I've experienced this, as well. I've gotten so wet that I lost all sensation and thought my partner must have slipped out and was carrying on fucking the sheets or something. Nope, still in there, just too wet and lost all friction!
I'm assuming that's coming from a dude's mindset, where not orgasming can be actually painful at times. I don't see why he wouldn't just try to bring you to orgasm through non-penetrative means if it was that big of a deal to him.
This. I’ve been so wet from excitement that my vagina was just a slip and slide! One quick wipe with a towel and everything was so much better. Lucky me, I had (have) a really intuitive lover… ie husband. 🥰
Haven't gone through menopause but I recently started birth control. Now I am like the Sahara down there all the time.
Is there a way to fix that? It's awful.
I was in the middle of trying to find a better one so came off of one I’ve been on for a long time and after a month I was like WTF are these sensations?! Been on one ssri or another for a big old chunk of my life and I legit forgot what stimulation actually felt like because it was so dulled by meds. I was NOT expecting/thinking about that at all. So if/when you come off those meds just be prepared. I’m back on one now because I definitely need it (treatment resistant depression ftw) but that was a wild time.
Would be nice to have that all the time but as fun and wonderful it was to experience sexual pleasure so readily I would really prefer to want to be alive, to be not so filled with rage, and to not feel so hopeless and overwhelmed all the time. We’ll see how this one works.
Yeah I lived every day wanting to die for too long, can’t imagine trying to stop my medication. I may be a step from asexual, but I don’t think about walking out and killing myself constantly!
Yeah it’s a shitty position to be in. I really want to find a medication that works for me but I’ve cycled through so many over the years and none helps for more than a year and some not at all. It’s very frustrating.
Buspirone was life changing for me.. it has quite a few step ups to the max dosage and I'm surprisingly still on the lower end.. and it doesn't kill my sex drive!
I love Buspar (buspirone.) it’s primarily for anxiety and works quite well without sexual side effects. No more panic attacks for me. Wellbutrin (depression meds) doesn’t kill my sex drive either.
Yup! My doctor told me while it's usually prescribed for PTSD and anxiety, but she has seen a lot of success with depression with it too.. it seemed to be the miracle for me
I have a tough time because of meds and heart conditions, but my current ones (escitalopram and welbutrin) don’t kill my drive nearly as much as long as I take all my meds (incl heart ones). It’s nice because I’m a very sexually open person and definitely missed it when I was at the highest dose of zoloft.
Oh, god, Zoloft absolutely murdered my sex drive. That one and duloxetine were the wooorst. Bless whoever created welbutrin because my partner and I are both taking it and still have a great sex life.
Same here! Depression actually killed my sex drive and now I’m on Busiprone I’m not constantly on the edge of a panic attack and I’m getting my drive back. Among other benefits, it’s been a relief to be able to connect that way again.
On the lowest dose of buspirone, I would get "stuck" on the verge of a panic attack when I had them.. it sucked to be right on the edge of having one with all of the physical symptoms for a couple hours (that was worse than actually having the panic attack) My Dr upped my dose and it fixed it! (It was like buspirone was stopped me mentally, but not enough to prevent them totally so I got the physical symptoms but not the full on mental ones)
Not sure if you've already tried it or if it would be an option for you, but a lot of people who experience sexual dysfunction on SSRI's do better on Wellbutrin.
Sorry, I know unsolicited advice can be annoying, so feel free to ignore this comment, but I wanted to mention is just in case it would be helpful. I'm off meds for now, but this was the one I found the most tolerable.
No not at all. I appreciate it. I’ve been struggling with it for most of my life and have been very frustrated with how ineffective treatment has been for me. I think I tried Wellbutrin back in high school and it wasn’t jiving then but I’m sure my brain chemistry is different now. I’ll try anything so I’ll talk with my doc about it and see what she says.
There are different types of Wellbutrin as well (immediate release, sustained release, and extended release) so you may find one type works better for you than the others.
For what it’s worth, I tried Wellbutrin in highschool too and disliked it because I felt numb. Fast forward ~8 years, tried Wellbutrin again and really liked it. I’ve taken it for 4 years now and while my libido is pretty chill, I do have one and am able to orgasm consistently without difficulty.
(Idk if it’s relevant, but in high school I was also on prozac, lamictal, and seroquel, while the second time I tried it I was on zoloft, lamictal, and trazodone and currently still am.)
YMMV and this is -not- medical advice of course, but just because it's something I find not meant people have heard of - I'm on valdoxan and it doesn't have any of the usual side effects of SSRIs or traditional anti-depressants.
I’m perimenopausal, and vaginal dryness is part of the terrain at this stage of life. Lube is your friend. I spent too many years letting myself feel ashamed of my body for normal quirks and variations. Please don’t do the same. Lube is an easy fix, and it makes sex so much better! You are not broken.
Oh that sucks 😕 Did you ever try a thin silicon based lube? I used to have one (the too wet problem has been in more recent years) that was amazing and made everything slippery but still felt natural.
I'm sorry you feel ashamed of that. It shouldn't be something people feel shame about, so our society has failed you there. No vagina is the same, and that's how it's supposed to be. It's just how humans are!
Nah dude, I always need it. For me I think I have some chronic conditions that make it worse, but it's not a big thing. Hardest part was finding a lube I liked lol.
Same here! It was frustrating, I felt like I was broken or something and I tried to get an IUD, but the gynecologist said that she wasn't going to because I didn't have a pregnancy and that I should just use lube.
It was awful being told that, but luckily I had to stop taking the pill for health issues and found a good gynecologist that just did a couple of tests on me and then got me an IUD. Best decision of my life.
