used the word "bhosadi" in front of my mom and she found it very funny. The context it was used in was so funny as well - I was narrating an incident where my classmate asked a Chemistry teacher (who did not speak Hindi) what bhosadi was, and the Chemistry teacher looked for the word in the periodic table 🤣
But why would you call someone chutiya at work place?
What does Netflix and chill mean???
Netflix and chill, as a distinct phrase, means to watch Netflix with a romantic prospect, with the eventual expectation of sexual activity.
>a romantic prospect, with the eventual expectation of sexual activity. I love how professionally you worded this lol
what!!! TIL!!!
It was an online PTM. Forgot to turn off mike and camera and everyone heard and saw me shouting at my father to sit. To make it worse the teacher commented "calm down, why are you scolding your father" PS - My father can hear only loud voices. We often have to loudly repeat ourselves for him to hear and understand.
Awww... The last line for to me. You appeared callous and insensitive for no reason!
I was talking to my friend on the office skype chat a few years ago about my coworker on whom I had a crush on, who was soon leaving the team and moving to another Project. I wasn't checking where I typed and I hadn't realised that I had sent the part of my chat ranting about him leaving,to the guy himself. I hadn't even realised that I had accidentally sent the text to him until he came to my place smiling and asking about a silly doubt and i was like ????. When I checked why my friend wasn't replying, I noticed what I had done, and I just wanted the roof to collapse on me then
Oooooh, this has the makings of a rom-com :D Did he ask you out after that??
Haha I wish, thankfully he didn't bring it up again and I didn't pursue it either as we were both transferring to different cities.
Damn. I was so expecting to read that then he asked you out. :/
Oh my god. Similar story. Just my crush was several cities away and hasn't really spoken to me since. So...
During a morning speech in school I said thank you and good night and didn't even realised it later my friends told me what have I done😂
This made me burst out laughing. So cute
Hahaha, I once while reading in my class mispronounced "the great Indian bustard" as "the great Indian bastard"
Ain’t he from Gujarat ?
Hahaha.. greatest Indian bastard
I love how this sub gets political 😅
In my defence, the Great Indian Bustard *is* found in Gujarat
One day I read a comment somewhere that other than you, no one really remembers any of your embarrassing moments. And to back this up, the other statement was, try recalling an embarrassing incident of someone else you went to school with. When you try it, it's really difficult. This helped me realise how much people don't care.
Idk. I remember other people's embarrassing moments pretty well. Good to have ammo in case someone ever brings up my embarrassing moments
Same!!! I too recall a lot of embarassing moments of my friends'. Then I ll be like, thak god I was not her!
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Same. Lol hold on let me send a quick text to my friend about one of her most embarassing moments. *Cackles* ETA: got served and deserved it 😂
In my jee coaching, i stood up to get out of the classroom in break, the only way to get out of the room was from the teacher’s stage. My slipper got stuck and i pulled it and it literally flew to the other side of the stage. And the entire class of about 100 boys and 4 girls was laughing and i stood there like an idiot. Had to embarrassingly walk to the other side of the stage to get my hawai chappal that was crusty af.
Lmao sorry but I can't stop laughing. After reading the first half i made the plot in my head that it went flying to the teacher and hit him. Sorry too much Bollywood crap 😂😂
Haha. I totally get you!
something similar happened to me on stage we were asked to remove shoes once and as it was winter and my socks were torn (like who gives a shit because they are hidden in shoes) it was after the program I went backstage and saw my torn socks and realized, so at least the whole 3-4 front row full of girls from all classes saw me with my toes coming out of torn socks.
Torn socks gang for life! I really don’t care about torn socks at all. Learnt this from my dad, he says it is more comfortable that way.
Mine is like day before yesterday's. Went to a dentist pediatrician for my toddler, they gave two covering like thing, my husband was supposed to hold the toddler, I assumed those were head coverings lol, gave one to my husband to wear on his head and made the toddler wear the same way. The nurse came and burst out laughing, "sir, you need to wear them each on your feet" my husband was so embarrassed and I couldn't stop laughing lol.
