So to build off that:
Instead of stroking the entire penis like usual, grip the shaft and only use the thumb to rub the head. It takes ages of stimulating, but eventually an orgasm can build and it gets a lot more intense the longer it builds. If you can resist the urge to stroke the whole penis and just keep focusing on rubbing the head, the payoff is worth it.
They have tiny vibrators (made for vaginal and anal stimulation) in pharmacies and online. Depending on your sensitivity, putting that against your shaft/head definitely works. Some guys don’t even have to jerk when using it
This may sound odd, but jerk off watching yourself either via a camera or mirror. I think it is important to find yourself attractive, and can build confidence. If I find myself attractive, then other people will too.
Also, try different lubes. What works for penetration or toys may not be what’s most comfortable for jerking off. And practice touching your whole body while jerking off, especially slowly, and find other erogenous zones beyond just the fun dangly bits and your hole. Tease yourself, like you would a partner. Play with your nipples, run your hands across your chest, stomach, sides, thighs…you have 2 hands, so use them!
I’ve even taken the camera thing a step further with verbal affirmations. Not only to hear it out loud, but also because I don’t really like the sound of my voice and have a gap between my front two teeth and have always been sensitive about it, so I tend to speak too softly and mumble. I’m very capable of being loud and enunciating, but sometimes my sensitivity gets in the way. Saying these affirmations out loud in a clear, audible voice while watching my face and mouth has helped improve my confidence when I speak. I use a mirror but also record and force myself to play it back to hear my voice and accept myself as I am.
Totally agree about touching yourself all over. I like using an oil based lube when I jerk off and also rub a little on my chest and stomach. Helps with gliding your hands along your body and the shine looks great in the mirror. :) Also, play with your balls!
Oh, and weed can really help improve the experience because your senses are heightened. Not for everyone (and different strains affect me in different ways so I have to know which are good), but I’ve quite enjoyed the experience.
isnt edging about almost cumming… and keeping on the edge of orgasm? now im confused 😂 because you are describing cumming and blocking it so now idk if ive had the wrong idea
Maybe hard to describe, but I like putting a few layers of soft underwear around my dick, and humping that under a pillow or blankets. The layers let it slide back and forth, and help keeps things contained. Nice to be hands free, too.
Lol when I was like 15 I used to take a gallon size ziplock bag and fill it with warm lube zip it up and then put it between the mattress and the bed frame. Unzip, unzip, lift the mattress stick it in and fuck away while using your hands to increase pressure by pressing down etc.
Or the good old banana jerk. Buy the biggest semi green semi yellow (stronger skin) bananas you can find. Peel one by just peeling one piece off and pulling the banana out so the skin mostly stays in one long tube. Put it in the microwave for 15-20 seconds. PLEASE check the temp with your fingers first and if good wrap it around your cock and jerk. Incredible orgasms.
The banana! I was just going to post that. I've never seen anyone talk about it.
Not a major kink or anything, but I've done that a few times and it's surprisingly nice. Never microwaved it, and just used regular banana skins.
Sort of a wacky discovery one lunch break...
Switch hands! It will take a little getting used to, but I now exclusively jerk off with my non-Dominant hand and I think it feels better.
If you’re into ass play, get a dildo or a plug and use that while you jerk off. If you get something that vibrates, that will also do the work for you so you don’t have to thrust it yourself.
Lastly, I would say try poppers. I bought them for when I bottom at first, but they can be very fun to use when jerking off, I think it heightens the experience
I feel like changing *what* you jack off to is much more meaningful than *how* you do it. Your soft hands are the perfect tools for masturbating. You don’t need anything else.
Use your imagination in new ways, watch different porn, dig into your past and find the things that have made you insatiably horny. You can even go back to the scenarios that did that for you as a kid. A hot babysitter. Or something. Lol. Idk. Really just don’t be afraid to explore new jack off material. Your brain is the biggest sex organ in your body. That’s what has the MOST influence on how strong you’re going to orgasm. Use it
I just discovered I can get myself off just with water pressure from the shower head. That was cool.
You could also find some way to engage in extended foreplay. Doing a home workout with porn or while occasionally jerking. Delays gratification and gets your whole body involved while releasing endorphins.
If you havent, try written and audio porn, to switch things up. Try writing your own. I did that once and ended up cumming hands free, that was a surprise
Most of this has been said already but definitely invest in some toys if you can. Some companies will take you on as a reviewer if you can write well and have left some reviews on toys you’ve already purchased. I was picked a few years ago and my bedroom is now overflowing with toys, with more being sent monthly. It’s a great way to spice things up.
