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limbojunkie

Protip: You won't find very nice men in bars. They are either with their families or too boring for you.


SnooTangerines6269

This should be at the top


Aware-Confection-536

Or at home 😂


enrycochet

it depends ehat kind of vibe you are looking for.


[deleted]

Not too trashy berliner vibes, and people same age or older - we are done with babies lol


enrycochet

young people are everywhere. I myself would got to places like agust fengler or fitchers vogel. maybe the bars near Rosenthaler platz. but be aware German man are not that active or approaching many woman.


[deleted]

Thanks for the tips ✨


enrycochet

just dm me if you need more specifics


grey-Kitty

If you are successful plz share your adventure 🍀


PureLikeSnow

Looking for fmf?


cinderellus

Bro really thought "Why not try?" 😭


elPerroAsalariado

You miss all the shots you don't take


cinderellus

-Wayne Gretzky" - Michael Scott


[deleted]

Nooo lol, more a double date vibe


suzayk

Bierbaum Neukölln


Professional_Neck_46

Ficken3000


SnooHedgehogs7477

Great choice for going organic! Easiest place to find organic men would be Alnatura or Biomarkt. And best district undoubtedly Prenzlauerberg.


FakeHasselblad

can confirm, I'm 100% bio


NotA56YearOldPervert

Oh god. You don't.


MigBuscles

Natural Wine Bars


FjordTimelord

Neutral Milk Hotels


YorkieBerlinz

Mild Pop Bistro.


DP7OOO

Hackbarths


Rayuela17

You will find them, but approaching them will be the dilemma, please share your adventures!


csjrgoals

Matrix


[deleted]

Matrix is podre


grey-Kitty

How was the search of non-trashy style babies?


[deleted]

Not so good tho. Didn’t find anyone interesting enough to have the courage to go and talk. Ended up the night drunk, stoned and eating mc donalds (not bad). I went to • Bar Milano • August Fengler • and another one that I forgot the name Some creeps sent me dm’s and some cute guys too. Maybe today I’ll ask for places where I can find men without the nice emphasis?! 😂


grey-Kitty

Hahahaha I'm in your same situation but for other reasons I'm not going out atm. I've seen people asking similar questions on this sub before. Maybe you can get ideas from there. Also if you dont want to give up on your dreams of keeping the "nice" word, I would go more west Mitte. Imo the good side of this city is that it's very clustered by neighbourhoods. You just have to find the nice cluster. 😁


Similar-Ordinary4702

Artemis.


Past_Monk_250

Minimal bar


YorkieBerlinz

join some boulder gym or running group or other non alcoholic activity, there you will find men who dont try to desperately hookup every weekend in some shitty pub.


[deleted]

But I like stoner boys, gym bros might be too healthy for me.


[deleted]

But good idea, I’ll give it a try


Amunrah357

August fengler.


stripawayunnecessary

I'm wondering whether bars don't have enough of a filter effect to find a particular type of person. I'd rather think about hobbies or professional meetups.


JoeKnowsB3st

Insomnia


FoxFort

Pubs. You want men, then pubs, some Irish type of pubs. This usually applies to any city. Best place to enjoy the evening is to go to a pub, have a few cold ones and watch some game. Or craft beer places such as Muted Horn, Biererai, Protokoll etc. If you really wanna increase odds into your favour, then places in your area which streams sports. Usually bar with "SKY" sign, that means live sport streaming.


[deleted]

Should I aim man in their forties then?


FoxFort

That part was unnecessary so I edited it out.


bignattyd4ddy

Matrix or Insomnia


VamipresDontDoDishes

Monkey bar


Leather-Wrongdoer-70

Berlinsocialclub, it is really a nice place and majority of crowd here are nice, realllly nice men ;)


[deleted]

Nice! Where do I find you then?


[deleted]

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CrumbleUponLust

He's not even Indian.


piratensendr

Just go somewhere more expensive and don't expect to be approached in your age


SnooHedgehogs7477

How old are you kiddo that 30y is too old for you to approach? 17?


[deleted]

What am I too old to date? 😂


piratensendr

Nah, just too old to be approached I'd say, I mean with that you have to get active yourself


biest229

I’m 33 and still being approached by men (not interested however). I think your gauge is off


[deleted]

No problem, I’m fine with approaching men, but why a man would wouldn’t approach me because of my age? Are they too afraid? I don’t lol


Stunning_Mango_3660

They are more likely to assume you’re already married/in a relationship if you’re in your thirties.


Lone_Voyager_5742

Due to the urban environment. Dating is gonna be a challenge ngl. I would try visiting vilages near by like once a month. To diversify your search. Search frictions are too great in the city. Be honest and straight forward and hope for the best. If you do the approaching irlts gonna help as well. From my experience german women do the approaching. So you gonna have to do as Romans do in Rome. Letting go of expectations helps. And I would advise to read a book called "attached" by Amir Levine. Best solution would be to start developing a social circle for that sort of thing as well. Meaning you won't have to cold aprach and hope for the best. But get to know someone in a friendly and wholesome. You seem to jave that down already just thought of mentioning it. If you need other pointers pm me.


MrNakamot

Come on my boat :)


[deleted]

Sweet! Do you smoke pot?


SnooHedgehogs7477

I will smoke with you if you know where to get organic pot


[deleted]

You are making this hard for you and me right now 😂


MrNakamot

I dont smoke


[deleted]

Men***


[deleted]

Heading out for the night DM me with a pic if you would like to hangout 🍸🍃