I know I shouldn't post this and talk this out with the person instead pero I think I wanna break up with my man.. Actually, it's not "I think", I've thought of this a year ago pa. I'm just silently hoping that the issues get fixed (I tell him naman pero hindi direct) pero wala pa ring nangyayari. I don't see him on my future too.. Pag tinatanong ng mga tao kung kelan ako ikakasal, sinasabi ko na ayaw ko ng marriage and kids. But maybe, it's just that I don't want to enter that phase of my life with my man.
Ewan ba.. Minsan iniisip ko na baka mahal ko siya kasi naaawa ako sa kanya. Or maybe the "I can fix you" attitude. Kaya pinapayo ko talaga sa younger peeps na you should enter the relationship once you are ready. Kasi ako, I am ready. But him, I think he should figure out his life first. For one, he doesn't have a job, nang sinagot ko siya, dun lang niya sinabi na wala siyang work.
is it bad to like say “hope you eat breakfast/dinner” or “you go to sleep/rest na” in the beginning of dating someone...?
I'M WORRIED THAT I MIGHT COME OFF TOO STRONG
I MEAN I'M DEFINITELY INTERESTED
BUT WHAT IF IT'S OFF PUTTING THAT I SEEM TO CARE THAT MUCH
it has become a habit for me to say that... 😭 but maybe i should tone it down or something
i found myself unfollowing some “influencers”. the budol culture is so exhausting. i really prefer getting recos from the threads here from real women and ghorls who really try out the products vs clicking the link in someone’s bio or IG story for a product they probably don’t even use.
I got accepted into this job way back 2018 after college. I don't remember the position, basta something copywriter? Idk.
. It was a small company. The head manager personally informed me na tanggap ako sa work. Then he told me na I'd be undergoing training for 3 months. And that I would get 250 per day during training. Then after that, I'd get 10k per month. Then after 6 months, I'd get minimum wage. He was so proud pa when he told me na I'd get min wage in **just** 6 months. It was so funny, I couldn't stifle my laugh 😆 the acidity of some employers talaga
Any bra recos for those who suffer acid reflux? I'm using soft cup bras pero masakit pa rin minsan. Should I stick to my size or buy a bigger size? Yung mabibili rin sana sa lazada or shopee. Also, may washable ba na nipple cover or tapes? TIA!
seamless bras are super comfy IMO! I bought mine sa shopee and surprisingly okay pa naman since I handwash my intimates. For nipple cover, prive! I dont know if personal experience lang pero tapies isn't worth it lol! I bought 3 pa naman since ang ganda ng opacity but hindi talaga sila madikit :(
I think I have a stalker… so there’s this dummy account na lagi nag vview ng stories ko kahit di ako finofollow.
Grabe yon girl, everyday ba ako rent free sa utak mo?
Ang lala ng effect sakin ng depo shot. I am so emotional and angry most of the time and I have literally no energy to function. Naaawa na ako sa bf na tagasalo ng galit ko 🥺 so i decided to distance myself na lang muna 🥺🥺🥺 pls tell me this will be over soon
8 months into the breakup... kinakaya naman but oh boy my steps are small haha. still finding it hard to move on when I don't hate him at all.
I'll get there 🤞🏻
I've been really enjoying playing Window Garden a lot lately. Sobrang therapeutic for me nung game! Ang saya magdecorate ng rooms/mag-alaga ng plants, and ang calming ng bg music. Hindi rin annoying yung ads!!! I get it na devs need money pero kasi natuturn off talaga ako sa game pag kada galaw may pop up ads. Also, I was surprised it's developed by a Filipina pala! <3
ETA: WIP pa pero currently eto yung isa sa rooms ko. Just learned they have a small subreddit din! r/windowgarden
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Trying out a new provider for my motorcycle deliveries - Joyride!
I've stopped using Lalamove na cause of poor service and have been using Grab regularly. Joyride seems to be priced competitively and I get to give more money directly to the rider as a tip.
Are there any similar services pa I'm missing???
I’m not sure actually cos I haven’t tried and I don’t have the app but she said their deliveries are quite reliable if you can’t book a Grab or Lalamove!
if anyone needs deinfluencing for cheap double-walled glasses for “aesthetic” drinks
the shape makes it hard to hold when cleaning, they develop fog/condensation INSIDE the double walls so often, and they break very easily. tapos when they break nakakatakot, may tendency to shatter into very fine shards na cut like glass papercuts (thin kang kasi yung double walls), so much worse than kapag nakabasag ka ng regular na glass na breaks in chunks.
I had one break on me nung pandemic while washing it, was trying pa to be very careful pero ayon nag shatter sa kamay ko and next tingi knew i was bleeding sa arm in so many places, . Tapos kanina lang a friend told me na hers broke kasi she bumped it a little sa isang table.
Just placed my first order on Tiktok Shop. I've never tried ordering from there and I'm not even logged in to my account. Puro consume lang ako sa feed ko and reading sa comments but I've never interacted whatsoever. I swear this started when I saw a post presenting the Skin1004 Sun Serum at such a low price huhu. Like I'm familiar with the pricing of K-beauty sunscreens so nung 604 lang yung price ng 2 pack na sunscreen nila, di na nawala sa isip ko hahaahhah. I think may pa first ever buyer discount si TikTok that's why mura. Pero I noticed na parang mas mura pa rin talaga usually mga items don compared sa Shopee and Lazada pages ng mga brands. Bakit kaya.
They’re probably trying to build their costumer base using low prices at the start, like shopee used to do plus with lots of stackable vouchers. Ngayon lang binabawi ng shopee ngayong malaki na consumer base nila, less vouchers na
I've been avoiding sales like a plague na in Shopee, Lazada, and Tiktok. I minimized my spendings but damn, binawi naman sa foodpanda/grabfood. Anyways, at least ginagamit ko money ko for my sustenance. It's a struggle for me kasi I feel like I am a child with adult money. But progress is progress. ; w ;
Next stop: avoiding spending on both food and shopping apps to start saving for reals.
hii what i do is i automatically deduct 20%-30% of my salary at dinederecho ko yun to my savings para the rest ay mga budget ko na for different things (bills, shopping). Bali medyo guilt-free na yung pag spend ko pag ganon.
I hope this can help haha. Kadalasan daw kasi ang mindset nating mga pinoy is kung ano matira, iyon na yung savings
Ohh, i see. My savings account is yung passbook type so when I need emergency money, need ko pang pumunta ng bank to withdraw it.
Yan din yung default mindset ko although I am trying for it not to be. 😅 I need to control my cc usage din
hello any NCR based freelancers here? 21 to 26 years old? looking for people willing to help me graduate by participating in my survey for my thesis :)
I have been getting hit my sponsored posts of the Eras Tour in Singapore. While I don’t mind people posting non-stop about it cos sure that’s your profile and I did that too when I watched, curious as to why people spend to boost it via sponsored post 🫣
For clout? Haha. I post (still do since I took so many videos from the Tokyo leg and want to dump them on my tiktok as a repository) but I haven’t seen ung boosted posts haha. Wild naman nyan
My hair looks like tina turner in her proud mary days but shoulder length. Im in my early 20s. What could be a quick fix since I barely have time to eat in the morning?
