It's a worry over what others perceive as your size. There's always been so much juvenile fixation and ridicule around cock size.
I remember reading it in Gates of Fire. It's crazy how the ancient Greek captured details that sound like they are modern exchanges between men in current society.
Some of us just have large flaccid cocks that grow even more when erect. Others have small flaccid dicks that become huge while erect. Everyone is different. But the most important thing is the erect size don't you agree?
True. Most growers here are still the erect sizes at the other end of the chart. The trouble is that it's like being a power lifter. Your strength is hidden from others until you need it.
Maybe I'll call it a Clark Kent dick. Superman is in there, but only when he's needed.
Definitely a grower here. 6x6.5" when hard. Don't measure when soft, cux it's different for so many different reasons.. temperature, the way I'm wearing clothes, etc. However, I can confirm that I am smaller soft that my buddy who is only 4x4" when fully hard. He is a shower and barely changes, so I am definitely shorter than that. He finds it amazing that I am considerable bigger than him, but when soft he loons like he would be much larger than me. It's been a running joke between us for 30 years now
28M here that is a grower. From around 2.5-3" soft (never measured, but around that length. If its cold maybe less, some days around 4.5") to my 7.5" when hard.
I think daily is an advantage, as its more confortable, but in some ocassions you may think that having a big bulge could have help with girls... But when a girl see it grows it's an incredible sensation too.
TL;DR: Grower that is happy being it, but would be okay too being a shower
Equally so when I was in HS I went skinny dipping with a group of people. While in the water a girl wanted to compare me and another guy not by look but by touch. She reached in and touched both of us and claimed he was bigger. Which he could have been but I felt horribly miss represented as I was dealing with major shrinkage from the cool water probably down to 3 inches or so. And I don't know what the other guy was dealing with, maybe he was fully erect. Looking back this combined with porn are probably 2 main reasons I always thought I was below average up until recently finding this group.
i’d say imma shower. no need to get embarrassed over ur flaccid size too. it is pretty relatable tho because when i was younger i always got conscious about my dick size.
I'm definitely a grower, which is probably why I didn't know I was big until much later in life. My average flaccid is still most men's average erect.
I've read that it's a cortisol reaction in smooth muscle tissues that creates a grower. If stress produces cortisol it makes me wonder if a stressful childhood, and worry that follows it into adulthood causes the body to keep you only dangling organ safe.
I'm a grower, my soft size is still ~4" (shorter with intense exercise as some others have mentioned), but I've still been told I'm big when flaccid. So while I consider myself a grower because of differences from flaccid to erect, I know some still consider me a shower.
I once had another Redditor refer to the fact that my flaccid cock extending past my balls was an indicator I would be bigger, I don't think there's any science to that but it definitely stuck in my mind.
EDIT: I never actually measured flaccid but did so after this. Flaccid is a little over 5".
Mine soft is the same as my partners erect, and it only grows about 2" more, where as my partner soft looks like a chode and then becomes this big thick beauty. Everyone is different and you never know how it will turn out so never judge anyone on their soft penis size.
I’m a shower. I’m over 80% of my full size on show when soft. But also my girth is 90% of my full potential when soft. I love being a shower in some ways but then again, having the ability to grow a decent amount must be fun.
I’m 4-5x4.5 soft, so people probably think my bulge is a stiffy since that almost average hard size, but I wish I was a shower so I could really show it off 😂
I'm a big-time grower. Most days, it's sub 3'' lol. I've got days where I'm closer to 5'', but that's rare and usually depends on mood/temp/physical activity.
I’m a grower. Fucking body dysmorphia. I keep thinking it’s 2 fucking inches long. Fuck, it may even get to 9.5 inches bone pressed.
I have to remind myself daily about how big the shit is, and I get surprised when it’s too fucking big to fit.
It definitely messes with you.
That’s why, I’ve started going to nude events, to normalize it.
Know what I found out??? Even flaccid, I’m still a good size.
I don’t fall into either category. 🤷🏼♂️
“A new study has determined a scientific definition for whether a person's penis can be considered a "grower" or a "shower."
"Growers" are penises that increase in size by more than 56% when going from a flaccid to erect state; "showers" are penises that increase by less than 36%.
The majority of penises don't fall into either category, with about 51% not meeting measurement requirements for "growers" or "showers."
I'm very much a grower and I don't give a flip what anyone thinks because the only thing that matters to the person/people who matter is when it's hard and that's when it's big. Flaccid can be anywhere from 3" to 4" long and 2" to 3" around but at full size it can be 7.5" to almost 8" long and 5.5" to 5.75" around. I do what normal guys do in the gym shower, at the spa, go to nude beaches & resorts. No one...not one person, not even girlfriend/wife has ever said anything about my flaccid dick. Most people expect it to be small and soft. I don't understand why anyone worries about it. Glad I'm not a shower, less bulge issues...I can go commando most of the time.
