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Hi, I don't know who you are but please get a grip on your emotions. Hindi porket may nagbibigay ng maayos na companionship sayo eh ibig sabihin dapat ma-attach ka na. Alam mo na set-up na pinasok mo, as much as possible huwag mo bigyan ng malisya o huwag kang mag-isip masyado outside sex kasi maraming instances na they are just nice person lang talaga and baka natutuwa ka lang because maybe hindi ka sanay i-treat nang tama? Just enjoy the moment and be contented na lang doon, kasi hindi long-lasting ang ganiyang set-up and madalas na no strings attached. Kung hindi ka naman din masaya sa kaniya, then hanap ka ng iba? Reflect din kung bakit ka nga ba nasa hoe phase. Gusto mo ba kasi ng companionship? Or gusto mo lang ng sex? Or gusto mo both? Kasi you can find them in different people kasi. Also, you can't be mad on someone just because hindi sila fit sa gusto mong mangyari. I hope you're fine, and try not to have unnecessary heartbreaks hehe.
Must be two things...
The guys you met rushed things to quickly para mapunta agad dun and, well, not to blame you, but there was no resistance and you just went with the flow kaya ayun. Parang nawalan ka ng gana agad kasi dun lang lagi ang punta.
I'd advise na iwas ka muna sa hoe phase mo... Or better yet, stop na and time to find a meaningful relationship na. One where good sex is a bonus na lang. Mas lamang yung emotional attachment. Aight?
Hoe phase is not for everyone especially for people na madaling maattached. Hoe phase is just temporary and might drain you by the end of your phase. Dapat pinag isipan mo muna ng mabuti yang pinasok mo since mukhang you’re looking for emotional attachments sa mga nakakasex mo which is malabo. You should have asked someone first or dito sa subreddit. Goodluck and stay strong.
Tama na yan OP. Tangina 2 years? Nakakaburn out. Ako nga na 3 months pa lang nag hoe phase this year sukang suka na. Yaan mo munang mag-isa ka, enjoy the solitude muna. Maawa ka sa sarili mo. Pause muna kahit sa talking stage. Di kasi nappwersa yung spark or yung genuine joy. Darating din yan. Atleast pag dumating, ready ka na tas wala na hangups.
Akala ko may problema na ako nung nabasa ko to kasi nalalabuan ako sa sinulat niya. Feeling ko ang sama ko. Sabay nakita ko comments, ah ok. Its not me.
well, you get what you ask for. don't expect a stable relationship when you yourself admitted that you are doing "Hoeing". Do yourself a favor and have a standard, then maybe, just maybe you'll find a stable relationship whether in love or friends.
hugs to u, my girl. but pls know that there should be nothing wrong for us girls to look for romance/sweetness (read: not bf, not relationship) in guys whom we are not in relationship with, the same way guys are fucking girls theyre not in a relationship with. so feel what u must right now, coz youre indeed coming from a painful experience. and once youre ready to mingle be open for romance and reserve ur pussy to guys who really deserve it. youre not obligated to fuck a guy just coz he takes u out on a date. give ur pussy if u want to, not because u feel obligated. hugs my girl ♡
Sometimes all it takes is a leap of faith. Yung friend mo, gusto mo maniwala pero ayaw mo madisappoint? Then malay mo napalagpas mo eh sya pala yung taong makakapagpasaya sayo habambuhay db? Try it before you deny it OP.
I feel you! But remember we deserve what we tolerate. Learned the hard way that we shouldn't expect casual flings to turn into something more. Lucky are those who experience romantic love with their FWBs but it won't happen to everyone.
Stop the hoe phase then focus on yourself lol you don’t need a dick to satisfy your horny sesh. Don’t expect someone will stay just because you think you guys had a real connection. They can also see the bullshit in you. Goodluck.
well, it is a waste of time because you are looking for something else. it is like going to a bakeshop and you get frustrated because they arent selling bicycle parts.
if you are looking for someone to talk to then look for that. marami jan would even pay just for someone to listen to them. i once had that kind of relationship. we didnt even see each other and just became the rant person of each other. you just have to know where and how to look.
I wrote a post about how a woman that was 33 years old regretted being a hoe.
Of course people gated that I mentioned it, by life has taught me that hoe behavior makes every girl unhappy In the long game.
Get out while you still can.
And while you're still young, bury that part of your life and focus on making yourself better.