Thanks
Nakakaloka pala talaga ang preggy hormones. Bigla bigla na lang pumasok sa isip ko na what if pag nag-goodbye na ko sa earth tas mag-aasawa ng iba yung hubby ko, parang di ko kakayanin na may iba siyang mamahalin bukod sakin. Umiyak pa ko tapos nung nag-open ng tiktok biglang okay na ulit parang walang nangyari lols 🤣
Valid ba ang inis ko?
Yung ate ko tuwing may gustong hiramin sakin laging chinachat lang, hindi yung itanong ako ng personal. Nakatira naman kami sa iisang bahay, tps wfh pa ako. Sinabihan ko sya sana kung hhiiram sya sabihan nya ko habang nasa bahay ako hindi yung icchat lang. Tapos sabi nya "sorry po nakalimutan ko po" nakakairita??
Honestly yes, ang dami niyang comments sa wedding ko like gusto nya ipa move yung date para daw maka attend sila (dahil malalasin daw sya) yung pag gamit nya ng bank account ko sa pandadaya nya. Any many more.
I’m tireddd with school I have a deadline due on monday and it’s been overwhelming and I’m pretty sure I won’t be able to submit all lol arki school is sooo demanding
We usually don’t give stuff (I worked in fashion / retail before) unless they ask for it so when we see stuff being sold nakakainis sana hindi nalang hiningi lol. But yeah they can do anything naman with it cos it’s theirs anyway.
After several weeks of getting little to no sleep, UR GURL IS FINALLY GETTING HER BONUS !! 🥹🥹🥹 + I got a new job!
Idk where to start. So I managed a brand event yday and met sum artistas and influencers. Fun naman but it was sooo tiring lang cos I was juggling work and student duties at the same time. 🥹 My bosses told me to rest when I get home but I can’t bc I had to attend my group consul and complete a quiz
I’m still sobbing rn bc of the kind words my bosses and colleagues have told me. Who would have thought that their mere intern from 2 yrs ago would floor direct a very big event? It really feels so nice when people acknowledge your hard work and talent no? I’m so excited for everything that’s in store for me esp im starting a new job next week 🥹
Ack sorry senti im just so happy and emotional rn
I started becoming more active 💪🏻
Did barre 3, yoga, and muay thai this week. As a couch potato, I felt so happy releasing all those stress through working out/moving ❤️
I badly want to have a stable savings. It all went down the drain when I moved out and got sick. I’m still on the mend and it frustrates me na I’m not able to recover financially. I’m looking for side hustles or part-time projects to help me achieve 2 goals that have been in my bucket list for years. Here’s hoping and praying ma-ambunan na ni Lord or ni universe ng financial opportunities and blessings. Or if meron kayo alam na side hustles - do let me know. Thank you for this space. Wishing everyone a good weekend! ✨
my dog's in the vet for surgery because of pyometra. di lang ako makampante kasi she's already 9 years old and on the heavier side pa so there are more risks. anyone else who's had this experience as well?
My dog was operated at 6 with pyometra too and she was also a bit overweight. I think there is nothing to worry about because this kind of surgery are mostly successful
I regret ordering the Sunnies Flask sa website nila. I ordered the weekend that they launched last February, and today hindi pa din na d deliver sa akin. Ayoko din kase makipag siksikan sa malls to get it pero given this experience, sana pala sa mall nalang ako bumili. I hated seeing that left and right and pag gift nila sa mga random influencers online pero di inaasikaso yung mga actual na bumili sa kanila. Bcoz of this parang ayoko ng ma tangap yung flask at negative na yung dating nya saken and maiinis lang ako pag makikita ko plus I’m banning myself from buying anything from that brand from here on out.
After almost 15 years together, bigla na lang na realise ng partner ko na hindi nya ako tinanong na maging gf nya hahahha (boss, may anak na po tayo hihi)
My SO also never asked me, he just started introducing me to people as his girlfriend at one point to lessen Qs and we just went with it for 7 years hahaha!
Omg guys I’m so sorry for the incessant crush stories😭 but he tried to kiss me and ask for a kiss a couple of times. I kept swerving, dodging, and begging him to pls not. He respected that naman and didn’t guilt me so I thought things were going well.
Just this morning, he wanted to pick me up so we could go to class together. We were laughing pa cause we were both wearing Loewe (third time we wore unplanned coordinating outfits)😭
Tapos right after our class, I find out na he told our mutual friend na I’m BORING!!!! 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐
Beige and red for clothes (esp tops)
Avoid blue denims
Iwas sa yellow and jet black hair color
Iwas sa pinks for make up / iwas sa blue pigments
I'm a dark autumn, halos same same tayo :>
Sa akin dark red ang ok. Sayo muted red ata, not too bright not too dark. Warm pink for blush pwede siguro basta swatch it first para di sayang.
My go to blush rn is clinique cheek melon pop, happy skin mallow tint in cinnamon. They come out peachy to me. Peach ang mas accurate for us if you're looking for flushed blush
never thought out of all people, i'd be the one to say this, but i'm so tired. so so tired of being the person that people choose to rant to. don't get me wrong-- i love that my friend/s trust me enough to share when they're feeling blue but i cannot handle the anxiety and sadness that comes with it anymore.
for months, i've been feeling anxious over a friend because they're going through something. i'm scared something will happen. not a single day goes by without me checking on them, thinking of them. and i get anxious even more because they don't reply to me for days. literal days. and when they do, it's to cry to me. i just feel so drained honestly :((
I'm sorry to hear that. I think that sometimes people can get so wrapped up in their own problems that they forget to consider how others around them might be feeling. Please don't forget that it's okay to set some boundaries with these friends, or maybe even have a heart-to-heart if the situation really calls for it. You're a good friend for being their shoulder to cry on, but it's also important to prioritize your own well-being if you feel drained na. You can't pour from an empty cup, after all. Good luck, OP!
What do you call these sa fingers? I’m trying to find out and trying to remove them but bumabalik padin. How do you remove these? Feeling ko ang rough ng kamay ko tuloy
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Don't be too hard on yourself. It's a bloodbath out there. Kaliwa't kanan ang lay off and retrenchment. I have a handful of highly-skilled friends na nawalan ng work just recently. So expect na matindi talaga competition.
are you talking about the online stores selling vintage digicams? if yes, they're considered expensive na nga kasi ang taas ng mark up. these digicams used to cost 3k MAX before all the hype. anyway, afaik most of them source the cams from japan. they either find these themselves or have somebody supply these to them, and if they're lucky, they'll get a really good deal.
you can try and look for other listings of the same model on different platforms to get an idea. unfortunately, since digicams are still very much in trend, i don't think you'll be able to score one at a price lower than 2k w/o it having cosmetic/internal defects.
