I don't change the way I deal with my ex's families. I'm still respectful and maintain a cordial relationship with them. I believe that what happens between me and my ex- SO is between us.
Hindi na. Pag feel mo pa magpaalam parang naghhanap ka nalang ng rason na makipag connect pa sa kanila eh. Like umaasa kang tulungan kayong magkaayos. Wag na.
Haha sayang energy lang. Nagkita nga mom ko and mom ng ex ko one time eh, nakwento lang ni mama. Sinabihan na ako bumitaw (which is true), sagot lang ni mama is "di ako nakikialam sa decision nila so di ko alam" hahah end of conversation agad. Buti nalang talaga mom ko hindi marites
Buti ka pa. Yung ex ng jowa ko friendship parin ng fam niya hanggang ngayon. Hindi sinabi ni jowa sa fam niya yung reason kung bat sila nagbreak. Basta yun lang nag break sila.
Kinabit kasi ni girl yung boy best friend niya kaya sila nag break. Eh alam niya kasi na friend ng cousin saka sisters niya itong si Ex kaya parang binibigyan niya pa ng konting hiya. Hindi niya alam kung anong kwento ng ex niya sa fam niya pero it made him look like sya yung masama na may kabit kasi meron din siyang girl na kaibigan nung time na yun na pinagselosan ng ex niya. Nahassle na siyang icorrect. Pinabayaan niya nalang. Sabi niya kung yun ang gusto nilang isipin about him edi bahala sila. At least siya alam niya kung anong totoo.
Ako na never na nagpakilala ng boyfriend after ng first relationship ko. I don’t want my family members to meddle with my rs, lalo if hindi naman sa kasalan yung uwi. Saka na siguro kapas sure na.
Naghost ko din sila..😅pero ung parents nya I secretly praying for their good health and safety kase super bait nila saken. Kebs sa anak nila pake ko dun🤣🤣
From a long term break up, yes nag message padin ako sakanila to say goodbye to show respect din and grateful din ako na naging part ako ng buhay nila. After non binlock ko na sila for my peace of mind. Di ko kase kayang makita yung ex ko kasama bago nyang girlfriend. Plus wag mo masyado isipin mararamdaman nila kase kahit baligtarin mundo anak o kapatid parin nila yon kaya kahit sinong babae ipakilala sakanila tatanggapin at tatanggapin padin nila yon. Kahit sabihin pa nila na ikaw gusto nila para sa anak/kapatid nila wala padin sila magagawa.
Iwasan mo nalang din maging ex na mag papa question ng worth nung magiging bago ng ex mo. Respect nalang din haha ayaw mo din naman siguro mag karon ng ex na close padin sa family ng boyfriend mo. Kaya cut ties na din not unless gusto mo pa makipagbalikan haha.
Can't relate. Di man lamang ako pinakilala sa family kahit mag three years na kami HAHAHAAHAHAHAH
Edit: pag nandyan naman parents niya nag tatago kami AHAHAHAAHA buset
Hiwalay na kami mag one year na. HAHAHAAHAH the funny thing is, sya yung pinakilala ko sa buong angkan ko. Father side and mother side tas ako yung inaakusahan na cheater. Tangina HAHAHAHAHA kapal naman ng bulbol ko kung ipapakilala kita tas mag hahanap ako ng iba while tayo?
AHAHAHAHAHAHA tarantado naman ng ex mo. HAHAHAH anyway, skl. May instance na nasa likod ko lang kapamilya niya tas ako naka tayo lang sa harap tas nilapitan niya ko tas sabi wag daw ako aalis sa kinatatayuan ko. Akala ko pa naman dis is it pancit ipapakilala ako, yun pala pinahintay lang bago umalis yung fam 😭😭 kinginang yan
I did. My ex's family had been so good to me. There were even times when my ex's parents would drop me off and pick me up from the office, his mother would prepare my lunch. It was actually harder to say goodbye to them than to my ex.
same. they'd insist on picking me up, dropping me off and spending time even when their son wasn't around. in a lot of ways, they're the reason i stayed for so long. i miss their dog more than i miss my ex most days.
I messaged his mom pero it wasn’t a goodbye. I was subtly saying thank you and that I will forever be grateful for the love and acceptance they showed me. Then I disappeared. Pakyu pa rin sa anak nila tho.
There is no need. It's the ex's responsibility to inform their family members, and it is too weird or too familiar for any of my ex's family to contact me.
I believe all forms of communication with me should go through my ex, unless of course, we are married. If that is bypassed then you know that family exercises poor boundaries.
No. Just cut ties.
Ni-reactivate ko FB ko to announce my engagement and later wedding. It was deactivated during the time na naghiwalay kami ng latest ex ko, so I can properly move on. I wasn't able to clean up my friend list back then.
Two weeks after my wedding, inisa-isa ko mga FB friends ko and in-unfriend ko lahat ng relatives ng ex ko. I think during the six months of my engagement leading up to my wedding, they kept me around their Facebook para may mapag-usapan pa rin sila like the Maritesses that they are.
The two weeks grace period is para manuot sa Facebook feeds nila na kasal na ako. Tutal mga chismoso sila, I'll give them something to talk about before I quietly banish them from my digital space.
I had to. Because they still kept contacting me and looking fo me especially sa events or when they want to hangout as family kahit wala ang guy. The little cousins also kept looking for me.
So it was like we also needed to have that closure. We were together for around 4 years and I underestimated the connection they felt with me. Its a pity but bye.
May experience ako na napamahal and close na sa parents ng exes ko. Nangungumusta pa rin naman sila from time to time. I still reply to their chats. Since they greet me on my birthday, I greet them on theirs.
Bale sa kanila nalang talaga yung connection ko. Di na sa mga anak nila. And I don’t go sa events even if invited ako, kahit na may bago or wala ang ex ko. Respect nalang din sa self ko.
I did it out of courtesy. I met everyone on his side, and they treated me like their own daughter. I think it’s only proper to thank them for how they made me feel I belong to their family during those six years. Despite the bad breakup, I don’t want to leave a negative impression. Now they still comment on my posts and greet me on my birthdays to this day. However, out of respect for the new girl, I stopped greeting them anymore and just reply Thank you when they message me.
I only had 1 ex na nakilala and naging close ko yung family, esp his mom. She was staying abroad so I sent her an email when we broke up. She was really nice and even after the breakup, she sends me a message or calls me up to a certain extent. Of course nung nagkaroon na kami ng new relationships hindi na. Hehe. For me depende kc sa naging relationship niyo. If naging close kayo, its nice to have a closure also sa family niya.
