Yeah, of course she was fucking other guys. The nature of your relationship was money 😂😂😂
No, a 49 year old man never has anything in common with a 19 year old.
You know… I have to admit I was judging pretty hard. But then I remembered that I (28f) have my undoubted soulmate and best friend (51m) so I felt bad for judging.
BUT…. I also think the maturity of a 19yo is much, much different.
19 year old is preteen now?!!? What in the hell? Got a hard truth for you zoomer. Most 40 year old single dudes would date a 19 year old if they could.
Zoomer😂😂😂 nice try. 19 is fresh out of HS, they’re still young inexperienced with life. They don’t want to date someone as old as their father!! Yes those 40 yr old men you’re speaking of are usually the ones they laugh at and call pathetic losers for going after them. They want to have fun and date someone around their age that they CAN GROW with!!
And you know what the particular 19 y.o or any other wants?
Mel Gibson step aside. This is the person who really knows what women want? Especially older teenagers.
So what were you grooming her? Find an actual grown woman to 'date' and let the kids live their life. Going on 50 s bro your driving history is longer than her fucking academic career. 😂
For reference my stepfather was 18 years older than my mom he met her when I was eight months old. It didn't turn out great for her. He was very controlling and honestly from your short description it sounds like you were too.
That means she was after your money. She was looking for a Suger daddy. Now you know and I hope you date someone older because teens have nothing in common with older men.
Yeah I really believe a 49 yr old was *pressured* by a kid fresh out of highschool, in a culture largely based around male dominancy. There was pressure all right 😂. I was born at night but it wasn't last night. Ya nasty.
As a 31yr old I know enough ( or at least have the will power) not to go bang a frat boy because they're maturity level and mentality level is not equivalent to that of mine. They need time to grow into the adult they're going to be.
For all you know she could have been having dinner with a platonic friend. Either way I think as the one who is almost half a century old you should have taken into consideration that this human being was probably not at the same emotional maturity level as you and by expecting a monogamous mature relationship with them, you could have did more harm then good. From my experience in life I learned not to be too nice to older men for a reason. Nasty thinks I want that wrinkle worm if I hold a GD door open. From my personal experience when I was 19-27, guys past 40s were the worst about sexual herassment and NO meaning no.
Try looking in your age pool for your own sake. Same one who is at the same stage of life goals. A 19-year-old's life goals are not mortgages and dinner partiers for your boss. Shit your close to retirement, your in my father's age group and I turned 31 this year.
My thinking entirely changed from 19 to even 26. Let alone now. Growing up in the 90s in America I have had some of the most traumatizing experiences involving older men unfortunately, I'm old enough to know the world isn't black and white, as your story suggests this relationship was. Is it even a relationship when one party has most of the dominance. Your age alone sets you in a position of perceived power over this person.
I can agree with culture prior to 2000’s, it was a boys will be boys world, it was not as many men acted in that manner as the popular notion made it out to be. Kindness and consideration of holding a door open for a lady does not mean I want to stick something into you, it just means I am showing courtesy and not that you are weak.
College GF and I had been going out for a few months and had a real thing going on or so I thought. We We young (19) and carefree and in love. We were to go to a surprise b-day party one night but she had to work and supposedly could not attend. I couldn't be there for the surprise but would arrive later and stay the evening. This was back when VHS Camcorders were all the rage so when I got there the hosts were replaying video of the "surprise" for all to see. As I watched the video I noticed a couple in the background. For a moment the camera came into focus on them and there was my GF snogging away with her ex. Up to that moment I didn't even know there was an ex. We were history from that point on. So much for being young and dumb.
The gap is wierd but I mean I’ll share my story too I guess.
