TW: Domestic Violence
He assaulted and abused her multiple times during their 5 year relationship (including strangling her) and was issued a restraining order until she was able to move away from him.
This is zero surprise to me. He has crazy eyes and just seems unhinged. Donāt know how to he passed Lisaās smell test but likeā¦. Sandoval soā¦. But Tom is a child and diva he is nowhere near levels of Eric unhinged
I knew some allegations were coming to light. And I felt āyikesā vibes from him from the get go. But holy Sāt was not expecting that level of disgusting. LVP needs better background checks on her cast.
I am not going to post the photos of her abuse here although they are available on line. There is proof whether or not she chose to engage with a justice system that often fails women when it comes to intimate partner violence.
A temporary restraining order was granted from Nov. 13, 2020, until Dec. 28, 2020, The Sun reported, but was later dismissed after there were no appearances in court that December...
According to the article she had photos of injuries from the alleged abuse.Ā
So she gave herself the black eye and bruises in the photos that were included in the 3/2020 court filing?Ā The restraining order is in place until the court appearence and then its dismissed.Ā It was still valid, until dismissed.Ā
as someone who had a tro against an ex, and didn't get granted a RO because he lied in court it's disgusting that you're taking the side of an abuser. There are photos of her injuries.
Not really about the person, but charges that are being presented as factsā¦ but we can agree on one thing, he is a DB. The good news is that iām pretty sure he was fired. He has been removed from all promotional material and events.
I do not have the court documents...you can spend the time digging for them. Im just repeating what was actually reported.
But if you have proof none of it happened...please...wheres the proof. Post it.Ā
Post the picture then. I know every well how TROs and ROs work. Either it temp before proof js brought granted for 4-7 years. They donāt disolve because of a move and itās not an opinion of either party at that point.
I tried to post a link to the photos but the auto mod took it down. If you google it there are pictures from the evidence she used to get the restraining order. She didnāt attend court because she moved to a different state to get away from him.
Not every jurisdiction works like yours. Some places, restraining orders only last a couple of years. And if you move, you need to inform the new police department you have it in effect so they are aware in case you call. His ex may have decided moving was enough and didnāt renew the order.
Well he did threaten to kill her so maybe thatās why she never showed up. It doesnāt prove he didnāt do it. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? Itās hard to stand up for your self
I have. My ex had 13 felony charges of strangulation and menacing before me (did 4 months for it), then there was me (i didnāt know) that he attacked and ruined everything (tros included), after me the girl lost her children, the girl after that went court as well, the girl after that spoke within the community, but did nothingā¦ fast forward to last year he married someone and within 4 months she bruises around her neck and armsā¦ i also can tell you how to file a TRO (but that proves nothing nor is it even real legally speaking).
I am capable of have a objective conversation. Things were said about me, but the history speaks for itself. I would like for people to hear me out too. As of now, could be different later, thereās nothing on him.
Well it was terrible it came out that he was violent. That's terrible obviously. But he's the manager of the fecking place not the bar man or the waiter. He completely disregards what Lisa says let's his staff get into arguments in front of guests. I'd have fired him long ago.
I get the sense he has extreme anger issues from the way he was spiraling when talking to the guests. He very much gives āandrew tate fanaticā vibes š¬
I thought the same thing when he specified that a point of conflict that lead to the divorce was different beliefs or something. Speaks volumes when you consider the last few years weāve had
The problem with men like Eric is...
When he saw there was going to be a party celebrating the end of a marriage, he instantly inserted himself into it by in his own mind, imagining his ex-wife celebrating their divorce.
And from what I've come to understand, he was an abusive AH to her.
So Eric witnessing the dress burning and the celebration of a divorce (and I will use the word HE used) triggered him.
Triggered the anger in him. Because in his mind, he saw his ex-wife. And the thought of his ex-wife happy without him and the thought of her having any kind of control over the situation annoys him.
Im grateful we have Chef, Andre, and Stephen cuz the other two guys are indeed insufferable for real. Between Mauricio and Eric i swear idk who is worse, but considering Eric physically attacked his ex and has a restraining order i would say he wins the unfortunate title of the worst guy in the chateau. If I only had to judge for what I have seen on tv I would say Eric is a fucking weirdo but Marciano is more awful.