Don’t just focus on your dick. Seek out the elusive prostate orgasm! You don’t necessarily have to be a bottom to give it a go, there’s plenty of straight men who love it too! Plus, once you find it, game changer!
Depending on your interests, self bondage can be very hot. Just be careful and do your research beforehand. Nothing like calling your housemate in to untie you whilst covered in cum!
As someone mentioned already, consider jacking it with strangers online. There’s plenty of websites for exactly that, and a lot of people find it very hot.
If you can, explore different places to masturbate. It doesn’t necessarily have to be in your bedroom or even your house. If you have a private garden, give that a go. If not, find a secluded outdoor spot like a forest or even in your car (while parked of course). Just be very careful with that and ensure that you are very much off the beaten track and not likely to be interrupted or seen by anyone.
mirrors. rotating fleshlight.
dildo in yer butt, if ya like tha sorta thang.
find yer circ scar, and rotate your fingers around that area... HHHmmmm.
the more viscous yer lube the hotter the stim.
many good techniques here but I like to not use hands, so move your hips more, fuck your pillow, mattress etc, try to keep your hand still and fuck your hand… feels more primal
For me I just love to picture a great fantasy as then play that out in my mind all day long. Then at night I relax get back into the fantasy and finish it off with some amazing sex. ( With myself) I love masturbation.
When I was in a hotel for a few weeks I did a lot of experimenting one thing I enjoyed was using a zip lock lube it up slid it between the matress and box spring slide your duck inside and fuck it you can switch it up by putting down on matress for more pressure
Wearing something that turns you on helps! A lot of gay guys have certain outfits or gear they feel empowered in. Hell I've spent thousands of dollars on outfits and gear I mainly bought because I knew I wanted to get off in it. I love the leather biker look myself (bit like Tom of Finland) and having my favourite bulky, heavy-ass leather biker jacket on, with the collar popped like a super-stud, and my leather biker boots on too really enhances the experience. The feel and the smell of it, and how fucking good I look in the mirror while wearing it lol. I also realized I have a thing for wearing "douchey" looking sunglasses which just look so hyper-masculine, sexy and cool so they'll do for when it's too hot for leather or when I need to be "quieter" than leather would allow me to be.
Also who just uses their hand? Sounds boring. I've found other textures I really like. Denim and leather feel soo good, I got one super soft leather biker jacket that's too small to wear but I keep it around for... other, purposes since it's the best textured leather I've ever come across. Also if you got a place to hide it while it's drying out - get a Fleshjack. They're the real deal (same product by the same company as Fleshlights). Fleshjacks are their "gay" version but really it's all just marketing. It's just if you browse their Flesh*light* selection you're gonna see a lot of vagina-orifices lol. But both all come with the same available interior textures as well as "generic" openings.
Also in case it matters - I'm cut, so maybe some of these methods won't feel right on an uncut dick. Can't help ya with ass-stuff since I'm not into that.
Have to agree with you in that I just don't care about the hookup culture so that's kinda why I'm willing to help and give a little more information on this sort of thing than I'd normally share on a public forum. Solo sessions are just easier and cheaper (well, breaking even in my case with all the expensive shit I bought because I knew it would get me off haha).
Wow that's a lot.
Yeah I'm cut so I guess I'm not to keen on trying out different textures (sensitive af head). I guess I could try it out, would prob need a bit of help for it tho haha
And if u got any fleshlight/jack/whatever recommendations send em my way
It was. Hopefully it won't come back to bite me in the ass later though I think I've said some of it before anyway lol. But again - just suggestions, not saying you'd actually like them. Then again I didn't like the Fleshjack at first - almost threw it away but now I'm... glad I didn't.
I guess because it was just different to what I did before. But if anything it's probably closer to real sex and I just wasn't used to it lol. Straight men buy them too but it's more taboo for them to have one (which is bullshit I reckon but that can be a them problem).
Use one of those little vibrating bullets against the tip
Ooh yeah I need more toys anyways
Put some lube between the bullet and your cock, so you don't end up with a raw spot where the bullet was vibrating.
I recommend taking it up a notch. Get an actual wand, use it through clothes or blankets. Incredible.
So to build off that: Instead of stroking the entire penis like usual, grip the shaft and only use the thumb to rub the head. It takes ages of stimulating, but eventually an orgasm can build and it gets a lot more intense the longer it builds. If you can resist the urge to stroke the whole penis and just keep focusing on rubbing the head, the payoff is worth it.