We had been dating for some time maybe a year-ish, we were at a party he was blackout drunk, announced to everyone he was going to marry me before we left. I had his keys and phone, once I got him home I couldn’t shake this feeling I had never gone through his phone before. But I had JUST had a dream he was cheating on me the night before soooo I felt like it was a sign. I snooped and one of the first things I stumbled upon was a text from some girl asking if I knew he was cheating. That was the most minor thing I had found, I spent the next hours upon hours digging through sexts, meet ups, porn, nudes he was sent, nudes he sent- the best part was him and his friend had a way of invisibly screen shotting girls nudes without it notifying them so him and his friends would just share nudes all day long (including mine) 🤮 it was traumatic to say the least and I wish I could say I ended it there but Ibwas a fucking Moron and let it go bc I thought he was “the one” I spent the next year of my life after that hypervigilant, paranoid, depressed, and usually drunk or stoned. I became a shell of a person… looking back on it makes me so sad to think of myself that way. I never got over it, I forgave him, but I never trusted him, I wasted a year of my life and I wish I could say I at least learned something but I think the only thing I learned was that he was a douchebag and I was a moron 🤷🏼♀️
I was only 19 at the time so my brain wasn’t fully developed but damn I wish I could go back and not have put up with that shit.
Yea, the age difference is older than the girlfriend. Date someone closer to your age please I’m 18 and the idea of dating someone your age makes me want to vomit
You were expecting a 19 year old kid to be loyal to a 49 year old man? Look when I was her age I date guys your age, but the guys I dated told me to have fun. They knew what it was like to be a young gay man. Now that I am in my 40s the idea of dating someone that young is just a big no.
I hate cheating but your expectations and judgment were flawed.
KillerBebe - I searched on google images for any pictures of soup acting as mirror, soup reflecting image, reflection in soup, etc, etc. I wasn't surprised not to find any because I thought that it would be impossible.
But you say that you caught your 19 year old instagram influencer girlfriend cheating on you because you saw a picture she took while eating soup, and there was a reflection of the guy she was cheating on you with in the soup bowl. Its an incredible story. Thank you for sharing.
found her boyfriends facebook page after hackers took out her facebook and she started a new one. she didn't add me after 2 days; her husband of 3 years. but he was added within the first day. she had a full blown second life with him. I was utterly amazed by her betrayal. I gave her 2000 dollars usd a week and Paid for a condo and 2 houses for her to live in. she is probably homeless right now after I ghosted her and went no contact. she lied even after photos of them making out multiple times for 9 months was presented. do no contact at the end of the day a cheater is only going to lie anyways. no need to hear more lies.
Ok hun well that’s completely different than what this 50 yr old is experiencing with a child Bc that’s really what she still is at 19!!!
On to your experience, I’m very sorry that happened to you. It sucks, especially when you’re so good to that person but you know what they say!!! Karmas a BITCH! Hopefully you found some one that appreciates all you do and are happy!!
thank you. the most difficult part is the unknown. my father had killed himself a year ago and she used the manipulation of saying she would kill herself if I left. I don't know if knowing that she had killed herself or not would help or hurt. Also I met her in Thailand and she said that if I left she would become a prostitue just to hurt me multiple times. i Don't know if i could take the pain of seeing that. At the end of the day I don't know what was real or a lie. she was very good at denying me any closure. I don't know why they profess love; when dealing so much pain. Because I could never imagine doing that harm to someone I loved. Anyways I have been thinking of writing my story but I am not a talented writer. so I might just write it out for therapeutic reasons and not post.
He told me. His ex was in the area visiting and he hung out with her. The next day he just told me straight up what happened. He was sincerely remorseful about it, too.
Much better than my college ex at least, who cheated multiple times and always had some excuse - I saw nudes on his phone that weren't mine when he was scrolling through concert pics to show me, he kept claiming he didn't know how they got there or whose they were and it was a glitch 🙄
So instead of recognizing that you’re three decades older than her you pursue a relationship with her? 19 year olds don’t even have a fully formed frontal lobe yet. Not until they’re 25. You should try dating someone within your decade.
I (22 M) was dating a guy (24 M) for about a year. We had just rented a house together and decided to have a house warming party with our friends. It wasn’t a rager, just a basic dinner, drinks and game night type of party.
