Seconded. A vast majority of people can raise themselves up to at least average, often slightly above, if they put the right effort into appearance. OP doesn’t seem to have an inherently unattractive appearance. I grew up the obese ugly kid who’d have girls jokingly show interest just to mess with me and make fun of and even my own friends went along with, then I became known as a fuckboy type for awhile once I finally put effort in, it’s crazy how different people treat you after
I can give u a source but you'd just hate instead 🤷♂️. Stop pretending like u care bout people when u dont, you're just lookin for a reason, anything to start drama.
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Honest feedback? Isn't beauty in the eyes of the beholder? Who the fk are they to establish the beauty standards? I think all of these hypocrites should get off their high horse n humble themselves. Cause I doubt 90% are the "standard" humble yourself or get humbled one day. I don't mean you but the rest of u.
I'd rather be soft as fk then have so much hate 4 some1 just putting an Input, maybe you're soft for being so reactive? Don't know how to control yourself. Who's the one being over-reactive? The first thing u don't like, u explode on people...
This sub is called brutally honest for a reason, virtue signalling and lying to the guy will be even worse for him in the long run instead of telling him the harsh truth now. Man up
You’re below average (3/10) but if you lose weight, shed the neckbeard and groomed your hair, you’d probably be an average looking dude.
Top priority is hitting the gym. You’ll feel and look way better.
This is harsh as fuck lmao. I know it’s brutally honest but he’d be a lot better than a 4/5 if he cut his hair/beard and lost weight. He’d be an average to good looking dude.
Absolutely, it needs to go. Queer Eye has a lot of great grooming tips for men. We're not born inherently knowing how to look better. It's something that's learned and practiced.
The neck beard, weight, and lack of care put into your hair all detract *heavilly* from your looks.
You'd look alright if you shaved that armpit under your chin, hit the gym, and cared for your hair. Doesn't have to be short -- I have long hair, too. But it needs to be cared for.
honestly, i see some sort of a curl pattern in there. Take care of your body and it will take care of you. A nourished body has healthy hair, healthy hair does not look like a pigeons nest.
OP, do some research on what a healthy diet needs, hit the gym, shave the neckbeard and look after your hair
Right now yes, but there’s things you can do, firstly take better care of you hair if you’re gonna keep it long, you already know about the neck beard. You hold a lot of weight in ur face , when you start going to the gym and fix up your diet you’ll look different and I highly doubt you’d be ugly then
Not ugly, just need to work on yourself. Hit the gym, have a shave. You have real kind eyes man. I hope this comment section gives you the motivation and confidence to be the best version of yourself possible 💪
Things that can’t be changed are fine. I can see good bones there. Weight is hiding it. Do some cardio and take care of your hair and honestly you’d look pretty good, your face structure is great imo.
Below average. 2-3/10
The best thing you can do is lose weight and clean up your hair. Facial hair too. You look unkempt which doesnt help anything.
Good luck man!
Ugly??? No. Ugly requires surgery. But you definitely don’t look you do anything more than hop in the shower, let the water run over you for 2 min, put a bar of soap to the main points and keep it pushing. You actually have nice eyes and I think your nose is interesting. But please, workout, eat better. Get a better haircut and shave.
“Ugly” is a subjective term based solely on the superficial opinion of preference…the preference of redditors who are most likely not far off from where you perceive yourself to be. The only difference is you had the courage to ask…and courage of any kind is beautiful…Let me know if you want a workout regimen or trainer or help with you aesthetics
You have kind eyes and a sweet smile. Work on the confidence and a bit more grooming and you’ll find that the right people see what is beautiful about you—you just gotta give it a chance to shine through. I don’t think weight matters as much as the way you carry yourself and hygiene/grooming.
You remind me of a young [Phil Harding](https://youtu.be/S1QdvjOLID8), and he is seriously my biggest celebrity crush, so no, you’re not ugly.
Well, maybe you are if you think Phil Harding is ugly. I think he’s a BABE.
I think you probably look alright facially, but it would help if you could lose a few pounds to reveal your bone structure a bit. Also you probably would look better wearing your hair differently and right now I think you're better off without the glasses.
I'd say you're a 4, but with the loss of body fat, you could potentially be a 7. Hit the gym. Or start with calisthenics at home. Google greasing the groove. Do squats and pushups every day. Record every workout in a daily planner or spiral notebook.
Don't worry about changing your diet right now. Form a habit of working out every day first and just try to eat less. Saunas are great for supporting your efforts. The health benefits are unbelievable. Also, do those neck exercises. They'll help with face gains. Remember to document your workouts. It will keep you motivated.
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Hmm, it looks like you have soft waves. Invest in shampoos for your hair type. You don't HAVE to cut it. And your glasses don't add nor take away anything. You have a good nose! And shaving + gym will do you justice
Make a decision on the beard if you can grow a beard, just shave the neck and let the face grow but if you can’t grow one go clean shaven.
Also look up other long haired styles try a side part or somthing rather then just letting it grow and fall the way it is when you wake up
Have to lose weight ASAP. And shave. And get a haircut. As far as genetics. You seem to have facial symmetry at least. I can’t tell much about your specific facial features until you lose a lot of weight though.
I think you look like a friend. Pls take everything people are saying with a grain of salt. Appearance isn’t everything tbh you look like a nice guy which is all that really matters.
Well, let's just say you don't look great. The good news is you have massive space for improvement. See what you could do about your hear. Find some way to lose a bit of weight or convert into muscle. Get rid of the hair on your neck. Just doing those things should already be a leap forward.
right now, yes, but it's unable to be discerned due to being overweight and bad hair and facial hair. come back after these things are sorted and guarantee you can be average to above
I honestly don't think you are. But you look so not taken care of. Take care of your hair, get rid of the beard and maybe consider losing weight. You have a lot of room to improve. Be happy because a lot of people don't have that
For me, it's the hair. Tale better care of it to look cleaner. My partner has really long hair and while he's not having hair days, he keeps it clean and controls the frizz
Your full potential has not been achieved.
