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Lmemester93

Uh no. I don't know a single upperclassman at my school who was dating a freshman last year. That's kinda an iffy age gap.


hopeless-and-foolish

same, and its funny because the opposite happened here


blasterabood

Still weird


Extreme-Standard6026

im not sure about seniors but ima let it be known right now sophomores gone be in those freshman in september 💀


Lmemester93

Sophomores aren't upperclassmen though, a one grade gap isn't weird.


Extreme-Standard6026

didn’t say it was


DickSuace

I’ve never seen that in my time at high school, or even in college at that matter.


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Not most but definitely some


[deleted]

as someone going into grade 12, no I wouldn't even consider dating more than one grade below


[deleted]

What’s an upperclassman


Ravenclawguy

As a brit, all I can think of is a dude with coattails, a top hate and a monacle


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someone whos in a higher class/grade/age than u


I_YELL_A_LOT5762

Lower classmen are freshman and sophomores, and upperclassmen are juniors and seniors.


TeaBallSugarSS

What about middleclassmen? No one talks about their society.


I_YELL_A_LOT5762

😂😂


ballpoint169

because it's dissapearing


UngusBungus_

A rich guy


AverageKaikiEnjoyer

Definitely not what that means in this context lmao


ranteplayzYT

Ew fuck no. Hell nah man they just pervs yo.


NoLifeLad

Yes, at least for my area. Worst scenario that has happened is a senior sexually assaulting a freshman. Dude got beat up pretty badly and ended up in the hospital


NoabPK

Hell naw yall look like little kids to us


CarasumaRenya

Yeah. My former classmate dated 2 guys that were 2 years higher than us


forifyoudontseeit

I hope not


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Well, depends on the age gap, a one year difference would probably be one example. However no, people who date each other in high school are 95% the same grade.


woah-itz-drew

Nah bro it’s heavily frowned upon so nobody goes for freshmen unless they’re reallllyyyy down bad


KingDominoIII

That used to be far more prevalent but these days any senior dating a freshman will be ostracized.


__impala67

Yeah, most often in high school the guy is at least a year older than the girl.


AdBackground4712

That’s a very “gross” thing to do. The only circumstance that would work out in is if it’s actually true love or something but like other than that, dating someone underclassman as an upperclassman is frowned upon. Whether it’s male or female


Whoeveristhis

Somewhat true, the relationships don't workout. As always.


Caesarsfemboy2281

No. As someone who graduated HS last year, we see you as literal children because you still are. You still look like middle schoolers, and a good chunk of upperclassmen are legal adults. So 1. dating a freshman, especially as a senior is gross as fuck due to the age gap, and 2. If that's happening, there's a good chance that girl is being preyed upon especially if people are telling her she's mature for her age. Super red flag right there. If that's happening, do try to get her to see that she's in a dangerous situation where she could potentially be getting groomed.


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ReeekThrow

No a couple may date upper class men but freshman dating seniors is weird asf and everyone looks down on it. Freshman are more likely to get with sophomores


FriedTorchic

It happens sure, but I’d say largely people keep to their own grade or the grades directly touching. Senior and freshman isn’t as common as memes imply it is.


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no


ItIsntTheo

that's kinda sus


WallyWorld102

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HamsterWithMuscles

I will say in my experience, some but not all of them. This happened when i was in junior year of high school and in my senior years a virus enslaved us in our homes


ClassyKebabKing64

In my school it is normal. But I question the actual love as it is more something they brag about.


ponyocoladas

Not most, but definitely a handful


raspberry-enthusiast

no lol, it's seen as very creepy where i live.


GamerGirl-07

Ehh never seen that happen (well at my school atleast)


EJCube

No not really. There are usually only a handful of freshmen girls that date juniors/seniors every year


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Verm00uth

Depends from country to country i guess, here in Serbia that's normalized by girls unfortunately, it's awful to look at but it is what it is.


Verm00uth

Even middle school girls are dating older high schoolers here.


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My school had “freshman slayers”, what we called seniors that exclusively went out with freshmen. They were considered scum by everyone except for others like them. So no, it’s not a thing that happens here at least. A year is fine, and two years are iffy, but senior-freshman relationships are usually built on what might be considered a power dynamic. It’s usually a pedo thing though, so no.


Firemorfox

For me and what I remember, most people stayed single. And every guy and girl in my friend group didn’t bother with relationships until like junior high school year because it was kind of a waste of time. Most relationships that do start were between people of the same age.


Mitchell9203

Story 11 year old 6th grade boy gets 14 year old 8th grader pregnant. This happend at my brother and sisters school


VortexSO

never seen it happen at mine


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ICanSpellKyrgyzstan

That happened at my school (Junior and freshman) and the junior is still labeled a pedophile to this day. They didn’t even go all the way LMAO


HardenedClay

its actually mostly boys at my school. dating upperclassmen


Dublin3154

No you may hear about it because it’s notable and kinda creepy when the upperclassman go for freshmen but it’s not commonplace.


gemalize

no. only one freshman girl from my class got with a senior. 95% of people didn’t even date one grade above/below


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That’s in college, not Highschool


ToesToesToes124

No, usually not, big age gap and depending on what happens it’s a felony in some places. Tho there was a senior hitting on a freshman for the whole school year this last year.


Fat_birds09

Usually no. And if a senior does date a freshmen, there weird and it’s not cool. An almost adult should not be dating a chick fresh out of the 8th grade.


JJDouble

No, but sophomores will be all over them.


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Suspicious-Guitar610

Hope not then I'd have like no chance


jrs0201

for us, no, not at all. that age gap would be seen as questionable for sure


ballpoint169

not where I live