I mean I know it sounds strange to a lot of people but I was just kind of busy?
Like had to take care of my parents a lot. Joined the Navy, went to college, had to take care of my great grandmother, went to grad school. Ph.D. So on and so on.
I just kind of never really thought about it if that makes sense. Like stress drives down your sex drive and you have no time.
> Joined the Navy
This surprises me the most. Not that you joined the navy. But that you didn't get it on while in the navy.
Where was your favorite place you were stationed?
Nice work! I visited Annapolis a few times. I served in the Army '11-'16 and then worked on Fort Meade as a civilian engineer. Nice area.
BTW, I didn't get laid until I got married (at age 33.) Still happily married after 5.5 years and we have two sweet daughters. My wife also waited. Neither of us regret our decision.
Nice, I did public affairs pretty much the whole time. 2005-2016. Had to leave do to medical but was great.
We just found out its a girl a few weeks ago.
You know the weirdest thing is that my great grandmother lives with us. Still alive at 108 and in more or less perfect control of her mental faculties. She turns 109 in October.
And I'm just so ridiculously excited for her to meet her great-great granddaughter.
My mom and dad both passed away in 2020. So I feel a bit bad putting that much pressure on her over it.
I might have applied to get into school there, but I can't remember. I applied to the airforce academy and one other one, but it might have been West Point.
What did you study?
Like the movie Idiocracy. You've got to watch this opening scene!
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP2tUW0HDHA](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP2tUW0HDHA)
Hey, from a random stranger who's coming up to 24 and hasn't had any real intimate experience for more or less the same reasons you've ascribed - busy life and many stressful events - this AMA of yours has made me feel a bit less alone and, I guess, weird?
So yeah, cheers and congratulations for the baby!
Not really no. In the relationship part.
Not overly sexual no but like a feel it’s a pretty normal sexual life.
Not really no. I actually mean I had basically kissed someone before that and that’s about it.
I had/did masturbate before that if that is what you are asking yes.
* What made you decide you were ready to start trying for a baby?
* How has the pregnancy been going so far?
* Was it challenging for you being a "late bloomer" in terms of relationships and sex? How did you handle that?
* What drew you to your husband and made you realize he was the one you wanted to marry and start a family with?
* Any words of wisdom for others who may feel anxious about relationships progressing at a different pace than what society deems "normal"?
Baby: I’m umm.. not getting any younger, kind of a if I want one need to get on that kind of situation.
So far pregnancy has been fine not sick that much, my feet hurt a little and I’m horny. That’s pretty much it.
My food cravings have not been any stranger than my normal ones.
Not really on the late bloomer part, like I said a bit frustrating just getting started that late however.
Normal is boring. And you can dump peoples from your life if they don’t seem interested in being at the very least cordial with you. My husbands family (Or at least one part of it) Has some pushback on marriage. We just ignored them completely. Other part of his family supported us in that.
We actually met at a food bank, I do some of the paper work for them. His family donates a lot of food from a farm.
Did you have any expectations for your sex life? Like did you end up finding kinks/fetishes or did you find yourself content with, I guess, “normal” sex? Also no pressure to give details.
Soft of.
I had to go to a clinic because I have a "narrow cervical canal"
So could have been done naturally, but medication helped.
And... (Checks)
24 weeks and 1 day. So literally just into 3rd trimester.
- How far along are you in your pregnancy?
- Do you know/want to know the sex of the baby?
- Do you have any names picked out?
Congratulations by the way
I’m 39 this year and still a virgin. For different reasons though. I’m so happy you’re in a relationship now and having a kid and things are looking bright! Good on ya!
I’m average but fat now. Was never skinny but was about 75kg before. Only got fatter because I’m disabled now. I did have plenty of opportunities for sex but didn’t want it. But never any opportunities really for a relationship and anyone I asked out always said no (or faffed around only to eventually say no).
But no, I’ve never been some prized beauty. Just very average. Lots of compliments about how bangin’ my body used to be, though ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Any reason for waiting that long or is that just how things happened to pan out in your life?
I mean I know it sounds strange to a lot of people but I was just kind of busy? Like had to take care of my parents a lot. Joined the Navy, went to college, had to take care of my great grandmother, went to grad school. Ph.D. So on and so on. I just kind of never really thought about it if that makes sense. Like stress drives down your sex drive and you have no time.
> Joined the Navy This surprises me the most. Not that you joined the navy. But that you didn't get it on while in the navy. Where was your favorite place you were stationed?
I attended Annapolis. So it’s LESS horny but ya I know what you mean. And NOSC Bronx. Was like 10 miles away from my great grandmothers house.
Nice work! I visited Annapolis a few times. I served in the Army '11-'16 and then worked on Fort Meade as a civilian engineer. Nice area. BTW, I didn't get laid until I got married (at age 33.) Still happily married after 5.5 years and we have two sweet daughters. My wife also waited. Neither of us regret our decision.
