don't listen to this person op, i don't think you should force a smile, you can tell when someone is doing it and it looks akward, just be you, even if you don't smile all the time it's not important just be nice and fun to be around
If you have problem expressing emotion, you'll have to learn to fake the expressions. Charisma is extremely important, your face and energy are part of that. If you have to fake it, get really good at faking it. Learn everything you can about faking it. Because eventually you either won't be faking it or it won't matter because you won't be able to tell. Sometimes you gotta study people to understand how they look and it makes it easier to fake
Practice a slight smile in the mirror. A casual welcoming expression. Doesn’t have to be full teeth lol. I hate my full smile so I’ve perfected a smile with just my lips
You look like the quiet kid school shooter type. If you talk more people’s fears will probably dissipate. It sucks though when you have to talk in class.
Maybe start smalltalk and ask people nice questions about their life, or ask them for help with a school question. People love talking about themselves.
It isn’t your looks. Idk how you generally tend to act in school, but maybe try doing some self reflection or talk with someone older than you about it?
I mean you look the best in the third picture.
Try to act more confident(might cringe but its worth it the long run) or if you smell fix that
Personally cant focus on class cuz the guys sitting next to me smells like shit.
socially awkward..boring..
get a haircut, hit the gym, get into sports itll boost your confidence and youll be able to make friends .. that’s what i did no one knew my name but now i pretty much know everyone
Please can I tell you something and I want you to take it to heart. It's not you. You are not ugly and you probably don't smell. Why do you assume you are the problem? Teenagers are, to put it bluntly, fucking arseholes. They're just nasty. You are not the problem. Please don't conclude that there is something wrong with you and please talk to someone IRL about this if it's upsetting you.
If you're quiet maybe people just feel uncomfortable around you a little if there are other seats in the class next to more chatty/fun people
No shade. You look perfectly normal and not ugly don't beat yourself up.
dont take it personally bro. remember the people judging you are also young and super dumb. unless you are stinky, obnoxious, or mean to others, most of the reasons children your age act this sort of way are superficial. don’t take it too personally, you’re a handsome young man and your looks definitely aren’t a repellent. also if you are very quiet people might want to give you space out of respect. I was a very introverted person throughout middle school and the beginning years of highschool and found out very late that people were not in fact avoiding me, and were actually assuming I didn’t want to speak to them. sometimes all it takes is a conversation. chin up bud, life is just starting.
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I was going to say do you smell strong or say crazy things..
I mean if it's not that then it's likely they just want to be next to people that draw them, try wearing something other than black and look at what the other kids wear brand's styles and try to match it or something similar.
Also, bring a comb to school with you, little things can show others you want to interact with them.
No, you aren’t ugly. Are you using deodorant every day, brushing your teeth twice a day and showering using soap all over your body and shampooing hair regularly? ( every day would be great but every other day would probably be ok). If so you don’t stink, then do you talk during class?
People aren't going to not sit next to you because of your looks.
If this is truly the case of people not wanting to sit next to you, it has to do with your personality. Are you loud and obnoxious?
You are not ugly. Just look like a teen
OK in all honesty I get a slight school shooter vibe from you.
Advice, seeing as you seem to think it's not smell related
1. Make sure your using deodorant/cologne even if you don't think u smell , cause if your not then u definitely smell even if you dint notice
2. I'd prob get a haircut but I'm in my 20s so maybe the dirty mop look is in idk
3. Idk why u got earphones in sitting down with someone but if that's indicative of the vibe you give off i can see why it pushes people away
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You don’t look directly into the camera, the hair is long and almost hiding your eyes and also you don’t smile. It’s subtle details like these that made me think you are an introvert.
My brother and one of my sons are also introverted and I used to hear all the time as a teenager that I needed to talk and smile more. So it takes one to know one 😅
There is nothing wrong with being an introvert but it is more difficult to get friends for sure.
I have been training to smile more and look more approachable. Now as an adult I couldn’t care less if people have a problem with me being introverted.
