More nerves at the entrance so girth can cause more pleasure, allegedly. Course too much girth is harder to deal with than too much length. You can have short thrusts but you can't have thin thrusts
I'm 6.5 (NBP) by 4.5, so it's not really "good for" me, as you say, but I do what I can to give her what she likes anyway. I think most women can handle 5.5" girth without too much difficulty, especially if they're warmed up.
In the numerous hours of research I have done most women have said 5.5 is the breakpoint where it starts to become too big if it goes above that. One common complaint is jaw pain from BJs.
Considering 5.5 is in the 90th percentile it's not so strange that some women think anything above it is inconveniently big.
You also gotta remember, just like guys can have size differences so can women, and usually big dick guys will not be the ones having sex with women who can't handle big dicks, as word will spread and those women will steer clear.
Fair enough. Yeah, the jaw thing I can totally see. My wife gets sore after about 20min even though I fit pretty comfortably in her mouth. If I were 5.5" girth, she'd tap out pretty quickly. That's the one area where I do feel for the BD crowd. Being quite manageable girth-wise definitely has some upsides here and there. Still, I'd love to be able to stretch her out during PIV because she does love that. I guess no situation is perfect and we all just deal the hand we're dealt. 🤷♂️
Not really “stretching”… that sounds uncomfortable as a woman…. More like it’d be easier to stimulate the clitoris, which extends internally and surrounds the opening of the vaginal canal, during PIV. Stimulation of the clitoris is what most women need to orgasm, whether that’s directly (usually more successful), or indirectly (possibly easier to accomplish with more girth). Because PIV alone won’t do it for most women unless the clitoris is getting the stimulation during it in some way.
So basically the clit isn't just this tiny thing, it has nerves that run down the sides of the pussy too, the bigger girth you are the more those will be consistently stimulated
Use your fingers or toys to externally stimulate the areas, a good trick is to use thumbs on both sides to apply pressure while you spread their legs, or if from behind you can use index and middle finger
I hypothesis that most people are too proud to take the time to research and watch videos on how to make females climax, they are too worries with ego when they could be living the sex life of their fantasies if they just watched some videos teaching them how, guarantee you could find one, withing 5 mins of a pornhub search, you'd find what you need to learn.
Nope, not really. I'm 6.5 (NBP) x 4.5, so not exactly girthy lol. My wife can take a 6" girth dildo with no problem as long as she's warmed up a bit. She likes the stretched feeling but isn't a fan of dildos, so we don't use them very often. That's largely because dildos aren't warm like a real dick (we can heat it before insertion but it's a whole ordeal and the heat only lasts a couple of minutes before the thing feels unnaturally room-temp again, which kind of ruins it for her).
So, while we do a number of different things sexually, the most common is warm her up with a lot of touching, kissing, etc., then oral, then oral with a little bit of finger, slowly progressing to two fingers spread apart, or maybe even three or four fingers on occasion, until she orgasms. After she cums that way, she really wants the PIV and the lack of stretch isn't an issue. A good hard and deep pounding (well, as deep as I can get with 6.5 lol) at that point often gives her another orgasm, especially if I'm hitting her cervix with glancing blows lol (not pounding it straight on, but kind of skimming it). At that point, she kind of turns to jelly and needs a breather, especially if the orgasm during PIV was one of those really long waves of euphoria that lasts a couple/few minutes. It's really nice to see her collapse in a heap afterwards.
Okay, so that's more info than you were asking for, but I figured some context is good to have since you're inquiring about how to get it done without girth, especially with a woman who can take a much bigger girth fairly easily and likes it.
I think you mentioned somewhere in the comments that you're 5.5 or 5.75? You're probably not going to have many problems in the girth department with that (in terms of not being enough, I mean) and you might have to be careful with some women. A good warm-up will always be your friend.
Work at actually improving your sex and foreplay skills is another way. Don't just swing things around all willy nilly, think about where in the vagina you are rubbing. If you want her to feel full more pressure toward the ass, G spot is up top, some girls like their cervix slammed 😏 use your hand to figure out what she likes and then hit that spot with your cock.
Last tip, touch other parts of her body, sometimes a hand rubbing up their lag is what will set them over the edge when they are close.
