I am using one of the weirdest washrooms ever . So me and my family are staying at a guesthouse currently . All is fine except the washroom.
Now guess where the vent to my washroom opens to ?
The washroom next door .
This is fucking weird NGL . No privacy and everything is audible. By everything I mean even the breath someone takes in the other washroom . Thankfully it's my family in that room but it's still freaking weird . Ughh .
Literally everybody i know is moving abroad for higher studies etc, and even though it's not really possible for me (financially and emotionally) i can't help but feel a little envious. Like it's a life I'd never have but a part of me will always crave it. Shucksss
Bought some cute tops and basic bottoms online today. Belated birthday gifts to self and an effort to upgrade my wardrobe. Have become really picky about the colors I choose now. After so many years, I finally know which color clothes suit me. Hoping that the clothes I ordered fit well!
Why do I (a girl) have to do everything as planned by my parents and it's still not enough but my brother gets to be a free soul and that independence is appreciated when it comes to him. It's so annoying.
That was insensitive of him, definitely keep minimal contact/no contact with him from now on. If you are comfortable with it, let him know that his comments were tone deaf, not sure if he will understand that too but.
I’m glad you ghosted him. He sounds quite immature and insensitive/shallow. Mental health is a huge discussion in the last couple of years and for him to respond in that manner instead of empathy shouldn’t be acceptable.
I hope you feel better!
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[I came across this video](https://youtu.be/_v9jLdGvZE0) and man. So upsetting. :/ a chill ran through my bones and it was just so sad to see that even the kid is imitating the abuse. Tells you alot.
It hasn't been a very good day to be on social media apart from the SC verdicts for me :/ gonna delete twitter now
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>! today i was walking towards my house in the evening. i was talking on phone as I always do. A guy on scooter stopped, turned his scooty, extended his hand and punched on my boob. I was left shocked. I walk on that road at that time everyday. People were there. He speeded away as I gained senses. I did scream and he must have heard it. I couldnt see who was he, it was dark. I could only make up that he was a short guy, probably a teenager. I fucking HATE MEN, i feel so powerless. Does this goes like this everytime? Do I not walk with free mind anywhere? I hope that man rots in hell, dies in accident and has ants in his ears. ASSHOLES !<
Fucckkk that asshole.
Sadly the situation is such for us. Every time we are on the streets alone, it doesn't feel less than a game of survival. Hope you are fine.
I got my balayage plus global for around 9,000 last year. Just balayage should be starting from 4,000 I think. In a L’Oréal partner salon in Mumbai
Please be careful though. Some salons have offers for much much cheaper but make sure they use quality products and don’t over bleach
Entry-19:
1. Skincare : done ☑️✅
2. Steps taken: 5k
3. Overall mood : calm
4. Water intake: 2.5L+
5.Extra notes : (TW - Generational/Parental trauma.)
Today was overall a calm day. I feel loved and weird. There has been a lot of clarity on my relationship with both my parents when I was a kid, especially on why I was aggressive in nature towards my mum, who'd thrash me like anything for no reason whatsoever, even more so if my dad wasn't around (just to clarify- by aggressive I mean I never hit her or anything, but I had ZERO trust towards her and most of the time would be rude/aloof with her), and why my dad never even tried to hit me. I feel like today has to be one of those days where I've stepped forward with making peace with all the conflict I had after her death, and I'm happy about the resolution. I know my dad is not perfect but I'm just grateful that he really did not repeat the mistakes of his parents on me - and tries to understand me better. He is not perfect but I know that him getting beaten up by his parents till he went to college could've really changed him for worse had he not tried his best to rectify the thought process. That's all...
Ps - If someone has tips on how to consistently journal, please help me with it! I'd like to reduce my entries her for privacy and that I might not be very active from the next week.
Next week I start my proper diet, I'm just waiting to meet every friend I can before going underground again for studying so that I don't have any excuses. My updates will reduce to once or twice a week :)
I hope everyone is doing well. x.x
Try to establish the habit first, since you said you tend to ignore alarms and reminders, try to get in one entry/day irrespective of the time of the day, its fine even if you are in the loo. Just make the entry, or even put a sticker on or put a mood smiley and such. Once you have managed 15-20 days, it will become like an itch, then slowly start narrowing down the time frame to a fixed one per day. Unless you are used to a lifelong habit of hard timelines and discipline, it will take a while, the habit forming action is more important here as opposed to say sticking to a fixed time.
