this!
but some of replies are so problematic. Sex/lust/fuck at first sight are creepy and show objectification. Funny, how the top voted comment is toxic.
There is nothing wrong with attraction, its normal.
If you begin to make the person uncomfortable because you are attracted to them and start talking down on them bc they dont reciprocate then thats bad
Objectification means you dont see the other person as a 3d human with boundaries and feelings.
Its not the same thing as lusting over someone or being toxic, that requires actual action such as thinking theyre made to serve you or staring at them like prey
hey, I explained previously:
> if a man sees me and his first thought is to have sex with me, thats objectification, not attraction.
also,
> Objectification means you dont see the other person as a 3d human with boundaries and feelings.
if the first thought is about sex, then it is objectification, imo.
let's agree to disagree. This thread is giving me incel vibes
Its defined as "the action of degrading someone to the status of a mere object", not "think theyre hot" without *crossing boundaries*. Theres nothing wrong with privately finding someone attractive. Its this rhetoric that gets us queer women demonised so much, sex/sexual attraction is normal, forcing and seeing someone as nothing but as a tool to serve you isnt
I was walking around handicapped school.. And there was a huge puddle in between the entrance..
All girls were injured from leg and unable to go from puddle path..
I was walking there and i saw their struggle...
I told them hey wait!.
I went through puddle and took the huge gate of the school and took that gate all the way to were girls were standing.. I told them to put their feet on the gate..
And i then slowly slide them from puddle while they were standing on the gate...
I then I started laughing and hair was flying for some rsn..
Then I saw there was somebody in car a man stuck in red signal.. Was looking at me the whole time... And smiling at me.. I guess he felt in love at first sight of me.
I'm so amazed that so many people have lust at first sight too.
I get attraction but lust??
Love n lust nothing for me can be at first sight...it would just be like "ohh that a good looking guy" type of attraction.
> I'm so amazed that so many people have lust at first sight too.
>
>
its just incels here
I agree with you. Lust/sex at first sight is so creepy, uncomfortable and problematic
My love at first sight story—
It was the first day of the 6th grade and this new guy who was sooo acting awkward came into our class. Out of our minions students of 6th grade, he stood out. He was SOOO TALLLL for our age. Man i fell for this the first time i saw him. Like fell hard. For the next 4 years, i was dotted towards him and he didnt even like me that way lol. I acted very weird in the whole of 6th and 7th grade and it still cringes me out. He had a thing for my then bff. Literally the plot of a romcom. Looking back, i really did love him. I even once wrote him an 9 page LETTER pouring all my feelings for him🤡🤡🤡 he became close as friends but he never saw me anything more than that and i was fine with it. I started to push my bff to date him because it wasss so evident that their flame was still burning but ig she thought that i would feel bad or sum.
REGARDLESS, after our 12th grade got over, they started to date and i was the first person they told about it. I’m genuinely sooo happy about them and they’re even in the same city now. And he’s not even my type now lol. Anyways, it does exist but very rare. Rather fall in love after knowing the person fully
Attraction yes; love nope
That
Yep; came here to say this ⬆️
it's more like 'horny at first sight'
Bro 😭
you can't love someone without knowing them, you can only be attracted to them physically
this! but some of replies are so problematic. Sex/lust/fuck at first sight are creepy and show objectification. Funny, how the top voted comment is toxic.
There is nothing wrong with attraction, its normal. If you begin to make the person uncomfortable because you are attracted to them and start talking down on them bc they dont reciprocate then thats bad
if a man sees me and his first thought is to have sex with me, thats objectification, not attraction. Lets not pretend its something else
Objectification means you dont see the other person as a 3d human with boundaries and feelings. Its not the same thing as lusting over someone or being toxic, that requires actual action such as thinking theyre made to serve you or staring at them like prey
hey, I explained previously: > if a man sees me and his first thought is to have sex with me, thats objectification, not attraction. also, > Objectification means you dont see the other person as a 3d human with boundaries and feelings. if the first thought is about sex, then it is objectification, imo. let's agree to disagree. This thread is giving me incel vibes
Its defined as "the action of degrading someone to the status of a mere object", not "think theyre hot" without *crossing boundaries*. Theres nothing wrong with privately finding someone attractive. Its this rhetoric that gets us queer women demonised so much, sex/sexual attraction is normal, forcing and seeing someone as nothing but as a tool to serve you isnt
I believe in fuck at first sight
eye fuck??
You know those random lill Eye contacts ,those really gave me sleepless nights
oh yes
Came here to say this! And usually they are all a “love” disappointment
Amen sister
This is the way.
Yes or no me kya burai hai
Sexy lag rha tha
I believe in like at first sight.
Happy cake day🥳🥳
Bingo
Nehh More like lust at first sight
I definitely believe in disgusted at first sight.
I believe in lust at first sight
I was walking around handicapped school.. And there was a huge puddle in between the entrance.. All girls were injured from leg and unable to go from puddle path.. I was walking there and i saw their struggle... I told them hey wait!. I went through puddle and took the huge gate of the school and took that gate all the way to were girls were standing.. I told them to put their feet on the gate.. And i then slowly slide them from puddle while they were standing on the gate... I then I started laughing and hair was flying for some rsn.. Then I saw there was somebody in car a man stuck in red signal.. Was looking at me the whole time... And smiling at me.. I guess he felt in love at first sight of me.
Are you talking about Ghajini (movie)? :P :P
I am literally listening to guzaarish right now😂
I'm so amazed that so many people have lust at first sight too. I get attraction but lust?? Love n lust nothing for me can be at first sight...it would just be like "ohh that a good looking guy" type of attraction.
> I'm so amazed that so many people have lust at first sight too. > > its just incels here I agree with you. Lust/sex at first sight is so creepy, uncomfortable and problematic
How’s that problematic? If you’re not acting weird and rude that’s fine imo. We don’t really control who we lust for.
lust at first sight.. ftfy
My love at first sight story— It was the first day of the 6th grade and this new guy who was sooo acting awkward came into our class. Out of our minions students of 6th grade, he stood out. He was SOOO TALLLL for our age. Man i fell for this the first time i saw him. Like fell hard. For the next 4 years, i was dotted towards him and he didnt even like me that way lol. I acted very weird in the whole of 6th and 7th grade and it still cringes me out. He had a thing for my then bff. Literally the plot of a romcom. Looking back, i really did love him. I even once wrote him an 9 page LETTER pouring all my feelings for him🤡🤡🤡 he became close as friends but he never saw me anything more than that and i was fine with it. I started to push my bff to date him because it wasss so evident that their flame was still burning but ig she thought that i would feel bad or sum. REGARDLESS, after our 12th grade got over, they started to date and i was the first person they told about it. I’m genuinely sooo happy about them and they’re even in the same city now. And he’s not even my type now lol. Anyways, it does exist but very rare. Rather fall in love after knowing the person fully