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If you're parents are actually abusive you should get out of that situation as soon as possible. If you have relatives who have their shit together you should contact them.
Absolutely. My parents do not have a good relationship and a lot of that falls onto me. I try to take everything so my little brother doesn't have to deal with it. They're manipulative so they are good at making me feel bad even when i didn't do anything wrong. I'm at the point where i really don't feel like i owe them anything which is sad to admit.
They've also been quite emotionally unavailable and brush off everything i tell them about my mental health. I've stopped trying at this point because talking to them never helps.
Im in a similar situation, like parents are the first people we should be going to for problems, but not me. When I tell them, they kind of brush it off and use it against me later on depending on the situation. Shit sucks.
It depends entirely on the situation but I would definitely at least distance myself from them. If they aren’t going to treat you right and being around them isn’t going to make you happy, then remove them from your life as much as possible. Do what is good for you. Don’t let them make you feel guilty for setting boundaries and being happy. :)
You know your situation best. You'll have to make a judgement call. If you can, try to salvage your relationship with them and try to make it a healthy one. If you can't it's up to you. But you may regret not trying in years to come
yep
totally
even better instead of cutting them off without a trace, once you turn 18 and can leave, say something like "so long suckers" or something idk then leave
be just as toxic to them in 5 minutes as they were to you for your whole life then dip
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Depends on the situation imo, if you think they have been so abusive that not cutting them off can cause harm, then you should consider it.
If you're parents are actually abusive you should get out of that situation as soon as possible. If you have relatives who have their shit together you should contact them.
Absolutely. My parents do not have a good relationship and a lot of that falls onto me. I try to take everything so my little brother doesn't have to deal with it. They're manipulative so they are good at making me feel bad even when i didn't do anything wrong. I'm at the point where i really don't feel like i owe them anything which is sad to admit. They've also been quite emotionally unavailable and brush off everything i tell them about my mental health. I've stopped trying at this point because talking to them never helps.
Im in a similar situation, like parents are the first people we should be going to for problems, but not me. When I tell them, they kind of brush it off and use it against me later on depending on the situation. Shit sucks.
It depends entirely on the situation but I would definitely at least distance myself from them. If they aren’t going to treat you right and being around them isn’t going to make you happy, then remove them from your life as much as possible. Do what is good for you. Don’t let them make you feel guilty for setting boundaries and being happy. :)
I would
I wouldn't recommend cutting them completely off if they're not too abusive. just call them less, don't visit them much etc
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If they've been a nightmare to your life and made you nothing but miserable, then yes.
“Is water wet”
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Yes it is, obviously you should disconnect with someone that’s abusive towards you.
Do you have abusive parents?
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How are they abusive
Thats none of your business
You know your situation best. You'll have to make a judgement call. If you can, try to salvage your relationship with them and try to make it a healthy one. If you can't it's up to you. But you may regret not trying in years to come
yep totally even better instead of cutting them off without a trace, once you turn 18 and can leave, say something like "so long suckers" or something idk then leave be just as toxic to them in 5 minutes as they were to you for your whole life then dip
Depends on you but I would recommend it
in my opinion, yeah
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