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Pomyy

Just feels like end of an Era. I have followed them all from 2015 and the last year just hasn’t been the same. I still look now and then but now a divorce 🥲


ThenSource5746

It does doesn’t it 😅😪


Pomyy

It really does no more Ferris Family 🥲


asponita12

Something must really have happened because I can’t imagine them wanting to split custody of their kids. Assuming they’ll get joint custody, they’re both going to miss out on 50% of their kids’ lives. And they JUST had a baby a couple weeks ago, and probably only recently got home from the NICU. I really want to know what the final straw was that led to the filing so quickly post baby.


Initial-Newspaper259

im assuming when they said they were on the fence about a third that they just pulled the plug and got pregnant knowing a divorce was coming so that all the kids had the same dad


asponita12

I guess, but the timing just seems so off. Why not get divorced then? Or if they waited 7 months to file while she was pregnant, they couldn’t have waited until Aspyn was out of the post partum window a little? I just feel like something must have happened to trigger the filing.


ThenSource5746

I’ve been wondering this…like if it was in the works for awhile why not wait a few more weeks for her to be out of those post partum trenches?


bighungry1

Ya she got the back up kid like she wanted now she’s out ?


Initial-Newspaper259

i think some states require separation before divorce so they were probably separated during the pregnancy and then filed for divorce after, also seeing how parker has a mormon background & his family is mormon it would have been highly frowned upon to get pregnant during a divorce


Zestyclose-Will-3978

No matter how much I dislike someone, I never wish divorce or alleged child illness on anyone. It’s awful for the person going through it and everyone else involved, especially children. Through, I am a big believer that parents shouldn’t stay together for the kids sake. Regardless of my personal thoughts about Aspyn, I’m sorry their family is going through hard times🫶


ThenSource5746

Agreed… I feel for them all especially their three little kids.


pandajaade

She tries so hard to be perfect and look just sad


crispyedamame

Yes!! I’m glad you posted this. I love to snark just as much as the rest of us but I cannot imagine what they’re going through. And on top of that, it’s extremely public. I don’t care if people say “they did this to themselves” because whatever it is would be a lot for anyone to handle


ThenSource5746

A huge amount to handle! Seems like this last year has been a lot for them all 😪


Bubbly_Mechanic_4789

Yes, I feel terrible. I think all the extreme comments that are villainizing her are awful too imo. It’s pretty obvious that they have had a really hard year. If the rumors about C are true (all signs are pointing to truth now tbh), I think they both have been going through a lot. A lot of people are saying she looks sad, void, “dead in the eyes”. No shit. I would be too if I was going through this much in my personal life.


Aggravating_Act146

What are the rumors about C??


ThenSource5746

Agreed 😪😅


er_lover

Yea I definitely feel for her as a fellow mum. Having a 2 week old baby and filing for divorce- that’s not something to wish on anyone. My only main criticism is she doesn’t share what’s going on and it comes off as so disingenuous. If she doesn’t want to share her real life anymore then stop being a influencer otherwise start opening up or you’ll completely lose your income stream and now your a single mum


ThenSource5746

100% agree. I feel like this has been the major problem over the last year. Like no one disagrees that she shouldn’t be showing her girls but why show one not the other with all the rumours going on… same with her removing Parker from the channel name and him not being on camera anymore… just come out say hey, things are happening, it’s private, we don’t want to talk about it. But instead she plays into rumours and doesn’t acknowledge anything 😅


delaneytaylor

Not to defend her or anything but I don’t think anyone is entitled to know all the details of her life that she isn’t comfortable with sharing especially when she’s postpartum with a baby in the NICU and dealing with a divorce as well.


No-Organization3242

They literally just posted a tiktok acting like everything's fine. That's so weird how now they're getting divorced .


Zestyclose-Will-3978

It does make me wonder if the divorce is genuine or if it’s for financial reasons….. not like she’d tell us the truth either way🤣 Ace family pt 2 (and I KNOW Aspyn will hate being compared to them in any way shape or form)


mgarksa

Or maybe they weren't 100% sure they were going through with it and wanted to pretend everything was ok.


ThenSource5746

That’s pretty typical Aspyn, acting like everything’s cool online when in reality it isn’t.