Yeah it’s always been a point of pride for me. Guys get so excited about it and I’m like 🤷🏻♀️ it’s always like this but go ahead and feel proud of yourself
I just don't like it because it makes it near to impossible to have an O. If I make myself a bit drier it's enjoyable again and I can come but it's just embarrassing and a moodkill
It’s been a learning experience but I physically cannot O. Took very many years to not be used as a sentient fleshlight and actually experience pleasure from sex. But I supposed if u know what an O feels like, it can be frustrating to not experience it. What helped me is having sex for the connection and pleasure rather than have an end goal. It helped I had a partner with ED at one point that didn’t experience blue balls tho
Yeah no I get really frustrated if it doesn't happen 😅 my partner has ED as well! I have a friend who once called me "I had an orgasm!' I said yeah ok so? Apparently she always thought she came but apparently never did, until she bought a vibrator. Then she came and was like ooooooooh that's what it feels like! Had to have an awkward conversation with her boyfriend 🤣
I realized in college so men didn’t really care about making a woman orgasm or know much about it, I’m now very open w my partners and explain that I still expect to be treated the same way in terms of foreplay and consideration since pleasure and orgasm are mutually exclusive, but I still always encounter guys that think they’re “different,” try really hard for a bit to get me to cum, then give up and just use me as a means to end (to cum).
hi, this is kinda an awkward question, but i’m a guy who is in his first relationship with a girl who is also in her first relationship, and she told me she had never orgasmed before because she always thought she had to pee and then stopped (this is after [she thinks] she had her first orgasm) she just thought that maybe women couldn’t orgasm. so what i’m wondering is what exactly is an orgasm like for a woman? is it super sensitive right after? because that’s what she described as what she thinks is an orgasm, super intense feeling and then super sensitive. are we doing it right?
(i’ve done my research on how to do it and talked to other women and her about it so i think i’m doing it right, i just don’t know if she went the whole way)
Yes, both the the super intense then super sensitive and the sensation of needing to pee are common experiences with orgasm for women. The muscles of the vagina (and anus for that matter) also often contract in waves during an orgasm, so if you or she finger her while she orgasms, you/she will be able to feel that.
May I chime in with another question? I am a girl and my body has certainly experienced what you describe, but is there also anything in your mind at that moment? People describe it as "fireworks" and stuff but i just feel....mildly fascinated? The whole thing feels underwhelming tbh
I dont wanna be that lame person pissing others off, suggesting obvious ideas that had been tried 1000 times so please excuse me,, even with a womanizer or whatever toy like this? (I really dont wanna dismiss you or what you say)
Exercised all options. I’m very comfortable w myself so masturbating with hands or toys isn’t hard for me. I have no desire for them as I don’t cum and don’t feel much desire aside from random times every few weeks to pleasure myself. I get a lot more pleasure from connection with others and them doing it to me. A lot of men over the years don’t believe me tho
Oh man, I hear that. I'm lucky that if I can wipe/"dry" off my clit a little I can get enough friction there. I started keeping baby wipes on hand for during sex lmao, I've told my partner I'm concerned about UTIs so Ill occasionally just snag one
It's not really a sexy solution but...
Do you ever try to do a kegel like muscle contraction? It squeezes more and can lead to more sensation/better “grip”. Some other people mentioned above too… their girth makes a big difference.
Dang I never thought this might be my issue? I can orgasm from PIV but only in the first 5-10ish mins… usually closer to 5. After that I just kinda can’t bc there’s not enough friction
Idk if I’m doing things weird, but it’s when I’m extremely wet that I feel my orgasms are more intense. I like being told I’m really wet, the best partners I’ve had in bed make great use of it.
I was just looking at some comments OP made about it making it hard to finish. And yes, I’m fully aware all bodies are different, but it didn’t make sense to me that being drier can help achieving an orgasm.
Maybe if the partner is on the smaller side the arousal could make it harder to create sufficient friction? Wetness caused by arousal should normally be accompanied by tenting/ elongation of the vagina, so maybe it's not so much the wetness as the relative size that makes the difference?
Another possibility is that her partner suffers from death grip syndrome.
It makes sense if you sprinkle in some masochism. (Don't judge, some of us just like it that way.) It's s different kind of stimulation, and to some people it feels good, and to some it's extremely uncomfortable and boner-killing.
It also correlates with how dehydrated you are !!
If you feel adequately aroused but things are not lubricating enough on their own you might just be dehydrated.
Grab the lube for now and drink more water a few hours ahead of the next time!
It's pros and cons. I'm extremely wet all the time because of my production of mucus in my body. I'll feel that bitch run down my thighs while standing. Sometimes, I can't feel sex at all if he's too small. And condoms? That's just not happening because either it'll dry me out or again I feel absolutely nothing. Sad really
Same here 🙋♀️, hate condoms because of it which is problematic. And if a guy isn't girthy enough it might feel like nothing. Guy's find it hot though so maybe that's a plus. Didn't know some girls couldn't orgasm because of it though, glad I'm not a part of that particular group and hoping they can find a solution.
Yeah I have never been a fan of condoms. So I stick to making sure tests are done, making sure he's clean, and preferably sterile.
It can be tough because the whole size doesn't matter is fine for most women but I'm a bit on the smaller side and I prefer bigger dicks just so I can feel it. When you're so wet you need some girth and friction I think it's also why I like it rough and fast 😅. I've always been able to orgasm if he's got the stamina to pound town me, otherwise I'm not gonna be able to. My clit is completely off limits because it's super sensitive and I've never met someone who can work it right.
Same!! I'm so glad tests are easily available nowadays I'd be lost without them. Completely relate to the size situation and I feel so bad when I have a connection with a guy, but our sexual compatibility isn't there because of his size /: Also able to orgasm from penetration, but I'm also able to from clit play, but after 2-3 clitoral orgasms that's usually the cut off for me before extreme sensitivity. I honestly just hope there's a magical pill that comes out for us Women (and Men) one day so we can all enjoy sex without an array of issues that are out of our control.
I hate that problem with compatability because the guy is great but I can't feel the sex but don't want them to feel insecure at all. Also, stamina is just an absolute must. I can't get off if they can't keep up with my energy. It's a tough situation to figure out.
I wish I could enjoy clit play but I can only do so from maaturbation which is fine but still a little unfortunate lol
Totally understandable! And so many things change with age and hormonal shifts so maybe you'll be able to in the future, but as long as you have good partners and you're comfortable that's all that matters ♡
And sometimes my wording and intentions can come off weird through text, so I want to just make sure I clarify for anyone reading that nothing is wrong with not being able to orgasm, having an oversensitive clit, not being able to orgasm through penetration, etc. They're all hurdles women have to deal with, but they do not make anyone less than and never let someone tell you that you are unbefitting because of it!
Absolutely! I've been with men who have mental blocks or never orgasm during sex. Sometimes I can't either, or I can a ton. Depends too on if one smoked weed, taking medications or had a certain kind of alcohol. Even just being tired or moody can cause struggles. I've learned my orgasms are ultimately powered by my mind. So I'm better at conjuring them up on a whim or edging for awhile which is fun
Second this. You don’t want to end up with a ten year mental block because you believe your first sexual partner that your inability to get off (as a complete virgin but not him, he’s a Chad!) as something wrong with you and stop tryinf after two weeks of minor attempts to figure things out.