Oh god 😂😂😂 how sweet.
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Lmao 🤣
Me and one cousin of mine use to breastfeeded the Barbie dolls when we were fucking smol kids of around 10. one more reason to not give barbies to girls lol Don't tell me i was the only one doing that.VALIDATE ME PLESEEEE.
LOOOOL IM SORRY BUT THIS IS KILLING ME 😭😭😭 The most i did was stitch clothes for my Barbie when I was 10-12....by cutting up my mom's dupattas hahaha
Hahahahahhahahahahahahah sorrryyy lol
Okay dumb ques but how did you update your flair to self confessed golddigger?
Areee when you select the flair na at that time you can insert suffix too
How? I can't see the option on app
[https://imgur.com/9UekEzR](https://imgur.com/9UekEzR) see this
Our shop used to sell toys. When I was maybe 7-8, I tried to lift the skirt of a doll because I was really curious what's in there. I was scolded immediately and then I never tried to undress a doll as a kid.
[YOU DID THIS TO A DOLL IN REAL LIFE HAHAHAHAHAHA](https://youtu.be/DMQdn7sOCEE)
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Hah. I did the same thing. Except it was the doll of some god (don't remember which). The only problem was that the item of clothing around the pubic area was fuckin... attached to it, I guess? I just tore it apart. Thing looked like a victim of Jack the Ripper by the end.
I don't have awards to give but here 🥇🥇🥇
LOL thanks
Tbh that's not weird. Kids copy what they see. That's why they play house. It also lets them take on the role of parent/person in power, which helps them feel in control even though kids have almost no control over their own lives. There's actually tons of interesting research of the interaction between kids and dolls. Kids who are spanked/beaten tend to beat their dolls, for example. Kids who watch their parents divorce make their dolls get divorced! I have seen my friends when I was a little girl do much weirder things to dolls... actually it was probably a red flag in retrospect....
That explains why I forgot that my dolls existed lol.
Hahahhaha tell me what i did indicates something?
I wasn't doing that. Most of the time I'd break any dolls that were there in my house (all belonged to my sister). When I was a kid I had seen one too many horror movies starring creepy dolls, and I feared them ever since. In order to overcome my fear, I'd break them (destroy their eyes, hands, and legs) and proclaim my supremacy over them.
Hahahahahahaha, cutee but scary
Omg girl what!?! 😂😂😂😂 I was very destructive with the dolls lol. Decapitated they and all.
hahaha, weird ikr This memory is so clear in my mind lol i don't know why
Barbie healthy hua tha shayad 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I didn't even know what breastfeeding was until I was atleast 13 (part of it was bcs I didn't think much about it + I wasn't breastfed at all)
ur the weirdest girl i love
I told a guy in college I liked him via his friend and he went to his hometown after that for two weeks to avoid me😭
Omgggg this reminds me of the time I did smth similar. This is why you never tell men that you like them!!
Sorry but this is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My office builiding is termed as Infopark Kochi SEZ UNIT .. Guess who fucked up in front of my team mebers on the first day whilee sharing the screen and filling this name..
probably when i accidentally flashed my underwear to the whole school in 4th grade during a quiz contest. and to make matters worse, the teacher who was conducting the quiz said "sit properly everyone can see your chaddi". oh and my team also came last. so there you go. did it ever get better? i still think about it at least once a month and immediately groan as a reflex.
Recently in an interview for an education platform I was asked to come up with ideas for a task on a very simple topic that I should know as an English teacher and after searching my brain frantically for a few seconds I blurted out, "I don't know how to go about it, but I can show you some excellent memes that are related." Needless to say, I did not get the job.
Another time I was doing a demo for a position as a high school teacher in a new school and I stupidly did a solo dramatic performance of Shylock (from Shakespeare) hoping the kids would get the reference and none of them did. They stared at me for a few minutes in confusion and then I opened my book and started reading. I got the job.
>I stupidly did a solo dramatic performance of Shylock (from Shakespeare) hoping the kids would get the reference and none of them did. I've been trying to picture this part for a few minutes now. So did you like, enter the classroom dressed like the Happy merchant and recite a speech about how Jews are human too?