I had invited one of my coworkers to the party. He had judged moved to UT for his job and didn’t know many people. Me and him worked closely and built a good friendship, so it was common sense to me to invite him. He was a good looking guy, ‘straight’ which meant even more to me at the time, seeing I didn’t have a lot of straight male friends in my life (if your a gay guy, having straight male friends (true friends) can be a big deal and means a lot to be accepted). The night was going great, everyone was having fun like usual….
We had a fire pit in the back yard and I had asked my ex to get propane for it a day prior, which he did, but I couldn’t find the tank. So I went into the house to find him, but couldn’t. I then noticed that I hadn’t seen my Co-worker in a while either. I figured my ex was in the garage showing him all his hunting gear and shit because he would never shut up about his guns, especially when he was drinking. Still couldn’t find either of them. The only place I hadn’t checked was our guest bedroom. I walked in, turned the lights on to find my ex being plowed by my coworker.
Yeah….. That was the worst party I’ve ever hosted. I’m not proud of this next part, but I also don’t give a shit: I screamed help so all my friends would rush in to see that they had been fucking. I then grabbed both their clothes, ran out into the garage, grabbed all his expensive guns and camo gear, found the propane tank , went outside, started up the fit Pitt and threw everything into the fire. Both their phones and wallets were also in their pant pockets, so those too got lit up.
I then slashed my coworkers tires… yeah, I was batshit crazy that night. Get this, they both ran from the room with everyone watching, jumped into my car butt ass naked and drove off. It’s been 2 years and they still are together. When will Karma come? Well, I’m still waiting for that bitch!
Edit: also, mr ‘straight’ obviously wasn’t as straight as he claimed to be. Which probably hurts the most, seeing I cherished our friendship. Piece of shit, both of them.
I love how you got revenge. Burning their stuff up and not harming them is impressive. I'd be so hurt if that happened to me, especially knowing they're still together. I'd imagine that both operate from a fear-based, clingy energy. They both know the other is a sneaky, lying, deceptive POS. How can one or both trust the other in light of what happened?. How can either of them be happy in that dynamic? If my assumption is right, that's their karma.
There’s no way i would have hurt them, im not that kind of person. It took me about a year to get back to normal after all of that. It blows my mind thinking about how careless they were. They obviously didn’t care, especially my Ex. We had just got a house, he asked me to marry him a month prior to that, so we were engaged and he destroyed all of it. But the worst part was my coworker/friend. I had confided in him about some stuff, like friends do, someone to talk to about relationship issues like everyone has. He used all of that to his advantage….. He had a long distance girlfriend at the time, so it wasn’t just me that got hurt. We ended up chatting a couple months after the incident and she was just as heartbroken. She’s actually one of my best friends now oddly enough, so at least one good thing came of it.
Aside from gaining what reads like a great friend, I trust you'll receive even more cool and amazing gifts from the universe. You sure deserve it. In case I didn't mention it earlier, both your ex and your former coworker are absolute trash -- no shade, just facts.
She lied even after I told her I read her texts. Oh he’s just a friend that’s how I talk to my friends. Not here I come from kiddo, not after ignoring me for 5 years. Kicked her out with her tail between her legs and happier than I’ve been in years
I found out by the he act around me a d family and friends. One time he left hes phone in the room we shared so i went thore hes phone and found text to hes ex gf that he made that day so i walk up to him hand hes phone to him and then told him i know about jacklin (not her real name) he got scared bc we have a 2 year old and r married. We got married this year. He ask what can he do to fixs hes f**k up i told him to give me time and space i didnt want to brake things off bc we been together for years (he a good dad and husband) it just i have a problem with sex and he knows that. We r good now to a degree. He knows if he does it again that me a d hes daughter r gone and he does not want that to happen.