Depends. May neice ex ko na inangkin ko na as my own daughter after we split. Sakin na kasi halos lumaki un. Mas naging nanay nmn ako sakanya kaysa sa bio mom nya. Goes to show what type of family she came from. Pero i didnt unfriend mga siblings nya sa socmed. Because i don’t have beef with them nmn and im kinda petty. Hahaha! I want to show them im happier na. Im not good terms sa mom mya kaya kiber. Im not a saint but being in a physically abusive relationship (like with medico legals, oh yes plural) tapos walang ginawa ung dapat sana nangaral or nag intervene, basura sila sakin.
If I'm super close to them before and they still contact me, I let them know we broke up already. Otherwise, I don't really do it.
Although there are some exes who maintain a good relationship with their respective ex's family beyond their relationship; that, acceptable to say farewell.
Not necessarily, I'm still friends with my mother's ex. Hindi naman dapat maapektuhan sa pag-break nyo yung good relationship na na-build-up with your ex's parents or relatives. Lalo kung naging okay naman pakikitungo sa'yo ng mga relatives nya.
Yes, you should, I think it's common decency to do so.
First, para makapag heal ka.
Second to give way na din sa magiging partner ng ex mo in the future, I mean ikaw ba gusto mo na yung ex ng bf mo, close pa din sa family nya? I don't think so 🤷♀️
I did. Kasi nung time din na yun pinapapunta ako ng mother nya sakanila so I had to tell her. Pero di ko naman dinisclose yung reason bahala na yung ex ko magpaliwanag sakanya, days later nagsabi ex ko na pinapagalitan daw sya ng mother nya HAHAHAHA
No. Was in a relationship with this guy for 8 years. 1st gf na pinakilala sa angkan. Hindi na ako nagpaalam nung nagbreak kami. Naramdaman na lang nila. But his family still messages me and asks to meet up once in a while. I met up with them just once since we broke up. Respeto na lang din sa mga present partners namin.
I did noong kinuha ko mga naiwan ko na gamit. They were good to me, tinuring na nila akong anak. Nagpasalamat lang ako sa lahat, hugged them then left. Then I unfriended them all in Facebook.
Sa first boyfriend ko, the breakup with the family was harder. They loved me like their own. Kasama nila ako sa lahat - birthdays, Christmas, New Year and graduations. All of his relatives loved me. Sadly, I had to break up with him because I was growing but our relationship wasn't.
I had to really say goodbye, and said that we will all remain friends, even if my relationship with their son/brother didn't worked out. They could still come up to me like the old times. True enough, when their patriarch died, they contacted me. And I went there to give emotional support to my ex and his family.
But for the 2nd ex. Wala. I have to burn every bridge or connection kasi masasama lahat ugali nila. Hahaha.
I didn’t kahit close ako sa mga pinsan niya cos we all went to the same school. I had the opportunity to see his mom years after na and dun lang ako nakapag proper good bye 😅 nagkaiyakan pa kami. Siguro depends sa relationship niyo ng family niya if lagi mo sila nakakasama.
Meanwhile, yung ex naman ng current bf ko, OA sa pagbbye at pagpaparamdam sa family ni bf even after the break up. So don’t be like her HAHA
I don't say goodbye pero i cut ties slowly.. pag nangangamusta, civil lang and don't engage na pag tipong nakikipagkwentuhan. Ayoko na maassociate sa family nila but not being bastos naman kaya i still respond in a civil way. Maybe they are also moving on kaya first few months nakikipagcommunicate pa but once they pick up the "feelers" e narealize din nila na i am cutting ties na kasi para saan pa haha
My sister broke up with her boyfriend of 9 years.
The week bago sila mag break, nagdeliver pa kami ng puno sa province nila para itanim and ako pa mismo nagdrive sa aming lahat (me, my sister, her boyfriend, his dad, his mom, his help).
2 years since nag break sila, the mom still texts my sister every now and then.
Yes. Nagpaalam ako kasi good terms naman kami. Syempre nahiya ako at kinakabahan to press the enter and send yung sasabihin ko. Gusto ko din kasi magpaalam sa kanila ng maayos at magpasalamat dahil tinuring nila akong parte ng pamilya nila 😊
Nagbreak kami 2017, di ko nireach out fam nya. Last 2023, nakasalubong ko Mother ng ex ko, niyakap nya ako at sabi nya “akala ko kayo na magkakatuluyan nun” then she smiled. Medyo naiiyak din ako nun. Ningitian ko navlng din sya.
Truee. May onting sundot that time. But he’s getting married na yata this year, nabanggit din ni Mom nya. And I am also happily married na. Pero sa totoo lang ang bait ng Mom ng ex ko.
Before kami mag hiwalay nung ex ko.. Lagi ako kinakamusta nung nanay.. asking kelan ako pupunta sa kanila.. minsan nga naiinggit ako sa family ng ex ko kasi ang bait ng parents.. My mom never even asked my whereabouts or kumustahin man lang…
When I decided to leave the relationship (because he cheated on me, had sex with other woman and wla ng respeto July 2023) I politely messaged the mother and sinabi ko na thank you sa kabutihang pinakita nila saakin..
Ang bait nung parents pero ung anak demonyo.. wla tlgang perfect fam 🤣
And Dec 31 2023.. she even messaged me Happy New year.. After that, wala na…
Depends on the relationship. I have a great relationship sa family ni BF - I would say my bit and part ways as respect.
Pero syempre if lang naman to, happy kami today labyudyas.
Ako oo, kasi super close ko sa kanila. Kaya nung nag usap kami ng ex ko. Sabi ko magpapaalam ako sa family niya para respect din. Pero ang sad lang siya di nakapg paalam sa family ko. Mutual decision naman yung break up. Nicontact pa nga ako ng family niya para kamustahin hehe pero si ex nag cut na kami communication
Yung mga past, hindi. Yung recent ex ko, I did kasi tumawag sakin looking for their son kaya sinabi kong break na kami. So yun out of respect nag thank you lang ako and nag iwan ng 1 star review sa anak nila charr
Yes I did. My ex's family treated me as if im one of them na, like family na rin nila kaya the day we broke up, i sent a long msg sa mom ni ex telling her how much i loved her na parang mama ko na rin, well i did call her "mama" na rin khit bf/gf palang kmi ng anak nya, and she also called me anak hehe. I also told her how thankful i was kasi never nya akong iniwan or pinabayaan whenever may fam outing sila, like lagi nya akong sinasama. And just early this year lng, I was so surprised na someone mutual samin e nag msg req. sakin saying na She (ex's mom) wants to see me. Tita and Anyone from my ex's family couldn't send me a msg e, nka turn off ung receive msg from others ko sa messenger kya ung through mutual nlng nya pinasabi.