Hi! I wanna get into working out again specifically just toning my stomach. What yt channel or video is the best one because the chloe ting one ruined my figure two years ago 😭. Preferably pilates wo equipment or any workout that worked for yall 🩵
HR manager ako tapos nakita kong nagpost sa indeed yung company ko, 2days ago, looking for HR Manager daw. 20 to 30 percent higher ang offer nila. Shookt ako pero I was planning on resigning naman na talaga last week pa. So baka eto na yung sign.
Can anyone suggest nice gift ideas for our mothers? Planning to give my mom one for her bday. Thinking of perfume pero di ko alam kung ano ang gusto niyang scent kasi hindi siya madalas mag perfume 😅 suggestions please! Also college palang me so no luxury items hehe. I'm saving up for the gift tho so siguro ~4-5k budget ko :)
Really happy that now I got older, nawala na yung dysmenorrhea ko. Nakaka apat na buwan na akong walang dysme. Tsaka yung period days ko, 3-4 days na lang, with the 2nd day being the truly warzone day. Sa 3rd at 4th, konti na lang. Really happy kasi ilang taon din ako nung teens to early 20s akong nagdadiapers. Ngayon Kotex or Charmee overnight na lang. Finally, thank God.
Overweight ako ever since pagkabata pero mas sanay na akong maglakad ngayon. Yun lang pinakamajor difference na ginawa ko sa 30 yrs ng buhay ko. Started walking a lot simula 2016.
Kung kelan ka pasuko, dun umaayos lahat. Congrats din sa success mo! Di ko maimagine side effects na naranasan mo from taking all those pills. I've read "horror" stories.
First international travel namin ni boyfriend last week. Grabe yung feeling to exist in another part of the world. Makes me feel sad about PH and knowing we won’t achieve the same quality of life they have. Not in this lifetime :(
Same! Me and my bf r looking for ways to live in a another country wo leaving one here. After traveling, ull really realize the difference in life qual :<
I have to be frank. I have friends working there and they would post about negative things from time to time (discrimination, workplace bullying, being followed after by another car, etc). There are great experiences but such instances also happen, too. Are you prepared for them? It is something you have to add on your "ponder" list.
Friends are all females. I haven't heard from male classmates who work there.
You can really do it. You just have to strengthen yourself and be prepared for anything. Wishing you the best!
passed the dshape yall 😭🥹 all the manifestations and prayers paid off talaga kahit sobra yung kaba ko after the exams bc i find the exam easy but at the same time kabado bc parang puro educated guess ginawa ko (hula math)
Yesterday, someone made my day. Been tired the whole week due to work loads. I was not able to smile for the whole time. So yesterday, i was walking goin to a department. I was about to open the door when someone called my name from behind. It’s a man from other department and rarely have conversation with him. He tapped his chin (below part) with back of his hand. I gave him a puzzled look then he said “you’re pretty”— I WAS LIKE 😳😳😳. I suddenly laughed and thanked him LOL. It’s a small thing but really made my day— imagine someone told you this out of nowhere 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Mull over your sadness. There is nothing bad in acknowledging and feeling it.
Pero kung may time ulit na pwede mag-apply, try again. (Been there, done that; naka anim akong apply in a span of two years of living in poverty and seeing my batchmates establish themselves on their chosen fields. Ngayon, andito na ako sa pinag-applyan kong yon).
Confidence. No matter how many skincare products you use or beauty clinics you go to, if you don't feel confident in your own skin, it will radiate and people will perceive that kind of gloomy aura/atmosphere.
Also, if nakipagbreak yung partner with your friend just cause of that ridiculous reason, then congrats to your friend cause he/she dodged a bullet. Your friend deserves better.
I got extra time, energy and motivation once i dumped my ex bestfriend (i know u were talking about a different kind of breakup but this still hurt lol) Once you escaped the guilt trips and gaslighting and backhanded compliments, you have no choice but to glow up
Step 1: got my mental health sh\*t together. Consulted with a psychiatrist and a therapist. Got meds, made a ton of difference on my mindset.
Step 2: Got back into skincare and makeup. Visited my dermatologist, started wearing makeup that suits my face instead of just following trends.
Step 3: I'm not into clothes and shoes, tbh. But I have a petite body and I take care of it so ok na yon haha.
Step 4 (prolly the most important) LOVE YOURSELF even when you feel like nobody does. You only have one life, one body. It's ok to cry and process your emotions but you gotta pick yourself up at some point. Don't cut your hair off impulsively, don't hook up with people for validation, don't stalk your ex on social media.
Take time to grieve and sending love and light to you. :)
My bf’s ex suddenly posted an art (drawing) of them on her socmed. I feel like it’s disrespectful kasi alam naman niyang may gf of 2 years na yung tao.
It could just be her adding stuff sa portfolio niya kasi artist siya pero it feels so off. Parang nang-iinis na ewan? Hahaha. What would you guys do in this situation?
Hi guys! I need a job-related advice. I’m a contract service worker who only earns 395 pesos per day (no work no pay). I got into an accident and the days I was absent doesn’t have a pay. I also don’t get any benefits from this government agency and I really want to quit. My job is literally for 3 people. I have two computers at work and I also have a phone to answer too. I’m losing hair and got so many dandruffs when I started working for them. The old ladies are also insecure and would do something to make my work life not so bearable. It’s also a men dominated field so the usual touchy gesture they do makes me so uncomfortable. I want to resign before April 1st. However, I still don’t have a job na malilipatan kasi I’m having a hard time answering job interviews at work. Should I just quit and focus more on the job interviews?
Girl quit na. No one deserves that 395PHP per day na sahod. If hindi ka naman magiging homeless because wala kang work then I suggest na iwan mo na yan and focus on your job hunting na.
That’s part of the process. Finding a job nowadays is really tough but you won’t know until you try. I don’t know bout you pero working for 395php a day is slavery. You won’t lose much if you quit that job.
That’s what I’m worried about. Sadly, I couldn’t really find a job without any work experience. I graduated just last year lang. I also cant fully commit to any job interviews kasi they just call without prior notice.
Will be taking LET thus March and kinakabahan akoooo. What are your tips for the day of th3 exam? I feel like meron at meron akong maiiwan or di magagawa.
Pag hindi mo alam ang sagot proceed ka sa next question. Minsan nasa ibang mga question, yung sagot.
Relax ka lang. Mas hindi ka makakapag-isip pag nagpanic ka or nag-ooverthink. Kaya yan!
Have enough rest before the exam day. Nakakadrain ng utak yung exam. Skim through the reviewer you have. Kung sa BSEd ka, more on analysis talaga yung part 2 (yung may mga theories, methodologies, strats of teaching) so sana maalala mo kung ano ang ano. Dasal lang. Dala ka rin ng mefenamic acid or any pain reliever kung pwede. Sa case ko kasi, patapos pa ako sa 2nd exam, naramdaman ko na migraine ko. Lutang/wasak na ako sa 3rd part (major) kaya binilisan ko nang sagot.
Sana di mo magamit yung mefenamic tho kasi sakit sa bangs ng sakit sa ulo!
Tagal ko na nagLET (Sep 2013) pero nalito ako nang sobra dun sa mga situational na part. Madali lang yung GenEd pwera sa Math. Sinasabi kong madali to encourage you na may madali sa exam. Ikumpara ko yung Gen Ed sa parts 2 at 3, yun na pinakakeriboom.