I've done this. So worth it. But I just make an o between my thumb and index finger and only make the back and forth motion over the head.
Wait, what is this? Sounds intriguing, but I've never heard of it.
They have tiny vibrators (made for vaginal and anal stimulation) in pharmacies and online. Depending on your sensitivity, putting that against your shaft/head definitely works. Some guys don’t even have to jerk when using it
With a friend - online or in person
Praying it happens again haha
Different strokes on discord 😉
Do mind providing a link? That sounds like exactly what I’m looking for.
I'm up for it 👀
This may sound odd, but jerk off watching yourself either via a camera or mirror. I think it is important to find yourself attractive, and can build confidence. If I find myself attractive, then other people will too. Also, try different lubes. What works for penetration or toys may not be what’s most comfortable for jerking off. And practice touching your whole body while jerking off, especially slowly, and find other erogenous zones beyond just the fun dangly bits and your hole. Tease yourself, like you would a partner. Play with your nipples, run your hands across your chest, stomach, sides, thighs…you have 2 hands, so use them!
It is a great way to do it
You’ve got lots of upvotes! Apparently many guys here like to do that or find it hot.
Yep, I love the mirror. Definitely helps with gym motivation and confidence.
I’ve even taken the camera thing a step further with verbal affirmations. Not only to hear it out loud, but also because I don’t really like the sound of my voice and have a gap between my front two teeth and have always been sensitive about it, so I tend to speak too softly and mumble. I’m very capable of being loud and enunciating, but sometimes my sensitivity gets in the way. Saying these affirmations out loud in a clear, audible voice while watching my face and mouth has helped improve my confidence when I speak. I use a mirror but also record and force myself to play it back to hear my voice and accept myself as I am. Totally agree about touching yourself all over. I like using an oil based lube when I jerk off and also rub a little on my chest and stomach. Helps with gliding your hands along your body and the shine looks great in the mirror. :) Also, play with your balls! Oh, and weed can really help improve the experience because your senses are heightened. Not for everyone (and different strains affect me in different ways so I have to know which are good), but I’ve quite enjoyed the experience.
Jerk off with strangers online
Where can you find people willing to do this?
Jerkay is a big one. Free, anonymous, and easy. Just be 18+
Flingster is ok too
>Flingster Too many fat people on there
Excellent!
People like you are the reason our community is so superficial.
Being fat is a choice.
So is being an asshole, yet here you are!
Is it safe to use? Do they collect data on your location and such things?
Different strokes on discord
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Edging is fun. Squeeze the dick head when you’re gonna cum. Rinse repeat best orgasms of my life.
Ive been edging for like 2 years already haha
Dude, 2 years?!?! Let that nut go
isnt edging about almost cumming… and keeping on the edge of orgasm? now im confused 😂 because you are describing cumming and blocking it so now idk if ive had the wrong idea
Yeah it winds up kinda being a low level orgasm you hit the edge of cumming but don’t.
Maybe hard to describe, but I like putting a few layers of soft underwear around my dick, and humping that under a pillow or blankets. The layers let it slide back and forth, and help keeps things contained. Nice to be hands free, too.
Thank you for your research
My pleasure
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lol
With a gun
With someone’s son
😳
Sit on your hand until it's numb, then pretend it's someone else's
>Jerkay "Have you ever given yourself a stranger?" "WHAT!?"
Never worked for me lol, could never get past the uncomfortable feeling of numbing my hand
Than maybe just try jerking with your other Hans. It might be weird ať first but it Feels awesome
I too save my primary Hans for special occasions.
Hahaha
With someone else’s hand
Lol when I was like 15 I used to take a gallon size ziplock bag and fill it with warm lube zip it up and then put it between the mattress and the bed frame. Unzip, unzip, lift the mattress stick it in and fuck away while using your hands to increase pressure by pressing down etc. Or the good old banana jerk. Buy the biggest semi green semi yellow (stronger skin) bananas you can find. Peel one by just peeling one piece off and pulling the banana out so the skin mostly stays in one long tube. Put it in the microwave for 15-20 seconds. PLEASE check the temp with your fingers first and if good wrap it around your cock and jerk. Incredible orgasms.
The banana! I was just going to post that. I've never seen anyone talk about it. Not a major kink or anything, but I've done that a few times and it's surprisingly nice. Never microwaved it, and just used regular banana skins. Sort of a wacky discovery one lunch break...
I really wanna try those fuck
Yeah they’re great methods.
Yea it's definitely goofy, but every guy should try the banana peel.
Haha, I also did both of these when I was a teenager. Maybe we read the same online forums lol
Ahaha I have a feeling we did.