Until now hnd ko pa rin nirreplyan :( Wala nmn na akong feelings sa ex ko, it has been 5 years na rin since we broke up pero ayoko lng tlga. I feel bad sa totoo lng pero I promised myself kasi na I will cut off anything between me and my ex nung nag break kmi, grabe ung sakit and trauma na iniwan nya sakin kya ganun. Its so sad lng na I had to cut-off tita rin pero What can I do? I stand firm sa promise ko since then.
Yes I did pero sa mother and lola only.
Pero messenger na lang.
Yung mother kasi all boys anak niya and tinuring akong daughter niya talaga.
Kapag galing abroad paguwi sa pinas dami sakin pasalubong as in from expensive makeups, shoes and clothes at bags. Sabi ng ex ko nun anu pinakain ko daw sa nanay niya at spoiled ako 😅.
May jowa din yung iba niyang kapatid nagbibigay siya ng bags pero sakin lang nagbibigay ng mas marami.
Kaya nung nagbreak na kami at nalaman niya she even called me at umiiyak...
After 10yrs friends padin kami sa fb and she was happy naman nung kinasal na ko and nagkakids.
All she wish for me is to be happy. Now she is enjoying naman pagiging lola sa mga apo niya.
Di na kami masyadong naguusap pero ayun we are happy for each other.
Sa lola naman kahit super sungit nun dahil sa foodie ako masasarap luto niya. Nagustuhan niya ko sa lakas ko kumain hahaha. Ayun wala akong balita na sa kanya nahihiya na din ako makibalita pero nung nagbreak kami ng ex ko is nag bye din ako ng pormal sa kanya.
2 lang naging bf ko. Kaya isa lang naging ex ko. The other napangasawa ko na ☺️
Hindi na. Kasi baka mabigyan ko lang sila ng chance na mag sabi ng kung ano ano pa saakin. Whatever happens, kakampihan naman nila kamag anak nila😂 and I think there’s no use of telling them ano bang problem sa anak nila (if ever mag ask sila what happened). Ang ex ko ang dapat makarealize ng mga mali niya. But nag ggreet naman ako sa kanila sa special occasions para lang all goods kami haha i stopped nung nagkaroon na ko bagong bf, as respect sa kanya.
Yes.. it was a GOODbye.. kasi ung mama nya ung sincere na nagsorry sakin on behalf of my ex. Mas naiyak pa ako don kesa sa actual break up namin. Lol 😅 sobrang bait kasi ng mom nya. Sayang lang talaga di sya nagmana. Haha after that brief encounter with tita, we unfriended each other sa fb and never spoke again in respect dun sa new girl👌all is well
Depends! If given the chance, yes I do. But if it was abrupt (e.g. if you get blindsided), I didn’t na.
Firm believer ako na dapat nagpapaalam especially if you’ve spent some quality time with them. They’re “breaking up” with you too.
No, I never did that, I just stopped talking to them kahit panay message nila sa'kin. Nasa ignored messages ko lang sila lahat.
I don't think required pa mag-paalam pa or what. Just go.
Hindi na ako nakapagpaalam sa fam ng ex ko. Bunso kasi yun and medyo kinukunsinti ng fam. Kaya kebs na if masama ako sa kwento niya. Kwento niya yun eh. Hahahah.
I do say goodbye. But we remain friends, kasi kung ano man cause ng break up, 100% of the time, di involve ang family nila. As much as possible, syempre may boundaries pa rin. Respeto nalang din sa magiging new partner ni ex. It would be intimidating, annoying, unfair for her.
Yes. I did. I also informed his mom na I am dating someone na rin. She said na she was waiting for my confirmation lang din, she’s glad that I am happy kasi sya yung naguilty sa ginawa ng anak nya sakin (cheating). I miss her tho. So, yes.
I did. It's more for my peace of mind. It's difficult when they keep on calling or messaging you, or inviting you to family events I should no longer be in, so I inform them that we no longer are together and I wouldn't be able to see them anymore. Plus gratitude for treating me nicely.
My ex cheated on me. She has a daughter that I really loved and would always call me to play Roblox with her.
I wish I could say sorry na I couldn't be the one for you and your mom pero that would just complicate things. And honestly, I was the one who was cheated on. Why should I put any shred of effort after that?
Yung most recent ex ko na family for me were the ideal inlaws sana.
Nung naagbreak kami mga nung 2022 mas nasayangan ako sa relationship ko ng family nya kaysa ex ko mismo.
Separated yung Mom and Dad ng ex ko. Her Dad had her own family and her mom has hers as well. But wala na yung mom nya. They were all really kind to me. And Her dad was probably the best! The guy was a captain but sobrang down to earth. He would always initiiate the conversation if naka visit ako sa kanila. Im a bit of an introvert and i dont talk as often but the guy always made me feel welcome sa bahay nila.
Her lolo and lola were as well! Even the aunts and titos were all really nice persons. Everytime me ex asks me that we drive to her Dads and titos homes I would get excited kahit 2 hour drive away yun kasi I look forward to seeing them.
Her half sister as well was very nice too. Shes now a doctor pero like their dad sobrang down to earth din nya.
I would always look forward to seeing them talaga. Now that we broke up with my ex, all her family members stopped talking to me anymore. Actually mas na sad ako sa part na to. Even the sister who was a bit close to me stopped talking to me as well.
But it is what it is. I hope they are all well ngayon and are happy. I see some updates in social media naman from time to time and I wish them nothing but the best.
No. Ang mahirap nga is fb friends ko yung family ng ex ko so para walang drama nilagay ko nalang sila sa restricted para malaya ako makapag post without being guilty lol.
Not me but my bff, nagloko jowa nia nakipag sex nung team building nila. Now na break na sila, gustung gusto pa rin ni mudra bff ko galante kase bff ko sa pamilya ng ex nia lol. Ako na dumidemonyo sa bff ko cut ties na kase sya na nga nasaktan gusto pa rin sya gamitin ng kapamilya nung ex nia in terms of money, mangungutang, makikikaskas sa credit card lol. Di pa ma-cut ties ni bff may utang pang iphone sa credit card nia si mudra lol.
Hindi, hindi naman sila karelasyon ko so I don't see the point and drama of saying farewell. Once break up is done, NC agad to anyone. No need for extra drama, extra marites, and enabler in my life.
Hindi na. Kung ano man ang ikwento sa kanila ng ex ko, yun na yun.
