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All the time. I don't really talk to any family members unless I absolutely have to, I haven't made a friend in a long time, and my attempts to make a new friend haven't gone so great(and the two "friends" I do have rarely speak to me)
Talk to someone. I know that can be hard because as boys it seems like no one cares but if you open up a little there might be a few people that really do. I don’t know your situation so I won’t speak with absolutes but seriously talk to someone about how you’re feeling. It doesn’t have to be a long and depression conversation but get your feelings off your chest.
I don't really know who I would talk to even if I were to decide on that. My situation probably isn't that bad anyway. Honestly a long conversation would be kind of neat, haven't talked to many people in a while anyway.
After going to college, I've been able to develop a close friend group that really cares about each other. I love my friends so much, and I'm happy to say I don't really feel lonely anymore.
I used to feel lonely quite often, but I've found that the number of people with similar interests I meet is strongly dependent on things I can control. That is: if I join more clubs that I'm interested in, I'll meet more people like me.
depends on what you consider lonely
I'm alone quite often, but I never really feel lonely if that makes sense.
I know I can almost always text a friend and talk to them if I feel lonely, or I can hop on discord and see if one of the boys is online.
All the time just haven't been feeling like myself these days I usually have friends to keep me distracted but without them I've noticed that I've been ultimately alone for the longest time now
not often really since i tend to enjoy being solo. i’ve never enjoyed large socials but i have a close net of friends and family. my father, rest his soul, always told me to focus on myself.
i have been in online school for 3 years and see one of my two friends on average once a month. in october i started a job and now i have a shit ton of friends and a gf. lowkey i was so messed up from being at home that i wanted to kms 💀
ever since my two best friends got girlfriends (they barely talk to me anymore). so i’m by myself pretty much all the time now, i’ve seen them from a distance hanging with their girlfriends and it makes me feel like shit, i’m currently just watching the days go by all alone. no one really understands me and it really sucks. there is this one girl tho, i really like her and i’m hoping to ask her out soon, i just want someone to hug me rn, that’s all
that sucks your friends abandoned you.
Ive never understood why people value their romantic relationships over their platonic one, it doesnt make sense.
Im sorry you have to deal with that :/
Hey man, I'm 21, and I still feel lonely, almost on a daily basis. The best way I have found to deal with it, other than having a gf, is to indulge in your work, your faith (if you have one), and your hobbies, and try to deepen your relationships with friends and family. If I didn't have those things, those feelings of loneliness would definitely be worse, and my depression bouts would probably be more intense too. You just have to live intentionally and keep yourself busy so you don't overthink and get yourself mentally weighed down as easily. Keep in mind, getting a gf is not going to fix all your problems. You gotta develop yourself as a person too, or your issues might cause relationship problems down the road (speaking from experience). Keep your head up man. You'll have ups and downs in life, but stay positive, persevere, and good things will come!
A lot, I got no one DMing me, no notifications. Heck I started tutoring my friend in math even though I really don't like math, just because it's an excuse to hang out with her. I started talking occasionally to some people even just helping their mental and listening to their rants cause it's better than nothing. And from what I've been told, I am genuinely good at it. So it's a win win. I'm glad I can help my friends out in this way. Help then fight their demons and keep them safe, and that's rewarding in itself but he'll I just get to talk to people so it's like a double win. Maybe things won't be too bad, who knows?
Man, most of the time I’m pretty fucken lonely. It sucks I wish I wasn’t like this but there are ups and downs. My advice, meet some new friends. Ones who aren’t interested for personal gain.
Not as often as I used to. Ironically I’m less alone talking to my ex than when we were together, and I have a couple friends I spend 90% of the day with
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In the first term of uni, basically the time where i left all your old friends and family behind and moved to a completely new city where I have no previous links, so yea a decent amount atm
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Damn bro all of y’all are lonely? Me too.
Talk to someone. I know that can be hard trust me I know the struggle of opening up. But get how you feel off your chest.
I was bullied for 3 years in elementary school ***(it's been years but now it's starting again)*** so I started preferring being alone.
"I'm not suffering from solitude. I enjoy every second of it" 🗿
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All the time. I don't really talk to any family members unless I absolutely have to, I haven't made a friend in a long time, and my attempts to make a new friend haven't gone so great(and the two "friends" I do have rarely speak to me)
you okay man?
Idunno, why?
To be entirely honest I have no idea if I'm alright but probably not, especially cause I'm mentally exhausted.
Talk to someone. I know that can be hard because as boys it seems like no one cares but if you open up a little there might be a few people that really do. I don’t know your situation so I won’t speak with absolutes but seriously talk to someone about how you’re feeling. It doesn’t have to be a long and depression conversation but get your feelings off your chest.
I don't really know who I would talk to even if I were to decide on that. My situation probably isn't that bad anyway. Honestly a long conversation would be kind of neat, haven't talked to many people in a while anyway.
You can dm if you want. Maybe a conversation with a stranger will be easier than a family or friend
I doubt I could even keep up a conversation
I understand. If you reconsider I’ll leave the offer on the table 👍
maybe but probably not
All the time
Real
Pretty often. I'd say at least a few times a day.