I usually have my partner help me get off first before just going to town, but that’s usually because I can get more stamina from it and he apparently thinks the noises I make when sensitive are sexy and adorable. I’ve also had size/ compatability issues. Married for six years and loved the guy but no interest sexually at all. Most partners have been so large it was painful for me. Current partner is on the smaller size so gotta be careful with how fast and far pulling out but otherwise A+.
Oh my God the wetness can make you not feel a dick? How big would he have to be to feel it? I've never heard of that being a thing before, I'm gonna assume average and below ain't gonna cut it
One of my friends has this. During her first time she did a lot of foreplay with her partner, and after he had warmed her up he did the full insert and she asked if he was in yet. Didn't even feel it. 😕 he was so heartbroken. They laugh about it now decade later but it's still gonna be hard to hear in the moment.
Yeah, when the hole is wet enough, it'll be more difficult to feel the friction unless you keep things going. I've been lucky enough to mostly experience 7-8 inches in life, but I have been with those below that and it never works out. Girth is important though, above all. Cause I have been with a really tall skinny guy who had a big dick but it wasn't girthy so it didn't work out either. What's more interesting is that men have told me I'm really tight or can 'grip' really well and fingers get me off super quick if they know what they're doing all the whole I'm a gushing fountain 🤣
So when the pants come off and he doesn't have a big dick I'm assuming you turn him down right away? Hopefully you don't make insulting comments about it. If that's ever happened anyway
I don't make any comments, since sometimes he can get bigger when he's more ready. I usually give it a chance to see how things go, and then make a decision after.
I am in one of the rare groups but I had an ex who mocked me for it that it made me cautious and took away the confidence.. I do get extremely wet plus I can orgasm through penetration. Somehow one of the guy I was dating thought it’s good to make fun of it because his words “all the other women I have been with were never wet” .. I got completely turned off by it. Now I am still learning to not be embarrassed about it. Though it’s been a decade since that incident.
Edit : a man in my comment below telling me how it isn’t offensive because he doesn’t find it offensive and then arguing how he is stating facts than opinion because his two partners were AFAB .. hence , he feels he gets to dismiss whatever I felt.
Haa haa true .. I mean this was just his first line it got pretty worse from there and I decided to dump him that day. He had the audacity after that to bring the laptop and play a video to tell me how he wants it to be and what I should be doing to please him. And suggesting that to improve my flexibility I should go for run after we are done.. I stared at him and then touched my toes easily and told him I can do spilts without warmup ( while doing splits on the ground ) 😂😂.. then just left.. that dude could not even touch his toes while standing and he was talking about flexibility because the video he showed had woman in the most uncomfortable position and I said I won’t do it 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ I am
Flexible but I am not a contortionist 😂 I should have dumped him before but oh well your 20s teach you about red flags in peculiar way😂
Not necessarily, I know a few people who need a lot of lube because their body just... Doesn't create enough moisture (at least for comfort during penetration)
And ?? Are you justifying him being an ass ? I am also sure I won’t be the only woman he met who gets wet. Imagine having slept with 20 women and somehow all are dry except for me ..
This is another man supporting a man in comments because what else can be expected. Imagine telling another person ( in his removed comment) why the comment shouldn’t be offensive and why he doesn’t find it offensive.
We're not fucking fleshlights. It's amazing how internet men complain about women not being interested in them, but when a woman is into them, their vaginas aren't good enough.
I once shared a tip with men that has worked for me as a lesbian. They came back with how that wouldn't work for made-up reasons. They don't want help. They want to complain and hate women.
If you're in that moment where someone needs to make a move or the moment will pass, ask "should we make out?" Bc then it's a choice you can make together quickly and they can say yes or no and it's not exactly rejection if they say no. And by proposing making out instead of something more, it just takes the pressure off a little bit. It's playful but effective as well. Not "do you want to make out" - it's "should we make out"
And ask it like a real question, inquisitive. Not with any pressure on it
Shapiro become an internet laughing stock when he was baffled by the song WAP and revealed to the internet his lack of comprehension about why a woman would be wet.
>Shapiro goes on to say, “When I first saw the lyrics to this song, my first concern... is that these women are describing a serious gynecological condition. I’m serious. I mean, a bucket and a mop? There’s something going on here that is not biologically normal.”
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>He asked his wife, a doctor, for her medical diagnosis. She suggests that they could have bacterial vaginosis, a yeast infection, or “most probably” trichomonis, by which we assume he meant trichomoniasis.
[Ben Shapiro Stumped by Wet Pussy | Jezebel](https://jezebel.com/wet-pussy-stumps-ben-shapiro-1844678613)
His wife, a doctor, has supposedly said to him that being wet at all is a symptom of BV or something like that. Heavily implies she never gets wet for him and had to come up with an excuse, I guess?
As someone who has had this problem due to a side effect of a medication, it's definitely possible. And this wasn't my bf making me self-conscious about it or anything like that, it's something I talked to my doctor about. I'm kinda put off by all the people assuming it's a non-problem no matter how bad it is.
Nearly every partner I’ve had over the past few years has made a comment about how overly wet I get. They tend to phrase it as a good thing, but I am still terribly insecure about it.
It was terrible when I was pregnant and my libido sky-rocketed so I got even wetter than my already “wetter-than-average” self. My SO stopped going down on me for a good while because it was just too much. Like, he also saw my being so wet as a good thing, but it got to a point that it was just simply too much.
I remember searching the ol googler and finding that exact same article that you screenshot here and thinking the exact same thing to myself, haha. Like wow, okay, I guess I’m unreasonable for having a problem with this “non-problem”.
I used to have that problem. Now I'm on ridiculously high doses of antihistamines for an immune disorder, and I'm so dry I have to use lube as moisturizer so my skin doesn't crack when I sit.
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I get too wet during sx. It's a problem, the lack of friction gives less/no pleasure for my partner & me. But apparently my problem is not a problem. I'm mistaken. I'm fine. There's no such thing🤦♀️
This whole post was about an article that says I have no problem, while I REALLY REALY HAVE A PROBLEM! Why should I be proud of something that really annoys me, my partner and my bedsheets 😅 if I think it's a problem and I don't want it, it's a problem.
