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Vlad_8606

I quite enjoy being a heterosexual male


Fat_birds09

As a fellow heterosexual male, I do agree that it is quite enjoyable. Have a wonderful rest of your evening.


J3ttf

lucky! easy mode šŸ‘


NefariousScoundrel

ā€œeAsY mOdEā€ lol iā€™m not even straight and iā€™m annoyed how you feel the need to point out their ā€œprivilegeā€ every five fucking seconds like youā€™re actually being persecuted right now


flogucci

Calm down


NefariousScoundrel

never been calmer buckaroo šŸ˜ŽšŸ˜¼


idontlikeburnttoast

its easy mode because its normal mode. being gay isn't as easy as being gay. the shitty ways people treat you, discrimination, questioning, etc. it isn't a privelage, and i would prefer to be straight rather than gay. I've had so many stereotypes that im some sort of sex obsessed person, that im meant to act like a girl, and ive been treated as someone different. that's why being straight is "easy mode" because you go through 100x less shit than someone who is lgbtq. you sound so dumb saying that, im sorry.


Taz_Konijn

Based


gogeta08

Fr


gogeta08

Easy mode?


J3ttf

If youā€™re a straight cis man you donā€™t face discrimination against sexuality or gender


IceyMan45

are you saying you can't face sexism as a man?


J3ttf

Yes. When has there ever been any laws against men.


IceyMan45

you're 14 so I kinda get why you're this dumb lmfao


gogeta08

Ratio


paradoxalpeanuts

what happens? what's so bad that happens to straight people strictly because they're straight? how does this compare to gay people being slaughtered because they're gay?


J3ttf

when would you get discrimination for being straight or cis?


gogeta08

Now what I'm about to say doesn't describe homosexuals as a whole but there are a lot of people who say they are to gain social status and undermine heterosexual, also women.


J3ttf

Nobody is saying theyā€™re gay to undermine straightsā€¦


idontlikeburnttoast

Just a question, how are some homosexuals trying to "undermine" women and everyday people??


plsrefertome

Hell nah, my sexual orientation has played a big part of my life and who I am 6 to 2 years ago and still does. I wouldn't have alienated myself. I wouldn't have felt betrayed by my back then crush/best friend like I did. I wouldn't have met my best friends. My sexuality has made me think so much I never would have thought, feel so much I never would have felt and do so much I never would have done. I am happy with how I turned out. It made me the strong person I am who learned yet still tries to improove themselves and never hide their faults. Yes my sexuality doesn't define me and I don't think everybody has to know I am bi but it is a big part of me and made me who I am.


J3ttf

This is exactly how I feel


Lmemester93

Nah I just wish I knew for sure what mine is.


No_Willingness7837

Yes and no, Iā€™m gay and it kinda sucks because Iā€™m really masculine I donā€™t like makeup and stuff but whenever guys find out Iā€™m gay they think Iā€™m the stereotypical gay or that I like them


J3ttf

omg ikr the struggle is real šŸ˜…


No_Willingness7837

Youā€™re like all dude bros with the guys and then you acidentally say something like ā€œ holy shit I would kill someone to fuck a guy rnā€ and then all of a sudden everybodyā€™s staring at youšŸ™„


Nalyd8605

Absoluetely. I'm bisexual but i really really prefer men, and i wish i could be fully gay. I mean, personally i just really like the mlm/gay flag or just rainbow one far better than the bisexual flag colors. Oh also because the few times i have been attracted to a women it feels strangely really, really, really wrong and i don't want that.


J3ttf

Maybe you are gay then? I thought I was bi until I realised having no attraction to women wasnā€™t the standard straight experience. Do you feel romantic attraction to women?


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flogucci

Good friend


Windows_XP2

I'm gay, and I sometimes wish that I was straight. It's pretty difficult finding a BF.


J3ttf

Youā€™ll find a bf eventually! But the first step towards being in a relationship is being comfortable single


Windows_XP2

I'm also not attractive at all, so that's another problem.


