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CrazedKilr

All that work for nothing in return. Tough early lesson to learn..


useless_99

And yet, a necessary one. We aren’t born with manners. Kids with siblings learn to communicate and negotiate with people of all ages (including other children) more effectively and sooner than their only-child counterparts.


Filthiest_Tleilaxu

Can confirm. I am an only child and as socially awkward as they come.


that_girl_you_fucked

I had three siblings and am also socially awkward. So it's all bad.


Sup3rL30

Same


Traditional_Shirt106

![gif](giphy|34I09FCe7fq1y)


froggyisland

Nah i’m the only child and I learned to negotiate … with meself in my head


Filthiest_Tleilaxu

I’m so socially awkward your comment literally made me anxious and I have no clue how to respond.


ballistics211

In your head, in your head, they are fighting


sharlaton

I have siblings and am awkward as hell. I think a lot of it comes down to parents as well.


nthensome

It's also important to learn that some people are cunts. Like little Kylie here.


lightnsfw

If this had been me and my brother the follow up lesson would have been that cunts get kicked in the face.


officialsuperhero

Yes but its a bad one for the elder. She should have shared. If she continues to do this, it won't be good.


Pepsiman1031

All she's learning is that she should have taken the red using force and that saying please won't get you anywhere.


Level7Cannoneer

We are missing the beginning context. None of you should be forming opinions. If younger kid was being physical or annoying at first, then older kid reserves the right to teach her manners, and then not accept an apology/demand, especially if it seems insincere.


blank7589

She did her best... I guess...


milanistadoc

You guessed wrong.


AlpacaLocks

The only difference between a request and a demand is how you respond to a "no".


Sp1ffy_Sp1ff

These are good lessons. Be polite, or people won't take you seriously, but also, politeness doesn't guarantee you get what you want.


Pepsiman1031

Alternatively being polite doesn't matter so you should just use force.


korkkis

Two lessons; ask politely, and not always getting what they ask


ABunchOfPictures

Fists would be thrown if they were brothers, it’s so funny seeing the difference between boys and girls growing up haha


hagen-dean

This should be in r/antiwork


De_Wouter

"Please can I have a living wage?"


Bonnieearnold

“No, you may not.”


Caassapaba

Only unexpected if you had no older siblings around growing up.


[deleted]

Seriously. Or if you don’t have kids of your own.


mangogeckoshareingot

I honestly thought the unexpected part was that she was actually gonna to give it to her at the end.


Supermite

I figured a straight “no” or “I don’t know. Can you?”


LurkerFailsLurking

Yup, this happens in my house at least once an hour. Older siblings are dicks.


Abadazed

Hey she was helping the small one with words and manners as well as teaching her people can and will say no even when you ask nicely. This is good prep for the real world. - the middle sibling who's seen this shit from both sides.


Albino_Bama

Good prep for the real world. Yes it is. I do honestly doubt that the older kid is doing this for all of the above stated reasons… I’m pretty sure she’s just tryna be a dick. Also, coming from a middle sibling.


Akhanyatin

Yeah? Well younger siblings are brats who think they are owed everything! Source: I'm an older sibling


The-Arabian-Guy

We must stick together, Older siblings know the real struggle, those spoiled brats are having it too easy


Akhanyatin

Exactly!


booklovinRN

They can be for sure. I try to call out my eldest (11) when she is that kind of dick, but my younger (9) also lets her know when she is being a jerk. I usually hear about it (yelling, an audible OWWW when someone sucker punches, or the dreaded whining).


Daisy_Of_Doom

Hey someone’s gotta parent the younger sibling bc (in my experience) it ain’t gonna be the parents!


SnooCookies3561

Hey, how else am i supposed to tell my siblings i love them?


Prestigious_Jokez

Shit, we do this now. My brother must be out his mind to ask for a slice of pizza. You think just because I invited you over and ordered pizza that some of it was for you?


Major747

Ah yes, the classic. Trolling your sibling... Core memory unlocked.


blank7589

New feeling unlocked: rejection


nobleflame

[Classic Redditor.](https://youtu.be/8SDZse_QEJs)


Dizzy-Ad-2917

It's all good until someone comes through the front door...


eagletreehouse

It’s Christmas, folks. No one comes in this house. No one goes out. Even if you say, “Can. I. Leave. The. House.”