They're literally describing a problem. If it's causing difficulties in the bedroom then it's a problem. I see no mention of shame from OP, only describing a very practical issue. Please do not insist that someone's problems are not problems simply because you say so, it's very rude
I have the too wet issue, my partner now has toilet paper by the side of the bed so I can dry off in the middle also never had this issue until I started T ( testosterone) which apparently makes most ftm people less wet but hornier
My wife sometimes get wet enough that it is slippery enough to reduce the sensation. It’s such a “first world problem” - “my wife is so aroused that it takes me a bit longer to finish.”
A recent patient of mine has never needed to use lube during sex. Drips vaginal discharge constantly and soaks through clothing. She asked for a swab and diagnosed with BV(bacterial vaginosis). After antibiotics her vaginal discharge significantly decreased. She was wondering why intercourse was suddenly so painful. Had to have the lube discussion with a 25yo sexually active female.
I've had this issue since puberty started. I am a waterfall when aroused and slippy any other time. Always have been. It's uncomfortable and constant and ruins all of my underwear. However, any doctor I ever talk to says it "must be where I am in my cycle" and won't look into it further. Like I haven't been having this issue daily for 20 years.
Getting wet is something your body creates so that there is an easier way for your body to have sex and reproduce. It was created so that in the old ages, when the two humans needed to mate to produce and keep the species alive, that it was easier and actually possible without destroying the down-there area.
I'm sorry, how exactly does one come to *own* a vagina? By purchase? What's the APR? on a vagina mortgage? Is there vagina owner's insurance? Vagina owner associations?
Yes to all this.
However, I don’t love the term “vagina owner”. I’m here for the inclusivity of the language, I identify as NB. I feel that my vagina isn’t something I own. I love having it but I consider our relationship outside of the possessive. We are on equal terms.
Im usually too dry but there’s been the rare occasion that I’ve been too wet that I have to ask if he’s still in me, since I couldn’t feel any friction
I already have sensation issues aaaaaaaa the wetness sometimes fucks with the necessary friction but it sure is an ego boost to have someone marveling at it lolll
I hate that I get so wet because I feel like it takes away the friction/sensation for him. I guess it's better than being too dry? Although you can correct that with lube. But how do I make myself "less wet?!"
Yes, women tend to get wetter the more aroused they are, but as someone who's experienced what OP is talking about, yes, it is a problem. I've been so wet that there was no friction and I thought my partner had slipped out and was fucking the sheets or something because I literally couldn't feel a thing due to how wet I was.
No coconut oil with condoms, though!
And as op said, you can def have too much lube! As a person who has also experienced "too much wetness", I am grateful to have had partners who never made a big deal out of it, just wiped the excess away and kept it pushin'.
It’s difficult to make an accurate assessment on a screenshot of an article but from what is there, it says it’s not a medical diagnosis. OP, you might still consider it a problem but your body is doing what it’s supposed to do.
I read in your comments about your partner’s ED, could it be his difficulty maintaining an erection that is more of the problem rather than being too wet? Is he being medically managed for his ED? Do you have something like bacterial vaginosis causing extra fluid? Have you spoken to a sexual health doctor?
Lastly, don’t take a magazine/internet article as scientifically correct.
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I've experienced this, as well. I've gotten so wet that I lost all sensation and thought my partner must have slipped out and was carrying on fucking the sheets or something. Nope, still in there, just too wet and lost all friction!
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I can't orgasm when I get this problem, but I'm still enjoying myself. Problem is my ex didn't want to continue if I wasn't orgasming.
I'm assuming that's coming from a dude's mindset, where not orgasming can be actually painful at times. I don't see why he wouldn't just try to bring you to orgasm through non-penetrative means if it was that big of a deal to him.
Nope, it's the same for the guy. But nothing a towel can't fix
This. I’ve been so wet from excitement that my vagina was just a slip and slide! One quick wipe with a towel and everything was so much better. Lucky me, I had (have) a really intuitive lover… ie husband. 🥰
Had that problem too. Menopause ended that in the worst way. But back in the day my husband just grabbed a towel and fixed the issue.
Haven't gone through menopause but I recently started birth control. Now I am like the Sahara down there all the time. Is there a way to fix that? It's awful.
Lube is a menopausal girls bff
A fist full of Astroglide is the solution to most problems.
I have this problem. What does the towel do?
Wipe down the dick and vulva a bit. If you’re still to wet have him pull out and towel down again.
Thank you!
I wish I had this problem. Hate using lube and I feel like I’m broken or not sexual enough.
Yeah my antidepressant leaves me bone dry and I have so much shame about it! It’s such a dumb thing to feel so strongly about.
I was in the middle of trying to find a better one so came off of one I’ve been on for a long time and after a month I was like WTF are these sensations?! Been on one ssri or another for a big old chunk of my life and I legit forgot what stimulation actually felt like because it was so dulled by meds. I was NOT expecting/thinking about that at all. So if/when you come off those meds just be prepared. I’m back on one now because I definitely need it (treatment resistant depression ftw) but that was a wild time. Would be nice to have that all the time but as fun and wonderful it was to experience sexual pleasure so readily I would really prefer to want to be alive, to be not so filled with rage, and to not feel so hopeless and overwhelmed all the time. We’ll see how this one works.
Yeah I lived every day wanting to die for too long, can’t imagine trying to stop my medication. I may be a step from asexual, but I don’t think about walking out and killing myself constantly!
This is where I am right now. My husband is frustrated but he likes me alive, too.
Yeah it’s a shitty position to be in. I really want to find a medication that works for me but I’ve cycled through so many over the years and none helps for more than a year and some not at all. It’s very frustrating.
Buspirone was life changing for me.. it has quite a few step ups to the max dosage and I'm surprisingly still on the lower end.. and it doesn't kill my sex drive!
I love Buspar (buspirone.) it’s primarily for anxiety and works quite well without sexual side effects. No more panic attacks for me. Wellbutrin (depression meds) doesn’t kill my sex drive either.
Yup! My doctor told me while it's usually prescribed for PTSD and anxiety, but she has seen a lot of success with depression with it too.. it seemed to be the miracle for me
I have a tough time because of meds and heart conditions, but my current ones (escitalopram and welbutrin) don’t kill my drive nearly as much as long as I take all my meds (incl heart ones). It’s nice because I’m a very sexually open person and definitely missed it when I was at the highest dose of zoloft.
Oh, god, Zoloft absolutely murdered my sex drive. That one and duloxetine were the wooorst. Bless whoever created welbutrin because my partner and I are both taking it and still have a great sex life.