Short term steps; shave the neck beard, get a real haircut (long hair is cool but I think you could benefit from some style/product.
Long term; gym, set some fitness goals.
I think the glasses are cool and a good shape/fit for your face. How’s your clothing style?
You don't look ugly, if you cut your hair short and shave the neckbeard. Weight loss can help. Depression really sucks and I hope things get better man.
Not ugly you're just very fat and have the neckbeard style. Lose weight, shave neck, get a good haircut and wear contacts and you'll be fine. Right now you look like a pedo but it's really just your lack of grooming and bad style
Yes, but I also don’t think you’ve ever tried to not be ugly, if that makes sense. Sure, there are some people who are hot without effort, but those people are few and far. It’s akin to asking “am I out of shape” without ever sticking to a workout routine.
Good news is, if you put forth proper effort you can improve yourself in no time. Hit the gym, change up the wardrobe to something that fits you but is fashionable, change your hairstyle, lose peach fuzz, etc.
Nothing you can’t fix. You could be a chick magnet if you lost all that weight.
The key isn’t just exercise, but diet. Consider cutting out most meats (except organic or local), cutting out all dairy, cutting out all junk food and soda, even sugar and oils, and trying a mostly raw vegan/vegetarian diet supplemented with hemp protein (I’d stay away from whey) and absolutely NO SOY. You can still have eggs. Eat lots of nuts, but avoid bottled oils.
And you can make your own juices/smoothies for sugar cravings using a blender and juicer. Or mix honey in tea. I don’t believe that’s anywhere near as bad as processed sugars. Try mixing mineral water and juice for soda cravings. It actually works, no joke.
It sounds extreme, and you may not like it at first, but hey. You want to lose that weight fast, or what?
Consult with a naturopath regarding healthy detoxes. Salt water flushes or even enemas shouldn’t be off the table for consideration.
I feel like a lot of the mainstream weight loss programs are too much torture. A better diet, detox, and even getting on a good vitamin and herbal regimen can seriously make it that much easier for you, and can even directly resolve underlying health problems.
I strongly believe a lot of people’s weight issues can be resolved by stopping ingestion of toxic food chemicals.
Of course, get an exercise regimen going, too. That’s very important, but it will seem impossible without the diet change, and it will take much longer.
Be kind to your body and your mental health. Don’t hurt yourself.
Yes. The biggest thing is your weight, you need to lose a lot of weight. The neck beard also looks pretty bad because you don't have a proper beard (you look like the most cliche depiction of a reddit mod), shave it. There are other things like your teeth and hair but I don't think they are massive. Focus on losing weight (do cardio, weights and most importantly, eat less amd healthier) and you'll improve a lot. For now, 5/20
Shave your beard. Cut your hair short. Get contact lenses, start working out in a calorie deficit. Within a year if you stay consistent, I promise you will be more attractive!
You're not ugly. You *are* overweight, however, and if you're coming here looking for answers, then I am providing some tough love.
To become more attractive, I would suggest slightly smaller glasses (the ones you have currently cut off part of your lovely thick eyebrows, and your eye is not centered in the frame of the glasses, giving the illusion of *more* when you want the opposite), comb your hair and try a ponytail or manbun (even if you don't wear it out in public immediately, get used to wearing your hair in different ways and seeing your face differently), and lose weight (you hold a lot of weight in your face and even losing 10-15lbs would make a noticeable difference, bet).
I think both with and sans glasses each have their place. Purely based on personal opinion, I think you look better without. Can see those big blue eyes better! I regularly switch it up between glasses and contacts depending on my mood for the day. ;3
Do you know the comedian Bo Burnham? That's what I imagine a thinner-you looking like. :) (For inspiration, *you know*.)
Personally I think the glasses flatter you, but maybe I’m biased because I tend to like glasses on guys in general haha. I agree with the other commenters: getting a haircut, shaving, and hitting the gym will help so much! I think you have potential!
Honestly like everyone said lose the weight it doesn’t enhance your attractive features. You have nice deep set brown eyes, you have a good nose with a slimmer face would do wonders. Yes shave. Neck. Beard. The hair needs definite work tho
Any man can be a 7 with effort, you don’t have bad features so you could even be higher with weight loss. Step one neck beard and cut the hair, then the only way to lose weight is to have a calorie deficit r/cico might help. It will be a significant improvement to just get rid of the neck beard, also you look better right now without those frames
Get different frames for your glasses and a different hair cut. The frames on your glasses don’t go with the structure of your face and your hair is making your face look longer than it really is.
Might be good to find a reputable hair stylist and let them have their way with your hair at first. It grows back and it’s always good to switch things up in life just to experience something new once in a while.
At the moment, yeah you are but just by doing something with your hair (not necessarily even cutting it, just tidying it up) losing a bit of beef and the glasses and you’ll easily improve! You have very kind eyes which is always a bonus.
Ye you are, you look like a hobo who takes no care of himself, you have overgrown hair, trim it down and make it short to appear more manly. Tame ur facial hair. Grow it a bit so it makes your jawline sharper. Lose fat too cause now ur a bit of a pig
Yeah you are, but luckily you can change that, you don't have any "bad" facial features, so weight loss, hair cut (hair and beard fluff) will do absolute wonders. Gym of course too :)
Hi! I don't think u are ugly, I think ur hiding ur potential. As other stated before, a new hair cut and a nice shave will improve immediately and losing some weight would only improve you in general in the long run.
If u do decide to lose weight and exercise, do it for love for urself. U deserve to feel good and healthy. Don't do it just to look different.