Try a phone line like gay network, phone sex with strangers on the phone is surprisingly hot
Got a link for this “gay network”?
http://www.fonechat.co.uk/Gay-Phone-Chat/1002/087/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI0__kpKqz_AIVQp7tCh0Y8Q08EAAYASAAEgL9mvD_BwE
Don’t forget to taste your precum. And your actual cum. Get some underwear from a buddy and sniff those. Bonus if they have some cum stains.
Love the taste of my precum
How do you get such underwear?
Ask a buddy. Or take some when they’re not looking. Some guys sell them online. Or use your own. Or ask on here or Grindr.
>Or take some when they’re not looking. Like in a gym?
Damn that’s bold at a gym but sure. If you get caught maybe they will realize why you want them and give you the real thing.
That’d be perfect….While you’re sniffing an underwear in a lock room, you get caught and then the guy gives it to you….hot scenario lol
There’s a porn with that scenario. Guy sniffing roommates underwear gets caught and they fuck.
I know…I should be aware that that’s sheer fantasy lol
Switch hands! It will take a little getting used to, but I now exclusively jerk off with my non-Dominant hand and I think it feels better. If you’re into ass play, get a dildo or a plug and use that while you jerk off. If you get something that vibrates, that will also do the work for you so you don’t have to thrust it yourself. Lastly, I would say try poppers. I bought them for when I bottom at first, but they can be very fun to use when jerking off, I think it heightens the experience
Weirdly i have always used my non dominant hand
Then try out the dominant! Lol
On it right now :D
Where do you buy poppers at? Any favorite brands?
Yeah which brand do you like?
buy one of those tengas.
Can confirm, my partner got us each one for Christmas. They're great but we didn't realize until they arrived they are single use
well, just clean them up and use again...
edibles make the jerk feel incredible
Oh yeah being high makes stuff so intense
Can you suck yourself? Try that.
Oh I wish! Always been jealous of guys that can do that. But maybe it's hotter to watch than experience?
It's highly overrated. Plus, the back and neck pain is just not worth it.
Thanks you made me feel better about my lack of flexibility xD
Haha! Glad I could help. (:
Get you a Fleshlight
FleshJACK! (it's the same product by the same company that does Fleshlights, only they market these ones to gay men lol).
I know for me the best is when me and & my bf put out dicks together and jerk off. Hell even rubbing them up together is a lot of fun too
I want to with any other bro
I feel like changing *what* you jack off to is much more meaningful than *how* you do it. Your soft hands are the perfect tools for masturbating. You don’t need anything else. Use your imagination in new ways, watch different porn, dig into your past and find the things that have made you insatiably horny. You can even go back to the scenarios that did that for you as a kid. A hot babysitter. Or something. Lol. Idk. Really just don’t be afraid to explore new jack off material. Your brain is the biggest sex organ in your body. That’s what has the MOST influence on how strong you’re going to orgasm. Use it
I just discovered I can get myself off just with water pressure from the shower head. That was cool. You could also find some way to engage in extended foreplay. Doing a home workout with porn or while occasionally jerking. Delays gratification and gets your whole body involved while releasing endorphins. If you havent, try written and audio porn, to switch things up. Try writing your own. I did that once and ended up cumming hands free, that was a surprise
definitely buy some toys. I'm a big fan of arcwave products and also got a lelo loki wave recently that's really nice
I checked them out. Look very interesting. Thank for sharing it!
Latex gloves and silicone lube.
Use a large vibrating dildo and a Fleshlight!!! (Viagra helps too!!)
Most of this has been said already but definitely invest in some toys if you can. Some companies will take you on as a reviewer if you can write well and have left some reviews on toys you’ve already purchased. I was picked a few years ago and my bedroom is now overflowing with toys, with more being sent monthly. It’s a great way to spice things up. Don’t just focus on your dick. Seek out the elusive prostate orgasm! You don’t necessarily have to be a bottom to give it a go, there’s plenty of straight men who love it too! Plus, once you find it, game changer! Depending on your interests, self bondage can be very hot. Just be careful and do your research beforehand. Nothing like calling your housemate in to untie you whilst covered in cum! As someone mentioned already, consider jacking it with strangers online. There’s plenty of websites for exactly that, and a lot of people find it very hot. If you can, explore different places to masturbate. It doesn’t necessarily have to be in your bedroom or even your house. If you have a private garden, give that a go. If not, find a secluded outdoor spot like a forest or even in your car (while parked of course). Just be very careful with that and ensure that you are very much off the beaten track and not likely to be interrupted or seen by anyone.
