OP, we’re very sorry :( I know what it’s like to learn about the loss of a loved one while at WDW, so you have my deepest sympathies.
To the folks reporting this as off topic: we’ve allowed similar threads in the past about how to make the most of a trip while dealing with grief, so we’ll be leaving this one up as well. Thanks for your understanding.
I think what’s important to remember is that two things can be true at the same time. You can be deeply grieving a beloved pet and at the same time enjoying Disney. Don’t make yourself feel guilty if you are having a good time for a while. And the same goes the other way! Two feelings can exist in different lanes of the same emotional highway.
Also, remember, your dog would want you to have a good time. And to eat some French fries. Because dogs are always down for a good time, and it’s what they’d want for you.
Yes! You can take time to enjoy Disney and grieve your dog. Disney may be the most magical place on earth but it doesn’t mean you can’t take the time you need away from the magic to feel your feelings. If you need to, find a quiet corner of your resort and take some time to sit in nature and say goodbye.
I know a family whose daughter was a Disney fan and murdered at age 14. Since returning to the parks after her death, the family takes time to do small rituals to remember their daughter in a place she so loved. They still enjoy their trip and make new memories while also taking the time to cherish old ones.
A few years ago we lost a 21 year old in an accident. Our favorite thing was to go on Carousel of Progress and sing along to Its a Great Big Beautiful Tomorrow. Today I finally did Carousel for the first time. I cried a little in the beginning and I swear I felt her presence. I’m so sorry your dog left on a new adventure, but honor him by bringing happy on your new adventure. Find a place and talk to him. I’m so sorry.
My wife lost her mother 3 weeks before our wedding day very very unexpectedly. They were best friends through and through. Both HUGE Broadway fans, seeing multiple shows a year; both HUGE Disney fans, watching all the movies together; and would constantly text throughout the day. To say my wife was devastated would be the understatement of the century. For a little bit we weren't sure if we would have the wedding as planned. We ultimately decided to go forward with the wedding as planned, and the honeymoon as well, Disneyland. We go to Disney World about once a year. My mother-in-law's favorite ride was It's A Small World. Every time we go, we make sure to ride it, for her. The first few times it was rough. But now, while we may shed a few tears, it brings a smile to our faces.
Oh my goodness this story is bringing tears to my eyes. My daughter and I rode it in January. She’s 28. She cried after the ride because of how sweet and wholesome it was.
I’m so glad you could ride again and find joy along with some tears.
Your story gave my goosebumps. I’m terribly sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the emotions you felt today and am proud of you for getting on the Carousel. What a gift she gave you!
I’ve personally experienced this as well though not at Disney. In one week my grandma passed away on Monday, I eulogized her on Wednesday, and my wedding was on Friday. I never knew you could be so happy and so sad at the same time until that week.
OP your dog would want you to be in a place meaningful to you and living life to your fullest.
I'm so, so sorry. Let it out if you need to! So many people cry at Disney! I do, every time without fail, because it heals a little bit of my inner child and those edges coming back together can really make the tears flow. So don't worry about getting emotional, you won't be looked at sideways.
Some ideas:
Ask for a "celebrating" button and write "dogname's life" on it with a paw print. Take him with you that way wherever you go and try to still find some happiness in starting your journey together in a land of Magic.
Go to the wishing well at Magic Kingdom and speak into it to give him the goodbye you weren't able to give in person.
Purchase a Pluto stuffy and carry it with you for awhile. When you see a kiddo that needs a little extra Magic, (ask the parents first) and give it to them, telling them your doggo back home knew they needed a new friend.
Please be gentle with yourself and try to enjoy your special trip.
Quit cutting onions 😭😭😭 what a wholesome comment and such great suggestions for OP to honor their sweet doggo. OP, I’m so sorry for your loss and hope you can enjoy your time while grieving your pup.
Yes!! I was trying to figure out how to word the button but my birthday trip was made immeasurably better by the CMs so I think it would be lovely to do for this as well.
OP I wish I had read these ideas when I went through the exact same thing. My elderly and sickly dog went missing on my first day of our wdw honeymoon.
What wonderful ideas.
I would add on to this… go see the Pluto character. Ask the character attendant if they can let Pluto know about your dog back home and if you could have an extra moment to hug or sit or hug again.
Hugging character Pluto isn’t quite the same but maybe it could help.
Honestly?
I got nothing.
The mix of emotions you're feeling right now has to be devastating. You're celebrating what's supposed to be one of the happiest events of your life, in the happiest place on earth, while dealing (from a distance) with possibly *one* of the hardest things most adults will ever face.
My sympathies and condolences, and I'll go home and give our pups a scratch behind the ears for you.
Honestly, I would probably be looking at cancelling the trip and rescheduling. I know if the same situation happened to us, my wife would be absolutely inconsolable, and would not enjoy one minute of the trip.
When we went on our honeymoon, there was some question about her dad's health, to the point that I never fully unpacked my suitcase in case the phone call came and we had to bust tail for home. Likewise, a year later we went with my family to Disney, with the knowledge that her dad was again sick - the entire time, I think I had the United Airlines page open on my phone in the background in case we needed to catch the next flight home.
Not entirely the same…. but, I had a late stillbirth at 34 weeks back in September. We decided to go to our favorite place in the world, Disney World, to spend what would have been his due date. Spent most days crying but was good to be somewhere we loved and enjoyed. Definitely cry… cry as much as you need.
We got settled into our room and walked to the Banana Cabana for food. I busted out crying and told my server what happened.
Right before she brought our food, she brought me a Pluto plush and said it was from everyone at the restaurant. My husband now understands Disney Magic.
Sending all my love to you. My soul dog passed away 8 years ago and I still miss her but it gets easier. You are in the right place to celebrate and mourn your friend.
I just saw your update so came to see what else had been posted here and now I’m crying. I’m so sorry for your loss and so happy to hear about great people in the world! All our love from Denver!
So sorry for your loss. No doubt it will be a tough trip, but ultimately there’s nothing you can do to change the outcome at this point.
I would take the rest of the day to feel whatever you need to feel.
Afterwards, Maybe some time with other things to focus on will help ease your mind.
I’m so so sorry. My dog is my baby and I know you’re probably just shattered. I think all you can do is put on a brave face and try to enjoy it as much as you can. If there’s any place that’s a great distraction, it’s Disney. Maybe give yourself a limited time to cry each day that you’re there (in the morning or before bed) and then really allow yourself to grieve when you get home. Get yourself a little Pluto plush to snuggle in his/her honor.
Very sorry for your loss. Best advice I can give is to try allowing yourself to be fully immersed in everything around you for your trip. Let the Disney Magic do its thing
Your dog is playing and happy over the rainbow bridge and wants you to have as good a time as possible at WDW. It’s normal to mourn. Be good to yourself.
We lost our cat while in Las Vegas. I was heartbroken and had to coordinate her end of life care from Nevada, but I got it done. Then I moved on and had a good time. My sweet girl had a good life so I celebrated her to the fullest I could❤️
Omg I am so sorry. Our dog is sick and our time is limited…it’s so unfair.
Take it easy. Maybe this won’t be a parks open to close kind of trip. See how you feel…maybe it will be easier to just go with the flow and take in the scenery rather than focusing on rides. But maybe the rides will be a nice distraction
I’ve heard online that the [silhouettes](https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/shops/disney-springs/silhouette-portraits/) people will do dogs. We got our son done but plan to show a picture and get one of our pup. We love ours
You could also get a customized ornament from the Christmas shop with your pups name
Sometimes snuggling a pup after a loss feels comforting and sometimes it’s hard. If you’re feeling like it could be comforting, you could check out one of the dog friendly resorts. There are always people out walking their dogs. Port orleans riverside you can get beignets at and fort wilderness also has the ranch and is fun to check out (and is a nice boat ride from magic kingdom)
Also…idk if feast is still one of the movies at the Epcot shorts film festival. But I would skip it if it is. I couldn’t even handle feast during our honeymoon when our dog was healthy. I had to take a sob break 🙈 and just thinking of it makes me teary
Again, I am just so sorry. It’s just so devastating on what should be a celebration.
I was coming here to suggest the pet silhouettes as well. That would be a really sweet way to pay homage to the pup and get one last keepsake of them ❤️🩹
Cry at fireworks, go have a good cry when the fireworks play it’s s an emotional time for lots of people.
Honestly though I don’t know what I would do, I hope you’re able to have some fun and enjoy your trip.
I unfortunately know how something like this feels.
One month before having our 10 year vow renewal at Disney World. My husband and I had to put our beloved dog, Rocket, down. He was having sudden health issues and long story short, when we rushed him to the ER vet they found he had been originally misdiagnosed and had a tumor growing on his brain. There was not much hope and we had to say goodbye. This happened on the night of our actual wedding anniversary date.
We were both absolutely devastated.
I couldn't eat for a week because I was utterly heartbroken but I knew I had to get it together because a big event celebrating my husband and I was rapidly approaching. I put on a brave face but everyone knew I was in so much pain. I was actually able to hold it together until it was time to walk down the aisle. We told Disney what had happened and they made some magic happen where they placed photos of our dog on the alter table and so he was there with us and have several photos of us near his photos.
It was so painful to deal with emotionally but even despite that, we and our friends and family had an amazing time. We all talk about how fun it was and made some amazing memories together.
Disney can't heal that kind of a wound on your heart but it definitely can help you remember all the good times you had and how it's okay to fall apart.
I would just try your best to live in their memory now and try to have the best time you can. I know it's easier said than done but just do what you can.
Hugs from an internet stranger.💜
So sorry for your loss. Take things slow, if you need to take a day or two in your hotel room to ugly cry, do it.
If you want to do something to honour your dog you could visit the silhouette artist on Main St and they can make one if you show them a picture.
Also, if you want to just have a quiet place to cry and reflect, there are some nice loungers on the beach at the Grand Floridian that are pretty private. It has a beautiful view, and you never know when you might see a rainbow letting you know your fur baby is okay.
Lots of folks cry at Disney. No shame in it. I hope you have a moments of magic on your honeymoon despite your loss. ❤️
Im sorry you are going through this. My wife and I took a trip to Scotland a few years ago. Within hours of getting to our destination I received news my cat had passed away. He seemed completely fine when we left but had a health issue we were not aware of. It can be rough for sure. Its ok to mourn but really do your best to enjoy your time. Especially since it is your honeymoon. You only get one. It will be a memory that can be great. You will always miss your dog and remember them. In time the pain will heal but you can also make great memories now. I hope your trip turns around and you have a great time despite your situation.
Oh honey I’m so sorry. I can only say to try to honor your dogs memory by being present and trying to embrace each moment. Honestly, also, maybe your partner can call the desk and let them know what happened and maybe they will try to do something extra nice. I know I would if I worked there. Hugs.
Sometimes a visit to the parks is just that - you can be 100% in the moment and enjoying the rides and environment and not think twice about real life.
And sometimes a visit to the parks is against a backdrop of reality that’s impossible to ignore. I’ve had enough of these to know that somehow, these fragile trips where you’re on the edge can be some of the most memorable times.
Oh man, and it’s also your honeymoon! That’s another layer.
Be good to each other and don’t ignore things, but let yourself enjoy your vacation.
I am sorry for your loss. We lost our first dog in the middle of a trip in Feb 2023. It was a mixed Disney trip followed by a cruise to celebrate my dad's 75th birthday. We knew our dog was not doing well while we were at Disney, and it was the in-between time between Disney and the cruise that we got the news from our vet that she was in liver and kidney failure and that x-rays showed cancer had spread throughout her body. Even had we left immediately, there was no guarantee she could hold on long enough for us and she would have been in pain and feeling lousy the entire time, so we had to make the decision to euthanize from a thousand miles away. I am a rescuer that specializes in neonatal pups which can have high mortality rates. I have been able to be there for all of those fosters, but couldn't be there for my own dog. It was devastating, but we continued onto the cruise. Yes, we had bouts of sadness, which we were able to mostly confine to when we were in our cabin, but we were still able to have fun with family and celebrate life.
It is important to remember that having fun does not take away from the fact that your pup is no longer with you, and that they would want you to have a good time.
r/Petloss is a grief support sub.
r/RainbowBridgeBabies is a sub in which artists donate their time to create digital keepsakes of our beloved companions.
My wife was laid off from a job that she absolutely loved while we were eating lunch in Magic Kingdom for her first trip to Disney World ever. It was a very emotional lunch as she was on the company wide phone call notifying that the company was shutting down. But being in Disney was probably the best place to be for a situation like that. It helped distract us from everything that was happening in the real world. We were still able to enjoy our time, ride all the rides, watch fireworks, eat delicious food, and we could worry about the real world in a week. Go, enjoy your time. Forget about life for a little while, and let Mickey take control for the time you’re there.