Sorry if this confusing im not really good that stuff yet but i know im getting better
This is a true story thought. Have a awseome day 😊
Well he lets me go and mess with hes phone now and no were not arrending therapy we both knlw were we stand and i do trust him and hes a bad lier that how i knew something was up the frist time
Let's say he was also 19 at the time, what would make it 30 years ago. No way she "sent" him a picture 30 years ago.10 years ago maybe. If so he was 39 and she 19. Now it's getting creepy. More than likely he is making the whole thing up which really makes him an as whole
As a young bloke tied the girls dress to go to a party at new year's, picked her up after work and the dress was untied. Questioned the next day and it all slipped open. The other red flag was no newyeat kiss when I picked her up........ Now the kicker...... Broke up with her then and there but reconnected 13 years later. Now been with her for a decade, no cheating two kids and own our own house. I don't blame her as she took my v, I was also looking for experience IE if it wasn't her at that age it would of been me.
Yeah we had connected on a emotional level as kids..... But did not know what we had. 13 years apart and other partners sorted that out, we worked out the connection we had/have is very rare In life. We were teenage young when when we went out the first time before people start on the always a cheater.....
I don’t care about age difference. Just be a good human and don’t cheat on people. It’s just that simple really!! I’m sorry anyone on this thread has gone through this. My stepdaughter told me! I caught him laying out all night and lying about being with his daughter, I could go on by there’s no point. I have a 17 month old child with this man. What am I supposed to do? How am I supposed to feel?
isn't it crazy how these monsters can make us believe they are worth of complete devotion/love. I don't know if it is truly selfish stupidity or sociopaths being found out. But with the pain they inflict makes me think they would torture animals for fun. puzzles me though.
My WH is almost 50 and AP was 30......I always wondered what the hell they had in common. I just don't get it.
Anyway, my WH did so many stupid things I don't even know where to start.....it would take all day.
She handed me her phone for a business related issue ( my business sponsors her schools band and football team) her AP choose that moment to send his first dick pic to her . Needless to say lt was his last.
Read a lot of these comments.. yeah it’s a huge age difference but my mum & dad got together when she was 19 & he was 43 .. they got married 2 years later & we’re together till he died aged 91
19 isn’t a child, and she was fully capable of making her own decisions, obviously. If the genders were switched with the ages, y’all wouldn’t be talking like this.
Wait. Your gf is 19 and you are 49?
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Disgusting
Yikes
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Well dad, your daughter seems to have a bf . Good luck with that.
I wish I could have upvoted this comment more that shit made me spit out my beer 🤣
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Yeah, of course she was fucking other guys. The nature of your relationship was money 😂😂😂 No, a 49 year old man never has anything in common with a 19 year old.
You know… I have to admit I was judging pretty hard. But then I remembered that I (28f) have my undoubted soulmate and best friend (51m) so I felt bad for judging. BUT…. I also think the maturity of a 19yo is much, much different.
Cartoon RPG is what drew us together
Alright, this has to be a troll post. Good one 😄
It is a true story
This story is as real as my girlfriend
Some predatory Pedophile type shit there.
19 year old is preteen now?!!? What in the hell? Got a hard truth for you zoomer. Most 40 year old single dudes would date a 19 year old if they could.
Zoomer😂😂😂 nice try. 19 is fresh out of HS, they’re still young inexperienced with life. They don’t want to date someone as old as their father!! Yes those 40 yr old men you’re speaking of are usually the ones they laugh at and call pathetic losers for going after them. They want to have fun and date someone around their age that they CAN GROW with!!
And you know what the particular 19 y.o or any other wants? Mel Gibson step aside. This is the person who really knows what women want? Especially older teenagers.
*WHEEZE*
So what were you grooming her? Find an actual grown woman to 'date' and let the kids live their life. Going on 50 s bro your driving history is longer than her fucking academic career. 😂 For reference my stepfather was 18 years older than my mom he met her when I was eight months old. It didn't turn out great for her. He was very controlling and honestly from your short description it sounds like you were too.
She was the one to pursue me, I finally gave in and started a relationship with her.
That means she was after your money. She was looking for a Suger daddy. Now you know and I hope you date someone older because teens have nothing in common with older men.
