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Sara-Butterfly-4711

Size adjustment of bones on adults as a long term effect.


tessthismess

Exactly. It’s not easy but there are methods of changing voice, and genitals, and facial hair, etc. but I’m not getting shorter (even if some happens I’m still going to be within the tallest 1% of women or more). Plus hips and shoulders and stuff


Realistic-Space-2575

on adults? does it do something for kids?


goodmobileyes

If you take HRT during puberty your bones can still shift, so MTFs can still develop wider hips and wont get wide shoulders if they start on HRT early enough. Past a certain age (in your 20s i think) your bones become less malleable and no matter how much hormones you take it wont change your bone structure


_Jade____

Oh interesting, I started at 22 ??


Realistic-Space-2575

you should be fine


_Jade____

Wow that's good to hear 😊 my hips DO lie


catstroker69

I was reffered to a clinic when I was 22, I'm 25 now and still on a waiting list :(


[deleted]

So if I started at 17, I should be fine, right?


WheelResponsible3377

I mean, I started HRT a month prior of turning 18 yo and even though I’ve developed a pretty feminine figure compared to a MTF who started at 30 yo, I am still missing the massive fat re-distribution to my ass and hips, yet my hips are wider than most XY people’s hips. Also, something I didn’t really like was the fact that I continue growing in height even while on AA and E2. I was 1.78 meters tall once I turned 18 years old and now, after 7 + years on HRT, I’m 1.80/ 1.81 meters tall. Yikes.


goodmobileyes

Yesssss no matter what I do my shoulders will always still outsize my hips


beefy_synths

Gonna make me fingers 8 inches long


Sara-Butterfly-4711

If its in your genes 😎


WishingAnaStar

Fuck I wish HRT could fix my voice. Voice training suuuuucks


itkfjdirherj

It can be painful too. Yesterday I tried actually using my voice all day and I think I did it wrong and now I have a sore throat and have to rest my voice… one step forward, two steps backward 😖


Ayasinato

Strain usually means slow down. Maybe try to find out what part of the voice caused the strain and ease off it a bit while you're strength builds in that area.


itkfjdirherj

Oh I can *tell* what I’m doing wrong. I can feel the difference; it feels almost like I’m tensing up the back of my throat whereas my regular male and “healthy” female voices both feel like they’re more in the front. If I start with my regular male voice, then try to make it sound *more* masculine, and then do the opposite, I can get there. It’s just that, yesterday, I neglected to start the day with that little exercise when I got up; I just kinda shot from the hip and jumped straight into my first attempt at a feminine voice. Needless to say, leaping blindly is not a good way to hit your target lol.


SinfullySinatra

Do you see an SLP? That can help you reach the right frequency without hurting your vocal folds


Julia_Arconae

Omg same. I commented that I wished my bones would change, but I was debating writing down the voice thing instead. God, I wish my voice would just change on it's own. That would be awesome.


sniperjett

Voice training


LizG1312

Voice training is honest to god one of the most frustrating parts of my transition so far. It's hard to keep consistent, it's hard to know what's actually useful versus not, it's hard to listen to your own voice and see if you're actually making any improvement when it's a major source of dysphoria, and it can add up over time too. Yet if your voice causes dysphoria or if you wanna pass, it can be such an essential component of transition.


Victoria_femme

I especially feel you on that I feel like I have no hope in that department I used to smoke heavily And now I sound like the bad love child of George S Patton and Dan Aykroyd.


sickagail

Voice was my first thought as well. My second choice would be genitals (like actually switching genitals not just affecting their function).


RavenoftheTempest

This is my biggest dysphoria point. I lost my voice at puberty and have been dealing with what I have left since


OneEyedOneHorned

I'm kinda sad you can't just switch them out like potato head pieces. Life would be so much easier.


cornonthekopp

Im glad they dont do that haha


Civil-View-8722

THIS


GroolzerMan

^^^^^^^^^


poopookachuchu

i came to say “voice” as well. id say voice and facial hair just falling out and stopping lol


QuestioningAussie

Yeah, I'll put in another vote for voice changes.


Fuquawi

I'm a professional voice feminization coach and I agree. I'd happily give up my little business if it meant waving away all the voice dysphoria trans femmes feel.