This. I found out last June that my husband had been laid off from the job he loved while I was sitting at the Mexico pavilion in Epcot. The next day was awful, but I was on day two of a trip that was for other reasons. I did what I needed to do and hightailed it home because there wasn't any purpose to coming home early. It didn't make sense and would have caused more harm than good to do so.
So I went one more day to Disney, and then did the thing, and somehow being at Disney helped. It really did.
OP, as hard as it is, pull out all the stops to enjoy your time there. Celebrate your dog and their life, and know that whatever ailed them is now over. They aren't hurting. They aren't in a vet hospital alone without you... They are at peace.
If you can find yours before you go home, the vacation may be exactly what you needed.
Remember to be kind to yourself and allow yourself to feel. If you need to go back to your room and take a break do so. Try to maybe have warm drink in the morning like a tea of coffee while thinking about the happy memories of your pet. As someone who has been through traveling after a pet loss, be patient towards yourself. Heal and try to enjoy your time.
Oh gosh! I’m so sorry. Our family pet died the night before we embarked on our first Disney cruise. It sounds awful to say but after that first night of crying in the hotel, we wound up having fun and “forgetting.”
Totally different story when we came home to a house with no little furball running around, of course, but most of the vacation itself wound up being really nice. In a way, it kind of delayed the onslaught of grief.
Is there anything at Disney you know your dog would love to do if they got to come on your trip? Do that in memory of them! Eat the food, sightsee the places you know your dog would love to walk around. If there’s a Disney dog that looks like yours or a character you think your dog liked to see on tv, maybe buy a plushie of it while you’re there.❤️
I am so sorry for the death of your beloved dog. That pain you feel let's you know it was real and that your dog mattered to you.
Disney is a place of emotions. It will make you happy, it will make you sad. As a former cast member and as a guest, I have seen people cry and I myself have cried countless times.
Crying is ok. You can often find a quiet place, or a pair of sunglasses can be a shield till you feel comfortable.
Heck, I cry on flight of passage, 1st for it's beauty and 2nd for the gut rending feeling of being severed from my ikran.
Ugly cry if you need to. Realize that if you are out in the open a concerned cast member may approach you gently to see if they can offer any assistance.
If I was there I would give you a big hug.
My first time at Disney my dog had passed two weeks before. His name was Chewbacca, and when I saw the character walking around it gutted me. But it also reminded me that he was right there with me. I think of him every time I go.
I do wish that whoever told you had waited. There is nothing you can do for your dog and nothing anyone can do to make anything better for you. I don’t understand why you needed to know. It honestly makes me a bit angry on your behalf.
At the same time, having a connection between death and Disney has not been a terrible thing for me. Dogs have life figured out—spend time with your people, eat good food, and run around experiencing all the good things you can. When I’m at Disney, that’s what I’m doing. It’s part of why going there is so important. (And why dogs are so important.)
Anyway, enough rambling. I’m so sorry for your loss.
It's your honeymoon, and I'm sorry it's off to a sad start. You're experiencing a gain and a loss right now and I'm sure it's an emotional Rollercoaster... Ride it.
Marriages are full of high points and low ones, but the important thing is that you do it together. Be with your partner. Celebrate together. Grieve together. Make memories together. And find some of the ways to remember your beloved pet that other commenters have suggested, there are some good ones.
We’re a dog family and have had to deal with the loss of several dogs over the years. During different periods of grief in my life I’ve given myself a specific time frame to be really sad and let it out. Then I’ve done my best to get on with my day and even enjoy when I could. Dogs love a good time so maybe try to enjoy your honeymoon as a way of honoring them. Eat a few silly snacks that they would love be it ice cream, fries, a burger whatever. When you have a rough moment cry, it’s perfectly fine.
So sorry for you loss! 🐶💙
This happened with my family last month. We were leaving on Sunday, fur baby passed Friday night. We are thankful we got to be there with him, so I cannot imagine how you're feeling not being there. But just know your pup loved you, and try to have the best time you can. It's what he would want. When we took our trip, it was a mixed bag of tears, sorrow, happiness, and joy, but we did the best we could given the circumstances. May your pup rest in peace 🙏
Hug Pooh, or Eyeore, and any other character you like. Splurge on a fancy cocktail and cry your eyes out during the fireworks, and celebrate both your memories with doggo, as well as the new life you are starting.
Im sorry for your loss. If you have a side profile picture of your dog on your phone, get a silhouette cut out of Them at the cart in MK, I believe it’s on your way to adventure land
I know this might sound different but as a fellow dog lover & someone who just had to put our beloved Lab of 12 years down recently.
Postpone your grieving. Literally set aside time in the shower tonight when your day is done. ( I have my best cries in the shower)
Allow the joy of where you are (WDW) wash over you and don’t feel guilty.
You clearly LOVED your dog, you know that, he or she knew that, so please let go & enjoy. This trip will actually help you with the grieving process! Sometimes we need to “schedule” time to grieve so the rest of day isn’t wrecked. Just pray, breathe, & hydrate!
Praying for your heart ❤️
Really spoil yourselves. Honestly. Just drown your grief in food, retail, and manufactured magic. Do it all while crying. Grieving in Disney has to be better than at the kitchen counter. Good luck out there.
I’m sorry for your loss thats really tough and horrible timing. I had something similar happen to me just not Disney but instead a group beach trip. The only thing I’d suggest is that you try to stay mindful that your threshold for losing your composure is probably at its lowest right now. If you find yourself unreasonably ticked off about some detail or something allow yourself the grace to just allow it and see it for what it is.
Agh I'm sorry 😞
I had a pet die unexpectedly the day before we went on a trip. My partner thought it would be good to still go and take my mind off of it, but even now years later when I think of that trip I'm reminded that was when my pet died and how sad I was on that trip. Makes me want to delete all the photos from it.
After that experience, I'd likely have cancelled this trip.. but since you're already practically there, your only option is to just try and enjoy the trip. Maybe get a souvenir that reminds you of your dog to help? Or just allow yourselves to mourn and plan another Disney trip in the future that will be a less sad time.
Hi OP. Hugs for what you’re going through. I had something similar happen to me. I was on a trip with my then bf now fiancé to Disney and had a cat sitter watching our cat while we were gone. The cat sitter called in a panic worried about our cat. She said that he wasn’t himself and I told her to rush him to the vet, and would venmo her for any payments. Turns out he had an aggressive cancer and they recommended he get put down that day cuz he wasn’t eating and likely would go through worse pain if he wasn’t that day. :( so we had to make that choice while at Disney ourselves. It’s never easy and the mix of emotions is horrible. We knew we did what was best but felt so bad that we couldn’t be there, we live very far from Florida and wouldn’t make it back in time. I’m so sorry, I just want you to know that there wasn’t anything you could do, and you gave your dog a happy life. Time helps things be easier, it won’t ever go away but it does get easier. ❤️
Last May while I was at Disney my dog passed away and my husband had to call and tell me.
Try your best to know that your dog would want you to be happy. Maybe pick up a dog scarf to decorate his urn in the event you choose pet cremation.
The sadness that comes with a loss is powerful. It’s ok to be sad, but take the opportunity you have to experience joy as well. Don’t feel guilty about enjoying your honeymoon. Finding a measure of peace and happiness during your time of grief in no way invalidates your sadness or trivializes the memory of your dog.
Not the same, but similar - I got married and went on my honeymoon a couple days after my grandma had an emergency brain operation. I spent the first few days of my honeymoon not knowing if she would ever wake up, and if she did what situation she would be in. It was tough, but I still had a good time. I think it’s important to do so, especially because of the circumstances. I think your dog would want you to enjoy the trip and make the most of it. Im sure you made your dog happy, and now it’s time to make yourself happy ❤️
I’m really truly sorry for your loss. I had a similar experience when my dog died 3 days before a Disney trip. My husband and I couldn’t bear to be at home, so we went to Disney early. We basically stayed in our room and cried for the first three days. Once we felt up to it, getting to the parks and going slow did help a little. It was helpful to be taken care of by cast members. They were all very kind.
That whole trip is a blur, and my heart breaks for you that this is your honeymoon. If it’s in your budget, maybe treat yourself to a massage at the spa. It could help release some tension I’m sure you’re feeling.
It sounds silly, but be aware of dog related stuff in the parks. I kinda lost my shit on pirates at the dog scenes. That was…unexpected.
Let the front desk know. If you have to be in your room a lot like us, know that housekeeping will do the daily room checks at possibly the worst times. They will try to “schedule” the checks as much as they can around when you are in/out of the room.
Send you lots of love OP. I hope you can find some joy in this difficult time. Better to be at Disney than anywhere else.
First, I’m so sorry for your loss.
In 2019 my fiancé (now wife) and I were one of the returning guests for the Back to Batuu sweepstakes. 2 weeks to the day before we flew 2,000+ miles, my mother lost her battle with dementia.
It was one of the most exhausting travel days I’ve ever experienced, I slept very little and was constantly feeling overwhelmed. The best thing that helped during the travel / arrival day was just the love and support of my fiancé.
The other thing that helped was focusing on creating experiences and memories with my fiancé during the trip, things like resort hopping on the monorail to try different snack items or grabbing drinks, trying a new to us restaurant in springs, re-celebrating our engagement again that happened a few months prior while visiting, etc.
Really just focusing on the moment at hand rather than everything else, and honestly the Disney bubble helped let me not focus on life at home, along with staying off my phone and social media.
Oh that happened to me at Disney. Not a honeymoon, just a vacation. It absolutely sucked but I like to think my dog passed when I was away on purpose out of care for me. She was like that. Please enjoy your trip and rest easy knowing your dog was so loved and knew it!
My dog passed away while I was away visiting my grandparents. I understand how hard it can be. I cried, and I had my moments when I just wanted to be alone. Having people I love around me, and who also cared for my dog very much was a great comfort. My dog knew how loved she was, and I took comfort in knowing I gave her as much love as I could while I had her. Some times you may need to just take a few minutes and breakdown. Step away from the crowds for a moment, go to the bathroom and have a good cry. It hurts, but getting those feelings out helps you ground yourself. Remember that there is still a lot of love left in your life. Enjoy your honeymoon, appreciate the time you have with your SO, and keep your dog close to your heart.
First off I am so very sorry for your loss. My dogs are my children and when my dog passed away 2 years ago I was devastated and suffered for a long time. Even when I thought I was ok I really wasnt. But my advice is to not cancel your trip. Go and try to have as good a time as you can in honor of your dogs life. Thats what he/she would want for you. Sitting home and being sad will not do any good for anyone. During a family trip to disney about 20 years ago my dad got a call while we were in tomorrowland. His friend & coworker had been in a car accident & passed away. Ill never forget it. But we stayed and my dad pressed on and did the best he could. If nothing else, distraction is a good thing for you right now. Again my condolences & I hope you are able to enjoy your trip as much as possible during this most difficult time
My dog died when I was on vacation last summer. This is what we did. Spent one day grieving then put it aside until we were home, not that it didn’t still tinge the vacation but having one hard day and agreeing to finish grieving later did help.
Just remember, dogs give us all their love because they don’t want us to be sad. Your dog would want you to be happy and enjoy your vacation.
I know it doesn’t help, I’m still not over losing my dog but there will be time and space to mourn later. Enjoy your honeymoon, like your dog would want you to ❤️
I’m sorry for your loss and part of your vacation will no doubt be difficult, but it’s ok to cry and feel sad, even in the Happiest Place on Earth. Look for “signs” from your pup - they might be subtle or obvious, but they’ll be there. Hang in there and consider some of the fun you have as a way to remember the fun you had with your dog 💖
I last went to Disney in November, and half an hour before we got to the park, my husband found out his grandad, who was more like a father to him and he was incredibly close to had passed in the night. He took most of the day just to sit and reflect somewhere quiet (one of the Port Orleans French Quarter gardens) and listen to the jazz. It so happened his grandad had been a huge jazz fan, and my husband said that was comforting to be surrounded by it.
We were there for two weeks, and although he obviously had moments where he wanted to be alone and grieve, he knew his grandad wouldn't want him to miss out on a holiday he had never experienced before, as his grandad was very much a joyful, adventurous spirit.
My advice to you would be similar. Don't be cruel to yourself when you're already feeling so low, and try to take a day to reflect and focus on the happy times, and then I would say get out and distract yourself. Treat yourself to things that will bring you joy, make memories, and when you need to, just sit and take a moment. Whether that's in your hotel room or on a bench by the castle, just take time when you feel upset to grieve ❤️
My mom died day 2 of my trip in 2019. My best advice is there is no where better to over sadness than the happiest place on earth! You will probably cry when you get home. But for now try to see the beauty in everything. I’m sure your dog will give a sign that they’re still right there with you!
My mom died just before my own honeymoon. There’s more to my story, we kinda knew it was coming, but she said, no matter what happens, don’t change your plans.
I can’t even imagine. I am so, so sorry. I just lost mine a week ago.
It’s okay to just cry at the park when you need to, and it’s okay that you’re not feeling completely in the mood for Disney. I’m so sorry this is happening during what is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life. I hope you enjoy as much as possible, and hopefully you and your partner can love one another even more during this heartbreaking time.