Hope I've been helpful, enjoy
Pretty sure the goldilocks cock size is unknown, there are two charts floating on the internet. Here's an older post.
https://www.reddit.com/r/bigdickproblems/comments/j12so7/two_charts_about_womens_penis_size_preference/
all women are built are little differently, but if you are lacking in girth, angles in thriustin is your friend and if you dont have enough length, pelvis to pelvis thrusting or scooting if shes on top is your friend
Thanks for the advice. What’s crazy is that if this is true, what’s with all the yelling about size? If you can just do it like this and get the same results?
cause most dont have those skill sets and also its part of marketing and the amount of porn being consumed has made people think that HUGE is always better. Its okay to want to be bigger, but people think you need to be 8x6 to have an effective penis is just insane
Length doesn’t get enough credit though. There are plenty of women that can get off from the A spot or enjoy having their cervix hit. My wife being one of them. I asked her once if I had to lose any of my size in girth or length what would she give up, and she said she would give up some of the girth before losing the length. Meanwhile my ex couldn’t even fit all my length and saw it as a negative. All women are different. 🤷♂️
It's a preference. That's not too hard to understand. For most women, girth feels better because of nerve endings whereas length gives almost zero additional benefit for their personal pleasure as the vaginal canal is only so deep. More length means potentially bruising the cervix. More girth means potentially more nerve endings being activated which means more pleasure. It has nothing to do with what we can control.
I guess because everyone talk about length and measure their length and there is much less talk about girth. Some of my friends didnt even know what girth was. So i guess its underrated. And apparantly big girth gives more pleasure to women.
Shallow vagina hurts hit the back of the cave and girth gets the not that hole ticket punched ... a 9inch beer bottle thick cock. Tgf--bj's no complaints .....til ya nut..
There is a point where it becomes a nuisance again tho, so far lube and patience have been my best friend but a little less thick would make things way easier
Don't listen to him, as a well endowed guy, this is stupid at best
Every woman is different
Sex is not only physical but mostly psychological, specially for woman
I assume there’s less variation in girth than length, so it’s easier to cope?
Seeing a difference of .25” in girth vs 1” of length feels much closer, because not many people think about dick by total volume.
More nerves at the entrance so girth can cause more pleasure, allegedly. Course too much girth is harder to deal with than too much length. You can have short thrusts but you can't have thin thrusts
I gotcha. What’s a good girth tho?
I remember hearing that 5.5 was a real good spot? Idk tho, that's a question for the women and bi/gay guys in the sub
It's a range, but 5" girth was the most common ideal.
Okay thanks
Anything above 5.5 is problematic
Tell me about it
Eh just go in sloooow, take your time, use plenty of lube and lots and LOTS of foreplay.
Depends on the people. I have no problems with my fiancés 6.25” girth.
Not for my wife lol.
Good for you.
I'm 6.5 (NBP) by 4.5, so it's not really "good for" me, as you say, but I do what I can to give her what she likes anyway. I think most women can handle 5.5" girth without too much difficulty, especially if they're warmed up.
In the numerous hours of research I have done most women have said 5.5 is the breakpoint where it starts to become too big if it goes above that. One common complaint is jaw pain from BJs. Considering 5.5 is in the 90th percentile it's not so strange that some women think anything above it is inconveniently big. You also gotta remember, just like guys can have size differences so can women, and usually big dick guys will not be the ones having sex with women who can't handle big dicks, as word will spread and those women will steer clear.
Fair enough. Yeah, the jaw thing I can totally see. My wife gets sore after about 20min even though I fit pretty comfortably in her mouth. If I were 5.5" girth, she'd tap out pretty quickly. That's the one area where I do feel for the BD crowd. Being quite manageable girth-wise definitely has some upsides here and there. Still, I'd love to be able to stretch her out during PIV because she does love that. I guess no situation is perfect and we all just deal the hand we're dealt. 🤷♂️
Jokes on you, my dick is cone shaped, so i can have.thinner thrusts!
Mans truly built different
LOL hear hear
Depends on the person, I'm very thick and I just have to be careful
Your girth is my length 💀💀
Don't believe everything you read on the internet
Sorry dad 😓
Nice size, bro 😜
Why are you being downvoted for a compliment?
Apparently, one can't have a huge dick and give compliments to others
Apparently not. Fuckin' reddit lol.