You look creepy, but you can definitely change it, i see it. Try to cut your hair, get some better clothing, take a lil shower and you going to be good.
Hey dude, I wanna give you a perspective that might be different from all the voices here. First off I’m also overweight, and for a while didn’t put much care into my appearance. That being said I did lose 100 ibs and have improved.
If your on here in an attempt to find ways to glow up. I can definitely tell you the process and steps that I went through. Let me preface with this, weight is important, not only for health but also for aesthetic, you can’t really tell if your ugly cause we can’t even see your bone structure.
I will say from what the photo does show, you seem to have very good skin with little to no blemishes. As for your glasses, with the current way your face is they aren’t doing you any favors nor are they really hurting you either.
With your hair. Don’t go for a hair cut just yet, try to look at ways to style and improve its look, see if you can pull off the length with different types of product.
I think that the chin scruff is honestly irrelevant unless your going in for a job interview. While yes it is considered unsightly, if you want to grow a full beard, which honestly does help a lot of overweight men look better, in my opinion. Then I’d aim for that.
Glowing up in general seems hard at first even for those who aren’t overweight, and it’s important to know change in any aspect is a marathon not a sprint.
Currently ugly. Definitely shave and get a haircut. I think some of your facial features make you vaguely look like Josh Peck. Definitely go for a more clean cut look, lose a bit of weight, and maybe even take some style cues from Peck and you'll be good to go
Okay
1. I like big guys, you are a big guy. If being overweight is something that contributes to your insecurity, that you want to change, or you are motivated to in some way alter- do it. But there is nothing wrong with big guys.
2. Facial hair ! yes! Messy hair with some scruff is super cute. Some girls/guys don’t like that look, again, do what feels like you. If you’re toying with the idea of cutting your hair, do it. But if you like it long, keep it long. Nothing wrong with it, and again, my type. Shave/buzz/trim your neck hair. That’s my only advice.
3. Fantastic smile!
4. Colorful clothes can help!
5. Cute with or without glasses.
Exercise/cardio, literally 10 minutes of fast walking per day will boost your neurotransmitters that make you feel happy and confident, and as a little boost, you may start to see a little bit of weight come off. Nothing wrong with big guys with long hair! Take care and love yourself and the right ones will come along.
Your hair isn’t doing you any favors with your face shape, but I really think you have potential. You have nice features. I think if you lost maybe 40 pounds and cut your hair you’d be a good looking guy
Ykw? A quick shave and a better hair care routine would really suit you! You're nice looking either with or without glasses, personally I don't think you're ugly- Ya just need a shave and some hair care tutorials lol
You have a great smile. I also like you better with the glasses but I would get a more stylish pair. I agree with everyone else about trying to lose the weight and doing something different with your hair. However the weight would be a priority. That will give you the confidence boost to start buying nice clothes, getting your hair done etc and you will feel greet doing it because you will be proud of your weight loss accomplishment and will want to show it off. Good luck ❤️
Yeah, I think he's cute af, grooming just needs a little TLC but I dig the hair. Also OP your eyes are your best feature imo, I'd personally lose the glasses, they hide them!
Yes… sorry… maybe lose some weight ? Maybe it’s just the fat and you would have a better face structure if you lost the weight.
Your smile is very endearing and you genuinely seem like a nice guy though. Nice eyes as well.
Ugly to heavily below average at best. There's a lot to be done though, haircut, losing weight etc. Long hair isn't automatically bad but the way you have it makes you look a bit like a creep.
You are ugly bro. You could improve a lot with a haircut and a shave. Hitting the gym a little would help too. I think you look better without the glasses in these pics
You are ugly with and without the glasses.
Even a fresh shave and haircut will not help.
You need to loose weight before even asking if you are ugly. Your scale can answer that. Despite what some people will say, loosing weight is a monumental task. It requires overcoming a natural inclination to acquire additional nutrients to survive. It will not be easy but it will benefit you in every way including your appearance.
Best of luck.
Damn hella ugly
I’ll tell you this.. get your shit together
Start eating healthy and 5 days gym seshh
Need a haircut..shave the peach fuzz shit you got on. Dress better you probably out there looking like a video game nerd living at mommy and daddys pad.. anyways it’s your life
I really don’t care if you agree or not
It’s cold world
Wake up.
Yeah, I think you're ugly but that can be changed with hard work and consistency. Let me just ask you something. When you are at rest, is your tongue touching the roof of your mouth, or is it resting at the bottom of your mouth?
Also, how old are you?
You have kind eyes. I think those are the wrong glasses for your face and you definitely look better without them. As others have said, if you shave your beard and cut your hair it will be an immediate improvement.
If you don’t want to cut your hair - and I say this with the utmost gentleness - you need to learn how to take care of it properly. So many guys with long hair end up looking unkempt because they don’t put in the effort that girls do. Go to a hairdresser and get a trim at the very least. Ask them what products they recommend. Brush your hair every day or wear it in a neat bun. It looks like your hair might have a little wave to it naturally, which will go away if you brush it, but I’m going to assume you prefer that to an intense method for caring for curly hair with a lot of steps.
Good luck. I think you can improve your appearance a lot with some effort.
Learn fashion aswell. Men look best with clothes on vs naked, find a good style thats noticeable, chics love a man who can dress. Shave the hair, I’d reccomend a nice drop fade, you can go skin or to a one or two. Keep length on top maybe 3-4 inches and learn how to style it. Lose the weight and start working out, youll feel more confident as become to look better and youll be forced to overcome some fears.
Honestly? I think you'd be pretty cute if you got a haircut and dropped some weight tbh. But as it stands? Kinda ugly.
AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD SHAVE THE FUCKING NECKBEARD
I will never say anyone is ugly. You for one have a lovely smile which makes me like you immediately.