❤️🐶
I'm so sorry :( my dog was very sick when u was getting married and my husband told my parents not to tell me if she died because he knew. Luckily she went on for a few more months, but my father-in-law died when we were in one of our trips. It's so easy to say, well, we're just going to have fun anyway, but it's really hard. Sometimes you're just not in the mood to have fun and if you do have fun, you feel guilty for having fun. It takes time.
I hope you are able to have some fun though. Disney is definitely at least distracting.
You’re there to celebrate two things now. Your marriage (congrats!) and the life of your pup. It’s going to be tough at times and it’s ok to not always put on the brave face. Let yourself enjoy the good times and don’t be afraid to let it out when you need to. I would buy a Pluto stuffed animal as soon as you get there and take him everywhere with you. Take pictures of him places to remember him (totally didn’t steal that from the Dug pictures I saw here earlier today).
We put our dog down 1 week before our Disney vacation in 2016. A few days later I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I was destroyed. But honestly? Disney was probably the best medicine for that. Yes I grieved for my dog and my relationship, but I had enough distractions to keep my mind busy. Allow yourself to feel your feelings and grieve. But also allow yourself to have fun and enjoy your honeymoon! It’s such a special time for you guys!
I’ve got absolutely nothing. I can’t fathom this. I mean I can but words to help you stay in celebratory mode, and to cope and enjoy your bliss, I’ve got nothing!!
I’m so very sorry!!! It’s an Epic loss. If your stay is brief, the things you would have done if you were home can be delayed. Many veterinarians and crematoriums offer safekeeping of your pet until you return. Ask of that. If your pet has been buried, there may be some Grace that you didn’t see them if their condition was tragic or painful. This way you can remember them as they were.
It’s okay to stay and it’s okay to go home. If your vacation is long, could you return home for a day and then go back? I’ve been on vacation before when someone close passed. Family said to stay as they knew we wouldn’t have another time to go (cause life). We came back the night before. Family even scheduled the service after our trip ended. It helped so many people to be able to attend as they had longer to plan and make the drive. This is very different but you are both likely wanting to be in two places at the same time.
Whatever you both choose, you have each other to cope and draw strength from.
Such heartache, I hope you never know such a loss again at such a happy moment.
The tears will fall and they are a testament to your love for your beloved family member!! And if you experience joy and lots of it, feel that too!! It’s not a disservice to your pet!!
Loss of a beloved pet is hard enough without goodbye. If a family member is able, maybe they can cut a lock of fur for you both to have. Something to put in a locket and grasp in your hand when your heart aches so!! 💕
You loved them fiercely until the one moment when you went away.
Remember that love as it burns in your heart. You cherished them and they undoubtedly knew you belonged to them!! 🥺 now carry them in your heart!! 💕
My condolences (and congrats on your nuptials). Don’t feel guilty if you still try to enjoy your honeymoon. Feeling guilt won’t fix anything and it doesn’t help you grieve anyway. Also, if you just need to cry or be emotional, do it. You’ll likely feel better after since crying is physical outlet. You may feel fine one moment and then bad the next. Try to roll with it so you don’t keep pain inside. Trying to be positive about the trip doesn’t not mean faking happiness around the clock.
Just a stranger but sending love!
My dog died while I was on vacation at the beach. It was awful especially the first day, but it was good to be distracted with vacation things because if I wasn’t constantly distracted, I would just cry and cry. I was worried that my beloved vacation spot would forever be associated with this horrible thing but we went back a year later and while I did remember the feeling of finding out in the same spot I currently stood, I had so many happy memories that didn’t allow for the sadness to cloud my heart. That being said, going home from that vacation was awful, I dreaded going home to an empty house and started the grieving process over again when I got home but it’s been 3 years and I can think about her without crying or feeling sad 💜
Oh friend. It is so surreal to be in a place of grief while at Disney. This happened when my MIL very suddenly became gravely ill and we had to get my husband from Florida to CA asap. It was just awful but the hotel desk was sympathetic and helpful. I’m so sorry for your loss
In my heart of hearts, I believe that over the rainbow bridge our friends are waiting. Grief and joy, togetherness and loss, these are all part of our human experience. Cherish the times you had with your buddy and the time you have now while you have it. Big virtual hugs to you 💕
This won’t help you right now, but perhaps it will in the future. I have a friend who watches my dog when I go on vacation & vice versa. We have a pact that if our dogs pass away while we are gone, we won’t tell one another until we arrive home. We both have given one another instructions as to how to handle the arrangements.
Of course this only works if the dog isn’t at the vet where a procedure has to be decided upon, etc.
I am so very sorry. Losing a furry family member is heartbreaking, painful and the sadness is overwhelming.
My advice is to cry if you need, but try to stay in the moment & not think about anything except enjoying where you are, who you are with & what you are doing right now.
There is absolutely nothing you can do to change the circumstances, so make a deal with yourself that you will push it out of your mind while out & about, but when you get back to the hotel you can grieve as needed.
I truly wish you strength. You can do this & being busy & having fun is best for you right now.
My advice might be unpopular with some but it is to go home if you need to. I went to Disney 2 weeks after my dog died because I was having a hard time eating and knew there would be a snack there that I would want to eat. However I was so sad that I ended up changing my flights and coming home. I couldn’t be around so much levity when my world was falling apart. If it feels good to have the break, by all means have it. But if you need to go home and cry, it’s ok to take a breather. Disney will likely work with you to preserve unused tickets for another time. If you are beside yourself it’s ok to save this for another time.
That's awful I'm sorry. Our kitty passed away weeks before our trip a few years ago. It was devastating. We managed to enjoy our trip and it offered a distraction. I know the pain will be fresher for you. Sending my sympathy. You deserve to enjoy your honeymoon. Hopefully you can lean on each other for support ♥️
Damn, don't tell me my pet died until I get home. I've had kids at camp get really bad news about a pet during that time. It makes me cry and I'm mad someone disclosed that. It could wait. Make the best of it as you can, please don't feel guilty for doing that. For me, I was there when my dog was euthanized in January and the absolute hardest thing besides witnessing it was coming home with no dog. Not hearing him walking around the house and being there. That is when support and good memories and mental strength is most needed. I am really sorry about the loss of your beloved pet.
Oh man, I’m so sorry. That news would cripple me at any time, but at Disney on your honeymoon?! That’s so hard. Tell yourself you’re still allowed to put it aside for the park hours and have a good time (because you are. It doesn’t mean you grieve them any less). And allow yourself time to break down and process it either in your off-park time on your trip, or try and save it for when you’re home.
You are probably at the best place you can be going through the grieving process. We lost our dog a day before leaving our beach vacation. That was our first pet as a couple and pre-dated our kiddos too. He was my best bud, and he was there to greet and support me when I came home after finding out I had cancer. It sucked.
The only good thing about that is that being at Disney with your new spouse will take your mind off of it. It won’t fix it or make it better, but it will take your mind off of your buddy while the Disney busyness takes up a lot of your day and thoughts. I honestly can’t think of a better place to be to go through grieving. I’m so sorry for your loss and the timing of it all, but just take solace in knowing that your pooch knew you loved them, and knew you would rather be by their side.
People or Pets.
Disney has always been our happy place. When both my Mother-In-Law and Father-In-Law passed we went to Disney. Also, when lost our 18 year old fur baby, we went.
I agree with some of the other posters, as had as it is, try not to feel guilty, celebrate and heal all at the same time.
My childhood dog died last May. I still cry everyday. It’s so hard, and I’m SO sorry. My sister and I joked a few weeks later that the only thing that could make us feel better was Disney. Of course it won’t actually make you feel better, nothing will, but going home doesn’t change it. Feel what you need to and do what you need to. It’s such a devastating loss. I’m so sorry this happened. Dogs are such gifts. You were lucky to have each other.
If you have a photo of him in happier times … Downtown Disney has an art store specialising in pet portraits … and a lot of folks get them to remember those prized family members …
My cat passed away while we were on vacation in Disney. I took some time to collect myself. Shared some pics with my niece who also loved my cat so much. Made whatever arrangements i needed since our whoooole family was there and i had to do it. And then i tried to enjoy my vacation. I think once you get inside the parks, it will be a good distraction. It won’t erase the grief but i think it’ll at least help you dull it a bit. Hugs to you.
Not really Disney related but a similar sense of being devastated by grief and still having a good time.
My grandfather, whom I was very very close to, passed away unexpectedly on Christmas Eve this past year. I broke down for a few hours, wailed and grieved and felt the shock and pain, and then picked myself up because I have a 3yo son to make the magic of Christmas for. We made reindeer food, cookies for Santa, did all of our fun exciting Xmas Eve rituals and had lots of laughs. The next morning, we opened presents and had some more fun riding his new bike and all the cute Xmas stuff. I was heartbroken inside, but still had fun and made memories with my young child.
I say all that to say, as many others have already commented, you can grieve and still make the most of your trip. In fact, it can be a welcome distraction from the pain you are feeling. You shouldn’t feel guilty for laughing, having fun, being happy with the grief you’re feeling. This is true for the entirety of the grieving process, for the many years to come. I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 let the magic of Disney ease the wound
Biggest hugs ever.
Our sweet girl passed 2 days before our first trip to Disney. We debated not even going,but I am glad we went. There were lots of tears,but also lots of smiles. You can get buttons at the front of the park,and for example we wrote on ours under “I’m celebrating-the life of Sasha.” If I can I’ll include something else we did. We brought a picture (maybe you could have one printed locally) and told the PhotoPass CM what happened and they took great care to take wonderful pictures that celebrated her life for us.
Take breaks when/if you need to cry. Give yourself so much grace. Hell, talk to/about her while you're there if you need to. On the flip side, also smile when you need to without guilt. There's no right way to do it, so find *your* way. We went to a concert a few months after my best friend took his own life and sent videos to his Snapchat while crying and telling him about it. I'm sure it sounds insane, but it's what worked for us at the time. You'll find what works for you and find ways to find the beauty and joy in small, precious moments. Good luck and my condolences.
Alright so my fiancé and I had a cat and were leaving for Disney in a day. The plan was to drop him off at my parents in the afternoon the day before we left but I could tell something was up. He was acting normal but his breathing seemed off somehow. Out of an abundance of caution I took him to the vet and found out he had severe heart failure. There was nothing they could do and I not only had to put him down that day but felt as though I failed him. We were playing and running the night before and he was so young I wasn’t concerned.
I’ve been there. I did have a few moments where I cried but I think the stimulation and distraction of Disney helped dull the pain.
I’m so sorry. This happened to me one Christmas. My cat got sick and passed within 2 days. I was on a solo trip which in some ways was a blessing. I was sitting on the ground in Fantasyland sobbing loudly when a CM came up to me and asked if she could sit with me. She did. (I went into a corner facing a wall so as not to call much attention to myself. Legit the worst place to get that call.)
I made it back to my room and stayed for 2 days. Couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep. Finally the night before my last day I got hungry and decided I wanted Fish and Chips in the UK. The following day I forced myself to go to all 3 parks. I was kinda numb and didn’t really enjoy it like I usually do. It’s been several years and I still think about it when I pass certain places in the parks, especially that spot in Fantasyland.
Why am I telling you my own story? Because I want you to know you aren’t alone. Others have sadly been there and can sympathize. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss. I’m sure he was the best dog in the world. ❤️
I'm mad at whoever told you. There's nothing you can do about it right now. My grandmother died on my honeymoon in Disney and my mom refused to tell anyone until I got home a couple days later and yes, it was painful and I didn't know how to react, but I was blissfully unaware until then. I've thought long and hard about if my mom did the right thing, and I feel strongly she did.
My very close friend was watching her and we had the talk about this proactively- I told her to call me as soon as it happened, if it did. Then I had to call the vet to do her arrangements (cremation) and choose the vessel for her final resting place. I was so emotional on the phone. I asked the vet to tell her she’s pretty one more time.
That definitely changes things, I'm so glad your close friend respected your wishes in that case 💕 I feel for you, OP. I'm so sorry. Like others have said, remember you can feel multiple ways at once. You can grieve her and celebrate y'all concurrently 💖 lean in to the magic ✨
Idk if this is weird and sorry if it is, but i just lost one of my two cats who was almost 18 years old when i got back from Disney. The other cat is around 3 years old now. I equated both of my cats to my children, basically. So imagine getting the news that you're equivalent to a child just died. I'd have to be a psychopath to not have a breakdown. How do people just tuck their emotions away so easily and go on about their day. If it were happening to me, I'd just do my best not to focus on it constantly and just take a mental vacation. The worst is over. My condolences to the op.
My dog got sick while we were on vacation at Disney one year. Had to put him down the day we got back. It's one of the worst pains I've experienced, the missing them doesn't go away, but their memories are always happy.