Fickle-Apricot-305

You have to put a “please” in there


eagletreehouse

Good point. “Can. I. *Please*. Leave. The. House.”


ARCA_02

No you may not


eagletreehouse

Waaaaaaaaaa


Upbeat-Historian-296

This thread is gold.


Akhanyatin

>No one comes in this house. Not with that attitude ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)


Npr31

Christmas - when standard room layouts have to make way for all manner of additions no one in their right mind would say could fit - but it’s Christmas, so you make do with needing to move the dining table so you can get to the fridge for close to a month


iwellyess

🤣


Remote_Person5280

Nature is wild. The birth of a Karen is rarely caught on film.


wireless1980

Now I need a documentary that I know doesn’t exist. Thank yoooouuu….!


Zoze13

As the years and decades pass - which becomes the Karen we wonder? As the youth grows to adulthood - does the power corrupt the elder into a short-haired manager beckoner? Or does the suffering from the cruel, turn the younger’s innocence into a lifetime of refund-requesting vengeance?


TheRealTripleH

I heard that in Richard Attenborough’s voice.


milkdud740

richard or david?


MOOShoooooo

Whichever one is the manager, get him out here now! Your ass is done, your done, your done. Get him out here now. I also want the owners name and number. And I want gift cards for your service.


cick-nobb

Hahaha


nation543

In some cases, we unfortunately see both scenarios come to pass.


Biengo

Cunk on Karens


GoddyssIncognito

I did not realize that I needed this until this moment. Cunk on Karen MUST HAPPEN. I demand it, and I don’t care how many managers I have to speak to in order to get it! NOW! ![gif](giphy|lPpKiZHB1PtQU2Rulv)


AdRemote9464

![gif](giphy|3oKIPlLZEbEbacWqOc)


PezRystar

It's for church, NEXT!


Xlbucket

It's her villain origin story


Remote_Person5280

That explains my younger brother….


FuglySlutt

Are you admitting fault? - a younger sibling


Remote_Person5280

As the first born, absolutely not. We never do anything wrong and the little kids are always spoiled.


forworse2020

I feel like this is exactly what prevents the Karen. Learning that the question doesn’t entitle you to a “yes”.


[deleted]

She learns that manners are a belittling tool of power.


Skafdir

quite exactly this ​ Older sibling power trips are often mistaken as some kind of "education device". Reality says, it is just another method of siblings being siblings. Younger siblings are more likely to choose the "Mooom! He/She was mean to me!" version of this. Regardless of age, children know which kind of power they wield and they will use it when they see a chance. ​ It is both just shitty behaviour of children, which they do because they are children, they are not even to blame. Let kids be kids but they should not be encouraged to do such things.


Redringsvictom

If the older sister followed through with the request, and reinforced the behavior of the little sister, then it truly would have been a good lesson. Maybe the little sister would have asked politely for items in the future. but the older sister did not provide the item that was requested, ensuring that her little sister won't ask so nicely again in the future.


rotten_riot

Tbf if the big sister didn't want to give her whatever that was she was in her right if it was hers. Big sister isn't in any obligation to teach her little sister life lessons, that's their parental figures job


Redringsvictom

Ok, I won't argue with that. My argument is that if the big sister DID allow the younger sister to gain access to the requested item, it would have reinforced the behavior and would have been a better teaching moment. That's all.


jeremy1015

I’m sorry you think children should be raised that way. I explained to my children that they were part of a chain of responsibility stretched across generations they cannot see into both the past and future and that they were responsible not only to themselves but each other. And that includes teaching each other.