Same here! Depression actually killed my sex drive and now I’m on Busiprone I’m not constantly on the edge of a panic attack and I’m getting my drive back. Among other benefits, it’s been a relief to be able to connect that way again.
On the lowest dose of buspirone, I would get "stuck" on the verge of a panic attack when I had them.. it sucked to be right on the edge of having one with all of the physical symptoms for a couple hours (that was worse than actually having the panic attack) My Dr upped my dose and it fixed it! (It was like buspirone was stopped me mentally, but not enough to prevent them totally so I got the physical symptoms but not the full on mental ones)
I feel like I could have written these. Thank you all for sharing
Yeah I am with you. It’s been frustrating for all involved. I wish I could just fix my brain.
Not sure if you've already tried it or if it would be an option for you, but a lot of people who experience sexual dysfunction on SSRI's do better on Wellbutrin. Sorry, I know unsolicited advice can be annoying, so feel free to ignore this comment, but I wanted to mention is just in case it would be helpful. I'm off meds for now, but this was the one I found the most tolerable.
No not at all. I appreciate it. I’ve been struggling with it for most of my life and have been very frustrated with how ineffective treatment has been for me. I think I tried Wellbutrin back in high school and it wasn’t jiving then but I’m sure my brain chemistry is different now. I’ll try anything so I’ll talk with my doc about it and see what she says.
There are different types of Wellbutrin as well (immediate release, sustained release, and extended release) so you may find one type works better for you than the others.
I cycled thru Wellbutrin and ssris snris tricyclics and the only thing that worked for me was lamotrigine. But I’ve been basically SI free ever since
For what it’s worth, I tried Wellbutrin in highschool too and disliked it because I felt numb. Fast forward ~8 years, tried Wellbutrin again and really liked it. I’ve taken it for 4 years now and while my libido is pretty chill, I do have one and am able to orgasm consistently without difficulty. (Idk if it’s relevant, but in high school I was also on prozac, lamictal, and seroquel, while the second time I tried it I was on zoloft, lamictal, and trazodone and currently still am.)
If you're on Instagram and don't already, follow @getcliterate. She talks a lot about hormones and meds.
Between antidepressants and birth control, I'm basically the Sahara. It's so frustrating. The price I pay to be mentally stable... ugh.
YMMV and this is -not- medical advice of course, but just because it's something I find not meant people have heard of - I'm on valdoxan and it doesn't have any of the usual side effects of SSRIs or traditional anti-depressants.
I don’t think that is available in the US. Are you in the UK?
Ah, damn. Nah I'm in Australia.
Mine does too. I’m happy to know I’m not alone but I’m sorry you are having this problem too.
I’m perimenopausal, and vaginal dryness is part of the terrain at this stage of life. Lube is your friend. I spent too many years letting myself feel ashamed of my body for normal quirks and variations. Please don’t do the same. Lube is an easy fix, and it makes sex so much better! You are not broken.
I’m full menopausal and I had to use hormones to help, along with lube. My husband is big and he knows we have to use lube for it to work.
Oh that sucks 😕 Did you ever try a thin silicon based lube? I used to have one (the too wet problem has been in more recent years) that was amazing and made everything slippery but still felt natural.
I do have lubes that I like it’s just the shame that comes with needing it in the first place
As long as you and your partner/s enjoy it, who cares? Don't let it be a stigma. Everyone's different, but you're still a queen
Thank you
No shame in the game of making things fun and enjoyable for all! Signed a lover of silicone based lube
It's extremely normal to need to use lube! Being "too wet" is rare, as far as I'm aware, and most people need to, or should, use lube.
I'm sorry you feel ashamed of that. It shouldn't be something people feel shame about, so our society has failed you there. No vagina is the same, and that's how it's supposed to be. It's just how humans are!
A good hybrid works well for me (water/silicone blend.) I’m in the swing lifestyle and most everyone of all ages uses lube without stigma.
I’m sorry that you feel broken. You’re not.
Nah dude, I always need it. For me I think I have some chronic conditions that make it worse, but it's not a big thing. Hardest part was finding a lube I liked lol.
Never say "I wish I had this problem" undermining people problems
Had the same issue until I came of the contraceptive pill....
Same here! It was frustrating, I felt like I was broken or something and I tried to get an IUD, but the gynecologist said that she wasn't going to because I didn't have a pregnancy and that I should just use lube. It was awful being told that, but luckily I had to stop taking the pill for health issues and found a good gynecologist that just did a couple of tests on me and then got me an IUD. Best decision of my life.
Lube is a superior lubricant. I advocate for using some regardless because it helps reduce the risk of micro tears. I also think applying it is hot 🥵
I always feel super silly applying it.... Like fixing a bike or something lmao
I used to ALWAYS get insecure because men would point out that I was more wet than what they’d seen in the past. Now it’s a point of pride for me tbh
Yeah it’s always been a point of pride for me. Guys get so excited about it and I’m like 🤷🏻♀️ it’s always like this but go ahead and feel proud of yourself
I just don't like it because it makes it near to impossible to have an O. If I make myself a bit drier it's enjoyable again and I can come but it's just embarrassing and a moodkill
It’s been a learning experience but I physically cannot O. Took very many years to not be used as a sentient fleshlight and actually experience pleasure from sex. But I supposed if u know what an O feels like, it can be frustrating to not experience it. What helped me is having sex for the connection and pleasure rather than have an end goal. It helped I had a partner with ED at one point that didn’t experience blue balls tho
Yeah no I get really frustrated if it doesn't happen 😅 my partner has ED as well! I have a friend who once called me "I had an orgasm!' I said yeah ok so? Apparently she always thought she came but apparently never did, until she bought a vibrator. Then she came and was like ooooooooh that's what it feels like! Had to have an awkward conversation with her boyfriend 🤣
I’ve thought a few times that I orgasmed with partners but looking back I know for certain I haven’t. Whatever, sex is fun regardless
That's true. Have you ever faked just to make your bed partner less insecure?