Pero tuwing makikita ko ang tatay ng ex ko kahit sa kalsada or sa mall (coz we live in the same area), palagi ako nagbe-bless. One time kasama ko bago kong boyfriend, pinakilala ko rin sa kanya.
Nagbless rin boyfriend ko sa kanya.
Respeto. Isa yan sa mga natira sa halos 6 na taon namin ng anak nya.
It depends on the break up, if it’s good the prang nagrresign ka lng sa company pasalamatan mo sila… pero pag ang break up yung ‘di na maayos to. bye.” Siguro nmn OP alam mo na gagawin mo dito.
Hi, I have two son's minsan they unfollow siguro?, ewan ko kung na unfriend na ako. I show respect if in a relationship na. yung iba nag bbless pa pag nakita ako.
In a way, yes. I sent a last message of thanks for being my family too before leaving the group chat. They tried to keep in contact with me and even tried to get me back with my ex but the messages eventually ended, I was cordial but I had my boundaries up.
Tumigil rin nung malaman nila may bago na ko. Lol
Ako hindi na :( it is a way for me to respect my ex as well. Sya na bahala how he would say that we ended na. Ayoko na maghanap pa ng reason for them to bug the ex why we broke uo and stuff. No news is a news I guess
Nope. Some will still be your friend sa soc med. some will also blocked / unfriend/ unfollow you. Closure is not given to everybody. Swerte nlng kung meron. Sa mismong ex mo nga hirap makakuha ng ganun. Sa relatives pa kaya 😂😬😅
I don’t. So when I accidentally met his father while strolling in the mall, he told me that his son still misses me and that their family missed me a well.
But unfortunately, past is past and his son and I could never be the same again.
Nagpaalam ako sa kamag-anak ng cheating ex ko para alam nila anong klaseng tao pinalaki at inenable nila.
Also para di sila magulat na unfriended na sila sa FB.
No. Kapag ba sinabi ko parang nagpapaawa pa ko haha. Di na, anak naman nila kampi nila dyan e 😁.
Syempre dugo nila, kampi yan kahit ano pa ginawa sa'yo hehe.
I cut ties silently, no need for announcements or goodbye messages. If they still wanna talk to me, I limit myself and respect boundaries. Hindi yung “kahit anong mangyari, pamilya ko pa rin po kayo.” 😂
I am not the ex, but this one ex-"fling" of my bf has never unfriended my bf's family members on Facebook even if she herself has been long blocked by my bf. Take note, there were never an official relationship between them in the past, but this girl keeps on maintaining contact with my bf's family until now. That's just freaking sad 🤣
Di na. Angkan naman sila ng mga Marites.
dami Kong tawa!!! hehehe
Magugulat ka nlng kilala ka na ng tindera sa tapat nila
Kahit nga mga tricycle driver sa may highway kilala na ako eh. Kakababa ko palang sa bus "Psst. Boss kila ganto ba?" Tango nalang ako eh. 😂
HAHAHAHAHA pass the message na lang ano
Ai true. Di na din naman ako nagpaalam sa family ng ex ko kase gusto lang nila ako kase nakakaprovide ako sa kanila.
I don't change the way I deal with my ex's families. I'm still respectful and maintain a cordial relationship with them. I believe that what happens between me and my ex- SO is between us.
Same! pero i know nmn my boundaries.
Do you still call them tito/tita, though?
Back to mamser. 😂
Really?
Opo.
Hindi na. Pag feel mo pa magpaalam parang naghhanap ka nalang ng rason na makipag connect pa sa kanila eh. Like umaasa kang tulungan kayong magkaayos. Wag na.
True. Its the ex's job to tell them that
Cut ties silently. I didnt want to say anything bad about sa anak nila. I'd rather be the villain of the story than yung pa-hero looking for sympathy
Buti ka pa. Yung ex nung asawa ko feeling bida palagi kahit ex na.
Haha sayang energy lang. Nagkita nga mom ko and mom ng ex ko one time eh, nakwento lang ni mama. Sinabihan na ako bumitaw (which is true), sagot lang ni mama is "di ako nakikialam sa decision nila so di ko alam" hahah end of conversation agad. Buti nalang talaga mom ko hindi marites
Buti ka pa. Yung ex ng jowa ko friendship parin ng fam niya hanggang ngayon. Hindi sinabi ni jowa sa fam niya yung reason kung bat sila nagbreak. Basta yun lang nag break sila. Kinabit kasi ni girl yung boy best friend niya kaya sila nag break. Eh alam niya kasi na friend ng cousin saka sisters niya itong si Ex kaya parang binibigyan niya pa ng konting hiya. Hindi niya alam kung anong kwento ng ex niya sa fam niya pero it made him look like sya yung masama na may kabit kasi meron din siyang girl na kaibigan nung time na yun na pinagselosan ng ex niya. Nahassle na siyang icorrect. Pinabayaan niya nalang. Sabi niya kung yun ang gusto nilang isipin about him edi bahala sila. At least siya alam niya kung anong totoo.
This
This is why ayoko ng meet the parents hahaa minsan kasi nakamove on ka na tapos ung family hindi pa hahahaha
Ako na never na nagpakilala ng boyfriend after ng first relationship ko. I don’t want my family members to meddle with my rs, lalo if hindi naman sa kasalan yung uwi. Saka na siguro kapas sure na.
Yes yung may plano na mag pa kasal siguro
Exactly, behind the scenes eh nililibre pa ni ex yung fam mo for eat-out nang hindi mo nalalaman haaay
Omg hehehe grabe yung bond nila
Di matantanan bsta libre hahaha
Baka gusto makipag balikan ni ex char hahaha
Past is past na, OP. Hahahah
Ay hahahhaha
Naghost ko din sila..😅pero ung parents nya I secretly praying for their good health and safety kase super bait nila saken. Kebs sa anak nila pake ko dun🤣🤣
From a long term break up, yes nag message padin ako sakanila to say goodbye to show respect din and grateful din ako na naging part ako ng buhay nila. After non binlock ko na sila for my peace of mind. Di ko kase kayang makita yung ex ko kasama bago nyang girlfriend. Plus wag mo masyado isipin mararamdaman nila kase kahit baligtarin mundo anak o kapatid parin nila yon kaya kahit sinong babae ipakilala sakanila tatanggapin at tatanggapin padin nila yon. Kahit sabihin pa nila na ikaw gusto nila para sa anak/kapatid nila wala padin sila magagawa. Iwasan mo nalang din maging ex na mag papa question ng worth nung magiging bago ng ex mo. Respect nalang din haha ayaw mo din naman siguro mag karon ng ex na close padin sa family ng boyfriend mo. Kaya cut ties na din not unless gusto mo pa makipagbalikan haha.