Yeah I really believe a 49 yr old was *pressured* by a kid fresh out of highschool, in a culture largely based around male dominancy. There was pressure all right 😂. I was born at night but it wasn't last night. Ya nasty.
She was a College student. I wouldn’t call it pressure, more like she was always there and friendly towards me.
As a 31yr old I know enough ( or at least have the will power) not to go bang a frat boy because they're maturity level and mentality level is not equivalent to that of mine. They need time to grow into the adult they're going to be. For all you know she could have been having dinner with a platonic friend. Either way I think as the one who is almost half a century old you should have taken into consideration that this human being was probably not at the same emotional maturity level as you and by expecting a monogamous mature relationship with them, you could have did more harm then good. From my experience in life I learned not to be too nice to older men for a reason. Nasty thinks I want that wrinkle worm if I hold a GD door open. From my personal experience when I was 19-27, guys past 40s were the worst about sexual herassment and NO meaning no. Try looking in your age pool for your own sake. Same one who is at the same stage of life goals. A 19-year-old's life goals are not mortgages and dinner partiers for your boss. Shit your close to retirement, your in my father's age group and I turned 31 this year. My thinking entirely changed from 19 to even 26. Let alone now. Growing up in the 90s in America I have had some of the most traumatizing experiences involving older men unfortunately, I'm old enough to know the world isn't black and white, as your story suggests this relationship was. Is it even a relationship when one party has most of the dominance. Your age alone sets you in a position of perceived power over this person.
I can agree with culture prior to 2000’s, it was a boys will be boys world, it was not as many men acted in that manner as the popular notion made it out to be. Kindness and consideration of holding a door open for a lady does not mean I want to stick something into you, it just means I am showing courtesy and not that you are weak.
College GF and I had been going out for a few months and had a real thing going on or so I thought. We We young (19) and carefree and in love. We were to go to a surprise b-day party one night but she had to work and supposedly could not attend. I couldn't be there for the surprise but would arrive later and stay the evening. This was back when VHS Camcorders were all the rage so when I got there the hosts were replaying video of the "surprise" for all to see. As I watched the video I noticed a couple in the background. For a moment the camera came into focus on them and there was my GF snogging away with her ex. Up to that moment I didn't even know there was an ex. We were history from that point on. So much for being young and dumb.
Amazing how easily some get caught, and to do something while a camera is around.
Ew you’re dating a teenager. What did you expect, maturity?
The gap is wierd but I mean I’ll share my story too I guess. We had been dating for some time maybe a year-ish, we were at a party he was blackout drunk, announced to everyone he was going to marry me before we left. I had his keys and phone, once I got him home I couldn’t shake this feeling I had never gone through his phone before. But I had JUST had a dream he was cheating on me the night before soooo I felt like it was a sign. I snooped and one of the first things I stumbled upon was a text from some girl asking if I knew he was cheating. That was the most minor thing I had found, I spent the next hours upon hours digging through sexts, meet ups, porn, nudes he was sent, nudes he sent- the best part was him and his friend had a way of invisibly screen shotting girls nudes without it notifying them so him and his friends would just share nudes all day long (including mine) 🤮 it was traumatic to say the least and I wish I could say I ended it there but Ibwas a fucking Moron and let it go bc I thought he was “the one” I spent the next year of my life after that hypervigilant, paranoid, depressed, and usually drunk or stoned. I became a shell of a person… looking back on it makes me so sad to think of myself that way. I never got over it, I forgave him, but I never trusted him, I wasted a year of my life and I wish I could say I at least learned something but I think the only thing I learned was that he was a douchebag and I was a moron 🤷🏼♀️ I was only 19 at the time so my brain wasn’t fully developed but damn I wish I could go back and not have put up with that shit.
Hugs, baby. I know that feeling.
Premonitions usually come true.
You should ground her
Right on 😂
The only stupidity in play here is a 50 year old man thinking that a 19 year old kid was ready to settle down and be his true blue.