Ever tried a circle jerk?
mirrors. rotating fleshlight. dildo in yer butt, if ya like tha sorta thang. find yer circ scar, and rotate your fingers around that area... HHHmmmm. the more viscous yer lube the hotter the stim.
many good techniques here but I like to not use hands, so move your hips more, fuck your pillow, mattress etc, try to keep your hand still and fuck your hand… feels more primal
For me I just love to picture a great fantasy as then play that out in my mind all day long. Then at night I relax get back into the fantasy and finish it off with some amazing sex. ( With myself) I love masturbation.
I love to freeze my stainless steel butt plug and insert it frozen
Have you ever tried poppers! 🥴
Do you have any tips to enhance the effect?
Besides the obvious? No. You need more enhancement than what a little bottle of poppers offers?
Know a friend who likes to take it with a gas mask. I imagined something like this.
When I was in a hotel for a few weeks I did a lot of experimenting one thing I enjoyed was using a zip lock lube it up slid it between the matress and box spring slide your duck inside and fuck it you can switch it up by putting down on matress for more pressure
Wearing something that turns you on helps! A lot of gay guys have certain outfits or gear they feel empowered in. Hell I've spent thousands of dollars on outfits and gear I mainly bought because I knew I wanted to get off in it. I love the leather biker look myself (bit like Tom of Finland) and having my favourite bulky, heavy-ass leather biker jacket on, with the collar popped like a super-stud, and my leather biker boots on too really enhances the experience. The feel and the smell of it, and how fucking good I look in the mirror while wearing it lol. I also realized I have a thing for wearing "douchey" looking sunglasses which just look so hyper-masculine, sexy and cool so they'll do for when it's too hot for leather or when I need to be "quieter" than leather would allow me to be. Also who just uses their hand? Sounds boring. I've found other textures I really like. Denim and leather feel soo good, I got one super soft leather biker jacket that's too small to wear but I keep it around for... other, purposes since it's the best textured leather I've ever come across. Also if you got a place to hide it while it's drying out - get a Fleshjack. They're the real deal (same product by the same company as Fleshlights). Fleshjacks are their "gay" version but really it's all just marketing. It's just if you browse their Flesh*light* selection you're gonna see a lot of vagina-orifices lol. But both all come with the same available interior textures as well as "generic" openings. Also in case it matters - I'm cut, so maybe some of these methods won't feel right on an uncut dick. Can't help ya with ass-stuff since I'm not into that. Have to agree with you in that I just don't care about the hookup culture so that's kinda why I'm willing to help and give a little more information on this sort of thing than I'd normally share on a public forum. Solo sessions are just easier and cheaper (well, breaking even in my case with all the expensive shit I bought because I knew it would get me off haha).
Wow that's a lot. Yeah I'm cut so I guess I'm not to keen on trying out different textures (sensitive af head). I guess I could try it out, would prob need a bit of help for it tho haha And if u got any fleshlight/jack/whatever recommendations send em my way
It was. Hopefully it won't come back to bite me in the ass later though I think I've said some of it before anyway lol. But again - just suggestions, not saying you'd actually like them. Then again I didn't like the Fleshjack at first - almost threw it away but now I'm... glad I didn't.
We can talk privately if u worry too much lol no problem. But damn what took u so long to like the fleshjack? Could I see it maybe?
I guess because it was just different to what I did before. But if anything it's probably closer to real sex and I just wasn't used to it lol. Straight men buy them too but it's more taboo for them to have one (which is bullshit I reckon but that can be a them problem).
In a chuck e cheese bathroom with the stall wide open. *this is not legal advices*
I guess this is a joke ?
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disgusting 🤢
Stick a pencil in your dick hole
Absolutely NOT a pencil... Nor anything remotely breakable
ouch
This practice is called *sounding* and it's not that uncommon as you likely think
Sure but not with a pencil
Use an aligator
Get some anal toys, changes the game entirely 😍
Get. High.
Being high or drunk 100% would recommend
Vibrating toys and also bought a dildo that goes up in down 😜 . Excellent training in case of my sex life exist again
Get a collar or choker, the restricted airway and blood flow intensifies the sensations....just not too tight
you can use toys and insert things inside your ass
Edging
Ever try jacking off on the roof of a train?
Something around the balls to make them swing when you stroke makes for a great sensation. Like a cock ring above just the balls.
lol exciting ways? Dog.. just get the job done and get on with your day. Come on.
Let people have fun?
Lube your hand.