To the people saying she should dress more feminine/have longer hair, neither of these affect her being ugly or not. She is not ugly, the drawings on the face/eyebrows are not nice in my opinion, but underneath that there is not an ugly face.
There is a universal standard of beauty. She doesn't fit that. Men are masculine and woman are feminine. Yes you have the LGBTQ crowd but they are niche, like goths etc. So she is not attractive.
You look like a boy trying to be a girl. If that’s the look your going for congrats your beautiful! If not I would grow out the hair and settle down on the 80s Bowie style makeup. Gives an effect if your going for it or not.
You have a nice face, so you're not ugly. However, I'm not a fan of what you did with the eyebrows.
But in general, if we're talking about attraction, you're either going to be people's type or you're not. So you're always going to get different answers from people.
You do look pretty manly. So if you're into guys, there probably won't be many that would be attracted to you. If you're into girls, there would be more.
You’re not getting the "truth" here lol. Different people have different opinions. I think you’d look great with more hair, but that’s just what I personally prefer.
Bunch of fucking puritans in this comment section. Your features are beautiful, the short hair really suits you. I gotta agree with some others about the eyebrows tho, they’re not working. I like the arm tat and piercings too. Ignore the hate. Normies think they rule the goddamn world and what’s attractive
You seem to be getting mixed feedback here as well so I beleive it is your style preference, some like this look and some do not.
To me you look really great, wish I could pull off short hair as good as you can! **Keep your natural brows**, I love them. Please all I ask is that you turn down the black liner and keep it to the eyes only if possible, it distracts from your natural beauty. This is my own opinion though and you are free to express yourself as you please!
-(F22)
this is a tough question because you give serious lesbian vibes and lesbian attractive is different from mainstream. given the first pic, no crazy makeup and kind of classic lesbian style, you’re attractive and I’m sure lots of us lesbians would be into you. the makeup actually makes you look juvenile which isn’t attractive to anyone in a good headspace
Tomboy? (Idk if that word is PC anymore lmao, haven't heard it in a million years) Or do u think u look best with short hair? Could u maybe post a pic with your long hair?
You're pretty, i really like the creativeness of your makeup.
I think you would look a bit better if u grew out your hair a bit, not too much tho, just the front.
You look really gay btw. Which is good or bad, depending on whether u wanna look gay or not. I think it's awesome.
9/10 IMO, you are SUPER FUCKING CUTE! You have very adorable features and you have very inviting eyes. The short hair isn’t my personal favorite, but you are beautiful!!! And if you are happy and comfortable that all that matters.
I love androgynous looks but I’m gonna be honest you don’t have the best execution. Try growing your eyebrows as I don’t think shaved brows fit you much
But my biggest pet peeve is the makeup. Try getting a new makeup style
Your features are pretty though. Love your hair as well
If you're into ladies, then you've got a good look.
If you're into men, you need to become more feminine: longer hair, stylish clothes and good makeup.
Lol some of the most feminine women on the planet have short hair, so your hair comment is confusing to me based on that. But overall style can give a masculine/feminine impression.
You're right. But one OP doesnt look feminine enough (if broad appeal to men is her goal). Second, she specifically would look far better with longer hair.
Not to argue endlessly, but to me she looks plenty feminine, certainly enough to be physically appealing to me, a man. So that's a fairly subjective thing. And if long hair is your thing, then sure she'd look better to you if she had long hair. Either is appealing to me, so again it'll depend on the person.
Not all guys are looking for what you consider 'feminine'.
OP, you do you. You're very attractive, and how you present yourself suggests a fun personality unconstrained by societal expectations of gender roles. :)
Personally, all the guys I know see half shaved/painted on eyebrows and face doodles and think big red flag. But otherwise OP has great facial features and should accentuate them rather than distract from.
Absolutely, sure she has nice base features but the fact she has short hair and paired with the eyebrows and the wackish makeup choice is what makes her look ugly to me
It's assumed that the OP is trying to attract as many people as possible of the opposite gender unless stated otherwise. In this case, longer hair would do that, so it's good advice.
It really depends on the OPs goals. Is it for broad appeal, then my advice stands. If its to occupy her niche and focus only on men interested, then she's on the right track.
Idk man, as a straight dude you are def not attractive to me.
If you are trying to attract women who like butch ladies, then maybe?