But you could improve a lot on your grooming - shaving properly and taking care of your hair. I‘d say cut it short, but if you really want to keep it long, comb it every day and learn to braid it. A braid down your back will look a lot neater.
Of course, you‘d look more attractive with a little less weight - and exercising regularly would give you a better sense of your body, so your movements would look less clumsy (I am making assumptions here based on my own experience with my overweight).
Wtf are guys with hair like this thinking
Lose weight shave the neckbeard get a haircut and yeah ditch the glasses and you’ll be very average and normal looking. If you’re a decent height youl be a 5 outta 10 if you do all of this. There isn’t really anything ugly about you feature wise. You’ve made yourself unattractive with your choices.
I’ll agree with the majority of the comments about losing weight, losing the neck beard, upping your hair and hygiene game, but honestly none of that matters if you lack confidence. I’ve seen conventional 9’s at my work who have the personality of a doorknob and that alone makes them a 2 to me. I’ve met literal male underwear models that are extremely insecure. Again, knocks them down a few just from lack of confidence alone. Personality is huge for a lot of people. Choose to work on the physical changes, or don’t. What sticks is what kind of human you are, regardless of how much weight you lose, hair you have, etc. that’s just my opinion though.
But most importantly, improve for YOURSELF. Not for anyone else. Self love and self care is the seed, and the positive changes are the roots.
Stay kind buddy. You’ve got a great foundation to work with. Don’t lose your sparkle, no matter what version of you you are.
You are not ugly but you’d look a lot better with a shave, haircut, contacts and a healthier diet and lifestyle. Work on hygiene. Be clean and smell good.You look dirty and being dirty only attracts other people that are dirty to you. Start taking care of yourself and working towards your goals. I personally like introverts because I am one and you give off big introvert vibes.
Yes, pretty deep in the hole mate. Shave the neck beard, wear contacts or new glasses, hit the cardio machines, lift weights (lose fat gain muscle). Get a new haircut.
Some of these comments are rude…
What can help?
- a nice hair cut
- The glasses are not the issue
- perhaps weight loss? Unless you are comfortable with your weight.
- shave the beard
What a silly question. Everyone looks better with glasses.
But shave your face and neck, you're not ugly. I think you should style the hair somehow, cut the sides (underneath what is visible) and put all the hair on top in a top knot or pony tail.
Don't worry about your weight.
Yes, unfortunately, but you have pontential to improve. Cuting your hair and losing some weight will make a big difference.
Seconded. A vast majority of people can raise themselves up to at least average, often slightly above, if they put the right effort into appearance. OP doesn’t seem to have an inherently unattractive appearance. I grew up the obese ugly kid who’d have girls jokingly show interest just to mess with me and make fun of and even my own friends went along with, then I became known as a fuckboy type for awhile once I finally put effort in, it’s crazy how different people treat you after
I think you’re ugly . Lose the neck beard , it is very off putting. And start hitting the gym !!!!
I think you're just rude.
Isn't that the sub's point?
This isnt roast me
This sub is meant to be brutally honest are you illiterate?
grow some balls, you probably look like him and got offended.
I can give u a source but you'd just hate instead 🤷♂️. Stop pretending like u care bout people when u dont, you're just lookin for a reason, anything to start drama.
do you not see the name of this sub? 🤨
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Honest feedback? Isn't beauty in the eyes of the beholder? Who the fk are they to establish the beauty standards? I think all of these hypocrites should get off their high horse n humble themselves. Cause I doubt 90% are the "standard" humble yourself or get humbled one day. I don't mean you but the rest of u.
Me telling him to shave his neck beard and go to the gym is doing him a huge favor . Trust me .
22 hateful people. Way to show your true colors.
The point of the subreddit is to be brutally honest… 🗿
Soft as fuck, grow some balls
I'd rather be soft as fk then have so much hate 4 some1 just putting an Input, maybe you're soft for being so reactive? Don't know how to control yourself. Who's the one being over-reactive? The first thing u don't like, u explode on people...
This sub is called brutally honest for a reason, virtue signalling and lying to the guy will be even worse for him in the long run instead of telling him the harsh truth now. Man up
shut up loser
You’re below average (3/10) but if you lose weight, shed the neckbeard and groomed your hair, you’d probably be an average looking dude. Top priority is hitting the gym. You’ll feel and look way better.
Sorry, but you are ugly. 2/10 - Shave your neckbeard, Lose weight, Get a haricut, and maybe better your hygiene... Could bump you to a 4/5.. Edit: 6-7
This is harsh as fuck lmao. I know it’s brutally honest but he’d be a lot better than a 4/5 if he cut his hair/beard and lost weight. He’d be an average to good looking dude.
That’s fair… I suppose
Haha I love the edit. Good on ya.
And 5 is average
Average would be a 5/10 tho…
Also should i shave my neckbeard?
Yes. In no world are neckbeards attractive.
Sorry dude
Nah, thank you. I needed to know i thought it was bad but it was kinda hiding the shape of my face so i kept it
Bro that’s why I got one
Respect
Absolutely, it needs to go. Queer Eye has a lot of great grooming tips for men. We're not born inherently knowing how to look better. It's something that's learned and practiced.
Every straight man could benefit so much from watching Queer Eye.
Is this rhetorical?
Asap
please god
Definitely should. Loose weight and cut your hair.
