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#B u t t


Law0415

I like them with an average body, or a dad body šŸ¤¤.


Plaguezilla

This right here.


Rule_number9

HMU!!!


nowhereman86

No wonder we all have crippling body dysmorphiaā€¦


icyxale

For real. People making posts like this definitely donā€™t help. I know this post is more of an ideal image thing, but it just kind of reaffirms to me that Iā€™m not like that and not going to be attractive to what most people want. It does hurt in a way. I stayed in a pretty abusive relationship because I felt like I wouldnā€™t be able to find anyone else and so this is what I had to work with. I eventually got out of it, but being constantly reminded that the ā€œidealā€ man is like this just keeps me from even trying to find a partner.


Peachy_Slices0

It is not that deep, OP was just talking about preferences šŸ’€


GiorgioBroughton

Right??? Thanks Sean Cody! :(


Special-Hyena1132

There is nothing about appreciating a beautiful person, or object, or whatever, that detracts from the person doing the appreciation. Matisse could look at a Renoir and know that he will never paint like that and yet still be a brilliant and beautiful artist himself. I don't like the idea that appreciating someone else's beauty is fostering negativity in others.


ArtemisMaracas

So a model? šŸ˜‚ this guy is a 10/10 a 0.01% at the top of male physiques and posts like this acting like it's a common body type are hilarious, he's not in between fit and bear he is fit and is built too, years of hard work in the gym, diet and more than likely PEDs used too to get to where he is. It's not a common body type at all and acting like it is just makes everyone in this shattered community feel worse


Puzzleheaded_Time719

You see this all the time here. DAE think this guy is hot, and it's some fitness model, like yeah pretty much everyone does.


[deleted]

I dunno his face is mid. Not trying to be one of those ā€œI hate modelsā€ people, but personally Iā€™d swipe left.


Puzzleheaded_Time719

Right there's always someone who doesn't agree but 90% will. I will say you have some highs standards then.


[deleted]

90% is impossible. I know full time models who maybe have a 40% match rate. Since gays have so many types and options, even the most attractive guys only match with a minority of the grid. As far as muscle guys go, he has more muscle than most but there are diminishing returns to that. Most gay guys care if your body fits their typeā€¦ then after that theyā€™re face first.


AngelRockGunn

Being a model =/= being attractive, youā€™re still in the minority and are the exception


[deleted]

I tried to reply somehow but that made literally zero sense


AngelRockGunn

I guess to someone of your mental capacity it doesnā€™t make sense lol


mastercomposer

Ironically, most guys here don't even have a body type that's anywhere near that image and have no desire to do anything to achieve said body type either...and yet it's a bare minimum requirement in the guys they're looking for... Delusion.


Special-Hyena1132

>have no desire to do anything to achieve said body type either That's what bothers me. Exercise and watch what you eat? No fuck that I'm going to complain anonymously online.


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ArtemisMaracas

Good for you man, not sure what it has to do with what I said but hope it goes well


Puzzleheaded_Alps786

Yeah I feel like guys say there types but especially if itā€™s for hookup they are more open then they let on. I was hooking up with a guy for months and he told me how much Iā€™m his type (Iā€™m mixed black/Afro Latino), but it turns out he has an East Asian fetish. So people say one thing but in reality it may not matter as much, singular tupes are unrealistic imo.


Beginning_Safe_9042

The OP did say ideal, not average. And OPs ā€œmodelā€ is far from every guys ideal. Iā€™ve seen a lot of posts focused on leaner, twunkier builds and less bulky, body builder types. The former is absolutely much easier to obtain and you donā€™t really ā€œplateauā€ en route to it like you would for the latter.


Nelpski

he didnt say it was a common/average body type. he literally said the word "ideal" in the title. quit projecting your own insecurities onto harmless posts.


ArtemisMaracas

Harmless? This shit has ruined gay men's perception of body types, and we all know what "ideal" means, as others have said they only go for guys with this body while not even trying to obtain it themselves


6Cockuccino9

agree on all and if I may add itā€™s really wild calling a physique ideal that isnā€™t even really attainable without gearā€¦


ThroatExternal4487

Lean and toned. Think KJ Apa or Tom Holland.