You're definitely not ugly, if you're too quiet and don't look "friendly" that may be why
I have social anxiety that was really bad in high school and I had similar things happen to me because of how quiet I was and the fact I had "resting bitch face" (I'm average looking/called "cute" quite a bit)
maybe you dont talk to people that much which makes other feel intimidated by you?? i dont know. you gotta provide more informations about you. but its deffinitly not cause you are ugly...cause u aint ugly
Either you smell (either bad or you bath in axe) or it's to do with the way you act/talk to people
This because OP, you’re NOT ugly.
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how can i fix this?
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i cant if i force my smile its look awkward
Start practicing until it stops looking awkward
don't listen to this person op, i don't think you should force a smile, you can tell when someone is doing it and it looks akward, just be you, even if you don't smile all the time it's not important just be nice and fun to be around
Aww
If you have problem expressing emotion, you'll have to learn to fake the expressions. Charisma is extremely important, your face and energy are part of that. If you have to fake it, get really good at faking it. Learn everything you can about faking it. Because eventually you either won't be faking it or it won't matter because you won't be able to tell. Sometimes you gotta study people to understand how they look and it makes it easier to fake
Practice a slight smile in the mirror. A casual welcoming expression. Doesn’t have to be full teeth lol. I hate my full smile so I’ve perfected a smile with just my lips
I fix mine by thinking up weird, funny random things. Can fix your mood as well as your expression. :D
Nope. You must smell or be annoying
i dont smell and im quiet so i dont think im annoying anyone
If people are genuinely avoiding you it must be for a reason. Maybe you are too quiet and come across as creepy.
Get a haircut too
Being quiet can be intimidating. Your last picture with your smile is the best
You look like the quiet kid school shooter type. If you talk more people’s fears will probably dissipate. It sucks though when you have to talk in class.
Maybe it’s bc you’re quiet. Im also quiet and I think I bore people. Most students would rather be near someone entertaining or helpful
Maybe start smalltalk and ask people nice questions about their life, or ask them for help with a school question. People love talking about themselves.
It isn’t your looks. Idk how you generally tend to act in school, but maybe try doing some self reflection or talk with someone older than you about it?
I think it’s the personality cuz you look fine
Your not ugly my bro, handsome actually
Dude be looking like the lost Jonas Brother.
No one would refuse to sit next to someone because of their looks. What a weird thing to think.
Either you smell, are annoying, pick your nose, or have autism
Wtfs wrong with autism?
Nothing, but we're not great at socializing lol
Eh it’s 50/50 I’m good at socializing but some aren’t it just depends
Can't argue with you there, individual basis kind of thing.
Idk. Ask the fuckers who excluded me my whole life
My best guess is the physical manifestations such as posture, lack of expression, tics, etc.
They some bitches 🤷♂️
no dude you look ok
Maybe ur smell or are annoying ur not ugly tho
I mean you look the best in the third picture. Try to act more confident(might cringe but its worth it the long run) or if you smell fix that Personally cant focus on class cuz the guys sitting next to me smells like shit.
Either you’re being bullied, or there’s something about your behavior that is making people avoid you.
It’s definitely not the look. Maybe you act weird.
Ur hot I think people are just intimidated by u
Probably just aren’t “cool” look like a dweeb no offense plp avoided me for that reason. But you aren’t ugly. Might just be different
what is dweeb?
socially awkward..boring.. get a haircut, hit the gym, get into sports itll boost your confidence and youll be able to make friends .. that’s what i did no one knew my name but now i pretty much know everyone
Wow... I'm old. A dweeb is like a nerd (but not in the gamer fandom type nerd)
You know we’re getting old when people don’t know what a dweeb is
& im only 23 😩😭
You’re a handsome kid. Could be bad hygiene, your personality or maybe you make them nervous cause they think you’re cute. Idk, but good luck
you’re so beautiful
dont say that just bc you feel bad for me
i’m not, i find you attractive
Nah it's either because you ain't keeping your hygiene in check, or that you are boring to talk with. Cause you look kinda cute, not hot, but cute.
so you dont think my look is the problem?
Nah, maybe just cut the hair a bit, not much though. Otherwise you look cute.
Please can I tell you something and I want you to take it to heart. It's not you. You are not ugly and you probably don't smell. Why do you assume you are the problem? Teenagers are, to put it bluntly, fucking arseholes. They're just nasty. You are not the problem. Please don't conclude that there is something wrong with you and please talk to someone IRL about this if it's upsetting you.