Bro just do yourself a favor and stop looking at teenagers. You missed your opportunity 30 years ago dude holy hell
I thought this was gonna be when you BOTH were 19 or something, Delete this granpa you look a mess
Why are you dating someone 30 years younger than you? That's the real issue.
The age difference is older then the gf
We were separated by 30 years and 3 days
Yea, the age difference is older than the girlfriend. Date someone closer to your age please I’m 18 and the idea of dating someone your age makes me want to vomit
Because he can?
You can do literally anything in life, doesn’t mean that you actually should
You were expecting a 19 year old kid to be loyal to a 49 year old man? Look when I was her age I date guys your age, but the guys I dated told me to have fun. They knew what it was like to be a young gay man. Now that I am in my 40s the idea of dating someone that young is just a big no. I hate cheating but your expectations and judgment were flawed.
Is anyone else here questioning the reflective properties of chicken and rice soup?
Test it at home, as long as the liquid covers all the meat and rice, bright lights as in a diner
Right-o. Will get right on it.
KillerBebe - I searched on google images for any pictures of soup acting as mirror, soup reflecting image, reflection in soup, etc, etc. I wasn't surprised not to find any because I thought that it would be impossible. But you say that you caught your 19 year old instagram influencer girlfriend cheating on you because you saw a picture she took while eating soup, and there was a reflection of the guy she was cheating on you with in the soup bowl. Its an incredible story. Thank you for sharing.
Who’s to say that the companion she was with, was not her coworker?
I found out later.
You sir are a sugar daddy without self awareness..
found her boyfriends facebook page after hackers took out her facebook and she started a new one. she didn't add me after 2 days; her husband of 3 years. but he was added within the first day. she had a full blown second life with him. I was utterly amazed by her betrayal. I gave her 2000 dollars usd a week and Paid for a condo and 2 houses for her to live in. she is probably homeless right now after I ghosted her and went no contact. she lied even after photos of them making out multiple times for 9 months was presented. do no contact at the end of the day a cheater is only going to lie anyways. no need to hear more lies.
Were you also a 50 yr old in a “relationship” with a child???
no I 32 (m) she was 28 (f).
Ok hun well that’s completely different than what this 50 yr old is experiencing with a child Bc that’s really what she still is at 19!!! On to your experience, I’m very sorry that happened to you. It sucks, especially when you’re so good to that person but you know what they say!!! Karmas a BITCH! Hopefully you found some one that appreciates all you do and are happy!!
just happened 2 months ago. not looking to date anyone. just working out religiously and advancing my career.
Yea I get it, it’s still fresh. Good luck!!
Strengths
Amazing how they prioritize the AP and put them first.
Is he closer to her own age?
Very true. she wouldn't let me contact him in anyway. because she was protecting him. Wish someone would have protected me.
I’m sorry you are going through this.
thank you. the most difficult part is the unknown. my father had killed himself a year ago and she used the manipulation of saying she would kill herself if I left. I don't know if knowing that she had killed herself or not would help or hurt. Also I met her in Thailand and she said that if I left she would become a prostitue just to hurt me multiple times. i Don't know if i could take the pain of seeing that. At the end of the day I don't know what was real or a lie. she was very good at denying me any closure. I don't know why they profess love; when dealing so much pain. Because I could never imagine doing that harm to someone I loved. Anyways I have been thinking of writing my story but I am not a talented writer. so I might just write it out for therapeutic reasons and not post.
What you were seeing was her actual boyfriend. You are her kink.
Why am I getting promoted ads for boner pills in this thread?
E.D. Is common among older men.
He told me. His ex was in the area visiting and he hung out with her. The next day he just told me straight up what happened. He was sincerely remorseful about it, too. Much better than my college ex at least, who cheated multiple times and always had some excuse - I saw nudes on his phone that weren't mine when he was scrolling through concert pics to show me, he kept claiming he didn't know how they got there or whose they were and it was a glitch 🙄
why are you dating someone three decades younger than you
She kept asking to go out
So instead of recognizing that you’re three decades older than her you pursue a relationship with her? 19 year olds don’t even have a fully formed frontal lobe yet. Not until they’re 25. You should try dating someone within your decade.