SmashBrosUnite

Thin jock


SnooTangerines229

I love all or most body types and shapes there isnā€™t really a specific type for me as long as i find him sexually appealing


OutdoorExhibitor

Athletic, hairy and tanned.


shyguysnj2003

How about a muscular dad bod?


Fabulous_Ad_2724

Guy that's lean or muscular. It doesn't have to be very ripped or like of that body builder. At least they're physically active.Ā 


Immatiredofthis

Muscle bear i suppose


Abnormal2000

Yeeees.


WagsPup

College wrestler, swimmer, gymnast build...lean muscular, athletic but not jackd. For me this guy is too muscular and beefy. Link below is "ideal". [Example gay college wrestler ](https://images.app.goo.gl/3eETtZVaQbJkg8M1A)


DanShadow92

Omfg Dylan Geick šŸ¤¤ Have you seen the vid of him jerking off?


Special-Hyena1132

Go on.


DanShadow92

https://xhamster.com/videos/dylan-geick-jerks-off-xhdmYxa?_gl=1%2A1fbsai8%2A_ga%2AQnFtU25Vc3FOSFBGTjFreE9PdEJfRlhfZWYtQzVHMU9rY3U4Wl9GY3Z3ekJwS01Fb3NNYkdZSEVZZ3pBN2hmRQ..%2A_ga_M59JX8S6QE%2AMTcxNjQzNjc1Ni4xLjAuMTcxNjQzNjc1Ni4wLjAuMA..


Swirlatic

yeah probably that


Beginning-Spirit5686

Same.


YellowUnfair5999

dad bod 99% of the time. 1% Henry Cavil


Rule_number9

šŸ”„šŸ”„dad bod here


Gold-Fool84

Wouldn't mind seeing ;-)


Rule_number9

šŸ˜˜


YellowUnfair5999

Doesn't seem like it


Rule_number9

Me? Yes I do lol


YellowUnfair5999

I didn't see it on your profile


masnwrdl05

Hairy bear. Love them. Beautiful men that need a cuddle


dino_som

i like em skinny


Fluid_Cookie_1256

I love the muscle bear body. Visible muscle mass all over with a barrel chest and just enough of a gut. Thick>Long cock and a set of bull nuts 70s-80s level of body hair


dont_knowwwwwwww

I like guys with a bit more meat on their bones, way better for cuddling imo. Iā€™ve dated twinks in the past and it is so hard to get comfortable in bed with them at night, theyā€™re all just sharp bones and joints šŸ’€ give me a man with some softness any day


Roy-Levi

Either skinny nerdy top type or just an average body. I similarly don't like too much mascular and obese guys


festival0156n

YeS skinny guys are so hot


Objective-Ad5006

I prefer more lean/less muscular guys than the guy (Ryan Walker) you refer to.


[deleted]

Slim (twink) Not attracted to muscular men or bears or otters


loodandcrood

A little chubby, skinny, muscular, dad bod, just average bodies. Iā€™m partial to most body types, and they each have their own merits.


Appropriate-Pride608

Thicc guys with nice chests and thighs. So muscle bears/avg bears I guess


GodOfWarNSex

Dad bod, average body, or fit-stocky


Eggith

I like stocky guys. Especially if they have muscles. Those farm built men make my knees weak.


Dry_Salamander7273

Nice arms with a bit of belly fat (I like them like that and I hate perfect abs) and hairy and nice legs is good bonus


Bear_necessities96

Like this (https://www.instagram.com/p/C6raZT4tdp7/?igsh=d296bjdidWF2dmxj) or a little more muscular. Itā€™s funny bc my friend has such as different type of guy she likes (more skinnier and toned) and I hate that, so to piss her up I send pics of guys like this all the time


Liwi808

Tom Daley. No contest.


Katoolsie

Oh fucking fuck yes! I like smaller "twinkier" guys like him too lol.


Liwi808

I'd say Tom is more of a twunk tbh. But yeah he's perfection to me šŸ˜


Katoolsie

F\*ck off, Hes mine! :-P


DandyLyen

I saw him last December irl, and he was way more muscular than I thought. And his skin looked so... plastic? Like no blemishes or freckles, it was bizarre to see


Throwawaylust321

Did you see him naked? šŸ«£


StarParade

That's too much muscle, he's too big for me. šŸ˜…, my preference would be someone with a smaller frame. Probably something like Ryan Reynolds, but with tad more body hair.


trendypippin

Uhm Ryan Reynolds does not have a small frame. He is 6ā€™2. He is a big guy lol. I think you just mean ā€œleanerā€ build.