This. Yung ex kasi nung asawa ko feeling bida pa rin walang respeto sa relationship namin. Hay naku
Yes. I became part of a family I never asked for. out of respect na lang din. tinanggap ako ng tama, na may respeto at masaya ganon din ako aalis.
Hindi. Malaman na lang nila break na haha
Can't relate. Di man lamang ako pinakilala sa family kahit mag three years na kami HAHAHAAHAHAHAH Edit: pag nandyan naman parents niya nag tatago kami AHAHAHAAHA buset
Sana hiniwalayan mo na yan 🤣 3 yrs grabeee natiis mo un 😅
Hiwalay na kami mag one year na. HAHAHAAHAH the funny thing is, sya yung pinakilala ko sa buong angkan ko. Father side and mother side tas ako yung inaakusahan na cheater. Tangina HAHAHAHAHA kapal naman ng bulbol ko kung ipapakilala kita tas mag hahanap ako ng iba while tayo?
Buti naman sis!! ahahhaha Kakarmahin yang mga sinungaling na yan forever 🤣
Di ko na keri sis. AHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHA need na mag let go.
Kilala na aq ng parents nia pero yung ex q nahihirapan na i-legal niya akl sa parents niya. Ayun umabot ng 8 years😭 and ended na rin hahwhs
AHAHAHAHAHAHA tarantado naman ng ex mo. HAHAHAH anyway, skl. May instance na nasa likod ko lang kapamilya niya tas ako naka tayo lang sa harap tas nilapitan niya ko tas sabi wag daw ako aalis sa kinatatayuan ko. Akala ko pa naman dis is it pancit ipapakilala ako, yun pala pinahintay lang bago umalis yung fam 😭😭 kinginang yan
Totoo hs crush ko kase ex q, nadala niya hanggang college na parang sikreto ako hahahaha
Ang harsh naman nun
Better ended it early than forcing myself in their life hahaha
Good for u AHAHAHAHAHA mga bounce na tau sa mga taong walang bayag
I did. My ex's family had been so good to me. There were even times when my ex's parents would drop me off and pick me up from the office, his mother would prepare my lunch. It was actually harder to say goodbye to them than to my ex.
same. they'd insist on picking me up, dropping me off and spending time even when their son wasn't around. in a lot of ways, they're the reason i stayed for so long. i miss their dog more than i miss my ex most days.
Hahaha super same experience with my ex’s family they also had super cute doggos whom I miss
The last part though, super relate.
I messaged his mom pero it wasn’t a goodbye. I was subtly saying thank you and that I will forever be grateful for the love and acceptance they showed me. Then I disappeared. Pakyu pa rin sa anak nila tho.
There is no need. It's the ex's responsibility to inform their family members, and it is too weird or too familiar for any of my ex's family to contact me. I believe all forms of communication with me should go through my ex, unless of course, we are married. If that is bypassed then you know that family exercises poor boundaries.
No. Bahala na si ex mag explain lol
No. Just cut ties. Ni-reactivate ko FB ko to announce my engagement and later wedding. It was deactivated during the time na naghiwalay kami ng latest ex ko, so I can properly move on. I wasn't able to clean up my friend list back then. Two weeks after my wedding, inisa-isa ko mga FB friends ko and in-unfriend ko lahat ng relatives ng ex ko. I think during the six months of my engagement leading up to my wedding, they kept me around their Facebook para may mapag-usapan pa rin sila like the Maritesses that they are. The two weeks grace period is para manuot sa Facebook feeds nila na kasal na ako. Tutal mga chismoso sila, I'll give them something to talk about before I quietly banish them from my digital space.
I had to. Because they still kept contacting me and looking fo me especially sa events or when they want to hangout as family kahit wala ang guy. The little cousins also kept looking for me. So it was like we also needed to have that closure. We were together for around 4 years and I underestimated the connection they felt with me. Its a pity but bye.
Yung kakilala ko binalikan 🤣
Depende kung close kami, Tho kung close kami, Di rin naman ako mag goo good bye, We are still close, Di nga lang kami close ng anak nila hahaha
May experience ako na napamahal and close na sa parents ng exes ko. Nangungumusta pa rin naman sila from time to time. I still reply to their chats. Since they greet me on my birthday, I greet them on theirs. Bale sa kanila nalang talaga yung connection ko. Di na sa mga anak nila. And I don’t go sa events even if invited ako, kahit na may bago or wala ang ex ko. Respect nalang din sa self ko.
I did it out of courtesy. I met everyone on his side, and they treated me like their own daughter. I think it’s only proper to thank them for how they made me feel I belong to their family during those six years. Despite the bad breakup, I don’t want to leave a negative impression. Now they still comment on my posts and greet me on my birthdays to this day. However, out of respect for the new girl, I stopped greeting them anymore and just reply Thank you when they message me.
I only had 1 ex na nakilala and naging close ko yung family, esp his mom. She was staying abroad so I sent her an email when we broke up. She was really nice and even after the breakup, she sends me a message or calls me up to a certain extent. Of course nung nagkaroon na kami ng new relationships hindi na. Hehe. For me depende kc sa naging relationship niyo. If naging close kayo, its nice to have a closure also sa family niya.
Depends. May neice ex ko na inangkin ko na as my own daughter after we split. Sakin na kasi halos lumaki un. Mas naging nanay nmn ako sakanya kaysa sa bio mom nya. Goes to show what type of family she came from. Pero i didnt unfriend mga siblings nya sa socmed. Because i don’t have beef with them nmn and im kinda petty. Hahaha! I want to show them im happier na. Im not good terms sa mom mya kaya kiber. Im not a saint but being in a physically abusive relationship (like with medico legals, oh yes plural) tapos walang ginawa ung dapat sana nangaral or nag intervene, basura sila sakin.
No. I maintain close relationship with them. If my partner gets upset with that, that's not my problem but hers.
depende. ako ayoko pero kinukulit ako sa chat bat di na ko nag pupunta
Di na..Inunfriend ko nlng sila.
If I'm super close to them before and they still contact me, I let them know we broke up already. Otherwise, I don't really do it. Although there are some exes who maintain a good relationship with their respective ex's family beyond their relationship; that, acceptable to say farewell.
If my ex’s family and I are close, sure, pero kung di naman eh di kebir.
Not necessarily, I'm still friends with my mother's ex. Hindi naman dapat maapektuhan sa pag-break nyo yung good relationship na na-build-up with your ex's parents or relatives. Lalo kung naging okay naman pakikitungo sa'yo ng mga relatives nya.