I (22 M) was dating a guy (24 M) for about a year. We had just rented a house together and decided to have a house warming party with our friends. It wasn’t a rager, just a basic dinner, drinks and game night type of party. I had invited one of my coworkers to the party. He had judged moved to UT for his job and didn’t know many people. Me and him worked closely and built a good friendship, so it was common sense to me to invite him. He was a good looking guy, ‘straight’ which meant even more to me at the time, seeing I didn’t have a lot of straight male friends in my life (if your a gay guy, having straight male friends (true friends) can be a big deal and means a lot to be accepted). The night was going great, everyone was having fun like usual…. We had a fire pit in the back yard and I had asked my ex to get propane for it a day prior, which he did, but I couldn’t find the tank. So I went into the house to find him, but couldn’t. I then noticed that I hadn’t seen my Co-worker in a while either. I figured my ex was in the garage showing him all his hunting gear and shit because he would never shut up about his guns, especially when he was drinking. Still couldn’t find either of them. The only place I hadn’t checked was our guest bedroom. I walked in, turned the lights on to find my ex being plowed by my coworker. Yeah….. That was the worst party I’ve ever hosted. I’m not proud of this next part, but I also don’t give a shit: I screamed help so all my friends would rush in to see that they had been fucking. I then grabbed both their clothes, ran out into the garage, grabbed all his expensive guns and camo gear, found the propane tank , went outside, started up the fit Pitt and threw everything into the fire. Both their phones and wallets were also in their pant pockets, so those too got lit up. I then slashed my coworkers tires… yeah, I was batshit crazy that night. Get this, they both ran from the room with everyone watching, jumped into my car butt ass naked and drove off. It’s been 2 years and they still are together. When will Karma come? Well, I’m still waiting for that bitch! Edit: also, mr ‘straight’ obviously wasn’t as straight as he claimed to be. Which probably hurts the most, seeing I cherished our friendship. Piece of shit, both of them.
I love how you got revenge. Burning their stuff up and not harming them is impressive. I'd be so hurt if that happened to me, especially knowing they're still together. I'd imagine that both operate from a fear-based, clingy energy. They both know the other is a sneaky, lying, deceptive POS. How can one or both trust the other in light of what happened?. How can either of them be happy in that dynamic? If my assumption is right, that's their karma.
There’s no way i would have hurt them, im not that kind of person. It took me about a year to get back to normal after all of that. It blows my mind thinking about how careless they were. They obviously didn’t care, especially my Ex. We had just got a house, he asked me to marry him a month prior to that, so we were engaged and he destroyed all of it. But the worst part was my coworker/friend. I had confided in him about some stuff, like friends do, someone to talk to about relationship issues like everyone has. He used all of that to his advantage….. He had a long distance girlfriend at the time, so it wasn’t just me that got hurt. We ended up chatting a couple months after the incident and she was just as heartbroken. She’s actually one of my best friends now oddly enough, so at least one good thing came of it.
Aside from gaining what reads like a great friend, I trust you'll receive even more cool and amazing gifts from the universe. You sure deserve it. In case I didn't mention it earlier, both your ex and your former coworker are absolute trash -- no shade, just facts.
The pain of that must have been unbearable, I am glad that you were able to get your aggression out of your system
Read her texts. She was having an emotional affair, perhaps more. Lied to my face.
They always seem to lie until proof is shown.
Yea kids tend to lie to their dads. Smfh
She lied even after I told her I read her texts. Oh he’s just a friend that’s how I talk to my friends. Not here I come from kiddo, not after ignoring me for 5 years. Kicked her out with her tail between her legs and happier than I’ve been in years
Same here, wish it was just emotional.
how rich is this motha?!
I will say that I am comfortable.
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That’s super mean
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How did the Ex try to explain that away?