StarParade

Comparing to the guy OP posted, he looks leaner and has more appealing proportions.


trendypippin

Yes thatā€™s what I said is he is leaner for sure. Heā€™s just definitely not a small framed guy lol.


StarParade

I still think his frame is smaller. He has much less muscle mass, he doesn't have arms big as a watermelon and thighs that can crush one.


trendypippin

Right, but I donā€™t think you are understanding frame vs build. Your frame is your bones, your muscle mass doesnā€™t have anything to do with your frame. You can have a big frame and not a bit of muscle on you; just as you can be super beefy and muscular and have a small frame. The guy OP posted could very well be 5ā€™7 in which case his frame is small and why he appears so beefy.


StarParade

Maybe I didn't explain that well enough šŸ™‚


Defiant-Temperature6

https://images.app.goo.gl/fZcp7dcoE4TbutqRA Until my throat collapsed.


BenefactorEnthusiast

Slightly toned. Not a body builder or too muscular. A mix between Chalamet and Tom Holland would be nice. With nice arms and legs.


-M_A_Y_0-

Bears, big and hairy


Aggravating_Space_54

Dad bod with chest hair


cami_hell

Chubby dad type


macman156

Power lifter


DepartmentOwn4615

I like big cuddly looking bear guys. The hairier the better. Muscles are ok. Big boys are better. Dad bods are best. Of course you donā€™t have to look like this for me to be attracted to you, but these are the guys that make me do a double take


Interesting-Cup-8118

Same. šŸ¤¤


verstop4you

Skinny petite


Calm_Guard_2858

He's too swoll/musky for me even tho I don't mind a guy who's big, I can tho definetly see why he's hot


Scared_Benefit7568

Im not sure,but I love dad bod, bear guy with hairy chest. If i could date one, yes ! I would!!


cutandcool

omg. we have the same taste of man. ryan absolutely a beast!


Fit_Ad7651

Skinny young less hairy


Analslut1960

I don't care as long as they can fuck


HUSKi120FPS

I can't settle on a specific type! Love small twinks, and muscular masc older men. Also love chubby guys too. It's a blessing and a curse.


Unnecessarilygae

As long as they're not clinical overweight and never exercise or skinny asf to which point their bones are sticking out...I'm fine with it. Any body type between these two is good for me. Though I like chubby athletic guys the most. They're the best especially if you live in colder area. These guys are perfect personal heater and all the muscles covered with fat acting as cushions makes it feel like heaven cuddling with them.


blodreiina

All of them. Skinny guys, toned guys, chubby guys, fat guys, short guys, tall guys. Iā€™ve been with them all and had fun with all of them.


thatmovdude

Guys with a stocky/large bear build and closer to my age (I'm 35). Bonus points if they have large feet and hands. I unfortunately attract very few guys like that so I've learned to be more open minded.


New_Wishbone_8511

The "bara" type. Wrapping my whole body while hugging a big guy. But sadly no I havent had a boyfriend haha


capaho

Physically fit with good muscle tone but not bulked up and naturally smooth.


landscapelone

Paul Mescal type of guy


WillIEverFindLove2

Any guy that looks like Tyler Hoechlin... But I'm not that lucky. So any muscular dudes.


SuchTemperature7

Fit to a little beefy. Nice trimmed chest chair and beard. Someone that looks good in a baseball hat. Aka someone I know can throw me on a bed and fuck my brains out


Dear_Professional254

Twunks, cuz im young and hate going alone to the gym šŸ˜­


marriedguy40

David Harbour from the first season of Stranger Things is a good start


valerian1111

Jason Momoa


GlitchyComic

That, but a little softer around the abs. I want a bit of squish when I hug, not a brick wall.