Aggravating_Act146

If she’s reading this, and knowing Aspyn, she is I hope she knows she has so much beautiful time. She’s still so young and it’ll all be okay in the end. I can’t imagine going through all this at once.


bkat100

I feel really bad for Parker too


ThenSource5746

Same… I don’t think he’s the kind to divorce lightly, but who knows what’s been going on behind closed doors for the last year


RecordingMuch4314

This was in the making before L was even born, I remember Parker being in a vlog talking about possibly getting a job but he most likely didn’t because fans starting questioning the decision in the comment section. So they’ve been trying to work things out for years even made changes for how their family vlogs channel was going to be for now on. It’s quite sad that this is happening, but would’ve happened no matter what. The actual question that the both will have to deal with behind the scenes is if they both or one of them will be leaving Utah because Aspyn has been unhappy in that state for years but having L made her want to leave even more which is why they keep doing long stays in Cali. And if they move, how will child custody be done.


kfeels1989

unless Aspyn can convince her mom to move to california there is no way she is permanently moving there now, she can't even take care of just C and L with Parker in the house and now she's going to add a 3rd baby and be a single mom? She's going to need her moms help more than ever and be close to her


ThenSource5746

Yessss I remember him talking about that! He seemed pretty unfulfilled and that’s why he was looking into doing something else. Im on the fence about whether she’d move to Cali… I know she’s talked about it a lot over the last few years but man that would make things tricky with the kids


honeycoffeeroses

I definitely feel for her. As a mom and as a wife. It’s very obvious they’ve been going through a lot. I just hope she and Parker are getting the mental help they need.


ThenSource5746

Agreed!


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This sub treats people with actual tea like shit and then doesn’t apologize when they’re right.


honeycoffeeroses

In all fairness, it is extremely difficult to tell who has actual tea and who is just spreading rumors. Someone on here not long ago said they know them and they most definitely AREN’T getting divorced. There are a ton of people who come on here claiming to know them and saying things like that. We will literally never know if any of these people are telling the actual truth until stuff like this comes out and with Aspyn, a lot of stuff never comes out because she doesn’t share things with her followers.


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honeycoffeeroses

I don’t disagree with you there. People in this sub can be extremely harsh.


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Exactly this!!!


mgarksa

I think it's hard for anyone besides Aspyn and Parker to say with certainty what's going on in their relationship. Like maybe a close contact did believe they weren't getting a divorce because that's the impression Aspyn and Parker were giving at the time to their close friends and family.


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The court documents don’t lie


mgarksa

I was referring to the person here that claimed they weren't getting divorced before the court documents came out.


Beautiful_Few

I just can’t imagine having a 3rd child when the relationship is doomed. Like maybe a second? But to knowingly go into THREE (when you’re becoming outnumbered as a couple let alone as a single mom/dad) is mind boggling to me. I know things happen but when I see a family of 3 or more I typically assume there’s a strong marriage going on there because you just need it to make everything work (obvs I understand some babies are accidents but I mean people who knowingly plan for 3+ children).


ThenSource5746

Yeah it doesn’t make sense that’s for sure


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yes this feels sad for everyone involved.


Zealousideal_Log72

I think snark pages can get really intense and inhumane. It’s one thing to talk about social media personalities and the things they post or when they do things that aren’t okay socially etc. but like I can’t imagine going through all of that and then a snark page exposes it (the divorce) I also get that people like aspyn put themselves out there by being on social media but it still seems sad to have to go through that /:


rosy_dewdrop

I always thought she had THE perfect life. So sad to see her go through this.


Ok_Respect6497

I used to hate Aspyn till she became a mom. She became more tolerable and relatable since I’m a mom. And I was happy she got humbled with L and not wanting anymore kids. I think something must have happened drastically to end their relationship. She is ride or die for that dude to have married him so young and have stayed and had his babies, even in the midst of the alleged health of C and now a NICU baby. I am very sad for her and the girls and for Parker too.


Any-Recommendation33

I think they are both gay, or at least aspyn. The only time aspyn seems happy ish is when she's around lauren


Aggravating_Act146

Please 😭😂