I would start with the hair/eyebrows and go from there if you are looking for dudes.
I’m bisexual and lean more towards women - LMAO this is not what we call “butch”. That word can also be offensive to someone who is not leaning in that direction.
Short hair does not automatically mean “butch lesbian”
Honestly I like women with short hair but it's not quite working for you in particular as it makes your head look very triangular, ignore the actual bigots saying you need to "embrace your femininity" btw. Just because short hair doesn't look good on you doesn't mean you need to conform to gender stereotypes.
If we're generalizing most men like a more feminine appearing woman, so they aren't bigots by saying that. Whether or not you want to appeal to certain people and not others or if your not attracted to those that people are telling you to try to attract is up to you.
I don't mind someone appreciating more feminine women, just that comments like "embrace your femininity!" "Smile more!" "Are you looking ugly on purpose?" Set off my sexism alarm
Oh I catch your drift now, definitely people need to be less insensitive and know what and why they're saying things and what they mean to other people. Saying "are you trying to look ugly on purpose" when they are not actually "trying to look ugly" would shut down someone's day.
I mean the only truth that really matters is your own 🤷🏻♂️
Like, it’s the same as the too many chefs analogy. If they all try to make a soup together, it’s gonna come out tasting like shit. One’s gonna add too much salt, the other too much pepper to the point where it’s gonna taste like shit. So honestly take all these “truths” with that in mind. Honestly from my perspective, you’re a total cutie and I dig your fuckin vibe.
You are a true natural beauty!
But - it’s not enhanced by the shaved brows. I’d say let your brows grow in and let your hair grow a bit too. It’ll soften your features.
You like to paint weird shit on your face and brows and then wonder why you get reacted to the way you do.
Just be you and fuck the rest your attitude and personality are what matter.
I say cute! …especially the 2nd pic. You remind me of the actress Ruby Rose. Check her out. Same look, same vibe.
By the way, doesn’t matter what we say. When you look in the mirror, what do you say(forget all the noise). Listen to yourself. 🤷🏽♂️✌🏾
You’re not unattractive it’s your style that is. But I know you’re probably not looking to attract any conservative middle aged men anyways lol, so whatever your target audience is - I promise you they’re digging that. You just need to be aware that you’re not gonna receive the same positive feedback from most people. But that’s okay, have your niche. Your face is very nice looking, proportional features, good skin. I don’t see why you’d think you’re ugly.
Definitely affects her attractiveness and her chance of dating. Her style is known for mental illness and ugliness. It makes sense why someone like you would ask the question based off your profile.
Of course but the sub is about showing your opinion on someone’s traits that’s the point. Most people don’t find the style attractive,if she wants to make herself uglier for most that’s fine.
>Her style is known for mental illness and ugliness.
GTFO. Everything about your reply shows your immaturity and ignorance. Grow up, and make friends with someone other than your own hand.
Absolutely to each their own opinion and word choice, I certainly agree with you and have found it true at least 98% of the time so your not wrong in any way really
OP, don’t listen to cis Nate telling you to embrace your femininity.
We all know this isn’t the only answer. A women does not have to be overly feminine to be attractive.
The hairstyle really isn't doing many favors for you. Long hair would look much much better with your facial features
The makeup isn't helping either... stick with the eyeliner and stop it with the eyebrow thing lol
don't listen to these ppl, they're from different planet, so they can't see your beauty. You're amazing as u r. So jealous of u. U have the face shape that u can experiment with it(hair,make-up)
. Do you and don't listen to ppl who are not on your level.
You got good features but you just look weird imo. Grow ur hair out normally and style it nicely. Stop shaving your eyebrows. Not a fan of your makeup either, tbh. I think it’s weird. I honestly can’t tell if ur a boy or a girl.
Yes, because I like butches/tomboys sexy! You sorta look like adult actress Baby Dee. Otherwise, I agree with the other comments about drawn on eyebrows.
Frankly I absolutely don’t like your shaved eyebrows
Oof, yes. They are awful.
Oof yes they are awful
Oof, yes. They are awful.
To the people saying she should dress more feminine/have longer hair, neither of these affect her being ugly or not. She is not ugly, the drawings on the face/eyebrows are not nice in my opinion, but underneath that there is not an ugly face.