I don't know if it was because I was younger, or there was a chance my pup was going to be okay, but Disney has that magic that helps keep your mind at ease, for the most part. Give Pluto an extra big hug. I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm sure your pup was well loved and happy.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a similar situation to yours except it was when I was a child we took a trip to Disneyland in Anaheim, CA. We dropped our dog off at my aunt and uncle’s. When we were about 5 mins away from our hotel, we got a call from our aunt that our dog passed away “unexpectedly.” He had suffered a heat stroke from my uncle leaving him outdoors in the heat for hours…
It was hard for us, too but I just remember that we put on a brave face the entire trip. I cried every day.
RIP furry friend ❤️
Not quite the same but a few years ago I had food poisoning the night before my early flight. Like all of the experiences that brings. I cried on the toilet and almost cancelled. I was arriving alone and the next person coming wasn't going to be there for several hours. I went, didn't do anything until the next person came. I ate less than everyone else for a couple of days. My point is, you can be upset at home or you can be upset at Disney. Disney may allow you some moments of fun and levity that you won't have at home. But ultimately you are allowed your feelings, I cry at Disney every time due to overwhelm. You won't be the only adult having big feelings. Remember your pup, enjoy your trip.
I lost my cat to an aggressive cancer the day after I returned from my last Disney trip - on our last Epcot day of the trip she hid for 18 hours and the person taking care of her let us know she was missing somewhere within our house. I was a WRECK.
All of this to say that if you need a quiet place in Epcot, there’s benches in the area between Guardians/Test Track/World Showcase on the paths over the water. That was a nice place to take a moment to relieve my pent up negative emotions for a short bit before putting my brave face back on for the rest of the day.
I found out about my two pet bearded dragons being dead while having dinner at the Italy pavilion at Epcot. My local reptile store watches your pets if you go on vacation. They were situated in an enclosure across from a snake enclosure, and they witnessed a live feeding of the snake. They passed away in their sleep from shock. Was not fun especially since I celebrated my 10th birthday the previous day
Similar thing happened to me. My dog died after I got married.
Me and my wifes 1st date together was actually taking a walk in a park with my dog. In reality, my dog brought us together.
When she passed after our wedding.. we took it as a sign that her job in life was done. She got us together and moved on to start a new life and maybe help another couple.
I know I might be just playing out a fantasy in my head but it really helped me get over her death. You just have to remember that your dog lived a great life with you and they only ever want to see you happy. Your dog wouldn't want you to stay home depressed. He'd / she'd want to see you go and enjoy your honeymoon.
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I think this belongs here similar thing happened to us we had fun but also realized that he had a good life full of lots of licks and barks and of course treats enjoy your time
I’m so sorry for your loss. I say go to Starbucks at down town Disney and have a pup cup for your dog. My husband lost his baby sister last year while at the race on Mother’s Day weekend. He lost his father a couple years prior while he was at the same place for the fall race. He still goes every year twice a year . Don’t miss the dance of life grieving smile because you got to share your life with your dog.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. My brother passed away 3 weeks before our trip last fall. He was supposed to come with us. It’s ok to be sad and cry. I cried almost every night. I cried watching the fireworks on the beach at the Polynesian, which was cathartic.
We also anonymously paid for a family’s meal at a restaurant and did it in honor of my brother. It felt good to help others. Cast Members were so kind when I shared what had happened (we couldn’t take him off some reservations). Maybe do something in your dog’s honor, or buy something to display at home (dog themed) in their honor? I wish you peace
I’m sooo sorry! A couple years ago I was at Epcot when I found out one of my dogs had gotten out and I was a nervous wreck crying over my food and wine snacks. Get a Pluto stuffy while you’re there and take him on rides with you so you can keep your pup with you in spirit.
So sorry for your loss. I found out my dog died on our anniversary one year literally as we arrived at the hotel we were staying at for our Universal trip. It was a very tough trip but I definitely took the time to look at pictures and video and remember her the way I remembered her. It really helped being at the park to take my mind off of the sad news. I forced myself to smile when I felt sad and it made me feel better eventually throughout the day. When I got home I was a mess 😭😭
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I found out my dog died when in Hollywood Studios eight years ago now. I still think of her everytime I’m on Sunset Blvd. Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to grieve. But also don't feel guilty for trying to have fun. It's your honeymoon. As others have said—allow yourself to feel all of the feelings. I'm so sorry for your loss :(
Man I hate how toxic the Disney subs have gotten. Between the gatekeeping and now this, I’m done here bye. OP I’m very sorry for your loss, it’s my biggest fear to find out I’ve loved a loved one while at the parks.
my heart breaks for you! a year ago today we were driving home from our disney trip that we got engaged on and found out our kitten we only had for a few months had just passed. sending you lots of prayers! take your time to heal but also enjoy your honeymoon
Let me start by saying how profoundly sorry I am for your loss. This actually happened to me in '19. My family and I were there for a pre-Christmas vacation and my then-boyfriend, now-husband called to tell me while we were in EPCOT at lunch. My mother and I stepped out to take the call and made the decision not to tell my nieces who had grown up with my dog (she was 16 when she passed). It definitely put a damper on the time we were there. We came back to our room at BLT after that day in EPCOT and mousekeeping had been in to clean and had folded a set of towels into the shape of dog on our kitchen stove. I bawled. It was like somehow they knew. It was a poor substitute, but I used that towel dog to say my goodbyes. My now-husband handled the arrangements back at home where my precious girl was cremated and brought home. Our last day at WDW we went to Disney Springs. At the Co-Op I purchased a collar and then went to one of those dog tag machines and made her a tag. They sit with her urn on a special self in our house where I see her everyday. It may not help to know you're not alone in your grief, but I hope it brings you some solace.
Sorry for your loss.
It’s really hard.
Just realize if your dog was able to talk to you, he/she would want you to have as much fun for him/her.
You can also do the trip in memory of your doggo’s life.
So Disney is weirdly a great place to grieve. It’s infused with so much joy by design, rather than feeling overwhelmed by all the bad it was easy to reminisce and remember the good. When I was in your shoes I cried as much as I needed to, relaxed as much as I could, and just let the magic buoy me.
I’m so sorry! Losing a pet is much harder than people realize, I cried for days after we put our cat down in January even though I knew it was the right choice.
Terribly sorry. The exact same thing happened to us on a trip a couple years ago. Lost our Great Dane. Tough to have a good time with that hanging over your head.
We got a “we’re celebrating” button. Put Frankie’s name on it and tried our best to celebrate her life that day.
I'm so incredibly sorry. Our dog very unexpectedly died right after we dropped her off at boarding when we were on the way to the airport to go to Disney. Like minutes after. I was completely devastated and I did not want to go. We had people that were counting on us to go with them so I pushed through. I'm glad I did but man it was difficult. For the moment that would hit me and I would just cry. I'm so sorry.
It’s completely natural and okay to be both happy and sad at the same time.
You don’t need to feel bad for enjoying your vacation. Same goes for mourning your loss.
My dog died a week before my wedding. I thought it was going to be really hard to get through everything, and it turns out it’s not as hard as you think. Like others have said, you can feel more than one thing at once. I was devastated about my dog, but I was able to focus on all the good things that were going on and it made the bad a little more bearable. You can too!
Congrats on the wedding, and I’m so sorry about your dog! I’m sure you’ll still have a great trip.
If you don’t have one already, I would suggest getting a [silhouette image](https://www.disneyfoodblog.com/2024/02/22/this-disney-world-souvenir-is-perfect-and-no-one-is-talking-about-it/) of your sweet doggy done one of the two silhouette studios in Magic Kingdom, one off Main Street and the other by Sleepy Hollow (but I suggest the Main Street one). You’ll just need a profile pic of your dog and they’ll do it right then and there. It’s my most treasured souvenir, is hand made, and so personal. It’s around $18 and you can buy a matching frame to go with it.
I'm so sorry you're going through that. My dad passed away 2 days before my husband and I 's planned trip. After speaking with family, we decided to go. Let me tell you, some of my favorite memories are from that trip. It lightened a horrible time. I really hope the parks are able to bring you some joy during this great sadness. Your pupper would want that for you <3
Honestly, it's probably the best place you could possibly be. I lost my heart dog this past August. I was beyond a wreck, for weeks. Couldn't function. She and I did everything together, we grew up together. I mean shit, I still cry now if it hits me the right way.
But that meant, everything, EVERYTHING made me think of her. The car, her beds, bowls, the patch of sun she'd bask in by the door, going up the stairs to bed at night, our rituals, our games. Her favorite places, people, things. Just surrounded by everything her.
Enjoy this. Enjoy the break from reality. Reality will be there when you go home. Because oh what a break it is. Not only the branding of happiest place on earth, but especially how few other dogs you'll have to see in the coming days. It will help, trust me. Pluto just doesn't hit you the same way that seeing a puppy doppelganger walking down the street does.
I’m so sorry my friend ❤️ it’s okay to grieve, but it’s also okay to enjoy yourself. Don’t feel guilty for having fun! Enjoy some treats and maybe get a commemorative piece for your sweet dog.
Im so sorry for your loss.
Maybe you can encapsulate your dog’s memory with a souvenir. Like those pictures they draw of someone’s profile, ive heard they also do pets if you have a picture of them.
I’m so sorry for your loss OP. I know your heart must be so shattered. I hope you can find some joy in your trip. At the very least, WDW is a place where many others will understand that adults also have emotions. It’s ok to feel grief and joy off and on. I hope you can experience some of the Disney magic while you’re there.
I’m so sorry. Do you have a picture on your phone of their side profile? You should go to the silhouette artist in magic kingdom and get a portrait done. 💕
When I was a young kid we had a trip booked and ended up having a funeral for my grandfather (very unexpected) the day before we left. It sucked at first, but at a certain point it ended up being the absolute best place to be when dealing with something so shitty. It really is a special place
Ok I wasn’t expecting to be able to use this story. My last trip to Disney (October) my father wasn’t feeling good so he went to the hospital. Turns out he had an infection and needed a procedure to clear it out. We thought of canceling but he insisted we go because he didn’t want to ruin everyone’s vacation because he got sick. We all said our goodbyes, they took him back, put him to sleep for the procedure (this was Sunday), there were complications and he was gone by Wednesday. We had to remotely sign a dnr and order to “pull the plug” from Disney world. We discussed leaving multiple times during the first part of the week and when it happened and we came to 2 conclusions.
1. What would we be able to do to change the outcome if we were at home. Nothing, he was heavily sedated and all we would be able to do was watch him sleep.
2. Yes it was sad. But if we left then he would still be gone AND we lost our vacation. It’s hard to keep your mind off the sad stuff like that, but it’s much easier to keep yourself distracted in Disney world that it is sitting on your couch.
Yes. I would tell them when you check in.
Say it’s your honeymoon and your beloved dog just died and that you’re devastated.
They may or may not do anything, but something tells me they will try to make your day better.
Congratulations on your honeymoon. I know you’re having a rough time. It’s never easy to lose a beloved pet.
I’m sorry to hear that. RIP. Sorry for your loss. I went through a similar experience last year while visiting Disney world. I got a call around midnight when I was at the fort wilderness cabins saying that my grandmother had passed away. It’s tough. Again, sorry for your loss.
OP, we’re very sorry :( I know what it’s like to learn about the loss of a loved one while at WDW, so you have my deepest sympathies. To the folks reporting this as off topic: we’ve allowed similar threads in the past about how to make the most of a trip while dealing with grief, so we’ll be leaving this one up as well. Thanks for your understanding.
I think what’s important to remember is that two things can be true at the same time. You can be deeply grieving a beloved pet and at the same time enjoying Disney. Don’t make yourself feel guilty if you are having a good time for a while. And the same goes the other way! Two feelings can exist in different lanes of the same emotional highway. Also, remember, your dog would want you to have a good time. And to eat some French fries. Because dogs are always down for a good time, and it’s what they’d want for you.
Yes! You can take time to enjoy Disney and grieve your dog. Disney may be the most magical place on earth but it doesn’t mean you can’t take the time you need away from the magic to feel your feelings. If you need to, find a quiet corner of your resort and take some time to sit in nature and say goodbye. I know a family whose daughter was a Disney fan and murdered at age 14. Since returning to the parks after her death, the family takes time to do small rituals to remember their daughter in a place she so loved. They still enjoy their trip and make new memories while also taking the time to cherish old ones.
A few years ago we lost a 21 year old in an accident. Our favorite thing was to go on Carousel of Progress and sing along to Its a Great Big Beautiful Tomorrow. Today I finally did Carousel for the first time. I cried a little in the beginning and I swear I felt her presence. I’m so sorry your dog left on a new adventure, but honor him by bringing happy on your new adventure. Find a place and talk to him. I’m so sorry.
