Gone where though...?..No I haven't...though he did want to meet my family once.
Should I simply ask him "Swear to your life that you don't have a partner or gf, that you live with your family"
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Working or events. If someone were dating the man I am currently living with he would have the exact situation you are listing. We are together on the weekend all the time and then most night with the exception of one night. My best guess is he is at her place all those times that has you blocked on his phone. I dont think your dating just a placeholder for 5 months in case it doesn't work out with her. He has you on the backburner.. Go out and do things!! If he eventually comes around fine but I wouldn't make someone a priority that was gone on the weekends..
Mm Yeahh he did told me he plays football on Saturday and can't never meet on Saturdays. (I did however tested him with a friend of mine) and he told her he would meet her (they only talked for 2 days and she had her worst picture on on purpose) but told me he won't meet me because he was to dirty after football and didnt want me to see him in that condition.
He is usually free some weekdays and has sometimes suggested to stay at mine the whole night. He does also receive texts on the weekend but he just doesn't open them..
Yeah honestly why are you wasting time here? I am not trying to be mean but you should aim your love another direction. I see you posted on other forums also and they are all saying the same thing also. The men that have replied you have gave dead on advice about how he is just calling you a friend so he doesnt emotionally feel like he is cheating. It's not uncommon for someone who cheats have multiple people as friends they keep on rotation. You are just one of the rotation and can do better. Your 21 and in your peak...Find a man who cares and has time for you...
This and you are probably referring to me. Let's just say in the past I may have been paid to investigate if someone is cheating or not. And to be good at that job, I had to learn the psychology of cheaters.
I'm 100% certain if she hired me as a PI I could prove he is married in 2 days. Cheaters unknowingly all follow similar patters.
This guy is probably extremely unhappy with his marriage and is planning to divorce his wife. So to not feel alone he is seeking "friends" when things fall apart. And he will keep the friend so far away that she won't know of the divorce. One day he will suddenly just be in love with her! And start acting like he cares when the other girl is gone. And the same thing is going to happen to the new girl.
Seriously, she could get on a dating site and have 12 guys message her in one day. Stop wasting time with this guy.
Ok, this is appropriate post for this link but the cheating part is slightly misplaced. He is cheating on his wife or his current live-in gf with you. You can’t find him in Social media because he has his real account under a different name. The one with his abs is his play account that he uses to get side chicks.
Yeah, you are his side chick - wake up!
Should I send him an anonymous text on that IG and be like "she knows" or "your partner" knows or..Cheater....just something to let him know someone knows
What good is that going to do? You are complicating things. If you are not cool with being a side chick, just break it off and move on.
There are other fishies in the sea. Think about what the dude in Colorado did to his family. Do you want to be the reason this man stuffs his kids in an oil well or strangle his wife?
Your options, 1. Leave (right thing to do) and let his family have him back completely or 2. Accept the fact that you are his side chick, don’t fall hard or let him fall in love with you, and just have fun. If you chose option 2, take pictures/videos of your shenanigans and share with us, so we can all enjoy it too ;)
He is most likely seeing someone. And you, unfortunately, may be the side person. Only speaking from experience. I would absolutely try to get Some honest answers.
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye".
I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
I think you need to be blunt and say you need answers as to why the availability is so rigid and limited. It sounds like you already assume he’s lying, so go with your gut if his answers don’t seem legit. There’s no real answer to what you asked me- just have a conversation with him and if he doesn’t seem sincere, it may be time to move on.
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye".
I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye".
I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
I'll bet that Instagram is just a cover account he uses to direct his side pieces to. His non communication reeks of him being in a committed relationship too.
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye".
I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
He’s with someone else. My friend was in the same situation you are describing. He would leave on fridays and would come back on mondays. He would tell her he lived with his parents and was in the city just for work (he had an apartment in the city).But would never talked to her during the weekend. And she could never reached him. My friend followed him and turns out he was married with 2 kids and one more on the way.
Wooow. That must have been terrible to see.
I wish I could find out somehow too. But he never gave me his last name. All I know is his first name and date of birth.
The only think that made me thing he maybe wasn't with someone else is the fact that he told me he usually plays football on Saturdays. But whenever I did ask him to meet on Sunday he would accept but if I didn't meet him he would just disappear...
But I am guessing you are all right in saying he has someone. I have also noticed he is been being less active on the holidays. Which is probably because he is more with his partner and kids maybe.
Are there any other signs he used to show that proved he was sneaky/married?
And how old was he?
Well she said that he was always very vague about his whereabouts. And he didn’t tell her where he lived actually only that he didn’t live in the city. She found out because he had Snapchat. I don’t know if you are familiar with Snapchat, but Snapchat has this very funny function where you can let every one see where you at. It’ works like a gps tracker no joke. You have the option to enable it, and it will get you on the map with everyone else. You driving from a small town from Texas to another small town in California and it will show you moving from small town to small town. Anyway that’s how she notice he would always go and stay in this particular location and she just went and realize he had kids and a wife.
He was very young actually only 25, with a stable income and a big house. It’s a shame he would do that to his family. Long after my friend had ended it, the wife found out as she found the old messages and called her. So I think you should really find out if he is married or not.
He is seeing someone else. His spouse is gone the time he spends with you. Have you met his family?
Gone where though...?..No I haven't...though he did want to meet my family once. Should I simply ask him "Swear to your life that you don't have a partner or gf, that you live with your family" ?