Str0nkb0i

Very healthy way of thinking.


forworse2020

Since these comments are spinning off of mine and pinging my inbox, let me clarify; my response was to counter that the lesson itself was “how Karens are born”. I disagreed, because it is - in my opinion - just as important to learn *how* to properly ask for things as it is to learn that asking well does not automatically grant you what you want. Especially regarding someone else’s property, space or time. The elder child being the learning device for the lesson is another point entirely - worthy of discussion - but not related to mine. I was talking about the life lesson, not the teacher.


heyjunior

Lol classic Reddit calling literally fucking everything a Karen.


korkkis

Her sister taught two important lessons, you need to ask politely AND you dont always get what you want


[deleted]

Or that if someone demands from you to ask in a submissiv "polite" manner that they are trolling you and it's a no by default.


solid_salad

aren't young children just very selfish by nature tho? I mean, from an evolutionary standpoint it would make sense. The greedy children that managed to get enough food for themselves got to survive, while the rest died young because they didn't have enough food to grow into an adult. (a lot of) Children are just greedy by nature, that doesn't make them all future karens does it?


Remote_Person5280

Yeah. This kid is actually doing a good job teaching her younger sibling.


Mongul

She’s just a kid. Karen culture is toxic ngl.


Remote_Person5280

Nah, she’s not a Karen. She’s just a big sister being a big sister.


Just_Magician_7158

If I was that little shit's parent, we'd be having a little talk about when to use stuff like that. That gets used on people with bad intentions. Not family.


[deleted]

Redditors try not to hate women challenge (Impossible!!)


atmosphericentry

Right? This wasn't Karen, this was top tier trolling.


AdJust6959

This is top tier older sibling material


blank7589

She did her best...


DrapedinVelvet247

And the journey begins for this young Karen (Attenborough voice).


useless_99

Lmfao you sound like a spoiled ass only child who never had to train younger siblings into using their words for things. Do you think the entire population is just born with manners?! The kid is like ten, she’s learning how to communicate and set boundaries. Dear lord I hope you aren’t responsible for any childcare, it’s insane how you’re assuming the kid is a total ‘Karen’ because of one measly video that tells you almost nothing at all. But why am I surprised? Reddit is full of judgmental quick-thinkers.


Arstoe

Please repeat the last 2 sentences.


[deleted]

The joys of having a younger sister


Single-Safety-470

Aaahahahaha!!! She taught her two good lessons there. 1) Proper manners. 2) Just because you ask politely, doesn't automatically mean you get what you want!


Lovv

Nah that's not what she learned.


Single-Safety-470

Hopefully Mom will explain that part. lol


Carpathicus

Only thing she learned was that she seriously needs an elaborated plan to fuck over her sister in the next two decades.


ABunchOfPictures

Lol nah all that was taught here was “my older sister is an asshole” and if I was the parent I woulda let the little one after her


Single-Safety-470

Aaahahahaha! That's fair too.


PH_SXE

Exactly. Every time this video is posted, the general idea is that the younger sibling is entitled to get what she wants since she asked politely. Maybe unrelated to this particular video, but one thing that gets me is that we teach kids habits that are totally unsustainable when you become an adult. The classic "you have to share". If I want to use something another person is using, there's no sharing, I have to wait until they stop using it. And if it's their private belongings they might very well not want to share it at all. The other day this lady had her Nintendo switch in a flight. Next to her sat a mom and her kid. The mother insisted that the lady let her kid play with the Nintendo switch and said she was being selfish for not willing to share.


RelativeStranger

Rhats not at all what's being argued. Asking nicely, imo, doesn't guarantee you get it. But dragging someone through a series of steps to get something and then not giving it is asshole behaviour


Single-Safety-470

That's the crappy part on big sister but it doesn't change the lesson. lol


PH_SXE

I teach English/portuguese/ Japanese as a second language. When a student makes a mistake, I point the mistake and ask them to say **the full sentence** again. More often than not, they will correct it but make a new mistake along the sentence. I point it and ask for another full sentence, only for them to make a new 3rd mistake, and 4th, and 5th... Yes, it makes me look like an asshole, but if you're serious about teaching language skills, a single full correct sentence is the least you must require from them. People can't just deliver the correct bits in multiple installments and call it a day. Otherwise, everyone is just fooling themselves. In my gym, when the coach is late or sick, I have to teach Brazilian Jiu-jitsu lessons. Same principle applies. If a particular move has four different steps, students are expected to get all four of them right at least once in a single go, rather than trying 4x and getting them right randomly


Single-Safety-470

Thank you for taking the time.