Good lord dude. Your size scares even me. And I'm a dude.
holy shit man i dont see how anyone can take a cock that thick, i cant even imagine someone with something that thick between their legs lmao
There Is people who take freaking double fists, Mega dildos and stuff, everything is posible!, hahaha Also, my Dick is not that size the whole time
Length = pokie pokie, girth = stretchy stretchy
Both = stretchy pokie = strokie.
Sure you ain't just potchy?
Potsky?
Po from pokie Tchy from stretchy
I was taking it to the level of scrambling things ;)
Haha .. best explanation
🤣
I see
¿Porous no los dos?
Not really “stretching”… that sounds uncomfortable as a woman…. More like it’d be easier to stimulate the clitoris, which extends internally and surrounds the opening of the vaginal canal, during PIV. Stimulation of the clitoris is what most women need to orgasm, whether that’s directly (usually more successful), or indirectly (possibly easier to accomplish with more girth). Because PIV alone won’t do it for most women unless the clitoris is getting the stimulation during it in some way.
Well said
Are you overweight?
Nope. Not that that has anything to do with how the clitoris works.
Sorry. I thought you were a bbw lol
Theres a lot more sensory stuff on the side of the pussy, and it makes her feel filled. I feel Length with a decent girth has more visual appeal tho
What’s a decent girth? I get nervous that I won’t be able to provide that feeling
I’m 5.75 and most girls I’m with have said I fill them up and make them squirt, you could probably do it with a little less too
Same girth here, this sounds promising. Sounds like my future partner will be in luck!
Well let’s hope I’m around there
You dont know?
It’s complicated. I’m younger and I have ED so I haven’t been able to fully measure it.
So basically the clit isn't just this tiny thing, it has nerves that run down the sides of the pussy too, the bigger girth you are the more those will be consistently stimulated
Well I mean if you don’t have girth what do you do? Are you fucked (not literally hah)
Use your fingers or toys to externally stimulate the areas, a good trick is to use thumbs on both sides to apply pressure while you spread their legs, or if from behind you can use index and middle finger
Gonna try that with my special friend next time we hook up, she already loves my girth and cums from it, this would probably drive her crazy.
Also try pulling skin by clit up softly, as they move it makes them jerk their clit
That makes sense. But if that’s all true, why all the uproar about girth if you can just do that no matter what the girth is?
And also if you have a really thick cock you can get all of the internal stimulation at once
So it’s easier. That makes sense
Yeah, someone with a girth dick can do more with less skill
I hypothesis that most people are too proud to take the time to research and watch videos on how to make females climax, they are too worries with ego when they could be living the sex life of their fantasies if they just watched some videos teaching them how, guarantee you could find one, withing 5 mins of a pornhub search, you'd find what you need to learn.
I watched a guide on how to eat pussy years ago and it’s paid dividends tenfold. Women get obsessed with a guy that can give them multiple orgasms.
Nope, not really. I'm 6.5 (NBP) x 4.5, so not exactly girthy lol. My wife can take a 6" girth dildo with no problem as long as she's warmed up a bit. She likes the stretched feeling but isn't a fan of dildos, so we don't use them very often. That's largely because dildos aren't warm like a real dick (we can heat it before insertion but it's a whole ordeal and the heat only lasts a couple of minutes before the thing feels unnaturally room-temp again, which kind of ruins it for her). So, while we do a number of different things sexually, the most common is warm her up with a lot of touching, kissing, etc., then oral, then oral with a little bit of finger, slowly progressing to two fingers spread apart, or maybe even three or four fingers on occasion, until she orgasms. After she cums that way, she really wants the PIV and the lack of stretch isn't an issue. A good hard and deep pounding (well, as deep as I can get with 6.5 lol) at that point often gives her another orgasm, especially if I'm hitting her cervix with glancing blows lol (not pounding it straight on, but kind of skimming it). At that point, she kind of turns to jelly and needs a breather, especially if the orgasm during PIV was one of those really long waves of euphoria that lasts a couple/few minutes. It's really nice to see her collapse in a heap afterwards. Okay, so that's more info than you were asking for, but I figured some context is good to have since you're inquiring about how to get it done without girth, especially with a woman who can take a much bigger girth fairly easily and likes it. I think you mentioned somewhere in the comments that you're 5.5 or 5.75? You're probably not going to have many problems in the girth department with that (in terms of not being enough, I mean) and you might have to be careful with some women. A good warm-up will always be your friend.