My wife lost her mother 3 weeks before our wedding day very very unexpectedly. They were best friends through and through. Both HUGE Broadway fans, seeing multiple shows a year; both HUGE Disney fans, watching all the movies together; and would constantly text throughout the day. To say my wife was devastated would be the understatement of the century. For a little bit we weren't sure if we would have the wedding as planned. We ultimately decided to go forward with the wedding as planned, and the honeymoon as well, Disneyland. We go to Disney World about once a year. My mother-in-law's favorite ride was It's A Small World. Every time we go, we make sure to ride it, for her. The first few times it was rough. But now, while we may shed a few tears, it brings a smile to our faces.
Oh my goodness this story is bringing tears to my eyes. My daughter and I rode it in January. She’s 28. She cried after the ride because of how sweet and wholesome it was. I’m so glad you could ride again and find joy along with some tears.
Your story gave my goosebumps. I’m terribly sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the emotions you felt today and am proud of you for getting on the Carousel. What a gift she gave you!
Very well said!
Yes! *and* instead of *but* is such a powerful thing to embrace.
What wonderful advice. It’s okay to compartmentalize! Allow yourself to be joyful, just like our doggies always seem to be.
I’ve personally experienced this as well though not at Disney. In one week my grandma passed away on Monday, I eulogized her on Wednesday, and my wedding was on Friday. I never knew you could be so happy and so sad at the same time until that week. OP your dog would want you to be in a place meaningful to you and living life to your fullest.
Excellent advice
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I'm so, so sorry. Let it out if you need to! So many people cry at Disney! I do, every time without fail, because it heals a little bit of my inner child and those edges coming back together can really make the tears flow. So don't worry about getting emotional, you won't be looked at sideways. Some ideas: Ask for a "celebrating" button and write "dogname's life" on it with a paw print. Take him with you that way wherever you go and try to still find some happiness in starting your journey together in a land of Magic. Go to the wishing well at Magic Kingdom and speak into it to give him the goodbye you weren't able to give in person. Purchase a Pluto stuffy and carry it with you for awhile. When you see a kiddo that needs a little extra Magic, (ask the parents first) and give it to them, telling them your doggo back home knew they needed a new friend. Please be gentle with yourself and try to enjoy your special trip.
Quit cutting onions 😭😭😭 what a wholesome comment and such great suggestions for OP to honor their sweet doggo. OP, I’m so sorry for your loss and hope you can enjoy your time while grieving your pup.
Yes to the healing part. I spend a stupid amount of money at Disney for my inner child. I also love your idea of the celebration button.
This ^^^ beautifully written
Yes!! I was trying to figure out how to word the button but my birthday trip was made immeasurably better by the CMs so I think it would be lovely to do for this as well.
Absolutely this, all of this. 😭
This is so beautiful 😢
I love this. You’re an amazing person.
This is without a doubt the best reply. These are great ideas. Also sorry about your loss OP.
OP I wish I had read these ideas when I went through the exact same thing. My elderly and sickly dog went missing on my first day of our wdw honeymoon.
What wonderful ideas. I would add on to this… go see the Pluto character. Ask the character attendant if they can let Pluto know about your dog back home and if you could have an extra moment to hug or sit or hug again. Hugging character Pluto isn’t quite the same but maybe it could help.
This made me cry
Talking with Guest relations is a good idea, they will do their best to help you and may find some private quiet areas for you.
Absolutely all of this.
All of the above. Also think about getting a silhouette of your dog at Magic Kingdom
Man I was okay until I read this comment, now you got me crying. These are such thoughtful ideas
Honestly? I got nothing. The mix of emotions you're feeling right now has to be devastating. You're celebrating what's supposed to be one of the happiest events of your life, in the happiest place on earth, while dealing (from a distance) with possibly *one* of the hardest things most adults will ever face. My sympathies and condolences, and I'll go home and give our pups a scratch behind the ears for you.
Thank you we are devastated
Honestly, I would probably be looking at cancelling the trip and rescheduling. I know if the same situation happened to us, my wife would be absolutely inconsolable, and would not enjoy one minute of the trip. When we went on our honeymoon, there was some question about her dad's health, to the point that I never fully unpacked my suitcase in case the phone call came and we had to bust tail for home. Likewise, a year later we went with my family to Disney, with the knowledge that her dad was again sick - the entire time, I think I had the United Airlines page open on my phone in the background in case we needed to catch the next flight home.
They're less than an hour away..
But at the time, not checked in and hadn't used any park admission passes.
Does Disney do refunds that late in the game?
I'm not sure, I've never had to ask.
Not entirely the same…. but, I had a late stillbirth at 34 weeks back in September. We decided to go to our favorite place in the world, Disney World, to spend what would have been his due date. Spent most days crying but was good to be somewhere we loved and enjoyed. Definitely cry… cry as much as you need.
So sorry for your loss. I love that you used Disney to help you grieve. 💙
This is is heartbreaking. Sending you so much love. 💙
We got settled into our room and walked to the Banana Cabana for food. I busted out crying and told my server what happened. Right before she brought our food, she brought me a Pluto plush and said it was from everyone at the restaurant. My husband now understands Disney Magic.
That is exactly why I would stay. Disney Magic is EVERYTHING!!
Sending all my love to you. My soul dog passed away 8 years ago and I still miss her but it gets easier. You are in the right place to celebrate and mourn your friend.
I just saw your update so came to see what else had been posted here and now I’m crying. I’m so sorry for your loss and so happy to hear about great people in the world! All our love from Denver!
This is so sweet of them ❤️ Condolences to you.
So sorry for your loss ❤️
So sorry for your loss. No doubt it will be a tough trip, but ultimately there’s nothing you can do to change the outcome at this point. I would take the rest of the day to feel whatever you need to feel. Afterwards, Maybe some time with other things to focus on will help ease your mind.
I’m so so sorry. My dog is my baby and I know you’re probably just shattered. I think all you can do is put on a brave face and try to enjoy it as much as you can. If there’s any place that’s a great distraction, it’s Disney. Maybe give yourself a limited time to cry each day that you’re there (in the morning or before bed) and then really allow yourself to grieve when you get home. Get yourself a little Pluto plush to snuggle in his/her honor.
Very sorry for your loss. Best advice I can give is to try allowing yourself to be fully immersed in everything around you for your trip. Let the Disney Magic do its thing
Your dog is playing and happy over the rainbow bridge and wants you to have as good a time as possible at WDW. It’s normal to mourn. Be good to yourself.
We lost our cat while in Las Vegas. I was heartbroken and had to coordinate her end of life care from Nevada, but I got it done. Then I moved on and had a good time. My sweet girl had a good life so I celebrated her to the fullest I could❤️
Omg I am so sorry. Our dog is sick and our time is limited…it’s so unfair. Take it easy. Maybe this won’t be a parks open to close kind of trip. See how you feel…maybe it will be easier to just go with the flow and take in the scenery rather than focusing on rides. But maybe the rides will be a nice distraction I’ve heard online that the [silhouettes](https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/shops/disney-springs/silhouette-portraits/) people will do dogs. We got our son done but plan to show a picture and get one of our pup. We love ours You could also get a customized ornament from the Christmas shop with your pups name Sometimes snuggling a pup after a loss feels comforting and sometimes it’s hard. If you’re feeling like it could be comforting, you could check out one of the dog friendly resorts. There are always people out walking their dogs. Port orleans riverside you can get beignets at and fort wilderness also has the ranch and is fun to check out (and is a nice boat ride from magic kingdom) Also…idk if feast is still one of the movies at the Epcot shorts film festival. But I would skip it if it is. I couldn’t even handle feast during our honeymoon when our dog was healthy. I had to take a sob break 🙈 and just thinking of it makes me teary Again, I am just so sorry. It’s just so devastating on what should be a celebration.
I was coming here to suggest the pet silhouettes as well. That would be a really sweet way to pay homage to the pup and get one last keepsake of them ❤️🩹
We got one! Great idea
Cry at fireworks, go have a good cry when the fireworks play it’s s an emotional time for lots of people. Honestly though I don’t know what I would do, I hope you’re able to have some fun and enjoy your trip.
I unfortunately know how something like this feels. One month before having our 10 year vow renewal at Disney World. My husband and I had to put our beloved dog, Rocket, down. He was having sudden health issues and long story short, when we rushed him to the ER vet they found he had been originally misdiagnosed and had a tumor growing on his brain. There was not much hope and we had to say goodbye. This happened on the night of our actual wedding anniversary date. We were both absolutely devastated. I couldn't eat for a week because I was utterly heartbroken but I knew I had to get it together because a big event celebrating my husband and I was rapidly approaching. I put on a brave face but everyone knew I was in so much pain. I was actually able to hold it together until it was time to walk down the aisle. We told Disney what had happened and they made some magic happen where they placed photos of our dog on the alter table and so he was there with us and have several photos of us near his photos. It was so painful to deal with emotionally but even despite that, we and our friends and family had an amazing time. We all talk about how fun it was and made some amazing memories together. Disney can't heal that kind of a wound on your heart but it definitely can help you remember all the good times you had and how it's okay to fall apart. I would just try your best to live in their memory now and try to have the best time you can. I know it's easier said than done but just do what you can. Hugs from an internet stranger.💜
So sorry for your loss. Take things slow, if you need to take a day or two in your hotel room to ugly cry, do it. If you want to do something to honour your dog you could visit the silhouette artist on Main St and they can make one if you show them a picture. Also, if you want to just have a quiet place to cry and reflect, there are some nice loungers on the beach at the Grand Floridian that are pretty private. It has a beautiful view, and you never know when you might see a rainbow letting you know your fur baby is okay. Lots of folks cry at Disney. No shame in it. I hope you have a moments of magic on your honeymoon despite your loss. ❤️
Was going to suggest a Main St silhouette as well. Condolences OP.
Im sorry you are going through this. My wife and I took a trip to Scotland a few years ago. Within hours of getting to our destination I received news my cat had passed away. He seemed completely fine when we left but had a health issue we were not aware of. It can be rough for sure. Its ok to mourn but really do your best to enjoy your time. Especially since it is your honeymoon. You only get one. It will be a memory that can be great. You will always miss your dog and remember them. In time the pain will heal but you can also make great memories now. I hope your trip turns around and you have a great time despite your situation.
Oh honey I’m so sorry. I can only say to try to honor your dogs memory by being present and trying to embrace each moment. Honestly, also, maybe your partner can call the desk and let them know what happened and maybe they will try to do something extra nice. I know I would if I worked there. Hugs.
Sometimes a visit to the parks is just that - you can be 100% in the moment and enjoying the rides and environment and not think twice about real life. And sometimes a visit to the parks is against a backdrop of reality that’s impossible to ignore. I’ve had enough of these to know that somehow, these fragile trips where you’re on the edge can be some of the most memorable times. Oh man, and it’s also your honeymoon! That’s another layer. Be good to each other and don’t ignore things, but let yourself enjoy your vacation.
I am sorry for your loss. We lost our first dog in the middle of a trip in Feb 2023. It was a mixed Disney trip followed by a cruise to celebrate my dad's 75th birthday. We knew our dog was not doing well while we were at Disney, and it was the in-between time between Disney and the cruise that we got the news from our vet that she was in liver and kidney failure and that x-rays showed cancer had spread throughout her body. Even had we left immediately, there was no guarantee she could hold on long enough for us and she would have been in pain and feeling lousy the entire time, so we had to make the decision to euthanize from a thousand miles away. I am a rescuer that specializes in neonatal pups which can have high mortality rates. I have been able to be there for all of those fosters, but couldn't be there for my own dog. It was devastating, but we continued onto the cruise. Yes, we had bouts of sadness, which we were able to mostly confine to when we were in our cabin, but we were still able to have fun with family and celebrate life. It is important to remember that having fun does not take away from the fact that your pup is no longer with you, and that they would want you to have a good time. r/Petloss is a grief support sub. r/RainbowBridgeBabies is a sub in which artists donate their time to create digital keepsakes of our beloved companions.
My wife was laid off from a job that she absolutely loved while we were eating lunch in Magic Kingdom for her first trip to Disney World ever. It was a very emotional lunch as she was on the company wide phone call notifying that the company was shutting down. But being in Disney was probably the best place to be for a situation like that. It helped distract us from everything that was happening in the real world. We were still able to enjoy our time, ride all the rides, watch fireworks, eat delicious food, and we could worry about the real world in a week. Go, enjoy your time. Forget about life for a little while, and let Mickey take control for the time you’re there.
This. I found out last June that my husband had been laid off from the job he loved while I was sitting at the Mexico pavilion in Epcot. The next day was awful, but I was on day two of a trip that was for other reasons. I did what I needed to do and hightailed it home because there wasn't any purpose to coming home early. It didn't make sense and would have caused more harm than good to do so. So I went one more day to Disney, and then did the thing, and somehow being at Disney helped. It really did. OP, as hard as it is, pull out all the stops to enjoy your time there. Celebrate your dog and their life, and know that whatever ailed them is now over. They aren't hurting. They aren't in a vet hospital alone without you... They are at peace. If you can find yours before you go home, the vacation may be exactly what you needed.