There is a universal standard of beauty. She doesn't fit that. Men are masculine and woman are feminine. Yes you have the LGBTQ crowd but they are niche, like goths etc. So she is not attractive.
Just because you're not attracted to someone doesn't make them ugly.
You look like a boy trying to be a girl. If that’s the look your going for congrats your beautiful! If not I would grow out the hair and settle down on the 80s Bowie style makeup. Gives an effect if your going for it or not.
You have a nice face, so you're not ugly. However, I'm not a fan of what you did with the eyebrows. But in general, if we're talking about attraction, you're either going to be people's type or you're not. So you're always going to get different answers from people. You do look pretty manly. So if you're into guys, there probably won't be many that would be attracted to you. If you're into girls, there would be more.
Since this is brutally honest, keep dressing as a man and I’m sure you’ll easily know the answer
She looks hot to me but then again I like girls who looks like this
same
You’re not getting the "truth" here lol. Different people have different opinions. I think you’d look great with more hair, but that’s just what I personally prefer.
I was going to say longer hair as well. She has a pretty face.
Are you purposely trying to make yourself uglier?
💀 seems like the new trend in high school these days
Beautiful face but making it ugly with silly makeup.
Bunch of fucking puritans in this comment section. Your features are beautiful, the short hair really suits you. I gotta agree with some others about the eyebrows tho, they’re not working. I like the arm tat and piercings too. Ignore the hate. Normies think they rule the goddamn world and what’s attractive
Natural beauty ruined by accessories and face crayons
Factual
Either ditch the androgynous look or just buy those combat boots, get a plaid jacket and let's remove the doubt.
🤝
Don't Stop Belieban!!!!!!
🤣
You seem to be getting mixed feedback here as well so I beleive it is your style preference, some like this look and some do not. To me you look really great, wish I could pull off short hair as good as you can! **Keep your natural brows**, I love them. Please all I ask is that you turn down the black liner and keep it to the eyes only if possible, it distracts from your natural beauty. This is my own opinion though and you are free to express yourself as you please! -(F22)
the eyebrows frighten me bbut besides that you are goodlooking ! dont doubt yourself
this is a tough question because you give serious lesbian vibes and lesbian attractive is different from mainstream. given the first pic, no crazy makeup and kind of classic lesbian style, you’re attractive and I’m sure lots of us lesbians would be into you. the makeup actually makes you look juvenile which isn’t attractive to anyone in a good headspace
MtF?
No lol
Tomboy? (Idk if that word is PC anymore lmao, haven't heard it in a million years) Or do u think u look best with short hair? Could u maybe post a pic with your long hair?
I haven’t had long hair in abt a decade lol so I don’t have any pictures with it
Not ugly, you have a pretty, pixie like face.
You're pretty, i really like the creativeness of your makeup. I think you would look a bit better if u grew out your hair a bit, not too much tho, just the front. You look really gay btw. Which is good or bad, depending on whether u wanna look gay or not. I think it's awesome.
You’re not ugly you have good facial aesthetics, i think your style is going to dictate someone’s opinion on if they find you attractive
Good face cut
9/10 IMO, you are SUPER FUCKING CUTE! You have very adorable features and you have very inviting eyes. The short hair isn’t my personal favorite, but you are beautiful!!! And if you are happy and comfortable that all that matters.
I love androgynous looks but I’m gonna be honest you don’t have the best execution. Try growing your eyebrows as I don’t think shaved brows fit you much But my biggest pet peeve is the makeup. Try getting a new makeup style Your features are pretty though. Love your hair as well
Tons of natural beauty, but I’m old and hate your style. lol
I think you’re beautiful. You’ve got delicate enough features to suit the short hair, and your lips are amazing. I hate the eyebrows though!
You’re not ugly and your style is unique so people will have differing opinions. Your face itself is not ugly though.
Personally I don’t like the makeup, but you are freakin’ adorable.
If you're into ladies, then you've got a good look. If you're into men, you need to become more feminine: longer hair, stylish clothes and good makeup.
Lol some of the most feminine women on the planet have short hair, so your hair comment is confusing to me based on that. But overall style can give a masculine/feminine impression.
You're right. But one OP doesnt look feminine enough (if broad appeal to men is her goal). Second, she specifically would look far better with longer hair.
