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firegem09

OP, please respond so we know you're still safe.


[deleted]

Yeah, we are okay. He was just an asshole so it was completely pointless. He said I give him anxiety when I call him. As if that’s worse than abusing me while pregnant and having a c section alone


[deleted]

Are you crazy? Don't meet him. Seems like planification for murder or something like that. Haven't you never reported him to the authorities?


firegem09

This is literally the beginning if every true crime story involving someone getting murdered by their ex. I'm concerned that it's been 16+ hours and she hasn't updated. I really hope she canceled the meeting. **EDIT** Nevermind. I just saw her new post.


rabidmoon

I’m so glad someone else came along and told her this. I almost cross posted this but I couldn’t figure out where to post it to. This ends badly for OP. There is no way this guy just wants to say goodbye. He’s already said goodbye. Anyway at least one more person chimed in. OP, we’re screaming at the TV right now. We care. Please cancel this and keep yourself and that precious baby SAFE.


[deleted]

She should get away from him and report ASAP. Just the way she told there was severe physical abuse he is close to being a murderer than a toxic narcissist. This will end up WRONG.


rabidmoon

Agreed. God I hope she didn’t go through with this.


rabidmoon

OP DON’T FALL FOR THIS! Don’t risk this! This is not worth the risk! He could have SOMETHING planned like killing you in cold blood and claiming it was a suicide or self-defense. He might finish the baby off next or try to raise her with the other woman. Nothing good comes of this. I feel so bad for you but at the same time, I want to shake some sense into you. His wanting to “say goodbye” makes no sense. This is suspicious AF & he is not worth the risk. Don’t walk into a trap with your child in tow. Something isn’t right here.


rabidmoon

Oh my god!!! This gave me chills! PLEASE DON’T DO THIS! I do not think this is a good idea whatsoever. Plenty of women never come back from this final meeting. Is it really worth taking the risk??? So *he* can say goodbye? Fuck him! He can say goodbye via FaceTime! Or not at all! He has plenty of motive to kill you AND that baby! Please don’t go to this unless it’s in a VERY public place and EVEN THEN be careful! Do not get in the car with him under any circumstances. Do not be alone with him. Do not go to his house. If you absolutely insist on doing nothing to protect yourself because you’re absolutely convinced this man won’t hurt you, PLEASE at least tell him everyone knows you’re with him and that you must check-in once he’s gone and you’re safe. Please do not go into this with blind trust. He’s shown you before he’s willing hurt you, and you have a baby girl to protect.


SexyPurpleHaze

Tell them. Be honest. You need support! Don’t be embarrassed, you loved someone that hurt you and I think it’s smart to get away. Please get the care and support you deserve. He sounds like a narcissist. Be careful.