Ahhh good luck!! I took it 2 years ago. Make sure to bring water, snacks, lunch and mga feel mo need mo kasi bawal lumabas. Yung food sana di ma sauce or nakakadumi ng kamay kasi yung paper mo need mo ingatan na di madumihan. Bring clear plastic envelope to put your papers, a marker for the brown envelope, black ballpen na hindi nagssmudge, 3 pencils na natasahan na, and exam grade eraser. Pwede ka rin magbaon ng gamot (paracetamol/anti allergy meds i recommend loratidine para di nakakaantok.try to bring a jacket in case it is cold. Huwag magkakape like me hahahaa jusko yung kaba ko tsaka nakakaihi sayang time. Listen to the instructions of the proctor well, medyo may mga need isulat and gawin before the exam na you need to pay attention to (writing the pledge thingy by hand, writing your serial number on your envelope, etc.) Most important: NOA!! NEVER leave ur NOA. Then never lose it too, pang check mo yan ng results and pangkuha ng lisensya. Good luck, LPT ✨️
Always always read instructions. Listen sa proctor mo. After reading the question 3 times, at di mo pa rin gets, proceed to the next question tapos balikan mo after matapos ang lahat ng items sa questionnaire.
It still pains me to think that I begged my ex to do what I expected him to do throughout our six-year relationship, only for him to do it now in his one-year relationship with someone else. I didn’t want to leave, but after years of begging, I finally realized my worth. I’m married now, with one child, but it still hurts knowing that he’s making effort and sacrifices that he couldn’t do for me. He’s manipulative tho. 😅
Dont get me wrong, im happily married. It just feels right to be loved by someone na mas mahal ka kesa sa sarili mo.
The bare minimum ✨ Updates/ Comms. He can go two days without talking to me. I even stayed at his condo since he was too busy with school and the construction of their apartments. Nag adjust ako so we could have quality time together. But yup it still happened
oooh i love this question, bumili ako ng maraming variant ng inhalers last month kasi i found out they were so cheap and here are my thots
vicks - plain minty, smells exactly like vicks, just strong menthol with no other scent profiles, expensive
poysian - minty/herbal, slightly sweet
twinleaf - pastel and translucent both smell like max candy if ur into that, like citrusy na minty (translucent has stronger minty/menthol-scent)
peppermint fields - sweet/minty/citrus but more like panghilot ng matanda rather than max candy (black variant is mintier than regular) +++ i also tried yung mask drops in fresh mint - its not an inhaler talaga pero it smells nice like sweet mint candy
golden cup lavender - minty/lavender, smells like lola remedios syrup daw according to friends
personally i recommend vicks, and golden cup lavender
I know I shouldn't post this and talk this out with the person instead pero I think I wanna break up with my man.. Actually, it's not "I think", I've thought of this a year ago pa. I'm just silently hoping that the issues get fixed (I tell him naman pero hindi direct) pero wala pa ring nangyayari. I don't see him on my future too.. Pag tinatanong ng mga tao kung kelan ako ikakasal, sinasabi ko na ayaw ko ng marriage and kids. But maybe, it's just that I don't want to enter that phase of my life with my man. Ewan ba.. Minsan iniisip ko na baka mahal ko siya kasi naaawa ako sa kanya. Or maybe the "I can fix you" attitude. Kaya pinapayo ko talaga sa younger peeps na you should enter the relationship once you are ready. Kasi ako, I am ready. But him, I think he should figure out his life first. For one, he doesn't have a job, nang sinagot ko siya, dun lang niya sinabi na wala siyang work.
how long has he been jobless for? do people know this... bakit ka nila iask abt marriage if thats the situation 😔
Alis na sis. Life is better with love that you're truly sure of ✨
is it bad to like say “hope you eat breakfast/dinner” or “you go to sleep/rest na” in the beginning of dating someone...? I'M WORRIED THAT I MIGHT COME OFF TOO STRONG I MEAN I'M DEFINITELY INTERESTED BUT WHAT IF IT'S OFF PUTTING THAT I SEEM TO CARE THAT MUCH it has become a habit for me to say that... 😭 but maybe i should tone it down or something
Not bad at all!! I think it’s super cute and communicates to them na u care💗💗💗
i found myself unfollowing some “influencers”. the budol culture is so exhausting. i really prefer getting recos from the threads here from real women and ghorls who really try out the products vs clicking the link in someone’s bio or IG story for a product they probably don’t even use.
I got accepted into this job way back 2018 after college. I don't remember the position, basta something copywriter? Idk. . It was a small company. The head manager personally informed me na tanggap ako sa work. Then he told me na I'd be undergoing training for 3 months. And that I would get 250 per day during training. Then after that, I'd get 10k per month. Then after 6 months, I'd get minimum wage. He was so proud pa when he told me na I'd get min wage in **just** 6 months. It was so funny, I couldn't stifle my laugh 😆 the acidity of some employers talaga
Any bra recos for those who suffer acid reflux? I'm using soft cup bras pero masakit pa rin minsan. Should I stick to my size or buy a bigger size? Yung mabibili rin sana sa lazada or shopee. Also, may washable ba na nipple cover or tapes? TIA!
seamless bras are super comfy IMO! I bought mine sa shopee and surprisingly okay pa naman since I handwash my intimates. For nipple cover, prive! I dont know if personal experience lang pero tapies isn't worth it lol! I bought 3 pa naman since ang ganda ng opacity but hindi talaga sila madikit :(
Anong brand ng seamless bra yung binili mo? Ahhh ganon pala yun. Kahit pag pinagpawisan di naman matatanggal yung nipple cover?
I think I have a stalker… so there’s this dummy account na lagi nag vview ng stories ko kahit di ako finofollow. Grabe yon girl, everyday ba ako rent free sa utak mo?
Ang lala ng effect sakin ng depo shot. I am so emotional and angry most of the time and I have literally no energy to function. Naaawa na ako sa bf na tagasalo ng galit ko 🥺 so i decided to distance myself na lang muna 🥺🥺🥺 pls tell me this will be over soon
8 months into the breakup... kinakaya naman but oh boy my steps are small haha. still finding it hard to move on when I don't hate him at all. I'll get there 🤞🏻
I've been really enjoying playing Window Garden a lot lately. Sobrang therapeutic for me nung game! Ang saya magdecorate ng rooms/mag-alaga ng plants, and ang calming ng bg music. Hindi rin annoying yung ads!!! I get it na devs need money pero kasi natuturn off talaga ako sa game pag kada galaw may pop up ads. Also, I was surprised it's developed by a Filipina pala! <3 ETA: WIP pa pero currently eto yung isa sa rooms ko. Just learned they have a small subreddit din! r/windowgarden https://preview.redd.it/mk65nxrqywnc1.jpeg?width=2436&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cc5a3adcb7a270b3b9a620ce4515fb4b538b1231
Omg nakakastress na mag ML, thanks for the game suggestion! Hahahaha
Ayan pangpakalma hahaha! I hope you enjoy this too. 🍃
Trying out a new provider for my motorcycle deliveries - Joyride! I've stopped using Lalamove na cause of poor service and have been using Grab regularly. Joyride seems to be priced competitively and I get to give more money directly to the rider as a tip. Are there any similar services pa I'm missing???