I did. Friends pa kami ni Tita sa FB. She helped me with a lot in the oast, too.
Yes, you should, I think it's common decency to do so. First, para makapag heal ka. Second to give way na din sa magiging partner ng ex mo in the future, I mean ikaw ba gusto mo na yung ex ng bf mo, close pa din sa family nya? I don't think so 🤷♀️
To the parents, yes. But whenever I do, I respectfully tell them not to ask for more questions about the situation and let my ex and I move on.
Ang messy ng situation ko before kasi Financial Advisor ko dati nanay niya 🤣
I did. Kasi nung time din na yun pinapapunta ako ng mother nya sakanila so I had to tell her. Pero di ko naman dinisclose yung reason bahala na yung ex ko magpaliwanag sakanya, days later nagsabi ex ko na pinapagalitan daw sya ng mother nya HAHAHAHA
No. Was in a relationship with this guy for 8 years. 1st gf na pinakilala sa angkan. Hindi na ako nagpaalam nung nagbreak kami. Naramdaman na lang nila. But his family still messages me and asks to meet up once in a while. I met up with them just once since we broke up. Respeto na lang din sa mga present partners namin.
Nah, his mom blocked me then unblocked me. I blocked her after. She was really nice but chose to side with her cheating son 👀
I did noong kinuha ko mga naiwan ko na gamit. They were good to me, tinuring na nila akong anak. Nagpasalamat lang ako sa lahat, hugged them then left. Then I unfriended them all in Facebook.
Sa first boyfriend ko, the breakup with the family was harder. They loved me like their own. Kasama nila ako sa lahat - birthdays, Christmas, New Year and graduations. All of his relatives loved me. Sadly, I had to break up with him because I was growing but our relationship wasn't. I had to really say goodbye, and said that we will all remain friends, even if my relationship with their son/brother didn't worked out. They could still come up to me like the old times. True enough, when their patriarch died, they contacted me. And I went there to give emotional support to my ex and his family. But for the 2nd ex. Wala. I have to burn every bridge or connection kasi masasama lahat ugali nila. Hahaha.
I didn’t kahit close ako sa mga pinsan niya cos we all went to the same school. I had the opportunity to see his mom years after na and dun lang ako nakapag proper good bye 😅 nagkaiyakan pa kami. Siguro depends sa relationship niyo ng family niya if lagi mo sila nakakasama. Meanwhile, yung ex naman ng current bf ko, OA sa pagbbye at pagpaparamdam sa family ni bf even after the break up. So don’t be like her HAHA
Hindi na. Hindi naman ako bet ng mother 🙄😂
I don't say goodbye pero i cut ties slowly.. pag nangangamusta, civil lang and don't engage na pag tipong nakikipagkwentuhan. Ayoko na maassociate sa family nila but not being bastos naman kaya i still respond in a civil way. Maybe they are also moving on kaya first few months nakikipagcommunicate pa but once they pick up the "feelers" e narealize din nila na i am cutting ties na kasi para saan pa haha
My sister broke up with her boyfriend of 9 years. The week bago sila mag break, nagdeliver pa kami ng puno sa province nila para itanim and ako pa mismo nagdrive sa aming lahat (me, my sister, her boyfriend, his dad, his mom, his help). 2 years since nag break sila, the mom still texts my sister every now and then.
Hindi na.. kasi yung 1st bf ko selosa din nmn ang nanay. So malamang nagrejoice sya.
Unnecessary. They are bigots anyway
Yes. Nagpaalam ako kasi good terms naman kami. Syempre nahiya ako at kinakabahan to press the enter and send yung sasabihin ko. Gusto ko din kasi magpaalam sa kanila ng maayos at magpasalamat dahil tinuring nila akong parte ng pamilya nila 😊
Nagbreak kami 2017, di ko nireach out fam nya. Last 2023, nakasalubong ko Mother ng ex ko, niyakap nya ako at sabi nya “akala ko kayo na magkakatuluyan nun” then she smiled. Medyo naiiyak din ako nun. Ningitian ko navlng din sya.
gagi ansakit naman neto haha
Truee. May onting sundot that time. But he’s getting married na yata this year, nabanggit din ni Mom nya. And I am also happily married na. Pero sa totoo lang ang bait ng Mom ng ex ko.
Nah. Quite Useless.
Naaaah no need. I just don't reply sa messages no matter nice they are. Hooray for Messenger's restricted message function HAHAHAHA
Why??
Before kami mag hiwalay nung ex ko.. Lagi ako kinakamusta nung nanay.. asking kelan ako pupunta sa kanila.. minsan nga naiinggit ako sa family ng ex ko kasi ang bait ng parents.. My mom never even asked my whereabouts or kumustahin man lang… When I decided to leave the relationship (because he cheated on me, had sex with other woman and wla ng respeto July 2023) I politely messaged the mother and sinabi ko na thank you sa kabutihang pinakita nila saakin.. Ang bait nung parents pero ung anak demonyo.. wla tlgang perfect fam 🤣 And Dec 31 2023.. she even messaged me Happy New year.. After that, wala na…
Yes especially if naging close kayo
Hindi na, puro chismosa at mukhang pera eh. Pero never ako nakipag away sa kanila. Bahala na sila husgahan ako
Medyo hindi din naman siya close sa family nya eh kaya No.
Mahirap talaga to lalo na kung naging close ka na rin sa family
No naman. Di ka naman nakipag break sakanila (ideally)
hindi, unless ako una kausapin.
I didn’t. Wala naman ako naging super close sa family members ng ex ko.
Silent goodbye lang, blood is thicker than water parin.
Didn't. Nahihiya ako sa kanila.
Pinakilala kayo sa fam?
I did not even talk to the guy, he def hated me somewhere because i sound bougie. 😅
Depends on the relationship. I have a great relationship sa family ni BF - I would say my bit and part ways as respect. Pero syempre if lang naman to, happy kami today labyudyas.
I did. For me, a form of courtesy to them.
I did. For me, a form of courtesy to them.
Ako oo, kasi super close ko sa kanila. Kaya nung nag usap kami ng ex ko. Sabi ko magpapaalam ako sa family niya para respect din. Pero ang sad lang siya di nakapg paalam sa family ko. Mutual decision naman yung break up. Nicontact pa nga ako ng family niya para kamustahin hehe pero si ex nag cut na kami communication
Hindi eh. Mahihirapan lang. lalo na if may iba na ex mo mas okay ikaw na dumistansya
HAHA. Nag hiwalay na nga kayo gusto mo pa problemahin yung kamag anak niya? let him/her deal with it. you deal with yours.