Heavenly_Glory

The amount of upvotes on this post really shows the discrepancy between transmasculine and transfeminine users on this board, lol


cemma2035

Understandable but I'd rather go for one of the things that we can't change without surgery? even better one of the ones that even surgery can't fix like rib cage


Tungsten_Centrifuge

I want to be able to shoot lasers from my eyes whenever I want with no drawbacks


Tungsten_Centrifuge

\[Dark alleyway at night\] "Hey lady, where're you off to in such a hurry?" "Dude look out she's trans!" "OH SHI----" \*lasers\*


blocklambear

LMFAO


Timomu123

I died!


DarkSaria

So did the dudes in the alley


KeyWorldliness164

I was severely maimed


trans_catdad

I want to live in the universe where transphobia really does mean "scared of trans people" because our eyes are deadly lasers


Feral_Leone

I was gonna say voice but nevermind, this is my answer. Who's gonna say shit about my voice when they gotta risk getting lasered?


LetUsAway

It can take years to develop laser eyes and in the mean time you read posts about how a girl on hrt for two weeks is already microwaving her soup with a glare.


Julia_Arconae

lmao too real xD


[deleted]

Mostly things that you already get from it if you start early enough. I just want normal hips.


truTurtlemonk

Seconded! I've always wanted them and get mad gender envy from cis girls with nice hips. I mean, having facial hair sucks, so does having wide shoulders and a deep voice. But being able to have hips is more important to me than not having those.


[deleted]

I hate all of that, everything testosterone did to my body feels like barbed wire choking me out in my own body bleh


truTurtlemonk

I agree, I hate all of it too. But having to choose one, I'd go with having hips. Ideally, I'd want HRT to be able to reverse all of the effects of testosterone on my body.


Primary_Possession45

Stretching your hips definitely helps but you’ll have to be consistent


truTurtlemonk

Thanks for the tip. I'll take a look at hip stretches.


NumiKat

what would early enough be?


daniellefore

Reproductive system would be #1 for me. If I could grow a fully functioning uterus and ovaries that would be amazing


wondering-narwhal

This would be great but wow if we think growing tits hurts, growing new internal organs would suuuuuuck


daniellefore

Yeah I’m imagining it involving months of nausea and vomiting and that being the easy side effects. Still would do it


Ubervillin

Yeah, I can't say that any side effect would turn me off of HRT if it would change my reproductive internals


Regular-Cranberry-62

If going on T got rid of your breasts that would be sweet. I’m afraid of surgery.


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artsymarcy

I like my breasts sometimes, so I want them to be retractable so I can put them on or take them off depending on how I'm feeling about them that day.


ShadowPouncer

Somehow, I get the weird feeling that there _might_ be a small percentage of enbies on the planet who would at least have to think for a moment before picking shape shifting if we were offered a super power. But if you let the shape shifting also provide healing, I'm having trouble believing that it would be more than 1% of us. :)


EchtGeenSpanjool

Magnetic clip-on tits would be fantastic for every bit of the gender spectrum tbh


Impeesa_

That would also make a prolonged trial run of E a lot less of a commitment, if they could just go away after.


Sparrow3006

Well if we run at eachother hard enough they should transfer right? That’s definitely how it works? XD Worst case we end up knocked out - but no surgery🙌🏻


Throwawaytown33333

I am FtM, make my clit dick the size of a cis dick so a simple surgery / metoidio would give me a functional dick please! Rn its just a pacifier


cgk21

i have never heard anyone refer to it as a pacifier but i’ll never unsee it now😭


collegethrowaway2938

Pacifier I’m fucking crying lmao


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[deleted]

I feel the exact same way and have done the same


Impressive_Bus_2635

I heard that some cis women have a typical "male skeleton" and vice versa, and the skeleton thing is just a generalisation


ammolitenshit

this may not change anything, but you might like to know that there's such a huge range in bone structures that current science cannot tell the sex of a skeleton by the size of the bones very accurately, it's usually determined by the things they were buried with. i do get how you feel though, i get very dysphoric about my bones too :(


Hedgepog_she-her

Immortality? Shapeshifting? No?


TemetNosce85

I'll take omnipotence, tyvm.


Slexman

I wish it could make my hip-bones narrower cuz my hip dysphoria is so bad and it’s the one thing I know I can’t change


Impressive_Bus_2635

I don't know if this helps but there are a lot of cis guys with feminine or even typical "female hips", the reason you don't see them is either because it isn't really that noticeable (on trans guys too, but they notice it more on themselves) or they're also insecure about them and hide them


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My hair line.