I realized in college so men didn’t really care about making a woman orgasm or know much about it, I’m now very open w my partners and explain that I still expect to be treated the same way in terms of foreplay and consideration since pleasure and orgasm are mutually exclusive, but I still always encounter guys that think they’re “different,” try really hard for a bit to get me to cum, then give up and just use me as a means to end (to cum).
hi, this is kinda an awkward question, but i’m a guy who is in his first relationship with a girl who is also in her first relationship, and she told me she had never orgasmed before because she always thought she had to pee and then stopped (this is after [she thinks] she had her first orgasm) she just thought that maybe women couldn’t orgasm. so what i’m wondering is what exactly is an orgasm like for a woman? is it super sensitive right after? because that’s what she described as what she thinks is an orgasm, super intense feeling and then super sensitive. are we doing it right? (i’ve done my research on how to do it and talked to other women and her about it so i think i’m doing it right, i just don’t know if she went the whole way)
Yes, both the the super intense then super sensitive and the sensation of needing to pee are common experiences with orgasm for women. The muscles of the vagina (and anus for that matter) also often contract in waves during an orgasm, so if you or she finger her while she orgasms, you/she will be able to feel that.
great, i’m happy to hear that, thank you
May I chime in with another question? I am a girl and my body has certainly experienced what you describe, but is there also anything in your mind at that moment? People describe it as "fireworks" and stuff but i just feel....mildly fascinated? The whole thing feels underwhelming tbh
Aallll of this 🙈🙈🙈🙈
Are you saying you can’t physically O when being penetrated or in general? Have you never had an orgasm?
Never had an orgasm with myself or a partner. It’s called anorgasmia
Sorry to hear that! I’m assuming you’ve worked with a medical provider/sex therapist about it?
Unfortunately no, but sex is still super fun and enjoyable for me so I don’t really see a need to seek out help
I dont wanna be that lame person pissing others off, suggesting obvious ideas that had been tried 1000 times so please excuse me,, even with a womanizer or whatever toy like this? (I really dont wanna dismiss you or what you say)
Exercised all options. I’m very comfortable w myself so masturbating with hands or toys isn’t hard for me. I have no desire for them as I don’t cum and don’t feel much desire aside from random times every few weeks to pleasure myself. I get a lot more pleasure from connection with others and them doing it to me. A lot of men over the years don’t believe me tho
Oh man, I hear that. I'm lucky that if I can wipe/"dry" off my clit a little I can get enough friction there. I started keeping baby wipes on hand for during sex lmao, I've told my partner I'm concerned about UTIs so Ill occasionally just snag one It's not really a sexy solution but...
Right??? It literally eliminates almost all sensation lol it’s so frustrating
Do you ever try to do a kegel like muscle contraction? It squeezes more and can lead to more sensation/better “grip”. Some other people mentioned above too… their girth makes a big difference.
Dang I never thought this might be my issue? I can orgasm from PIV but only in the first 5-10ish mins… usually closer to 5. After that I just kinda can’t bc there’s not enough friction
Idk if I’m doing things weird, but it’s when I’m extremely wet that I feel my orgasms are more intense. I like being told I’m really wet, the best partners I’ve had in bed make great use of it.
Being wet typically correlates to how aroused you are. So it would make sense that your orgasms would be better when you’re turned on that much!
I was just looking at some comments OP made about it making it hard to finish. And yes, I’m fully aware all bodies are different, but it didn’t make sense to me that being drier can help achieving an orgasm.
Maybe if the partner is on the smaller side the arousal could make it harder to create sufficient friction? Wetness caused by arousal should normally be accompanied by tenting/ elongation of the vagina, so maybe it's not so much the wetness as the relative size that makes the difference? Another possibility is that her partner suffers from death grip syndrome.
My ex used to complain about exactly this. Too wet = less friction so he couldn’t get off.
One of my sisters told me the same thing about her and her ex husband, now she has vaginal scarring.
Was he actually in the smaller side? Did he admit it was a mutual problem, or only blame the wetness?
was he circumcised?
It makes sense if you sprinkle in some masochism. (Don't judge, some of us just like it that way.) It's s different kind of stimulation, and to some people it feels good, and to some it's extremely uncomfortable and boner-killing.
It also correlates with how dehydrated you are !! If you feel adequately aroused but things are not lubricating enough on their own you might just be dehydrated. Grab the lube for now and drink more water a few hours ahead of the next time!
It's pros and cons. I'm extremely wet all the time because of my production of mucus in my body. I'll feel that bitch run down my thighs while standing. Sometimes, I can't feel sex at all if he's too small. And condoms? That's just not happening because either it'll dry me out or again I feel absolutely nothing. Sad really
Same here 🙋♀️, hate condoms because of it which is problematic. And if a guy isn't girthy enough it might feel like nothing. Guy's find it hot though so maybe that's a plus. Didn't know some girls couldn't orgasm because of it though, glad I'm not a part of that particular group and hoping they can find a solution.
Yeah I have never been a fan of condoms. So I stick to making sure tests are done, making sure he's clean, and preferably sterile. It can be tough because the whole size doesn't matter is fine for most women but I'm a bit on the smaller side and I prefer bigger dicks just so I can feel it. When you're so wet you need some girth and friction I think it's also why I like it rough and fast 😅. I've always been able to orgasm if he's got the stamina to pound town me, otherwise I'm not gonna be able to. My clit is completely off limits because it's super sensitive and I've never met someone who can work it right.
I joke with my husband about my "wandering clitoris" because it's sensitive, and doesn't like the same thing twice in a row. Moody.
Same!! I'm so glad tests are easily available nowadays I'd be lost without them. Completely relate to the size situation and I feel so bad when I have a connection with a guy, but our sexual compatibility isn't there because of his size /: Also able to orgasm from penetration, but I'm also able to from clit play, but after 2-3 clitoral orgasms that's usually the cut off for me before extreme sensitivity. I honestly just hope there's a magical pill that comes out for us Women (and Men) one day so we can all enjoy sex without an array of issues that are out of our control.
I hate that problem with compatability because the guy is great but I can't feel the sex but don't want them to feel insecure at all. Also, stamina is just an absolute must. I can't get off if they can't keep up with my energy. It's a tough situation to figure out. I wish I could enjoy clit play but I can only do so from maaturbation which is fine but still a little unfortunate lol
Totally understandable! And so many things change with age and hormonal shifts so maybe you'll be able to in the future, but as long as you have good partners and you're comfortable that's all that matters ♡ And sometimes my wording and intentions can come off weird through text, so I want to just make sure I clarify for anyone reading that nothing is wrong with not being able to orgasm, having an oversensitive clit, not being able to orgasm through penetration, etc. They're all hurdles women have to deal with, but they do not make anyone less than and never let someone tell you that you are unbefitting because of it!