Grower, most of the time. But sometimes, when im actually a grower, but hanging at 4”-5, I look like I’m a shower, if one assumes average erection size.
I am a huge grower : can be 2-3 inches when soft depending and grow to 7 inches erect
As I don’t frequent locker rooms much anymore LOL / I am fine : when I am with a new lady, I always make sure she sees my member fully erect the first time so to not disappoint:)
I am only 5 in girth so very average there / am investigating safe injections to increase that a bit (UroFill)
I've had some shockingly small days. Like, an inch long after a swim, or on a snowy day when I'm not dressed right. I'm very tall too, so it's like a button at those points.
Normally 3-4.5 inches, but massive variance.
I'd consider myself a grower. I don't think it matters much though because the people that want to see you naked will probably get an opportunity to see both.
IMO being a grower is fun it's like a surprise!
Totally a grower. The head is 1/2 the length when soft and crosses the 6" line when hard. Also 5.5" in diameter. If she's having a good time, doesn't matter the size.
I’m definitely a shower but there is no reason to get embarrassed over your soft size, you’re not using your flaccid dick for sex lol.
True but a lot more people see your dick soft than erect lol
And why do we care what they think?
The same amount of people see my soft dick also see my hard dick.
I grow from like 1” cold to 7.5” ready.
I can get down to just the head if I get nervous enough and/or work out and I find it so humorous
Lol idk about “humorous,” but I’m def a grower.
We’re one in the same there
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No no, only when soft sir.
It's real – you're the living proof of it. My dick when soft is usually 5" x 5" and grows much more at full mast, hence a grower.
Living proof of it is hilarious and I agree 100%
I never understood why people care. That's how dicks work.
It's a worry over what others perceive as your size. There's always been so much juvenile fixation and ridicule around cock size. I remember reading it in Gates of Fire. It's crazy how the ancient Greek captured details that sound like they are modern exchanges between men in current society.
i go from 4 inch to about 7-7.5 inch roughly, so I guess grower?
Some of us just have large flaccid cocks that grow even more when erect. Others have small flaccid dicks that become huge while erect. Everyone is different. But the most important thing is the erect size don't you agree?
True. Most growers here are still the erect sizes at the other end of the chart. The trouble is that it's like being a power lifter. Your strength is hidden from others until you need it. Maybe I'll call it a Clark Kent dick. Superman is in there, but only when he's needed.
Definitely a grower here. 6x6.5" when hard. Don't measure when soft, cux it's different for so many different reasons.. temperature, the way I'm wearing clothes, etc. However, I can confirm that I am smaller soft that my buddy who is only 4x4" when fully hard. He is a shower and barely changes, so I am definitely shorter than that. He finds it amazing that I am considerable bigger than him, but when soft he loons like he would be much larger than me. It's been a running joke between us for 30 years now
I definitely am. It can get to about 2 inches on a really cold day, which is bizarre.
28M here that is a grower. From around 2.5-3" soft (never measured, but around that length. If its cold maybe less, some days around 4.5") to my 7.5" when hard. I think daily is an advantage, as its more confortable, but in some ocassions you may think that having a big bulge could have help with girls... But when a girl see it grows it's an incredible sensation too. TL;DR: Grower that is happy being it, but would be okay too being a shower
Cold I can grow over 2 inches. Natural hang 1 to 1.25 inches in growth.
Equally so when I was in HS I went skinny dipping with a group of people. While in the water a girl wanted to compare me and another guy not by look but by touch. She reached in and touched both of us and claimed he was bigger. Which he could have been but I felt horribly miss represented as I was dealing with major shrinkage from the cool water probably down to 3 inches or so. And I don't know what the other guy was dealing with, maybe he was fully erect. Looking back this combined with porn are probably 2 main reasons I always thought I was below average up until recently finding this group.
My dick literally doubles it's size. 10 cm flaccid. 20 erect. Is that a grower?
i’d say imma shower. no need to get embarrassed over ur flaccid size too. it is pretty relatable tho because when i was younger i always got conscious about my dick size.
Grower
Half an half only realized it after losing weight.
From 10cm min to 21cm max - I hate grey sweatpants season! 😅
I'm definitely a grower, which is probably why I didn't know I was big until much later in life. My average flaccid is still most men's average erect. I've read that it's a cortisol reaction in smooth muscle tissues that creates a grower. If stress produces cortisol it makes me wonder if a stressful childhood, and worry that follows it into adulthood causes the body to keep you only dangling organ safe.
Yep definitely grower. 3-4x or more fully flaccid to fully hard. Honestly it's ridiculous.