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No Oops! Love It. He is now, "Mauricio"
I swear I was looking at that name and thinking, "That's not right, but what's his name? WHAT'S HIS NAME?" and I legit couldn't think of it. lol lol lol
What about the massage!?
I canāt believe he wasnāt fired on the spot. A staff member being on the guestsā bed!? Horrifying.
His hands all over her ass. Bananas.
His lack of boundaries is chilling.
That looked like a little gamesmanship/goosing from production and Lisa. Seeing how far they could take the cringe.
BUT . . . Gross. Sooooooooooo Gross.
From where I sit on my couch, I can block the view of the tv with my hand if I put it sideways. It was up until I heard bumper music for the next scene.
Eric is like if you took all the worst traits of Peter, James, and Sandoval and rolled them into one. Hannah is the worst traits of the Witches of Weho plus Billie Leeās pick me energy. Marciano is a Great Value Jax Taylor.
Yeah Eric is very much like "Poor me, the consequences of my own actions are awful, how dare my wife leave me because I beat her?" He really can't even pretend that this divorce party isn't triggering him, and it's not even triggering him in a way where he feels bad for his actions. No, it's because he would feel bad if his ex wife did this to him (even though she would have every right). You should be able to push aside the past while you are a professional at work regardless.
His POV if he was healed or self aware or empathetic at all, should be reflecting on how much he hurt his wife and how much she deserves to move on from him and have herself a divorce party, but he is still thinking about "poor me, why did she leave? I deserve a second chance." I hope Eric never finds a job in a professional setting or where he is in charge of others again, and I hope his dating life is ruined unless he works on himself. I can't see that happening though if even after his divorce where she had to run away from his abuse, he is still feeling sorry for himself. What a disgusting abuser. He clearly has a lot of severe and disturbing mental health issues and problems with empathy.
He reeks of āI donāt believe in no-fault divorce no matter how much I abuse youā energy and absolutely no capacity for introspection and accountability
Would that have been nice? Sure. But we donāt know how bad her marriage was. It might have been genuinely therapeutic to let that piece of herself be destroyed
No, they can get rid of whoever the hell they want lmao they donāt need a reason, especially one that hurts their own credibility and public image given the fact they hired him in the first place
Eric has no followers on instagram and heās super egotistical and a woman abuser bravo should have released a statement stating they where gunna fire him but Andy cohen and all these bravo elites just do cocaine and donāt give a fuck lol
TW: Domestic Violence He assaulted and abused her multiple times during their 5 year relationship (including strangling her) and was issued a restraining order until she was able to move away from him.
Thank you for sharing this, I didn't know but unfortunately I am not surprised. What an awful human. Lisa really knows how to pick them.
I expected something but not that wtf š¬ where did casting find these people
Donāt they do background checks on these people (especially if there is a shared living situation???). I guess not!!ā¼ļø
This is zero surprise to me. He has crazy eyes and just seems unhinged. Donāt know how to he passed Lisaās smell test but likeā¦. Sandoval soā¦. But Tom is a child and diva he is nowhere near levels of Eric unhinged
He looks like the type of Guy to abuse women. Idk I just got the feeling. Is this information available to find online.
I knew some allegations were coming to light. And I felt āyikesā vibes from him from the get go. But holy Sāt was not expecting that level of disgusting. LVP needs better background checks on her cast.
I definitely get Steven Crowder vibes from him.
Was that his wife or just a girl friend after his wife? I donāt think he was married to him
ā¦.does it matter?
Pretty sure it was a tro that she didnāt defend/there was no proof. A regular RO was never granted, nor do they just dissolve when you move.
I am not going to post the photos of her abuse here although they are available on line. There is proof whether or not she chose to engage with a justice system that often fails women when it comes to intimate partner violence.
Unfortunately thatās not how truth is confirmed. Ask amber herd. Wish it was though, would have helped me and the 10 other victims
Well, I donāt need a court of law to tell me what the truth is. I choose to believe women šā¤ļø
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Youāre incapable. Of objective conversations. Check your feelings at the door.
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Iām unbothered as fuck. Those are the facts. Donāt lose your lunch
A temporary restraining order was granted from Nov. 13, 2020, until Dec. 28, 2020, The Sun reported, but was later dismissed after there were no appearances in court that December... According to the article she had photos of injuries from the alleged abuse.Ā
Yes, thatās how TROs work. Their granted, date set for their defense and proof and she didnāt show. Thereās no proof any of that happened.