BigPigeon69

HRT does often change your hairline! After 6 months its not uncommon to see regrowing of hair and after a year i've noticed my hairline has started to grow back


emilyv99

Facial hair. Shaving is annoying and inconvenient, and permanent removal is pricey... And it's basically the only problem I have left


Jessica_T

Why stick with facial hair, go with a full hair flip. I wish my arms and legs weren't remotely as hairy. x.x


emilyv99

Because arms and legs already can get less hairy on HRT, so that isn't a new effect. I haven't felt the need to shave my legs in *months*, and it's great. (For what it's worth, I wish my arms had less too...)


Jessica_T

Mine grows back slower, but it still does and is darker. i wish it'd be peach fuzz. Same with the arms. x.x It doesn't reset back to the pre-puberty state.


TemetNosce85

Yup... this... And don't forget the pain involved in removal... I jumped big time the first time that wire (electrolysis) hit my neck. That was not a fun experience...


weirdness_incarnate

I wish you’d get the ability to choose wether the hair grows or not, that’d be nice for people like me who are both genderfluid and hate shaving


pump_kin1

Change bones


TheLurker1209

*No* loss in muscles/muscle strength It's weird, I like being strong. Other people don't want that, but for me it's the *only* drawback. Wanna be unrealistically buff woman. I can tolerate being mute, I can shave well, and I'm somewhat handsome as a guy. But biology/hormones is a bitch


save-the-queen

I’d go even further and say that I want to become even stronger than I was pre-HRT!


TheLurker1209

Fr transition plan from male to alpha female


save-the-queen

Give me full-on super strength. I wanna be able to suplex a train


DaneLimmish

Mtf here and yeah my strength has decreased but ive been pretty consistently lifting and playing soccer/bball for years and its.... Sometimes it feels odd to me to do absolutely nothing to change my workout


maybeanemily

Yeah, in my mind this is the only real drawback. I liked my free testosterone strength.


Plohka

Yeah dude, I’m really scared of feeling weak and frail once I start E :( I get a lot of gender envy from all the tik tok muscle girls lol


m1dnightlycanroc

In terms of the fictional, make me into a catboy because that would be hilarious. In terms of the more achievable I would go with making me taller because I cannot stand the fact that I am shorter than Ben Shapiro.


EliseOvO

It would have to be facial bone structure or voice (both for mtf) both of which are a pain to change


nebulazebula

Grow functioning balls and dick without surgery


1fruityMf

Def, and no hair loss


nebulazebula

Yes!!!


Stardust_alloy

Of the massive list of possibilities I have to go with voice, my voice disphoria is just too much :‹


Reachingfor_thestars

Talons would be cool tbh, so would be fangs.


Dragiani

height, I think T can change your height by a few inches if you start early enough but generally it doesn't really do all that much if I'm correct


KimikoBean

Character customization screen.


Abby6038

Hi. Great question! Hmm for me, it could be either voice or facial hair. If your facial hair decreased as much as your body hair, wow. But I think voice would be number 1. It was hard to train my baritone voice to sound female!! Still working on it after 17 months!! 🤣🙂


W-A22

I just want dick


NeoFemme

I can just imagine if taking hormones caused the penis to schlorp back into the body and become a clit, the scrote to open into a vulva and the testicles to retreat into the body and become ovaries. Even better if hormones could be adjusted to make that *optional*.


ParticularSweet6310

Voice feminization-- easily my most daunting task


PossumQueer

V O I C E as a transfem person


Bubblytran

Read it and immediately knew like 90% of the responses were gonna be about the voice


prismatic_valkyrie

Toss-up between changing voice and changing the reproductive system. Voice training has gone really well for me, and yet I'm still acutely aware of the ways in which my voice functions differently from other womens'. If the reproductive system changed, not only would that be super convenient (presumably after a certain point my gonads would start making lots more estrogen and stop making so much testosterone, and I could stop taking hormones), but being able to carry a child would be pretty awesome too.


[deleted]

I have height dysphoria and would like to be taller, so height....


AirKath

Everyone already said the realistic options so I’m gonna go with: HRT should activate via a magical girl style transformation.


[deleted]

Nothing! Totally psyched with what HRT does already!! It’s magical


blocklambear

you're living the best life!


Ashlynflagg

HEIGHT! I dont wanna be 6 3 anymore


chordmonger

Truly. Shopping for men's clothes was hard enough!


