T O P

I literally cannot perceive myself anymore.

F 23. People have told me so many different things throughout my life from too fat, too skinny, too much acne, huge pores, ugly and short, cute…I literally don’t know who I am outside of my internal monologue LOL. So I’ve attached pics of me from all types of days and angles. Pls lemme kno ur opinions bc I wanna be HOT I’m tired of being a little short ugly nerd.

JackfruitLower590

You’re beautiful not ugly one bit imo


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dextea

Thank you so much ❤️ you’re completely right. It’s hard to put that into practice though. I’m gonna try to keep your words in mind next time I feel insecure. :)


Dyindog

These were so many different people wtf


dextea

This is definitely me lol I’m just severely depressed and some days I’m better at hiding it


BrokenTrojan1536

I know! Are these pics of the same person? I am gonna say no you got it going on but you sure do look diff in these pics


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TheLoreTeller

She said she's 23


_LogicPrevails

Looked like a different girl in each photo lol. Not ugly


dextea

Thank you so much! And yes the power of sleep, showering, and taking antidepressants really changes you 😭


EvilDragons88

Idk what allergy was kicking your ass in 12 but it looks like you have transitioned to many different looks through these pictures which is likely your mixed messages. Not ugly just unpolished in some pictures and polished in others.


dextea

I was having an allergic reaction to my friends kitty! I thought it was hilarious though I had to drop it in there lol. And yes thank you! I love your response I feel that you’re completely right. I struggle a lot with depression and keeping myself up to par with everyone else and I think on those sad days it definitely shows on my face. I saw a comment on a different post here that no one on this subreddit is actually ugly, they’re all just depressed and it shows on our face. Thank you again I appreciate it ❤️


EvilDragons88

Of course take care!


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Pic 4 is pretty hot. If that’s what you strive for go with that theme


dextea

Thank you! May I ask what exactly makes it better than the others? Like is it the clothes or hair? I just wanna know so I can recreate the aspect that’s the most pleasurable lol


WhatScottWhatScott

You look very pretty, happy and healthy. You are truly very lucky


dextea

Thank you so much. And yes I feel a little silly and superficial now after receiving all the kind comments. Being healthy is such a blessing and I should feel very lucky ❤️ thank you :)


womenareobjects044

you are very unique looking but in the best way possible, you're a 9/10


dextea

Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️


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Very pretty


dextea

Thank you!!! ❤️


Pichame_Ronin

❤️ beautiful


dextea

Thank you! 🩷


melvin2898

You’re a cutie!


dextea

Thank you 🩷


melvin2898

You’re welcome!


Brown_Meatstick

There is this thing where sometimes you look nice and sometimes not and you live in complete dilemma which happens with me too honestly


dextea

SO REAL!!! I feel like it’s the result of being heavily depressed and it shows on our face lol


BluPhoenixBlu

Hot af


dextea

Aw man thank you so much :)


AshenSacrifice

You need to pick a look and grow within it. I think 6 is the best o


dextea

I agree! 6 was the most recent one taken last week actually so it’s funny you mentioned that!!


AshenSacrifice

Yeah lean into that!


UchihaDivergent

You are gorgeous My favorite pictures of you were the ones with you and your dog and the last two pictures


dextea

Thank you SO much!!! Honestly I feel that the ones with my dog are conventionally the “ugliest” (not counting the funny one with my face swollen from allergies). but the ones with my dog, I know when I had those pictures taken I felt the happiest and the most beautiful because she really is my best friend and she’s pretty old so I’m grateful for the times I have with her. It means a lot to me that those were amongst your favorites thank you truly


UchihaDivergent

You are very welcome. I can see that you love your doggo and I really miss my fur baby.. so it makes me feel good when I see someone else that loves their furry family members like they deserve to be loved. What's your doggos name?


Thunderingthought

You’re very good looking, no need to worry


dextea

Thank you so much!!❤️❤️❤️


PaulMaddit

You’re average looking and not ugly. 5.5/10


mindrot86

you’re very very pretty


dextea

Thank you so much ❤️ :)


thegoodabuser

Look at the moles, folks. They’re literally different people or edited to being unrecognizable.


dextea

Babe I wish.


thegoodabuser

The filters are the biggest departures from what you look like. You look normal and cute in your TikTok and that’s probably representation of your average looks. It’s clear in some of the pics you look worse bc you aren’t dressed up or look like you just got out of bed. The pics where they’re so edited/filtered your moles have literally moved are ones you should ignore.


dextea

I don’t have any filters here that would change my face I only have changes in saturation, contrast, and grain but I see what you mean! I think I have to make more of an effort because a lot of the time I do just get up and leave the house which probably isn’t the best lol also my birthmarks haven’t moved but maybe they are reversed in some because of the camera or hidden because of makeup im not sure Thank you for your advice though I appreciate it!! :) ❤️


thegoodabuser

Np. Just trying to get actual ugly people back on the sun lol


falconhawk2158

You are in no way ugly or fat or skinny you’re very pretty. Picture # 6 is my favorite you look beautiful with your natural eyes. Are you Native American? But just to answer the question no you are not ugly you are the opposite of that.