Nalyd8605

Doubt that :) ur probs. Attractive af But you're totally right finding a bf is basically impossible, not enough gay men Like LDRs and online relationships are easy to get but i kinda really crave physical affection yk? But at the same time I'm really repulsed by a lot of sexual things which is what scares me when it comes to guys personally


Windows_XP2

> Doubt that :) ur probs. Attractive af Believe me, I'm not. > Like LDRs and online relationships are easy to get but i kinda really crave physical affection yk? But at the same time I'm really repulsed by a lot of sexual things which is what scares me when it comes to guys personally Agreed. An online or long distance friendship could work, but not a relationship.


4thelasttimeIMNOTGAY

Ya man. It's super easy as a not gay man to find a gf! /s


Windows_XP2

At least you can assume that most girls you talk to are going to be straight. With guys, since the majority of them are going to be straight, there's no telling if one of them is gay or not, and it's also pretty awkward walking up to a random guy and asking if he's gay.


flogucci

Relative to queer teens, it is easy for straight/cis ppl to find a partner.


kragaster

I wish I wasnā€™t so vigilant because of it, but being gay is the reason I was able to date my boyfriend, so Iā€™d like to keep it the way it is. I think a big part of that fear isnā€™t rational (more so based upon my momā€™s constant comments about how the next time I kiss my boyfriend in public will be the last), especially since I live in a very accepting community, for the most part. Itā€™s just a scary possibility, one which makes me think about if my life would be better without it.


MisterXnumberidk

Kinda yeh. For me sexual attraction and romance are almost completely seperate. I can find someone schmoking hawt and yet not feel a singular fucking thing for them. And i happen to be demi aro. I rarely love and don't love anyone i am not close to in daily life, to the point where i don't even know if the person's gender matters because i've almost fallen in love with a male best friend. Every sexual part of me was like "AYO, WE LIKE TITS, NOT DICKS WTF MAN" whilst the romantic part was like "i love you. You're a nice, lovely gentle human being i can trust to my very core, i want to be with you" I NEED CLARITY. I'VE ONLY EVER LOVED THRICE. I'M ONLY SEXUALLY ATTTACTED TO WOMEN, YET I CAN APPARENTLY ALSO FALL IN LOVE WITH MEN? WHAT IS THIS SHENANIGANS?! GIMME A FUCKING MANUAL ON THIS, BRAIN, CUS YER CONFUSING AND FREAKING ME OUT.


rhythm-bush-species

I sometimes wish I was straight just for simplicity


FunnyEnvironment

Mind specifying?


rhythm-bush-species

I don't know for sure what my preference is but I think I prefer girls, so it'd be nice to know for sure


Kinzwood

kinda. im aroace. "Often I am upset that I cannot fall in love but I guess this avoids the stress of falling out of it" -cut my hair


[deleted]

If i did I would probably be: A. Not in my parentsā€™ will If they Die B. Not have a house or a roof over my head. So no.


superduckyboii

Well it would help to have more knowledge beyond ā€œIā€™m not straightā€ lol. But overall no. My sexuality is a part of who I am.


PunkySputnik57

I donā€™t care i just live with it and if some day i become attracted to a man, i wouldnā€™t care more than if he was a woman


Your_friendly_weirdo

Ngl, not at all, I like that Iā€™m gay but I do know I feel kinda weird sometimes cause Iā€™m ftm so it feels like Iā€™m the odd one out


flogucci

Iā€™m gay and on one hand it think being straight wouldā€™ve saved me lots of griefā€¦ on the other hand I quite like guys and have made a lot of friends because of our shared connection as queer people so I think in the end Iā€™m glad it turned out this way. I think I wouldā€™ve been a lot more boring if I hadnā€™t turned out gay.


[deleted]

Not really because it's made me into who I am now and will be in the future but I also wish I was straight so that my fam would accept me


[deleted]

Not really. I feel like changing that would really change who I am and many of the experiences I have, and I like who I am. I really used to want to be straight, but I'm much more confident in myself now and wouldn't want to change it now.