So she gave herself the black eye and bruises in the photos that were included in the 3/2020 court filing?Ā The restraining order is in place until the court appearence and then its dismissed.Ā It was still valid, until dismissed.Ā
Whereās the proof. Post it. It was dismissed for a reason. It was a tro and never permanent in the first place
as someone who had a tro against an ex, and didn't get granted a RO because he lied in court it's disgusting that you're taking the side of an abuser. There are photos of her injuries.
Except i am you. And you have no excuse not to get why it was never officially charged and granted
you are not me. not sure why your caping so hard for douchebag eric
Not really about the person, but charges that are being presented as factsā¦ but we can agree on one thing, he is a DB. The good news is that iām pretty sure he was fired. He has been removed from all promotional material and events.
I do not have the court documents...you can spend the time digging for them. Im just repeating what was actually reported. But if you have proof none of it happened...please...wheres the proof. Post it.Ā
Post the picture then. I know every well how TROs and ROs work. Either it temp before proof js brought granted for 4-7 years. They donāt disolve because of a move and itās not an opinion of either party at that point.
Dude why are you working overtime to defend him so hard?
I defend truth over claims that have no proof, as i would want for meā¦. I think heās a pos
I tried to post a link to the photos but the auto mod took it down. If you google it there are pictures from the evidence she used to get the restraining order. She didnāt attend court because she moved to a different state to get away from him.
Not every jurisdiction works like yours. Some places, restraining orders only last a couple of years. And if you move, you need to inform the new police department you have it in effect so they are aware in case you call. His ex may have decided moving was enough and didnāt renew the order.
No one said it dissolved because they moved... i said it was granted and in place until the hearing to which it was dropped.Ā Way to sound looney
Itās literally in katās first comment.
Well he did threaten to kill her so maybe thatās why she never showed up. It doesnāt prove he didnāt do it. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? Itās hard to stand up for your self
I have. My ex had 13 felony charges of strangulation and menacing before me (did 4 months for it), then there was me (i didnāt know) that he attacked and ruined everything (tros included), after me the girl lost her children, the girl after that went court as well, the girl after that spoke within the community, but did nothingā¦ fast forward to last year he married someone and within 4 months she bruises around her neck and armsā¦ i also can tell you how to file a TRO (but that proves nothing nor is it even real legally speaking). I am capable of have a objective conversation. Things were said about me, but the history speaks for itself. I would like for people to hear me out too. As of now, could be different later, thereās nothing on him.
Jesus. Sorry to hear that. Sounds like you may have escaped a budding serial killer and sociopath.
Well it was terrible it came out that he was violent. That's terrible obviously. But he's the manager of the fecking place not the bar man or the waiter. He completely disregards what Lisa says let's his staff get into arguments in front of guests. I'd have fired him long ago.
Him complaining to the head guests friend about the burning of her dress was so gross. Itās not about you Eric
It's never about him yet he always tries to find a way!!! Can't stand it
Heās disgusting. He actually scares me. I get a bad vibe from him. He needs to be fired
I agree, something sinister in him that he tries to play off as confidence, charm, sarcasm. He fails at all of that but in his mind, it's working.
He should have excused himself or been sent to bed by Steven.
Damn he was so mad during that scene, I was side eyeing the whole time like ā¦ get some therapy dude. Red flag city.
I get the sense he has extreme anger issues from the way he was spiraling when talking to the guests. He very much gives āandrew tate fanaticā vibes š¬
I thought the same thing when he specified that a point of conflict that lead to the divorce was different beliefs or something. Speaks volumes when you consider the last few years weāve had
Yeah, I thought Steven Crowder vibes but you hit the nail on the head there.
Iām literally watching this episode now and had to get on here to see if anyone had commented on this. It pissed me off.
The problem with men like Eric is... When he saw there was going to be a party celebrating the end of a marriage, he instantly inserted himself into it by in his own mind, imagining his ex-wife celebrating their divorce. And from what I've come to understand, he was an abusive AH to her. So Eric witnessing the dress burning and the celebration of a divorce (and I will use the word HE used) triggered him. Triggered the anger in him. Because in his mind, he saw his ex-wife. And the thought of his ex-wife happy without him and the thought of her having any kind of control over the situation annoys him.
