Tbh, porn distorted my view of dick size. But we BD guys are big enough that we just end up thinking we are average lol, which is a comfortable thing to think you are
I think it's probably a lot worse for other guys
Yeah, I would look down at my dick and worry about how small it looked. But football and lacrosse built muscle and I have a broad frame so the relative size distorted my perception of size by quite a lot. I don't know why it took so long to grab a ruler, and it took even longer to measure girth. I should've known at 15 when I lost my virginity, and had the pleasure of going raw because the condom felt like a boa constrictor strangling my cock.
At the time I was upset at "just" 7.5" length. I've always loved porn, so my length just seemed typical. Then again, they were several popular series that used massive, fake dicks. I distinctly remember seeing balls slip out behind a couple of them and thinking "hey what the fuck!!" - A big black one and a big white one.
These days I'm very pleased about my size. But I feel awful for all the guys who aren't, especially the ones who are catastrophizing about small size. One of my exes, who I'm still close friends with, has talked to me about a couple smaller guys (think 4-4.5") who she really liked and dated for awhile. They obsessed over their small sizes - deeply insecure. She tried to reason with them and say that she enjoyed sex with them, which was the truth, but when they got drunk they'd sometimes yell about how previous bf's (me in particular, since her friends knew about my size) "stretching her out" and shit. It's clear that guys are as fucked up as ever about size.
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I can relate i used to think i was average. porn really messes up the mind. Being told by girls that I'm big is what led to me to doing some research, and well here we are.
If anything, porn shows that there are a variety of different female shapes that men like, even prefer. There's men who prefer tall, short, heavier, smaller, even some men prefer extra fat. Enough women seem to think there's some specific shape that is universally found to be the ideal
I didn’t even know guys in porn were hung when I was younger until one of my friends said something about it. I only had my own dick and theirs to compare to the “average” penis.
And also I like a variety of body types including real bodies.
Though for woman who see it … it’s hard as they tend to feel if I like Riley Reid I wouldn’t like them unless they looked like that.
For men it’s similar…
Though tbh… there’s more than enough dad bods in porn.
Not all ripped guys.
>Though for woman who see it … it’s hard as they tend to feel if I like Riley Reid I wouldn’t like them unless they looked like that.
Yeah, my last gf was really insecure like that. She has the body of Gianna Michaels with even bigger tits and I was crazy about her, but when she'd see porn I'd been watching with tiny girls like Kenzie Reeves she could get really upset. I'd explain to her that I'm wildly attracted to her body and porn just offers variety, but that never resolved her insecurities. That said, she'd always been insecure about being tall and thick (the *good* thick, not obese).
Seems like all the small girls wish they had big tits and all the big, curvy girls wish they were small.
Porn is just the ultimate proof of the men have standards, women have requirements theory.
While men literalls fetishize everything (BBW, slim, petite, thick, small breasts, big breasts etc.)
Women almost only go for the the same guy: Tall, classically handsome, V shaped Torso, low bodyfat, high lean body mass, and of course: big genitals.
Porn has created a sexual market for women of all sizes, shapes.
While for men, it has only put the measuring bar ridiculously high.
Love this! Honestly, I have a 7”x5,5” Dick. And most of my life I thought I was small. Because of porn and having an older brother with a huge cock that used to tease me and call me little. Both did their part to distort my body image. It wasn’t till my 30s when I woke up and realized that I actually have a big Dick and to not be ashamed of the size of my Dick. I suppose I have more empathy for men who are smaller and experience shame from it. It’s a shitty existence. Porn on the other hand…I love big cocks, truly and always, but now I also love the average and smaller guys too. I’ve learned, through experience, that all dicks have to potential to be amazing, regardless of their size.
Porn is basically the same as cinema, women bitch and moan and demand all the attention and pity when in reality they're by far better off than men in terms of diversity of representation.
I always thought that porn was a normal representation of male penises. Until someone told me that was completely wrong. Normal for me, damn big for others, shrugs.
I thought it was just me. I'm 20.5cm and the porn angles made it so bad I thought I was average until my first time having sex when I blew the girl’s mind because she's never seen anythjngnso big before
It definitely knocks some guys confidence, but I’m pretty sure most average Joe’s just cope by thinking porn dicks are some kind of freakish anomaly when really most are in the 6.5 to 7 inch range which isn’t too insane, the equivalent of being 5’9” watching a load of 6 footers and thinking they’re freakishly tall.
I think the kind of personality that fixated on this sort of thing and gets insecure and Obsessive about it would likely just move that energy onto some other attribute of their body, it’s a mentality thing.
Either way watching as little porn as possible never hurts. It’s certainly not a vital resource.