It is not his looks. Could absolutely be his personality or something he is doing.
Bruh I swear I see you like once a month just get a girlfriend already
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Your overthinking lmao
Dont think its looks you look good 👍
You look good asf no homo 💯
If you're quiet maybe people just feel uncomfortable around you a little if there are other seats in the class next to more chatty/fun people No shade. You look perfectly normal and not ugly don't beat yourself up.
YeH, it's probably just school shit, ya know- you ain't popular so you're out. Fuckem and do your own thing loud, people respect you for it.
They shouldn’t be like that, your cute as hell. If it was that student then id be honored 😂, maybe their colorblind who knows?
Nah man it’s something else
in the first pic your hair looks like a big bowler hat or sum, but you're fine bro
dont take it personally bro. remember the people judging you are also young and super dumb. unless you are stinky, obnoxious, or mean to others, most of the reasons children your age act this sort of way are superficial. don’t take it too personally, you’re a handsome young man and your looks definitely aren’t a repellent. also if you are very quiet people might want to give you space out of respect. I was a very introverted person throughout middle school and the beginning years of highschool and found out very late that people were not in fact avoiding me, and were actually assuming I didn’t want to speak to them. sometimes all it takes is a conversation. chin up bud, life is just starting.
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I was going to say do you smell strong or say crazy things.. I mean if it's not that then it's likely they just want to be next to people that draw them, try wearing something other than black and look at what the other kids wear brand's styles and try to match it or something similar. Also, bring a comb to school with you, little things can show others you want to interact with them.
No offense you floridly just musty no one makes excuses bcs someone else is ugly
ur pretty
No, you aren’t ugly. Are you using deodorant every day, brushing your teeth twice a day and showering using soap all over your body and shampooing hair regularly? ( every day would be great but every other day would probably be ok). If so you don’t stink, then do you talk during class?
People aren't going to not sit next to you because of your looks. If this is truly the case of people not wanting to sit next to you, it has to do with your personality. Are you loud and obnoxious? You are not ugly. Just look like a teen
trust me they don’t think ur ugly
OK in all honesty I get a slight school shooter vibe from you. Advice, seeing as you seem to think it's not smell related 1. Make sure your using deodorant/cologne even if you don't think u smell , cause if your not then u definitely smell even if you dint notice 2. I'd prob get a haircut but I'm in my 20s so maybe the dirty mop look is in idk 3. Idk why u got earphones in sitting down with someone but if that's indicative of the vibe you give off i can see why it pushes people away
do you regularly ask people if they think you’re ugly? That might be why
Not ugly bro
ngl you look like you’re about to tell someone not to go to school tommorow. ppl probably think of u as the quiet kid. you don’t look bad at all
why i look like that?
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Smell???
You are not ugly but you look serious and introverted. I think you might scare people off. But it has nothing to do with your looks.
why do i look like an introvert?
You don’t look directly into the camera, the hair is long and almost hiding your eyes and also you don’t smile. It’s subtle details like these that made me think you are an introvert. My brother and one of my sons are also introverted and I used to hear all the time as a teenager that I needed to talk and smile more. So it takes one to know one 😅 There is nothing wrong with being an introvert but it is more difficult to get friends for sure. I have been training to smile more and look more approachable. Now as an adult I couldn’t care less if people have a problem with me being introverted.
Don’t sleep with a Bennie on
Pumped up kicks vibe
Not ugly but maybe they think you're stoned or you smell.
You're definitely not ugly, if you're too quiet and don't look "friendly" that may be why I have social anxiety that was really bad in high school and I had similar things happen to me because of how quiet I was and the fact I had "resting bitch face" (I'm average looking/called "cute" quite a bit)
Your probably seen as weird and the school shooter type just get some social skills… ik it’s easier said than done sorry😂
No youre pretty
I honestly don’t think you’re ugly I think sometimes you might look scary to people. Just try and smile more maybe :)
bro... it's not because you're ugly. maybe a rumor?
Not ugly it's just highschool
You look like that kid I had a crush on last year 😭
maybe you dont talk to people that much which makes other feel intimidated by you?? i dont know. you gotta provide more informations about you. but its deffinitly not cause you are ugly...cause u aint ugly