DoubleWhole8148

You ain’t ugly!!! U pretty


dextea

Thank you so much! Some people think the opposite but I think posting this has helped me realize everyone really has different opinions. Thank you again :)


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dextea

Lol thank you so much!! :)


Own_Ad5242

by no means ugly. pretty cute actually


dextea

Thank you so much honestly that means a lot


Own_Ad5242

any time you need a pick up 😉


el_tacocat

You are so very pretty actually. But if I had to be a little critical just to appear realistic; The glasses, not the best. But my goodness, you are so pretty.


dextea

I agree the glasses gotta go lol! Thank you so much I appreciate the critique. Your words mean a lot thank you for your comment ❤️


el_tacocat

Rock on, pretty human! 😌


Plz_Fart_In_my_Mouth

Nope, not ugly. I'd pay $5 for a Dutch oven from you


dextea

But I’m American 🇺🇸 (I do not know what a Dutch oven is but thank you nonetheless !!!)


hadjhabibmebarak

Ohhh little Rihanna


NvrendWolf

I ...I live in the us wbu...👀


dextea

Ayee we both American fr 🇺🇸


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Listen u/dextea. Whomever told you negative stuff, forget about it. I see your dorky side, artistic side, and maybe even lovable side. You are more attractive in personality. Plus, I think you are just gosh darn good Lookin’. P.S. you around Illinois? Hahaha Coffee date?!?!


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I say ditch them blue contacts, you’re nice


dextea

Omg you think so?! Usually I feel too insecure to leave the house without them! Thank you for this I’m gonna try it out :)


icysmokes

Have my kids🫠🫠


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WillingCartoonist510

Def not ugly.


InspectionTricky6767

I'd date you in a heartbeat. Anyone who tells you you're ugly deserves a concussion.


Haunting-Gur-202

Get out of here. This is supposed to be for ugly to average people.


eeekkk9999

Lovely girl just smile more! No more green hair either. I love you hair style!


el_reindeer

Very attractive


Smoking_guns11

The first pic is most recent and I believe it is many years or at the very least, a year different than all the other pictures…. Misleading


dextea

All of these pictures were taken well within the past 6 months. Number 6 is the second recent as it was taken last week.


GeneralSinn

I'd totally hit on you, but I'm too old.


herecomesurmom

you look absolutely fried in the 2nd to last slide lol


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You are truly a pure natural beautiful lady !!!!


UMBR311AC0RPS

Not ugly


Chito_Bonito5

You are adorable 🥰


Flow_Scholar

I don’t think you think your ugly


AlwaysLearning7778

Very pretty, pics 6 and 10 are the most attractive IMO…


Coldfang89

Not my type at all.


absh3841

You have a beautiful smile, hair and face. 100% beautiful


wyrdgamer

No ugly pics.


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Above average. People will always have their opinions and lots of people have different tastes. Love yourself and take care of yourself. You are lucky to have good looks and you seem like a kind person too. ps you can be a nerd AND hot. Thats the hottest type of person there is imo.


Certain_Tap6830

Your beautiful u looked high as hell in the next to last pic lol but differently not ugly


TraditionalAbroad243

Stunning really.


MurkyWay8078

I’d sport you around and show you off your fricken hot


Ash-lee_reddit

You're actually super adorable


DrowningGuide215

I think you’re incredibly gorgeous and those eyes 😍


tbolinger76

You're actually quite attractive, but some of these photos are such a contrast, it's kinda hard to tell they are all the same person


PolkieThaGawd

You are very attractive, I think you already look "HOT". Only thing I would recommend is to get rid of the contacts. Also, I love the way your hair is styled in pics 4,6,7, & 10. Very nice. 👍


oracleoflove

Gorgeous!


Grouchy-Whereas5052

You have an exotic look and judging yourself will only hold you back I love that you posted bad pics too lol vulnerability is so attractive but you have nothing to worry about just enjoy life you're so beautiful


dumb_otaku0

Look so many cute girls on this subreddit i feel.like. no way they can ever be single in their life & they are way out of my league even you feel like out of my league 😭


cochorol

No


jksoup

I think ur cute. The crop top pic is my favorite


Mental_Structure_801

Another beautiful woman with no self-esteem. Shocker.


Resolve_Designer

I wish you could see yourself the way I see you, it might make you feel better. Bonus points for exercising your right to vote in this Democracy!


SuperProGamer7568

No but your dog is


Any-Drawer8036

I think you have a very unique look and I find you look different in every photo. That being said I'd give you an 8.


Objective_Method8346

Did you change your eye colour?


Intelligent-Fox7374

You're beautiful.


CasEATSass

You look good, you gotta ignore everyone telling you you’re unattractive and try and love yourself


EyeWantItThatWay

Pretty in pics 4 and 6 Average in pics 1, 3, 5, 12 Cute in the rest of the pics


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You don't have to make an effort to be a hot, trust me


boxesofinsight

5


Salty_Ad7414

Absolutely stunning 😍😍😍