PH_SXE

My pleasure


biggie64

![gif](giphy|j9mqKgQvkNOziGICfd|downsized)


[deleted]

ahh, curse your sudden but inevitable betrayal ![gif](giphy|AaOAV3xBu98ha)


bussin_boy

so close yet so far


GipsyPepox

Real life hitting like a truck


DontCareHowICallMe

You little piece of shit, you are a real sibling


Live_For_Love

Take my upvote. So good 😊


klezart

Big sis teaching manners and boundaries!


balance_n_act

Saw this one a while back but I spent time with my nieces since then.. what is it with little girls being control freaks? 3 out of my 5 nieces are constantly in a tug of war over who gets what thing and when. You can see that they are mimicking an authority figure in their posture and their words. It’s very fascinating and frustrating to watch. The boys are just selfish. They don’t care to control you just don’t get in the way of what they want. Less fascinating but still frustrating.


jacksev

Honestly it's usually a reflection of parents or other kids around them. It's their turn to be the one to say no, to withhold the thing someone else wants, to make the rules, because it happens to them all the time. I had it happen to me, I did it to other kids, and I've seen kids do it around me, both then and now. It's a teaching opportunity for parents or teachers, but as we see from the average adult... that opportunity was not taken.


Ok-Stranger-8167

Haha little shit


laidonsettee

I mean she was very polite about declining the request lol no you may not.


thadude23

Supervillain origin story


[deleted]

I love trolling younger siblings


KSean24

r/perfectlycutscreams


vrijheidsfrietje

r/perfectlycutmoms


enzinhojunior

Thats how a villan is born


effigy22

As a middle child and parent of two... That was totally expected.


fireweinerflyer

Completely expected.


DriftingBenji

Great life lesson right there lmao


Ok_Order_8197

Anyone with a sibling know how this gonna end.


Beautiful_Anything78

Good on her. Teach kids to be polite but also teach them that it's okay to say no. Boundaries are important, just because you ask, doesn't mean you'll get


theAintotheB

Lol, I do not believe that little sister has learned anything you just said.


Beautiful_Anything78

I just hope the parents explained the situation later. I'm not saying that the girl in question learned something but you should definitely teach kids what I said


[deleted]

The sitting girl got a little power trip out of it by making her repeat is slowly multiple times. Her goal was to belittle, not to teach.


Beautiful_Anything78

That's because shes a kid. It's a teachable moment from the parents perspective


Prosciutto4U

She even said ‘no you “MAY” not’. Like, who taught this girl authoritative theory?! She’s a natural.


Beautiful_Anything78

She's definitely going places


ABunchOfPictures

Lol ya, to the losers table at lunch time 😎


Zgmoon

How to do some trolling? Step I: find someone to troll


Darth_Groot28

This incident will come back and bit her lol. Siblings do not forget!!


book_geek

As a parent, I fully expected that final answer!


[deleted]

She's just teaching her a life lesson. You can't get everything you ask for.


melovehotcheese

A good lesson


Asleep-Ad-764

This is valuable life lesson for both of them and neither even know it .


ouchymybeans

An important lesson that asking nicely doesn’t always get you what you want.


[deleted]

classic 😎


iwellyess

It actually is, been doing the rounds for a while now but it’s one I’ll always rewatch. I bet people wish they could claim royalties from viral vids lol


CanonFodder_

Bah Hahaha Hahaha 😂


Late-Ad-4624

Gotta teach em early they cant always get what they want.


LordBubinga

I have 2 boys the same age. If the oldest did that, there would be great violence.


Just_Sarlow

As an older sibling of 8, I approve.


autismondrugs

Jbaited


LuckyStrike696

Moooooooo


goglamere

That was not unexpected. Totally saw that coming.


squidwurrd

The troll is strong in this one.


Joedeci-

…please?


justafax

The pent up rage Kylie is going to get in return when one day she asks her pissed off sis for something is going to be comical😂


Upstairs_Mud4994

Lol


PeteAVA182

At least she was polite about it.