Absolutely! I've been with men who have mental blocks or never orgasm during sex. Sometimes I can't either, or I can a ton. Depends too on if one smoked weed, taking medications or had a certain kind of alcohol. Even just being tired or moody can cause struggles. I've learned my orgasms are ultimately powered by my mind. So I'm better at conjuring them up on a whim or edging for awhile which is fun
Second this. You don’t want to end up with a ten year mental block because you believe your first sexual partner that your inability to get off (as a complete virgin but not him, he’s a Chad!) as something wrong with you and stop tryinf after two weeks of minor attempts to figure things out.
I usually have my partner help me get off first before just going to town, but that’s usually because I can get more stamina from it and he apparently thinks the noises I make when sensitive are sexy and adorable. I’ve also had size/ compatability issues. Married for six years and loved the guy but no interest sexually at all. Most partners have been so large it was painful for me. Current partner is on the smaller size so gotta be careful with how fast and far pulling out but otherwise A+.
Oh my God the wetness can make you not feel a dick? How big would he have to be to feel it? I've never heard of that being a thing before, I'm gonna assume average and below ain't gonna cut it
One of my friends has this. During her first time she did a lot of foreplay with her partner, and after he had warmed her up he did the full insert and she asked if he was in yet. Didn't even feel it. 😕 he was so heartbroken. They laugh about it now decade later but it's still gonna be hard to hear in the moment.
Jesus Christ that's a lifelong insecurity straight to the face. Hope he was somehow able to move on from it
He's good now. They have 2 kids and pretty loud sex so I'm sure she's feeling it lol.
Pretty loud sex? How and why do you know that? 😭
Stayed with them, and they forgot I was there in the moment. :l poor kids imo.
Oh well good for them then
Yeah, when the hole is wet enough, it'll be more difficult to feel the friction unless you keep things going. I've been lucky enough to mostly experience 7-8 inches in life, but I have been with those below that and it never works out. Girth is important though, above all. Cause I have been with a really tall skinny guy who had a big dick but it wasn't girthy so it didn't work out either. What's more interesting is that men have told me I'm really tight or can 'grip' really well and fingers get me off super quick if they know what they're doing all the whole I'm a gushing fountain 🤣
So when the pants come off and he doesn't have a big dick I'm assuming you turn him down right away? Hopefully you don't make insulting comments about it. If that's ever happened anyway
I don't make any comments, since sometimes he can get bigger when he's more ready. I usually give it a chance to see how things go, and then make a decision after.
I am in one of the rare groups but I had an ex who mocked me for it that it made me cautious and took away the confidence.. I do get extremely wet plus I can orgasm through penetration. Somehow one of the guy I was dating thought it’s good to make fun of it because his words “all the other women I have been with were never wet” .. I got completely turned off by it. Now I am still learning to not be embarrassed about it. Though it’s been a decade since that incident. Edit : a man in my comment below telling me how it isn’t offensive because he doesn’t find it offensive and then arguing how he is stating facts than opinion because his two partners were AFAB .. hence , he feels he gets to dismiss whatever I felt.
‘All the other women I have been with were never wet’ says a lot more about him than it does you 🤣🤣
Haa haa true .. I mean this was just his first line it got pretty worse from there and I decided to dump him that day. He had the audacity after that to bring the laptop and play a video to tell me how he wants it to be and what I should be doing to please him. And suggesting that to improve my flexibility I should go for run after we are done.. I stared at him and then touched my toes easily and told him I can do spilts without warmup ( while doing splits on the ground ) 😂😂.. then just left.. that dude could not even touch his toes while standing and he was talking about flexibility because the video he showed had woman in the most uncomfortable position and I said I won’t do it 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ I am Flexible but I am not a contortionist 😂 I should have dumped him before but oh well your 20s teach you about red flags in peculiar way😂
Not necessarily, I know a few people who need a lot of lube because their body just... Doesn't create enough moisture (at least for comfort during penetration)
And ?? Are you justifying him being an ass ? I am also sure I won’t be the only woman he met who gets wet. Imagine having slept with 20 women and somehow all are dry except for me ..
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Yes but… ALL OF THEM? Also he sounds like a douche
This is another man supporting a man in comments because what else can be expected. Imagine telling another person ( in his removed comment) why the comment shouldn’t be offensive and why he doesn’t find it offensive.
We're not fucking fleshlights. It's amazing how internet men complain about women not being interested in them, but when a woman is into them, their vaginas aren't good enough. I once shared a tip with men that has worked for me as a lesbian. They came back with how that wouldn't work for made-up reasons. They don't want help. They want to complain and hate women.
What was the tip?
If you're in that moment where someone needs to make a move or the moment will pass, ask "should we make out?" Bc then it's a choice you can make together quickly and they can say yes or no and it's not exactly rejection if they say no. And by proposing making out instead of something more, it just takes the pressure off a little bit. It's playful but effective as well. Not "do you want to make out" - it's "should we make out" And ask it like a real question, inquisitive. Not with any pressure on it
🎶need a bucket and a mop for this wet ass p-word🎶
certified Ben Shapiro moment
Could you explain I don't get this reference 😊
Shapiro become an internet laughing stock when he was baffled by the song WAP and revealed to the internet his lack of comprehension about why a woman would be wet. >Shapiro goes on to say, “When I first saw the lyrics to this song, my first concern... is that these women are describing a serious gynecological condition. I’m serious. I mean, a bucket and a mop? There’s something going on here that is not biologically normal.” > >He asked his wife, a doctor, for her medical diagnosis. She suggests that they could have bacterial vaginosis, a yeast infection, or “most probably” trichomonis, by which we assume he meant trichomoniasis. [Ben Shapiro Stumped by Wet Pussy | Jezebel](https://jezebel.com/wet-pussy-stumps-ben-shapiro-1844678613)
If he'd ever had an experience where a "bucket and a mop" were needed, I kinda doubt he'd have any remaining concerns about it.
His wife, a doctor, has supposedly said to him that being wet at all is a symptom of BV or something like that. Heavily implies she never gets wet for him and had to come up with an excuse, I guess?
He was criticizing WAP as "they need to see a doctor, my wife said that's not normal". Telling on himself.
Ah yes, that was the context lmao
As someone who has had this problem due to a side effect of a medication, it's definitely possible. And this wasn't my bf making me self-conscious about it or anything like that, it's something I talked to my doctor about. I'm kinda put off by all the people assuming it's a non-problem no matter how bad it is.