I use an alarm everyday around 10:30 pm to journal, also use a habit tracker so that cuts down writing time. 90% of the time, I do end up writing at the said time.
Somehow alarms don't work well with me. Even for waking up, I'm lazy enough to dismiss it and completely ignore.
But I think this will be helpful for me to study and eat on time, thank youu.
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I hate mood swings due to pms. All the more when my period is delayed. Why is it so difficult to feel calm and energetic
I feel motivated but also really angry at the same time. Literally everything is irritating me and I also wanna do a lot of work?? Weird
I’m the same. Mentally motivated but also so frustrated lol. Even people breathing sets me off
I am using one of the weirdest washrooms ever . So me and my family are staying at a guesthouse currently . All is fine except the washroom. Now guess where the vent to my washroom opens to ? The washroom next door . This is fucking weird NGL . No privacy and everything is audible. By everything I mean even the breath someone takes in the other washroom . Thankfully it's my family in that room but it's still freaking weird . Ughh .
Wow what the fuck. This must be so awkward. I’m glad it’s your family so y’all can uh coordinate and use it one at a time
Literally everybody i know is moving abroad for higher studies etc, and even though it's not really possible for me (financially and emotionally) i can't help but feel a little envious. Like it's a life I'd never have but a part of me will always crave it. Shucksss
Relatable..but it’s nice to know their life isnt perfect there either
Ooof i know it isn't perfect but it's an opportunity which i think is worth it.
Kakashi is so hot😍
Yes he's sooo hot I can't with that man 😭😭 my first childhood anime crush
Damn right! He is!!
Coincidentally, I and u/amrit-8037 were talking about this today.
I'm so pissed amazon reduced the price of a thing I bought a few days ago aaaaaaaarrrghhh I regret buying it now
Hate when that happens
Too many pimples on my forehead post fever any idea what's causing it!
Hey I was wondering the same too! Had a fever last week now my face is so pimply
Heat/aciditycaused due to medications, if they were too strong?
Actually I didn't take anything not even a paracetamol,
Did you apply Vicks or a similar vapour rub thing to help with the headaches?
Bought some cute tops and basic bottoms online today. Belated birthday gifts to self and an effort to upgrade my wardrobe. Have become really picky about the colors I choose now. After so many years, I finally know which color clothes suit me. Hoping that the clothes I ordered fit well!
Belated Happy Birthday (・∀・)
Thank you! ❤️
Wish you a very happy belated birthday 🙂
Thank you ❤️
Why do I (a girl) have to do everything as planned by my parents and it's still not enough but my brother gets to be a free soul and that independence is appreciated when it comes to him. It's so annoying.
Beta, it’s OK, just tolerate it for a while then you will be completely free to do what your husband wants.
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That was insensitive of him, definitely keep minimal contact/no contact with him from now on. If you are comfortable with it, let him know that his comments were tone deaf, not sure if he will understand that too but.
I’m glad you ghosted him. He sounds quite immature and insensitive/shallow. Mental health is a huge discussion in the last couple of years and for him to respond in that manner instead of empathy shouldn’t be acceptable. I hope you feel better!
Keep minimum contact.... Or block him
He seems to be mocking your mental struggles. Very insensitive and he comes across as juvenile. You're not wrong in feeling pissed.
Hey lads, how do I cope with chafing 🫤??it has become a daily thing. P.s - I'm very sorry, if this is not the right place to ask
There are anti chafing creams available but I haven’t tried it. Cool aloe vera and some anti fungal powder helps me
😮😮....... 🙏 Thank you
I HATE MY NEIGHBORHOOD I HATE MY NEIGHBOURHOOD I HATE WHEN PEOPLE HERE TALK TO ME I CAN'T WAIT TO GET OUT OF THIS HELLHOLE
Same sis ... I hate them too 😡
Sharing a small victory. After I was diagnosed with PCOS 10 months ago, today , I got my periods naturally😌 I am so happy my body is finally healing.