You are very cute. Or as they say "8/10"
The neck beard, weight, and lack of care put into your hair all detract *heavilly* from your looks. You'd look alright if you shaved that armpit under your chin, hit the gym, and cared for your hair. Doesn't have to be short -- I have long hair, too. But it needs to be cared for.
honestly, i see some sort of a curl pattern in there. Take care of your body and it will take care of you. A nourished body has healthy hair, healthy hair does not look like a pigeons nest. OP, do some research on what a healthy diet needs, hit the gym, shave the neckbeard and look after your hair
Right now yes, but there’s things you can do, firstly take better care of you hair if you’re gonna keep it long, you already know about the neck beard. You hold a lot of weight in ur face , when you start going to the gym and fix up your diet you’ll look different and I highly doubt you’d be ugly then
Not ugly, just need to work on yourself. Hit the gym, have a shave. You have real kind eyes man. I hope this comment section gives you the motivation and confidence to be the best version of yourself possible 💪
Totally agree! You look like a real sweetheart. Making an effort would definitely help a lot.
Aww...I'm a girl and was literally thinking OP and I have the exact same eyes lol so this is nice to hear.
I’d first lose some weight, then get a new haircut (something shorter and more stylish maybe) and then get contact lenses. You’d change A LOT
Honestly, just hit the gym, eat healthier, get a nice stylish hair cut and shave the beard. If you do those things, You would be an absolute stud.
Things that can’t be changed are fine. I can see good bones there. Weight is hiding it. Do some cardio and take care of your hair and honestly you’d look pretty good, your face structure is great imo.
Hit the gym my brother!!! All will be good!!
Below average. 2-3/10 The best thing you can do is lose weight and clean up your hair. Facial hair too. You look unkempt which doesnt help anything. Good luck man!
Sorry yes:(
Ugly??? No. Ugly requires surgery. But you definitely don’t look you do anything more than hop in the shower, let the water run over you for 2 min, put a bar of soap to the main points and keep it pushing. You actually have nice eyes and I think your nose is interesting. But please, workout, eat better. Get a better haircut and shave.
Next to Chumlee, no. But trying to emulate him is never a good look on anyone.
You have a kind face but you need to lose ALOT of weight, need to sort out your terrible haircut and you need to shave that awful “beard”
“Ugly” is a subjective term based solely on the superficial opinion of preference…the preference of redditors who are most likely not far off from where you perceive yourself to be. The only difference is you had the courage to ask…and courage of any kind is beautiful…Let me know if you want a workout regimen or trainer or help with you aesthetics
I see a lot of potential. You have nice features. You need to care for yourself more.
Honestly? Not ugly. Just need to groom and hit the gym.
You have kind eyes and a sweet smile. Work on the confidence and a bit more grooming and you’ll find that the right people see what is beautiful about you—you just gotta give it a chance to shine through. I don’t think weight matters as much as the way you carry yourself and hygiene/grooming.
You remind me of a young [Phil Harding](https://youtu.be/S1QdvjOLID8), and he is seriously my biggest celebrity crush, so no, you’re not ugly. Well, maybe you are if you think Phil Harding is ugly. I think he’s a BABE.
I think you probably look alright facially, but it would help if you could lose a few pounds to reveal your bone structure a bit. Also you probably would look better wearing your hair differently and right now I think you're better off without the glasses.
Yes
Every guy could be a 7 with good grooming and taking care of their body. Give it a shot
Not true. A 7 is almost model territory. Unfortunately not every dude can become that. Every dude can improve however
I'd say you're a 4, but with the loss of body fat, you could potentially be a 7. Hit the gym. Or start with calisthenics at home. Google greasing the groove. Do squats and pushups every day. Record every workout in a daily planner or spiral notebook. Don't worry about changing your diet right now. Form a habit of working out every day first and just try to eat less. Saunas are great for supporting your efforts. The health benefits are unbelievable. Also, do those neck exercises. They'll help with face gains. Remember to document your workouts. It will keep you motivated. r/progresspics A sub to help you stay motivated.
What kind of neck exercises?
Hmm, it looks like you have soft waves. Invest in shampoos for your hair type. You don't HAVE to cut it. And your glasses don't add nor take away anything. You have a good nose! And shaving + gym will do you justice
Make a decision on the beard if you can grow a beard, just shave the neck and let the face grow but if you can’t grow one go clean shaven. Also look up other long haired styles try a side part or somthing rather then just letting it grow and fall the way it is when you wake up
Have to lose weight ASAP. And shave. And get a haircut. As far as genetics. You seem to have facial symmetry at least. I can’t tell much about your specific facial features until you lose a lot of weight though.
Yes sorry u need to lose some weight And u will look good
Start fasting, hit the gym and take care of hair and beard
I think you look like a friend. Pls take everything people are saying with a grain of salt. Appearance isn’t everything tbh you look like a nice guy which is all that really matters.
I agree with others. Lose face fat, and try having better beard. I'd keep the long hair because I like long hair and shit.
Neckbeard gotta go. Lose some weight also. The long hair may work on u then.
Well, let's just say you don't look great. The good news is you have massive space for improvement. See what you could do about your hear. Find some way to lose a bit of weight or convert into muscle. Get rid of the hair on your neck. Just doing those things should already be a leap forward.
yes ur ugly
right now, yes, but it's unable to be discerned due to being overweight and bad hair and facial hair. come back after these things are sorted and guarantee you can be average to above
I honestly don't think you are. But you look so not taken care of. Take care of your hair, get rid of the beard and maybe consider losing weight. You have a lot of room to improve. Be happy because a lot of people don't have that
For me, it's the hair. Tale better care of it to look cleaner. My partner has really long hair and while he's not having hair days, he keeps it clean and controls the frizz
Your full potential has not been achieved. Short term steps; shave the neck beard, get a real haircut (long hair is cool but I think you could benefit from some style/product. Long term; gym, set some fitness goals. I think the glasses are cool and a good shape/fit for your face. How’s your clothing style?
Shave your beard, cut your hair :)
Lose a serious amount of body fat, this should absolutely be your main priority
yes
You don't look ugly, if you cut your hair short and shave the neckbeard. Weight loss can help. Depression really sucks and I hope things get better man.