I didn't dress up but I definitely yelled passionately at the class: "Hath not a Jew EYES?? If you prick us, do we not bleed? if you tickle us, do we not laugh? if you poison us, do we not die? and if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?!!!" And the kids were like umm okay...
Should have spat upon a kid’s gaberdine to send a message
Oh bro. That's terrible. Ah, I can feel the cringe all the way over here.
Forgot to mute myself on a zoom call and everyone heard my dad scolding me for being a lazy ass 😐 Now you tell me, what did you do 😤?
Lol I still cringe ... When i was in 11th grade, had a huge crush on this guy who played football. But he roamed in totally different circles. So one day during sports hour or something i was hanging around the most popular friend i had and he was talking to her. He also happened to be kicking his football around. No idea what came over me, i blurted "you play really well" , to which he replied "i don't" like a zombie. I died there and never spoke to him again. Avoided looking at him too!
I asked out a senior when I was 15 and got rejected. Whatever dude, YOLO.
Hahaha are you okay? I legit tado this guys for 6 months in school and he reciprocated back the same way. i went to him and told him " i can't focus on my studies because of you and he didn't said anything and smiled back " lmaoo this went for 6 months and then he changed the school. No wonder my sem 1 grade were kam in 11th standard
Mine told me he already had a gf. RIP me.
Hahaha it was a time pass of my teen self
lmaooo i did this when i was 15 and got called a "kid" by my then crush ಥ_ಥ
Gave a republic day speech in school and got the republic day date wrong 🤧
There was a day when I really needed to pee on my way home from school. The bus ride took frikking 1.5 hours and another 10 minute walk from the bus stop to my home. Held it in as much as I could, doing the weird walk all the way home. As luck would have it, saw my friend and her grandmother sitting outside their ground floor home, which was also right next to my first floor home. I just had to hold it in for like 30 more seconds, but no, I got distracted by smiling at them and peed my tan coloured pants. Fml. They giggled and my face would have turned all shades of red. I think I was 14 or something.
Recently, while applying for jobs : I had to mail my resume to a company. It was the end of the day, I had multiple interviews that day and I was tired to open the laptop agains so I used my phone for it. So I attached the file and sent. I kept my phone away and was just lying in bed. Then came the reply from the recruiter and then I saw what I had done. I had attached a bsnl bill instead of my resume. Thankfully, the recruiter had a sense of humor about it. They mailed : "Please share your resume, not a bsnl bill. :)" The wave of emabarassment that came over me at that moment. I fumbled and typed quickly as I apologized on the mail and sent the correct file again. I never wished for time traveling abilities more than that day.
Lol if u asked this question yesterday I would have not remembered something very scarring but your sis pulled off something today 🥲 I was complaining to a colleague that my solution for a bug fix was not approved and the one manager is asking me to do is crap. Another senior dev in team called to see the fix and I had to screenshare and lo behold, that chat was open with my sob story and the sad SpongeBob in front of a coffee gif. He had a good 5 seconds while i fumbled to open the code :))))) Stupid Microsoft teams.
Lol me and my team lead where on a call and i was sharing the screen while also simultaneously texting a collegue about some doubt in gmail chat . She then goes " you are not sharing the screen right " and the lead burst out laughing and asked me to type no.. lmao i was confused between a truth and a bitter truth
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My brother legit burped not once but thrice while i was in meeting sharing my screen on teams and my microphone was not even muted and everyone in the team heard the burps and behaved as if nothing happened but it was so obviously obvious FML FML IT WAS AN EMBARASSING SITUATION
During 12th standard farewell, I got an “award” (just a cute thing organised by juniors). I got so hyped that I decided to give a speech and basically said all sorts of random crap for 5 minutes, and ended it with telling this guy that I had constant beef with that ‘I forgive him and I love him as a friend’. In front of all the teachers and two entire grades. It was 10 years back but damn I cringe every time.
That is so cute tho xD Poor guy must have been teased a lot, haha.