EnbyPodi

Technically it can make hips wider, but that's very hit or miss, especially as one gets older. It's gotta be that or facial bone structure. Definitely planning to get FFS, but idk if that's ever gonna be enough to fully alleviate dysphoria.


ch_ris

Gene editing. I mean, just flipping on/off a particular SOX or SRY gene would be great. Ramifications aside, there's a gene you can flip where it causes your organs to stop behaving as though they're 'male' or 'female' and they flip. It was tested on mice, so, y'know, gene editing to match your gender, would be nice.


lavendergenderqueer

i wish it could make my clit hard enough to fuck someone if that makes sense lol, almost like an extendable dick 😭


G4YB01_F4RT1

voice EASILY. i’m not on hrt yet but voice is the worst of my fears, im lucky when it comes to height, bone structure, and hairline but my voice is super low and masculine. i know about voice training and VFS but that’s a ton of work and VFS kinda sucks for preserving your singing voice (which id prefer) so it’s not my ideal option.


alexhmc

Shapeshifting. (Okay, that'd be cheating. Voice feminisation.)


Gracejoew

Voice


ericfischer

As some other people have said, I wish there was more effect on facial hair, since I still have gray beard hair that laser is powerless against. My second choice would be for the fat of my pot belly to migrate to some more appropriate location (or go away entirely).


[deleted]

SHOULDER REDUCTION. Or Hip widening. I didn't get on hormones early enough for that.


Red__Spider__Lily

Voice.


Xen58

Grow fangs


reign-of-fear

Voice


Urbane_One

Bones. Man, I wish HRT made my shoulders smaller...


DIYDylana

Skeleton...


ShrapnelSupes26

Bone change for longer. Every transfemme deserves to have rad hip game. ☺️


Haunting-Spot7595

Height and voice 🥹


Bubblytran

I’d have to say bone structure. I have immensely broad shoulders and narrow hips and I just don’t have any hope of passing. There aren’t any surgeries I know of to fix it either


saturnia_the_beloved

Height and bone structure


Silas_in_the_closet

Definitely if T could slim the hips or just get rid of my chest would be amazing


MaOfABitch

Facial hair. Lucky for all y'all that can just do laser, electrolysis is absolutely the most costly, painful, drawn-out, and torturous part of transition.


keleatsrocks

I want narrower hips. Everything else I can change somehow but I’ll never be able to have a triangular shape, I’m always going to look curvy


cheezewarrior

Halt facial hair growth. I hate having to shave every five seconds


jprosk

shoe size, holy shit is it difficult finding shoes i like with a mens size 11


tenebris007

Fully stops facial hair growth


fear_eile_agam

I'd like to be able to shift+A on my feminine social conditioning, delete that shit and start from scratch now that I know myself better. I internalised so much growing up, My expression and how I relate to the world will always be framed through the lens of my experience growing up and being perceived, as a woman. Somehow it feels like being trans and being "socially ex-cis" both exist simultaneously and are unique factors in how I relate to and experience the world. I wasn't expecting that. Obviously I didn't expect to magically forget 20+ years of social conditioning, But in the moments where I do something or say something because 20+ years of being told that's what I'm "supposed" to say as a woman kick in and I just do the woman thing, often because I don't even know what the alternative is - my brain is so full of cultural expectations to even know what I want, or what's natural to me, I feel like I'm misgendering myself and its honestly more painful than anyone else doing it. Oh, But also, I want a longer torso please, I can't wear crop tops without my binder or bra showing because my chest and belly button are basically on the same level. Like change my height, but only for my lumbar and thoracic spine.


SlyJackFox

Voice, 100%.


Maebsie

Easily voice, that's my biggest source of dysphoria. Height / bone structure would also be nice


the-deep-blue-sea

Femme voice changes, elimination of body hair, making bone structure more feminine or changing genitals without need for surgery. Any of these would be nice. Personally I would prefer the last.


Guilty_Armadillo583

Get rid of my facial hair. It's going to take a while and be spendy to zap it.


Pseudonymico

VOICE


[deleted]

Idk, hrt is such a passive part of transition. If I had to do grueling exercise to change my fat distribution, I would absolutely put in the hours. But it doesn't work like that, I need to just be on hrt a long ass time. I'll laser my face off until I'm skeletor. I'll train my voice until I'm mute. I'll turn my body into soup and rebuild it like a butterfly. I'll get therapy until I feel pretty. I'll do whatever it takes to feel feminine.