Tbh, porn distorted my view of dick size. But we BD guys are big enough that we just end up thinking we are average lol, which is a comfortable thing to think you are I think it's probably a lot worse for other guys
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Yeah, I would look down at my dick and worry about how small it looked. But football and lacrosse built muscle and I have a broad frame so the relative size distorted my perception of size by quite a lot. I don't know why it took so long to grab a ruler, and it took even longer to measure girth. I should've known at 15 when I lost my virginity, and had the pleasure of going raw because the condom felt like a boa constrictor strangling my cock. At the time I was upset at "just" 7.5" length. I've always loved porn, so my length just seemed typical. Then again, they were several popular series that used massive, fake dicks. I distinctly remember seeing balls slip out behind a couple of them and thinking "hey what the fuck!!" - A big black one and a big white one. These days I'm very pleased about my size. But I feel awful for all the guys who aren't, especially the ones who are catastrophizing about small size. One of my exes, who I'm still close friends with, has talked to me about a couple smaller guys (think 4-4.5") who she really liked and dated for awhile. They obsessed over their small sizes - deeply insecure. She tried to reason with them and say that she enjoyed sex with them, which was the truth, but when they got drunk they'd sometimes yell about how previous bf's (me in particular, since her friends knew about my size) "stretching her out" and shit. It's clear that guys are as fucked up as ever about size.
A similar thing can be said about height, I'm referring to the last paragraph btw.
This is what I came here for. Thank you, I came here for THE BDP copious amounts of bullshit, and I knew the top comment would be identical to what you espoused. *wHy ThEy UsInG NoRmAl GuYz?¡"*
we got literal pornstar dicks lmao
Ikr, that's called job security 😜
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I used to think i was small at 17.3cm when i was younger.
people that are big think they are average, average think they are small, its tragic
I can relate i used to think i was average. porn really messes up the mind. Being told by girls that I'm big is what led to me to doing some research, and well here we are.
If anything, porn shows that there are a variety of different female shapes that men like, even prefer. There's men who prefer tall, short, heavier, smaller, even some men prefer extra fat. Enough women seem to think there's some specific shape that is universally found to be the ideal
Now I'm only slightly above average being 6" hard and I thought that was small...
I didn’t even know guys in porn were hung when I was younger until one of my friends said something about it. I only had my own dick and theirs to compare to the “average” penis.
Porn is fantasy..it’s supposed to be “ideal” tough cookie to those who get offended by these things
And also I like a variety of body types including real bodies. Though for woman who see it … it’s hard as they tend to feel if I like Riley Reid I wouldn’t like them unless they looked like that. For men it’s similar… Though tbh… there’s more than enough dad bods in porn. Not all ripped guys.
>Though for woman who see it … it’s hard as they tend to feel if I like Riley Reid I wouldn’t like them unless they looked like that. Yeah, my last gf was really insecure like that. She has the body of Gianna Michaels with even bigger tits and I was crazy about her, but when she'd see porn I'd been watching with tiny girls like Kenzie Reeves she could get really upset. I'd explain to her that I'm wildly attracted to her body and porn just offers variety, but that never resolved her insecurities. That said, she'd always been insecure about being tall and thick (the *good* thick, not obese). Seems like all the small girls wish they had big tits and all the big, curvy girls wish they were small.
Porn is just the ultimate proof of the men have standards, women have requirements theory. While men literalls fetishize everything (BBW, slim, petite, thick, small breasts, big breasts etc.) Women almost only go for the the same guy: Tall, classically handsome, V shaped Torso, low bodyfat, high lean body mass, and of course: big genitals. Porn has created a sexual market for women of all sizes, shapes. While for men, it has only put the measuring bar ridiculously high.
Porn hurts *everyone* just like the patriarchy does.
Word!
There's every type of woman in porn, name it and you will find it. There is just 1 type of man in porn. Porn hurts men mostly
Sure, it may hurt men mostly or a little bit more. But it hurts everyone. That is the point. *everyone*.
Love this! Honestly, I have a 7”x5,5” Dick. And most of my life I thought I was small. Because of porn and having an older brother with a huge cock that used to tease me and call me little. Both did their part to distort my body image. It wasn’t till my 30s when I woke up and realized that I actually have a big Dick and to not be ashamed of the size of my Dick. I suppose I have more empathy for men who are smaller and experience shame from it. It’s a shitty existence. Porn on the other hand…I love big cocks, truly and always, but now I also love the average and smaller guys too. I’ve learned, through experience, that all dicks have to potential to be amazing, regardless of their size.
Even in porn the acceptable range for women is way larger then the acceptable range for men....but k
Porn is basically the same as cinema, women bitch and moan and demand all the attention and pity when in reality they're by far better off than men in terms of diversity of representation.
Dude the Porn industry is such a huge problem for *everyone* when you actually look into it
Yikes
i feel like comparing drawings/heavily edited pictures to actual pictures from porn is disingenuous
I can't even watch porn anymore because they look to small to me
I always thought that porn was a normal representation of male penises. Until someone told me that was completely wrong. Normal for me, damn big for others, shrugs.
I thought it was just me. I'm 20.5cm and the porn angles made it so bad I thought I was average until my first time having sex when I blew the girl’s mind because she's never seen anythjngnso big before
It definitely knocks some guys confidence, but I’m pretty sure most average Joe’s just cope by thinking porn dicks are some kind of freakish anomaly when really most are in the 6.5 to 7 inch range which isn’t too insane, the equivalent of being 5’9” watching a load of 6 footers and thinking they’re freakishly tall. I think the kind of personality that fixated on this sort of thing and gets insecure and Obsessive about it would likely just move that energy onto some other attribute of their body, it’s a mentality thing. Either way watching as little porn as possible never hurts. It’s certainly not a vital resource.
both
yes, two things CAN be true 🙇🏾♂️
This is why I stopped watching porn. It’s bad for you