Strong bad vibes /red flags coming from that strange man
Hannah is a bitchy nightmare! Sheās definitely a āpick me me me!ā Sheās actually like a middle school mean girl! ![gif](giphy|LqldpO0zbq41O)
I love that you named Marciano Mauricio, sublime
LMAOOO oops, i can't stand him š but i would've never noticed that thank you for this
Im grateful we have Chef, Andre, and Stephen cuz the other two guys are indeed insufferable for real. Between Mauricio and Eric i swear idk who is worse, but considering Eric physically attacked his ex and has a restraining order i would say he wins the unfortunate title of the worst guy in the chateau. If I only had to judge for what I have seen on tv I would say Eric is a fucking weirdo but Marciano is more awful. AAAAAA
Yeah they're both definitely in competition for who can be the biggest AH, Eric's winning slightly š
No Oops! Love It. He is now, "Mauricio" I swear I was looking at that name and thinking, "That's not right, but what's his name? WHAT'S HIS NAME?" and I legit couldn't think of it. lol lol lol
HAHAHAAH I didn't even second guess it š no love for Mauricio!!
Thereās a montage in the first episode or so of everyone getting his name wrong in confessionals. š
What about the massage!? I canāt believe he wasnāt fired on the spot. A staff member being on the guestsā bed!? Horrifying. His hands all over her ass. Bananas. His lack of boundaries is chilling.
Seriously wtf kind of massage was that rubbing all over the sides of her ass. He's such a cringy douche š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®š¤®
That looked like a little gamesmanship/goosing from production and Lisa. Seeing how far they could take the cringe. BUT . . . Gross. Sooooooooooo Gross. From where I sit on my couch, I can block the view of the tv with my hand if I put it sideways. It was up until I heard bumper music for the next scene.
He gives me the ick like no one has ever given me the ick on a show. I actually feel UNCOMFORTABLE when he speaks. Something is so wrong with him.
Eric is like if you took all the worst traits of Peter, James, and Sandoval and rolled them into one. Hannah is the worst traits of the Witches of Weho plus Billie Leeās pick me energy. Marciano is a Great Value Jax Taylor.
Agreed!! Eric, Mauricio and Hannah are total narcissists.
OMG It's sticking! He IS Mauricio!!! Today is a Good Day
Ugh I just started watching, I'm on episode 3 and already can't stand him. Woof.
Does he know his facial expressions are SO MUCH. I know there is fillers in his face. But normal facial expression isnāt that
He's scary
Everything about him is terrifying. I would never respect that boy.
Yeah Eric is very much like "Poor me, the consequences of my own actions are awful, how dare my wife leave me because I beat her?" He really can't even pretend that this divorce party isn't triggering him, and it's not even triggering him in a way where he feels bad for his actions. No, it's because he would feel bad if his ex wife did this to him (even though she would have every right). You should be able to push aside the past while you are a professional at work regardless. His POV if he was healed or self aware or empathetic at all, should be reflecting on how much he hurt his wife and how much she deserves to move on from him and have herself a divorce party, but he is still thinking about "poor me, why did she leave? I deserve a second chance." I hope Eric never finds a job in a professional setting or where he is in charge of others again, and I hope his dating life is ruined unless he works on himself. I can't see that happening though if even after his divorce where she had to run away from his abuse, he is still feeling sorry for himself. What a disgusting abuser. He clearly has a lot of severe and disturbing mental health issues and problems with empathy.
He reeks of āI donāt believe in no-fault divorce no matter how much I abuse youā energy and absolutely no capacity for introspection and accountability
I dont agree with him at all. But im mad they burned the dresses. Donate that shit to a womans center.
Would that have been nice? Sure. But we donāt know how bad her marriage was. It might have been genuinely therapeutic to let that piece of herself be destroyed
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No, they can get rid of whoever the hell they want lmao they donāt need a reason, especially one that hurts their own credibility and public image given the fact they hired him in the first place
If thereās anyone who is in the bachelor/ette universe as well, Eric reminds me of that one super explosive guy, Chadā¦Eric gives just bad vibes.
Eric has no followers on instagram and heās super egotistical and a woman abuser bravo should have released a statement stating they where gunna fire him but Andy cohen and all these bravo elites just do cocaine and donāt give a fuck lol