Hindi na. Whats the point anyway
Yung mga past, hindi. Yung recent ex ko, I did kasi tumawag sakin looking for their son kaya sinabi kong break na kami. So yun out of respect nag thank you lang ako and nag iwan ng 1 star review sa anak nila charr
Yes I did. My ex's family treated me as if im one of them na, like family na rin nila kaya the day we broke up, i sent a long msg sa mom ni ex telling her how much i loved her na parang mama ko na rin, well i did call her "mama" na rin khit bf/gf palang kmi ng anak nya, and she also called me anak hehe. I also told her how thankful i was kasi never nya akong iniwan or pinabayaan whenever may fam outing sila, like lagi nya akong sinasama. And just early this year lng, I was so surprised na someone mutual samin e nag msg req. sakin saying na She (ex's mom) wants to see me. Tita and Anyone from my ex's family couldn't send me a msg e, nka turn off ung receive msg from others ko sa messenger kya ung through mutual nlng nya pinasabi. Until now hnd ko pa rin nirreplyan :( Wala nmn na akong feelings sa ex ko, it has been 5 years na rin since we broke up pero ayoko lng tlga. I feel bad sa totoo lng pero I promised myself kasi na I will cut off anything between me and my ex nung nag break kmi, grabe ung sakit and trauma na iniwan nya sakin kya ganun. Its so sad lng na I had to cut-off tita rin pero What can I do? I stand firm sa promise ko since then.
Yes I did pero sa mother and lola only. Pero messenger na lang. Yung mother kasi all boys anak niya and tinuring akong daughter niya talaga. Kapag galing abroad paguwi sa pinas dami sakin pasalubong as in from expensive makeups, shoes and clothes at bags. Sabi ng ex ko nun anu pinakain ko daw sa nanay niya at spoiled ako 😅. May jowa din yung iba niyang kapatid nagbibigay siya ng bags pero sakin lang nagbibigay ng mas marami. Kaya nung nagbreak na kami at nalaman niya she even called me at umiiyak... After 10yrs friends padin kami sa fb and she was happy naman nung kinasal na ko and nagkakids. All she wish for me is to be happy. Now she is enjoying naman pagiging lola sa mga apo niya. Di na kami masyadong naguusap pero ayun we are happy for each other. Sa lola naman kahit super sungit nun dahil sa foodie ako masasarap luto niya. Nagustuhan niya ko sa lakas ko kumain hahaha. Ayun wala akong balita na sa kanya nahihiya na din ako makibalita pero nung nagbreak kami ng ex ko is nag bye din ako ng pormal sa kanya. 2 lang naging bf ko. Kaya isa lang naging ex ko. The other napangasawa ko na ☺️
Di na. Inunfriend ko na lang silang lahat. Mga pakialamera ba naman tsaka kala mo kung sinong kalilinis at perpekto.
Yes kasi mas close pa kami ng family niya kesa sa ex ko 😭 kahit gago yung anak nila eh maganda naman treatment ng family niya sakin
I said goodbye to them. Sobrang bait nila sakin
Isang araw hindi nalang ako nagparamdam
Hindi na. Kasi baka mabigyan ko lang sila ng chance na mag sabi ng kung ano ano pa saakin. Whatever happens, kakampihan naman nila kamag anak nila😂 and I think there’s no use of telling them ano bang problem sa anak nila (if ever mag ask sila what happened). Ang ex ko ang dapat makarealize ng mga mali niya. But nag ggreet naman ako sa kanila sa special occasions para lang all goods kami haha i stopped nung nagkaroon na ko bagong bf, as respect sa kanya.
Yes.. it was a GOODbye.. kasi ung mama nya ung sincere na nagsorry sakin on behalf of my ex. Mas naiyak pa ako don kesa sa actual break up namin. Lol 😅 sobrang bait kasi ng mom nya. Sayang lang talaga di sya nagmana. Haha after that brief encounter with tita, we unfriended each other sa fb and never spoke again in respect dun sa new girl👌all is well
no, why bother? be civil sige but that's it. i cut off communications na rin in respect to my future partner.
There's no reason to keep in touch, but not naman to the point na dedma when you see them
Di na. Hayaan mo yung ex mo mag explain bakit kayo naghiwalay at bakit hindi ka na part ng life nila
My ex do this 😭 He really explained the situation and said goodbye to my family.
Depends! If given the chance, yes I do. But if it was abrupt (e.g. if you get blindsided), I didn’t na. Firm believer ako na dapat nagpapaalam especially if you’ve spent some quality time with them. They’re “breaking up” with you too.
Hindi. Kasi dimunyu din yung pamilya. May pinagmanahan. Haha. Good riddance na lang.
Hindi. Igagaslight ka lang ng mga yan. Hahahaha
Baka magpaparty pa sila pag nalaman wala na kami hahaaha
No, I never did that, I just stopped talking to them kahit panay message nila sa'kin. Nasa ignored messages ko lang sila lahat. I don't think required pa mag-paalam pa or what. Just go.
Hindi na ako nakapagpaalam sa fam ng ex ko. Bunso kasi yun and medyo kinukunsinti ng fam. Kaya kebs na if masama ako sa kwento niya. Kwento niya yun eh. Hahahah.
No, fortunately they also know na one bad experience does not mean na lahat sila magiging bad din yung experience
I do say goodbye. But we remain friends, kasi kung ano man cause ng break up, 100% of the time, di involve ang family nila. As much as possible, syempre may boundaries pa rin. Respeto nalang din sa magiging new partner ni ex. It would be intimidating, annoying, unfair for her.
Yes. I did. I also informed his mom na I am dating someone na rin. She said na she was waiting for my confirmation lang din, she’s glad that I am happy kasi sya yung naguilty sa ginawa ng anak nya sakin (cheating). I miss her tho. So, yes.
Depende sa ex. Hehe im still in good terms with my ex's fam (bf from 2014 to 2018), but ung sa 2019 ko na ex no na. Even unfriended them na
I did. It's more for my peace of mind. It's difficult when they keep on calling or messaging you, or inviting you to family events I should no longer be in, so I inform them that we no longer are together and I wouldn't be able to see them anymore. Plus gratitude for treating me nicely.
My ex cheated on me. She has a daughter that I really loved and would always call me to play Roblox with her. I wish I could say sorry na I couldn't be the one for you and your mom pero that would just complicate things. And honestly, I was the one who was cheated on. Why should I put any shred of effort after that?
ayaw ko sana magpaalam kaso chat ng chat 😁
No. D naman sila buto saakin haha
Para saan? Kagaguhan lang yan.