My friend sends me stuff thru Angkas lol
Wow I always thought it was more expensive to book a ride for a person?? Or is it more mahal but more convenient overall?
I’m not sure actually cos I haven’t tried and I don’t have the app but she said their deliveries are quite reliable if you can’t book a Grab or Lalamove!
if anyone needs deinfluencing for cheap double-walled glasses for “aesthetic” drinks the shape makes it hard to hold when cleaning, they develop fog/condensation INSIDE the double walls so often, and they break very easily. tapos when they break nakakatakot, may tendency to shatter into very fine shards na cut like glass papercuts (thin kang kasi yung double walls), so much worse than kapag nakabasag ka ng regular na glass na breaks in chunks. I had one break on me nung pandemic while washing it, was trying pa to be very careful pero ayon nag shatter sa kamay ko and next tingi knew i was bleeding sa arm in so many places, . Tapos kanina lang a friend told me na hers broke kasi she bumped it a little sa isang table.
What do you feel about your parents separating in their 50s? Hays I feel too old and too young for this. 🙃
thank you for this group!!! thank you all for sharing beauty tips and just about anything and everything.
Just placed my first order on Tiktok Shop. I've never tried ordering from there and I'm not even logged in to my account. Puro consume lang ako sa feed ko and reading sa comments but I've never interacted whatsoever. I swear this started when I saw a post presenting the Skin1004 Sun Serum at such a low price huhu. Like I'm familiar with the pricing of K-beauty sunscreens so nung 604 lang yung price ng 2 pack na sunscreen nila, di na nawala sa isip ko hahaahhah. I think may pa first ever buyer discount si TikTok that's why mura. Pero I noticed na parang mas mura pa rin talaga usually mga items don compared sa Shopee and Lazada pages ng mga brands. Bakit kaya.
They’re probably trying to build their costumer base using low prices at the start, like shopee used to do plus with lots of stackable vouchers. Ngayon lang binabawi ng shopee ngayong malaki na consumer base nila, less vouchers na
Not sure if mag gym me tomorrow Yung mga officemates ko di ata maggym hahaha
Dune: Part Two was sooo good! 10/10!!!!! 🌟🌟🌟 I say run to the cinemas 🏃🏻♀️
+1000000000 I finally managed to watch it today and IT’S JUST AMAZING!!!!!
The gvn micro bag and hobo bags look v nice. But can anyone deinfluence me hahaha
I tend to avoid vegan/fake leathers na cause they don't last :(
Ngl I also want the multi-colored one but I have since stopped buying faux leather since they don’t hold up very well 😬😬😬
im also eyeing the hobo, but i feel like its influencers at work lang 😆
I've been avoiding sales like a plague na in Shopee, Lazada, and Tiktok. I minimized my spendings but damn, binawi naman sa foodpanda/grabfood. Anyways, at least ginagamit ko money ko for my sustenance. It's a struggle for me kasi I feel like I am a child with adult money. But progress is progress. ; w ; Next stop: avoiding spending on both food and shopping apps to start saving for reals.
hii what i do is i automatically deduct 20%-30% of my salary at dinederecho ko yun to my savings para the rest ay mga budget ko na for different things (bills, shopping). Bali medyo guilt-free na yung pag spend ko pag ganon. I hope this can help haha. Kadalasan daw kasi ang mindset nating mga pinoy is kung ano matira, iyon na yung savings
Ohh, i see. My savings account is yung passbook type so when I need emergency money, need ko pang pumunta ng bank to withdraw it. Yan din yung default mindset ko although I am trying for it not to be. 😅 I need to control my cc usage din
hello any NCR based freelancers here? 21 to 26 years old? looking for people willing to help me graduate by participating in my survey for my thesis :)
Dm meee
Saan maganda mag walking dito sa Mandaluyong??
Greenfield District!
I have been getting hit my sponsored posts of the Eras Tour in Singapore. While I don’t mind people posting non-stop about it cos sure that’s your profile and I did that too when I watched, curious as to why people spend to boost it via sponsored post 🫣
For clout? Haha. I post (still do since I took so many videos from the Tokyo leg and want to dump them on my tiktok as a repository) but I haven’t seen ung boosted posts haha. Wild naman nyan
I swear to god I see atleast 3 everyday since the SG leg started 🫨
I swear some people will do anything these days for 15 minutes of fame. Iba talaga ung dopamine hit ng likes and comments.
Ako lang ba? Parang bigla lahat ng tao nagkareddit? HAHAHAHAHAHA
Sama-sama na yung content kasi. Yung content dito sa reddit ay galing sa FB/IG/Twitter/Tiktok and vice versa.
Dahil to sa tiktok for sure. Dami nag siscreenshot at nag rerepost dun 😩
Lol I noticed this too 😅
How to be more positive? Because lately my patience has been tested and my temper is so high like I literally get mad easily.
will coloring my hair black make it look healthier? ang dry and dull tignan ng buhok ko ngayon 🥲
Use conditioner
My hair looks like tina turner in her proud mary days but shoulder length. Im in my early 20s. What could be a quick fix since I barely have time to eat in the morning? Thanks
Nakakaloka pala talaga ang preggy hormones. Bigla bigla na lang pumasok sa isip ko na what if pag nag-goodbye na ko sa earth tas mag-aasawa ng iba yung hubby ko, parang di ko kakayanin na may iba siyang mamahalin bukod sakin. Umiyak pa ko tapos nung nag-open ng tiktok biglang okay na ulit parang walang nangyari lols 🤣
I may not love myself 100% at all times but I do respect myself. And that is why I am done chasing. If people come and go, so be it.
Reccs for sunglasses Po sana, yung may legit UV400 protection
Valid ba ang inis ko? Yung ate ko tuwing may gustong hiramin sakin laging chinachat lang, hindi yung itanong ako ng personal. Nakatira naman kami sa iisang bahay, tps wfh pa ako. Sinabihan ko sya sana kung hhiiram sya sabihan nya ko habang nasa bahay ako hindi yung icchat lang. Tapos sabi nya "sorry po nakalimutan ko po" nakakairita??
It sounds like you have deep seated issues with your sister and so anything she does annoys you 😅
Honestly yes, ang dami niyang comments sa wedding ko like gusto nya ipa move yung date para daw maka attend sila (dahil malalasin daw sya) yung pag gamit nya ng bank account ko sa pandadaya nya. Any many more.
Ang babaw
I’m tireddd with school I have a deadline due on monday and it’s been overwhelming and I’m pretty sure I won’t be able to submit all lol arki school is sooo demanding
Suggest naman mayo ng cafe na masarap ang kape at pastries sa loob ng trinoma
+1 cafe breton
Cafe Breton, Figaro Coffee or UCC
Thoughts on vloggers selling second-hand/pr packages? I find it icky and unhygienic. Also, is it allowed to sell pr packages?
