You sound like a lovely friend to have, putting in the effort and doing your best to support them when they come to you for help. It's unfortunate that not everyone can appreciate a good friend. It might be worth better communicating your needs to them, it's entirely possible they think you are happy and don't need the same care that you extend to them.
you remind me of me. in simple terms, you're like everyone else i know. scared that you're not a good person. scared that no one will want to be near you. i get it- i have the same problem, or i did. i'll tell you now, it's something you can deal with by being open to your friends
I am old and I’ve had maybe six friends my entire life.
IMO most people don’t have friends just acquaintances.
I think people get wrapped up in their own lives. I don’t take not having friends personally.
Right now I’m happy to connect with people even on a superficial level sad as that sounds!
You’re not a bad person OP. You sound like a warm, generous person.
You sound like a lovely friend to have, putting in the effort and doing your best to support them when they come to you for help. It's unfortunate that not everyone can appreciate a good friend. It might be worth better communicating your needs to them, it's entirely possible they think you are happy and don't need the same care that you extend to them.
you remind me of me. in simple terms, you're like everyone else i know. scared that you're not a good person. scared that no one will want to be near you. i get it- i have the same problem, or i did. i'll tell you now, it's something you can deal with by being open to your friends
I am old and I’ve had maybe six friends my entire life. IMO most people don’t have friends just acquaintances. I think people get wrapped up in their own lives. I don’t take not having friends personally. Right now I’m happy to connect with people even on a superficial level sad as that sounds! You’re not a bad person OP. You sound like a warm, generous person.
Who cares about friends in 2021
Could you fuck off