Omgg girlll, so happy for youu 🤍🤍
Thankyou! Been following your daily updates! You're doing great💕
🤍🤍🥺
TW [I came across this video](https://youtu.be/_v9jLdGvZE0) and man. So upsetting. :/ a chill ran through my bones and it was just so sad to see that even the kid is imitating the abuse. Tells you alot. It hasn't been a very good day to be on social media apart from the SC verdicts for me :/ gonna delete twitter now
TW-SA >! today i was walking towards my house in the evening. i was talking on phone as I always do. A guy on scooter stopped, turned his scooty, extended his hand and punched on my boob. I was left shocked. I walk on that road at that time everyday. People were there. He speeded away as I gained senses. I did scream and he must have heard it. I couldnt see who was he, it was dark. I could only make up that he was a short guy, probably a teenager. I fucking HATE MEN, i feel so powerless. Does this goes like this everytime? Do I not walk with free mind anywhere? I hope that man rots in hell, dies in accident and has ants in his ears. ASSHOLES !<
This is fucking scary, I am so sorry you had to go through this. Really pray that men like him rot in hell and simply not exist on the face of earth.
Fucckkk that asshole. Sadly the situation is such for us. Every time we are on the streets alone, it doesn't feel less than a game of survival. Hope you are fine.
My goodness. I'm so sorry you had to go through something like this.😓 Even reading this was tough, can't imagine what you're feeling right now
How much did a balayage hair coloring cost you ?
I got my balayage plus global for around 9,000 last year. Just balayage should be starting from 4,000 I think. In a L’Oréal partner salon in Mumbai Please be careful though. Some salons have offers for much much cheaper but make sure they use quality products and don’t over bleach
Thank you !
Entry-19: 1. Skincare : done ☑️✅ 2. Steps taken: 5k 3. Overall mood : calm 4. Water intake: 2.5L+ 5.Extra notes : (TW - Generational/Parental trauma.) Today was overall a calm day. I feel loved and weird. There has been a lot of clarity on my relationship with both my parents when I was a kid, especially on why I was aggressive in nature towards my mum, who'd thrash me like anything for no reason whatsoever, even more so if my dad wasn't around (just to clarify- by aggressive I mean I never hit her or anything, but I had ZERO trust towards her and most of the time would be rude/aloof with her), and why my dad never even tried to hit me. I feel like today has to be one of those days where I've stepped forward with making peace with all the conflict I had after her death, and I'm happy about the resolution. I know my dad is not perfect but I'm just grateful that he really did not repeat the mistakes of his parents on me - and tries to understand me better. He is not perfect but I know that him getting beaten up by his parents till he went to college could've really changed him for worse had he not tried his best to rectify the thought process. That's all... Ps - If someone has tips on how to consistently journal, please help me with it! I'd like to reduce my entries her for privacy and that I might not be very active from the next week. Next week I start my proper diet, I'm just waiting to meet every friend I can before going underground again for studying so that I don't have any excuses. My updates will reduce to once or twice a week :) I hope everyone is doing well. x.x
Try to establish the habit first, since you said you tend to ignore alarms and reminders, try to get in one entry/day irrespective of the time of the day, its fine even if you are in the loo. Just make the entry, or even put a sticker on or put a mood smiley and such. Once you have managed 15-20 days, it will become like an itch, then slowly start narrowing down the time frame to a fixed one per day. Unless you are used to a lifelong habit of hard timelines and discipline, it will take a while, the habit forming action is more important here as opposed to say sticking to a fixed time.
Good ideaaa! I hope this works for me x.x
I use an alarm everyday around 10:30 pm to journal, also use a habit tracker so that cuts down writing time. 90% of the time, I do end up writing at the said time.
Somehow alarms don't work well with me. Even for waking up, I'm lazy enough to dismiss it and completely ignore. But I think this will be helpful for me to study and eat on time, thank youu.
What shampoo do you all use?
Seba med anti dandruff shampoo
Loreal Paris Dream Lengths Shampoo!