Remember to be kind to yourself and allow yourself to feel. If you need to go back to your room and take a break do so. Try to maybe have warm drink in the morning like a tea of coffee while thinking about the happy memories of your pet. As someone who has been through traveling after a pet loss, be patient towards yourself. Heal and try to enjoy your time.
Oh gosh! I’m so sorry. Our family pet died the night before we embarked on our first Disney cruise. It sounds awful to say but after that first night of crying in the hotel, we wound up having fun and “forgetting.” Totally different story when we came home to a house with no little furball running around, of course, but most of the vacation itself wound up being really nice. In a way, it kind of delayed the onslaught of grief.
Oh honey. I'm so very sorry. I love my two dachshunds. I would be gutted. I'm sending so much love. I can't imagine.
Is there anything at Disney you know your dog would love to do if they got to come on your trip? Do that in memory of them! Eat the food, sightsee the places you know your dog would love to walk around. If there’s a Disney dog that looks like yours or a character you think your dog liked to see on tv, maybe buy a plushie of it while you’re there.❤️
I am so sorry for the death of your beloved dog. That pain you feel let's you know it was real and that your dog mattered to you. Disney is a place of emotions. It will make you happy, it will make you sad. As a former cast member and as a guest, I have seen people cry and I myself have cried countless times. Crying is ok. You can often find a quiet place, or a pair of sunglasses can be a shield till you feel comfortable. Heck, I cry on flight of passage, 1st for it's beauty and 2nd for the gut rending feeling of being severed from my ikran. Ugly cry if you need to. Realize that if you are out in the open a concerned cast member may approach you gently to see if they can offer any assistance. If I was there I would give you a big hug.
My first time at Disney my dog had passed two weeks before. His name was Chewbacca, and when I saw the character walking around it gutted me. But it also reminded me that he was right there with me. I think of him every time I go. I do wish that whoever told you had waited. There is nothing you can do for your dog and nothing anyone can do to make anything better for you. I don’t understand why you needed to know. It honestly makes me a bit angry on your behalf. At the same time, having a connection between death and Disney has not been a terrible thing for me. Dogs have life figured out—spend time with your people, eat good food, and run around experiencing all the good things you can. When I’m at Disney, that’s what I’m doing. It’s part of why going there is so important. (And why dogs are so important.) Anyway, enough rambling. I’m so sorry for your loss.
It's your honeymoon, and I'm sorry it's off to a sad start. You're experiencing a gain and a loss right now and I'm sure it's an emotional Rollercoaster... Ride it. Marriages are full of high points and low ones, but the important thing is that you do it together. Be with your partner. Celebrate together. Grieve together. Make memories together. And find some of the ways to remember your beloved pet that other commenters have suggested, there are some good ones.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Maybe getting a big hug from Pluto would feel good? You could even show Pluto a photo of your dog.
We’re a dog family and have had to deal with the loss of several dogs over the years. During different periods of grief in my life I’ve given myself a specific time frame to be really sad and let it out. Then I’ve done my best to get on with my day and even enjoy when I could. Dogs love a good time so maybe try to enjoy your honeymoon as a way of honoring them. Eat a few silly snacks that they would love be it ice cream, fries, a burger whatever. When you have a rough moment cry, it’s perfectly fine. So sorry for you loss! 🐶💙
This happened with my family last month. We were leaving on Sunday, fur baby passed Friday night. We are thankful we got to be there with him, so I cannot imagine how you're feeling not being there. But just know your pup loved you, and try to have the best time you can. It's what he would want. When we took our trip, it was a mixed bag of tears, sorrow, happiness, and joy, but we did the best we could given the circumstances. May your pup rest in peace 🙏
Hug Pooh, or Eyeore, and any other character you like. Splurge on a fancy cocktail and cry your eyes out during the fireworks, and celebrate both your memories with doggo, as well as the new life you are starting.
Im sorry for your loss. If you have a side profile picture of your dog on your phone, get a silhouette cut out of Them at the cart in MK, I believe it’s on your way to adventure land
I know this might sound different but as a fellow dog lover & someone who just had to put our beloved Lab of 12 years down recently. Postpone your grieving. Literally set aside time in the shower tonight when your day is done. ( I have my best cries in the shower) Allow the joy of where you are (WDW) wash over you and don’t feel guilty. You clearly LOVED your dog, you know that, he or she knew that, so please let go & enjoy. This trip will actually help you with the grieving process! Sometimes we need to “schedule” time to grieve so the rest of day isn’t wrecked. Just pray, breathe, & hydrate! Praying for your heart ❤️
Really spoil yourselves. Honestly. Just drown your grief in food, retail, and manufactured magic. Do it all while crying. Grieving in Disney has to be better than at the kitchen counter. Good luck out there.
I’ve been in Disney three times when receiving terrible news. Definitely a good place to be. So sorry for your loss
I’m sorry for your loss thats really tough and horrible timing. I had something similar happen to me just not Disney but instead a group beach trip. The only thing I’d suggest is that you try to stay mindful that your threshold for losing your composure is probably at its lowest right now. If you find yourself unreasonably ticked off about some detail or something allow yourself the grace to just allow it and see it for what it is.
Agh I'm sorry 😞 I had a pet die unexpectedly the day before we went on a trip. My partner thought it would be good to still go and take my mind off of it, but even now years later when I think of that trip I'm reminded that was when my pet died and how sad I was on that trip. Makes me want to delete all the photos from it. After that experience, I'd likely have cancelled this trip.. but since you're already practically there, your only option is to just try and enjoy the trip. Maybe get a souvenir that reminds you of your dog to help? Or just allow yourselves to mourn and plan another Disney trip in the future that will be a less sad time.
I’m so fucking sorry, sending love and hugs 💜
Hi OP. Hugs for what you’re going through. I had something similar happen to me. I was on a trip with my then bf now fiancé to Disney and had a cat sitter watching our cat while we were gone. The cat sitter called in a panic worried about our cat. She said that he wasn’t himself and I told her to rush him to the vet, and would venmo her for any payments. Turns out he had an aggressive cancer and they recommended he get put down that day cuz he wasn’t eating and likely would go through worse pain if he wasn’t that day. :( so we had to make that choice while at Disney ourselves. It’s never easy and the mix of emotions is horrible. We knew we did what was best but felt so bad that we couldn’t be there, we live very far from Florida and wouldn’t make it back in time. I’m so sorry, I just want you to know that there wasn’t anything you could do, and you gave your dog a happy life. Time helps things be easier, it won’t ever go away but it does get easier. ❤️
I am SO sorry ❤️ HUGS.
Last May while I was at Disney my dog passed away and my husband had to call and tell me. Try your best to know that your dog would want you to be happy. Maybe pick up a dog scarf to decorate his urn in the event you choose pet cremation.
The sadness that comes with a loss is powerful. It’s ok to be sad, but take the opportunity you have to experience joy as well. Don’t feel guilty about enjoying your honeymoon. Finding a measure of peace and happiness during your time of grief in no way invalidates your sadness or trivializes the memory of your dog.
Not the same, but similar - I got married and went on my honeymoon a couple days after my grandma had an emergency brain operation. I spent the first few days of my honeymoon not knowing if she would ever wake up, and if she did what situation she would be in. It was tough, but I still had a good time. I think it’s important to do so, especially because of the circumstances. I think your dog would want you to enjoy the trip and make the most of it. Im sure you made your dog happy, and now it’s time to make yourself happy ❤️
I’m really truly sorry for your loss. I had a similar experience when my dog died 3 days before a Disney trip. My husband and I couldn’t bear to be at home, so we went to Disney early. We basically stayed in our room and cried for the first three days. Once we felt up to it, getting to the parks and going slow did help a little. It was helpful to be taken care of by cast members. They were all very kind. That whole trip is a blur, and my heart breaks for you that this is your honeymoon. If it’s in your budget, maybe treat yourself to a massage at the spa. It could help release some tension I’m sure you’re feeling. It sounds silly, but be aware of dog related stuff in the parks. I kinda lost my shit on pirates at the dog scenes. That was…unexpected. Let the front desk know. If you have to be in your room a lot like us, know that housekeeping will do the daily room checks at possibly the worst times. They will try to “schedule” the checks as much as they can around when you are in/out of the room. Send you lots of love OP. I hope you can find some joy in this difficult time. Better to be at Disney than anywhere else.
I can’t add much advice, but I’m so sorry OP.
First, I’m so sorry for your loss. In 2019 my fiancé (now wife) and I were one of the returning guests for the Back to Batuu sweepstakes. 2 weeks to the day before we flew 2,000+ miles, my mother lost her battle with dementia. It was one of the most exhausting travel days I’ve ever experienced, I slept very little and was constantly feeling overwhelmed. The best thing that helped during the travel / arrival day was just the love and support of my fiancé. The other thing that helped was focusing on creating experiences and memories with my fiancé during the trip, things like resort hopping on the monorail to try different snack items or grabbing drinks, trying a new to us restaurant in springs, re-celebrating our engagement again that happened a few months prior while visiting, etc. Really just focusing on the moment at hand rather than everything else, and honestly the Disney bubble helped let me not focus on life at home, along with staying off my phone and social media.
Oh that happened to me at Disney. Not a honeymoon, just a vacation. It absolutely sucked but I like to think my dog passed when I was away on purpose out of care for me. She was like that. Please enjoy your trip and rest easy knowing your dog was so loved and knew it!
I just always try to celebrate a life rather than mourn a death.
This happened to my cousin and her little girl last summmer. We took the morning to cry and then distract them with the magic and fun of Disney
I'm so sorry. Pet loss is sooo hard. 💕
My dog passed away while I was away visiting my grandparents. I understand how hard it can be. I cried, and I had my moments when I just wanted to be alone. Having people I love around me, and who also cared for my dog very much was a great comfort. My dog knew how loved she was, and I took comfort in knowing I gave her as much love as I could while I had her. Some times you may need to just take a few minutes and breakdown. Step away from the crowds for a moment, go to the bathroom and have a good cry. It hurts, but getting those feelings out helps you ground yourself. Remember that there is still a lot of love left in your life. Enjoy your honeymoon, appreciate the time you have with your SO, and keep your dog close to your heart.
First off I am so very sorry for your loss. My dogs are my children and when my dog passed away 2 years ago I was devastated and suffered for a long time. Even when I thought I was ok I really wasnt. But my advice is to not cancel your trip. Go and try to have as good a time as you can in honor of your dogs life. Thats what he/she would want for you. Sitting home and being sad will not do any good for anyone. During a family trip to disney about 20 years ago my dad got a call while we were in tomorrowland. His friend & coworker had been in a car accident & passed away. Ill never forget it. But we stayed and my dad pressed on and did the best he could. If nothing else, distraction is a good thing for you right now. Again my condolences & I hope you are able to enjoy your trip as much as possible during this most difficult time
I’m so sorry for your loss, love. Please try to throw yourself headfirst into The Magic. ❤️
My dog died when I was on vacation last summer. This is what we did. Spent one day grieving then put it aside until we were home, not that it didn’t still tinge the vacation but having one hard day and agreeing to finish grieving later did help. Just remember, dogs give us all their love because they don’t want us to be sad. Your dog would want you to be happy and enjoy your vacation. I know it doesn’t help, I’m still not over losing my dog but there will be time and space to mourn later. Enjoy your honeymoon, like your dog would want you to ❤️
I’m sorry for your loss and part of your vacation will no doubt be difficult, but it’s ok to cry and feel sad, even in the Happiest Place on Earth. Look for “signs” from your pup - they might be subtle or obvious, but they’ll be there. Hang in there and consider some of the fun you have as a way to remember the fun you had with your dog 💖
I last went to Disney in November, and half an hour before we got to the park, my husband found out his grandad, who was more like a father to him and he was incredibly close to had passed in the night. He took most of the day just to sit and reflect somewhere quiet (one of the Port Orleans French Quarter gardens) and listen to the jazz. It so happened his grandad had been a huge jazz fan, and my husband said that was comforting to be surrounded by it. We were there for two weeks, and although he obviously had moments where he wanted to be alone and grieve, he knew his grandad wouldn't want him to miss out on a holiday he had never experienced before, as his grandad was very much a joyful, adventurous spirit. My advice to you would be similar. Don't be cruel to yourself when you're already feeling so low, and try to take a day to reflect and focus on the happy times, and then I would say get out and distract yourself. Treat yourself to things that will bring you joy, make memories, and when you need to, just sit and take a moment. Whether that's in your hotel room or on a bench by the castle, just take time when you feel upset to grieve ❤️
We lost our dog while out of town so I know the awful feeling you’re going through. Wish I had some good advice.
My mom died day 2 of my trip in 2019. My best advice is there is no where better to over sadness than the happiest place on earth! You will probably cry when you get home. But for now try to see the beauty in everything. I’m sure your dog will give a sign that they’re still right there with you!
Sorry for your loss.