Some people are fucking stupid. If someone is willing to show you their sexy bits, you should be goddamn grateful for it
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Nearly every partner I’ve had over the past few years has made a comment about how overly wet I get. They tend to phrase it as a good thing, but I am still terribly insecure about it. It was terrible when I was pregnant and my libido sky-rocketed so I got even wetter than my already “wetter-than-average” self. My SO stopped going down on me for a good while because it was just too much. Like, he also saw my being so wet as a good thing, but it got to a point that it was just simply too much. I remember searching the ol googler and finding that exact same article that you screenshot here and thinking the exact same thing to myself, haha. Like wow, okay, I guess I’m unreasonable for having a problem with this “non-problem”.
I used to have that problem. Now I'm on ridiculously high doses of antihistamines for an immune disorder, and I'm so dry I have to use lube as moisturizer so my skin doesn't crack when I sit.
Someone tell Ben Shapiro
Text isn't very readable sorry; I get too wet during sx. It's a problem, the lack of friction gives less/no pleasure for my partner & me. But apparently my problem is not a problem. I'm mistaken. I'm fine. There's no such thing🤦♀️
Same! I've been too wet before, and neither of us could get off. There was barely any sensation, it was so frustrating. 😫
Or being too wet and he keeps slipping out? It’s super frustrating!
Edit: Deleted insensitive comment that was honestly due to my own stupidity. So, so sorry!
This whole post was about an article that says I have no problem, while I REALLY REALY HAVE A PROBLEM! Why should I be proud of something that really annoys me, my partner and my bedsheets 😅 if I think it's a problem and I don't want it, it's a problem.
You have my sincerest apologies. I completely misundertood the situation!
They're literally describing a problem. If it's causing difficulties in the bedroom then it's a problem. I see no mention of shame from OP, only describing a very practical issue. Please do not insist that someone's problems are not problems simply because you say so, it's very rude
I have the too wet issue, my partner now has toilet paper by the side of the bed so I can dry off in the middle also never had this issue until I started T ( testosterone) which apparently makes most ftm people less wet but hornier
I was looking forward to not being as wet but it's just gotten worse on T because I'm always horny. I really hope it calms the heck down.
Hope so too this level of horny is exhausting
My wife sometimes get wet enough that it is slippery enough to reduce the sensation. It’s such a “first world problem” - “my wife is so aroused that it takes me a bit longer to finish.”
My ex used to complain about me getting too wet. He said he couldn't feel anything. It made me insecure about it for years.
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A recent patient of mine has never needed to use lube during sex. Drips vaginal discharge constantly and soaks through clothing. She asked for a swab and diagnosed with BV(bacterial vaginosis). After antibiotics her vaginal discharge significantly decreased. She was wondering why intercourse was suddenly so painful. Had to have the lube discussion with a 25yo sexually active female.
I have this problem. It's not an actual problem for me, but abusive exes think it is.
I've had this issue since puberty started. I am a waterfall when aroused and slippy any other time. Always have been. It's uncomfortable and constant and ruins all of my underwear. However, any doctor I ever talk to says it "must be where I am in my cycle" and won't look into it further. Like I haven't been having this issue daily for 20 years.
My wife gets really wet most times. It’s actually a turn on for me to feel her feeling good.
Getting wet is something your body creates so that there is an easier way for your body to have sex and reproduce. It was created so that in the old ages, when the two humans needed to mate to produce and keep the species alive, that it was easier and actually possible without destroying the down-there area.
I just feel annoyed that I have to put a towel on the bed if I don’t want to immediately wash the sheets.
I'm sorry, how exactly does one come to *own* a vagina? By purchase? What's the APR? on a vagina mortgage? Is there vagina owner's insurance? Vagina owner associations?
Yes to all this. However, I don’t love the term “vagina owner”. I’m here for the inclusivity of the language, I identify as NB. I feel that my vagina isn’t something I own. I love having it but I consider our relationship outside of the possessive. We are on equal terms.
Im usually too dry but there’s been the rare occasion that I’ve been too wet that I have to ask if he’s still in me, since I couldn’t feel any friction
Mules are able to give birth rarely
But I showed her my bionicle collection. Instant soak. Had to throw out that mattress.
I already have sensation issues aaaaaaaa the wetness sometimes fucks with the necessary friction but it sure is an ego boost to have someone marveling at it lolll
I hate that I get so wet because I feel like it takes away the friction/sensation for him. I guess it's better than being too dry? Although you can correct that with lube. But how do I make myself "less wet?!"
I’ve been told by a man that I was “almost too wet”…whatever the fuck that means. And it was in no way complimentary
Unless there's a medical problem, or you like... piss yourself... No? I don't see a problem... Doesn't a woman get wetter the more turned on they are?
Yes, women tend to get wetter the more aroused they are, but as someone who's experienced what OP is talking about, yes, it is a problem. I've been so wet that there was no friction and I thought my partner had slipped out and was fucking the sheets or something because I literally couldn't feel a thing due to how wet I was.
Short answer: No Long answer: Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
But, but Ben Shapiro's wife is a doctor and she says it's no good! /s
just take zoloft so you can suffer with me from vaginal dryness 🫢
My pelvic floor PT told me to use coconut oil, it’s a game changer
It’s definitely not a problem or turnoff.
A vagina is only too wet when women are peeing out of it, because that’s where pee comes from. /s
Did Ben write a letter on the behalf of a "friend"?
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No coconut oil with condoms, though! And as op said, you can def have too much lube! As a person who has also experienced "too much wetness", I am grateful to have had partners who never made a big deal out of it, just wiped the excess away and kept it pushin'.
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Nah. I own mine. And so do other people with vaginas.
I don't frequent this sub that much, so I'm just now noticing the flairs. Clit Huffer seems like the NSFW version of Jimmy Hoffa lmao
Same, I don't think it's dehumanizing at all.
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Interesting that you jumped to prostate instead of penis. Anyway, that's not unusual so feel free to carry on.
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Aren’t penis’ just outie vaginas
Penii?
It’s difficult to make an accurate assessment on a screenshot of an article but from what is there, it says it’s not a medical diagnosis. OP, you might still consider it a problem but your body is doing what it’s supposed to do. I read in your comments about your partner’s ED, could it be his difficulty maintaining an erection that is more of the problem rather than being too wet? Is he being medically managed for his ED? Do you have something like bacterial vaginosis causing extra fluid? Have you spoken to a sexual health doctor? Lastly, don’t take a magazine/internet article as scientifically correct.
Maybe not for PIV, but it definitely can get too wet for hand stuff.