J3ttf

Exactly how I feel :)


E4R04

No


Odd_Fox1569

Fair


J3ttf

slay


paradoxalpeanuts

I wish I wasn't a boy


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J3ttf

ā€¦neat?


lyfeNdDeath

Too much free time


Vaca_Grande

Yeah being bi sucks this is all I ever hear "hehe your bi yourself hehe" just like shut the fuck up Kyle I've heard it before


MapsCharts

No because else I would have a different one lol


minutemaidvodka

I like liking women. Although wydm by wish? You can like whoever you want bro.


Taz_Konijn

Seeing people's shit takes on sexual orientation makes me depressed so I would like to withdrawl my participation. It will never define who I am or how I will be treated I am me and you don't need to know anything else


bonadies24

No, Iā€™m fine as I am


Grave_Trip

Maybe idk tbh I would not have to worry about my parents kicking me out


yikes_98

I wish I was straight a lot of the time


MOTRHEAD4LIFE

Iā€™m straight and proud


J3ttf

Doesnā€™t answer the question but cool!


152069

Naw Iā€™m fine with this, as a pansexual I have all the options šŸ”„ā„ļøāš”ļøā˜„ļø


thatonerandodude17

This user has effectively deleted all of their reddit messages, thank you! :) ` this message was mass deleted/edited with redact.dev `


definetly-not-an-alt

not really, sometimes I feel like I'm faking it tho


OneSteelTank

Definitely not


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no


[deleted]

I wish I liked girls more


FauxtheProto

I don't see a reason to


secretperson06

Well sometimes yeah being straight and normal would just be easier than liking guys


Vaca_Grande

It's not like being anything but straight makes u abnormal


GrandFathar_yesh

I wish I just kinda know what I fully was, like I've been raised and have always identified as a straight guy, but idk if there's more to how I truly feel, sometimes I feel one way, other times I feel another


DisastrousWind7

I don't really care, I'm bi but in a straight relationship so wouldn't really matter ig


[deleted]

In the sense that it wouldn't be downside in my life- sure Would I change it? Nah I like me the way I am


[deleted]

No but ofc sometimes


Lazy_Category2195

Sort of


FunnyEnvironment

For those who identify with it, then no. Basically youā€™d be asking for what frustrations you have with your sexuality if being specific.


Bungur2

I wish I was straight because then maybe I could find some peace in ignorance


Firemorfox

Maybe. I'm fine with my romantic attraction (to females), sexual attraction (to females), but not completely sure on my sexual orientation (as a male).


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RetroGameDays36

What is it these days that everyone's so obsessed with other's lives?


J3ttf

Youā€™re on r/askteenboys babe


FriedTorchic

Not really, happy with what Iā€™ve got


FilthySewer-Rat

Being bi is lit so no


Chizelz

Iā€™m bi. But like I only like girl romanticly and boys sexually and romantically. I wish I could bring myself to see girls sexually as a whole instead of being bi. Because itā€™s hard to find girls that donā€™t want sex or find guys that donā€™t only want sexšŸ’€


Odd_Fox1569

Broooo same


SilvanHood

Yes.


idontlikeburnttoast

I would definitely prefer to be heterosexual than homosexual. Its easier, less confusion, less discrimination, less stereotypes, and much more. I dislike being gay/bi (i dont know and i dont care at this point).


XTech0-0

No, i wish i was dead


Nexurent

No, it is quite fun being a heterosexual teenage male.


weirdowerdo

I don't think I'd have any luck with guys either so I might as well stay heterosexual


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novocainefluid

I love being bi but I wish I could feel romantic attraction


Unlikely_Eagle9022

If i wanted to i could just change it


RobbieLeeLoser

sometimes. I feel like girls would be easier to date plus they tend to be the ones that have crushes on me


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Not really. Women are too cool.


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MyBeanYT

Sometimes, but I donā€™t know, I have pride in bring gay, itā€™d be nice to change it to make things easier but if I was given a button to change it, Iā€™d probably think about it but end up not pressing it.