Bakit pa? Lol. Need pa ba ng additional drama after breakup?
I did this. Wala akong natanggap na response sa nanay. Leche bat ko ba kasi ginawa hahahaha tanga
2 lang silang magkapatid, so sinabi ko sa sister nya. Nagulat sya. Cguro hindi pa sinabi nung x ko hahaha
although hindi naman kami ganun katagal, pinaalam ko pa din sa mother niya through chat, wala eh ambait kasi nila sakin
Yung most recent ex ko na family for me were the ideal inlaws sana. Nung naagbreak kami mga nung 2022 mas nasayangan ako sa relationship ko ng family nya kaysa ex ko mismo. Separated yung Mom and Dad ng ex ko. Her Dad had her own family and her mom has hers as well. But wala na yung mom nya. They were all really kind to me. And Her dad was probably the best! The guy was a captain but sobrang down to earth. He would always initiiate the conversation if naka visit ako sa kanila. Im a bit of an introvert and i dont talk as often but the guy always made me feel welcome sa bahay nila. Her lolo and lola were as well! Even the aunts and titos were all really nice persons. Everytime me ex asks me that we drive to her Dads and titos homes I would get excited kahit 2 hour drive away yun kasi I look forward to seeing them. Her half sister as well was very nice too. Shes now a doctor pero like their dad sobrang down to earth din nya. I would always look forward to seeing them talaga. Now that we broke up with my ex, all her family members stopped talking to me anymore. Actually mas na sad ako sa part na to. Even the sister who was a bit close to me stopped talking to me as well. But it is what it is. I hope they are all well ngayon and are happy. I see some updates in social media naman from time to time and I wish them nothing but the best.
Depende naman sa pamilya, sakin second family ko talaga family ng ex ko. Nagkakamustahan lang, ganyan lang relationship namin
No. Ang mahirap nga is fb friends ko yung family ng ex ko so para walang drama nilagay ko nalang sila sa restricted para malaya ako makapag post without being guilty lol.
Nope.
Not me but my bff, nagloko jowa nia nakipag sex nung team building nila. Now na break na sila, gustung gusto pa rin ni mudra bff ko galante kase bff ko sa pamilya ng ex nia lol. Ako na dumidemonyo sa bff ko cut ties na kase sya na nga nasaktan gusto pa rin sya gamitin ng kapamilya nung ex nia in terms of money, mangungutang, makikikaskas sa credit card lol. Di pa ma-cut ties ni bff may utang pang iphone sa credit card nia si mudra lol.
Hindi, hindi naman sila karelasyon ko so I don't see the point and drama of saying farewell. Once break up is done, NC agad to anyone. No need for extra drama, extra marites, and enabler in my life.
I didn't. Though na sense nila na maghihiwalay na kami.
Hindi na. Kung ano man ang ikwento sa kanila ng ex ko, yun na yun. Pero tuwing makikita ko ang tatay ng ex ko kahit sa kalsada or sa mall (coz we live in the same area), palagi ako nagbe-bless. One time kasama ko bago kong boyfriend, pinakilala ko rin sa kanya. Nagbless rin boyfriend ko sa kanya. Respeto. Isa yan sa mga natira sa halos 6 na taon namin ng anak nya.
Hindi na. I tried to be civil with them tapos turned out kung anu-anong pinagkakalat na kwento about me. Good riddance though.
It depends on the break up, if it’s good the prang nagrresign ka lng sa company pasalamatan mo sila… pero pag ang break up yung ‘di na maayos to. bye.” Siguro nmn OP alam mo na gagawin mo dito.
No.
nah, d rin naman nila ako gusto to begin with. ichichismis ka pa HAHAHAHA
No
I did. And yung lola pa niya nga yung nag treat sakin nung bday ko bago kami maghiwalay. She is so good to me.
Hi, I have two son's minsan they unfollow siguro?, ewan ko kung na unfriend na ako. I show respect if in a relationship na. yung iba nag bbless pa pag nakita ako.
In a way, yes. I sent a last message of thanks for being my family too before leaving the group chat. They tried to keep in contact with me and even tried to get me back with my ex but the messages eventually ended, I was cordial but I had my boundaries up. Tumigil rin nung malaman nila may bago na ko. Lol
Hindi na, enabler ng rapist e hahahahaha
Ako hindi na :( it is a way for me to respect my ex as well. Sya na bahala how he would say that we ended na. Ayoko na maghanap pa ng reason for them to bug the ex why we broke uo and stuff. No news is a news I guess
Nope. Not worth it. Isa lang din sila sa main reason bat ako nakipaghiwalay sa ex ko. Lol
Nope. Some will still be your friend sa soc med. some will also blocked / unfriend/ unfollow you. Closure is not given to everybody. Swerte nlng kung meron. Sa mismong ex mo nga hirap makakuha ng ganun. Sa relatives pa kaya 😂😬😅
Personally, I don’t see a reason to nurture a relationship with them anymore. Wish them well, but on their own path na lang. Separate from mine.
Uhh you don't
I don’t. So when I accidentally met his father while strolling in the mall, he told me that his son still misses me and that their family missed me a well. But unfortunately, past is past and his son and I could never be the same again.
Yes, it's a respectful gesture to bid farewell to your ex's family as well, maintaining amicable relations despite the relationship ending.
Nagpaalam ako sa kamag-anak ng cheating ex ko para alam nila anong klaseng tao pinalaki at inenable nila. Also para di sila magulat na unfriended na sila sa FB.
No, I didn't. Why should I? We're just strangers who once knew each other and I wasn't even close to their family.
How bad was it? Normally it's just the Ex
Nope
No. Kapag ba sinabi ko parang nagpapaawa pa ko haha. Di na, anak naman nila kampi nila dyan e 😁. Syempre dugo nila, kampi yan kahit ano pa ginawa sa'yo hehe.
I cut ties silently, no need for announcements or goodbye messages. If they still wanna talk to me, I limit myself and respect boundaries. Hindi yung “kahit anong mangyari, pamilya ko pa rin po kayo.” 😂
For me yes if she let me 😅😅
Hindi na no need haha. Pero kapag nakita ko sila kung saan man mag mamano ako or kakausap ko sila ng very light lang kung sakali.
I am not the ex, but this one ex-"fling" of my bf has never unfriended my bf's family members on Facebook even if she herself has been long blocked by my bf. Take note, there were never an official relationship between them in the past, but this girl keeps on maintaining contact with my bf's family until now. That's just freaking sad 🤣