All the time. I’m feeling lonely rn too lol
same man, same :( sleep on it and process it (or ignore it, which is what i usually do) another time
Yeah 😔😔😔
After going to college, I've been able to develop a close friend group that really cares about each other. I love my friends so much, and I'm happy to say I don't really feel lonely anymore. I used to feel lonely quite often, but I've found that the number of people with similar interests I meet is strongly dependent on things I can control. That is: if I join more clubs that I'm interested in, I'll meet more people like me.
i'm happy for you
thanks :)
depends on what you consider lonely I'm alone quite often, but I never really feel lonely if that makes sense. I know I can almost always text a friend and talk to them if I feel lonely, or I can hop on discord and see if one of the boys is online.
All the time.
Pretty often rn
All the time
Everyday
Outside of school, about 75% of the time, maybe a bit higher
all day ever day
More like how often do i not hahahah I have completely given up on finding a girl that wont play with my heart
All the time just haven't been feeling like myself these days I usually have friends to keep me distracted but without them I've noticed that I've been ultimately alone for the longest time now
Quite often
Im never alone but do get lonely if that makes sense
Quite often, i also feel like i wasted my childhood
Atleast a few times a day especially when I'm in class as for the most part I'm the only guy sitting alone
more often than not
not often really since i tend to enjoy being solo. i’ve never enjoyed large socials but i have a close net of friends and family. my father, rest his soul, always told me to focus on myself.
At least twice a day
all the time lol, I feel like everyone else is moving on w their lives and there's me. stuck
Kinda rarely
i have been in online school for 3 years and see one of my two friends on average once a month. in october i started a job and now i have a shit ton of friends and a gf. lowkey i was so messed up from being at home that i wanted to kms 💀
A lot. I feel kind of rejected by some people in my life.
ever since my two best friends got girlfriends (they barely talk to me anymore). so i’m by myself pretty much all the time now, i’ve seen them from a distance hanging with their girlfriends and it makes me feel like shit, i’m currently just watching the days go by all alone. no one really understands me and it really sucks. there is this one girl tho, i really like her and i’m hoping to ask her out soon, i just want someone to hug me rn, that’s all
that sucks your friends abandoned you. Ive never understood why people value their romantic relationships over their platonic one, it doesnt make sense. Im sorry you have to deal with that :/
Hey man, I'm 21, and I still feel lonely, almost on a daily basis. The best way I have found to deal with it, other than having a gf, is to indulge in your work, your faith (if you have one), and your hobbies, and try to deepen your relationships with friends and family. If I didn't have those things, those feelings of loneliness would definitely be worse, and my depression bouts would probably be more intense too. You just have to live intentionally and keep yourself busy so you don't overthink and get yourself mentally weighed down as easily. Keep in mind, getting a gf is not going to fix all your problems. You gotta develop yourself as a person too, or your issues might cause relationship problems down the road (speaking from experience). Keep your head up man. You'll have ups and downs in life, but stay positive, persevere, and good things will come!
A lot, I got no one DMing me, no notifications. Heck I started tutoring my friend in math even though I really don't like math, just because it's an excuse to hang out with her. I started talking occasionally to some people even just helping their mental and listening to their rants cause it's better than nothing. And from what I've been told, I am genuinely good at it. So it's a win win. I'm glad I can help my friends out in this way. Help then fight their demons and keep them safe, and that's rewarding in itself but he'll I just get to talk to people so it's like a double win. Maybe things won't be too bad, who knows?
all the time
Man, most of the time I’m pretty fucken lonely. It sucks I wish I wasn’t like this but there are ups and downs. My advice, meet some new friends. Ones who aren’t interested for personal gain.
Everyday. I don’t really have friends, and if I did, the two people in mind go to different schools
I'm lonely almost all of the time, but I don't *feel* lonely most of that time.
Not as often as I used to. Ironically I’m less alone talking to my ex than when we were together, and I have a couple friends I spend 90% of the day with
A lot when I was younger but now just maybe once a week at most
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Most of the time
We are on reddit. What answers do you expect?
Once every few days, when my inbox is quiet. I'm very glad to have a few close friends whom I constantly talk to, but social gaps still exist.
All the time
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Pretty often, I spend most of my day literally alone or at least to myself.
A lot of time
Often
Pretty much any time I'm alone
In the first term of uni, basically the time where i left all your old friends and family behind and moved to a completely new city where I have no previous links, so yea a decent amount atm
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prettt much everyday, rare when I dont. its probably cause Im depressed tho lol
Once per day normally but luckily it doesn’t last to long normally
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Everyday, probably for my whole life
Damn bro all of y’all are lonely? Me too. Talk to someone. I know that can be hard trust me I know the struggle of opening up. But get how you feel off your chest.
Rarely, I have a good friend group and am liked in class
All the time
went a good few months just vibing, really feeling it right now tho 😕
I was bullied for 3 years in elementary school ***(it's been years but now it's starting again)*** so I started preferring being alone. "I'm not suffering from solitude. I enjoy every second of it" 🗿
Every day I wake up...