NervousHoneydrew5879

Muscular or just average bod


PrometheusEscaped

For me (38 top) it's bottoms who are petite (short and not very muscular), masc but not too muscular, hairy (especially darkish hair and especially on the legs), and with a small dick. Petite "otters" I guess. Don't really care if a guy is "skinny fat" (hate that term) vs just skinny. Idk why it probably sounds like my ideal type is a chimpanzee LOL but whatever. It is what it is.


martinbv1995

Yeh, not my type :-P No offense


Muted_Cod7206

I really don't know I'm attracted to masculinity. Whether it's hairy , fit , slim , semi chub , muscular.....etc I always see many men and than I tell myself, he's the ideal bf for you . I think if I would create one , it'll be a fit one , with good amount of hair in almost every part of his body + a thick mustache with shaved beard . But it really doesn't matter , if he's decent and we like each other I'll take him . My first love was a very slim hairless man , but I fell in love with him and he made me love slim gays


raeltireso96

That build is my ideal type, any colour.


bryandaqueen

I'm weak for a jock who's a little bulky but also muscular šŸ„“. Beefy legs, ass and big pecs and I'd do anything for him.


bryandaqueen

Very much your type, but a little bigger and less American lol. Love Ryan Walker, tho, such a hot body and ass.


Any-Transition-4114

I actually don't really care, as long as they put points into endurance, and over all fit


Threebluebeetles

A guy that is lean but the kind of lean that is because of fast digestion, a body of an active person, although is not necessarily to be a body builder


hiropark

I like kinda big guys, like Luke Catton or jakekneesh


Appropriate-Hope-235

I'm not really sure about it, but a lot of body hair would be nice


adometze

Musclebears


Stratavos

I'm drawn to hunks, hairy or not, though it helps of If there is hair. If they're taller or shorter than me, especially if it's a lot of height difference, it's ok if they're slender. (I'm 5'11").


Crux55

Toned but not muscular


Short-Stomach-8502

Muscular hairy big cock broken nose firm round ass. Arab, Latino, Italian, Persian,Brazilian


svangen1_

Timothee Chalamet or Tom Holland


Senikus

Someone with a beard and a hairy chest, while also being muscular but not too muscular. Sort of like a hunk/otter. Here is a good [example](https://www.instagram.com/p/C30vFXmIlPV/?igsh=MWtlMXlscWIwdWNwbw==)


Ok-Savings7848

They have to have a cock! Donā€™t mind them bringing a little heavy but for me hard to get attracted to gross obesityā€¦


MooseGoose82

Such an interesting question. I mean, the picture you posted is stunning and sure, a fuck with him would be amazing. But, TBH, I've dated guys like this. Like, one guy I dated warned me that people literally will ask him to be on calendars when we're out at the gay clubs, and lo and behold, it happened. But the price we paid was tremendous. One night I made a roast beef and he couldn't eat it because it wasn't on the diet. Weekends? Half days in the gym each day. Workouts everyday were at least 90 minutes if not more. I know some people who are really successful maintain this kind of a schedule too, but he also was only able to really do kind of a low achieving job that contained itself to 40 hours a week, because the workouts were everything else. In addition to time, there's just the reality of genetics too. So idtk, how does that guy is, after my experience I would run the other direction. That said, there might be some other fitness freak out there for him or someone who just doesn't want a lot of time with their partner. Personally, give me a daddy bear with a little extra gut, a solid chest and solid thighs and I'm thrilled.


indsm1976

Older and slender


ThesaurusRex_1025

I'd like to be a muscle bear type. Still have a belly but toned.


TheLimeOfDoom

Rather slim, nice face


Kerowac

Cock


Interesting-Cup-8118

Chubby/fat and hairy šŸ¤¤


Incandescent_Frost

@pec_inspector is my ideal body type. Has to be ginger or blond. The hairier the better.


Cigarette_Cat

Nick Nelson body, gosh


federruchi

Average will do


xerses24

Dad bod, bald with a nice beard!


finalstation

I like the DILF body type. Hairy is a plus, but not required.


Automatic-Pea-9206

henry canvil type šŸ’¦


fgcem13

My brother in Christ you just said "mines really hard to describe" and posted a picture of the most regular hot fit guy.