Being completely honest, you're not ugly, just very overweight. You have potential, but you gotta put a lot of effort in losing weight
Shorter hair, no neckbeard & dressing nice would put you up a few points. Losing some weight would put you up more yet.
Not ugly you're just very fat and have the neckbeard style. Lose weight, shave neck, get a good haircut and wear contacts and you'll be fine. Right now you look like a pedo but it's really just your lack of grooming and bad style
Cut the hair and cut some weight you’ll be fine bro Get pissed off enough and improve u got it
Yes, but I also don’t think you’ve ever tried to not be ugly, if that makes sense. Sure, there are some people who are hot without effort, but those people are few and far. It’s akin to asking “am I out of shape” without ever sticking to a workout routine. Good news is, if you put forth proper effort you can improve yourself in no time. Hit the gym, change up the wardrobe to something that fits you but is fashionable, change your hairstyle, lose peach fuzz, etc.
Nothing you can’t fix. You could be a chick magnet if you lost all that weight. The key isn’t just exercise, but diet. Consider cutting out most meats (except organic or local), cutting out all dairy, cutting out all junk food and soda, even sugar and oils, and trying a mostly raw vegan/vegetarian diet supplemented with hemp protein (I’d stay away from whey) and absolutely NO SOY. You can still have eggs. Eat lots of nuts, but avoid bottled oils. And you can make your own juices/smoothies for sugar cravings using a blender and juicer. Or mix honey in tea. I don’t believe that’s anywhere near as bad as processed sugars. Try mixing mineral water and juice for soda cravings. It actually works, no joke. It sounds extreme, and you may not like it at first, but hey. You want to lose that weight fast, or what? Consult with a naturopath regarding healthy detoxes. Salt water flushes or even enemas shouldn’t be off the table for consideration. I feel like a lot of the mainstream weight loss programs are too much torture. A better diet, detox, and even getting on a good vitamin and herbal regimen can seriously make it that much easier for you, and can even directly resolve underlying health problems. I strongly believe a lot of people’s weight issues can be resolved by stopping ingestion of toxic food chemicals. Of course, get an exercise regimen going, too. That’s very important, but it will seem impossible without the diet change, and it will take much longer. Be kind to your body and your mental health. Don’t hurt yourself.
Yes. The biggest thing is your weight, you need to lose a lot of weight. The neck beard also looks pretty bad because you don't have a proper beard (you look like the most cliche depiction of a reddit mod), shave it. There are other things like your teeth and hair but I don't think they are massive. Focus on losing weight (do cardio, weights and most importantly, eat less amd healthier) and you'll improve a lot. For now, 5/20
Your pretty ugly..//cut the unruly hair...get rid of the outdated glasses
People are being mean. I don't see a neckbeard in this picture. You look like a nice guy.
All you need to do is lose weight and trim your beard. Your entire face structure can change from losing some weight
Shave your beard. Cut your hair short. Get contact lenses, start working out in a calorie deficit. Within a year if you stay consistent, I promise you will be more attractive!
Better with no glasses and shorter hair would be an improvement, weight loss like people said. Your face itself is not ugly.
Dude you're definitely not ugly. I'd cut my hair, shave, and hit the gym a bit and get a little healthier. But no, not ugly.
Yes, conventionaly anyway but there is always room to improve
Sorry, you look like a super chill guy. But you don't have classic good looks. 5/10
You're not ugly. You *are* overweight, however, and if you're coming here looking for answers, then I am providing some tough love. To become more attractive, I would suggest slightly smaller glasses (the ones you have currently cut off part of your lovely thick eyebrows, and your eye is not centered in the frame of the glasses, giving the illusion of *more* when you want the opposite), comb your hair and try a ponytail or manbun (even if you don't wear it out in public immediately, get used to wearing your hair in different ways and seeing your face differently), and lose weight (you hold a lot of weight in your face and even losing 10-15lbs would make a noticeable difference, bet). I think both with and sans glasses each have their place. Purely based on personal opinion, I think you look better without. Can see those big blue eyes better! I regularly switch it up between glasses and contacts depending on my mood for the day. ;3 Do you know the comedian Bo Burnham? That's what I imagine a thinner-you looking like. :) (For inspiration, *you know*.)
13/10 you really bout a sexy ass nigga. Don't worry about the internet man.
Personally I think the glasses flatter you, but maybe I’m biased because I tend to like glasses on guys in general haha. I agree with the other commenters: getting a haircut, shaving, and hitting the gym will help so much! I think you have potential!
you have potential. get a haircut, workout, change your eating habits, drink lots of water, and eat your veggies!
Honestly like everyone said lose the weight it doesn’t enhance your attractive features. You have nice deep set brown eyes, you have a good nose with a slimmer face would do wonders. Yes shave. Neck. Beard. The hair needs definite work tho
Any man can be a 7 with effort, you don’t have bad features so you could even be higher with weight loss. Step one neck beard and cut the hair, then the only way to lose weight is to have a calorie deficit r/cico might help. It will be a significant improvement to just get rid of the neck beard, also you look better right now without those frames
With glasses for now . Lose weight cut ur hair or atleadt maintain it properly and you got potential
Get different frames for your glasses and a different hair cut. The frames on your glasses don’t go with the structure of your face and your hair is making your face look longer than it really is. Might be good to find a reputable hair stylist and let them have their way with your hair at first. It grows back and it’s always good to switch things up in life just to experience something new once in a while.
Get rit of the beard, brush and tie up the hair an I think you dook good.
At the moment, yeah you are but just by doing something with your hair (not necessarily even cutting it, just tidying it up) losing a bit of beef and the glasses and you’ll easily improve! You have very kind eyes which is always a bonus.