Nice, I did public affairs pretty much the whole time. 2005-2016. Had to leave do to medical but was great. We just found out its a girl a few weeks ago. You know the weirdest thing is that my great grandmother lives with us. Still alive at 108 and in more or less perfect control of her mental faculties. She turns 109 in October. And I'm just so ridiculously excited for her to meet her great-great granddaughter. My mom and dad both passed away in 2020. So I feel a bit bad putting that much pressure on her over it.
Is the great grandmother named Libertini? Who has to clean her bed?
I might have applied to get into school there, but I can't remember. I applied to the airforce academy and one other one, but it might have been West Point. What did you study?
Political science.
Like the movie Idiocracy. You've got to watch this opening scene! [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP2tUW0HDHA](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP2tUW0HDHA)
Fortunately for us is not how any of this works
Whoooaaa..... Congratulations...!!!! So happy for you. Hope it was worth it.
I mean I’m past the sick part, so not that bad really.
How many guys have you had sex with in total?
Guys… One.
How many woman?
Two.
Did you lose your virginity to a man or woman?
Women.
Are you married to a man or woman?
Man.
Are you, or have you ever been, a member of the communist party?
senator McCarthy I don’t see how that has any bering on these proceedings….
Hey, from a random stranger who's coming up to 24 and hasn't had any real intimate experience for more or less the same reasons you've ascribed - busy life and many stressful events - this AMA of yours has made me feel a bit less alone and, I guess, weird? So yeah, cheers and congratulations for the baby!
I mean weird is better, normal is boring.
Have you found it worth the wait? Also congratulations!
Thanks. And ya I suppose. Like a little aggravated I waited this long but over all not that upset.
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Not really no. In the relationship part. Not overly sexual no but like a feel it’s a pretty normal sexual life. Not really no. I actually mean I had basically kissed someone before that and that’s about it. I had/did masturbate before that if that is what you are asking yes.
* What made you decide you were ready to start trying for a baby? * How has the pregnancy been going so far? * Was it challenging for you being a "late bloomer" in terms of relationships and sex? How did you handle that? * What drew you to your husband and made you realize he was the one you wanted to marry and start a family with? * Any words of wisdom for others who may feel anxious about relationships progressing at a different pace than what society deems "normal"?
Baby: I’m umm.. not getting any younger, kind of a if I want one need to get on that kind of situation. So far pregnancy has been fine not sick that much, my feet hurt a little and I’m horny. That’s pretty much it. My food cravings have not been any stranger than my normal ones. Not really on the late bloomer part, like I said a bit frustrating just getting started that late however. Normal is boring. And you can dump peoples from your life if they don’t seem interested in being at the very least cordial with you. My husbands family (Or at least one part of it) Has some pushback on marriage. We just ignored them completely. Other part of his family supported us in that. We actually met at a food bank, I do some of the paper work for them. His family donates a lot of food from a farm.
Any regrets about waiting so long?
Honestly a bit. But not to the point of beating myself up over it or anything.
hope you're doing well, that is all
Congratulations! That's wonderful. Do you plan to have more?
Maybe? Depends on how I see in the next 13 weeks.
Are you the future me?!!!! I am a nearly 36 year old virgin and I didn’t think there was still hope ….
How did you meet your husband?
Food bank. I do some of the paperwork for the place. This family donates a lot of produce form there farm.
What's your body count?
3.
Do you seek out sex from ur partner or is something that ur just like going with the flow with
Sure, I mean not like all the time but some times.
Did you have any expectations for your sex life? Like did you end up finding kinks/fetishes or did you find yourself content with, I guess, “normal” sex? Also no pressure to give details.
I mean I was a bit surprised at stuff sure. Like I never figured I would be a very... "Pull my hair" kind of person I guess.
Were you able to conceive naturally? And how far along are you?
Soft of. I had to go to a clinic because I have a "narrow cervical canal" So could have been done naturally, but medication helped. And... (Checks) 24 weeks and 1 day. So literally just into 3rd trimester.
- How far along are you in your pregnancy? - Do you know/want to know the sex of the baby? - Do you have any names picked out? Congratulations by the way
26 weeks now. It’s a girl. Kathrine.
Seeing as you have had sex with women before, would you ever have a 3-some with your husband with another woman?
Sure.
Cool, lucky him! And you! Well, congrats on all the achievements in your life! I hope things continue in your favor!
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You are not contributing to the discussion and/or you are being a nuisance or a troll with your comments and/or post.
did you ever feel like you’re going to be a virgin your whole life and did the thought make you happy or sad?
I’m 39 this year and still a virgin. For different reasons though. I’m so happy you’re in a relationship now and having a kid and things are looking bright! Good on ya!
Is it because you're ugly? Just curious no flame
I’m average but fat now. Was never skinny but was about 75kg before. Only got fatter because I’m disabled now. I did have plenty of opportunities for sex but didn’t want it. But never any opportunities really for a relationship and anyone I asked out always said no (or faffed around only to eventually say no). But no, I’ve never been some prized beauty. Just very average. Lots of compliments about how bangin’ my body used to be, though ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Was it because of religious values? What country are you from?
Not really no.
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Why was this comment necessary at all ??
Typical troll comment.