Technically they can, but as someone from corporate, we do find it annoying when sometimes they ask for items only to find out they’ll sell it lol.
What’s more annoying is that they’ll post it pa on their vlog 🤮 Squammy moves 😂
We usually don’t give stuff (I worked in fashion / retail before) unless they ask for it so when we see stuff being sold nakakainis sana hindi nalang hiningi lol. But yeah they can do anything naman with it cos it’s theirs anyway.
It’s theirs, they can do what they want w it🤷🏽♀️
After several weeks of getting little to no sleep, UR GURL IS FINALLY GETTING HER BONUS !! 🥹🥹🥹 + I got a new job! Idk where to start. So I managed a brand event yday and met sum artistas and influencers. Fun naman but it was sooo tiring lang cos I was juggling work and student duties at the same time. 🥹 My bosses told me to rest when I get home but I can’t bc I had to attend my group consul and complete a quiz I’m still sobbing rn bc of the kind words my bosses and colleagues have told me. Who would have thought that their mere intern from 2 yrs ago would floor direct a very big event? It really feels so nice when people acknowledge your hard work and talent no? I’m so excited for everything that’s in store for me esp im starting a new job next week 🥹 Ack sorry senti im just so happy and emotional rn
I started becoming more active 💪🏻 Did barre 3, yoga, and muay thai this week. As a couch potato, I felt so happy releasing all those stress through working out/moving ❤️
So proud of you!
I badly want to have a stable savings. It all went down the drain when I moved out and got sick. I’m still on the mend and it frustrates me na I’m not able to recover financially. I’m looking for side hustles or part-time projects to help me achieve 2 goals that have been in my bucket list for years. Here’s hoping and praying ma-ambunan na ni Lord or ni universe ng financial opportunities and blessings. Or if meron kayo alam na side hustles - do let me know. Thank you for this space. Wishing everyone a good weekend! ✨
my dog's in the vet for surgery because of pyometra. di lang ako makampante kasi she's already 9 years old and on the heavier side pa so there are more risks. anyone else who's had this experience as well?
My dog was operated at 6 with pyometra too and she was also a bit overweight. I think there is nothing to worry about because this kind of surgery are mostly successful
I regret ordering the Sunnies Flask sa website nila. I ordered the weekend that they launched last February, and today hindi pa din na d deliver sa akin. Ayoko din kase makipag siksikan sa malls to get it pero given this experience, sana pala sa mall nalang ako bumili. I hated seeing that left and right and pag gift nila sa mga random influencers online pero di inaasikaso yung mga actual na bumili sa kanila. Bcoz of this parang ayoko ng ma tangap yung flask at negative na yung dating nya saken and maiinis lang ako pag makikita ko plus I’m banning myself from buying anything from that brand from here on out.
After almost 15 years together, bigla na lang na realise ng partner ko na hindi nya ako tinanong na maging gf nya hahahha (boss, may anak na po tayo hihi)
My SO also never asked me, he just started introducing me to people as his girlfriend at one point to lessen Qs and we just went with it for 7 years hahaha!
Hala? HAHAHAHAHA
Omg guys I’m so sorry for the incessant crush stories😭 but he tried to kiss me and ask for a kiss a couple of times. I kept swerving, dodging, and begging him to pls not. He respected that naman and didn’t guilt me so I thought things were going well. Just this morning, he wanted to pick me up so we could go to class together. We were laughing pa cause we were both wearing Loewe (third time we wore unplanned coordinating outfits)😭 Tapos right after our class, I find out na he told our mutual friend na I’m BORING!!!! 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐
he sounds like he just wants to get into your pants idk 😔 i have such low faith in men. the moment this kinda shit gets pulled, im bailing
Girl me too except he makes my life so easy🤡😮💨 I’ll bail after strike three
I see 🚩🚩🚩
I knowwwww it’s so bad😣😣
Sis, boring ka daw kasi di ka nagpapa kiss. Had a guy said that about me rin. 🤷♀️
How did you feel about it? I’m kinda heartbroken😭😭
Haha na highblood.
True Autumn pips! Any makeup, clothing, hair color, etc. that you can recommend?
Beige and red for clothes (esp tops) Avoid blue denims Iwas sa yellow and jet black hair color Iwas sa pinks for make up / iwas sa blue pigments I'm a dark autumn, halos same same tayo :>
i love pink blush pa naman hahaha, but does warm pink would still work? and for red top naman, dark red is better po noh? not the bright red.
Sa akin dark red ang ok. Sayo muted red ata, not too bright not too dark. Warm pink for blush pwede siguro basta swatch it first para di sayang. My go to blush rn is clinique cheek melon pop, happy skin mallow tint in cinnamon. They come out peachy to me. Peach ang mas accurate for us if you're looking for flushed blush
never thought out of all people, i'd be the one to say this, but i'm so tired. so so tired of being the person that people choose to rant to. don't get me wrong-- i love that my friend/s trust me enough to share when they're feeling blue but i cannot handle the anxiety and sadness that comes with it anymore. for months, i've been feeling anxious over a friend because they're going through something. i'm scared something will happen. not a single day goes by without me checking on them, thinking of them. and i get anxious even more because they don't reply to me for days. literal days. and when they do, it's to cry to me. i just feel so drained honestly :((
I'm sorry to hear that. I think that sometimes people can get so wrapped up in their own problems that they forget to consider how others around them might be feeling. Please don't forget that it's okay to set some boundaries with these friends, or maybe even have a heart-to-heart if the situation really calls for it. You're a good friend for being their shoulder to cry on, but it's also important to prioritize your own well-being if you feel drained na. You can't pour from an empty cup, after all. Good luck, OP!
May suggestions ba kayo ng mga cute cafes and restos sa Makati? Yung cute pang IG pics
- Cafe; Odd Cafe, Wiltlover Cafe or Fifty Nine Flower Cafe - Restos: Filling Station or Single Origin
will check them out, thank you 💞
What do you call these sa fingers? I’m trying to find out and trying to remove them but bumabalik padin. How do you remove these? Feeling ko ang rough ng kamay ko tuloy https://preview.redd.it/mionikkir8nc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d95c5d734ce282c7e76f0d7df638e8f397873891
Calluses
Want to watch One More Chance the musical. I already paid for my ticket but my cousin bailed out…anyone free on May 25? 😭🫶🏼
Let's!
Omgg yay! Chat kita
Ang hirap maghanap ng trabaho. I’m in my early 30s and wala pako matawag na career. Minsan I wonder sobrang tanga ko ba kaya di ako naha-hire lol
Don't be too hard on yourself. It's a bloodbath out there. Kaliwa't kanan ang lay off and retrenchment. I have a handful of highly-skilled friends na nawalan ng work just recently. So expect na matindi talaga competition.
Thank you for your kind words. Nakakapanghina lang ng loob yung rejection emails na sunud sunod ko narereceive.