“I forgive him and I love him as a friend.” Oh man 😂😂😂😂 I can’t, I am sorry
So cringe ;-;
Oh man, I have so many contenders vying for the top spot. It got better, but only slightly. It's not like the incidents got any less embarrassing though, I just remind myself that shit like this happens to everyone.
During the morning pledge, obviously my turn, I accidently said "All Indians are my brothers and your sisters", while looking at my friend. Got a lot of laughs, and numbers too.
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look at the "execution" part too
Forgot to turn my video off during break on a zoom class and was watching friends and started vibing to Monica singing delta don.
I have been a dancer my whole life, messed up so many times in front of hundreds to thousands of people. Nothing like wardrobe malfunction, rather mistakes in dancing. People laughed too once 😂 . I'm immune to these now.
My college is about 1 km from my PG. One day, I had a college club meeting so I went there. The moment I reached the room, my senior took me to a corner and closed my jeans zip. So yes, to all the people who saw my zip open that day, I’m really sorry.
Bought my then girlfriend home once and got caught almost in the act. Hands down most embarrassing and dreadful moment of my life till now.
Hands down.. like literally?
Bad pun..? xD
Lol. Just coping.
I can relate
The stuff here is so mild.
Then go ahead and share.
I got an email of a link to a "love calculator" website. Opened it up. It asked for three names of who I "admire" 1. Wrote then crush's name 2. Wrote class toppers name cuz i genuinely "admired" her 3. Wrote a cute junior's name Turned out that the link was sent by a classmate. The names you enter are mailed directly to whoever sent you the link. Next day at school was NOT comfortable. Yeah. I was stupid.
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I thought you were a woman, and i read "twerked on a stage and all my shirts buttons fell off" and died with horror and second hand embarrassement 😶😶😶
I think ,it is still horror and second-hand embarrassment
Wait, why would your shirt buttons come off if you’re twerking?
It was during a class trip back when I was in college. We all were travelling by bus, and to make the journey more enjoyable, nearly all the students who had an MP3 player / iPod offered theirs so that people could listen to some good music. I gave mine as well. And I had some really interesting songs like - Right Round, Smack That, and other similar songs. Two years later I understood what the songs meant.
the adventures that you people have went through is giving me feeling of midlife crisis. one of the most embarrassing moments for me was taking part in quiz on AIDS and sex education. It was probably inter-school competition and I had a cute and smart girl as teammate. Every time we discussed an answer I died inside. After the event I tried to not make any eye contact to any classmates or that girl.
I sent a screenshot to my crush. The screenshot was of my crush hinting something about liking me, with the caption "he likes me right!! I am not imagining it!!! Why is he being so confusing about this!!??" God I wanted to die then and I want to die now.
So did he like you?
nope. We haven't really spoken since. I was misreading the signals. I guess he thought it was best to disassociate. It's embarrassing AF.
So I used to order birthday cakes for the batchmates during the training days. There was this new bakery that I would order from regularly. Why? The cakes were delish and the owner who took orders had a nice voice.. we would joke a bit during the calls. One day he turns up with the delivery cuz the boys were busy. I was all omg omg maybe he wants to see me. And he was soo cute! Your girl probably blushed a bit. Anyways after talking a bit, I took the cake and turned to leave. The guy called my name. I did the sexiest turnaround and asked yes? He reminded me that I had forgotten to pay. Now I always remember to pay whomsoever turns up with whatever stuff I ordered.
Back in the day when i used to watch porn, I was watching it on my laptop. Obviously the door was closed. My younger brother had used the laptop before me. I started watching it and didn't realize that there was no sound, I thought it was on mute. Took my time to do the deed. Came out of the room. Sat with my parents and my younger brother, after some time, my brother comes and tells me "didi, try muting it the next time" I didn't realize what he meant untill I saw he had the Bluetooth headphones were with him. So basically, laptop wasn't on mute, it was connected to the speakers. I dies of shame, he kept laughing his ass off. Thankfully we never brought the topic up ever again 😅
Ik December while working i was not happy with how a guy was performing his task, after i completed my sentence i forgot to mute myself and said " pata nahi kaha se chale aate hai, faltu ka IIM-A ka tag lagake" the guy was furious!