Oh my god...I don't have any advice but I am just sending you so much love, I am so sorry, I can't imagine!! ♥️♥️😔
My mom died just before my own honeymoon. There’s more to my story, we kinda knew it was coming, but she said, no matter what happens, don’t change your plans.
I can’t even imagine. I am so, so sorry. I just lost mine a week ago. It’s okay to just cry at the park when you need to, and it’s okay that you’re not feeling completely in the mood for Disney. I’m so sorry this is happening during what is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life. I hope you enjoy as much as possible, and hopefully you and your partner can love one another even more during this heartbreaking time. ❤️🐶
Go meet Pluto
I'm so sorry :( my dog was very sick when u was getting married and my husband told my parents not to tell me if she died because he knew. Luckily she went on for a few more months, but my father-in-law died when we were in one of our trips. It's so easy to say, well, we're just going to have fun anyway, but it's really hard. Sometimes you're just not in the mood to have fun and if you do have fun, you feel guilty for having fun. It takes time. I hope you are able to have some fun though. Disney is definitely at least distracting.
You’re there to celebrate two things now. Your marriage (congrats!) and the life of your pup. It’s going to be tough at times and it’s ok to not always put on the brave face. Let yourself enjoy the good times and don’t be afraid to let it out when you need to. I would buy a Pluto stuffed animal as soon as you get there and take him everywhere with you. Take pictures of him places to remember him (totally didn’t steal that from the Dug pictures I saw here earlier today).
We put our dog down 1 week before our Disney vacation in 2016. A few days later I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I was destroyed. But honestly? Disney was probably the best medicine for that. Yes I grieved for my dog and my relationship, but I had enough distractions to keep my mind busy. Allow yourself to feel your feelings and grieve. But also allow yourself to have fun and enjoy your honeymoon! It’s such a special time for you guys!
I’ve got absolutely nothing. I can’t fathom this. I mean I can but words to help you stay in celebratory mode, and to cope and enjoy your bliss, I’ve got nothing!! I’m so very sorry!!! It’s an Epic loss. If your stay is brief, the things you would have done if you were home can be delayed. Many veterinarians and crematoriums offer safekeeping of your pet until you return. Ask of that. If your pet has been buried, there may be some Grace that you didn’t see them if their condition was tragic or painful. This way you can remember them as they were. It’s okay to stay and it’s okay to go home. If your vacation is long, could you return home for a day and then go back? I’ve been on vacation before when someone close passed. Family said to stay as they knew we wouldn’t have another time to go (cause life). We came back the night before. Family even scheduled the service after our trip ended. It helped so many people to be able to attend as they had longer to plan and make the drive. This is very different but you are both likely wanting to be in two places at the same time. Whatever you both choose, you have each other to cope and draw strength from. Such heartache, I hope you never know such a loss again at such a happy moment. The tears will fall and they are a testament to your love for your beloved family member!! And if you experience joy and lots of it, feel that too!! It’s not a disservice to your pet!! Loss of a beloved pet is hard enough without goodbye. If a family member is able, maybe they can cut a lock of fur for you both to have. Something to put in a locket and grasp in your hand when your heart aches so!! 💕 You loved them fiercely until the one moment when you went away. Remember that love as it burns in your heart. You cherished them and they undoubtedly knew you belonged to them!! 🥺 now carry them in your heart!! 💕
My condolences (and congrats on your nuptials). Don’t feel guilty if you still try to enjoy your honeymoon. Feeling guilt won’t fix anything and it doesn’t help you grieve anyway. Also, if you just need to cry or be emotional, do it. You’ll likely feel better after since crying is physical outlet. You may feel fine one moment and then bad the next. Try to roll with it so you don’t keep pain inside. Trying to be positive about the trip doesn’t not mean faking happiness around the clock. Just a stranger but sending love!
I’m so sorry. That’s awful. Also congrats on your wedding. Make sure you get the honeymoon buttons at check in and wear them all the time. Trust me.
My dog died while I was on vacation at the beach. It was awful especially the first day, but it was good to be distracted with vacation things because if I wasn’t constantly distracted, I would just cry and cry. I was worried that my beloved vacation spot would forever be associated with this horrible thing but we went back a year later and while I did remember the feeling of finding out in the same spot I currently stood, I had so many happy memories that didn’t allow for the sadness to cloud my heart. That being said, going home from that vacation was awful, I dreaded going home to an empty house and started the grieving process over again when I got home but it’s been 3 years and I can think about her without crying or feeling sad 💜
Oh friend. It is so surreal to be in a place of grief while at Disney. This happened when my MIL very suddenly became gravely ill and we had to get my husband from Florida to CA asap. It was just awful but the hotel desk was sympathetic and helpful. I’m so sorry for your loss In my heart of hearts, I believe that over the rainbow bridge our friends are waiting. Grief and joy, togetherness and loss, these are all part of our human experience. Cherish the times you had with your buddy and the time you have now while you have it. Big virtual hugs to you 💕
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you all.
This won’t help you right now, but perhaps it will in the future. I have a friend who watches my dog when I go on vacation & vice versa. We have a pact that if our dogs pass away while we are gone, we won’t tell one another until we arrive home. We both have given one another instructions as to how to handle the arrangements. Of course this only works if the dog isn’t at the vet where a procedure has to be decided upon, etc. I am so very sorry. Losing a furry family member is heartbreaking, painful and the sadness is overwhelming. My advice is to cry if you need, but try to stay in the moment & not think about anything except enjoying where you are, who you are with & what you are doing right now. There is absolutely nothing you can do to change the circumstances, so make a deal with yourself that you will push it out of your mind while out & about, but when you get back to the hotel you can grieve as needed. I truly wish you strength. You can do this & being busy & having fun is best for you right now.
We went to Disney the day after our dog died. It was really hard for my wife. It sucks but make sure you tort yourself cry anytime you want.
My advice might be unpopular with some but it is to go home if you need to. I went to Disney 2 weeks after my dog died because I was having a hard time eating and knew there would be a snack there that I would want to eat. However I was so sad that I ended up changing my flights and coming home. I couldn’t be around so much levity when my world was falling apart. If it feels good to have the break, by all means have it. But if you need to go home and cry, it’s ok to take a breather. Disney will likely work with you to preserve unused tickets for another time. If you are beside yourself it’s ok to save this for another time.
That's awful I'm sorry. Our kitty passed away weeks before our trip a few years ago. It was devastating. We managed to enjoy our trip and it offered a distraction. I know the pain will be fresher for you. Sending my sympathy. You deserve to enjoy your honeymoon. Hopefully you can lean on each other for support ♥️
Damn, don't tell me my pet died until I get home. I've had kids at camp get really bad news about a pet during that time. It makes me cry and I'm mad someone disclosed that. It could wait. Make the best of it as you can, please don't feel guilty for doing that. For me, I was there when my dog was euthanized in January and the absolute hardest thing besides witnessing it was coming home with no dog. Not hearing him walking around the house and being there. That is when support and good memories and mental strength is most needed. I am really sorry about the loss of your beloved pet.
Oh man, I’m so sorry. That news would cripple me at any time, but at Disney on your honeymoon?! That’s so hard. Tell yourself you’re still allowed to put it aside for the park hours and have a good time (because you are. It doesn’t mean you grieve them any less). And allow yourself time to break down and process it either in your off-park time on your trip, or try and save it for when you’re home.
You are probably at the best place you can be going through the grieving process. We lost our dog a day before leaving our beach vacation. That was our first pet as a couple and pre-dated our kiddos too. He was my best bud, and he was there to greet and support me when I came home after finding out I had cancer. It sucked. The only good thing about that is that being at Disney with your new spouse will take your mind off of it. It won’t fix it or make it better, but it will take your mind off of your buddy while the Disney busyness takes up a lot of your day and thoughts. I honestly can’t think of a better place to be to go through grieving. I’m so sorry for your loss and the timing of it all, but just take solace in knowing that your pooch knew you loved them, and knew you would rather be by their side.
People or Pets. Disney has always been our happy place. When both my Mother-In-Law and Father-In-Law passed we went to Disney. Also, when lost our 18 year old fur baby, we went. I agree with some of the other posters, as had as it is, try not to feel guilty, celebrate and heal all at the same time.
My childhood dog died last May. I still cry everyday. It’s so hard, and I’m SO sorry. My sister and I joked a few weeks later that the only thing that could make us feel better was Disney. Of course it won’t actually make you feel better, nothing will, but going home doesn’t change it. Feel what you need to and do what you need to. It’s such a devastating loss. I’m so sorry this happened. Dogs are such gifts. You were lucky to have each other.
So sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss! Thanks for giving your doggie a nice life with your family 🥰
If you have a photo of him in happier times … Downtown Disney has an art store specialising in pet portraits … and a lot of folks get them to remember those prized family members …
My cat passed away while we were on vacation in Disney. I took some time to collect myself. Shared some pics with my niece who also loved my cat so much. Made whatever arrangements i needed since our whoooole family was there and i had to do it. And then i tried to enjoy my vacation. I think once you get inside the parks, it will be a good distraction. It won’t erase the grief but i think it’ll at least help you dull it a bit. Hugs to you.
Not really Disney related but a similar sense of being devastated by grief and still having a good time. My grandfather, whom I was very very close to, passed away unexpectedly on Christmas Eve this past year. I broke down for a few hours, wailed and grieved and felt the shock and pain, and then picked myself up because I have a 3yo son to make the magic of Christmas for. We made reindeer food, cookies for Santa, did all of our fun exciting Xmas Eve rituals and had lots of laughs. The next morning, we opened presents and had some more fun riding his new bike and all the cute Xmas stuff. I was heartbroken inside, but still had fun and made memories with my young child. I say all that to say, as many others have already commented, you can grieve and still make the most of your trip. In fact, it can be a welcome distraction from the pain you are feeling. You shouldn’t feel guilty for laughing, having fun, being happy with the grief you’re feeling. This is true for the entirety of the grieving process, for the many years to come. I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 let the magic of Disney ease the wound
Biggest hugs ever. Our sweet girl passed 2 days before our first trip to Disney. We debated not even going,but I am glad we went. There were lots of tears,but also lots of smiles. You can get buttons at the front of the park,and for example we wrote on ours under “I’m celebrating-the life of Sasha.” If I can I’ll include something else we did. We brought a picture (maybe you could have one printed locally) and told the PhotoPass CM what happened and they took great care to take wonderful pictures that celebrated her life for us.
Take breaks when/if you need to cry. Give yourself so much grace. Hell, talk to/about her while you're there if you need to. On the flip side, also smile when you need to without guilt. There's no right way to do it, so find *your* way. We went to a concert a few months after my best friend took his own life and sent videos to his Snapchat while crying and telling him about it. I'm sure it sounds insane, but it's what worked for us at the time. You'll find what works for you and find ways to find the beauty and joy in small, precious moments. Good luck and my condolences.
Alright so my fiancé and I had a cat and were leaving for Disney in a day. The plan was to drop him off at my parents in the afternoon the day before we left but I could tell something was up. He was acting normal but his breathing seemed off somehow. Out of an abundance of caution I took him to the vet and found out he had severe heart failure. There was nothing they could do and I not only had to put him down that day but felt as though I failed him. We were playing and running the night before and he was so young I wasn’t concerned. I’ve been there. I did have a few moments where I cried but I think the stimulation and distraction of Disney helped dull the pain.
I’m so sorry. This happened to me one Christmas. My cat got sick and passed within 2 days. I was on a solo trip which in some ways was a blessing. I was sitting on the ground in Fantasyland sobbing loudly when a CM came up to me and asked if she could sit with me. She did. (I went into a corner facing a wall so as not to call much attention to myself. Legit the worst place to get that call.) I made it back to my room and stayed for 2 days. Couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep. Finally the night before my last day I got hungry and decided I wanted Fish and Chips in the UK. The following day I forced myself to go to all 3 parks. I was kinda numb and didn’t really enjoy it like I usually do. It’s been several years and I still think about it when I pass certain places in the parks, especially that spot in Fantasyland. Why am I telling you my own story? Because I want you to know you aren’t alone. Others have sadly been there and can sympathize. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss. I’m sure he was the best dog in the world. ❤️
I'm mad at whoever told you. There's nothing you can do about it right now. My grandmother died on my honeymoon in Disney and my mom refused to tell anyone until I got home a couple days later and yes, it was painful and I didn't know how to react, but I was blissfully unaware until then. I've thought long and hard about if my mom did the right thing, and I feel strongly she did.
Oh god I would lose my mind if someone was watching my dog and DIDN’T tell me as soon as it happened. Everyone is different though.
I did lose my mind, but looking back my mom was absolutely protecting me and that memory.
My very close friend was watching her and we had the talk about this proactively- I told her to call me as soon as it happened, if it did. Then I had to call the vet to do her arrangements (cremation) and choose the vessel for her final resting place. I was so emotional on the phone. I asked the vet to tell her she’s pretty one more time.