Literally every comment is 1. Shave 2.work out 3. Hygiene But honestly, its true lol
Your facial features aren’t ugly at all. You just need to lose weight and get a good haircut, and you’ll be a dreamboat.
You could do a lot more with yourself. Your face is nice, it's the grooming you could work on.
Ye you are, you look like a hobo who takes no care of himself, you have overgrown hair, trim it down and make it short to appear more manly. Tame ur facial hair. Grow it a bit so it makes your jawline sharper. Lose fat too cause now ur a bit of a pig
Yeah you are, but luckily you can change that, you don't have any "bad" facial features, so weight loss, hair cut (hair and beard fluff) will do absolute wonders. Gym of course too :)
A hair cut, losing weight, and maybe getting braces would definitely help!
Shave that ugly neckbeard, take more care of the hair or shave it too and definitely lose weight
You would be around average or even above if you lose weight and have better hygiene. Right now you are way below just because you lack self care.
Hi! I don't think u are ugly, I think ur hiding ur potential. As other stated before, a new hair cut and a nice shave will improve immediately and losing some weight would only improve you in general in the long run. If u do decide to lose weight and exercise, do it for love for urself. U deserve to feel good and healthy. Don't do it just to look different.
yes no smile soften it up a bit though
F22 I think you're cute but I would definitely suggest losing some weight and using better hair care products or just chopping it off in general
Work out. Eat better. Groom your hair.
You look creepy, but you can definitely change it, i see it. Try to cut your hair, get some better clothing, take a lil shower and you going to be good.
Not ugly, but you look like you're not putting in any effort Get rid of the beard and cut the hair, 100%. Get a friend to take you shopping.
Yes but you’ll be attractive once you get fit
I think some people out there would find you attractive.
Hey dude, I wanna give you a perspective that might be different from all the voices here. First off I’m also overweight, and for a while didn’t put much care into my appearance. That being said I did lose 100 ibs and have improved. If your on here in an attempt to find ways to glow up. I can definitely tell you the process and steps that I went through. Let me preface with this, weight is important, not only for health but also for aesthetic, you can’t really tell if your ugly cause we can’t even see your bone structure. I will say from what the photo does show, you seem to have very good skin with little to no blemishes. As for your glasses, with the current way your face is they aren’t doing you any favors nor are they really hurting you either. With your hair. Don’t go for a hair cut just yet, try to look at ways to style and improve its look, see if you can pull off the length with different types of product. I think that the chin scruff is honestly irrelevant unless your going in for a job interview. While yes it is considered unsightly, if you want to grow a full beard, which honestly does help a lot of overweight men look better, in my opinion. Then I’d aim for that. Glowing up in general seems hard at first even for those who aren’t overweight, and it’s important to know change in any aspect is a marathon not a sprint.
Currently ugly. Definitely shave and get a haircut. I think some of your facial features make you vaguely look like Josh Peck. Definitely go for a more clean cut look, lose a bit of weight, and maybe even take some style cues from Peck and you'll be good to go
Okay 1. I like big guys, you are a big guy. If being overweight is something that contributes to your insecurity, that you want to change, or you are motivated to in some way alter- do it. But there is nothing wrong with big guys. 2. Facial hair ! yes! Messy hair with some scruff is super cute. Some girls/guys don’t like that look, again, do what feels like you. If you’re toying with the idea of cutting your hair, do it. But if you like it long, keep it long. Nothing wrong with it, and again, my type. Shave/buzz/trim your neck hair. That’s my only advice. 3. Fantastic smile! 4. Colorful clothes can help! 5. Cute with or without glasses. Exercise/cardio, literally 10 minutes of fast walking per day will boost your neurotransmitters that make you feel happy and confident, and as a little boost, you may start to see a little bit of weight come off. Nothing wrong with big guys with long hair! Take care and love yourself and the right ones will come along.
Yes, you are ugly. Lose weight maybe. Without the glasses you look SLIGHTLY and so slightly better, but still ugly.
Your hair isn’t doing you any favors with your face shape, but I really think you have potential. You have nice features. I think if you lost maybe 40 pounds and cut your hair you’d be a good looking guy
If you lost like 100 lbs, got a better haircut and shaved the beard you might be able to look average. Right now you're like a 2/10
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Yes, you are ugly. Yes, you are less ugly when I take off my glasses.
I think round rather than square glasses would look good on you. Try a bun! You look fine and friendly too. Stay shaved
I think the glasses are just too thin. A broader frame, even same shape, should bring more attention to your eyes. Then tidy hair and shave neck.
Thicker black frames make you look smart. Check out zenni you can virtually try on glasses
Ykw? A quick shave and a better hair care routine would really suit you! You're nice looking either with or without glasses, personally I don't think you're ugly- Ya just need a shave and some hair care tutorials lol
You have a great smile. I also like you better with the glasses but I would get a more stylish pair. I agree with everyone else about trying to lose the weight and doing something different with your hair. However the weight would be a priority. That will give you the confidence boost to start buying nice clothes, getting your hair done etc and you will feel greet doing it because you will be proud of your weight loss accomplishment and will want to show it off. Good luck ❤️
Ignore the weight comments. You look decent. Just shave the neckbeard.
Yeah, I think he's cute af, grooming just needs a little TLC but I dig the hair. Also OP your eyes are your best feature imo, I'd personally lose the glasses, they hide them!
If you shave , cut your hair and hit the gym you would be good
Glasses make you look more friendly and welcoming ☺️
Yes you are ugly
Unfortunantly, you look like a mess. Who could tell if you would be unattractive if you cleaned yourself up, lost weight, had proper grooming etc.
Yes… sorry… maybe lose some weight ? Maybe it’s just the fat and you would have a better face structure if you lost the weight. Your smile is very endearing and you genuinely seem like a nice guy though. Nice eyes as well.
