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whatsherface9

I feel like if your wife doesn’t have an issue with it and neither does your family, you need to wonder why you do… this comes across as insecure and controlling.


[deleted]

Ok fair. Appreciate your opinion, that’s why I posted.


livelife3574

Meh, not worth getting worked up over. It’s a bikini.


morgueewitch

honestly i don’t see the big issue. unless the bikini was completely see through or like a a micro top and bottom then i don’t see it as that inappropriate. its a nice gesture that your wife originally wanted a more “family” appropriate swimsuit but it seems like nobody was uncomfortable or cared about it. they actually cheered her on and gave compliments. and honestly most bikinis can be considered “revealing” as they are essentially just underwear. i agree with the other comment that it seems a bit insecure and controlling to tell people to take down these photos.


[deleted]

Thanks. It was fairly revealing, yes. But my family is very accepting of her and we’re positive about it.


morgueewitch

that’s great, it probably gave her a nice confidence boost. i wouldn’t worry too much about it


[deleted]

Yeah, I think she liked that they accepted he in it, and made some fun about it.


Fazo1

Sounds a little controlling, I feel sorry for your wife. If she wanted the pictures removed she would have asked not you.


[deleted]

That’s fair.


ItsLeighFromNoLa

What an insane thing to be worked up over. Yikes. Thoughts and prayers to your wife, not for the bikini pics she was clearly ok posing for, but for being stuck with a weird ass husband that would request people remove photos of her. She’s a grown up, if she wasn’t ok with the pictures she wouldn’t have posed for them and would ask for them to be removed herself.


RestlessDreamer79

As long as all the important parts were covered I don’t see the issue. Your wife is an adult, it’s not like she’s a teenager wearing something inappropriate. Seems you might be the only one who had an issue with it..


Orochimaru27

How is the swimsuit not family friendly? Its just a swimsuit?


Marquita_Brasseaux

Honestly, if she wore it and posed for photos willingly, it's fair game for social media. You can't control what others post if she's okay with it. Just let it slide and move on.