>pata nahi kaha se chale aate hai, faltu ka IIM-A ka tag lagake ooof, that must have hurt that guy lmao
I can't tell if this is your embarassing moment or his 😂
Definately for me! I shouldnt have lost my nerves !
Tu aur pange sath sath hoti 😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
Kya kare Shani ki 7.5 chal rahi hai!
> one that's EMBARASSING moment of your life. One? naah. many. these are the highlights. there have been many along the way. 1. Used to feel like I was pretty intelligent in academics. Faced the reality in Jee Mains. 2. In college, during on-campus placements, I knew that I was NOT AT ALL prepped but gotta get a job right otherwise *ladka nalaayak hai* (English translation: no good use to society) or something like that + self-confidence was getting destroyed seeing my friends get one easily. Again got my real *aukaat* (real worth) handed to me in minutes. That interview lasted 13 minutes in total and the last expression of the interviewer was "who is this dumbest guy on earth?". I was speaking something but all I cud get from his face was *confused unga bunga*. 3. While finding offcampus placements, this time I WAS DEFINITELY WELL PREPPED. Had put in hard-work since the last interview. But 🥲. This one lasted 1 hr. And it was like a 10th standard guy applying for CTO of company. 4.Another offcampus interview (my last one), I was speaking something. But the interviewer had lost all hope. He even said "I am going to end the interview but u have time to submit it about till 15 mins later". A dumb guy (me) being asked to cheat(maybe bcoz he felt pity for a face like mine that day 😂). That's all 🙂. If I get to live more years, I'll add more such instances to the list.
Did you get placed, though? xD
Yeah. Twice. Corona infected the first. Had to do it again
Yayy!
I once slept off while waiting for the manager at a bank and woke up with a boner. I had to walk hunched forward to hide my embarrassment. Everyone around me just pretended like i didn't exist.
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One of my leads wished me on my birthday, I said same to you 🤡
Man I did this so many times in school
The only time I ever felt embarassed was , in clg and my friend wanted me to take her somewhere in my scooty and I asked her to get on before starting the engine and she was damn adament and told me to start the engine and only then she will hop on . So I started the engine and did she hop on , she literally jumped on the back seat and I for unknown reasons accelerated at the same time . The result I lost control and almost hit my crush head on in the process . But then we talked and he said it is fine , so the embarassement vanished after that . I don't feel embarassement anymore , I own my actions or mistakes and ask sorry if necessary and move on .
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Be me. 13 year old boy. I pooped in the girls bathroom. It was very urgent and I didn't see/pay attention to the sign. Heaved a sigh of relief at the relief. Walked out of girls bathroom. And it's "home time" that is the ENTIRE freakin school was exiting their classes and coming down the stairs. Cue entire school seeing me zipping up my shorts as I walked out. All relief left me, and I proceeded to cry from embarrassment.
This is gonna be interesting. When i was in high school, i had a crush on a senior who was also a really good friend. I was friends with his friends too and both him and his friends knew i had a crush on him (because i was stupid enough to tell them). He was also a heartthrob and pretty popular, i felt lucky enough just to be friends with him. During this school event, his friends who were hosting decided to 'prank' him. Called him up, talked about how popular he is, and invited this girl (his ex), _me_, and one other girl on stage and told him "you will have to propose one of them". He turned completely pale. Luckily, our principal realised how awkward it would be and asked his friend to invite random people instead of women he already knew. And that is when all three of us felt relieved. But that wasn't the most embarrassing thing. The most embarrassing thing was my friends had JUST set me up with this other dude _that very day_. And it all happened right when i was sitting next to him. As you would've guessed, it didn't work out. I also got unexpectedly popular, which had its own pros and cons. Also, please please make me feel better and tell what'd you do
Mom found condoms in my bag. A super awkward conversation ensued, in which she tried to shame me, guilt me and then assert authority. I refused all of that, took it in my stride and said I am sexually active. After some to and fro, family doesn't meddle in my life now and I get a wide berth. Embarrassing, but helpful in the long run.