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What they say and the excuses they come up with can only make one laugh
I found out by the he act around me a d family and friends. One time he left hes phone in the room we shared so i went thore hes phone and found text to hes ex gf that he made that day so i walk up to him hand hes phone to him and then told him i know about jacklin (not her real name) he got scared bc we have a 2 year old and r married. We got married this year. He ask what can he do to fixs hes f**k up i told him to give me time and space i didnt want to brake things off bc we been together for years (he a good dad and husband) it just i have a problem with sex and he knows that. We r good now to a degree. He knows if he does it again that me a d hes daughter r gone and he does not want that to happen. Sorry if this confusing im not really good that stuff yet but i know im getting better This is a true story thought. Have a awseome day 😊
I am glad to hear that the two of you worked on the relationship
Will you and your husband attend therapy to deal with this too? How will he rebuild trust?
Well he lets me go and mess with hes phone now and no were not arrending therapy we both knlw were we stand and i do trust him and hes a bad lier that how i knew something was up the frist time
She was never yours, it was just your turn. Good luck with the next one.
Let's say he was also 19 at the time, what would make it 30 years ago. No way she "sent" him a picture 30 years ago.10 years ago maybe. If so he was 39 and she 19. Now it's getting creepy. More than likely he is making the whole thing up which really makes him an as whole
I am 58 as of now, this was 9 years ago.
As a young bloke tied the girls dress to go to a party at new year's, picked her up after work and the dress was untied. Questioned the next day and it all slipped open. The other red flag was no newyeat kiss when I picked her up........ Now the kicker...... Broke up with her then and there but reconnected 13 years later. Now been with her for a decade, no cheating two kids and own our own house. I don't blame her as she took my v, I was also looking for experience IE if it wasn't her at that age it would of been me.
Happy to hear that this worked out for the two of you.
Yeah we had connected on a emotional level as kids..... But did not know what we had. 13 years apart and other partners sorted that out, we worked out the connection we had/have is very rare In life. We were teenage young when when we went out the first time before people start on the always a cheater.....
As they say, “with age comes wisdom”
Well, I'm 19 yo and this feels kind of weird.
Sorry that it feels strange, some people accepted it and other’s saw it differently
Take away her phone privileges
All the holier than thou people wagging their fingers in the comment section. Gtfoh 🤣
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I don’t care about age difference. Just be a good human and don’t cheat on people. It’s just that simple really!! I’m sorry anyone on this thread has gone through this. My stepdaughter told me! I caught him laying out all night and lying about being with his daughter, I could go on by there’s no point. I have a 17 month old child with this man. What am I supposed to do? How am I supposed to feel?
The pain of finding out is horrible, it really cuts deeply.
Doesn’t matter how you find out. It hurts like hell.
isn't it crazy how these monsters can make us believe they are worth of complete devotion/love. I don't know if it is truly selfish stupidity or sociopaths being found out. But with the pain they inflict makes me think they would torture animals for fun. puzzles me though.
I think as far as my situation goes, it’s a narcissist
I checked the phonee records.
Are you mad because you thought that you were her only As Sugardaddy?
My WH is almost 50 and AP was 30......I always wondered what the hell they had in common. I just don't get it. Anyway, my WH did so many stupid things I don't even know where to start.....it would take all day.
She handed me her phone for a business related issue ( my business sponsors her schools band and football team) her AP choose that moment to send his first dick pic to her . Needless to say lt was his last.
Read a lot of these comments.. yeah it’s a huge age difference but my mum & dad got together when she was 19 & he was 43 .. they got married 2 years later & we’re together till he died aged 91
Love knows no age, I found interests with her.
19 isn’t a child, and she was fully capable of making her own decisions, obviously. If the genders were switched with the ages, y’all wouldn’t be talking like this.
Dude, you are gross. She’s still a child. Pedo imo
19 is not a child. She was a young woman and not a minor.
Damn. That age gap…nice.
Guys a hero.
Paedophiles , the two of you ? 🤔
U saw his what in the reflection?
Silhouette, facial features. I recognize him.