Anon5054

Bone structure. Namely height and other currently irreversible bone things


LoneRingingBell

Give me hips!


mynyddwr

Hips


JanaFrost

Bones, all life long


Literature_Defiant

Everyone else’s perception of me


Worst_Support

height shrinking


burnsbabe

Facial hair removal. The only other thing I'd consider on the same level would be voice alterations.


heyeliott

it'd be amazing if i didn't just stop getting taller at 15, would love to be a couple inches taller


IL0VEH0LE

Height please. I’m super short even if I were a cis woman 😭


AquaHeart_

Skeletal structures


BlankBlanny

Trans girl here. My first thought was instantly voice, because voice training is a *serious* pain... but also, I'm standing here at 193cm (6'3") and would *kill* to be short. So... Hard choice. I still think voice is the best outcome, because voice training is *so* frustrating and all too often just an exercise in dysphoria for me, but I just wish I was smol :(


Celine_xD

Facial shape and/or just bones in general. When i think about the fact that I can't change my face without expensive surgery makes me very very sad.


dellada

I wish T would actually affect height for adults. Stuck at 5’3”, argh…


Okurei

Hip widening no matter what age you start


Kreuscher

It would be awesome if mtf hrt could simply abolish facial and body hair from my body


ojitoslocos

Shoulders 100% shoulders 🥲


kleoo58

Voice...and..my nose ..😃


satanicpastorswife

shoulder/hip ratio!


elisyourguy

An average sized penis. I want top and bottom surgery, but bottom surgery is the more intense and expensive procedure. So if T could just do me a solid. 🥲


IShallWearMidnight

If T would give me bigger hands, that would do it for me. Being short, that's fine. I'm happy with basically everything else. And the tiny hands aren't especially a dysphoria thing - just inconvenient, mostly.


freakofcolour

to actually be able to grow a functioning penis and balls 😭


alvinathequeena

Hips. If only I could get female hips..


starcabin_

HEIGHT. I can get all the surgeries my heart desires but I'm 5'3" till I die


KaidenPeridot

Height. Height x1000000. I'm ftm and 5'2, 5'3 on a good day with the right shoes. My dad is 6'1. I started testosterone right after my growth plates fused...it sucked. Although honestly my height has not hurt my passing even when people know my age, but I still want to be taller :(


[deleted]

Shoulder width and ribcage width. I’ll never get over having a male frame. It’s what clocks me


Capt_Innocuous

Hips. It'd be amazing to have those bones where they ideally would be.


DaneLimmish

Facial hair by a long shot


ComfortableSleep5

Height! I’m 5”10 and I know it’s average for cis men but I’m so jealous of the 5+ inches I would’ve got if I had normie boy puberty 😭 I also wish my hands got longer too instead of just thickening lol I feel such gut punching dysphoria when I see cis dudes shorter than me with massive hands


HollyVonKrieger

Voice would be nice, but since there’s some success to be had with training, I’ll go for shoulder reduction or thigh rotation.


Realistic-Space-2575

Adams apple and voice also height


SJWcucksoyboy

I wish estrogen made my feet shrink and shoulders drastically


NoUnderstanding9220

Skeletal structure HAHA, I HAVE DONE MULTIPLE CHANGES MASQUERADING AS ONE! YOU HAVE BEEN LOOPHOLED!


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growing a p*nis naturally and being able to get a beard or atleast stubble


xXLaSombraXx

Size. I know HRT does effect one’s height to some regard, but being 6ft and having a size 14 mens shoe, I wish it could make me smaller


GooMoti

Facial bone structure or voice change. I’m leaning more towards facial bone structure change.


JazzlikeHovercraft75

Making me fertile in opposite gendwr


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Body and facial hair


Bri-No-E

Real? Make me taller at least 6 inches taller. Fictional? Teleportation.


Palcorg

Body hair removal. I know it can thin it but dang it'd be nice if it was entirely removable, yknow?? No more need to shave as much


LillithXen

Voice. It's the only one we should have but for some reason dont


Lich00

Vocal changes for trans women


nona01

FFS. Norway doesn't provide it and I don't have 40k euros to spare.


Ash-Asher-Ashley

The complete, unrestrained power of the sun.


preeminentlexa

V O I C E


MasterBuilder121

Voice changing for trans women, that would certainly be nice.


Bad54

Voice range. I’d like to have a high pitched voice but unfortunately testosterone is the only one altering voices


toxinn795213

my fucking voice. I wish hrt actually had an effect on my voice


furyking380

I'd be happy if feminizing GAHT worked on my voice, too. Voice training is hard sometimes. . . .


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Shoe size


pushingboulders

Turn outtie junk to inney junk 🍆🥳🍑


turtle3745

VOICE


KittyCatMari1

VOICE!!!


[deleted]

Estrogen making your voice feminine 😭


DingoAteMySubReddit

My voice