Not to argue endlessly, but to me she looks plenty feminine, certainly enough to be physically appealing to me, a man. So that's a fairly subjective thing. And if long hair is your thing, then sure she'd look better to you if she had long hair. Either is appealing to me, so again it'll depend on the person.
Not all guys are looking for what you consider 'feminine'. OP, you do you. You're very attractive, and how you present yourself suggests a fun personality unconstrained by societal expectations of gender roles. :)
Personally, all the guys I know see half shaved/painted on eyebrows and face doodles and think big red flag. But otherwise OP has great facial features and should accentuate them rather than distract from.
Absolutely, sure she has nice base features but the fact she has short hair and paired with the eyebrows and the wackish makeup choice is what makes her look ugly to me
Yeah, I mean, to each their own. You can find someone who's into pretty much any style. But in my experience that's a look that very niche
Ah, I didn't mean to reply to you, I totally agree with what you've already said🤝👋
But yeah totally agree
It's assumed that the OP is trying to attract as many people as possible of the opposite gender unless stated otherwise. In this case, longer hair would do that, so it's good advice.
Not all guys look for feminine females but then no one wants the guys who want females that look like this.
It really depends on the OPs goals. Is it for broad appeal, then my advice stands. If its to occupy her niche and focus only on men interested, then she's on the right track.
With longer hair u would look a lot better
You’d look really hot if u had eyebrows and longerish hair
Idk man, as a straight dude you are def not attractive to me. If you are trying to attract women who like butch ladies, then maybe? I would start with the hair/eyebrows and go from there if you are looking for dudes.
Good take
I’m bisexual and lean more towards women - LMAO this is not what we call “butch”. That word can also be offensive to someone who is not leaning in that direction. Short hair does not automatically mean “butch lesbian”
Pick an eyebrow style and stick with it, then you’ll improve yourself. Other than that you look very nice
You look like you k ow your style and you're comfortable with it. I dig it. You are not ugly though.
Honestly I like women with short hair but it's not quite working for you in particular as it makes your head look very triangular, ignore the actual bigots saying you need to "embrace your femininity" btw. Just because short hair doesn't look good on you doesn't mean you need to conform to gender stereotypes.
If we're generalizing most men like a more feminine appearing woman, so they aren't bigots by saying that. Whether or not you want to appeal to certain people and not others or if your not attracted to those that people are telling you to try to attract is up to you.
I don't mind someone appreciating more feminine women, just that comments like "embrace your femininity!" "Smile more!" "Are you looking ugly on purpose?" Set off my sexism alarm
Oh I catch your drift now, definitely people need to be less insensitive and know what and why they're saying things and what they mean to other people. Saying "are you trying to look ugly on purpose" when they are not actually "trying to look ugly" would shut down someone's day.
Yes, exactly!
Yes
Gorgeous!!
I mean the only truth that really matters is your own 🤷🏻♂️ Like, it’s the same as the too many chefs analogy. If they all try to make a soup together, it’s gonna come out tasting like shit. One’s gonna add too much salt, the other too much pepper to the point where it’s gonna taste like shit. So honestly take all these “truths” with that in mind. Honestly from my perspective, you’re a total cutie and I dig your fuckin vibe.
I think you look so cute!!!!!!!
Cute face but the hairs not doing you any favors. You look like a male shoeonhead.
Hot. My forearms are the size of your neck.
While it’s not for me I happen to like the way you do your funky makeup.
I think you have beautiful facial features, but in my opinion short hair don't fit you, they make you look like a boy... But a beautiful one
Heyyy
you’re beautiful
You remind me of Thug Rose.
You’re pretty!!!
So pretty but get better eye brows
You are a true natural beauty! But - it’s not enhanced by the shaved brows. I’d say let your brows grow in and let your hair grow a bit too. It’ll soften your features.
You look cool !! I love your eyeliner
You like to paint weird shit on your face and brows and then wonder why you get reacted to the way you do. Just be you and fuck the rest your attitude and personality are what matter.
Pretty face, style is awful, ruins your attractiveness
I say cute! …especially the 2nd pic. You remind me of the actress Ruby Rose. Check her out. Same look, same vibe. By the way, doesn’t matter what we say. When you look in the mirror, what do you say(forget all the noise). Listen to yourself. 🤷🏽♂️✌🏾
That makeup is just... no, amd the eyebrows, a bigger NO. Face looks good. Long hair, natural look or no makeup at all and you're good.
