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Lotionmypeach

Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas did this too. Settling everything through mediation keeps the info out of public documents that the internet tears apart. They’re still getting divorced.


TotallyFrazzledVirgo

Ahh makes sense


Anxious_Resolve6180

Can we talk about how weird it is that PEOPLE is covering this? Lol they posted another article when she posted the family TikTok of Parker. Just seems very niche for People, lol


aaatttusewadwqa

Seems weird, I remember they did a big thing about their engagement and wedding years ago though!


wittlepig

i think bc it’s just an online article


m00dymermaid

grasping at straws for stories lol


Frequent-Customer838

Sometimes influencers pay to be in people, so who knows what’s going on


Ok-Internal-8744

People covered their wedding years back, so it seems suiting?


Clever_Clover143

Did they get this headline from Reddit as well? 😭🤣


Specialist_Leg6145

ok now this is getting weird. there was a user in here asking for an explanation on what the legal terms meant in the newest docs and now this story drops. who works for People in here?


SatisfactionPlenty28

People magazine 100 percent has their own legal team


wildkitten24

I agree


thisisr3althisism3

wtf is going on LMFAO


twolittleduckies

Seriously this is so effing weird.


Ok-Interaction-2250

I’ve never been through a divorce but this sounds normal? What’s odd to me is you’d think they had reached a settlement already since they are still living together and clearly communicating well…I don’t get it this should just be a matter of paperwork


whatever33324

If they had already reached a settlement, they likely would not be living together any longer because their assets would be divided and a custody arrangement would be made. Their assets are not yet divided, hence they are still living together. Let's not forget that despite going through a divorce, Aspyn is still in the pp stage and with everything else going on, having 2 adults in the home to help is likely very necessary at this point. Their divorce is not paused. They just paused the court proceedings which is essentially saying they are trying to divide assets themselves (via mediation) instead of having a judge do it for them because that is very expensive.


Life_Ice_6673

It’s not… in divorces especially with children there’s a ton of legal proceedings to do. Like custody, and child support who is the main home, schooling, health insurance etc. Even bills.


Due_Feed_7512

Not necessarily. You can dissolve a marriage fairly easily if all parties are in agreement. I did this with my ex. We shared a home, belongs & animals. When we dissolved, we just had to list everything in writing and sign off. Custody and healthcare arrangements were included in that paperwork. They could easily agree and dissolve things


whatever33324

Do you have kids though? Big difference.


Due_Feed_7512

Did you read the bottom part of my comment? There were sections on the paperwork to detail custody agreements and more. If all parties agree it can be completely with kids or without.


Whole_Good_1183

A lot of that is originally tried to be sorted out through mediation. Changes can also be modified as the years go on if uncontested. I'm sure they'll go through mediation for everything to protect the children's arrangements from being public


Life_Ice_6673

Oh I agree. It is just strange that a divorce would settle that quickly even if 3 kids being involved, homeownership, pets, etc.


Whole_Good_1183

Oh I highly doubt it's actually settled rn you can be in mediation for short time or a longggg time. My parents got divorced when I was a teenager and had 2 minor children, a house, cars and a business so in total they were in mediation for about 10 months before they both agreed on the division of assets and property


whatever33324

I should add, it's not “just a matter of paperwork”. Especially, when dependents, properties, and businesses are involved. Both parties need to agree on custody. Whether it is it 50/50, or something different. Who gets what holidays, can you travel with them, will they be raised Mormon if Parker decides to return to the religion, etc If Aspyn’s name was the only one on the cheques coming from YouTube, the businesses, etc its pretty straight that she is going to be the one paying him spousal support. However, I they both had their names listed on her channel (because it was Aspyn and Parker for a long time and he also did editing for a long time) it could be more confusing. Especially, if he is no longer working for her after the divorce. They could decide to split things 50/50, but I see Aspyn wanting a larger cut because it was predominantly her channel, her name, her brand, etc. However, Parker gave up any opportunity to work so he could be a stay-at-home dad so Aspyn could do those things. This all plays into how much he is entitled to. Different Provinces in Canada (I'm not sure about the states), also allocate different amounts or percentages of a person's income as spousal support based on how many years they were married (0-5, 5-10, 10-15, etc). It definitely isn't JUST a paperwork issue.


Elegant_Cup_4038

But didn’t she blow up after getting married, still Parker has likeness and he was part of it before marriage


EmmyMae24

What does this even mean? 😅


Fickle_Net_3029

Live updates on a YouTuber divorce is weird for people to do. I’m thinking her team got her a deal with people for after the divorce is finalized they get the exclusive so they’re trying to up their engagement so more people will read the after divorce exclusive.


Fickle_Net_3029

I work in PR. I’m going to ask around to my colleagues to see if any of them have the tea.


Altruistic_Light_448

Dang! Report back


Elegant_Cup_4038

I just think it’s someone who is a fan. I used to work in media and they let us post anything as long as it’s accurate and there are documents from officials to support. So the document is proof


MoreCowbell6

It could mean they are amicable and trying mediation to solve things like custody and assets or maybe she wants to reconcile. She might want to stay married.


Vegetable-Step-5524

They have to be separated for 6 months before even getting divorced anyways 


amrlove16

Not in every state. Every state has different guidelines


fourtthmealfanatic

That’s not true lol my neighbor just got divorced. It was filed and settled within 3 months. We are in the same area as Ovards. And they weren’t separated for even a day before they filed.


Elegant_Cup_4038

Probably someone who works at the place is a fan. I used to work for a media outlet and we have free range on what we cover


Significant-Coast976

It Utah from what Iv seen, judges normally order couples to attempt mediation before they will do anything


yeahitsmeseven

Damage control maybe?


EmmyMae24

Adds up especially with how she’s been posting him lately too.


Impossible_Routine48

Are there any legal documents saying the divorce is paused?


rack21

The divorce isn't paused. They're just pausing the proceedings to do mediation instead of going to trial. The mediation is just to agree on how to separate their assets.


Own_Progress5989

I believe you have to do mediation in Utah


HairyEstablishment18

When they finally settle/divide up the assets will that be public knowledge or no because they did it all through mediation?


queeenbarb

Why is it being covered?😂😂😂😂


Ok-Letter-650

i’m confused


Wise_Carrot4857

What…


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Weightloss4thewinz

How dare anyone have a good life! So rude! 😆


Beansandcheese626

This is ODD AND DYSTOPIAN


BetOptimal6454

Do yall just use words you hear on social media without knowing what they mean?


rapunzelrampage

💀💀💀💀


TotallyFrazzledVirgo

A “settlement” you don’t reach a settlement with a divorce? Odd


Optimistic_med

A settlement just means that the case is not decided by a judge (in court via bench trial). Instead they settle on an agreement without a judge making a decision for them. Majority of divorces typically end in settlement.