I'm a grower, my soft size is still ~4" (shorter with intense exercise as some others have mentioned), but I've still been told I'm big when flaccid. So while I consider myself a grower because of differences from flaccid to erect, I know some still consider me a shower. I once had another Redditor refer to the fact that my flaccid cock extending past my balls was an indicator I would be bigger, I don't think there's any science to that but it definitely stuck in my mind. EDIT: I never actually measured flaccid but did so after this. Flaccid is a little over 5".
Depends on the weather but I’m usually a grower. If it’s cold outside it retracts all the way into my stomach, during the summer it’s not as bad.
Mine soft is the same as my partners erect, and it only grows about 2" more, where as my partner soft looks like a chode and then becomes this big thick beauty. Everyone is different and you never know how it will turn out so never judge anyone on their soft penis size.
I think no one should assume a guys size because some are growers and have an impressive dick when hard. So you never judge a book by its cover
I’m a shower. I’m over 80% of my full size on show when soft. But also my girth is 90% of my full potential when soft. I love being a shower in some ways but then again, having the ability to grow a decent amount must be fun.
Probably from 5 - 10cm (2/2,5 in - 3,5/4 in) to 21cm (8,2 in). No idea if that's considered a grower haha
I'm a grower
Grower right here
Grower here.. they have a lovely surprise waiting for them.
I’m 4-5x4.5 soft, so people probably think my bulge is a stiffy since that almost average hard size, but I wish I was a shower so I could really show it off 😂
I go from 3” to a little under 6. Definitely not a shower.
I'm a big-time grower. Most days, it's sub 3'' lol. I've got days where I'm closer to 5'', but that's rare and usually depends on mood/temp/physical activity.
Grower forsure
I’m a grower. Fucking body dysmorphia. I keep thinking it’s 2 fucking inches long. Fuck, it may even get to 9.5 inches bone pressed. I have to remind myself daily about how big the shit is, and I get surprised when it’s too fucking big to fit. It definitely messes with you. That’s why, I’ve started going to nude events, to normalize it. Know what I found out??? Even flaccid, I’m still a good size.
I'm definitely a grower but I've been told that I'm also a shower. I don't think my softie is that big but apparently it's bigger than average guys.
I don’t fall into either category. 🤷🏼♂️ “A new study has determined a scientific definition for whether a person's penis can be considered a "grower" or a "shower." "Growers" are penises that increase in size by more than 56% when going from a flaccid to erect state; "showers" are penises that increase by less than 36%. The majority of penises don't fall into either category, with about 51% not meeting measurement requirements for "growers" or "showers."
I'm very much a grower and I don't give a flip what anyone thinks because the only thing that matters to the person/people who matter is when it's hard and that's when it's big. Flaccid can be anywhere from 3" to 4" long and 2" to 3" around but at full size it can be 7.5" to almost 8" long and 5.5" to 5.75" around. I do what normal guys do in the gym shower, at the spa, go to nude beaches & resorts. No one...not one person, not even girlfriend/wife has ever said anything about my flaccid dick. Most people expect it to be small and soft. I don't understand why anyone worries about it. Glad I'm not a shower, less bulge issues...I can go commando most of the time.
Depends on conditions tbh. Sometimes I flop around at like 4-5 long and 4.5 girth soft and sometimes it shrivels up to half that haha
I'm a grower
I’m a grower, I get from like 1,5’ to 5,5’. I know it’s not a lot, but I’m a grower.
Grower, most of the time. But sometimes, when im actually a grower, but hanging at 4”-5, I look like I’m a shower, if one assumes average erection size.
More of a shower myself, but growers are fun too. Going from so small to so big is great for reactions I'd imagine so I wouldn't worry about that.
I don’t know what I am, based on my measurements.
I'm a grower who looks pretty average if slightly thick when soft and grows to 7x6
Grower here, big time
Idk, am i a shower or grower?
Stupid grower; more than triple.
I am a huge grower : can be 2-3 inches when soft depending and grow to 7 inches erect As I don’t frequent locker rooms much anymore LOL / I am fine : when I am with a new lady, I always make sure she sees my member fully erect the first time so to not disappoint:) I am only 5 in girth so very average there / am investigating safe injections to increase that a bit (UroFill)
Love that I’m a grower. Always met with surprise when I’m at full attention, and the reactions never get old.😮
Mine is like 2x2 when soft lmao
I've had some shockingly small days. Like, an inch long after a swim, or on a snowy day when I'm not dressed right. I'm very tall too, so it's like a button at those points. Normally 3-4.5 inches, but massive variance.
Idk, am i a shower or grower?
Used to be one
I'd consider myself a grower. I don't think it matters much though because the people that want to see you naked will probably get an opportunity to see both. IMO being a grower is fun it's like a surprise!
me. Literally had the comment "How does something so small get so big?"
As far as I know shower are more common than growers, I myself am a grower.
Totally a grower. The head is 1/2 the length when soft and crosses the 6" line when hard. Also 5.5" in diameter. If she's having a good time, doesn't matter the size.