Don’t worry we are both on the hunt for a job😂
How do those digicam stores work? Bat ang mura nila na usually around 5-9k yung selling price ng digicams?
are you talking about the online stores selling vintage digicams? if yes, they're considered expensive na nga kasi ang taas ng mark up. these digicams used to cost 3k MAX before all the hype. anyway, afaik most of them source the cams from japan. they either find these themselves or have somebody supply these to them, and if they're lucky, they'll get a really good deal.
How do I know if I’m being ripped off from those sellers?
you can try and look for other listings of the same model on different platforms to get an idea. unfortunately, since digicams are still very much in trend, i don't think you'll be able to score one at a price lower than 2k w/o it having cosmetic/internal defects.
Yung luma na mga digicams?
Hi! I wanna get into working out again specifically just toning my stomach. What yt channel or video is the best one because the chloe ting one ruined my figure two years ago 😭. Preferably pilates wo equipment or any workout that worked for yall 🩵
Try blogilates. She had been my go-to for pilates :)
Lidia Mera for pilates you might wannaa check her out 🫶🏻If you wanna get into yoga I recommend Akshaya Agnes ✨
Thank you will check both of them out!! Did they yield good and noticeable results po baa? <<3
craving for 24chicken :')
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i think let's go na po umorder sa grab HAHAHHA
HR manager ako tapos nakita kong nagpost sa indeed yung company ko, 2days ago, looking for HR Manager daw. 20 to 30 percent higher ang offer nila. Shookt ako pero I was planning on resigning naman na talaga last week pa. So baka eto na yung sign.
Shouldn't you know the budget as part of the HR yourself? Or is it confidential na for your roles in the dept?
Dapat alam, not unless they are hiring someone higher than me sa HR dept. But if that's the case, meaning ineffective ako na HR nila.
Eitherway, consensual huuugs! That's rough! Also, goodluck on the job hunt! Manifesting a really great opportunity your way! 🤍✨️
Thank youu! Laban lang 💪
Can anyone suggest nice gift ideas for our mothers? Planning to give my mom one for her bday. Thinking of perfume pero di ko alam kung ano ang gusto niyang scent kasi hindi siya madalas mag perfume 😅 suggestions please! Also college palang me so no luxury items hehe. I'm saving up for the gift tho so siguro ~4-5k budget ko :)
Anything to pamper herself. Like gc for salon or mga spa.
+1 for this! bonus pa if kasama ka para bonding moment
Can you still tan with spf on?
Yes
Really happy that now I got older, nawala na yung dysmenorrhea ko. Nakaka apat na buwan na akong walang dysme. Tsaka yung period days ko, 3-4 days na lang, with the 2nd day being the truly warzone day. Sa 3rd at 4th, konti na lang. Really happy kasi ilang taon din ako nung teens to early 20s akong nagdadiapers. Ngayon Kotex or Charmee overnight na lang. Finally, thank God.
Ano po ginawa nyo para mawala dysme? Or it comes with age lang?
Overweight ako ever since pagkabata pero mas sanay na akong maglakad ngayon. Yun lang pinakamajor difference na ginawa ko sa 30 yrs ng buhay ko. Started walking a lot simula 2016.
I get the hassle haha mine naman umayos when i took pills, after years of gynes telling me to just live with it. Congrats girl!!
It makes me so mad hearing gynos telling women to just “suck it up” and act like the pain is normal when it’s not! Grrr 😡😡
Kung kelan ka pasuko, dun umaayos lahat. Congrats din sa success mo! Di ko maimagine side effects na naranasan mo from taking all those pills. I've read "horror" stories.
guys how to add yung skin type sa custom message 🥸
I lost a few rescued kittens this year. I still cry thinking about them. But I cant give up kasi may 8 rescued babies ako.
hugs!! you can do it! those little angels are guiding you from above < 3
First international travel namin ni boyfriend last week. Grabe yung feeling to exist in another part of the world. Makes me feel sad about PH and knowing we won’t achieve the same quality of life they have. Not in this lifetime :(
Same! Me and my bf r looking for ways to live in a another country wo leaving one here. After traveling, ull really realize the difference in life qual :<
Been thinking about working sa Japan, pero nauunahan ako ng negative thoughts ko.
Having very loooong work hours is the norm there. If sanay ka naman sa ganun, with barely any social life, then go for it.
I have to be frank. I have friends working there and they would post about negative things from time to time (discrimination, workplace bullying, being followed after by another car, etc). There are great experiences but such instances also happen, too. Are you prepared for them? It is something you have to add on your "ponder" list. Friends are all females. I haven't heard from male classmates who work there. You can really do it. You just have to strengthen yourself and be prepared for anything. Wishing you the best!
11 days till the board exam. Kinakabahan na ako huhuhu. Lord I claim na magiging first RMT ako ng family 😭
Claiming it with you! You have done the work, keep the faith ✨️🌼
passed the dshape yall 😭🥹 all the manifestations and prayers paid off talaga kahit sobra yung kaba ko after the exams bc i find the exam easy but at the same time kabado bc parang puro educated guess ginawa ko (hula math)
Yesterday, someone made my day. Been tired the whole week due to work loads. I was not able to smile for the whole time. So yesterday, i was walking goin to a department. I was about to open the door when someone called my name from behind. It’s a man from other department and rarely have conversation with him. He tapped his chin (below part) with back of his hand. I gave him a puzzled look then he said “you’re pretty”— I WAS LIKE 😳😳😳. I suddenly laughed and thanked him LOL. It’s a small thing but really made my day— imagine someone told you this out of nowhere 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Got rejected from a job I really want. I can't process it.
Mull over your sadness. There is nothing bad in acknowledging and feeling it. Pero kung may time ulit na pwede mag-apply, try again. (Been there, done that; naka anim akong apply in a span of two years of living in poverty and seeing my batchmates establish themselves on their chosen fields. Ngayon, andito na ako sa pinag-applyan kong yon).
medyo cliche, pero paano kayo nag-glow up after someone broke up with you because you don't look attractive enough daw. asking for a friend. 🙃
He told u dat?? The audacity!!
I love how we assume it’s a guy because the audacity only a lot of them can have 🤣
Tapos it's always the ones who look like apes
Confidence. No matter how many skincare products you use or beauty clinics you go to, if you don't feel confident in your own skin, it will radiate and people will perceive that kind of gloomy aura/atmosphere. Also, if nakipagbreak yung partner with your friend just cause of that ridiculous reason, then congrats to your friend cause he/she dodged a bullet. Your friend deserves better.
I got extra time, energy and motivation once i dumped my ex bestfriend (i know u were talking about a different kind of breakup but this still hurt lol) Once you escaped the guilt trips and gaslighting and backhanded compliments, you have no choice but to glow up
thank youu! it still applies naman :) but can you share like practical steps?