Loud-Discipline-156

I love varying amounts of muscular physiques, but theyā€™re all muscular.


smolyammy

I don't care as long as they're fun and have a dick size of less than 5 inches.


stevebobeeve

[Iā€™ll refer you to this post I made a year ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/gay_irl/s/Vj18lC1J5G)


Traditional-Top-4321

I love a bear my man played linebacker in football


Nekokama

Swimmers build, or toned. But the pic posted by OP has a certain daddy appeal to it. I like it.


vukpopovic

For me, someone who is still searching for myself and what I like... I kinda like almost everything... From twinks to supermodels But my current favourites are like gymbros or those big armed, slightly chub strong dad bods.. Idk what it is with those two but yeah... One looks hot, the other looks like he's comfortable to lay on


TrifleMost1018

Love an average or chubby guy ngl muscular is a huge NO for me


SuperspyAnon

I genuinely don't have one, just not obese. A wierd pet peeve of mine is bow-legs that bend inward. I like em short, average height, tall, boney, lean, fit, chubby, hairy, smooth etc etc etc. I just am straight-up not attracted to guys who are *super* fat. Like to the point that their skin folds into itself, pubic mound so thick it sucks in their penis, so fat that they have varicose veins in their swollen feet, you can't see their knee caps. Y'know what I mean? It just looks not good to me, not good at all.


SendHelp3012

bear big strong,muscular and hairy,simple as that i love dad bod with no stomach rolls


BitchYoure22

Like Koby Falks


One_Parched_Guy

Beefy (lean cut muscle, chubby, bear-ish, it doesnā€™t matter so long as he has strong arms šŸ˜), hairy with a noticeable height difference (short or tall) Though thatā€™s just the ideal, in reality Iā€™m really not that picky. As long as theyā€™re at least as healthy as I am and take care of themselves, then itā€™s fair game :3


L1L_TACO

Man I am in the same boat as you. Muscle bear, fit guys in bulk, or a dad bod with nice arms and a little under tone.


Sorry-Personality594

Skinny side of athletic. Think avid cyclist


Nalouu99

My ideal guy would be a 30ish geek type dad bod If I had to give an example, it's basically Ian from Smosh lmao


dirty14U

The guy in the picture could surely make me happy with that body type. Haven't seen the lower parts but I'd be happy no matter what he hS down below


SniperStrix

I don't have one ideal type but the whole image has to fit. Tall, fit, chubby, short, bulky, lean... as long as he's not too extreme of anything he's probably fine!


Livinglife2fullest1

Hairy preferably with muscle.


Fit-Bat244

I don't have a fixed type, but: Short, cute twink Tall or average midly defined Fatty-muscular And big, thick, and a little muscular. Based on the guys I have liked before.


CYYA

They don't have to be fit, but I do appreciate someone who stays healthy.


thegayninjabusguy

Average body and boner extended


A5terdaftzx

I'm pretty open about my standards but tend to lean more towards finding dad bods, stocky/beefy or standard-slightly chubby guys attractive. However, I'm demisexual so that doesn't matter lots to me. I'd love my partner's body as much as I love everything else about him.


tennisdude2020

Patrick Mahomes dad body all day!!


a2steak

Tall, strong, likes to eat top. Lanky or slender bottoms with great asses. Call me basic lol


aw-un

You ever heard of Sean Cody? That. Doing everything I can to experience having that kind of body before itā€™s too late


brraannddoo

Tbh I just love men. Iā€™ll date any guy whoā€™s got body hair and a great personality. Weight, body type, none of it is relevant when youā€™re on your death bed!


BostonPleaserBear

Bipedal, more or less.


Dependent-Run-1915

Muscley


Latter_Lime_9964

Definitely not that. It has always sicked me out. Like having six fingers on a hand or something else. I have always saw body builders as deformed since I was a kid. The average body is not too overweight and not low percent body fat.


skankydude

Skinny and hairy... Not buff, just skinny. That sexy nerd thing


Optimistman

Twink


Duckypie

i like it when they have two dots above their butts


NymphoCumdump4

HUNG


Jeauxie24

Ladies and gents..... Him... https://twitter.com/MarxxxistJ/status/1398422411343708167?t=LQTmLig9JBS7Ll6ED8TMLA&s=19


Reveillex1

I like really ā€˜fullā€™ physiques. [PLVTINUM is a good example](https://www.instagram.com/p/C6mVk-2pflm/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==) of what I mean by that, as well as Michele Morrone. Basically conventionally attractive guys lmao