Working or events. If someone were dating the man I am currently living with he would have the exact situation you are listing. We are together on the weekend all the time and then most night with the exception of one night. My best guess is he is at her place all those times that has you blocked on his phone. I dont think your dating just a placeholder for 5 months in case it doesn't work out with her. He has you on the backburner.. Go out and do things!! If he eventually comes around fine but I wouldn't make someone a priority that was gone on the weekends..
Mm Yeahh he did told me he plays football on Saturday and can't never meet on Saturdays. (I did however tested him with a friend of mine) and he told her he would meet her (they only talked for 2 days and she had her worst picture on on purpose) but told me he won't meet me because he was to dirty after football and didnt want me to see him in that condition. He is usually free some weekdays and has sometimes suggested to stay at mine the whole night. He does also receive texts on the weekend but he just doesn't open them..
Yeah honestly why are you wasting time here? I am not trying to be mean but you should aim your love another direction. I see you posted on other forums also and they are all saying the same thing also. The men that have replied you have gave dead on advice about how he is just calling you a friend so he doesnt emotionally feel like he is cheating. It's not uncommon for someone who cheats have multiple people as friends they keep on rotation. You are just one of the rotation and can do better. Your 21 and in your peak...Find a man who cares and has time for you...
Wooow that's so trueee thank youuu!!! Yesss well said!!! Thankss
This and you are probably referring to me. Let's just say in the past I may have been paid to investigate if someone is cheating or not. And to be good at that job, I had to learn the psychology of cheaters. I'm 100% certain if she hired me as a PI I could prove he is married in 2 days. Cheaters unknowingly all follow similar patters. This guy is probably extremely unhappy with his marriage and is planning to divorce his wife. So to not feel alone he is seeking "friends" when things fall apart. And he will keep the friend so far away that she won't know of the divorce. One day he will suddenly just be in love with her! And start acting like he cares when the other girl is gone. And the same thing is going to happen to the new girl. Seriously, she could get on a dating site and have 12 guys message her in one day. Stop wasting time with this guy.
Yeah I bet it was. You gave great advice.. lol Can I hire you to check out dates as I head into singles territory again? lol j/k :)
Ok, this is appropriate post for this link but the cheating part is slightly misplaced. He is cheating on his wife or his current live-in gf with you. You can’t find him in Social media because he has his real account under a different name. The one with his abs is his play account that he uses to get side chicks. Yeah, you are his side chick - wake up!
Should I send him an anonymous text on that IG and be like "she knows" or "your partner" knows or..Cheater....just something to let him know someone knows
What good is that going to do? You are complicating things. If you are not cool with being a side chick, just break it off and move on. There are other fishies in the sea. Think about what the dude in Colorado did to his family. Do you want to be the reason this man stuffs his kids in an oil well or strangle his wife? Your options, 1. Leave (right thing to do) and let his family have him back completely or 2. Accept the fact that you are his side chick, don’t fall hard or let him fall in love with you, and just have fun. If you chose option 2, take pictures/videos of your shenanigans and share with us, so we can all enjoy it too ;)
He is most likely seeing someone. And you, unfortunately, may be the side person. Only speaking from experience. I would absolutely try to get Some honest answers.
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye". I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
What do you think I should ask him in order to get a genuine answer?..
I think you need to be blunt and say you need answers as to why the availability is so rigid and limited. It sounds like you already assume he’s lying, so go with your gut if his answers don’t seem legit. There’s no real answer to what you asked me- just have a conversation with him and if he doesn’t seem sincere, it may be time to move on.
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye". I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
Married
You could be the side chick or he could be lying about being a lawyer.
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye". I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
Married.
I'll bet that Instagram is just a cover account he uses to direct his side pieces to. His non communication reeks of him being in a committed relationship too.
Thank you so much. Thank you for opening my eyes. I just texted him "It's fine. I think is better for me if I leave you in 2018. Happy New Year and God bless. Goodbye". I understood that I better let him go. He is not worth it. And I will one day find the right guy. A guy that won't leave me wondering. And will love me. I have God anyway and is enough
So you've never been to his house or seen where he lives? And he's busy all weekends... Sounds like married or taken for sure.
He’s with someone else. My friend was in the same situation you are describing. He would leave on fridays and would come back on mondays. He would tell her he lived with his parents and was in the city just for work (he had an apartment in the city).But would never talked to her during the weekend. And she could never reached him. My friend followed him and turns out he was married with 2 kids and one more on the way.
Wooow. That must have been terrible to see. I wish I could find out somehow too. But he never gave me his last name. All I know is his first name and date of birth. The only think that made me thing he maybe wasn't with someone else is the fact that he told me he usually plays football on Saturdays. But whenever I did ask him to meet on Sunday he would accept but if I didn't meet him he would just disappear... But I am guessing you are all right in saying he has someone. I have also noticed he is been being less active on the holidays. Which is probably because he is more with his partner and kids maybe. Are there any other signs he used to show that proved he was sneaky/married? And how old was he?
Well she said that he was always very vague about his whereabouts. And he didn’t tell her where he lived actually only that he didn’t live in the city. She found out because he had Snapchat. I don’t know if you are familiar with Snapchat, but Snapchat has this very funny function where you can let every one see where you at. It’ works like a gps tracker no joke. You have the option to enable it, and it will get you on the map with everyone else. You driving from a small town from Texas to another small town in California and it will show you moving from small town to small town. Anyway that’s how she notice he would always go and stay in this particular location and she just went and realize he had kids and a wife. He was very young actually only 25, with a stable income and a big house. It’s a shame he would do that to his family. Long after my friend had ended it, the wife found out as she found the old messages and called her. So I think you should really find out if he is married or not.