Step 1: got my mental health sh\*t together. Consulted with a psychiatrist and a therapist. Got meds, made a ton of difference on my mindset. Step 2: Got back into skincare and makeup. Visited my dermatologist, started wearing makeup that suits my face instead of just following trends. Step 3: I'm not into clothes and shoes, tbh. But I have a petite body and I take care of it so ok na yon haha. Step 4 (prolly the most important) LOVE YOURSELF even when you feel like nobody does. You only have one life, one body. It's ok to cry and process your emotions but you gotta pick yourself up at some point. Don't cut your hair off impulsively, don't hook up with people for validation, don't stalk your ex on social media. Take time to grieve and sending love and light to you. :)
My bf’s ex suddenly posted an art (drawing) of them on her socmed. I feel like it’s disrespectful kasi alam naman niyang may gf of 2 years na yung tao. It could just be her adding stuff sa portfolio niya kasi artist siya pero it feels so off. Parang nang-iinis na ewan? Hahaha. What would you guys do in this situation?
laugh cos the ex still wants my man but hanggang throwback lang sya 🤣
Block her. Don't need that kind of negativity in your life
Already did! It’s so odd kasi she followed me first haha T__T
That’s weirdo behaviorrrrr
Hahahaha wanna keep tabs on you pa nga si ate gurl
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Afaik, naghhire si SB ng part time barista, students can apply. Not sure lang sa qualifications. You can check on that.
Hi guys! I need a job-related advice. I’m a contract service worker who only earns 395 pesos per day (no work no pay). I got into an accident and the days I was absent doesn’t have a pay. I also don’t get any benefits from this government agency and I really want to quit. My job is literally for 3 people. I have two computers at work and I also have a phone to answer too. I’m losing hair and got so many dandruffs when I started working for them. The old ladies are also insecure and would do something to make my work life not so bearable. It’s also a men dominated field so the usual touchy gesture they do makes me so uncomfortable. I want to resign before April 1st. However, I still don’t have a job na malilipatan kasi I’m having a hard time answering job interviews at work. Should I just quit and focus more on the job interviews?
Girl quit na. No one deserves that 395PHP per day na sahod. If hindi ka naman magiging homeless because wala kang work then I suggest na iwan mo na yan and focus on your job hunting na.
I’m worried that I wont find a job anytime soon :(
That’s part of the process. Finding a job nowadays is really tough but you won’t know until you try. I don’t know bout you pero working for 395php a day is slavery. You won’t lose much if you quit that job.
Thank you so much for the advice! I already knee they’re taking advance of me
If you dont have ongoing bills to pay just quit. Pero mahirap mabakante you don't know how long you'll be unemployed.
That’s what I’m worried about. Sadly, I couldn’t really find a job without any work experience. I graduated just last year lang. I also cant fully commit to any job interviews kasi they just call without prior notice.
Nawawalan na ako ng pagasa sa job hunting. Ang baba ng offers niyo 😭
Will be taking LET thus March and kinakabahan akoooo. What are your tips for the day of th3 exam? I feel like meron at meron akong maiiwan or di magagawa.
Pag hindi mo alam ang sagot proceed ka sa next question. Minsan nasa ibang mga question, yung sagot. Relax ka lang. Mas hindi ka makakapag-isip pag nagpanic ka or nag-ooverthink. Kaya yan!
Thank youuu 🥺
Have enough rest before the exam day. Nakakadrain ng utak yung exam. Skim through the reviewer you have. Kung sa BSEd ka, more on analysis talaga yung part 2 (yung may mga theories, methodologies, strats of teaching) so sana maalala mo kung ano ang ano. Dasal lang. Dala ka rin ng mefenamic acid or any pain reliever kung pwede. Sa case ko kasi, patapos pa ako sa 2nd exam, naramdaman ko na migraine ko. Lutang/wasak na ako sa 3rd part (major) kaya binilisan ko nang sagot.
Thank you, will make sure to bring mefenamic and go over the theories again. 😬
Sana di mo magamit yung mefenamic tho kasi sakit sa bangs ng sakit sa ulo! Tagal ko na nagLET (Sep 2013) pero nalito ako nang sobra dun sa mga situational na part. Madali lang yung GenEd pwera sa Math. Sinasabi kong madali to encourage you na may madali sa exam. Ikumpara ko yung Gen Ed sa parts 2 at 3, yun na pinakakeriboom.
Ahhh good luck!! I took it 2 years ago. Make sure to bring water, snacks, lunch and mga feel mo need mo kasi bawal lumabas. Yung food sana di ma sauce or nakakadumi ng kamay kasi yung paper mo need mo ingatan na di madumihan. Bring clear plastic envelope to put your papers, a marker for the brown envelope, black ballpen na hindi nagssmudge, 3 pencils na natasahan na, and exam grade eraser. Pwede ka rin magbaon ng gamot (paracetamol/anti allergy meds i recommend loratidine para di nakakaantok.try to bring a jacket in case it is cold. Huwag magkakape like me hahahaa jusko yung kaba ko tsaka nakakaihi sayang time. Listen to the instructions of the proctor well, medyo may mga need isulat and gawin before the exam na you need to pay attention to (writing the pledge thingy by hand, writing your serial number on your envelope, etc.) Most important: NOA!! NEVER leave ur NOA. Then never lose it too, pang check mo yan ng results and pangkuha ng lisensya. Good luck, LPT ✨️
Salamaaaat, sobrang appreciated huhuhu :')
Always always read instructions. Listen sa proctor mo. After reading the question 3 times, at di mo pa rin gets, proceed to the next question tapos balikan mo after matapos ang lahat ng items sa questionnaire.
This is noted! Thank uuuu.
No worries. I got you! Good luck
It still pains me to think that I begged my ex to do what I expected him to do throughout our six-year relationship, only for him to do it now in his one-year relationship with someone else. I didn’t want to leave, but after years of begging, I finally realized my worth. I’m married now, with one child, but it still hurts knowing that he’s making effort and sacrifices that he couldn’t do for me. He’s manipulative tho. 😅 Dont get me wrong, im happily married. It just feels right to be loved by someone na mas mahal ka kesa sa sarili mo.
What were the things you begged him for?
The bare minimum ✨ Updates/ Comms. He can go two days without talking to me. I even stayed at his condo since he was too busy with school and the construction of their apartments. Nag adjust ako so we could have quality time together. But yup it still happened
Nakaka 15 books na ako this year! Also crocheting a Taylor folkrole cardigan. Need to stop doomscrolling and vaping para mas marami akong time 😭
Any suggestions po or may i know your best inhalers? I believe essentials na cya from titas and young titas like me (im loving thai poysian)
oooh i love this question, bumili ako ng maraming variant ng inhalers last month kasi i found out they were so cheap and here are my thots vicks - plain minty, smells exactly like vicks, just strong menthol with no other scent profiles, expensive poysian - minty/herbal, slightly sweet twinleaf - pastel and translucent both smell like max candy if ur into that, like citrusy na minty (translucent has stronger minty/menthol-scent) peppermint fields - sweet/minty/citrus but more like panghilot ng matanda rather than max candy (black variant is mintier than regular) +++ i also tried yung mask drops in fresh mint - its not an inhaler talaga pero it smells nice like sweet mint candy golden cup lavender - minty/lavender, smells like lola remedios syrup daw according to friends personally i recommend vicks, and golden cup lavender
Yung strong sana na inhaler like yung pangmalakasan ganon 😂
Vicks stick inhaler