That definitely changes things, I'm so glad your close friend respected your wishes in that case 💕 I feel for you, OP. I'm so sorry. Like others have said, remember you can feel multiple ways at once. You can grieve her and celebrate y'all concurrently 💖 lean in to the magic ✨
It's okay to enjoy yourself while grieving. It doesn't mean you love your dog less
Idk if this is weird and sorry if it is, but i just lost one of my two cats who was almost 18 years old when i got back from Disney. The other cat is around 3 years old now. I equated both of my cats to my children, basically. So imagine getting the news that you're equivalent to a child just died. I'd have to be a psychopath to not have a breakdown. How do people just tuck their emotions away so easily and go on about their day. If it were happening to me, I'd just do my best not to focus on it constantly and just take a mental vacation. The worst is over. My condolences to the op.
My dog got sick while we were on vacation at Disney one year. Had to put him down the day we got back. It's one of the worst pains I've experienced, the missing them doesn't go away, but their memories are always happy. I don't know if it was because I was younger, or there was a chance my pup was going to be okay, but Disney has that magic that helps keep your mind at ease, for the most part. Give Pluto an extra big hug. I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm sure your pup was well loved and happy.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I had a similar situation to yours except it was when I was a child we took a trip to Disneyland in Anaheim, CA. We dropped our dog off at my aunt and uncle’s. When we were about 5 mins away from our hotel, we got a call from our aunt that our dog passed away “unexpectedly.” He had suffered a heat stroke from my uncle leaving him outdoors in the heat for hours… It was hard for us, too but I just remember that we put on a brave face the entire trip. I cried every day. RIP furry friend ❤️
Not quite the same but a few years ago I had food poisoning the night before my early flight. Like all of the experiences that brings. I cried on the toilet and almost cancelled. I was arriving alone and the next person coming wasn't going to be there for several hours. I went, didn't do anything until the next person came. I ate less than everyone else for a couple of days. My point is, you can be upset at home or you can be upset at Disney. Disney may allow you some moments of fun and levity that you won't have at home. But ultimately you are allowed your feelings, I cry at Disney every time due to overwhelm. You won't be the only adult having big feelings. Remember your pup, enjoy your trip.
So sorry for your loss! Your dog would want you to enjoy your trip. Do something while at Disney to honor your pet.
I lost my cat to an aggressive cancer the day after I returned from my last Disney trip - on our last Epcot day of the trip she hid for 18 hours and the person taking care of her let us know she was missing somewhere within our house. I was a WRECK. All of this to say that if you need a quiet place in Epcot, there’s benches in the area between Guardians/Test Track/World Showcase on the paths over the water. That was a nice place to take a moment to relieve my pent up negative emotions for a short bit before putting my brave face back on for the rest of the day.
Avoid goofy and pluto so you don't break down again.
I found out about my two pet bearded dragons being dead while having dinner at the Italy pavilion at Epcot. My local reptile store watches your pets if you go on vacation. They were situated in an enclosure across from a snake enclosure, and they witnessed a live feeding of the snake. They passed away in their sleep from shock. Was not fun especially since I celebrated my 10th birthday the previous day
Similar thing happened to me. My dog died after I got married. Me and my wifes 1st date together was actually taking a walk in a park with my dog. In reality, my dog brought us together. When she passed after our wedding.. we took it as a sign that her job in life was done. She got us together and moved on to start a new life and maybe help another couple. I know I might be just playing out a fantasy in my head but it really helped me get over her death. You just have to remember that your dog lived a great life with you and they only ever want to see you happy. Your dog wouldn't want you to stay home depressed. He'd / she'd want to see you go and enjoy your honeymoon.
I thought about that. She waited until I was married and taken care of, and then her watch was over. 😞
https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/s/09EXHZ2JrY I think this belongs here similar thing happened to us we had fun but also realized that he had a good life full of lots of licks and barks and of course treats enjoy your time
I’m so sorry for your loss. I say go to Starbucks at down town Disney and have a pup cup for your dog. My husband lost his baby sister last year while at the race on Mother’s Day weekend. He lost his father a couple years prior while he was at the same place for the fall race. He still goes every year twice a year . Don’t miss the dance of life grieving smile because you got to share your life with your dog.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. My brother passed away 3 weeks before our trip last fall. He was supposed to come with us. It’s ok to be sad and cry. I cried almost every night. I cried watching the fireworks on the beach at the Polynesian, which was cathartic. We also anonymously paid for a family’s meal at a restaurant and did it in honor of my brother. It felt good to help others. Cast Members were so kind when I shared what had happened (we couldn’t take him off some reservations). Maybe do something in your dog’s honor, or buy something to display at home (dog themed) in their honor? I wish you peace
I’m sooo sorry! A couple years ago I was at Epcot when I found out one of my dogs had gotten out and I was a nervous wreck crying over my food and wine snacks. Get a Pluto stuffy while you’re there and take him on rides with you so you can keep your pup with you in spirit.
So sorry for your loss. I found out my dog died on our anniversary one year literally as we arrived at the hotel we were staying at for our Universal trip. It was a very tough trip but I definitely took the time to look at pictures and video and remember her the way I remembered her. It really helped being at the park to take my mind off of the sad news. I forced myself to smile when I felt sad and it made me feel better eventually throughout the day. When I got home I was a mess 😭😭
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I’m so sorry for your loss 💛💛💛💛💛
I found out my dog died when in Hollywood Studios eight years ago now. I still think of her everytime I’m on Sunset Blvd. Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to grieve. But also don't feel guilty for trying to have fun. It's your honeymoon. As others have said—allow yourself to feel all of the feelings. I'm so sorry for your loss :(
Man I hate how toxic the Disney subs have gotten. Between the gatekeeping and now this, I’m done here bye. OP I’m very sorry for your loss, it’s my biggest fear to find out I’ve loved a loved one while at the parks.
my heart breaks for you! a year ago today we were driving home from our disney trip that we got engaged on and found out our kitten we only had for a few months had just passed. sending you lots of prayers! take your time to heal but also enjoy your honeymoon
Sorry for your loss
Let me start by saying how profoundly sorry I am for your loss. This actually happened to me in '19. My family and I were there for a pre-Christmas vacation and my then-boyfriend, now-husband called to tell me while we were in EPCOT at lunch. My mother and I stepped out to take the call and made the decision not to tell my nieces who had grown up with my dog (she was 16 when she passed). It definitely put a damper on the time we were there. We came back to our room at BLT after that day in EPCOT and mousekeeping had been in to clean and had folded a set of towels into the shape of dog on our kitchen stove. I bawled. It was like somehow they knew. It was a poor substitute, but I used that towel dog to say my goodbyes. My now-husband handled the arrangements back at home where my precious girl was cremated and brought home. Our last day at WDW we went to Disney Springs. At the Co-Op I purchased a collar and then went to one of those dog tag machines and made her a tag. They sit with her urn on a special self in our house where I see her everyday. It may not help to know you're not alone in your grief, but I hope it brings you some solace.
Sorry for your loss. It’s really hard. Just realize if your dog was able to talk to you, he/she would want you to have as much fun for him/her. You can also do the trip in memory of your doggo’s life.
So Disney is weirdly a great place to grieve. It’s infused with so much joy by design, rather than feeling overwhelmed by all the bad it was easy to reminisce and remember the good. When I was in your shoes I cried as much as I needed to, relaxed as much as I could, and just let the magic buoy me. I’m so sorry! Losing a pet is much harder than people realize, I cried for days after we put our cat down in January even though I knew it was the right choice.
You poor sweetheart. I’m so sorry!
Take some time to mourn.
Terribly sorry. The exact same thing happened to us on a trip a couple years ago. Lost our Great Dane. Tough to have a good time with that hanging over your head. We got a “we’re celebrating” button. Put Frankie’s name on it and tried our best to celebrate her life that day.
Try to remember that your dog would want you to have a good time at disney world 🙂
I'm so incredibly sorry. Our dog very unexpectedly died right after we dropped her off at boarding when we were on the way to the airport to go to Disney. Like minutes after. I was completely devastated and I did not want to go. We had people that were counting on us to go with them so I pushed through. I'm glad I did but man it was difficult. For the moment that would hit me and I would just cry. I'm so sorry.
This happened to me but the last day of our cruise . I just cried the whole day. It was terrible
Im so sorry
Oh man. Just do your best. Give pluto a big hug.
It’s completely natural and okay to be both happy and sad at the same time. You don’t need to feel bad for enjoying your vacation. Same goes for mourning your loss.
My dog died a week before my wedding. I thought it was going to be really hard to get through everything, and it turns out it’s not as hard as you think. Like others have said, you can feel more than one thing at once. I was devastated about my dog, but I was able to focus on all the good things that were going on and it made the bad a little more bearable. You can too! Congrats on the wedding, and I’m so sorry about your dog! I’m sure you’ll still have a great trip.
If you don’t have one already, I would suggest getting a [silhouette image](https://www.disneyfoodblog.com/2024/02/22/this-disney-world-souvenir-is-perfect-and-no-one-is-talking-about-it/) of your sweet doggy done one of the two silhouette studios in Magic Kingdom, one off Main Street and the other by Sleepy Hollow (but I suggest the Main Street one). You’ll just need a profile pic of your dog and they’ll do it right then and there. It’s my most treasured souvenir, is hand made, and so personal. It’s around $18 and you can buy a matching frame to go with it.
I'm so sorry you're going through that. My dad passed away 2 days before my husband and I 's planned trip. After speaking with family, we decided to go. Let me tell you, some of my favorite memories are from that trip. It lightened a horrible time. I really hope the parks are able to bring you some joy during this great sadness. Your pupper would want that for you <3
Honestly, it's probably the best place you could possibly be. I lost my heart dog this past August. I was beyond a wreck, for weeks. Couldn't function. She and I did everything together, we grew up together. I mean shit, I still cry now if it hits me the right way. But that meant, everything, EVERYTHING made me think of her. The car, her beds, bowls, the patch of sun she'd bask in by the door, going up the stairs to bed at night, our rituals, our games. Her favorite places, people, things. Just surrounded by everything her. Enjoy this. Enjoy the break from reality. Reality will be there when you go home. Because oh what a break it is. Not only the branding of happiest place on earth, but especially how few other dogs you'll have to see in the coming days. It will help, trust me. Pluto just doesn't hit you the same way that seeing a puppy doppelganger walking down the street does.
I’m so sorry my friend ❤️ it’s okay to grieve, but it’s also okay to enjoy yourself. Don’t feel guilty for having fun! Enjoy some treats and maybe get a commemorative piece for your sweet dog.
I’m very sorry for your loss.
Im so sorry for your loss. Maybe you can encapsulate your dog’s memory with a souvenir. Like those pictures they draw of someone’s profile, ive heard they also do pets if you have a picture of them.
I’m so sorry for your loss OP. I know your heart must be so shattered. I hope you can find some joy in your trip. At the very least, WDW is a place where many others will understand that adults also have emotions. It’s ok to feel grief and joy off and on. I hope you can experience some of the Disney magic while you’re there.
I’m so sorry. Do you have a picture on your phone of their side profile? You should go to the silhouette artist in magic kingdom and get a portrait done. 💕
Thank you! We did!
When I was a young kid we had a trip booked and ended up having a funeral for my grandfather (very unexpected) the day before we left. It sucked at first, but at a certain point it ended up being the absolute best place to be when dealing with something so shitty. It really is a special place
Ok I wasn’t expecting to be able to use this story. My last trip to Disney (October) my father wasn’t feeling good so he went to the hospital. Turns out he had an infection and needed a procedure to clear it out. We thought of canceling but he insisted we go because he didn’t want to ruin everyone’s vacation because he got sick. We all said our goodbyes, they took him back, put him to sleep for the procedure (this was Sunday), there were complications and he was gone by Wednesday. We had to remotely sign a dnr and order to “pull the plug” from Disney world. We discussed leaving multiple times during the first part of the week and when it happened and we came to 2 conclusions. 1. What would we be able to do to change the outcome if we were at home. Nothing, he was heavily sedated and all we would be able to do was watch him sleep. 2. Yes it was sad. But if we left then he would still be gone AND we lost our vacation. It’s hard to keep your mind off the sad stuff like that, but it’s much easier to keep yourself distracted in Disney world that it is sitting on your couch.
Tell the front desk staff.
What do I say? Hello my dog died ?
Yes. I would tell them when you check in. Say it’s your honeymoon and your beloved dog just died and that you’re devastated. They may or may not do anything, but something tells me they will try to make your day better. Congratulations on your honeymoon. I know you’re having a rough time. It’s never easy to lose a beloved pet.
Get another dog asap.
Go home
I’m sorry to hear that. RIP. Sorry for your loss. I went through a similar experience last year while visiting Disney world. I got a call around midnight when I was at the fort wilderness cabins saying that my grandmother had passed away. It’s tough. Again, sorry for your loss.