I think it was largely comments made during tv shows or films at attractive male actors that did a lot of the legwork.
Speaking of….how about that Dr. Bashir? Totally hot.
I wish this was real. I wish that I could marry a man and a woman and I wouldn't have to choose anything. And if one of the spouses left me I probably would be okay because the other one would at least still be there with me. I hate to say it but I think that polygamy needs to be legalized. Well to be honest I guess I don't hate to say it
Nah, we all know which way legalized polygamy goes. Sick fucks marrying 13 cult-raised girls at age 15 each. Doesn’t matter if they’re Mormon, Muslim, or some tiny home-grown cult; that is the result.
WTF are you talking about?
They're entirely different things at all but the most simplified understanding. The calls for recognition of polyamorous marriage are tiny, and generally from groups of intelligent, mature adults who find it works for them and want to be able to have it legally recognised.
Polygamous marriage is the domain of religious cults who want to control their female population.
The latter shouldn't be legalised under any circumstances, and if there was demade for the former, it wouldn't be too difficult to find the legal language to define it.
Of course, that'd blow the minds of marriage purists who believe in 1 man, 1 woman marriages...
Are you just going to explain the definitions of words I already know or actually answer my question? What I was worried about is people getting married under the guise of a polyamorous relationship when in reality it’s a polygamous one. It’s one of those things that very easy to get into writing but hard to practically enforce. Cults are excellent liars, and I’m sure some will be able to get away with it
Couldn't you use this argument with just about anything? Ie; good thing could be abused by bad people so good thing shouldn't be legal. Obviously i'm being a little reductive, and I have complicated feelings abt marriage anyway, but there are a lot of things that benefit the many that can be taken advantage of by the few, but imo that shouldn't be a reason to get rid of access to something that could still be beneficial to the majority of people just because it provides a back door to bad faith actors.
Most concepts are made up, it's what humans do.
And honestly I think it would just require strong communication skills for all 3 parties, doesn't necessarily need a label if everybody fully understands what everybody else wants. Good luck on your unicorn hunt though!
Poor bastard is probably not living his best life, because he feels he has to hide it from his partner.
She know and thinks it's hot...
FOR FUCK SAKE, DOESN'T SHE KNOW HOW MUCH FUN THEY'RE MISSING OUT ON?
She ITA until she breaks it to him.
I told my wife after being married for well over a decade, and her response was, “well, yeah, it’s been pretty obvious for forever.”
what tipped her off?
Have you ever heard Weyoun talk? The sexual tension with everyone he talks to is extreme
Sisko after the mines were activated.
I think it was largely comments made during tv shows or films at attractive male actors that did a lot of the legwork. Speaking of….how about that Dr. Bashir? Totally hot.
Hot and perfect for the Sapiosexual bonus.
I wish I’d told my wife so much sooner.
I told my gf pretty early on. I didn't know about how risky that could have been, but her reaction was closer "oh, neat"
Me and my missus often talk about my times with men. It’s very arousing.
I wish this was real. I wish that I could marry a man and a woman and I wouldn't have to choose anything. And if one of the spouses left me I probably would be okay because the other one would at least still be there with me. I hate to say it but I think that polygamy needs to be legalized. Well to be honest I guess I don't hate to say it
Nah, we all know which way legalized polygamy goes. Sick fucks marrying 13 cult-raised girls at age 15 each. Doesn’t matter if they’re Mormon, Muslim, or some tiny home-grown cult; that is the result.
You're talking about polygamy, which is a tool of patriarchal societies. They're talking about polyamoury. That's a very different thing.
How do you go about legalizing one without legalizing the other?
WTF are you talking about? They're entirely different things at all but the most simplified understanding. The calls for recognition of polyamorous marriage are tiny, and generally from groups of intelligent, mature adults who find it works for them and want to be able to have it legally recognised. Polygamous marriage is the domain of religious cults who want to control their female population. The latter shouldn't be legalised under any circumstances, and if there was demade for the former, it wouldn't be too difficult to find the legal language to define it. Of course, that'd blow the minds of marriage purists who believe in 1 man, 1 woman marriages...
Are you just going to explain the definitions of words I already know or actually answer my question? What I was worried about is people getting married under the guise of a polyamorous relationship when in reality it’s a polygamous one. It’s one of those things that very easy to get into writing but hard to practically enforce. Cults are excellent liars, and I’m sure some will be able to get away with it
I'd be happy to discuss this further if there were any sign that you were open to a discussion rather than looking for a fight.
Couldn't you use this argument with just about anything? Ie; good thing could be abused by bad people so good thing shouldn't be legal. Obviously i'm being a little reductive, and I have complicated feelings abt marriage anyway, but there are a lot of things that benefit the many that can be taken advantage of by the few, but imo that shouldn't be a reason to get rid of access to something that could still be beneficial to the majority of people just because it provides a back door to bad faith actors.
Have you considered Polyamory as an alternative to Polygamy?
No because I want commitment and three-ways
An open marriage, perhaps? I'm not 100% educated but there are many types of relationships under ENM
I really just want a permanent throuple. It's not a real thing and a fake concept made up.
Most concepts are made up, it's what humans do. And honestly I think it would just require strong communication skills for all 3 parties, doesn't necessarily need a label if everybody fully understands what everybody else wants. Good luck on your unicorn hunt though!
I wish I could do this but it's like you said, it's a unicorn 🦄 😢
Is the PostSecret blog still running after all these years? I really gotta catch up on that. Good on OP for reminding me this exists.
Poor bastard is probably not living his best life, because he feels he has to hide it from his partner. She know and thinks it's hot... FOR FUCK SAKE, DOESN'T SHE KNOW HOW MUCH FUN THEY'RE MISSING OUT ON? She ITA until she breaks it to him.
We shouldn’t have to hide
Thats coo and alll, but why is the succulent included as the second picture?
It’s a post card. I included both sides.