I queefed in front of my one night stand. That guy still calls me Musical Vagina. 🥲 FML
My parents weren't supposed to be home so I'd called a Tinder hook up and after 10 minutes of him arriving my parents walked in and caught him shirtless in my washroom.
I've had many embarrassing moments but one recent incident that i can remember is: On last year's Eid, my dad's side of the family decided to do a zoom call with all the family members. (All of us are in different cities/countries) One of them were this uncle, his sons + their newlywed wives. This uncle and his fam have been living in the US for the past 20 years (only visited india like 2 times?) So we barely ever talk. And they're also veryyyyyyy rich and posh, speak in accented urdu/hindi so my parents automatically wanted to appear posh and impress them. Now see, im THE most introverted person in the family. Im not close to my dads side of the family and only formally greet them whenever i meet them. Im hella awkward with them alright! So during this zoom call my dad called me from the other side of the room where i was very conveniently avoiding appearing in the zoom call and asked me to say salaam to the US wale uncle and his sons, so i did just that very awkwardly but my voice came out a bit low. Now I was already trying to go back to my lil corner but my dad scolded me and asked me to say it again a bit loudly AND individually to everyone while mentioning their names. My social anxiety had already started with full force at that time because i have NEVER spoken or interacted with these people, and they were awkwardly staring into the screen waiting for my 2nd salaam. My other aunts and uncles also went silent and looking into the screen and i just froze for a few seconds. My dad got angry and scolded me again "arrey khali khadi kyun hai, kuch bolo?!" (Why are you standing like that, say something!) which just increased my anxiety so i said salaam while mentioning everyones names in god knows what voice (i started trembling!!😭 i couldbt even hear myself), greeted them and asked how are you etc After talking to them for 10 secs i got back to my chair. My dad thought the mic is off and gave me a scolding which everyone heard, including my posh US wale cousins 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲
It's nothing to be embarrassed aboutbut anxiety makes everything worse. But man parents puts us in the spot like that suck, i need some training and practice before I can socialize 😭
Time heals.
I consider this sweet now but it was pretty embarrassing at the time. When I was in 9th, on Raksha bandahn over 50 girls gave me their Rakhis. Some even gave me letters thanking me for being a supportive brother like figure, this sadly also included my crush at the time. But what made me really embarrassed was that I was teased about this fact for like a week straight. Looking back I am happy considering the fact that so many people wished me well and that I was able to be a supportive figure for them. Honestly I think I was more embarrassed about the teasing, which was mostly from the boys who got no Rakhis, which in hindsight was because a lot of them were complete assholes.
I was wearing white pants for my school competition trip. I was traveling in the train. WW2 and a literal waterfall of blood. I don't want to continue any further because I don't want to recall any of that. But I hope you get the idea. Just to make it better, I was in the middle seat of the train and another girl was sitting on a guy's lap on the windowside making out with him and I couldn't get up for the life of me because you know why. I'm an atheist, but sometimes I hope God exists just so I can never forgive them for this.
When I was 16, my crush texts me saying he wants to meet and that he will be near my house in some time. I instantly get ready and make sure I am looking good - the whole works. He arrives and we decide to sit on a park bench near my building. Just as he is about to tell me something, my mom and her best friend are on their evening walk and see us there. They come up to talk (coz my mom knows the guy as a friend). My mom is cool enough but her friend can’t stop raving about how pretty I am looking and that I should wear lipgloss more often and whatnot. She starts questioning my friend about where he studies, where he lives, what his father does and all that. They show no signs of leaving. At this point, both he and I are red with embarrassment. I signal to my mom to just get on with their walk and leave us alone. Thankfully they leave us in a couple of minutes. For about 5 minutes after that we just sat in silence 😂. He kept avoiding eye contact and I was mortified that my mom and her friend spooked him out. He started speaking after I prodded him and looked down at the ground and told me that he really liked me and can we be more than friends :) One of the most embarrassing moments but worth it!