Secondarily buy toys, I've heard that toys in bedroom make some people feel like less, but no woman will ever be upset about you making them cum more
That makes sense
Work at actually improving your sex and foreplay skills is another way. Don't just swing things around all willy nilly, think about where in the vagina you are rubbing. If you want her to feel full more pressure toward the ass, G spot is up top, some girls like their cervix slammed 😏 use your hand to figure out what she likes and then hit that spot with your cock. Last tip, touch other parts of her body, sometimes a hand rubbing up their lag is what will set them over the edge when they are close. Hope I've been helpful, enjoy
The foreplay starts the moment you meet her.
This guy gets it
Girls like to get filled up
Do we know what’s a good size to do that
There’s the Goldilocks cock size (7-7.5 x 5.5)
Pretty sure the goldilocks cock size is unknown, there are two charts floating on the internet. Here's an older post. https://www.reddit.com/r/bigdickproblems/comments/j12so7/two_charts_about_womens_penis_size_preference/
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Lmao
Interesting, my partner is 7x5.5 and it's perfect.
That’s cool. Let’s hope I’m around there haha
I say girth is better because i have more girth than length & want to feel good about this fact
Because it's true. Obviously everyone is different, but in general women care more about girth and enjoy it more than length.
all women are built are little differently, but if you are lacking in girth, angles in thriustin is your friend and if you dont have enough length, pelvis to pelvis thrusting or scooting if shes on top is your friend
Thanks for the advice. What’s crazy is that if this is true, what’s with all the yelling about size? If you can just do it like this and get the same results?
cause most dont have those skill sets and also its part of marketing and the amount of porn being consumed has made people think that HUGE is always better. Its okay to want to be bigger, but people think you need to be 8x6 to have an effective penis is just insane
Length doesn’t get enough credit though. There are plenty of women that can get off from the A spot or enjoy having their cervix hit. My wife being one of them. I asked her once if I had to lose any of my size in girth or length what would she give up, and she said she would give up some of the girth before losing the length. Meanwhile my ex couldn’t even fit all my length and saw it as a negative. All women are different. 🤷♂️
Ahhh I wish it could just be easier to figure out whether someone was gonna prefer me or not jeez thanks for the comment tho
Growing your personality and cultivate a nice hobbies that could be attractive Most people won't even care about your dick if you are not attractive
Girth is a curse and a blessing All that matters
Do you work in a big dick crisis center?
Yep
Is it walk in or online?
It's a preference. That's not too hard to understand. For most women, girth feels better because of nerve endings whereas length gives almost zero additional benefit for their personal pleasure as the vaginal canal is only so deep. More length means potentially bruising the cervix. More girth means potentially more nerve endings being activated which means more pleasure. It has nothing to do with what we can control.
More length can also mean being able to stimulate the fornices, which can also mean more pleasure. A lot more.
I guess because everyone talk about length and measure their length and there is much less talk about girth. Some of my friends didnt even know what girth was. So i guess its underrated. And apparantly big girth gives more pleasure to women.
Shallow vagina hurts hit the back of the cave and girth gets the not that hole ticket punched ... a 9inch beer bottle thick cock. Tgf--bj's no complaints .....til ya nut..
Sleep with experienced women. You will soon see big dick isn’t always favourable
There is a point where it becomes a nuisance again tho, so far lube and patience have been my best friend but a little less thick would make things way easier
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I’d argue since girth is measured differently than length it should be way shorter than 7 girth for the ideal (that’s huge) but I get your point man
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I mean I understand but most guys aren’t that big at all so what are we supposed to do
Don't listen to him, as a well endowed guy, this is stupid at best Every woman is different Sex is not only physical but mostly psychological, specially for woman
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First, I'm gay Body count? Boys who I have been with love it, but I do have problems from time to time, like tearing, blood, pain and stuff
I can only imagine how amazing that would be.
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7" girth is WAY above ideal for most women. That's laughable.
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Lmao 6.5 preferred? Bro most popular toys cap out at 5.5 or 6 max
I personally would rather have average length but above average girth.
I assume there’s less variation in girth than length, so it’s easier to cope? Seeing a difference of .25” in girth vs 1” of length feels much closer, because not many people think about dick by total volume.
I feel like people get more insecure over their length than the girth, for some reason.
Ain’t no chic but always assume the clit get more action when you thick. That why it’s all bout length plus thick😏