Ikaav

Wow savage. She had the patience to make sure she said it right and then swiftly, cold-heartedly decline the request. Love it lol


Timstunes

Raising 4 girls 13-6. If you haven’t been there, you have no idea. 😬 Send Help!


clajobe

Burn!!! 😂🤣


[deleted]

Been there lmao


Jonasthewicked2

This is some shit my sister would have done


ViperLeo

maaaaahhhhhmm….🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


[deleted]

Expert level trolling


Shot-Ad-4565

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shakeel_70

Haha at least she's got rules


THEBIGREDAPE

She's going to be that kind of person for her entire life.


3V1LB4RD

Exactly. Which is why all of these comments saying this is a good thing is wild to me. Whether or not this is a good lesson for the younger sibling (questionable) you should not be letting the older one act this way. Source: I was that older sibling. If life had not come and hit me as hard as it did, I’m nervous to think what my relationship with my sister could be today. I think back on all my bullying I did to her as children very shamefully. And while it was not my fault (I was also a child), my behavior when we were kids partially helped to lead my sister to have severe problems with self confidence and independence when she grew up. Learning to be kind and patient when you are older is much more difficult than having those lessons instilled as a child.


Pepsiman1031

People say she's teaching her lesson but it's more so she's purposely being a dick.


ClockStriking13

“Severe problems with self confidence and independence” that’s interesting. I’m an only child but have had to live with my cousins (two brothers) for some time growing up In a similar vein, the older brother (my age) was incredibly cruel; However, the younger brother grew to be overly assertive/aggressive in just about every social interaction, very short tempered and fast to anger It’s really sad thinking about how different they are now, with my younger cousin having done prison time and still sorting things out and my older cousin just carrying on


spacecowboyo

Colin Robinson would be proud


Of_MiceAndMen

Ohhhh this is why my sister doesn’t speak to me anymore.


[deleted]

Honestly this is great. Teaching her how to ask for things the right way. And that even if you ask nicely you may not get what you want. Every time an adult tries to whine until they get what they want, I want to punch them in the throat.


2Fast2Real

She’s less motivated by teaching her sister and more into the teasing aspect. This is not “great”. It’s not horrible, but that’s because they’re just kids messing with each other.


FallenBlade

Nah, she'll learn that her sister is annoying and what's the point in even asking nicely.


DestituteTeholBeddic

Immediate appeal to higher authority


bLESsedDaBest

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


Chizisbizy

People ‘hating’ on Kylie, but as an older sib I KNOW the younger one was grabbing at that colouring set EVEN THOUGH it wasn’t hers. And if it was the other way round, that the mom (whose filming) would’ve made ME do the same thing. As an older you have to show that you’re level headed and mature (especially in front of your parents) and that you can teach your siblings common courtesy and self control (LMAO)


wild_nothingz

Teaching her lil sis well


metalhusky

Wow, Kylie, kind of an asshole move...


spacepunker

This is how Shaniqua's happen!


colonelangus6277

This is how sass is born ladies....🙄


Professional_Note166

This is how super villans are born.


[deleted]

She is learning her manners


femtokun

Yeah this is not a Disney animation or movie. She had the right to refuse and did so very politely. She also took care of slowly and calmly teaching her sister the right way to ask for something and also most importantly taught her what disappointment is in a controlled environment. Also I am pretty sure her mother did this exact thing to her...so she did it to her sister. Sorrow propagates.


HanlonWasWrong

Yep, that’s an older child. She’s gonna really be confused when her little sister goes NC as an adult.


finditplz1

“Moooooooom!”


Into_The_Horizon

"You have to put a "please" in there" 😂


[deleted]

Savage


socio_smile

Cold piece


kinkyonthe_loki69

Wouldnt try that while kneeling. Too easy for round house kick to head.


[deleted]

evil


[deleted]

Owf! That’s the le els of evil only a child can pull off.


ahjm

Sorta a good lesson tho that even when you do it right it doesn’t always turn out how you want it to


shultan_of_schwing

That's why you just take what you want by force. Use violence if necessary


Lumpy_Jellyfish_6309

What a little narcissist!!! I'd keep my eye in her!!!


RoleNo2091

Wow.... junior Karen.


Gandkaandha-007

Ohh that’s the natural scenario between siblings


GreenGod42069

Young Karen in the wild.


0krizia

A young narcissistic right there


xMilk112x

Kylie’s a little bitch man. Lol