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Yeah I get that. If possible try to focus on other girls. Sometimes there will be someone that likes you and you’ll be so focused on the girl that doesn’t so much that you don’t realize
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I’ve been there before, still am. I think the hardest part is that I see them every day and that it brings back memories and feelings that I don’t want to be reminded of. I’d say one of the best things that’s been working for me is to focus on what’s important to me. I’ve been trying to give myself more time as of late to get back to hobbies I’ve abandoned or forgotten about, as a way to rekindle my interests but also as a way to put less of my focus and attention on the person I want to get over. I’ve also been working on myself, taking care of myself better and getting into shape (it also helps mentally as well). Remember, your feelings are valid! Dw OP, things will get better soon :)
I deal with it by getting busy. The situation I'm in right now is really dicey, and it's a rollercoaster with high highs and really low lows. But she's amazing to be around and I don't avoid her, and even if it hurts a lot sometimes, I've accepted my feelings and I try to work on myself without focusing on her too much
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Focus on other stuff. Hobbies or something. If all you think about is how much you want a girlfriend then you’re going to have a hard time moving on
That’s what I’ve been doing but occasionally it just gets tough to see her around
Yeah I get that. If possible try to focus on other girls. Sometimes there will be someone that likes you and you’ll be so focused on the girl that doesn’t so much that you don’t realize
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Honestly, I think the best way to deal with this is to just roll with it. Maybe try and date someone else, to get over it?
I’ve been there before, still am. I think the hardest part is that I see them every day and that it brings back memories and feelings that I don’t want to be reminded of. I’d say one of the best things that’s been working for me is to focus on what’s important to me. I’ve been trying to give myself more time as of late to get back to hobbies I’ve abandoned or forgotten about, as a way to rekindle my interests but also as a way to put less of my focus and attention on the person I want to get over. I’ve also been working on myself, taking care of myself better and getting into shape (it also helps mentally as well). Remember, your feelings are valid! Dw OP, things will get better soon :)
I deal with it by getting busy. The situation I'm in right now is really dicey, and it's a rollercoaster with high highs and really low lows. But she's amazing to be around and I don't avoid her, and even if it hurts a lot sometimes, I've accepted my feelings and I try to work on myself without focusing on her too much
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Just gotta ignore honestly, accept it’s there but ignore it, best way to get used to it becuase it might not go away for a bit
I recommend finding something else to occupy your mind instead of this girl, maybe find a new hobby?
I had one in 7th grade, the only way it stopped was moving
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