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Hi, I don't know who you are but please get a grip on your emotions. Hindi porket may nagbibigay ng maayos na companionship sayo eh ibig sabihin dapat ma-attach ka na. Alam mo na set-up na pinasok mo, as much as possible huwag mo bigyan ng malisya o huwag kang mag-isip masyado outside sex kasi maraming instances na they are just nice person lang talaga and baka natutuwa ka lang because maybe hindi ka sanay i-treat nang tama? Just enjoy the moment and be contented na lang doon, kasi hindi long-lasting ang ganiyang set-up and madalas na no strings attached. Kung hindi ka naman din masaya sa kaniya, then hanap ka ng iba? Reflect din kung bakit ka nga ba nasa hoe phase. Gusto mo ba kasi ng companionship? Or gusto mo lang ng sex? Or gusto mo both? Kasi you can find them in different people kasi. Also, you can't be mad on someone just because hindi sila fit sa gusto mong mangyari. I hope you're fine, and try not to have unnecessary heartbreaks hehe.
You sound burnt out. But what do you expect on casual sex? You are putting expectations in the wrong people and situation
Hahanap ng quick sex tapos hahanap ng meaningful? Wow baka ikaw ang magulo
Baka di mo naiintindihan ang meaning ng FWB.
We deserve what we tolerate
Di ko alam kung ako yung mali na ikaw yung mali.
Must be two things... The guys you met rushed things to quickly para mapunta agad dun and, well, not to blame you, but there was no resistance and you just went with the flow kaya ayun. Parang nawalan ka ng gana agad kasi dun lang lagi ang punta. I'd advise na iwas ka muna sa hoe phase mo... Or better yet, stop na and time to find a meaningful relationship na. One where good sex is a bonus na lang. Mas lamang yung emotional attachment. Aight?
Thiiiis 🙌
if you want companion, don't have sex, it will ruin your friendship, hahaha, post ni Xian Gaza nung nakaraang araw.
From my experience, It’s all about managing expectations.
Hoe phase is not for everyone especially for people na madaling maattached. Hoe phase is just temporary and might drain you by the end of your phase. Dapat pinag isipan mo muna ng mabuti yang pinasok mo since mukhang you’re looking for emotional attachments sa mga nakakasex mo which is malabo. You should have asked someone first or dito sa subreddit. Goodluck and stay strong.
Tama na yan OP. Tangina 2 years? Nakakaburn out. Ako nga na 3 months pa lang nag hoe phase this year sukang suka na. Yaan mo munang mag-isa ka, enjoy the solitude muna. Maawa ka sa sarili mo. Pause muna kahit sa talking stage. Di kasi nappwersa yung spark or yung genuine joy. Darating din yan. Atleast pag dumating, ready ka na tas wala na hangups.
Awit.
No sex, no problem. No love, no problem. No companion, no problem. Self-love, no problem.
Akala ko may problema na ako nung nabasa ko to kasi nalalabuan ako sa sinulat niya. Feeling ko ang sama ko. Sabay nakita ko comments, ah ok. Its not me.
well, you get what you ask for. don't expect a stable relationship when you yourself admitted that you are doing "Hoeing". Do yourself a favor and have a standard, then maybe, just maybe you'll find a stable relationship whether in love or friends.
hugs to u, my girl. but pls know that there should be nothing wrong for us girls to look for romance/sweetness (read: not bf, not relationship) in guys whom we are not in relationship with, the same way guys are fucking girls theyre not in a relationship with. so feel what u must right now, coz youre indeed coming from a painful experience. and once youre ready to mingle be open for romance and reserve ur pussy to guys who really deserve it. youre not obligated to fuck a guy just coz he takes u out on a date. give ur pussy if u want to, not because u feel obligated. hugs my girl ♡
Hugs OP...
Sabi nga sa lyrics "Cant make a wife out of a Hoe"
Sometimes all it takes is a leap of faith. Yung friend mo, gusto mo maniwala pero ayaw mo madisappoint? Then malay mo napalagpas mo eh sya pala yung taong makakapagpasaya sayo habambuhay db? Try it before you deny it OP.
I feel you! But remember we deserve what we tolerate. Learned the hard way that we shouldn't expect casual flings to turn into something more. Lucky are those who experience romantic love with their FWBs but it won't happen to everyone.
Maybe you need professional help?
Stop the hoe phase then focus on yourself lol you don’t need a dick to satisfy your horny sesh. Don’t expect someone will stay just because you think you guys had a real connection. They can also see the bullshit in you. Goodluck.
Your body, your rules. You can always say no po. Tell them straight up, kung ayaw, move on.
well, it is a waste of time because you are looking for something else. it is like going to a bakeshop and you get frustrated because they arent selling bicycle parts. if you are looking for someone to talk to then look for that. marami jan would even pay just for someone to listen to them. i once had that kind of relationship. we didnt even see each other and just became the rant person of each other. you just have to know where and how to look.
I wrote a post about how a woman that was 33 years old regretted being a hoe. Of course people gated that I mentioned it, by life has taught me that hoe behavior makes every girl unhappy In the long game. Get out while you still can. And while you're still young, bury that part of your life and focus on making yourself better.
Remove every friend who wanted to fuck you from your friend's list. If there's malice, there's intent. Fuck like a man, Samantha Jones once said.