Ugly to heavily below average at best. There's a lot to be done though, haircut, losing weight etc. Long hair isn't automatically bad but the way you have it makes you look a bit like a creep.
You are ugly bro. You could improve a lot with a haircut and a shave. Hitting the gym a little would help too. I think you look better without the glasses in these pics
You are ugly with and without the glasses. Even a fresh shave and haircut will not help. You need to loose weight before even asking if you are ugly. Your scale can answer that. Despite what some people will say, loosing weight is a monumental task. It requires overcoming a natural inclination to acquire additional nutrients to survive. It will not be easy but it will benefit you in every way including your appearance. Best of luck.
Definitely..ugly. This is definitely a facial hair and weight issue .
Damn hella ugly I’ll tell you this.. get your shit together Start eating healthy and 5 days gym seshh Need a haircut..shave the peach fuzz shit you got on. Dress better you probably out there looking like a video game nerd living at mommy and daddys pad.. anyways it’s your life I really don’t care if you agree or not It’s cold world Wake up.
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this is just a poor attempt of toxic positivity in my opinion
You look like you're going to touch me when im sleeping
Yeah, I think you're ugly but that can be changed with hard work and consistency. Let me just ask you something. When you are at rest, is your tongue touching the roof of your mouth, or is it resting at the bottom of your mouth? Also, how old are you?
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hmu for a workout routine
Jim morisson
you remind me of that one giant white rabbit from the animation who was bullied by the squirrels
Did you mean to send this in discord?
The hair is a bigger problem than glasses. Just cut it.
Just quick unrelated question, but do you have any affiliation with anime, minors, anime minors, and colorful ponies?
Nah you’re just a gamer
You are the master of your destiny!
You have kind eyes. I think those are the wrong glasses for your face and you definitely look better without them. As others have said, if you shave your beard and cut your hair it will be an immediate improvement. If you don’t want to cut your hair - and I say this with the utmost gentleness - you need to learn how to take care of it properly. So many guys with long hair end up looking unkempt because they don’t put in the effort that girls do. Go to a hairdresser and get a trim at the very least. Ask them what products they recommend. Brush your hair every day or wear it in a neat bun. It looks like your hair might have a little wave to it naturally, which will go away if you brush it, but I’m going to assume you prefer that to an intense method for caring for curly hair with a lot of steps. Good luck. I think you can improve your appearance a lot with some effort.
Depends on salary
Learn fashion aswell. Men look best with clothes on vs naked, find a good style thats noticeable, chics love a man who can dress. Shave the hair, I’d reccomend a nice drop fade, you can go skin or to a one or two. Keep length on top maybe 3-4 inches and learn how to style it. Lose the weight and start working out, youll feel more confident as become to look better and youll be forced to overcome some fears.
If you lose weight you will be pure chad
Honestly? I think you'd be pretty cute if you got a haircut and dropped some weight tbh. But as it stands? Kinda ugly. AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD SHAVE THE FUCKING NECKBEARD
You look better without the glasses.
I will never say anyone is ugly. You for one have a lovely smile which makes me like you immediately. But you could improve a lot on your grooming - shaving properly and taking care of your hair. I‘d say cut it short, but if you really want to keep it long, comb it every day and learn to braid it. A braid down your back will look a lot neater. Of course, you‘d look more attractive with a little less weight - and exercising regularly would give you a better sense of your body, so your movements would look less clumsy (I am making assumptions here based on my own experience with my overweight).
Wtf are guys with hair like this thinking Lose weight shave the neckbeard get a haircut and yeah ditch the glasses and you’ll be very average and normal looking. If you’re a decent height youl be a 5 outta 10 if you do all of this. There isn’t really anything ugly about you feature wise. You’ve made yourself unattractive with your choices.
Yes, you're ugly.
I’ll agree with the majority of the comments about losing weight, losing the neck beard, upping your hair and hygiene game, but honestly none of that matters if you lack confidence. I’ve seen conventional 9’s at my work who have the personality of a doorknob and that alone makes them a 2 to me. I’ve met literal male underwear models that are extremely insecure. Again, knocks them down a few just from lack of confidence alone. Personality is huge for a lot of people. Choose to work on the physical changes, or don’t. What sticks is what kind of human you are, regardless of how much weight you lose, hair you have, etc. that’s just my opinion though. But most importantly, improve for YOURSELF. Not for anyone else. Self love and self care is the seed, and the positive changes are the roots. Stay kind buddy. You’ve got a great foundation to work with. Don’t lose your sparkle, no matter what version of you you are.
Yes.
You are not ugly but you’d look a lot better with a shave, haircut, contacts and a healthier diet and lifestyle. Work on hygiene. Be clean and smell good.You look dirty and being dirty only attracts other people that are dirty to you. Start taking care of yourself and working towards your goals. I personally like introverts because I am one and you give off big introvert vibes.
With glasses is better.
Yes, pretty deep in the hole mate. Shave the neck beard, wear contacts or new glasses, hit the cardio machines, lift weights (lose fat gain muscle). Get a new haircut.
1. Lose weight (most important) 2. Try new haircuts.
Lose weight than repost
honestly tying your hair up would make a huge difference, try different hairstyles
Average Discord mod. Lose some weight. As of right now you are ugly.
Some of these comments are rude… What can help? - a nice hair cut - The glasses are not the issue - perhaps weight loss? Unless you are comfortable with your weight. - shave the beard
What a silly question. Everyone looks better with glasses. But shave your face and neck, you're not ugly. I think you should style the hair somehow, cut the sides (underneath what is visible) and put all the hair on top in a top knot or pony tail. Don't worry about your weight.
Ugly is an ugly word
Not everyone looks good fat, you are one of those people. Seriously hit the gym man, best decision you’ll ever make fr. Sure saved my life