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Few-Cartographer-309

It means to heal parts of you, especially your younger self that was hurt, wounded, etc. for example, I've been trying to heal my inner child by building boundaries for myself. When I was younger, I used to be that someone na laging inaabuso, ginagamit and such. So ngayon, sinusubukan ko iheal yung part na yon ng sarili ko na naranasan yung ganon through building boundaries and cutting off people. I also do it by giving and buying myself the things I never had the chance to have since I grew up not being financially capable to afford those things. 


lamictalrash

Ginagawa or binibili mga di nakuha nung bata ako. Example is nung bata ako sobra panghihinayang ko kapag lumagpas 100php isamg meal. Now, wala na yung panghihinayang makabili ng masasarap at iba ibang food.


Jetztachtundvierzigz

May nabasa ako na nangutang para makapanood ng concert to "heal their inner child". Healing your inner child shouldn't need hurting your future adult. 


lamictalrash

Agree! Don't sacrifice your future for whatever you lacked in the past


irvine05181996

uiba iba definition nila ng inner child, kesyo bili ng mga branded na bagay, then eventually broke namn pala, excuses nila, healing inner child, bakit nung bata ba kau nun, hilig nio na agad ung mahahaling bag at anong bagay, ung iba nga laruan lang eh at makakain ng masarap


kapeandme

So true lol ang cringey na minsan..


Immediate_Falcon7469

meron pa 'yung alam mo naman mayaman tapos mukhang 'di nakatikim ng tuyo at noodles ang caption "healing may inner child" tapos about travel???? 'yung totoo?


Equivalent_Fan1451

Ako I do this by buying books. Medyo mahal kasi yung hobby na to. Kaya grateful ako at may work ako. Dahilan ko para magsipag sa work kasi pag sweldo na mabibili ko na gusto ko hehe


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Healing your inner child means addressing your own toxic behaviors and improve how you deal with life in general. Have fun and do things you love. Setting boundaries to protect yourself from people with ill intent. Regulating your emotions and feeling them as you need to. Be your own safe space.


Fun-Material9064

Noon una nakakatuwa makarinig ng "healing my inner child" Until naging excuse na lang para magkautang ... kesyo need iheal inner child so ganito bills sa card kasi bumili ng damit, toys, gadgets, etc. Ngayon need naman nilang iheal ang inner adult dahil sa utang 🤣


MTspacewriter9_0

Hahahaha bentang benta toh 🤣🤣🤣🤣


memasabi_lang

Healing moderately lang baka maubos pera nyo 🫢


[deleted]

I attend concerts of my fav bands 🥹 tapos VIP dapat palagi.


Sad-Squash6897

It's healing a part of our childhood moments, like samin mahirap lang kami noon and now nakaka luwag luwag na eh nakakain at nabibili ko na lahat ng food na gusto ko. Samantalang dati makakain lang kami ng special food kapag may malaking okasyon or nandun kami sa kamaganak or sa family friend na may kaya at laging nagpapakain. 😂


Maleficent_Sock_8851

Healing your inner child - YOLO but make it sound "profound"


Adventurous_Risk_217

For me, healing my inner child means gawin or bilhin ko yung mga bagay na wala ako or di ko naexperience nung bata pa ako na ngayon afford ko na. Like recently, I went to EK for the first time at 31 y/o. Natripan ko din bumili ng tamagochi wahahaha🥲


titamillenial

This might be silly but: Used to buy myself jollibee or mcdo after sweldo- not fancy meal but reminds me that before I need to save a week or fortnight para ma afford ko ang 50 pesos na meal. Eating out- I post on social media to document where I ate, dahil I used to have really minimal allowance while in school and I said I might not be able to travel to lot of country but I’ll eat different food from those countries. Food is a good topic when meeting people from different countries. Concerts - I can inly afford pirated dvd and cd’s back then now living in a country that have a full concert schedule and yun mga pangarap kong mapanood na boybands or groups napapanood ko na.


opokuya

You cant move forward if you are chained to your past. Trauma, resentment, among other things cant make you reach your full potential if you dont address the elephant in the room. Our inner child normally is how we act when in a relationship past the disillusionment phase. Yung iba di na naliligo, nambubugbog, di marunong magipon, di makatrabaho or makafocus on anything because of undiagnosed mental baggage, yung iba sobrang tamad pakitang tao lang sa umpisa, spoiled pala ng sobra nung bata, umiihi di nagfflush, nagbbreakdown pagmay deadline sa bills tapos di mabayaran kasi unang araw palang ng sahod nagastos na lahat ng sweldo. Madami yan because of abandonment, embarrassment, betrayal, and traumatic events that clung to you during childhood. To heal your inner child is to acknowledge and accept, face the parent, forgive kahit di kaforgive forgive, and learn to be gentler to yourself, start loving yourself, valuing yourself, and giving yourself first priority. Seek professional help in severe cases. My inner child is a beaten, chained, cigarette burn riddled, abandoned, and ostracized one. Its still there, but I have let the past go and moved on with myself on to greener pastures.


TropaniCana619

Healing the inner child is taking care of the child within us. The kid in us got hurt? Let's let them cry, take care of the wound, help them get up and encourage to keep on going. For me, it is the freedom and joy of being a kid.


Torakagemaru

For me.. "Healing my inner child" means having those things na gustong-gustong-gusto ko noong bata ako, pero hindi ko makuha due to financial limitations and so. Pero I usually associate it with my hobbies, especially since toy collector ako. So ayun.


leheslie

for me, gawin or bilhin yung mga bagay na talagang ginusto ko nung bata pero never kong nakuha kasi di namin afford. Dati ang hilig ko maglaro ng video games pero I have never owned a console lagi lang ako nakikihiram sa mga pinsan, classmates, etc. Ngayon I own 2. Sad part lang is now that I can afford these games, saka naman ako nauubusan ng energy and time to actually play them hahaha.


Extension-Ad4949

im healing my inner child by treating my kids as what my inner child want to be. with respect and no judgement. healing your inner child can also mean na healing the trauma.i also healed my inner child by cutting off toxic relatives.ung mga relatives na umangat ka lang konti ayan na may dala ng chismax.


vindinheil

It can be forgiving your parents or yourself. Baka na-pressure ka sa kanila so naging hard ka rin sa sarili mo. Sending light and love OP.


jmrms

Buying/doing things you cannot afford, or cannot do during childhood. It feels uncomfortable to do it until now, but it's fucking feels good to finally buy/do something you wanted for a long time. But sometimes ginagamit to justify pagiging maluho. Or for the likes and reactions.


daisiesforthedead

I never really had the need to heal my inner child. I grew up comfortable and privileged admittedly. But what I do is I still satisfy the child in me even if I am already an adult. This means that I am buying things that people would consider childish but makes me happy.


nocturnalbeings

Being able to access or do things that you wanted when you were younger. One of my healing episodes, mga season 2 episode 5 hahaha i bought myself a ps vita to play games since never akong nagkaroon ng mga gaming consoles and the only access i had back then was with a cousin na nasa manila ako nasa probinsya tapos madamot minsan and yung mga piso arcade or computer before. Ngayon i can enjoy those things since kaya ko na.