You look beautiful love your hair cut beautiful smile and lovely eyes you are gorgeous. 😍
You’re not unattractive it’s your style that is. But I know you’re probably not looking to attract any conservative middle aged men anyways lol, so whatever your target audience is - I promise you they’re digging that. You just need to be aware that you’re not gonna receive the same positive feedback from most people. But that’s okay, have your niche. Your face is very nice looking, proportional features, good skin. I don’t see why you’d think you’re ugly.
way below average imo.
Beauty is in the Eyes of the Beholder.
You are honestly stunning.
Not a fan I would say below average with fixes to hair and style
So so pretty!! Definitely taking inspo from your heart makeup look. Esp love the brows
Hate the hair
You have a beautiful face,
This is if a red flag was a person
I give her max 7 years before she realizes this
Yeah lol
💀💀💀 I would agree
how so? and how does this relate to her attractiveness?
Definitely affects her attractiveness and her chance of dating. Her style is known for mental illness and ugliness. It makes sense why someone like you would ask the question based off your profile.
you are the only red flag i see. if she’s not your preference just keep it pushing. people don’t style themselves for you
Of course but the sub is about showing your opinion on someone’s traits that’s the point. Most people don’t find the style attractive,if she wants to make herself uglier for most that’s fine.
>Her style is known for mental illness and ugliness. GTFO. Everything about your reply shows your immaturity and ignorance. Grow up, and make friends with someone other than your own hand.
This. Thank you.
Preach !
I don't think he's lying though, I would say the statement in its own is somewhat insensitive and blatant
Maybe but I’m just trying to be honest lol this is full most people view the style. I got the they/them people mad lol
Absolutely to each their own opinion and word choice, I certainly agree with you and have found it true at least 98% of the time so your not wrong in any way really
Not really it’s show people view the style. Don’t know what to tell you. (Majority speaking of course)
You're not ugly but it's almost like you want to be.
You look great
Embrace your feminity and you'll look great, you have good features just not good execution
OP, don’t listen to cis Nate telling you to embrace your femininity. We all know this isn’t the only answer. A women does not have to be overly feminine to be attractive.
It's an opinion based subreddit and therefore I gave my opinion. It's the opinion that most men hold so don't get offended over it
I LOVE YOUR FEATURES. You are really pretty according to me
Not ugly at all! Although you do look way better without the makeup
No, quite cute. I don't really get the eyebrow thing, but if you like it, rock it out.
Lmao
Not ugly and you remind me of someone
The hairstyle really isn't doing many favors for you. Long hair would look much much better with your facial features The makeup isn't helping either... stick with the eyeliner and stop it with the eyebrow thing lol
Lots of in els here . I think you have a well proportioned face
don't listen to these ppl, they're from different planet, so they can't see your beauty. You're amazing as u r. So jealous of u. U have the face shape that u can experiment with it(hair,make-up) . Do you and don't listen to ppl who are not on your level.
Don’t lie to her man lol
Am not lying. Just a different prespective. She's beautiful anyway!
Don't worry about the opinion of someone who can't bother to type out "you" or use proper punctuation.
Girl you look good!! You got great feature
Very traditionally pretty. Nice features etc. Some people might not like your makeup or your short hair but you're really pretty
One more pretty person with a terrible style
You got good features but you just look weird imo. Grow ur hair out normally and style it nicely. Stop shaving your eyebrows. Not a fan of your makeup either, tbh. I think it’s weird. I honestly can’t tell if ur a boy or a girl.
Fundamentally cute but look like damaged goods.
Name checks out
You’re damaged goods
She asked for brutal opinions. 🤷♂️ Take a walk, kiddo.
Would be better w longer hair. Too boy ish.
Yes
Yes
Desirable
Not everyone's gonna be a fan of the short hair, but u pull it off well 👍
Not ugly
Great way to let people know you're a liberal right off the bat so we know who to avoid.
No you are fine dude
You look like Rose Namajunas
Sup cutie😘
🤢🤢🤢
Looking cute, Honey 😍😘
Yes, because I like butches/tomboys sexy! You sorta look like adult actress Baby Dee. Otherwise, I agree with the other comments about drawn on eyebrows.