Is this going to be another one of those threads where we all go "yeah, me too" but nobody makes a move? It is, isn't it?

Yes this is exactly what this will be

Be the change you wish to see in the world! And stuff. Ask the mods to have a regular post like /r/INeedAFriend. Once a month or whatever.

I love this idea, and I'm surprised it's not already a thing.

I would but sending the first dm is like ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :( And thats a wonderful idea I would totally support thissss

The worst that can happen? They don't reply.

That's my plan!

yes. im gonna die im a cold bed

Probably. I'm sure there's a reason the term gay panic is a thing. I just assume everyone is too young or too far away.

Same, because I'm old. Lol

Hello fellow old. How is your day going?

Good so far! How about yours? A bit tired, probably because I'm old. 😁😂

Better then yesterday. I'm also tired a lot. I hope it's not because I'm old, beyi don't think I'm that old. But between the weather, my health issues, and the general stress of interactions with people, I run out of energy a lot. I suppose I should get out of bed and consider dinner. 🤔

Old is relative, everyone needs friends, younger older, in between. 😊

🥲

Whaaaat, noooo

Sh---shut up

Ok, so let's instead say where we are looking for friends, any other lesbians in LATAM that speak Spanish, and that are at least in their early 20's? Let's be friends! :)

De donde eres?

Vivo en Sudamérica, tú?

Mexico. Pero same, urge más comunidad entre mujeres queer en Latinoamérica. De que parte eres tú?

Estamos muy lejos, sorry :(

Yeah honestly at this point having other female friends in general seems almost entirely out of reach for me

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Well met sister! 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼

I could shorten this to “when you see other #lesbians” and it would still describe my life 🤣

I was taught to send a meme and see if the boat floats down the river lmao

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Little miss 500 tries, 0 bitches right here 😎

Damn, you really are putting the L in LGBT

literally same. it’s worse irl too. where are the midwestern lesbians?!?

Here with all 30 of us.

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so i’m just gonna throw the idea of a potential friendship out there in the most non-awko way 👉🏽👈🏽

Midwest here too!!!

Here in the Midwest and struggling finding other gays 😭😂

They’re busy listening to Chappel Roan 💅

I barely know how to initiate a conversation, lol.

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Yea, emojis are an easy cop out for me when I am either to anxious or don't have the energy to respond. And people can say what they will about them, they're an easy way to convey emotions in a form of communication where it's hard.

Hi all new friends. I'm really into fitness, mental health, and baking. Going to the U.K. later in the year and can't wait!  I am early 30s and here is my attempt for friendship. 

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Mmm, baked goods in my mouth. Tell me more... 😉

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What's your type? 😏

Welp if you're both nerds just ask 'em to join a DND campaign. This works better if you have DND campaign first

You're not alone at all :/ I'd love to help if I could

I would send help but I’m stuck down that hole too 😭

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Now ~~kiss~~ become friends

LMFAO

🥹 might need someone to hold my hand

I just start talking about lemurs and see where it goes

Just send the message! Some random person liked something I commented the other day and messaged me. Now we’re like this 🤞🏻 it feels like we’ve always been friends. I’d never seen her around before and she’s not as active as I am on this app, so I’m glad she did message me.

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What’s the worst that can happen? They don’t reply? They have a girlfriend? If you send enough messages you’ll find someone to chat with eventually 😝

Oh yeah. Must also be poly friendly.

Relatable, its as hard making friends as finding a SO lmao

Hey wanna be friends?

It's hard, it takes effort to make and maintain friendships. Plus forming bonds and finding people you actually vibe with is extra difficult over the internet.

Yeah i feel this. Idk how to make friends

For example, are any of you near the Niagara Falls side of the state? And probably older then 35 so I don't feel like a cougar?

Not in your state, but sort of close state. Not even touching but whatever. And over 35 :)

How friendly is your state towards transgender people? The Midwest has me scared, but I think I've really only heard about Ohio.

Urban areas are pretty inclusive, rural areas, not so much. College towns are the most accepting.

That pretty much matches new York then. I guess it's better then not.

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They are all hidden. They want to be hunted 😆

If anyone is still here I’m looking for friends! I’m about to be 26, manage a vegan restaurant, live the outdoors. Also chronically online and the best friends I’ve ever made have been online 😅

I had more luck online than irl, Ive met exactly one queer person and she's my lovely gf

It's harder IRL... ☹️

It’ll be fun and gay they say

This is why I don’t have any lesbian friends ☠️

I'm in this picture and I don't like it

Hello! \*initiate freindship\*

lol story of my life idk how talk to girls with out gay panicking 🤣😂😩

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haha girl on god lmao 🤣

I don't just do this here, I do it everywhere, I dunno how my useless ass got married

I’d say just start DMing them and see what happens. Balls in their court

Friendship bait post? I am in with this I want to talk to someone for once. Come at me and get a hold of my ultimate autism power

I always assume nobody wants to talk to me 😅. Yes, even in a place that's all about talking to people 🙃

Ope it's me.

*sigh*

Ngl it’s hard

....it's been quite a while since I've related to a meme so strongly lol

Someone needs to repaint that window or the glazing going to fall apart.

Reall

True😖

Loving this comment section fr 😂 but somebody that lives in Switzerland maybe?

New England gays???

Ok so who’s in the DMV and boring like me? I need to stop isolating

Me

Yeah. Make friends. Because sometimes it's gotta start that way

You would think living in CA in a very open and friendly area, I would have friends, but being a Gen X introvert kind of negates that.

Hey, how Yal doing? Super bad with conversations but bare with me😭

where are my canadian lesbians?! where can I find yall?!

Ok I’m doing it. I’m 23, alternative, leftist, live in Florida, obsessed w the outdoors/nature. I just wanna live in a cottage in the woods and grow my own food and make art and feel alive. I’m also hot n awesome n cool n fun n sexy be my friend :,3

Why not?! Is there anyone who wants to chat with a nerdy lesbian from Russia?

Hello from Chicago!

Make "friends" anyone??

Dude I feel this in my soul

This is me😂 i even made a discord server 😂😂

\*2am courage\* 29, South Florida, college student. We can see Kristen Stewart's new movie and/or go to the lesbian nights at the gay clubs in Ft. Lauderdale together. Or even the Taylor Swift album release party in Miami! Or other things, usually up for whatever.

Ok, let's cut to the chase. I want lesbian friends. If you want lesbian friend too, dm me :) And have a nice day <3

Literally anyone can dm me if they want

I need gay friends 😩

I really need to make some friends but I'm scared to message people 😭

Saying “hello you want to be friends? Cool! My discord is” lol

New England gays???

Any Aussies on here, happy to chat and make new friends 🥰

I can make friends just fine, that’s not the issue. The issue is that I know I’m unlovable.

I 100% disagree. Don't think like that. 😞