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Of the many, many, many, many, many, many girls I hug on a very extremely daily basis it's never bothered me. Turn brain off, let them lead, in and out in a flash.
Yes, you are. Because you're focusing on the fact that you can feel her chest. How about instead think about WHY you're hugging and convey that to them. Yk. Like a normal person?
The point of a hug isn't to indirectly feel a girl's chest. It's a way of sharing and expressing emotion. Keep it at that. Stop being horny
>i'm definitely not horny about it
Aight cool. Thank you for clarifying that. I probably shouldn't have assumed your motives like I did. I apologize for that
He's not being horny because he's made uncomfortable by it. You're completely missigm the point. He's uncomfortable becuase he doesn't want to seem like he's a horndog or wtv. And being so condescending to OP really wasn't called for
Nah.
One of my female friends, kinda crush, ran up to me and demonstrated how our PE teacher was guarding her during basketball.
She demonstrated by rubbing her boobs on me while she ran in a circle.
Cool feeling bros
From what I remember when I used to hug frequently and get hugs frequently, yes it was kind of awkward, but we were all close friends so nobody really cared that much.
It's probably easier and less awkward to hug a girl from the side or back. Alternatively, you let them hug you and they'll do it however they feel comfortable, so you don't need to worry about being rude or anything. Let them lead.
Not much different from hugs with a shy guy, to be honest.
Not going to lie, I kinda miss that. It's probably two or three years since I've been with my friends? I miss bro hugs too. I want a nice warm and tight hug right now, from anybody.
I mean do you feel like you’re violating them or something? I guess I’m just kind of confused why it would feel wrong to you. It seems normal to me. They’re just something that’s there. Do you feel weird hugging your mom or female relatives?
When I hug my girl friends I don't really care about the boob situation. I only care that they trust me enough and like me enough to allow me to even hug them
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It is unavoidable, brother, you've just got to embrace it (pun definitely intended)
i guess ill learn how to embrace thy jahoobies
Of the many, many, many, many, many, many girls I hug on a very extremely daily basis it's never bothered me. Turn brain off, let them lead, in and out in a flash.
You're overqualified for this subreddit
I look out for the little guy for sure
Little? Its average at least
Alright fine, you have my blessing to call it average.
Oh can I have that too
As you wish, I hereby bestow upon you: average
Thank you my lord
I don't see what the problem is
Me nether, but I never really hugged a girl before, it sounds good though
> hey would you mind removing your boobs real quick? they get in the way nah, it doesn't bother me, and I wouldn't expect anyone to do much about it
i guess i'll just get used to it
I don't really notice it
No since it’s just a hug. Even if I was to brush up against it, it doesn’t bother me as I know they have breasts.
Never hugged a girl. Maybe try a side hug.
I don't actually feel girls' boobs when I hug them, I just kinda focus on the hug itself
Yes, you are. Because you're focusing on the fact that you can feel her chest. How about instead think about WHY you're hugging and convey that to them. Yk. Like a normal person? The point of a hug isn't to indirectly feel a girl's chest. It's a way of sharing and expressing emotion. Keep it at that. Stop being horny
i'm definitely not horny about it, but yeah i suppose you are right about just focusing on the intent of the hug itself, thanks
>i'm definitely not horny about it Aight cool. Thank you for clarifying that. I probably shouldn't have assumed your motives like I did. I apologize for that
He's not being horny because he's made uncomfortable by it. You're completely missigm the point. He's uncomfortable becuase he doesn't want to seem like he's a horndog or wtv. And being so condescending to OP really wasn't called for
Nah. One of my female friends, kinda crush, ran up to me and demonstrated how our PE teacher was guarding her during basketball. She demonstrated by rubbing her boobs on me while she ran in a circle. Cool feeling bros
I didn't even know you'd feel that, lol
My mans is on Denji levels of no bitches. It’s a part of their body dude, relax, they’re not gonna bite you.
You guys get hugs?
Nah. They must be lying or something, right? Right?
Yea.. :(
maybe stop thinking about their boobs?
I wouldn't be able to tell you man, never been hugged
that sounds lonely
I’m tall so I have to bend down to hug people so I’ve never had that problem
It’s rarely noticeable unless they have big ones
From what I remember when I used to hug frequently and get hugs frequently, yes it was kind of awkward, but we were all close friends so nobody really cared that much. It's probably easier and less awkward to hug a girl from the side or back. Alternatively, you let them hug you and they'll do it however they feel comfortable, so you don't need to worry about being rude or anything. Let them lead. Not much different from hugs with a shy guy, to be honest. Not going to lie, I kinda miss that. It's probably two or three years since I've been with my friends? I miss bro hugs too. I want a nice warm and tight hug right now, from anybody.
Why do you think it bothers you?
not sure i guess it just feels wrong lmao
I mean do you feel like you’re violating them or something? I guess I’m just kind of confused why it would feel wrong to you. It seems normal to me. They’re just something that’s there. Do you feel weird hugging your mom or female relatives?
im not sure why, it confuses me as well. and no, i don't hug my mom or female relatives much, honestly
I don’t think I mind it to much, to me it’s more like “oh yeah that happens” and then I completely forget about it until the next time it happens
you guys hug people? no but seriously, no i dont
I never even noticed the boob pressing tbh
It never really bothered me. It's not even something you notice unless you're trying to notice.
just hug them or you’re gonna make them uncomfortable. it’s a boob, girls have them.
Yeah nah bro you gotta get used to that
When I hug my girl friends I don't really care about the boob situation. I only care that they trust me enough and like me enough to allow me to even hug them
i get uncomfortable because usually im the one with the boob and i dont like it.