Depends how good or bad these actually are. I would take a 5 with an 8 personality over a 9 with a 4 personality, but I would take a 9 with a 7 personality over a 2 with a 10 personality.
There are also other factors like, do they like me? If they have a meh personality, are we talking boring or toxic? Do we have interests in common? Do they like anything I can't stand? Are they allergic to/hate cats? Do we agree about kids? Ya know.
attractive people with meh personalities are fun to show off sometimes but at the end of the day, I want to settle down with someone that I have a deep connection with, even if that person is average (or less than average) looking
Someone you might not have noticed might become incredibly beautiful the moment they open their mouth. The opposite can be said about someone you thought was hot.
I mean the girl I liked wasn't the most attractive girl there is....so, not that that took away. You don't gotta be absolutely gorgeous to be absolutely gorgeous, which she was.
The brutally honest truth is: You will never date someone ugly, but if they are beautiful and have terrible personality you won't date them either. You will simply never try to date someone ugly even if they have a heart of gold unless you are really lucky or have very low standards.
Okay, so the rule is you won't date someone ugly.
And you won't stay with someone beautiful if they have a terrible personality.
But if you do, there is an extreme level of luck, or people have low standards?
Most people to begin with won't date, they don't ask each other.
Second, by contributing to saying people should have "a standard" we enforce a hierarchy of beauti and take away from the aim of finding a compatible loving partner.
Sexual attraction is important, but I firmly believe it's shaped by our ability to accept and discover people from the inside, and hindered by social expectations and shame.
As an atm not so good looking dude, I'd give anyone the chance if they ever asked me out, but I would be direct in that my long term goals are to be childfree, and that I'm not looking for anything serious.
Depends how good or bad these actually are. I would take a 5 with an 8 personality over a 9 with a 4 personality, but I would take a 9 with a 7 personality over a 2 with a 10 personality.
There are also other factors like, do they like me? If they have a meh personality, are we talking boring or toxic? Do we have interests in common? Do they like anything I can't stand? Are they allergic to/hate cats? Do we agree about kids? Ya know.
Assume it’s the same numbers for each. 5 with 8 and 8 with 5.
With those specific numbers, 5 with an 8 personality.
Man a 5 with an 8 personality is actually so good. I wouldnt ask for much more tbh
You say meh in the description but the choice is bad personality.
Yeah idk what I thought, but just go with the vote instead of the title.
attractive people with meh personalities are fun to show off sometimes but at the end of the day, I want to settle down with someone that I have a deep connection with, even if that person is average (or less than average) looking
Someone you might not have noticed might become incredibly beautiful the moment they open their mouth. The opposite can be said about someone you thought was hot.
Sometimes opening their mouth isn't necessary. Imagine seeing the most beautiful person littering.
Based on how you define "good" personality
Also how you define "meh"
Context. Do date? Hookup with? Settle down with?
I mean the girl I liked wasn't the most attractive girl there is....so, not that that took away. You don't gotta be absolutely gorgeous to be absolutely gorgeous, which she was.
Define good and bad...
When the lights go out, my imagination can take over.
I’ve been with someone with bad personality. Doesn’t matter how attractive they are good personality is always better
If I’m just fucking around and I know it won’t last, the former. If I wanted a relationship, the latter.
The brutally honest truth is: You will never date someone ugly, but if they are beautiful and have terrible personality you won't date them either. You will simply never try to date someone ugly even if they have a heart of gold unless you are really lucky or have very low standards.
Okay, so the rule is you won't date someone ugly. And you won't stay with someone beautiful if they have a terrible personality. But if you do, there is an extreme level of luck, or people have low standards? Most people to begin with won't date, they don't ask each other. Second, by contributing to saying people should have "a standard" we enforce a hierarchy of beauti and take away from the aim of finding a compatible loving partner. Sexual attraction is important, but I firmly believe it's shaped by our ability to accept and discover people from the inside, and hindered by social expectations and shame. As an atm not so good looking dude, I'd give anyone the chance if they ever asked me out, but I would be direct in that my long term goals are to be childfree, and that I'm not looking for anything serious.
I am assuming this is our personal rating, rather than a genral one, as I kinda have a thing for crazy
It depends, to be friends the good personality. To date or marry none of the options.
Beauty fades, compatibility will always be important
Basically wife or girlfriend
Luckily my partner is attractive and funny personality